December 29, 2025 • 55 mins
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Our last show for 2025 is here so Paul & Azar reflect on what they’ve learned the most from the year! We then dive into a list of topics: Weekly phone checks on your girl’s phone, powerful men getting passes for cheating, Kai Cenat opening up about mental health, The Game paying a woman $5k a month, and so much more! Grab you a glass of eggnog and tune in to the final episode of the year!!!
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Speaker 2 (00:54):
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Speaker 3 (03:13):
I am your host, Azar Faaraday.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Your boy Paul Anthony Pierce.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
What it do? How you feeling. It's almost the end
of the year.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
We've had a hell of a year, A lot of
people have, so, you know, I want to ask you,
what do you feel like the biggest lesson you learned
this year is.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Ooh, the biggest lesson I learned?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Yeah, oh, man, that's a good one. You hit me
right over the head with that one. I mean, there's
a lot of lessons you learn in life, but the biggest.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
One or a significant one, well, you know, I think
the biggest lesson you learn is no, no matter what
you go through, good or bad, you know, mostly bad,
but you just got to continue, continue to not lose
(04:07):
the faith.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Don't lose the faith when sometimes stuff get bad, and
then you you know, you you you shy away from
the faith and the blessings that's been given to you.
And I think, you know, when we come upon this
season of giving and holiday season, just what I've learned
is just to be more thankful for the things I
(04:31):
have than you know, kind of like upset of the
things that I want or don't have. You know, just
be thankful for what you got. Yeah, you know, because
I think some of us be and not. I don't
say that for me in particular. You just sometimes take
it for granted, you know. You just you see what's
in front of you and you take it for granted,
(04:54):
and then you look at what other people are doing,
like you say, maybe I should be in that position
or this position. You know, people say that all the time.
But you know, for all of us out there, just
be thankful that you when you wake up and you
set another foot on this earth, and you know, those
(05:14):
are every day lessons.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
You just don't take it for granted.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
So the biggest lesson for me is just not taking
life for granted, I guess in so many words.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
And remembering that comparison is the thief of joy.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah, you know, I don't really compare myself, but I
hear it and I see it.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I love everything I have. I love my friendships, I
love just everything. I have enough, you know, I have
more than I need, you know, so I'm thankful for that.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
So I would probably say the biggest lesson for me
that I learned this year is that is to shut
out outside noise and opinions. I feel like for a
long time, I've always been the person that wants to
like prove a point.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Like no, it's not like that, this is not what
it is, it's not how I am or whatever it is.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
And I realize that you don't have to prove yourself
to anybody, Like, as long as I'm locked in with
God and the people who love me that I love,
I don't care, you know. And I think that even
for me, like comments or people's opinions like used to
get to me, like at the beginning of the year
and throughout this year a little bit, and towards the
end of the year, I realize, like it doesn't even
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matter what you because nothing I do will ever make
everybody happy. And I can't live a life trying to
appease people because then I'm putting myself on the back burner.
So putting yourself first and not worrying about what other
people are saying or thinking of you, because there's always
going to be someone who's judging you. And in the
great words of the future, if you ain't got no haters.
(06:48):
You ain't popping far so period. Okay, I got a baby.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
So that's what that's wonderful to hear because like I
go through that every time I'm in front of a camera,
whatever I say is gonna get ridiculed or whether you know,
I have a strong opinion and whether I'm right or
wrong on different topics, truth of the dark or sports
coming people always, you don't remember, people always gonna have
something to say. Don't go out here trying to be
(07:17):
make sure whatever you say or do, if it's not
you trying to say, oh, I just want to be liked,
because when you start feeding and I want to be
liked by everyone, it ain't gonna go well because that
one time when you say something they don't like, you
ain't gonna be able to handle it. Just go do
you you know, be yourself because your true authentic self
is amazing, you know, and people either gonna hate it
(07:40):
or love it, and who cares.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
And you can't let the highs get you too high
because then the lows will get you too low.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Like if you're like, oh my god, everyone's loving me
right now, I love it. I love it, and you're
so high off of that. Then the moment they don't
love you because they won't, You're gonna feel so low.
You know, you can't you can't allow that to dictate.
You don't need outside validation, you know what I mean.
And that's something that I've learned, you know, just going
through this process is like I don't need it or
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if people because people say so much about me, you know,
and it's like okay, and now I'm like, okay, cool.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
You know, I'm not going to let you get to me.
I'm not going to prove a point to you. It
is what it is.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
That part, that part, okay, okay, So let's get into
some little topics that's going on in the world. Okay,
So Shark takes Barbara Cochrane Did I say her name?
She praised Mark Cuban for being so loyal to his
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wife even with all the power and the money that
he has, and she then goes on to say that
it's hard for men to stay faithful who are on
the who are in his position of like money and
power or fame, and she also said if she could
attract younger men, then she would cheat on her man.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
She took it. Let feel with that.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
But my question is do you feel like powerful men
get passes for cheating on their significant others?
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Do I feel like they get passed?
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I mean hell no, no, no, no. Like maybe you
in a position where you got a lot of money
and you take care of somebody, but you don't get
I ain't. You don't get no passes because like when
you go through it, you still go through it. Yeah,
like you just want to go through it with your partner.
You know, you going through it. You know, guys that
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are cheated with a lot of money, they you know,
I've been in the NBA locker room. I've been around
athletes and entertainers and a lot of us go through
it and we hear it and it ain't like, oh
you cheating, got away, got away with it. Now, when
you get caught like that, it's hell at home And
that's the last place you want hell to be because
you got in the world dealing with hell already and
(09:54):
then you got to come home. So you know, I
just you know, like to tell guys just think twice
what you're doing. And I know it's hard, and you
know you got all the money in the world to
do whatever you want. And then all these women are
coming at you scratching and clawing and showing up at
the hotel lobby, knowing your little where you go jogging at,
knowing yo yo, where gym you go to. It's just
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like it's like, man, you just start seeing stuff that
you ain't used to no more, and it get difficult,
especially a person with power where you know, you can
do some things that a lot of people can't. And so,
but I don't think men should get passes because.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
Then like why be you with that that lady?
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Yeah, for sure, you know now, I mean you guys
are say y'all work through it, But it ain't like
a pass is like it didn't happen. Yeah, Like all
right y, because most relationship you're gonna go through it.
You're gonna be arguing. Now, she's gonna be rolling over. Now,
you ain't getting no sex. Now, you ain't getting that
normal hug when you come home after a long day.
Now you ain't getting no food on the table. It's
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a lot of things that's like damn, you know what
I'm saying. So that's that's there consequences that come with
the end in both ways, you know. And I don't
encourage breaking up. It depends on you know, what happens
and stuff. But like we all go through some type
of deals and but there is no passes. I don't
think powerful men should get passes for cheating. No, yeah, yeah,
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kind of go through it.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
I feel like it's obviously more difficult for men of
a certain stature because they have women throwing themselves at
them twenty four to seven. But I don't seen it all.
I see the brokent man of the broke cheat like
a dog.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
So I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
I feel like all men have that temptation, And you know,
I don't know if it's just like men have to
mature and get older to get past that, or if
they just have to have the discipline, you know what
I mean, Because men could be super disciplined in every
aspect of their life and then be cheated and it
just lacks discipline in my mind. But speaking of that,
Blue Face asked DDG if he checks his girl's phone,
(11:55):
and he was like no, and Bluefa is like, you're tripping.
I do phone checks with my girlfriend with his I like,
I will have to do like weekly.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Phone checks or something with her like let me see.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Your phone randomly? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. And
so she'll be like, okay, so what are your thoughts
on that?
Speaker 2 (12:14):
I mean, everybody got their own laws in they country,
in they city, in their tribe.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
This is his you know, this is his thing. He
got his laws.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I can't tell the man in his relationship on how
to run his his the culture, and that's his culture
he creating. And if it's gonna make him feel good
and comfortable with her, and you're gonna want to do
more for her, this, so be it, my brother. You know,
I think it's kind of like, you know, like saying
you don't trust her you're doing that, but you know
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it makes him feel good. And but you got understand
girls always be on that. Girls won't women Most women
will check their man phone without asking. Y'all just want
to sneak and do it all the time. Like that's women.
They they gonna do that weekly.
Speaker 4 (13:05):
You know.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
At he's saying, look, I'm gonna do this, and this
is what it's gonna be.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Run that, Run that real quick. While we're sitting.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Here, I saw a girl say that she.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Looks at the man, her man's phone to look at
the fingerprints to see what his password was. How you
can do that because like you, I guess, see the
fingerprints of what he presses all the time to get
into his phone. So she said she did this thing
when they first started dating, to check to see what
his password was. This is crazy and for me personally,
and I stand on this no matter what anyone says,
(13:37):
I'm not going through that man's phone because I'm not
gonna make myself sick like that. I don't want to
see stuff because even let me say this, even if
the man is not cheating, the man has women that
might be like texting them and he might not ignore it,
but you might have to see like some picture of
a girl that's blowing you.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
And now like that's gonna be in your head.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I don't want to have that stuff in my head,
Like I don't want to see no girl that you
he was messing with. Like women, we don't like that
because then as a woman, you start to think, like, well,
is that what he likes?
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Like I'm confused, Like I just talked to.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
A girl who says she went through a man's phone
and she saw pictures of like a girl who was
brown skin and skinny, and she's light skinned with a
big booty kirby, So now she's feeling crazy, like he
doesn't even like you, know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
And as a woman like man can just like anything.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
And I haven't learned that about a man, but as
a woman like you, that can start feeding into like, well, damn, like,
does he not like me?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Does he like a brown skin skinny girl? Does he
like this type? Like to see that blows you and
it makes you feel crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
So it doesn't even have to be about cheating to me,
it's just about like, I don't want to see certain
stuff that might be in a man's phone that's gonna
blow me and it's gonna stress me out. And then
the whole thing about a man checking a woman's phone weekly.
That's fine, but if I have to always comfort you
by showing you something, then we don't have real trust.
It's easy to trust someone when you're trying to control
their every move, but if like, where's the trust?
Speaker 3 (15:00):
We don't have that.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Where's the trust when someone tells you something and you
have to blindly be like, nah, I know my girl
ain't on that, like where is that? And then given
right trust but no, but also too, if you're checking
someone's phone all the time and she knows that she
ain't gonna have nothing in there anyways, because she's gonna
know you're this is our thing. You're gonna check my
(15:21):
phone all the time, So I'm gonna be not having
nothing in my own.
Speaker 4 (15:25):
Little apps?
Speaker 3 (15:26):
What apps do they have?
Speaker 1 (15:28):
I heard the whole thing where they do the notes
at now and they share a notes ap because you
could share a notes app, Like that's diabolical if you're
doing all of that, just be single, please, if you
have to go through all of that, be single.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
That's too much like to want to cheat that.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Bat What if it's creating balance with your life? What
you mean like this person is making up for what
this was not given.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
That's that's something wrong with you. Then it ain't about that.
Why do you have to be fed so much in
order to feel full? Like that's stupid to me?
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Wait, why do you have to be fished?
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, you eat? Yeah, But the point is is why
not decide you're not off? Like if it's.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Conversations that you have with you twenty percent right, But
let me tell you what ends up happening. You end
up losing that eighty percent, and you realize that twenty
is not ship without that eighty, and now you hate
that twenty and you'd be like, damn, I'm stuck with
twenty percent of nothing because I wanted twenty extra percent
of twenty percent of what's.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Going to go groom the twenty percent.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
It ain't gonna happen. You can't groom a twenty percent
into an eighties.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
You can because you only give a twenty percent of
your time. Think about this.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
If I teach a kid how to play basketball two
days out of the week, I mean, he'll get a
little better.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
But if you're talking about a child, these are this is.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Just this is just the thirty This is just the
basic just things how they progress, like things get better
the more you work on it.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Okay, I feel so you feel like it's I'm trying
to oh, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, Like I can't.
Speaker 4 (16:59):
Even I forgot my point now, Oh I thought you
were done? How am I still? Okay? Go you jump in.
I forgot my point.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Now you know your point was you can groom a
twenty percent into an eighty percent right there. So you
feel like in a relationship you should have a twenty
percent because you need that, because no one's ever going
to be able to give you one hundred percent of
everything you need.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
No, I don't think you should go looking for a twenty.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Percent, but if it comes to you, it's cool.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
I'm just saying for guys out there who have that,
that's what we've been talking about.
Speaker 4 (17:30):
Like, hey, like he.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Got this app where he talks to this other girl,
and you know, but it's like it ain't It ain't
a full deal because you with somebody, you just you
know what some men be like though. You know what
some men be doing. They'll have a whole relationship and
just be talking to other females just to talk to them,
just like seeing if he could just get at her
and then talk to her and then don't even talk
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to her no more. Guys be just trying to That's
what dudes be doing. Like I just want to see
if I can holler it's.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
For your ego.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
Yeah, men have big egos. And yes it is because.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
You ain't never connected with her, but she talked to
her like a couple of times, you just like block her.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Yeah it is. You want to know why because another
woman could be like your man was on me. Here's
the text. You look stupid.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
I'm not gonna look stupid and be disrespected like nothing
is worse. And this goes for man and woman than
knowing you have somebody that's just loose and thirsty, Like
I don't want a man that's talking to everybody like
I want exclusivity. I want a man to be like
he's untouchable. Baby, ain't nobody messing with him? Like no
one wants that about their women either, Like, oh, she
was just flirting with man and then she blocked them
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so she could feel like she still got it. Baby,
I know I got it. I don't need to try that.
I don't need to do nothing. I walk outside every
day and I know I got it.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
Period. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I gotta talk to nobody to know that, like, period,
point blank. And that's how a man should feel too,
Like all this ego stroking, most men cheek because they
want their ego stroked because at home they're like feeling
down bad.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Just say just the ego stroke, you said most men
because they want the ego stroke.
Speaker 4 (19:10):
Nah, girl, that you can't see the ego.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
You can see this though, I cry.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
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young for that.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
That's some older people stuff.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
So what are five things you're looking more for in
twenty twenty six?
Speaker 3 (19:58):
So like more red us, more traveling, more money, definitely.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Looking, definitely looking to travel a lot more twenty six.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
That's that's always a must.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Uh. Looking to expand on my multi media career, Looking
to do more. Uh number three, I'm looking to uh
oh man, play more basketball. I've been playing two or
three times a week. I'm probably gonna start playing more
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sports and not just basketball, but I'm gonna do like
tennis now along with basketball, and I'm gonna rev up
my golf game. So I'm gonna do more like active
things in different sports. Uh for more concerts. I love
a good old school concert. I want to see you know,
some of my generation concerts. You know my brandy, I'm
(20:54):
you know sure and all didn't want to continue to
support them.
Speaker 4 (20:58):
In five.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
Uh, you know, I'll just be more in tune with God.
You know, those are my five things I want to
go into twenty twenty six, and uh, you know, do
it that way.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
I love that. Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
I would probably say for me, more snatched, more health.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Getting more snatched, study okay.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Lock, Okay, more snatched, more intim like just being more healthy,
working out more, like training real more and like really
just going hard because I feel like I've lost weight,
I've done these things, but I just want to take
it to the next level. I feel I feel like
improvement is just like always in the spectrum of the
things I want to do, Like I always want to
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be better, you know, So like more improvement on my
overall physicality, more improvement on my spirituality, just being more
locked in with God, and just maybe even like hitting
church a little more.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
That's one. That's one. You're saying more than one.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
So this is this is the second or more in
tune with my spirituality, and that's that I'm doing. Yes,
fall and then.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Going on you to say, okay, one.
Speaker 1 (22:13):
Okay, one, two, Yes, more spirituality, more in tune with God,
and all that other stuff and with the word and everything,
I'm always gonna hit. Like I think, more like time
with family and just spending more time with my mom my, dad,
and just like really locking in with them more.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
That's really important to me.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
More times, more like fun memories with people that I love.
I think that's really important, just like you know, tapping
in and then obviously like more with my career and
the things that I want to do, and just like
tapping into the trajectory of like where I see myself
going and how I get there is just by you know,
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making more moves to doing more for me and going
in the right direction. More truth that after dark and
all of that all right, So I like it.
Speaker 4 (23:04):
Positive energy flowing your way going into the twenty twenty six.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Positivity is what it's all about.
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Speaker 3 (23:22):
That's a fact. That's a fact. That's a fact.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
I agree with that, But I also feel like too,
man will be at home and they'll feel down bad
about like they done messed up the whole relationship and
the woman is off of you, and so they're like,
let me just go feel something else now. But it's
like that's crazy to me because it's like you create
a distrust and ruin the relationship, and now I have
to suffer more because you don't feel good in this
relationship and you're not willing to just be disciplined, put
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in the work and let us get back right.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
So then it creates a bigger hole and a bigger.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Gap, and then that's why the relationship usually ends, because
it's like a man is pissed. A man over time
is like, okay, you still have me in the dog house,
get over it. So now I'm about to go do X,
Y and Z because you're already mad. Then she finds
out more and then now the relationship is over.
Speaker 4 (24:08):
And that's a man's cycle.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
That's a cycle for show, and it's a woman's cycle too,
to where it's like you get so disappointed by the
man that you lose respect for him because you're slopping,
you're loose, and you lack discipline. So how can I
respect you to lead me as a man, Like you
can't even be disciplined enough to say no, So if
you and most.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Men cheat, most men cheat during a woman's pregnantcy, that's sad.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Like the first year, Yeah, that's super hurtful, Like I
just changed my entire body.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
You know, it's so crazy before you go, because I
always I'll be on Yahoo a lot and I'll be
seeing a couples like, yeah, what's the divorced with a
six month year old? Like you see that all the time.
Why that's pregnant divorce or a breakup? Like I always
read that like, Damn, she's seven months pregnant, Damn she
got a one year old. Damn she and the breakups
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be happening because that's I'm telling you, a relationship be
changed and everything changed.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
What's so sad is like you say that a lot,
and I feel like for me, I've realized that that
has discouraged me for years of like wanting to have
a kid with a man like and literally because I
always think about that and I'm like, you know what,
like I'll be damned if.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
I'm changing my body.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
I'm feeling low about myself because I have this baby
that I'm caring for us in my body.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
I have the baby.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
Now everything is different for me, like, my whole life
is different, my body is different. I'm feeling low self esteem.
And then you have a man who's cheating with a
woman who probably is in shape, looks better than you
because she didn't just carry a baby. You know how
depressed you will be, Like I'm so scared of that.
As a woman, that is just like no, like I
have to trust this man and love this man that
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at my low wis he won't do that to me us.
Speaker 4 (26:02):
As man, we psychologically damaged.
Speaker 3 (26:04):
Women hard, hard real bad dahn.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
I'm just listening to everything you saying, like psychologically just
that's why women crazy.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
No, I think that women are crazy because we are
hormonal because we have to have we have to bear children,
so we have our period and our period. You will
never understand as a kid, I didn't realize that a
period really like makes you crazy because men will downplay
it like, oh, you're PMS and they just want to
make that as an excuse. And when you're older and
you look at the scientific research that backs it and
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you feel it as a woman, you realize, like that's
not a joke like PMS. Your emotional your crying, you're
going through it. Then after it, you're ovulating, you feel
cool like you only have, like you go through so
many different emotions and feelings as a woman period. And
then put on top of that a man who's psychologically
breaking you by wanting, like by you giving him a child,
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being pregnant, bearing the child, having to be a mother,
getting your titty sucked on. Now they're saggy. Now you
cheating with a girl with perkingtitties in a perfect body.
And I'm sitting here like, damn, I just gave this
man a baby, and I'm depressed, like you don't women
go through that? And I'm just it's sad for really
is anyways? Thinking of speaking of that, Kay Sanat opened
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up about his mental health and he just like did
a video on Instagram talking about like how you know,
his mental health struggles at times and he goes through
so much and people were clowning him and he now
came out and says, I understand why people don't get
vulnerable on social media or in front of a large
group of people, because when you do.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
People are going to clown a man as a man.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
Yeah, people are gonna clown you, especially a black man.
People are gonna clown you and make you feel like
you're stupid for showing emotion.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
Do you agree with that?
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Absolutely, that happens all the time.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Like that's why us men don't show the emotion because
we're supposed to be looked at as strong and you know,
you're not supposed to be and you're not supposed.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
To be weak and things of that.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
And look, and then they look at a guy like
Hans and I who has the world in his hand,
who you know, who's done so much, need a lot
of money, become so famous around the world and doing
these things, and they're looking like people are like, he
can't even express hisself in the way to where it's
like that could be depressing, Like you know, his world
is like closing in on him, you know, and that
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could be depressing and people will never understand that. But
all they looking at is, Oh, he's a man and
he's making up so much money, and you know, that's
like you gotta understand, like people ain't like sometimes fame
ain't for everybody.
Speaker 4 (28:39):
It's hard to be famous, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
And absolutely you lose so much being famous, rich and famous.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
You lose friends, you lose family members, you.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Lose you lose a lot and all of the price
of like you making some dollars. That's why they say
money is the root of all evil, you know what
I'm saying. So like most people who make a lot
of money been through depression, been through some shit, go
through some shit. And everybody who ain't in that position,
Oh you doing this and why you? And it's always
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gonna be that. So now, as a black man, when
you start to show vulnerability, it's frowned upon, especially a
rich black man's frowned upon. It's laughed at, it's ridiculed.
It's like, come on, bro, you know I got I'm
human too, I got feelings too.
Speaker 4 (29:29):
Yeah, I made all the money in the world.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Yeah, I live in this dope ass house and try
this dope ass car, and I got this fly ass female,
or I go all these places. But so that don't
that don't bring happiness the end of the day. Like
you could do all these things and still be poor inside.
You know what I'm saying. People don't understand that. And
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you know, I applaud him for opening up and you know,
telling his truth. And you know, and I say to
all people, and mostly maybe black rich men who go
through things who are scared to shed a tear and
scared to express themselves. Man, hey, if you need that release, yah,
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do what you gotta do. You know what I'm saying. So,
you know, hats off to him, much love to all
his success because sometime, you know, success is is weight
bearing when you have the weight.
Speaker 4 (30:27):
Of the world on your shoulders.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
Yeah, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
And I want to say this really quickly because people
say that you are biased towards like rich men and
you don't speak for the average man a lot, and
I feel like, I don't think that's true about you,
But you just said for black rich men, but it
is for all men. Black men they do go through
a lot and they're not able to express emotion because
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they were raised that way. A lot of black men
were raised by strong, independent women who are like tough enough,
and the guy figures that were in their life they
had to be like yo, stop. So I don't want
to just emphasize rich men. I feel like all men
go through that.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
Especially I emphasized rich men is because people look at
rich men like they think they have everything, and they
look at it says, why are you complaining you have this?
You're you're rich.
Speaker 4 (31:19):
You don't have to worry about where your next meal
come from. You don't have to work.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
So people look at that and say that about you know,
I get that you have a lot of money. So
that's why I emphasize, you know, guys, and consonize it's
not a position because people feel like you're not supposed
to have any feelings. You have the world in your hand,
when that's not like we deal with real life issues,
you know what I'm saying. So just like everybody else, maybe, uh,
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you know, I'm not in the same position as this
person who looking for their next meal the next day
or what clothes they're gonna wear, or well, that's a different.
Speaker 4 (31:53):
Type of struggle.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Struggle, you know what I'm saying, and applaud people who
get through those times and are strong enough to work
through it and sacrifice and do what they need to
do to get to the next level. So I mean,
it's you understand, mental health thrives no matter who you are,
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Like nothing heals mental health. It's you know, it's something
it's really there's true mental health and then there's tho's
health that's brought to you. True mental health is people
with really mental health diseases like schizophrenia yea, like you know,
like you know, just a different mental like for real.
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And then there's other mental health that's you really have
control over.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
Truth, think that you over depression.
Speaker 4 (32:48):
I think you do have control over it. I really do.
Speaker 2 (32:52):
I really believe mentally we all have the power to
have control over our mental I don't know if it's
I don't even call it a disability. I call it
just just mental health. I think we, on the most part,
have control over our mental health. You can wake up
and choose like am I gonna be sad about not
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having this or doing this? Or am I gonna wake
up and be positive? That's right there, that's right there
in your head. It's right there. I don't care what
nobody say. Like depression, you people take pills to do
all this. You don't need them.
Speaker 4 (33:26):
Pills. You don't need though. It's right here. It's you.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
Sometimes you just maybe you need a push, maybe you
need some family around you, or or you need some
friends to pump you up.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
But that's you, because.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
The power of friends and family and positive reinforcement can
go a long way if you around that positive. Most
people who are depression are around depression.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
I'm trying.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
I'm telling you most of the people who are depressed
are around depression.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
If you get yourself around some positive people, it'll it'll
snap you right out of it, I'm telling you.
Speaker 3 (34:03):
Well.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
Moving on from that, the game has been going on
his podcast or he'd been talking on a lot of podcasts,
and one thing that's been pretty viral because he went
on Shannon Sharp and said it, and then he doubled
down on Back on Fig and said it again. But
he basically said that if he's committed to a girl
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and he's taking care of her, that five K a
month is not allowed to pay a girl, and she
will fall behind and grow broke, especially in Los Angeles
considering rent bills, carn and she won't.
Speaker 3 (34:36):
Have any more money moving around.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Because he said, basically, if you're in LA, your rent
is at least two something, and then you have a car, no,
and then you have your other little bills. That's five
k right there, and then she doesn't have anything left.
Speaker 3 (34:49):
So you know, Terrell on Back on Fig was like,
so you think that dah da dah dah.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
He was like, no, I'm doubling down on that like,
if I'm committed to a girl and I'm taking care
of that's not enough. So that's been going super vir
row everywhere. Yeah, he's just saying like, if you really
think about it, a woman's gonna be stressed out because
she all she can do is pay her bills and
then she don't have nothing left to do nothing else.
Speaker 3 (35:11):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (35:13):
Well, I'm just trying to figure out what was she
doing before him. I don't know, super stressed, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
Yes, don't have nothing. If he was dressed out, I.
Speaker 4 (35:24):
Guess stressed out over the five.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
I don't know if he was saying like he told
her like he wants to take care of her type
of thing, because that's how it was looking. He was like,
if I'm serious about a girl, and I'm like, I
want to take care of you. I think he's saying,
like to have the luxury to do the things with
me that I want you to do, Like I can
go here, I could travel here. If you have a job,
you're not gonna be able to do all this and
be around me all the time how I.
Speaker 3 (35:46):
Want you to.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I mean, that's his program. But I think the one
thing that he shouldn't do. He shouldn't lead with money,
Like he can't lead with that. Like if he's into
a situation and it comes to that, okay, cool, But
like you know him going on the podcast now and
kind of appreciate that the girls listen knocking down like
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she I'm that's enough for me, you know what I'm saying.
So like, but you can't go into it like that.
You know, you gotta feel a girl out, you got
to date them.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
But I talking about a woman he's really with. He's
he was saying that.
Speaker 3 (36:24):
He was like a woman I'm committed to. I'm taking serious.
Speaker 1 (36:27):
She's my girl, maybe going to be my wife. That's
what he's saying. He's not saying just like I'm dating
a girl. He said, a woman. I'm really serious about that.
I want to be around me and be with me everywhere.
I can't like, that's not I.
Speaker 4 (36:42):
Think if you're a man in that position, I don't see.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
Nothing wrong with that, Okay.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
I mean you know, like what if he dating somebody
and they got a job, and he like, man, I
don't I want to see you a little more. I
want to go to you know, to wherever I want
to take you to the eye in somewhere, but you
gotta work on Saturdays, and you gotta do all this.
He like, you know what, don't do that just you know, yeah,
you'll mess with me. I'll take care of you. I
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get that.
Speaker 3 (37:08):
I think that's more what you think.
Speaker 4 (37:10):
I think.
Speaker 2 (37:10):
Yeah, yeah, because you understayd His lifestyle is to where
he can do stuff.
Speaker 3 (37:14):
Yeah, that's what he he with a.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Girl that gotta go to Mickey D's from nine to
five or whatever. I'm just her example, nine to five whatever,
whatever job it is.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Yeah, you gotta work Monday through Friday.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
Yeah, He's like, man, I don't even like you too
tired to go out with me now, Like it's Monday night.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
I want you to come on me.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
And she like, I'm tired and got working. I got
work in the morning, be up at six. And he like,
you know what, I want to I like you a lot,
you my girl. I want to be with you. Like, no,
we ain't gonna do that. We about to go to
New York, were about to go to you know, to
different places. You know, we ain't doing all No, if
I'm serious.
Speaker 3 (37:49):
About you, that's what he was saying. That's what he
was saying.
Speaker 4 (37:52):
I get that.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
Everybody gonna hate on it, But like I get what
he's saying, and people who are gonna hate on it
don't understand that.
Speaker 1 (37:58):
Yeah, because if you have a certain life style and
your girl's like I work nine to five and you're like, no,
we're going to New York next to me, we're going
to hear for him, He's like, I can't. I want
my girl with me. So if I can't have you
with me, then you know, like what's the point because
you can't a certain lifestyle and a man of that
statue who has it and can do that, he's like,
I'll do it.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
For you might need money to watch her kid.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
Like all right, yeah, exactly, for the babysitter and all
of that, right right.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Right right, So that's what he's saying. Of course, like
women love it down, some men who don't have it
are hating on it, you know what I mean, because
they're like, what, like I can barely afford my brand,
you know, but it's like it's for a certain lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
When men like that speak, not everyone can do that.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
He's saying, this is what I will do, and I
don't wear a five K and enough I gotta give
her this then she needs this, that, that hair and
all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
But he has the money.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
So if a man doesn't have the money, then obviously
is that's not a conversation for you.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
Right, That's what'll say it.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
That's not a conversation for you if you can for that,
and that's okay. It doesn't mean it's the right way,
but it's what works for him, you know, a man
of his stature.
Speaker 3 (39:06):
But I'm sure his DMS is blowing up right now,
like yeah, yeah, yeah, I could be yea.
Speaker 1 (39:09):
Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I got it.
Speaker 4 (39:13):
Yeah sure, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Anyways, Tyresee actually went on a podcast as well recently.
Speaker 3 (39:24):
I think it's Bishop td Jakes.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Right, yeah, so he's been having a lot of good
guests on his podcast. But basically, Tyresee said that all
women and men have a checklist, meaning of course, like
women are like I want a guy who's six feet
six or lot or looks a certain way or does
something for their career. And men too, man are like
I want a woman that has a big mutt. She
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can't have a flat butter. She has this, so she
has that you know, whatever man feel. But that's what
he was saying, So let me just finish what he
was saying and then you can say your opinion. But
he was saying that, you know, he would have lists
for everything that he wanted in a woman, and like,
you know, his ex wife was like light skinned kurry,
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like you know, whatever that look or whatever the case is.
And he's saying like his current girl didn't meet a
lot of those things visually, Like there's a lot of
things that weren't the same. First of all, I'll be
so annoyed if my man went on any podcasts say that.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
But anyway, he's losing it, Like excuse me.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
Sir, But anyways, he said that there was a lot
of things that weren't checked off on his list, and
he said that his list was wrong, Like his checklist
was wrong because he's been with this woman for five
plus years and it lasts longer than his marriage and
any other relationships he's been in, and it's a better
relationship than any.
Speaker 3 (40:46):
Of his past relationships.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
So he's saying that sometimes the checklist is not who
God sent you.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
It just looks good on paper. How do you feel
about that.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
Well, it sounds like this checklist was filled with a
lot of artificial ye see that, like outer lookings like
more of a visual type of checklist. But when you
start working to the core of what a man really
needs from a checklist and you don't realize it. At first,
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it looks all good, like it's like window shopping. You
walk past it's all glitter and glitz and shiny, and
it looks good.
Speaker 4 (41:26):
And then you bring it home and it ain't what
you thought it was. Right. He was like, damn.
Speaker 2 (41:31):
When I was looking at it in the window, it
was this and that, but like it don't really do
like I'll tell you this, Like I remember I first
bought I bought a Bentley. I bought the Mussein, right, man,
I'm talking about that car with Dove's hell on the outside. Man,
when I tell you, I did not like that car
at all. I was like my worst car. It was
like expensive, it would look good, but then when I
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got into it, the radio wasn't loud enough, the sun
roof didn't didn't come all the way back, it just
went up up.
Speaker 4 (42:00):
I was like, man, this car is week.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
So it ain't always about what you see on the
outside and the glints and glamorous. It's it's about you know,
you got to sit in that car and see what
to do really, because the inside don't really tell you
the most about a person. And I think he once
he revamped his list, it was like, you know, I
got to revamp my list. You know, I need a woman.
You know, I don't care about the long hair, big moity.
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I need her heart at what's her? What's her? You know,
what's her relationship with God? When you start looking at
like the core of a person, you start seeing different
things and then you've realized that, oh list was off
all along. But as most men, most of our lists
are off for the most part. We our lists be many,
be full of bullshit, and then we look like because
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because we're trying to impress the next man, we're trying
to be.
Speaker 3 (42:48):
Crazy like trying to press other men.
Speaker 2 (42:51):
Trying to take it like we're trying to impress like
just not even the next man, but like it's like
your woman when you visually out with her, you know,
gouds be what they want to hold on. They be
looking at seeing who looking right, and it's just like
a flex but like they don't know, Like when I
go home, it's argument, it ain't really cracking like what
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you see.
Speaker 1 (43:15):
I still believe though men should still be visually attracted
to their women, because I don't care what no one says.
Men are visual and I feel like if you are
not visually attracted to your woman, you are going to
cheat on her. I just really do believe that, Like
you cannot just be like, I'm not attracted to her
at all. That's crazy, like not being attracted to someone
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you're even me as a woman.
Speaker 3 (43:38):
No, it isn't.
Speaker 2 (43:39):
But what I'm saying traction because I hadn't been around
females to like, damn, damn, she is beautiful, Like just
sitting there talking to her like damn.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
Right from from an inner thing, but she was just
a dog unattractive, Like she was just unattractive.
Speaker 4 (43:55):
Is not a look to me.
Speaker 3 (43:57):
Okay, I got you, but I just don'ts a.
Speaker 2 (43:59):
Look because you like, because I have just seen some
badss females look terrible.
Speaker 1 (44:04):
Yeah, I've seen that too, so I get you are terrible.
Speaker 4 (44:08):
Like like when I look at.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
You, I have that I know exactly what you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
Come on, it ain't about you across the room, Okay,
when I look across the room, But when you start
getting to the essence of somebody that that's a different look.
Speaker 3 (44:22):
I agree with that.
Speaker 1 (44:22):
I can't agree with that one hundred percent, which goes
into a conversation that's been started on social media that
says men when they're looking for like long term relationships
or their wives, they prioritize a woman's facial aesthetics, like
their face, versus when they focus on a woman's body
and shape they're looking for short term relationships.
Speaker 3 (44:42):
Do you think that's true?
Speaker 4 (44:43):
Wait, say that. Look at that they face bone structure.
Speaker 1 (44:46):
So no, and they say nothing about bone structure. Oh
Criyet they said that. There's a conversation and debate on
social media that says that men prioritize like a woman's face,
like she looks facially like in her face when he's
thinking about a long term relationship versus short term they're
more focused.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
On a woman's body.
Speaker 4 (45:08):
Okay, so this was a poll.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
Yeah, this is like a debate online that a lot
of people are talking.
Speaker 4 (45:12):
About what like what race of men?
Speaker 3 (45:14):
I'm sure I don't know the races.
Speaker 2 (45:16):
See, I think when they start doing these poles, you
gotta go across the most influential, like racist, like you
gotta go.
Speaker 4 (45:28):
Black. You gotta ask a group of blacks.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
You gotta ask about the blacks the colors.
Speaker 3 (45:36):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
You go, you go black, white, you go Chinese, and
then we gotta do one more. You do like you
gotta ask the Mexicans. Let's do a poll across those
four races, Like I feel like some of these polls
be done by one race.
Speaker 3 (45:51):
Well, what is your question? What is the answer?
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Would you rather be a woman with zero body but
a beautiful face or an ugly face with the banging
body which.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
Ugly face for real? Of course that's easy call. Look,
the blacks is gonna have one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
Because you know what, when we had the thing about
a man don't want to work all day, come home
to a flat butt, and you were like, no, middler,
but that every moment was going crazy that They're like.
Speaker 3 (46:21):
No, I don't give it down. You gotta have a button.
I'm not dealing with it. And that's fucked up.
Speaker 1 (46:25):
I think at the end of the day, zero body
but a beautiful face, and I don't know that's crazy
or an ugly.
Speaker 3 (46:32):
Face, So you just wake up turn around ugly face
because you're.
Speaker 4 (46:34):
Not always with that makeup though.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
No, but you have to wake up to this person on.
Speaker 4 (46:39):
The get that makeup going, so.
Speaker 3 (46:41):
Make up in the bed.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
It's not gonna blow you waking up in the morning
turning around seeing.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
This facet be rubbing on something though, So I'm gonna
be feeling cool.
Speaker 3 (46:53):
This is crazy. I can't lady, come.
Speaker 4 (46:56):
On and be like, shoot, I ain't tripping, that's mom me.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
Men are crazy to me.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
I don't know what the black community.
Speaker 1 (47:06):
Community, but that's still crazy.
Speaker 2 (47:11):
To know even doubt. We gotta we gotta, you know,
the pole, gotta be like, let's see who, what the
po what's the ages of the men, what's the race.
You can't be just doing these poles. They can't get
credibility like that.
Speaker 1 (47:23):
Okay, so question you. We're gonna do a few quick
little questions before we wrap it up. All right, the
three little scenarios. Okay, you meet your partner's family for
the first time and you realize you once dated their cousin.
Speaker 3 (47:40):
Nobody mentions it, mentions it. Do you like you.
Speaker 4 (47:44):
Over there for the holidays?
Speaker 1 (47:46):
And the cousin is over there and you're like, oh
my god, but she don't say anything, and you don't
say nothing.
Speaker 3 (47:52):
But it's blowing you because you win.
Speaker 1 (47:55):
And the cousin comes up to you like Hi, I'm Keisha,
and you're like, hey, Kesha and Paul, are you gonna
tell your girl like, ooh, I dated her before.
Speaker 4 (48:07):
I think I am gonna break up. I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
So what if y'all are in like a two year relationship,
I'm like, man, you know what, that's crazy to break
up two year committed relationship and that happens.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
No, I got a tailor. You got a tailor. I
want somebody two years and that's your cousin.
Speaker 4 (48:30):
You gotta tailor.
Speaker 3 (48:31):
You gotta tell.
Speaker 4 (48:32):
Y'all gotta go get some drinks and be like, I gotta.
Speaker 3 (48:34):
Say something, not the drinks.
Speaker 1 (48:36):
Now, if it was the opposite and you've been with
someone two years, you're really serious about this person, y'all
live together or whatever, and you go, you know, y'all
go to the family's house and she's like, oh my god,
and then she tells you like, look, I dated him
for a minute.
Speaker 3 (48:51):
We had a little situation. What are you doing?
Speaker 2 (48:54):
Like?
Speaker 1 (48:54):
It wasn't nothing serious, but we hooked up. We vied
for a minute, but nothing really happened as far as
that's getting serious.
Speaker 4 (49:02):
And me and the girl, are serious?
Speaker 3 (49:03):
You and the girl are living together? Serious in love?
Budd up? What you doing?
Speaker 2 (49:11):
I'm gonna keep it proving I'm gonna like, I'm gonna
be cool. All right, we'll be cool.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
Are you gonna say anything to the cousin if he
donna say nothing about it?
Speaker 2 (49:19):
Well, but then we came into the family function and
she saw him, and once she saw him, she was like, Oh,
that's your cousin, and then she tell me.
Speaker 4 (49:27):
He didn't know what you mean.
Speaker 2 (49:29):
He doesn't know, Well, he just noticed it. They just
both noticed it that night.
Speaker 1 (49:35):
Yeah, but I'm saying, are you gonna say something after?
What if he just still don't say nothing?
Speaker 3 (49:39):
She don't know that.
Speaker 2 (49:39):
She told me I'm gonna say nothing that i'ma way
like a week, see if he say something?
Speaker 3 (49:43):
And what if he doesn't, Are you gonna say something
or you just let it go?
Speaker 4 (49:45):
An tell me though?
Speaker 2 (49:47):
Like he was like, you know what, man, y'all had.
But then as a man you could be like, man,
I know y'all had a good thing going. I didn't
want to, like, you know, say nothing. I like y'all together, men,
I do that. You know what I'm saying. So you know,
either way, I'm not even tripp.
Speaker 1 (50:00):
Okay, So your best friend shows you that she he
has an old DM from your partner, right, So like
your girl and him DM a year ago before you
started dating, a year before you ever started dating, they.
Speaker 3 (50:18):
Do have an old DM together.
Speaker 4 (50:20):
Okay, what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (50:23):
You're not for that? What if?
Speaker 4 (50:26):
Like, okay, oh DM, that's what message?
Speaker 1 (50:31):
You know that that has happened to me where I
was with somebody in a relationship and then one of
my sisters was like, oh he tried to talk to
me in twenty ten and showed me like a tweet
and I'm like, all right, like you're my sister.
Speaker 3 (50:44):
We look alike now, y'all never did nothing like yeah?
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Like what like you know what I'm saying. It's like,
why are you even telling me to be messy? Like
because if it's not nothing for real, then it's nothing
like what it was a DM like. Okay, So should
long this is my last question. Should long term couples
get a yearly free pass to sleep with someone else? Like,
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for instance, say you married when you've been since you
were like twenty and now you guys been married and
you're fifty.
Speaker 3 (51:18):
You've been married for thirty years.
Speaker 1 (51:21):
Would you say you get a free past yearly to
prevent cheating or do you.
Speaker 3 (51:26):
Think that would destroy the relationship.
Speaker 2 (51:30):
I think that's on the couple. I don't think just
sneaking do it, don't that's a free past. Just nah,
just sneaking do it. Just don't get caught.
Speaker 1 (51:42):
Why.
Speaker 4 (51:43):
I don't need to know. I don't need to know.
I don't need to know. SEA can do it.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
I don't need to know. Just go ahead and sneak.
Just make sure I don't find out. I ain't gonna
be looking, but don't make sure I don't find out.
Speaker 4 (51:54):
Sneaking. Do that. If you need to do that, sneaking
do it.
Speaker 3 (51:57):
I can say that.
Speaker 2 (51:58):
I'm I don't want to know. I keep coming home
and ship I'm like, oh damn, I dang. They're still
leaking from him.
Speaker 1 (52:08):
Crazy, that's what is this?
Speaker 4 (52:13):
Okay, still discharging? Yeah, blone me.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
That's out of control. So you think that you rather
just the old fashioned cheese.
Speaker 2 (52:23):
Go ahead and old fast, that's what you need. You
feeling like that, go ahead and don't don't let me
catch you. You don't want to know that you're coming
back from getting took down, like come on like it
was a good honey.
Speaker 4 (52:35):
I wasn't like did you did you? You know?
Speaker 1 (52:39):
You know that is hilarious. Yeah, I feel that I
don't want to know either.
Speaker 3 (52:45):
I'm I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 4 (52:47):
Go ahead, just sneak off.
Speaker 1 (52:49):
So you don't think it should be a conversation like babe, look,
I'm not happy.
Speaker 4 (52:52):
Let's divorce in our sex.
Speaker 3 (52:55):
If it's just like the man don't want.
Speaker 4 (52:57):
To We're gone. I'm gone once you say, but.
Speaker 3 (53:00):
You're seventy, I'm seventy.
Speaker 2 (53:02):
I'm good still the woman she cooked? How you're not happy?
Speaker 4 (53:08):
Girl?
Speaker 3 (53:08):
You's seventy, She's not seventy two.
Speaker 4 (53:10):
How you was like girl, stop player, you've been cooked
for like forty years.
Speaker 3 (53:16):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (53:17):
Like down if you don't sit your butt down, girl seventy,
get that out of here.
Speaker 4 (53:24):
You a better age fifty five? You know? You know
fifty five you still kind of made.
Speaker 1 (53:29):
You're like, yeah, I think there's some people who are
cracking like fifty vide it is. Anyways, Thank you guys
so much for you another episode of the Truth after Dark.
Happy holidays to everybody. I hope that you guys had
an amazing year.
Speaker 4 (53:48):
And New Years All that good stuff. We're safe.
Speaker 3 (53:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (53:52):
We're so grateful for everybody who has been supporting Truth
after Dark for all of twenty twenty five. We started
this podcast at the beginning of the year and it
has grown immensely. We're so thankful for all of the support,
all of the love, and all of the hate, and
we thank you so much for just really rocking with us.
We have so much amazing good things coming into new year,
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Speaker 4 (54:19):
Thanks for joining us. We'll see y'all in twenty twenty six.
Speaker 3 (54:23):
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Speaker 2 (54:41):
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Speaker 3 (54:53):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic
Most men cheek because they want their ego stroke because
at home they're like feeling down bad.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Say just the ego stroke, you said, most men cheese
because they want the ego stroke. Nah, girl, that something
else strokes something that you can't see the ego.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
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What it do? How you feeling. It's almost the end
of the year.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
We've had a hell of a year, A lot of
people have, so, you know, I want to ask you,
what do you feel like the biggest lesson you learned
this year is.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Ooh, the biggest lesson I learned?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Yeah, oh, man, that's a good one. You hit me
right over the head with that one. I mean, there's
a lot of lessons you learn in life, but the biggest.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
One or a significant one, well, you know, I think
the biggest lesson you learn is no, no matter what
you go through, good or bad, you know, mostly bad,
but you just got to continue, continue to not lose
(04:07):
the faith.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Don't lose the faith when sometimes stuff get bad, and
then you you know, you you you shy away from
the faith and the blessings that's been given to you.
And I think, you know, when we come upon this
season of giving and holiday season, just what I've learned
is just to be more thankful for the things I
(04:31):
have than you know, kind of like upset of the
things that I want or don't have. You know, just
be thankful for what you got. Yeah, you know, because
I think some of us be and not. I don't
say that for me in particular. You just sometimes take
it for granted, you know. You just you see what's
in front of you and you take it for granted,
(04:54):
and then you look at what other people are doing,
like you say, maybe I should be in that position
or this position. You know, people say that all the time.
But you know, for all of us out there, just
be thankful that you when you wake up and you
set another foot on this earth, and you know, those
(05:14):
are every day lessons.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
You just don't take it for granted.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
So the biggest lesson for me is just not taking
life for granted, I guess in so many words.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
And remembering that comparison is the thief of joy.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah, you know, I don't really compare myself, but I
hear it and I see it.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I love everything I have. I love my friendships, I
love just everything. I have enough, you know, I have
more than I need, you know, so I'm thankful for that.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
So I would probably say the biggest lesson for me
that I learned this year is that is to shut
out outside noise and opinions. I feel like for a
long time, I've always been the person that wants to
like prove a point.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Like no, it's not like that, this is not what
it is, it's not how I am or whatever it is.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
And I realize that you don't have to prove yourself
to anybody, Like, as long as I'm locked in with
God and the people who love me that I love,
I don't care, you know. And I think that even
for me, like comments or people's opinions like used to
get to me, like at the beginning of the year
and throughout this year a little bit, and towards the
end of the year, I realize, like it doesn't even
(06:25):
matter what you because nothing I do will ever make
everybody happy. And I can't live a life trying to
appease people because then I'm putting myself on the back burner.
So putting yourself first and not worrying about what other
people are saying or thinking of you, because there's always
going to be someone who's judging you. And in the
great words of the future, if you ain't got no haters.
(06:48):
You ain't popping far so period. Okay, I got a baby.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
So that's what that's wonderful to hear because like I
go through that every time I'm in front of a camera,
whatever I say is gonna get ridiculed or whether you know,
I have a strong opinion and whether I'm right or
wrong on different topics, truth of the dark or sports
coming people always, you don't remember, people always gonna have
something to say. Don't go out here trying to be
(07:17):
make sure whatever you say or do, if it's not
you trying to say, oh, I just want to be liked,
because when you start feeding and I want to be
liked by everyone, it ain't gonna go well because that
one time when you say something they don't like, you
ain't gonna be able to handle it. Just go do
you you know, be yourself because your true authentic self
is amazing, you know, and people either gonna hate it
(07:40):
or love it, and who cares.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
And you can't let the highs get you too high
because then the lows will get you too low.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Like if you're like, oh my god, everyone's loving me
right now, I love it. I love it, and you're
so high off of that. Then the moment they don't
love you because they won't, You're gonna feel so low.
You know, you can't you can't allow that to dictate.
You don't need outside validation, you know what I mean.
And that's something that I've learned, you know, just going
through this process is like I don't need it or
(08:11):
if people because people say so much about me, you know,
and it's like okay, and now I'm like, okay, cool.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
You know, I'm not going to let you get to me.
I'm not going to prove a point to you. It
is what it is.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
That part, that part, okay, okay, So let's get into
some little topics that's going on in the world. Okay,
So Shark takes Barbara Cochrane Did I say her name?
She praised Mark Cuban for being so loyal to his
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wife even with all the power and the money that
he has, and she then goes on to say that
it's hard for men to stay faithful who are on
the who are in his position of like money and
power or fame, and she also said if she could
attract younger men, then she would cheat on her man.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
She took it. Let feel with that.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
But my question is do you feel like powerful men
get passes for cheating on their significant others?
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Do I feel like they get passed?
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I mean hell no, no, no, no. Like maybe you
in a position where you got a lot of money
and you take care of somebody, but you don't get
I ain't. You don't get no passes because like when
you go through it, you still go through it. Yeah,
like you just want to go through it with your partner.
You know, you going through it. You know, guys that
(09:31):
are cheated with a lot of money, they you know,
I've been in the NBA locker room. I've been around
athletes and entertainers and a lot of us go through
it and we hear it and it ain't like, oh
you cheating, got away, got away with it. Now, when
you get caught like that, it's hell at home And
that's the last place you want hell to be because
you got in the world dealing with hell already and
(09:54):
then you got to come home. So you know, I
just you know, like to tell guys just think twice
what you're doing. And I know it's hard, and you
know you got all the money in the world to
do whatever you want. And then all these women are
coming at you scratching and clawing and showing up at
the hotel lobby, knowing your little where you go jogging at,
knowing yo yo, where gym you go to. It's just
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like it's like, man, you just start seeing stuff that
you ain't used to no more, and it get difficult,
especially a person with power where you know, you can
do some things that a lot of people can't. And so,
but I don't think men should get passes because.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
Then like why be you with that that lady?
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Yeah, for sure, you know now, I mean you guys
are say y'all work through it, But it ain't like
a pass is like it didn't happen. Yeah, Like all
right y, because most relationship you're gonna go through it.
You're gonna be arguing. Now, she's gonna be rolling over. Now,
you ain't getting no sex. Now, you ain't getting that
normal hug when you come home after a long day.
Now you ain't getting no food on the table. It's
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a lot of things that's like damn, you know what
I'm saying. So that's that's there consequences that come with
the end in both ways, you know. And I don't
encourage breaking up. It depends on you know, what happens
and stuff. But like we all go through some type
of deals and but there is no passes. I don't
think powerful men should get passes for cheating. No, yeah, yeah,
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kind of go through it.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
I feel like it's obviously more difficult for men of
a certain stature because they have women throwing themselves at
them twenty four to seven. But I don't seen it all.
I see the brokent man of the broke cheat like
a dog.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
So I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
I feel like all men have that temptation, And you know,
I don't know if it's just like men have to
mature and get older to get past that, or if
they just have to have the discipline, you know what
I mean, Because men could be super disciplined in every
aspect of their life and then be cheated and it
just lacks discipline in my mind. But speaking of that,
Blue Face asked DDG if he checks his girl's phone,
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and he was like no, and Bluefa is like, you're tripping.
I do phone checks with my girlfriend with his I like,
I will have to do like weekly.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Phone checks or something with her like let me see.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Your phone randomly? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. And
so she'll be like, okay, so what are your thoughts
on that?
Speaker 2 (12:14):
I mean, everybody got their own laws in they country,
in they city, in their tribe.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
This is his you know, this is his thing. He
got his laws.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I can't tell the man in his relationship on how
to run his his the culture, and that's his culture
he creating. And if it's gonna make him feel good
and comfortable with her, and you're gonna want to do
more for her, this, so be it, my brother. You know,
I think it's kind of like, you know, like saying
you don't trust her you're doing that, but you know
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it makes him feel good. And but you got understand
girls always be on that. Girls won't women Most women
will check their man phone without asking. Y'all just want
to sneak and do it all the time. Like that's women.
They they gonna do that weekly.
Speaker 4 (13:05):
You know.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
At he's saying, look, I'm gonna do this, and this
is what it's gonna be.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Run that, Run that real quick. While we're sitting.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Here, I saw a girl say that she.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Looks at the man, her man's phone to look at
the fingerprints to see what his password was. How you
can do that because like you, I guess, see the
fingerprints of what he presses all the time to get
into his phone. So she said she did this thing
when they first started dating, to check to see what
his password was. This is crazy and for me personally,
and I stand on this no matter what anyone says,
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I'm not going through that man's phone because I'm not
gonna make myself sick like that. I don't want to
see stuff because even let me say this, even if
the man is not cheating, the man has women that
might be like texting them and he might not ignore it,
but you might have to see like some picture of
a girl that's blowing you.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
And now like that's gonna be in your head.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I don't want to have that stuff in my head,
Like I don't want to see no girl that you
he was messing with. Like women, we don't like that
because then as a woman, you start to think, like, well,
is that what he likes?
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Like I'm confused, Like I just talked to.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
A girl who says she went through a man's phone
and she saw pictures of like a girl who was
brown skin and skinny, and she's light skinned with a
big booty kirby, So now she's feeling crazy, like he
doesn't even like you, know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
And as a woman like man can just like anything.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
And I haven't learned that about a man, but as
a woman like you, that can start feeding into like, well, damn, like,
does he not like me?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Does he like a brown skin skinny girl? Does he
like this type? Like to see that blows you and
it makes you feel crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
So it doesn't even have to be about cheating to me,
it's just about like, I don't want to see certain
stuff that might be in a man's phone that's gonna
blow me and it's gonna stress me out. And then
the whole thing about a man checking a woman's phone weekly.
That's fine, but if I have to always comfort you
by showing you something, then we don't have real trust.
It's easy to trust someone when you're trying to control
their every move, but if like, where's the trust?
Speaker 3 (15:00):
We don't have that.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Where's the trust when someone tells you something and you
have to blindly be like, nah, I know my girl
ain't on that, like where is that? And then given
right trust but no, but also too, if you're checking
someone's phone all the time and she knows that she
ain't gonna have nothing in there anyways, because she's gonna
know you're this is our thing. You're gonna check my
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phone all the time, So I'm gonna be not having
nothing in my own.
Speaker 4 (15:25):
Little apps?
Speaker 3 (15:26):
What apps do they have?
Speaker 1 (15:28):
I heard the whole thing where they do the notes
at now and they share a notes ap because you
could share a notes app, Like that's diabolical if you're
doing all of that, just be single, please, if you
have to go through all of that, be single.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
That's too much like to want to cheat that.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Bat What if it's creating balance with your life? What
you mean like this person is making up for what
this was not given.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
That's that's something wrong with you. Then it ain't about that.
Why do you have to be fed so much in
order to feel full? Like that's stupid to me?
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Wait, why do you have to be fished?
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, you eat? Yeah, But the point is is why
not decide you're not off? Like if it's.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Conversations that you have with you twenty percent right, But
let me tell you what ends up happening. You end
up losing that eighty percent, and you realize that twenty
is not ship without that eighty, and now you hate
that twenty and you'd be like, damn, I'm stuck with
twenty percent of nothing because I wanted twenty extra percent
of twenty percent of what's.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Going to go groom the twenty percent.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
It ain't gonna happen. You can't groom a twenty percent
into an eighties.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
You can because you only give a twenty percent of
your time. Think about this.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
If I teach a kid how to play basketball two
days out of the week, I mean, he'll get a
little better.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
But if you're talking about a child, these are this is.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Just this is just the thirty This is just the
basic just things how they progress, like things get better
the more you work on it.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Okay, I feel so you feel like it's I'm trying
to oh, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, Like I can't.
Speaker 4 (16:59):
Even I forgot my point now, Oh I thought you
were done? How am I still? Okay? Go you jump in.
I forgot my point.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Now you know your point was you can groom a
twenty percent into an eighty percent right there. So you
feel like in a relationship you should have a twenty
percent because you need that, because no one's ever going
to be able to give you one hundred percent of
everything you need.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
No, I don't think you should go looking for a twenty.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Percent, but if it comes to you, it's cool.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
I'm just saying for guys out there who have that,
that's what we've been talking about.
Speaker 4 (17:30):
Like, hey, like he.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Got this app where he talks to this other girl,
and you know, but it's like it ain't It ain't
a full deal because you with somebody, you just you
know what some men be like though. You know what
some men be doing. They'll have a whole relationship and
just be talking to other females just to talk to them,
just like seeing if he could just get at her
and then talk to her and then don't even talk
(17:52):
to her no more. Guys be just trying to That's
what dudes be doing. Like I just want to see
if I can holler it's.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
For your ego.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
Yeah, men have big egos. And yes it is because.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
You ain't never connected with her, but she talked to
her like a couple of times, you just like block her.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Yeah it is. You want to know why because another
woman could be like your man was on me. Here's
the text. You look stupid.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
I'm not gonna look stupid and be disrespected like nothing
is worse. And this goes for man and woman than
knowing you have somebody that's just loose and thirsty, Like
I don't want a man that's talking to everybody like
I want exclusivity. I want a man to be like
he's untouchable. Baby, ain't nobody messing with him? Like no
one wants that about their women either, Like, oh, she
was just flirting with man and then she blocked them
(18:38):
so she could feel like she still got it. Baby,
I know I got it. I don't need to try that.
I don't need to do nothing. I walk outside every
day and I know I got it.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
Period. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I gotta talk to nobody to know that, like, period,
point blank. And that's how a man should feel too,
Like all this ego stroking, most men cheek because they
want their ego stroked because at home they're like feeling
down bad.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Just say just the ego stroke, you said most men
because they want the ego stroke.
Speaker 4 (19:10):
Nah, girl, that you can't see the ego.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
You can see this though, I cry.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
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(19:49):
young for that.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
That's some older people stuff.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
So what are five things you're looking more for in
twenty twenty six?
Speaker 3 (19:58):
So like more red us, more traveling, more money, definitely.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Looking, definitely looking to travel a lot more twenty six.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
That's that's always a must.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Uh. Looking to expand on my multi media career, Looking
to do more. Uh number three, I'm looking to uh
oh man, play more basketball. I've been playing two or
three times a week. I'm probably gonna start playing more
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sports and not just basketball, but I'm gonna do like
tennis now along with basketball, and I'm gonna rev up
my golf game. So I'm gonna do more like active
things in different sports. Uh for more concerts. I love
a good old school concert. I want to see you know,
some of my generation concerts. You know my brandy, I'm
(20:54):
you know sure and all didn't want to continue to
support them.
Speaker 4 (20:58):
In five.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
Uh, you know, I'll just be more in tune with God.
You know, those are my five things I want to
go into twenty twenty six, and uh, you know, do
it that way.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
I love that. Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
I would probably say for me, more snatched, more health.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Getting more snatched, study okay.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Lock, Okay, more snatched, more intim like just being more healthy,
working out more, like training real more and like really
just going hard because I feel like I've lost weight,
I've done these things, but I just want to take
it to the next level. I feel I feel like
improvement is just like always in the spectrum of the
things I want to do, Like I always want to
(21:45):
be better, you know, So like more improvement on my
overall physicality, more improvement on my spirituality, just being more
locked in with God, and just maybe even like hitting
church a little more.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
That's one. That's one. You're saying more than one.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
So this is this is the second or more in
tune with my spirituality, and that's that I'm doing. Yes,
fall and then.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Going on you to say, okay, one.
Speaker 1 (22:13):
Okay, one, two, Yes, more spirituality, more in tune with God,
and all that other stuff and with the word and everything,
I'm always gonna hit. Like I think, more like time
with family and just spending more time with my mom my, dad,
and just like really locking in with them more.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
That's really important to me.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
More times, more like fun memories with people that I love.
I think that's really important, just like you know, tapping
in and then obviously like more with my career and
the things that I want to do, and just like
tapping into the trajectory of like where I see myself
going and how I get there is just by you know,
(22:54):
making more moves to doing more for me and going
in the right direction. More truth that after dark and
all of that all right, So I like it.
Speaker 4 (23:04):
Positive energy flowing your way going into the twenty twenty six.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Positivity is what it's all about.
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Speaker 3 (23:22):
That's a fact. That's a fact. That's a fact.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
I agree with that, But I also feel like too,
man will be at home and they'll feel down bad
about like they done messed up the whole relationship and
the woman is off of you, and so they're like,
let me just go feel something else now. But it's
like that's crazy to me because it's like you create
a distrust and ruin the relationship, and now I have
to suffer more because you don't feel good in this
relationship and you're not willing to just be disciplined, put
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in the work and let us get back right.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
So then it creates a bigger hole and a bigger.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Gap, and then that's why the relationship usually ends, because
it's like a man is pissed. A man over time
is like, okay, you still have me in the dog house,
get over it. So now I'm about to go do X,
Y and Z because you're already mad. Then she finds
out more and then now the relationship is over.
Speaker 4 (24:08):
And that's a man's cycle.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
That's a cycle for show, and it's a woman's cycle too,
to where it's like you get so disappointed by the
man that you lose respect for him because you're slopping,
you're loose, and you lack discipline. So how can I
respect you to lead me as a man, Like you
can't even be disciplined enough to say no, So if
you and most.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Men cheat, most men cheat during a woman's pregnantcy, that's sad.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Like the first year, Yeah, that's super hurtful, Like I
just changed my entire body.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
You know, it's so crazy before you go, because I
always I'll be on Yahoo a lot and I'll be
seeing a couples like, yeah, what's the divorced with a
six month year old? Like you see that all the time.
Why that's pregnant divorce or a breakup? Like I always
read that like, Damn, she's seven months pregnant, Damn she
got a one year old. Damn she and the breakups
(25:08):
be happening because that's I'm telling you, a relationship be
changed and everything changed.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
What's so sad is like you say that a lot,
and I feel like for me, I've realized that that
has discouraged me for years of like wanting to have
a kid with a man like and literally because I
always think about that and I'm like, you know what,
like I'll be damned if.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
I'm changing my body.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
I'm feeling low about myself because I have this baby
that I'm caring for us in my body.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
I have the baby.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
Now everything is different for me, like, my whole life
is different, my body is different. I'm feeling low self esteem.
And then you have a man who's cheating with a
woman who probably is in shape, looks better than you
because she didn't just carry a baby. You know how
depressed you will be, Like I'm so scared of that.
As a woman, that is just like no, like I
have to trust this man and love this man that
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at my low wis he won't do that to me us.
Speaker 4 (26:02):
As man, we psychologically damaged.
Speaker 3 (26:04):
Women hard, hard real bad dahn.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
I'm just listening to everything you saying, like psychologically just
that's why women crazy.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
No, I think that women are crazy because we are
hormonal because we have to have we have to bear children,
so we have our period and our period. You will
never understand as a kid, I didn't realize that a
period really like makes you crazy because men will downplay
it like, oh, you're PMS and they just want to
make that as an excuse. And when you're older and
you look at the scientific research that backs it and
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you feel it as a woman, you realize, like that's
not a joke like PMS. Your emotional your crying, you're
going through it. Then after it, you're ovulating, you feel
cool like you only have, like you go through so
many different emotions and feelings as a woman period. And
then put on top of that a man who's psychologically
breaking you by wanting, like by you giving him a child,
(26:54):
being pregnant, bearing the child, having to be a mother,
getting your titty sucked on. Now they're saggy. Now you
cheating with a girl with perkingtitties in a perfect body.
And I'm sitting here like, damn, I just gave this
man a baby, and I'm depressed, like you don't women
go through that? And I'm just it's sad for really
is anyways? Thinking of speaking of that, Kay Sanat opened
(27:14):
up about his mental health and he just like did
a video on Instagram talking about like how you know,
his mental health struggles at times and he goes through
so much and people were clowning him and he now
came out and says, I understand why people don't get
vulnerable on social media or in front of a large
group of people, because when you do.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
People are going to clown a man as a man.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
Yeah, people are gonna clown you, especially a black man.
People are gonna clown you and make you feel like
you're stupid for showing emotion.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
Do you agree with that?
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Absolutely, that happens all the time.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Like that's why us men don't show the emotion because
we're supposed to be looked at as strong and you know,
you're not supposed to be and you're not supposed.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
To be weak and things of that.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
And look, and then they look at a guy like
Hans and I who has the world in his hand,
who you know, who's done so much, need a lot
of money, become so famous around the world and doing
these things, and they're looking like people are like, he
can't even express hisself in the way to where it's
like that could be depressing, Like you know, his world
is like closing in on him, you know, and that
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could be depressing and people will never understand that. But
all they looking at is, Oh, he's a man and
he's making up so much money, and you know, that's
like you gotta understand, like people ain't like sometimes fame
ain't for everybody.
Speaker 4 (28:39):
It's hard to be famous, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
And absolutely you lose so much being famous, rich and famous.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
You lose friends, you lose family members, you.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Lose you lose a lot and all of the price
of like you making some dollars. That's why they say
money is the root of all evil, you know what
I'm saying. So like most people who make a lot
of money been through depression, been through some shit, go
through some shit. And everybody who ain't in that position,
Oh you doing this and why you? And it's always
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gonna be that. So now, as a black man, when
you start to show vulnerability, it's frowned upon, especially a
rich black man's frowned upon. It's laughed at, it's ridiculed.
It's like, come on, bro, you know I got I'm
human too, I got feelings too.
Speaker 4 (29:29):
Yeah, I made all the money in the world.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Yeah, I live in this dope ass house and try
this dope ass car, and I got this fly ass female,
or I go all these places. But so that don't
that don't bring happiness the end of the day. Like
you could do all these things and still be poor inside.
You know what I'm saying. People don't understand that. And
(29:51):
you know, I applaud him for opening up and you know,
telling his truth. And you know, and I say to
all people, and mostly maybe black rich men who go
through things who are scared to shed a tear and
scared to express themselves. Man, hey, if you need that release, yah,
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do what you gotta do. You know what I'm saying. So,
you know, hats off to him, much love to all
his success because sometime, you know, success is is weight
bearing when you have the weight.
Speaker 4 (30:27):
Of the world on your shoulders.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
Yeah, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
And I want to say this really quickly because people
say that you are biased towards like rich men and
you don't speak for the average man a lot, and
I feel like, I don't think that's true about you,
But you just said for black rich men, but it
is for all men. Black men they do go through
a lot and they're not able to express emotion because
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they were raised that way. A lot of black men
were raised by strong, independent women who are like tough enough,
and the guy figures that were in their life they
had to be like yo, stop. So I don't want
to just emphasize rich men. I feel like all men
go through that.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
Especially I emphasized rich men is because people look at
rich men like they think they have everything, and they
look at it says, why are you complaining you have this?
You're you're rich.
Speaker 4 (31:19):
You don't have to worry about where your next meal
come from. You don't have to work.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
So people look at that and say that about you know,
I get that you have a lot of money. So
that's why I emphasize, you know, guys, and consonize it's
not a position because people feel like you're not supposed
to have any feelings. You have the world in your hand,
when that's not like we deal with real life issues,
you know what I'm saying. So just like everybody else, maybe, uh,
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you know, I'm not in the same position as this
person who looking for their next meal the next day
or what clothes they're gonna wear, or well, that's a different.
Speaker 4 (31:53):
Type of struggle.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Struggle, you know what I'm saying, and applaud people who
get through those times and are strong enough to work
through it and sacrifice and do what they need to
do to get to the next level. So I mean,
it's you understand, mental health thrives no matter who you are,
(32:17):
Like nothing heals mental health. It's you know, it's something
it's really there's true mental health and then there's tho's
health that's brought to you. True mental health is people
with really mental health diseases like schizophrenia yea, like you know,
like you know, just a different mental like for real.
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And then there's other mental health that's you really have
control over.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
Truth, think that you over depression.
Speaker 4 (32:48):
I think you do have control over it. I really do.
Speaker 2 (32:52):
I really believe mentally we all have the power to
have control over our mental I don't know if it's
I don't even call it a disability. I call it
just just mental health. I think we, on the most part,
have control over our mental health. You can wake up
and choose like am I gonna be sad about not
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having this or doing this? Or am I gonna wake
up and be positive? That's right there, that's right there
in your head. It's right there. I don't care what
nobody say. Like depression, you people take pills to do
all this. You don't need them.
Speaker 4 (33:26):
Pills. You don't need though. It's right here. It's you.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
Sometimes you just maybe you need a push, maybe you
need some family around you, or or you need some
friends to pump you up.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
But that's you, because.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
The power of friends and family and positive reinforcement can
go a long way if you around that positive. Most
people who are depression are around depression.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
I'm trying.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
I'm telling you most of the people who are depressed
are around depression.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
If you get yourself around some positive people, it'll it'll
snap you right out of it, I'm telling you.
Speaker 3 (34:03):
Well.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
Moving on from that, the game has been going on
his podcast or he'd been talking on a lot of podcasts,
and one thing that's been pretty viral because he went
on Shannon Sharp and said it, and then he doubled
down on Back on Fig and said it again. But
he basically said that if he's committed to a girl
(34:25):
and he's taking care of her, that five K a
month is not allowed to pay a girl, and she
will fall behind and grow broke, especially in Los Angeles
considering rent bills, carn and she won't.
Speaker 3 (34:36):
Have any more money moving around.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Because he said, basically, if you're in LA, your rent
is at least two something, and then you have a car, no,
and then you have your other little bills. That's five
k right there, and then she doesn't have anything left.
Speaker 3 (34:49):
So you know, Terrell on Back on Fig was like,
so you think that dah da dah dah.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
He was like, no, I'm doubling down on that like,
if I'm committed to a girl and I'm taking care
of that's not enough. So that's been going super vir
row everywhere. Yeah, he's just saying like, if you really
think about it, a woman's gonna be stressed out because
she all she can do is pay her bills and
then she don't have nothing left to do nothing else.
Speaker 3 (35:11):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (35:13):
Well, I'm just trying to figure out what was she
doing before him. I don't know, super stressed, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
Yes, don't have nothing. If he was dressed out, I.
Speaker 4 (35:24):
Guess stressed out over the five.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
I don't know if he was saying like he told
her like he wants to take care of her type
of thing, because that's how it was looking. He was like,
if I'm serious about a girl, and I'm like, I
want to take care of you. I think he's saying,
like to have the luxury to do the things with
me that I want you to do, Like I can
go here, I could travel here. If you have a job,
you're not gonna be able to do all this and
be around me all the time how I.
Speaker 3 (35:46):
Want you to.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I mean, that's his program. But I think the one
thing that he shouldn't do. He shouldn't lead with money,
Like he can't lead with that. Like if he's into
a situation and it comes to that, okay, cool, But
like you know him going on the podcast now and
kind of appreciate that the girls listen knocking down like
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she I'm that's enough for me, you know what I'm saying.
So like, but you can't go into it like that.
You know, you gotta feel a girl out, you got
to date them.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
But I talking about a woman he's really with. He's
he was saying that.
Speaker 3 (36:24):
He was like a woman I'm committed to. I'm taking serious.
Speaker 1 (36:27):
She's my girl, maybe going to be my wife. That's
what he's saying. He's not saying just like I'm dating
a girl. He said, a woman. I'm really serious about that.
I want to be around me and be with me everywhere.
I can't like, that's not I.
Speaker 4 (36:42):
Think if you're a man in that position, I don't see.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
Nothing wrong with that, Okay.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
I mean you know, like what if he dating somebody
and they got a job, and he like, man, I
don't I want to see you a little more. I
want to go to you know, to wherever I want
to take you to the eye in somewhere, but you
gotta work on Saturdays, and you gotta do all this.
He like, you know what, don't do that just you know, yeah,
you'll mess with me. I'll take care of you. I
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get that.
Speaker 3 (37:08):
I think that's more what you think.
Speaker 4 (37:10):
I think.
Speaker 2 (37:10):
Yeah, yeah, because you understayd His lifestyle is to where
he can do stuff.
Speaker 3 (37:14):
Yeah, that's what he he with a.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Girl that gotta go to Mickey D's from nine to
five or whatever. I'm just her example, nine to five whatever,
whatever job it is.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Yeah, you gotta work Monday through Friday.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
Yeah, He's like, man, I don't even like you too
tired to go out with me now, Like it's Monday night.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
I want you to come on me.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
And she like, I'm tired and got working. I got
work in the morning, be up at six. And he like,
you know what, I want to I like you a lot,
you my girl. I want to be with you. Like, no,
we ain't gonna do that. We about to go to
New York, were about to go to you know, to
different places. You know, we ain't doing all No, if
I'm serious.
Speaker 3 (37:49):
About you, that's what he was saying. That's what he
was saying.
Speaker 4 (37:52):
I get that.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
Everybody gonna hate on it, But like I get what
he's saying, and people who are gonna hate on it
don't understand that.
Speaker 1 (37:58):
Yeah, because if you have a certain life style and
your girl's like I work nine to five and you're like, no,
we're going to New York next to me, we're going
to hear for him, He's like, I can't. I want
my girl with me. So if I can't have you
with me, then you know, like what's the point because
you can't a certain lifestyle and a man of that
statue who has it and can do that, he's like,
I'll do it.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
For you might need money to watch her kid.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
Like all right, yeah, exactly, for the babysitter and all
of that, right right.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Right right, So that's what he's saying. Of course, like
women love it down, some men who don't have it
are hating on it, you know what I mean, because
they're like, what, like I can barely afford my brand,
you know, but it's like it's for a certain lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
When men like that speak, not everyone can do that.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
He's saying, this is what I will do, and I
don't wear a five K and enough I gotta give
her this then she needs this, that, that hair and
all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
But he has the money.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
So if a man doesn't have the money, then obviously
is that's not a conversation for you.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
Right, That's what'll say it.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
That's not a conversation for you if you can for that,
and that's okay. It doesn't mean it's the right way,
but it's what works for him, you know, a man
of his stature.
Speaker 3 (39:06):
But I'm sure his DMS is blowing up right now,
like yeah, yeah, yeah, I could be yea.
Speaker 1 (39:09):
Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I got it.
Speaker 4 (39:13):
Yeah sure, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Anyways, Tyresee actually went on a podcast as well recently.
Speaker 3 (39:24):
I think it's Bishop td Jakes.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Right, yeah, so he's been having a lot of good
guests on his podcast. But basically, Tyresee said that all
women and men have a checklist, meaning of course, like
women are like I want a guy who's six feet
six or lot or looks a certain way or does
something for their career. And men too, man are like
I want a woman that has a big mutt. She
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can't have a flat butter. She has this, so she
has that you know, whatever man feel. But that's what
he was saying, So let me just finish what he
was saying and then you can say your opinion. But
he was saying that, you know, he would have lists
for everything that he wanted in a woman, and like,
you know, his ex wife was like light skinned kurry,
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like you know, whatever that look or whatever the case is.
And he's saying like his current girl didn't meet a
lot of those things visually, Like there's a lot of
things that weren't the same. First of all, I'll be
so annoyed if my man went on any podcasts say that.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
But anyway, he's losing it, Like excuse me.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
Sir, But anyways, he said that there was a lot
of things that weren't checked off on his list, and
he said that his list was wrong, Like his checklist
was wrong because he's been with this woman for five
plus years and it lasts longer than his marriage and
any other relationships he's been in, and it's a better
relationship than any.
Speaker 3 (40:46):
Of his past relationships.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
So he's saying that sometimes the checklist is not who
God sent you.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
It just looks good on paper. How do you feel
about that.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
Well, it sounds like this checklist was filled with a
lot of artificial ye see that, like outer lookings like
more of a visual type of checklist. But when you
start working to the core of what a man really
needs from a checklist and you don't realize it. At first,
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it looks all good, like it's like window shopping. You
walk past it's all glitter and glitz and shiny, and
it looks good.
Speaker 4 (41:26):
And then you bring it home and it ain't what
you thought it was. Right. He was like, damn.
Speaker 2 (41:31):
When I was looking at it in the window, it
was this and that, but like it don't really do
like I'll tell you this, Like I remember I first
bought I bought a Bentley. I bought the Mussein, right, man,
I'm talking about that car with Dove's hell on the outside. Man,
when I tell you, I did not like that car
at all. I was like my worst car. It was
like expensive, it would look good, but then when I
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got into it, the radio wasn't loud enough, the sun
roof didn't didn't come all the way back, it just
went up up.
Speaker 4 (42:00):
I was like, man, this car is week.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
So it ain't always about what you see on the
outside and the glints and glamorous. It's it's about you know,
you got to sit in that car and see what
to do really, because the inside don't really tell you
the most about a person. And I think he once
he revamped his list, it was like, you know, I
got to revamp my list. You know, I need a woman.
You know, I don't care about the long hair, big moity.
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I need her heart at what's her? What's her? You know,
what's her relationship with God? When you start looking at
like the core of a person, you start seeing different
things and then you've realized that, oh list was off
all along. But as most men, most of our lists
are off for the most part. We our lists be many,
be full of bullshit, and then we look like because
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because we're trying to impress the next man, we're trying
to be.
Speaker 3 (42:48):
Crazy like trying to press other men.
Speaker 2 (42:51):
Trying to take it like we're trying to impress like
just not even the next man, but like it's like
your woman when you visually out with her, you know,
gouds be what they want to hold on. They be
looking at seeing who looking right, and it's just like
a flex but like they don't know, Like when I
go home, it's argument, it ain't really cracking like what
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you see.
Speaker 1 (43:15):
I still believe though men should still be visually attracted
to their women, because I don't care what no one says.
Men are visual and I feel like if you are
not visually attracted to your woman, you are going to
cheat on her. I just really do believe that, Like
you cannot just be like, I'm not attracted to her
at all. That's crazy, like not being attracted to someone
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you're even me as a woman.
Speaker 3 (43:38):
No, it isn't.
Speaker 2 (43:39):
But what I'm saying traction because I hadn't been around
females to like, damn, damn, she is beautiful, Like just
sitting there talking to her like damn.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
Right from from an inner thing, but she was just
a dog unattractive, Like she was just unattractive.
Speaker 4 (43:55):
Is not a look to me.
Speaker 3 (43:57):
Okay, I got you, but I just don'ts a.
Speaker 2 (43:59):
Look because you like, because I have just seen some
badss females look terrible.
Speaker 1 (44:04):
Yeah, I've seen that too, so I get you are terrible.
Speaker 4 (44:08):
Like like when I look at.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
You, I have that I know exactly what you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
Come on, it ain't about you across the room, Okay,
when I look across the room, But when you start
getting to the essence of somebody that that's a different look.
Speaker 3 (44:22):
I agree with that.
Speaker 1 (44:22):
I can't agree with that one hundred percent, which goes
into a conversation that's been started on social media that
says men when they're looking for like long term relationships
or their wives, they prioritize a woman's facial aesthetics, like
their face, versus when they focus on a woman's body
and shape they're looking for short term relationships.
Speaker 3 (44:42):
Do you think that's true?
Speaker 4 (44:43):
Wait, say that. Look at that they face bone structure.
Speaker 1 (44:46):
So no, and they say nothing about bone structure. Oh
Criyet they said that. There's a conversation and debate on
social media that says that men prioritize like a woman's face,
like she looks facially like in her face when he's
thinking about a long term relationship versus short term they're
more focused.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
On a woman's body.
Speaker 4 (45:08):
Okay, so this was a poll.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
Yeah, this is like a debate online that a lot
of people are talking.
Speaker 4 (45:12):
About what like what race of men?
Speaker 3 (45:14):
I'm sure I don't know the races.
Speaker 2 (45:16):
See, I think when they start doing these poles, you
gotta go across the most influential, like racist, like you
gotta go.
Speaker 4 (45:28):
Black. You gotta ask a group of blacks.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
You gotta ask about the blacks the colors.
Speaker 3 (45:36):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
You go, you go black, white, you go Chinese, and
then we gotta do one more. You do like you
gotta ask the Mexicans. Let's do a poll across those
four races, Like I feel like some of these polls
be done by one race.
Speaker 3 (45:51):
Well, what is your question? What is the answer?
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Would you rather be a woman with zero body but
a beautiful face or an ugly face with the banging
body which.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
Ugly face for real? Of course that's easy call. Look,
the blacks is gonna have one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
Because you know what, when we had the thing about
a man don't want to work all day, come home
to a flat butt, and you were like, no, middler,
but that every moment was going crazy that They're like.
Speaker 3 (46:21):
No, I don't give it down. You gotta have a button.
I'm not dealing with it. And that's fucked up.
Speaker 1 (46:25):
I think at the end of the day, zero body
but a beautiful face, and I don't know that's crazy
or an ugly.
Speaker 3 (46:32):
Face, So you just wake up turn around ugly face
because you're.
Speaker 4 (46:34):
Not always with that makeup though.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
No, but you have to wake up to this person on.
Speaker 4 (46:39):
The get that makeup going, so.
Speaker 3 (46:41):
Make up in the bed.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
It's not gonna blow you waking up in the morning
turning around seeing.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
This facet be rubbing on something though, So I'm gonna
be feeling cool.
Speaker 3 (46:53):
This is crazy. I can't lady, come.
Speaker 4 (46:56):
On and be like, shoot, I ain't tripping, that's mom me.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
Men are crazy to me.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
I don't know what the black community.
Speaker 1 (47:06):
Community, but that's still crazy.
Speaker 2 (47:11):
To know even doubt. We gotta we gotta, you know,
the pole, gotta be like, let's see who, what the
po what's the ages of the men, what's the race.
You can't be just doing these poles. They can't get
credibility like that.
Speaker 1 (47:23):
Okay, so question you. We're gonna do a few quick
little questions before we wrap it up. All right, the
three little scenarios. Okay, you meet your partner's family for
the first time and you realize you once dated their cousin.
Speaker 3 (47:40):
Nobody mentions it, mentions it. Do you like you.
Speaker 4 (47:44):
Over there for the holidays?
Speaker 1 (47:46):
And the cousin is over there and you're like, oh
my god, but she don't say anything, and you don't
say nothing.
Speaker 3 (47:52):
But it's blowing you because you win.
Speaker 1 (47:55):
And the cousin comes up to you like Hi, I'm Keisha,
and you're like, hey, Kesha and Paul, are you gonna
tell your girl like, ooh, I dated her before.
Speaker 4 (48:07):
I think I am gonna break up. I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
So what if y'all are in like a two year relationship,
I'm like, man, you know what, that's crazy to break
up two year committed relationship and that happens.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
No, I got a tailor. You got a tailor. I
want somebody two years and that's your cousin.
Speaker 4 (48:30):
You gotta tailor.
Speaker 3 (48:31):
You gotta tell.
Speaker 4 (48:32):
Y'all gotta go get some drinks and be like, I gotta.
Speaker 3 (48:34):
Say something, not the drinks.
Speaker 1 (48:36):
Now, if it was the opposite and you've been with
someone two years, you're really serious about this person, y'all
live together or whatever, and you go, you know, y'all
go to the family's house and she's like, oh my god,
and then she tells you like, look, I dated him
for a minute.
Speaker 3 (48:51):
We had a little situation. What are you doing?
Speaker 2 (48:54):
Like?
Speaker 1 (48:54):
It wasn't nothing serious, but we hooked up. We vied
for a minute, but nothing really happened as far as
that's getting serious.
Speaker 4 (49:02):
And me and the girl, are serious?
Speaker 3 (49:03):
You and the girl are living together? Serious in love?
Budd up? What you doing?
Speaker 2 (49:11):
I'm gonna keep it proving I'm gonna like, I'm gonna
be cool. All right, we'll be cool.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
Are you gonna say anything to the cousin if he
donna say nothing about it?
Speaker 2 (49:19):
Well, but then we came into the family function and
she saw him, and once she saw him, she was like, Oh,
that's your cousin, and then she tell me.
Speaker 4 (49:27):
He didn't know what you mean.
Speaker 2 (49:29):
He doesn't know, Well, he just noticed it. They just
both noticed it that night.
Speaker 1 (49:35):
Yeah, but I'm saying, are you gonna say something after?
What if he just still don't say nothing?
Speaker 3 (49:39):
She don't know that.
Speaker 2 (49:39):
She told me I'm gonna say nothing that i'ma way
like a week, see if he say something?
Speaker 3 (49:43):
And what if he doesn't, Are you gonna say something
or you just let it go?
Speaker 4 (49:45):
An tell me though?
Speaker 2 (49:47):
Like he was like, you know what, man, y'all had.
But then as a man you could be like, man,
I know y'all had a good thing going. I didn't
want to, like, you know, say nothing. I like y'all together, men,
I do that. You know what I'm saying. So you know,
either way, I'm not even tripp.
Speaker 1 (50:00):
Okay, So your best friend shows you that she he
has an old DM from your partner, right, So like
your girl and him DM a year ago before you
started dating, a year before you ever started dating, they.
Speaker 3 (50:18):
Do have an old DM together.
Speaker 4 (50:20):
Okay, what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (50:23):
You're not for that? What if?
Speaker 4 (50:26):
Like, okay, oh DM, that's what message?
Speaker 1 (50:31):
You know that that has happened to me where I
was with somebody in a relationship and then one of
my sisters was like, oh he tried to talk to
me in twenty ten and showed me like a tweet
and I'm like, all right, like you're my sister.
Speaker 3 (50:44):
We look alike now, y'all never did nothing like yeah?
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Like what like you know what I'm saying. It's like,
why are you even telling me to be messy? Like
because if it's not nothing for real, then it's nothing
like what it was a DM like. Okay, So should
long this is my last question. Should long term couples
get a yearly free pass to sleep with someone else? Like,
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for instance, say you married when you've been since you
were like twenty and now you guys been married and
you're fifty.
Speaker 3 (51:18):
You've been married for thirty years.
Speaker 1 (51:21):
Would you say you get a free past yearly to
prevent cheating or do you.
Speaker 3 (51:26):
Think that would destroy the relationship.
Speaker 2 (51:30):
I think that's on the couple. I don't think just
sneaking do it, don't that's a free past. Just nah,
just sneaking do it. Just don't get caught.
Speaker 1 (51:42):
Why.
Speaker 4 (51:43):
I don't need to know. I don't need to know.
I don't need to know. SEA can do it.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
I don't need to know. Just go ahead and sneak.
Just make sure I don't find out. I ain't gonna
be looking, but don't make sure I don't find out.
Speaker 4 (51:54):
Sneaking. Do that. If you need to do that, sneaking
do it.
Speaker 3 (51:57):
I can say that.
Speaker 2 (51:58):
I'm I don't want to know. I keep coming home
and ship I'm like, oh damn, I dang. They're still
leaking from him.
Speaker 1 (52:08):
Crazy, that's what is this?
Speaker 4 (52:13):
Okay, still discharging? Yeah, blone me.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
That's out of control. So you think that you rather
just the old fashioned cheese.
Speaker 2 (52:23):
Go ahead and old fast, that's what you need. You
feeling like that, go ahead and don't don't let me
catch you. You don't want to know that you're coming
back from getting took down, like come on like it
was a good honey.
Speaker 4 (52:35):
I wasn't like did you did you? You know?
Speaker 1 (52:39):
You know that is hilarious. Yeah, I feel that I
don't want to know either.
Speaker 3 (52:45):
I'm I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 4 (52:47):
Go ahead, just sneak off.
Speaker 1 (52:49):
So you don't think it should be a conversation like babe, look,
I'm not happy.
Speaker 4 (52:52):
Let's divorce in our sex.
Speaker 3 (52:55):
If it's just like the man don't want.
Speaker 4 (52:57):
To We're gone. I'm gone once you say, but.
Speaker 3 (53:00):
You're seventy, I'm seventy.
Speaker 2 (53:02):
I'm good still the woman she cooked? How you're not happy?
Speaker 4 (53:08):
Girl?
Speaker 3 (53:08):
You's seventy, She's not seventy two.
Speaker 4 (53:10):
How you was like girl, stop player, you've been cooked
for like forty years.
Speaker 3 (53:16):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (53:17):
Like down if you don't sit your butt down, girl seventy,
get that out of here.
Speaker 4 (53:24):
You a better age fifty five? You know? You know
fifty five you still kind of made.
Speaker 1 (53:29):
You're like, yeah, I think there's some people who are
cracking like fifty vide it is. Anyways, Thank you guys
so much for you another episode of the Truth after Dark.
Happy holidays to everybody. I hope that you guys had
an amazing year.
Speaker 4 (53:48):
And New Years All that good stuff. We're safe.
Speaker 3 (53:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (53:52):
We're so grateful for everybody who has been supporting Truth
after Dark for all of twenty twenty five. We started
this podcast at the beginning of the year and it
has grown immensely. We're so thankful for all of the support,
all of the love, and all of the hate, and
we thank you so much for just really rocking with us.
We have so much amazing good things coming into new year,
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great guests, and just like more content altogether.
Speaker 4 (54:19):
Thanks for joining us. We'll see y'all in twenty twenty six.
Speaker 3 (54:23):
Peace.
Speaker 2 (54:41):
This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,
welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (54:53):
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