LeBron Was Right About Women! | Truth After Dark

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What do you feel like is the foulest thing that
you've ever done on a date?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
We got into some type of argument for some reason,
and I was like, what we like? It got to
the point I was just like, get out in the
middle of downtown.

Speaker 3 (00:13):
That's a grown woman. You shouldn't be shaving your coo.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
You ain't never had somebody like maybe I'm moaning.

Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm oh, yes, you.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Know, I'm getting myself going. It needs you to be
doing all of that shut up quiet used to get
to talk and doing all that shut up. You messing
up my content.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
You just want someone to be What if she's like, oh, yes, daddy, shut.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Up, I got this. What what's your preferred choice?

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Lord, this is gonna go a little too extra. Would
you get into a relationship with an AI companion?

Speaker 2 (00:54):
It depends on its hitting. You walked in. It was
the middle of it, like who are you? Damn God,
damn you walked in. He just make it sound effects
what you're doing.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Whoa. It would just be like, damn, you don't even
do all that we have.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,
welcome to truth after dark.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth
After Dark. I'm your host, our Fairaday Truth in the building.
Are you feeling tonight?

Speaker 2 (02:06):
Good? What's up?

Speaker 1 (02:07):
What's what's up?

Speaker 2 (02:09):
So a lot going on?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Huh yeah, it was your birthday.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
How you feeling now that you really cooked?

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Really cut? I'm really cook Damn. I don't think men
get cut.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
I don't either.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Seventy even they could still get ship cracking after seventy. Man,
don't have that expiration date.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
H yeah, my boy, appatinos still having babies. Yeah, like
eighty something.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
They be doing the big One.

Speaker 2 (02:40):
Man be popping Belichick popping.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
Lord. Okay, what's going on? So let's get into it.
So Lebron was just on his wife's pod and he
said that there's a lot of ruthless ass bitches.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
That's his words. Exactly who do manty?

Speaker 2 (03:00):
Do you agree ruthless man? Of course I agree with
that man, because women are way more ruthless at like, like,
this is the thing. Women be out here setting dudes up,
getting them robbed, getting them killed, doing all type of
giving all type of traps out Men don't do that

(03:23):
to females. You know what, I'm saying, so when you
say ruthless, it's an evil world and girls sometimes some
women have just a one track mind. I'm gonna get
this dude set up. I'm gonna try to get him
child support, robbed things like, we gotta look out for
all types of shit, like for real, you really gotta

(03:44):
be careful and really vet the person that you trying
to hang out with. You know, everything can be all
good and dandy. The next thing you know, you're getting robbed.
You know what I'm saying. That happens a lot. That
happens a lot, and that's just I mean, men don't
do that. Men don't do that to other two women.

(04:04):
You know, women are out here doing shit like that,
and it's just man, I mean, I don't know if
he meant it in that type of context or you know,
like I've seen it in divorces where the woman tries
to take everything he gave her a life and women
be trying to take it all like damn, you know,
where did the love go at some point? You know,
it's just like them. I think there's things like that.

(04:25):
It's kind of ruthless. It's like when you try to
it's almost like trying to strip a man down to
it just naked, bare knuckles, like how they do you
in jail?

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Damn.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
I mean I'm just saying. I mean, that's.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
Over cough in there. Do you do you think that
women or men are who's quicker to be able to
like turn off their feelings and go cold?

Speaker 3 (04:50):
Do you think it's women or men?

Speaker 2 (04:53):
It's man?

Speaker 1 (04:53):
I mean no, no, no, hell now it's always women,
you think women. I feel like women are more emotional, harder,
like if I love someone, I can't just be like
I'm turning off my feelings and I'm going.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
Cold cold Damn. I think hmmm, I don't know, because
the get back is always because of the man. I
feel like, what.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
You mean to get back, like getting back together, it's
because the man.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
Is initiating all the getbacks. I think we do all
the get back, But.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Is it because the man is doing the wronging and
that's why he happy to do all the getbacks?

Speaker 2 (05:33):
I mean, it don't matter who do all the wrong
time heals all.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
But it's just like men are doing the get back
because they're the ones dogging the women most of the time,
don't you think. And that's because what is the woman
going to be doing to get back, but you're the
one who fucked up. That don't make sense. I'm begging
to get you back, but you gated up me yesterday,
like of course you're going to do the get back.
I think women cheat more than me, and I still

(05:58):
have not seen that statistically. I do think that men
get caught more because men are more sloppy.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
They change the thing because men don't look as hard
as women too, unless you just obvious signs like you know,
not all answering your phone, like just weird, just not
just doing stuff like when you just out of the norm,
out of character, yeah, stuff that you do it you

(06:24):
just be like damn and so. But you know, men
don't really harp on their like women do.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, but I think that it goes both ways. I
feel like with men, they hold on to things, which
makes it worse. I think at least a woman is
just like we'll ask, will communicate, we'll have that conversation,
you know what I mean. And I think men harp
by holding onto it, and then they create Women know what.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
To do to make a man forget. Women know what
to do to make a man forget.

Speaker 1 (06:59):
I don't know you know, No, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Women know what to do to make a man forget
if you did something wrong to him. You know what
to do.

Speaker 1 (07:08):
So I'm good. No, But men be bringing it up
and try to throw shit in your face too, just like.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
A woman does.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
Oh, bring it up?

Speaker 1 (07:20):
What to do every time?

Speaker 2 (07:21):
You know, every time? Okay, every time.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
I don't feel like women cheat more than man. I
still cauldnot get behind that. I'm gonna keep it real
and I'm gonna stand tall on that in ten toes
down because I have yet to see a whole bunch
of women cheating, Like I don't believe that, Like I
don't see a whole bunch of women cheating all the time.
Like I think women do cheat, and I think they
get away with it.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
A lot more slicker and quicker than men.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
And I've said that before, but I still think that
men might have women beat with that one, because men
have more temptations and desires.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
I think if a woman is cheating, it's genuinely.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
Because she's checked out the relationship and she's no longer
interested and she's just like, I'm over this shit right
at this point, he's done cheated, He done did X
Y and Z and I'm gonna cheat back, and I'm
gonna be like, I don't see why else are you
cheating then?

Speaker 2 (08:12):
Because you're cheating because you never really liked him. You
just like the situation he puts you in.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Oh yeah, that's deep. I never heard of that, but
that's real. I mean I've heard of that, but that's real.
How you put that? Okay, So people are just in
a situation because it's helpful to them type shit.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
Okay, so youll along with it and still do you.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
And still cheat the whole time.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
That makes sense. I could get her behind that. I
could believe that for sure. So back to what Lebron says,
what do you think the dirtiest thing you've ever heard
a woman do to a man or a woman do
to you?

Speaker 2 (08:50):
What is the dirtiest thing you ever heard a woman do.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
To a man or like do to you?

Speaker 3 (08:55):
Like, what do you feel like is like bottom of
the barrel.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
Or a woman due to a man? Well, for me,
I think like if you take care of somebody and
they steal.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
From you facts, I agree with that bottom of a barrel.

Speaker 3 (09:10):
For me, that's the bottom of the barrel.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
Like if you my girl or something and we've been
together or something for a long time or.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
You still yeah, that's bottom.

Speaker 2 (09:23):
Like you know, I've been able to get over cheating.
I've been able to get over like maybe even being
lied to. Yeah, but like stealing, it's the worst, I
feel like because that's because it's just like we talked
about this before, because I think it because it covers all,
it covers everything.

Speaker 1 (09:39):
Yeah, we never talked about on the show, but yeah,
we have talked about that. It covers everything.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah, covers I mean stealing covers lying and cheating, Yeah
for sure, Like is just cheating.

Speaker 3 (09:52):
And if you're willing to steal, what else are you
willing to do?

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Exact?

Speaker 3 (09:55):
Like that's dirty?

Speaker 2 (09:56):
Damn, that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
I agree. What do you feel like is the foulest
thing that you've ever done on a date? Like have
you ever left someone mid meal or like just decided
like you're not gonna word like you know, have you
ever walked out on someone on a date and been
like you know what, I'm not, I'm not I'm leaving.

(10:20):
Or have you ever decided like, oh, I'm gonna make
this girl pay for the dinner. Have you ever done
anything of that nature? A lot you've done that?

Speaker 3 (10:30):
Which one?

Speaker 1 (10:31):
Both?

Speaker 2 (10:31):
I mean, I've done I remember one case I was
I don't know. I remember I went out with this girl.
He went to a spot. This is before Uber. It
was like here downtown LA. And then we gotten to
some type of argument for some reason, and I was
like we like it got to the point. I was

(10:53):
just like, get out in the middle of downtown and.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
This was a date, this is a yeah.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
I was like, you got to get out. Kicked her
out right there, and like it was a dark place too.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
You kicked her out a dark alley.

Speaker 2 (11:07):
Parking lot at the spot of the parking lot though,
and it was like, no, Uber.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
Then why would you go.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
I don't deal with disrespect either. It was something that happened.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
I was it was like super disrespect.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
It was disrespectful and that's one thing I won't tolerate
ever right now. And then uh, and the crazy thing
about it, I didn't see the girl for like some years,
and then I ran back and I ran into her,
but I told her about it, you know. I was like,
you can't you know, and we became cool again. But

(11:38):
it wasn't like I don't know, like trying to get
with her no more. It was just like just cool,
like I see her or something. It would just be cool.
Damn cold that I didn't walk out on a in
the middle of a dinner like I'm good.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
You just got up and walked out.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
Okay, I'm good. I'm not feeling that.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
And just left and everything.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
I was just like here boo boom boom, here I'm out.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
Good boom was said, Like what makes what was said?

Speaker 3 (12:06):
Like what made you do that? Like what makes I remember?

Speaker 2 (12:09):
Okay? So one day I went out, she came and
some she was this our first day. She came in
a swiat suit. And I was just like it was
me and my boy. I have my boy come sit
at the table over there. You know, you just watching
me making sure I'm straight. Yeah, And I was just
like she came in a swist suit and I was
just like, damn this, how you coming? So I was like,

(12:31):
you know what, I'm good. And I got up and
it was like, hey man, you know, get her. You know,
you stay here, eat with her, have a drink, and.

Speaker 1 (12:39):
I'm out because she came in. Felt like it was disrespectful.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
Yeah, this is the first day. You don't come in,
O goddamn sweatsuit, like like, this is our first day.
This is what you think of me, Like this is
week I'll take you to this nice restaurant and you
came in a swist suit. This is how you felt, like,
I'm good. You not my type off the jump. You
didn't know to like put the heels on and get
nice for the date. Like you know what I'm saying,

(13:05):
that's like what like that that? I'm like, No, I'm good.
I got up and it's like, all right, you know,
my boy gonna stay. I got a bounce.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
Damn, that's cold blooded. I bet she didn't show up
in the sweatsuita can after that.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
There wasn't no more day.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
No, I'm saying, just in her life, she probably was like, yeah,
I'm not she learned her lesson because of that.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
Shit. Yeah I'm cool on that. Like it's just if
you on the first date, don't come in the sweat
the first date, I think, like you to know them
and stuff exactly cool, and we didn't have a vibe
going and you just wanted to relax. But like the
first one, like I'm coming with my bomb cologne. I
like shirt, I'm trying to look proper, like I feel

(13:46):
like the girl should do that too.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
I agree, and I think the girl should maintain that
with her man, even like, you should want to look good.
There's times where you could be chilled, like but.

Speaker 3 (13:56):
You know, you should want to be looking good and.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
Like representing your person. And I just believe that too
in general. That's crazy though you just walk down on
her like whatever, Yeah, I was good.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
I was just like, no, I'm good.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
Damn. You seem like you just be good off of
any little thing.

Speaker 2 (14:11):
Though that's not any little thing though, No, it's it
happens early. It's gonna happen once you get into it,
it's gonna get worse. So I'm cool at the beginning.
Like when it's right there, that's the red flag. I mean,
I don't know if it's considered a red flag, but
I ain't feeling it for you.

Speaker 3 (14:25):
You're not feeling that, just feeling that.

Speaker 2 (14:27):
If we're doing it early, then imagine when you get
comfortable with somebody.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
Right you, Are you someone that's like when I'm with
my girl or I'm out on a date with something
girl or like whatever you want them to like. Are
you the type of man that's like they need to
be in heells, like no matter.

Speaker 2 (14:45):
What, that's standard, Like we're gonna start just heels and
then we'll figure out the rest.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
No, what I'm saying like, okay, so not just first date,
but like overall, like y'all go out and this is
your or at this point or if this is someone
you're just dealing with, should they always be in heels
when you go out?

Speaker 2 (15:06):
It depends on where we're going, like if I'm taking
you to the fair or the carnival.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
Right, but I'm saying you guys are going on your
dates or you're going out wherever, like dinners?

Speaker 3 (15:16):
Dates are those?

Speaker 1 (15:18):
Are you one of those?

Speaker 2 (15:18):
Man?

Speaker 3 (15:19):
Like my girl gotta be in heells?

Speaker 2 (15:23):
I feel like this, if you out with me, you
are a representation of right, You're an extension of me.
So when you're seeing with me, people don't be like,
oh okay, I get it right, right, right?

Speaker 3 (15:35):
You want someone to look that, but do they have
to have heels to look that?

Speaker 2 (15:38):
In your opinion, you better be looking goddamn good than
that out of that outfit? Better be outfitting. Yeah, I
mean it just looks better. Yeah, it looks better. I
feel like it's it's that's grown woman. It's classy. I
feel like, yeah, I mean I don't want you coming

(15:59):
in no reebod you know, and no air Force was
or some Jordans that's a that's what that's. Don't pull
up No, no Jordan's.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
I'm good or is out of can wear.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
Some Jordan's on any of the dates. You can't wear
Geordan's on none of the day. No, that's my favorite player.
Like it depends what we're going though.

Speaker 1 (16:20):
We're going to like the movies.

Speaker 3 (16:22):
And like, okay, cool, I get what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (16:27):
But you're like, if you're out with me, you're not
wearing Friday.

Speaker 2 (16:30):
We're going out. I ain't telling you where we're going.
That's gonna be the test. I'm gonna see what she
doing type thing. Right, So I mean, yeah, that that
means something because you said in the standard, you know,
because I'm gonna set a standard like man, you know,
I want to look like think about this. Women do
stuff for men just like men do stuff for women.

(16:51):
Like we get the cars, we get, we get the
clothes we get for the women, we get the jewelry
we get to look how we want for the women.
I feel like the woman should do same thing that
ye are you getting your lips right and your hair done?
And they wear these heels just because you want to
look good for the man that you.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Mess with, Right, I understand women do that.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
Let's do it.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
Yeah, I think women do do that. I think that
there is a culture of like more of a kickback
lazy style sometimes, but I think that most of the time,
most women like to get dulled up, like and be
feminine and smell good and look good for their man.
I personally believe that most a lot of women do
that in my opinion.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
Yeah, but it's some women out there that I might
wear a hoodie. I'm good, I'm good. Don't wear a
hoodie like just at all or just on the date
if we go out to eat, No, not, don't wear
a hoodie to like to go out there eat at
night because this is our night to I want you like,
I'm taking you out because I want to see you
looking good.

Speaker 1 (17:47):
Right?

Speaker 3 (17:48):
Are you one of those like nails not done?

Speaker 1 (17:50):
And it's like, this is crazy that you do care
about like the particulars of things, like your nails aren't done.
I'm looking at all of your hair is not done.
I'm you're peeping it all you're clocking it. You're clocking that.

Speaker 3 (18:05):
Okay, you're clocking all of that.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
You can come back to that. I'm gonna see how
consistent you are.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
Yeah, you're clocking that.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
Yeah, I'm gonna look when you know it ain't gonna
be on some little stuff I can deal with, like
the outfare rid Hills. The nails ain't done, but it
can't be all chipped. You could just have load off.

Speaker 3 (18:23):
Is crazy, Yeah, you just have shit.

Speaker 2 (18:26):
Then we have a chip.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Now I can't. I love to have nails done, but
I will say that upkeep for women. Women complain because
they're like that's a lot. It's not as expensive to
upkeep a man than it is a woman. Like your
nails are and your toes are these days like one seventy,
your hair is three something minimum.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
You're you're you know, just like all.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
Your going on like that a like once every two
twice a month, four times.

Speaker 1 (18:54):
You're not going out twice a month. You going out
more than that, for sure. Just any one like twice
a month is not enough. People are going out here
in it twice a month. And don't you feel as better?

Speaker 2 (19:07):
Get that hair that last a couple of weeks get
that one that's go on that, get that wig, get
that lace, lace crying that ship look good for a
couple of weeks. Okay, ship, come on, don't be doing
me like that. Okay, just every weekend, you need to
get your hair downe three hundred, three hundred.

Speaker 3 (19:28):
I don't think it's every weekend.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
But I'm saying, like, if you want a woman to
upkeep stuff it is, it does add up loki.

Speaker 3 (19:35):
But then you want to wax, So a woman has
to get waxed.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
Just go get that that uh, that big shaver.

Speaker 3 (19:43):
No, it's different because when you shave.

Speaker 2 (19:47):
Shave that day you pull up, it's just.

Speaker 1 (19:50):
Hasn't hit the same. I'm gonna tell you that right now.
It's does not hit the same.

Speaker 3 (19:53):
Like, as a grown woman, you shouldn't be shaving your.

Speaker 2 (19:55):
Cooter, but you should know how to wax your cooter too.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
You should not know how to wax your own vagina.
Do you know how hard that is? You have to
look down, get into the lips hot wax, Like, who's
doing that?

Speaker 3 (20:09):
No one is waxing their own vagina.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
I don't know. I don't know that situation.

Speaker 1 (20:14):
Yeah, So don't think that you could just make sit up, like, oh,
you should be she should be cutting your own hair.
That's easier for man. Man can't do that, but you're
still not doing that. Waxing your vagina's crazy, which goes
into have you seen the skims has the vagina thongs
that have coochy hair on it? Do you know that
they sold out? What are your thoughts on that? Do

(20:36):
you feel like that's fly? Would you want your girl
to be in that Gucci thong?

Speaker 2 (20:40):
I gotta see them on They probably look saxy.

Speaker 1 (20:42):
I don't know they coochy hairs.

Speaker 2 (20:45):
Yeah, I know it's just fake though. They probably looked
like saxy on the end of some panties.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
Like a little fake Gucci hair. That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
That's crazy to me, Like who's buying those items?

Speaker 3 (20:56):
Like a lot of women did because it sold.

Speaker 2 (20:58):
Out and then they come off You're like, Okay, that's
that wax. It's really that.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
But then what's the point, like because most men prefer
like wax or whatever, so like why.

Speaker 3 (21:10):
Do you want to see it that way?

Speaker 2 (21:11):
Like different? No?

Speaker 1 (21:12):
People?

Speaker 3 (21:13):
Do I know people who know?

Speaker 2 (21:14):
That's like nothing? We nobody he made that. So it's like,
damn that could look sexy just when she walking around
with those on, and it just you know, it looks
like it's a hairy thing, and it's just like, damn,
what do you mean? But you know, but but when
you know in your mind that it ain't, it's just like,

(21:36):
you know, it's just like when you wear clothes. It's
just like wearing clothes. It's just coochie clothes.

Speaker 1 (21:43):
That it sounds crazy. And you know, she also has
the bras that are like a hard nipple. I think
that's cute, but I just think that, like you, if
you're wearing don't fool me.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
You're fooling me now.

Speaker 3 (21:56):
No, because you're a nipple can't be hard.

Speaker 1 (21:58):
But sometimes if you have a supportive bra, you can't
see that the nipple is hard, all right. But the
thing about that is if you're wearing a hard nipple,
you trying you getting it cracking, Like.

Speaker 3 (22:07):
Anyone who's buying that is trying to get it cracking.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
If you're wearing it and then it come off and
at that, they don't.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
They're not giving that.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
They're not giving that you Like, famn, I saw them
through the shirt. I thought they was.

Speaker 3 (22:18):
That they was giving that.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yeah, yeah, I'm like, damn you fool me. I mean,
women ain't gonna need to stop fooling me. Y'all fool
us too much anyway.

Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, everything, there's too.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Much foolery going there. Y'all get the fake hair, nails, eyes,
Now it's the fake nipple, like damn, come on, start
killing that.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
Oh and you know what else they have now they
have skims has it and it be soort out. They
have the fake hips. That's what I'm saying, the butt
and the button answers.

Speaker 2 (22:46):
Take me a AI. I'm gonna just give me an
AI robotic something since everything fake, might as well go
AI when them robots coming out?

Speaker 1 (22:55):
Christ, So, would you would you get into a relationship
with an AI companion?

Speaker 2 (23:00):
It depends on its hidden. They make it to where
stuff is hidden. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:07):
No, let's say, because you don't have to have sex dolls,
I can turn off.

Speaker 3 (23:11):
Would you get into like?

Speaker 2 (23:12):
So?

Speaker 1 (23:12):
Would you like, let's say it's a sex doll because
they're really realistic.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
That's talking.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
It's talking because they are going to have that, because
they already have them sexs and they have the robots.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
So let's say they have it.

Speaker 1 (23:23):
It's talking. It's like Hi Paul, Hi baby, I'm.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
Just what do you need today?

Speaker 1 (23:28):
What do you need? Would you come in?

Speaker 2 (23:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (23:32):
Would you have that?

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Make daddy a sandwich?

Speaker 3 (23:36):
Okay, daddy will too.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
May man think about if they had that after a
hard breakup and you get that right in the crib.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
No, that's depressing though, that is because then you're like, damn,
I missed to me. If I go through a breakup
and I get around any other person that's like supposed
to be like flirting in a vibe, I get so
sad because I'm gonna compare them, and then I'm gonna
be even more depressed.

Speaker 3 (24:03):
I'm sitting here with this robot. I don't have no combati.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
That's because a man, it has a feel to it.

Speaker 2 (24:12):
Feel to it. It's gonna do on command, like you
go over there, you know.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
But so you don't care about like real emotion and
real connection, then you don't value that.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
Yeah, of course you value that, but in times of
like depression.

Speaker 3 (24:30):
You're gonna get that instead.

Speaker 1 (24:31):
Okay, So moving on, Okay, So our girl Joy Taylor,
she said on her podcast, if she comes to a
man's house that she's dealing with and he doesn't have
extra toothbrushes and stuff like that like she not, she
don't love that, Like she wants to go over to
a man's house and he has the items prepared, wash cloths, products, everything.

(24:56):
And then she said that one time she went to
a man's house and when.

Speaker 3 (25:01):
She was over there, he had everything.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
And then he also on his headboard had an eyelash
and one.

Speaker 3 (25:08):
On the floor a strip.

Speaker 1 (25:10):
Damn, So she said she loved that. She was like,
I like that he got bitches. I like that.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
Joy. You know what, Joy? You know what else he got?
He got extra panties, he got extra he got extra
launch for you in case you forget. He got extra
heels for you too.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
She like, down, but you don't want a.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
Dude that's a whole player, like exactly. You know why Joy,
you know what I think of Joy. I think Joy
like that because I think Enjoy a player too. She
a little player. Oh no, I don't know, and this
is just me guessing. That's my sister. I love her,
But like when you say stuff like that, I'd be like, damn,
you know, you know I'm not even tripping if he

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got the eyelashes, because all right at.

Speaker 3 (25:51):
Tripping he said it was her first day.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
Now, don't get mad at me if I got something.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Okay, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (26:00):
And this is what I'm gonna say.

Speaker 1 (26:01):
If I go to a man's house and he has
all these items available, I'm a second guess him. I
don't like that because then it's like you just have
any woman over here, like you just have all this
available because you have other women running through here, And
I do not fuck with that because it makes me
feel away, like are you just.

Speaker 2 (26:21):
He might have got extra lashes in case yours fall off?

Speaker 3 (26:24):
I don't even have a lash.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
Yes, I'm just saying, but my point is is, yeah,
you got.

Speaker 2 (26:28):
The extra trooper? You mad? If he got the extra
What if he got all the sizes? I had a boy,
he had an extra heels to his house, he had
like all the sizes?

Speaker 3 (26:37):
This is that's wild. And what if he had like pajamas,
like but.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
Not just a man's shirt like no, because a man
will give you a shirt, but like a like actual
like little lugeride dress. Here. If a man has lingerie
at his house, I'm cool.

Speaker 2 (26:55):
But what if he got the tag on it it's
still brand new, got just closet that.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
I hate it because that means why like you have
women over here all the time. Even Joyce said it
means you a bitches. I don't like that. I like, yeah,
let me be clear of course, like I'm not gonna
be with a man who women don't desire, because a
man's a man is men desire me.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
Women desire the person that I'm probably be with.

Speaker 1 (27:20):
But the point is is you are just moving, slopping
into me, and that means I don't know if I
could trust you.

Speaker 3 (27:27):
I don't want to lay up and have sex with you.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
Do you have something? Do you just all these energies
passing through all these women and someone gonna pull up here,
Like I don't feel safe. I don't feel like it's
a safe space for me. And I don't want to
deal with a man who's like in that stage of
his life where he still wants to be a player,
because there's nothing in that for me.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
So my boy he had so he had all these
clothes for women in all the different sizes. Not only
he's he had tennis shoes, he had clothes and what
he called the closet.

Speaker 3 (27:55):
You making this up?

Speaker 2 (27:56):
No, No, I can't make this up. I got friends,
like a lot of money that do stuff with a
lot of different girls.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
I've seen it, and what is the closet?

Speaker 2 (28:05):
What is So he got this closet. He called it
the Walker of Shame closet because he lived in a
high rise, so you know, they call it the Walker Shane.
When the girl walk out and she missing one eyelash
and the makeup all messed up, and she and her
club outfit, so he got the fits for her to
not look like she's going through the Walk of Shame.
He got like the hoodie for her, the sweatsuit for him, Like,

(28:27):
so you walk out, you don't feel like you're walking
through the Walker, the Walk of Shane.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
And I was like, damn, that's crazy. You know what's crazy?
And I'm not even trying to do this, And I
know you'll never believe me because just for the last
episode you said that I have a crazy list of
men that I've been with, But I have never, in
the history of my life went to the club and
went out, met a man, went to his house and
had sex with him. I've never ever did that. And
maybe that means that I'm just boring because these women

(28:54):
are doing that all the time, but I have never
had that experience in my thirty four years of living.
And it's crazy that you will go out meet because
I'm sure you've went out met a woman and you've
had text with her that night. Yeah, like how does
that even happen? Like she's just with it and you
just know.

Speaker 2 (29:13):
I think it's the energy. It's not every time, like
you know, like I said, I did that to a
woman I was with for years.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
Yeah, I know you've said, and then you.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
Know it's just like, damn it ain't. It ain't like
something I'm looking to do.

Speaker 3 (29:30):
But how do you know that? It's just the energy?

Speaker 1 (29:33):
And because this is what I've learned, You get with
somebody who did that with you, and you may think
it's because you're special, but then you find out later on,
oh this is what you do. Oh you do this
like this ain't nothing new.

Speaker 2 (29:47):
Yeah I'm the idiot.

Speaker 1 (29:48):
Yeah, like you do this for real. And so now
now you did it to me, motherfucker, and you went
out you met someone, and I'm thinking I'm special and
I'm different because like I'm telling you right now, that's
not in my wheelhouse of just things like that. Like
I cannot physically do it because I have to have
a mental connection with you to have sex with you.

Speaker 3 (30:09):
I really do.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
Like, if I can't feel that, then I can't feel that. Now.

Speaker 3 (30:14):
Have I kissed somebody when I first met him?

Speaker 1 (30:16):
Absolutely? Have I felt that energy and been like, oh
my god, like a kiss, make out a vibe.

Speaker 3 (30:22):
Absolutely?

Speaker 2 (30:23):
You know that the first he did he did he
you ain't never had somebody.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
Like maybe, No, I don't think.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
I'm just playing with you. I really don't think that that.

Speaker 2 (30:38):
And then he was like thigh an inner thigh.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Road for show. I think my thigh. I don't know.
I'm gonna be honest.

Speaker 3 (30:48):
I don't know, but I don't think so. I don't you've.

Speaker 2 (30:51):
Come close on the first night.

Speaker 1 (30:53):
I haven't come close to having sex on the first
night ever, But.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
I've any type of sexualtivity on the first night.

Speaker 1 (30:59):
I've come. Yeah, I've come close to any type of
You had any kind of sexual activity, Yeah I have,
I have, I have, but it hasn't been sex.

Speaker 2 (31:07):
Was no difference.

Speaker 1 (31:10):
We're moving on. So anyways, you do this because no,
I'm not blasted. I've already blessed them my business.

Speaker 2 (31:20):
You've had a sexual something I've.

Speaker 1 (31:22):
Had, I've had. You do an encounter.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
There's only two things that can happen.

Speaker 3 (31:28):
Not on the first night, though you said you.

Speaker 2 (31:30):
Just said the first night you had a sexual encounter.
That wasn't that sex, but you said it was something else.
What was it.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
I've already said it before on the podcast, this one, yeah,
this one, and it went viral and everyone still talks
about it. I'm not doing this again. So anyways, back
to what we're talking about.

Speaker 3 (31:48):
Why, why why?

Speaker 1 (31:50):
I don't want to get into that, but I very like,
just get out of my business. Why you're like so big? No,
I was a young girl once, yeah, but I.

Speaker 2 (32:05):
Never No, I'm just saying you are an older lady.
Now you're an older lady.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
Anyways, why do you think that you look though?

Speaker 3 (32:19):
Still I am believed below me.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
I look good for my age. Like the fuck, I'm
only thirty four. That's really not that old number. That's
not old.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
That's a good number though. Yeah, that's a great number.
Yeah yeah, I'm only saying that.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
Because you were number thirty four.

Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yeah I know that now. I know that enough to
know that.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
Now let's get into that. And I'm thirty four and
I'm gonna be thirty four for a cool little minute.

Speaker 1 (32:48):
So guess what you my friend, don't have No, you
can't talk because you will whatever. I'm still thirty four,
I'm young in my opinion, I'm not young, but I'm
not an older lady. We've said this. I think that
I'm not young. I'm not young, but I'm mature, mature,
mature period. So why do you think that whatever? Why

(33:15):
do you feel that women are attracted to men who
like half bitches? Like Joy said? Is it? Because I
think you already explained it. You said, you feel like
women like it's.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
More of the thing that the women like men that
are that they that's theirs that they like. All right,
I know a lot of girls like him, but he mine.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
Now, well, you know what, you know what though Aisha
Curry was on Call Her Daddy or some other podcasts,
I do can't no, I don't know, but I just
saw this clip and she was like, you know, my man,
because he is who he is, gets a lot of
attention from women and like a lot of girls and

(33:59):
stuff like that. And she was like, and it just
is crazy that I don't get to have that same
attention and I don't get attention like that from men.
She said that people like drag her for that or
whatever the case is. She said that before. If you
said that she don't she wishes she had more attention
from men, and that she he gets all the women's

(34:21):
attention and it fucks her head.

Speaker 2 (34:22):
Well, this is the thing. How does she know what
type of attention he gets from women?

Speaker 1 (34:29):
I mean it's easy if you're with a man, you
know what kind of attention they get from women, Like
I know, like you.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
Maybe he don't see it, like where is he at? No, no, no,
listen and listen carefully, Like let's say Steph gets attention
from women, Like where is he getting attention from our girls?
Actually coming up to him while he's with his wife

(34:58):
or girls DM and him them and she's looking at it.
It's like it's like he's getting letters in the mail.
I mean, I don't know where does she see the
attention from the women? And because I'm sure like men
are definitely in well, it's tough to be in a position. Well,

(35:23):
the thing is about being married to a high level celebrity,
you know, class A. It's like you got to understand
what comes with that. Yeah, you know, and it's not
easy to deal with because as a woman y'all love
attention more than men, you know, especially a famous man.
Famous men get to the point they hate the attention
because it's too much to where we don't even like

(35:46):
to go places, whereas girls want to get cute and
at least be like, dang girl, you fine and it's
good and maybe you're not messing with them, but you
like to hear it, you know, you like to hear
you know, the comments on Instagram. Damn that outfit is then,
you know, girls like to read that and hear that,
whereas man we don't really care, like when you at

(36:06):
that level, you don't really care, you get so much attention, like, well,
I ain't.

Speaker 1 (36:09):
That's her point. But Carti b on call her daddy.
She just said recently on her thing, she said she
feels like men respect marriages more than women. And she
said that men respect marriages because when she was married,
she will be around celebrity men and they would.

Speaker 3 (36:27):
Just be like, hey, Cardi, what's up.

Speaker 1 (36:28):
They wouldn't be in her dms and they wouldn't be
trying to get at her. But she said that when
she offset was married to her girls will be all
over him because let me tell you what happens, right. Women,
when they look at a man and they realize he
can be a committed relationship man, they want him more.
He's more desirable. Oh, he's committed to her, he's willing

(36:49):
to marry her, he's willing to do this. He's he
can be in a committed relationship. Oh, he's more desirable.
I want him because I know that he can be
with somebody. But I don't know how it is for
men because I've never been married, so I don't know
how men respect the relationship or not.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
So this goes back to our first segment where we
talked about when Lebron said there are a lot of
ruthless ass bitch, yeah, because that's the ruthlessness in the girl,
because they'd be looking like, oh damn. You know. It
was like that. For me. It was like certain girls
that I probably liked or I want to holler at,
and when I got married and they didn't talk to

(37:28):
me before, they was like damn, okay, I'm pressing him there. Yeah,
I'm like damn for real, Like nah, because girls like
the challenge to be like, they want to one up
a girl and they want to one up that marriage
to where this is the where the ruthless come in,
like okay, I'll break this shit up. You know what.

(37:49):
It's ruthless to try to get him and put him
in a situation to where they get a flick with
him or something in a text or something to wear,
especially in the social media. Oh yeah, go ahead say something.
Run them pockets, homie. This picture is gonna go everywhere.

Speaker 1 (38:06):
And also too, it's like I noticed this too, Like
if I have a man, and even if I'm out
somewhere and like girls aren't on them, and if I'm
to be like, oh, that's my man, that's just gonna
make them want you more. Like that's just how women think.
They're just gonna make them want whoever. That is way
more like it just is what it is. Like women

(38:27):
don't respect that. And even if a man's like, oh
I posted you, like posting you or doing this or
showing like acts of love just gets a.

Speaker 3 (38:35):
Man way more cracking. Like I've been with men.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
Who got way batter bitches because they were with me,
because they were like, oh, he got hurt and we
must be doing this and he must be getting this,
Like you wasn't even that cracking, and now you getting
cracking women all on you and you're like folding off
of that, and it's really off the strength of you
being with me, So like.

Speaker 3 (38:58):
Yeah, like that has happened.

Speaker 1 (38:59):
Like you and man, it's like it's not flattering, like
of course you want to be loved oubtless.

Speaker 2 (39:06):
Just after you was.

Speaker 3 (39:08):
Or before we're going back to this ship.

Speaker 2 (39:11):
I'm just saying, was it after our doing or with.

Speaker 1 (39:15):
I wasn't too eighty at that time. People don't even
call me by my name now, they just be like,
to eighty you did lah blah.

Speaker 2 (39:22):
So this was before that?

Speaker 1 (39:23):
This is before I was too eighty, like god damn,
So or after what that?

Speaker 2 (39:30):
No, I'm just saying, so let's call yo too eighty nest,
let's just call that COVID. You had a COVID period.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
It was during COVID.

Speaker 2 (39:38):
Oh, that was during COVID. So you just had a hiccup,
you know. It was like, you know, you had a
pre COVID and then a COVID and you know now
you're back, you know, so COVID. You know, it was
a blip in a matrix, that's all.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
I can't even say what I was saying because it.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
Was a blip in the matrix and now you're good.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
I can't even tell you no mask no more.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
You know you're good.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
Why did I need a mask?

Speaker 2 (40:02):
Because because like that, you need to erase that, like
COVID is. Like I feel like COVID was, like you
need to erase that part of my life or a
part of history. It's like so much nothing you could do.
And then it was just like damn wow, depression lost jobs,
people died.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
I think it just fucked up that you want me
to erase a part of myself. Like I was still
a human being, nigga, Like just because I was too
eighty doesn't mean that I wasn't shit. Like I was
a person, a breathing woman that was still on the earth,
dealing with people, loving people, taking care of myself and

(40:39):
making an impact in society. Like just because I was big,
and for any woman that's big, don't mean they got
to erase themselves and they're not worth living or being
in the world. Like correct yourself before I gets off
the shelf.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
Like a difference in society, Yes.

Speaker 1 (40:56):
Because my energy of my spirit is always making a
difference in society, because.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
I what's the difference you was making?

Speaker 1 (41:04):
I'm moving on to see you're disrespectful man, like this
is crazy.

Speaker 2 (41:09):
Food crisis or what.

Speaker 3 (41:10):
Like, I'm so.

Speaker 2 (41:19):
You you just taking food out of people both, that's
what you do. I'm just mess. I had to go
back to that. Hey, we got to remind people your inspiration.
And you know you're in the gym three four times
a week. Now you had your blipping the matrix and
now you cracking. You don't share the story. It's fine

(41:43):
to talk.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
About it, No, because anytime I talk about it, you
want to talk about it. Crazy I'm talking about don't.
I don't want to delete that part of my life.
That's a part of something that happened to me.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
It's deleted. But you could just you know, walk it
up to the you know, COVID and say that was
you know, you know that was like like like an
NBA would have consider that the lockout. You know it's
a down year or two lockout, that was the lockout?

(42:16):
All bad. I just you know, sometimes we got to
get back to that. Okay.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
Anyways, there's a Harvard study that say men should ejaculate
twenty times for a month to reduce prostate cancer risks.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
Do you think that you.

Speaker 2 (42:31):
Mean, what does ejaculate me.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
Come. Oh damn, twenty twenty one?

Speaker 3 (42:38):
Do you think that's right?

Speaker 2 (42:40):
How did they I don't understand how Harvard they come
up with these numbers.

Speaker 1 (42:43):
You always talk about these.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
They just sit in the room, got to do you know.
He's just like, let me. You gotta do this for
twenty one days, my boy, and then we'll see you know, yeah,
we gotta do this for years. Now. Now you have
to do it for years, and we're going to sit
here and monitor this. Yeah, come on now, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:59):
I want to know what these studies are about you,
because you put me on to really realizing these statistics
are crazy. Do you think you're ejaculating twenty one times
a month is realistic?

Speaker 2 (43:13):
What does that mean? Again?

Speaker 1 (43:14):
To come?

Speaker 2 (43:15):
So that means okay, to play with yourself or have
a sexual encounter where you can, Is that realistic?

Speaker 1 (43:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (43:20):
Man, I'm sure there's a lot of people that do that.
I'm sure it's guys that play with themselves every day.

Speaker 3 (43:27):
Playing with yourself sounds cool, crazy.

Speaker 2 (43:31):
I mean that's you know, you gotta keep you gotta
stay keep the stamina. Okay, I'm sure it's dudes that
do the other day.

Speaker 1 (43:38):
You know, wrong, so do you think why you're in
a relationship, do you like feel like if you're jacking
playing with yourself, if anyone is playing with themselves in
the relationship, the woman or the man, are you offended
by that? Like, let's say your woman is playing with

(43:59):
herself out using the vibrator on her own, like whatever,
like multiple times a week or whenever. However many times,
is that like wow, offensive or.

Speaker 3 (44:11):
Do you not care?

Speaker 2 (44:13):
That's a good question, damn.

Speaker 1 (44:17):
The reason I asked is because in my past relationship
it was like an issue of like, you better not
use your vibrator or do anything on your own because
that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (44:32):
Well, maybe a man be like once you just you know,
save that for me, you know what I'm saying. And
then on the on the flip side, it could be
the woman just like, damn, you turn me on so
much that I want to do this and I think
of you. I don't know, it's a fine line between that, Uh,
what is your rather? I don't have no real problem
with that, you know. I think that if you're in

(44:55):
a relationship and that's what you do, I would like
to be present some day you do it, all right,
so you would watch I would like to be present,
like if your girl do that twenty one days, like
the study say they need to do it. I want
to be president some of them days. And I'll just
be like watching a movie.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
Like watching a movie. Just that's not that's wild for
a woman. That's uncomfortable. If you're not like getting into
it too, then you're just watching a movie and.

Speaker 2 (45:26):
I'm just watching a movie. I'm relaxed looking.

Speaker 3 (45:29):
And you're just that's like crazy. You have to be
like I have done that.

Speaker 2 (45:38):
I'm gonna be over here in the it's awkward.

Speaker 1 (45:41):
Like as a woman, trust me, you want me to
do you want a man to like be like ooh
something like you gotta have like that's fun if a
man is like.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
You want a man, you want the sound effects from him?

Speaker 1 (45:53):
Yeah, like a sound effect, a rub, a touch, a look,
and the ology to do.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
What you do when I'm not around so I can
see what you do.

Speaker 1 (46:02):
Yeah, you can still see. You can't use your eyes.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
And if I'm not there, high are you getting off?
Why you don't need me to do that now?

Speaker 1 (46:13):
So I'm gonna know you don't have to do that.
But I'm saying like you like as a woman, you
would want your man to like at least not just
be like I'm.

Speaker 3 (46:21):
Watching a movie and then she's like.

Speaker 2 (46:25):
Watching the movie, but like you watching the movie. But
he's gonna be like.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
Okay, okay, because then you get in your head and
you're like a lot of women don't come because they're
in their head. That's like the number one reason. And
then it's like for me, if my man is right
there and I'm doing that, like I want him to
be like are you turned on? Like is it giving
like what it needs to give?

Speaker 3 (46:46):
Like I don't want to be in my head thinking that,
so he has.

Speaker 1 (46:49):
To reverse it.

Speaker 2 (46:51):
So like, because if I'm in my mode to where
I'm going, yeah, you know, I'm getting myself going. It
needs you to be doing all of that shut up,
be quiet. You used to get to talk, and doing
all that shut up, you messing up my content.

Speaker 3 (47:06):
You just want someone to be watching the movie what
you doing?

Speaker 2 (47:09):
Just don't say nothing?

Speaker 1 (47:12):
So saying something is going to turn you. Your woman
saying something while you're doing that.

Speaker 3 (47:16):
It's turning you off? Is crazy?

Speaker 2 (47:17):
Why whyet?

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Like?

Speaker 3 (47:19):
What is She's like, ooh, I love that. That's be quiet?

Speaker 1 (47:23):
You're turned off by that? Like what if she's like, oh, yes, daddy,
shut up, I got this. What I think that's crazy.
I think that it is like for me, watching a
man do that is a turn on for me, and
I feel like it could be a turn on the
vice versa. But I can't have a man.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
What you're going to be doing. If he's sitting there
doing that, you're going, oh, yeah.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
I like that actually, and I've yeah, I feel like
you you don't you don't have to say anything, but it's.

Speaker 3 (47:54):
Just the act of just like I don't know.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
I don't know what I'm saying, and I don't know
if I'm saying anything or not like I might, but
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (48:02):
If he's in there, you and young man laying in
the bed, he's like, damn, I just I feel like
stroking myself right now, Like then, you know what I'm saying,
don't do nothing, baby, just you know, just uh, you know,
just lay there. I'm gonna just, you know, rub on
you with this hand. And on the other hand, I'm
gonna get myself going on to say nothing.

Speaker 3 (48:21):
But what about moaning, Like okay, I'm getting turned on.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
I'm moaning. I'm oh yes, Like is that blowing you
like that's turning you all, I know, because what like
you just want someone to just sit there quiet and
watch you.

Speaker 2 (48:41):
Most men is like gonna be just like I don't know,
maybe closing their eyes and just picturing him and this
girl just like.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
If they're doing that, but what if she's right there?
Why not just look at each other? Like you know
what I'm saying. And also for women, I feel like
met woman the girl do it, but I feel like,
you know why it's good for the man to do
it because I think that when a woman watches a
man do it, it's like show me how you do
it to yourself. So then when I'm in there doing
different items, like I know your motion, I know your rhythm.

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So that's how like I've learned, Like you can learn
like oh I know what you are on like and
then you make a mental note and you're like, oh, okay,
like just like you said, what would you do if
I wasn't like the person wasn't right there?

Speaker 2 (49:24):
Like you have to what's your preferred choice?

Speaker 1 (49:30):
Lord, this is gonna go a little too extra, I
would say that. I mean, we did have a whole
sex toy box here, so it's gonna be all right.
I would say that I'm a clitteral stimulation person. So
for me, my toy that I use is for the
clit to risks and you vibrate on there and then boom,

(49:54):
I'm gonna come okay.

Speaker 2 (49:55):
So the question is, yeah, what's your choice.

Speaker 3 (49:59):
That's what it is. It's a it's a clip toy, that's.

Speaker 2 (50:03):
What it's called. So if I go into the store,
give me the clip toy.

Speaker 3 (50:07):
So I don't know it's going. It's a vibrator.

Speaker 2 (50:09):
It's not girls like the massage thing with the wall
at the time.

Speaker 1 (50:17):
Those girls don't like that.

Speaker 3 (50:19):
But your mom you pretend it was a backscratcher, like okay,
it really was.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
I don't do the roads though, but it's like I
do this toy. It's so it's like this. It has
a hole like this, and it's like it's like rubber
and you put your clip in the little thing in
the little hole.

Speaker 2 (50:41):
Damn, that's a that's a d at that point. If
you could put it in, if you.

Speaker 1 (50:44):
Got the clip gets swollen, right, but when it turned
on it gets hard and swollen.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
Click. Yeah, that's crazy. How big is the clip?

Speaker 1 (50:53):
It doesn't have to be huge you put it over.
You don't have to have a big clip to do that.

Speaker 3 (50:59):
You literally, I don't. You don't have to have that,
and then you could just put something else.

Speaker 1 (51:06):
No, it's not it's really not you Literally, it's the
same concept as the rose. The rose is just like
I think, like a tongue. But this has been my
favorite toy for a long time, and you just and
I don't use it like that.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
I probably haven't used it in a minute, but like
it is a.

Speaker 1 (51:24):
Thing and it's like a little hole and I think
it's like a little thing in there, a rubber thing,
and you put.

Speaker 2 (51:29):
One toy, feel that one that for the men?

Speaker 1 (51:32):
Yeah, yeah, I've always wandered that a little vulb with
the flesh in there feel too for a man? Like
is that cracking? I've always wondered if that was cracking
for a man. But like if I walked in and
my man was using that, I don't know how it
would feel if.

Speaker 2 (51:49):
You walked in it was the middle of it, like
who well, damn, God, damn you walked in. He just
making sound effects? What you doing?

Speaker 1 (52:01):
Whoa?

Speaker 3 (52:02):
I mean you can like it would just be like damn,
you don't even do all that, but we have.

Speaker 1 (52:08):
Like this is crazy, this is fire. Yeah, that's too
much because then now you're addicted to that more than
you would have sex with me. And I don't like
that because it's like this is given a lot and
I don't really love that, and then like it's just
doing too much. I'm not gonna be mad or whatever,
but I just feel like, damn, Like even me, it's
like I don't mind if a man does that in

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a relationship and does his own thing, like do that
get your ship off?

Speaker 3 (52:32):
But sometimes you'd be like, we'll save it for me.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
You walk in and he got the sex doll.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
No, I'm not I'm not doing that.

Speaker 2 (52:38):
That's cheating.

Speaker 1 (52:39):
It's not cheating.

Speaker 3 (52:40):
It's weird.

Speaker 2 (52:40):
But I'm just saying, if you walk in, what's going on.

Speaker 3 (52:42):
It's not cheating, arguing, it's not arguing.

Speaker 2 (52:44):
It's like breakup.

Speaker 3 (52:46):
You're just weird.

Speaker 2 (52:48):
So what I don't know.

Speaker 1 (52:50):
I have to think, like you're strange and I'm gonna
have to accept it's been out of town for three days.

Speaker 3 (52:57):
Like, no, it's not that good.

Speaker 1 (52:59):
It's not that the sex doll is blowing. The sex
dollars blow me. I don't want to do nothing with
a sex doll. In my opinion, I think if a
man has that, you're out of control, Like you are that.
But what if a man is like I'm a n inful,
Like I have a friend who's married and he is
like he has to have sex all the time, So

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like he'll be like, oh my god, I have sex
with all these women in one day. Like people have
an addiction. So like maybe those type of people need
a little sex to all, like need a little doll
that they could just get it off, you know what
I'm saying. Anyways, that was really after dark. We got
to move on from that for a second. Do you

(53:43):
think do you but this is on like brand, do
you think that sex can actually save a relationship that's
falling apart?

Speaker 2 (53:53):
Damn? Wait? Can sex save a relationship? Well if the
relationship that don't make sense?

Speaker 1 (54:06):
You know how, like when people are fighting and they
have makeup sex and stuff, and like they.

Speaker 2 (54:10):
Use sex to kind of band aid. I think, yeah,
but what are they falling apart? It depends on what
you're falling apart from.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
I mean, let's just say you guys are just arguing
all the time, and then you're like Okay, I'm gonna
use sex. Like every time we argue, I'm just bending
down to my knees and I'm getting cracking.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
Well, it shouldn't get to that point. You should have
been doing that to keep them from the breakup.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
The breakup, I'm saying, But what if it's like other
stuff and you guys are just.

Speaker 2 (54:38):
Going through financial problems?

Speaker 3 (54:41):
Yeah, like whatever? Yeah, kids, right, Like.

Speaker 2 (54:46):
Sex makes it last longer than they need to because
the issue still didn't go away.

Speaker 1 (54:55):
That's real.

Speaker 2 (54:57):
You know, maybe it just extended to stay, but it's
not ultimately gonna solve the problem. If there's an issue
outside of sex. Yeah, you know. So and then you
got it's some guys and some girls. That's just like, damn,
I really hate this dude or I really won't ever

(55:21):
be with them, but I will have sex with them,
you know, or her like and but he like it'll
be dudes and girls. So sprung on the sex and
that's it. You know, the values go out. You know,
they have a whole other man, but they like having
sex with they.

Speaker 3 (55:39):
Ask, yeah, and you know who does that a lot?

Speaker 1 (55:43):
Baby mom and baby dads because they're like, we would
never be together. We don't work, but I love the
sex because it's this is toxic, it's fashion, it's giving.

Speaker 3 (55:52):
Yeah, that's what people do a lot in.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
That baby daddy baby mama's situation, and that's what you
be having to look out for because it's like it's familiar.
You guys already know each other's bodies, you know what's
going on, and then you're just like, okay, cool, like
I'm gonna run that.

Speaker 3 (56:07):
And to me, it's like if you.

Speaker 1 (56:12):
Me, I'm telling you right now, if I'm having sex
with anybody else, I don't fuck with the person i'm
with because when I'm with someone, I'm very into that person.
I'm very like this is my person. I'm thirsty for them,
I'm like on them. If I'm like doing that, that
means like I'm not Like I can't have a sexual

(56:32):
connection with someone that I don't fuck with, Like I
just don't. And to me, like to I never had
sex with an X on some like, oh, we're just
gonna become fuck buddies now because we like the sex.
Because I don't like the sex. As soon as I
don't like you, that shit is out the window for me.
I don't want to see you I don't want to
look at you. I'm very cut dry. If I'm fucking
with you, I'm rocking with you. If I'm not, I'm done.

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I'm very cut and dry.

Speaker 3 (56:56):
I'm blocking you.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
You've never had a situation to where you got somebody
you gotta deal with, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (57:06):
Yeah, the baby mama baby daddything. I never had that,
and that's the difference. And I do think if I
did have that situation, I really do think though, that
I would be very cut and dry, like I was
very clean.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
Like, yeah, you gotta be cutting dry.

Speaker 1 (57:21):
Yeah, the children, don't hit me up about nothing other
than the kids. Don't be calling my phone, don't be
texting me a little slick shit, like we should not
be talking about nothing.

Speaker 3 (57:34):
And I know that I would be that way because
I'm very much like that.

Speaker 1 (57:36):
Like if I'm with you in a relationship, that means
I'm really locked in and you really got me.

Speaker 2 (57:41):
Let me ask you something, yeah, like is it what's
the limit? Like shit? All right? So say like an ex, Yeah,
baby dad, let's say baby kid, baby daddy or baby mama.
Do you get presents for their birthday and Christmas and

(58:03):
Valentine's and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
For Valentine's Day, you're gonna get a gift to your
baby mom's or baby dad's. Are you mine? Gone?

Speaker 2 (58:14):
Okay? So what about Christmas?

Speaker 1 (58:16):
No, I'm getting gifts for the kids. We are not
getting gifts for each other. That's out. And let me
tell you this. Another thing that I always say is
like there's things that could be forgiven in a relationship.
I think one thing that I couldn't forgiven a relationship
is someone cheating with their baby mom their baby like
or yeah, the mother of their child, because that's not

(58:37):
gonna ever be I'll never feel safe because the union
it's right there and it's always going to be right there.
So if you cheated on that, then it's over for me,
like cause I can't ever get past that, honestly, because
now I know you have to see this person, you
have to deal with this person, you have to go
around this person, And how do I know that you're
not doing that? Like, I'll never feel safe. That's one thing.

(58:58):
Like I always say, like I'll forgive a lot of stuff,
That's one thing I know that I won't forgive. And
I think crossing that line is like Why are you
all buying each other gifts? You should be getting gifts
for the children, per your point blank. And if the
children are old enough to get with another girl. Period,
that's weird to me, Like it's period. I don't think

(59:20):
it's just about.

Speaker 2 (59:21):
See people like say you single.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
It doesn't matter. Why are you not setting the boundary
when you're single or when you're in a relationship. Why
are you crossing that weird line whether I'm single or
I'm not. Where Yeah, there's a line within the boundaries
of what you set with the person you're with, your
baby mama or your baby dad.

Speaker 3 (59:41):
It is a boundary.

Speaker 1 (59:42):
I'm setting boundaries with them whether I'm single or in
a relationship.

Speaker 2 (59:45):
Well, I just speak on this because I did this
for a lot of Yeah, you know, I like God
gifts for the mama so the kids can see that
me just being nice.

Speaker 3 (59:55):
I get that, and I respect that saying.

Speaker 2 (59:59):
Like dog because the kids see it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
Yeah, but you don't have to dog them out major.

Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
It ain't got to be a major gift.

Speaker 3 (01:00:06):
I think you get them to give. I think you
get up.

Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
Some sandals or some shit.

Speaker 3 (01:00:15):
That's crazy. I would ever, and if I was with
somebody who did that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:19):
I would be cool and honestly to I get Mother's
Day like some flowers or something like a card, because
that's respecting the fact that that's the mother.

Speaker 3 (01:00:30):
Like cool, I'll fuck with you. You're a cool mom.

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
So flowers is cool for Christmas.

Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
I don't think you should be getting gifts for people.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
And I think that if I'm with someone who's buying
their their baby mom sandals, like that's always I don't
give a fuck. I think that that's blowing it. And
I think that what too many people do is they
wait till they get into relationship to set a boundary,
and then the woman is like even more upset.

Speaker 3 (01:00:56):
Now, oh you got in this relationship, now you switched up,
Now you had this?

Speaker 1 (01:00:59):
No, no, none, we have boundary set before I'm in releft.

Speaker 2 (01:01:02):
Like my cat text a text?

Speaker 3 (01:01:05):
Is it about the kid?

Speaker 2 (01:01:07):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:01:09):
Yeah, I mean that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:01:11):
Yeah, that's crazy. I think that's fine. That's blowing me.
If you can't text happy Birthday, marry Christmas, that's just
too strict.

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
You could be cordial.

Speaker 1 (01:01:18):
You can have a fucking friendship or not a friendship.
But like, y'all are cool, but I think that you
have to respect the things. Like my axe. He was
super boundaried up with his baby mom before I even
was with him. When I got with him, it was
an introduction of like, this is my girl.

Speaker 3 (01:01:33):
She's going to be around our daughter. This is the daughter.

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
Hey, this is someone that I love I'm gonna be around.
Like it was so transparent, it was so comfortable. I
never worried about nothing, and it was very cut and dry.
This is it, like boom boom boom, there's no nothing.
And I felt very cool in that situation when it
came to that. But I feel like some people they
blur the lines and they don't set that boundary ahead
of time. So a woman is pissed because I'm gonna

(01:01:58):
be pissed, like damn you got with this girl. They
all can't get no sandals Like I'm gonna say my
little slick shit like we're my sandals now, Oh she's
a hater. Now I can't get my shit Like no,
you shouldn't have been getting nothing because this is not
that type of relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:02:11):
This is up for the children. Set a boundary.

Speaker 1 (01:02:14):
If the kid is very tiny and it's the birthday,
I would get a gift on behalf of the kid
for the mom or for the dad. But all that
other shit is blowing me. I'm just saying, you gotta
say boundaries people, because they will cross a line for
the show and next episode y'all having sex. Anyways, that
was a great episode. I feel like we did our

(01:02:35):
big one. There was more stuff to discuss, but we'll
have to cover it next time because we'd be chopping man.

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Speaker 3 (01:03:47):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic