June 6, 2024 • 37 mins
Even though family minded main dater this week, Zacarias, is looking for a wife, his Abuelita is his number one. On this episode; we meet three contestants, a previous main dater, a self-admitted u-hauler, and a fun-focused Angelino. The contestants play a game of “Ride of Love” and Liliana describes her own 5 husband thrill ride. The contestants learn some valuable lessons in “Lessons in Love”. Zacarias says his tía and tío are an example of the type of relationship he wants; can Abuelita find un amor antiguo en tiempos modernos in this group of contestants? And, more importantly, will one of these contestants know the words to Zacarias heart, “sana sana colita de rana”.
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Elena, would you say you're a little toxica.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm not saying it, I'm just asking.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I really think that we all have that little toxica
in us.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we all have a little toxic and us.
I definitely have my days of being an avoidant THEMBO.
But I'm learning, I'm growing, I'm doing my best, and
that is all that we can ask for exactly.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Thank you, Alita, I really appreciate it. Welcome listeners. This
is date my aw Alita.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
First for our extraordinarily a Wilita Lileana plays matchmaker for
a star main Data. She'll meet three hopeful contestants before
choosing one of them to go on a one on
one date with our main dat. I am your host
Rico or this alongside the always titalating a Elita.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yes I like that.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yes, Well, what do we have to say about Tuxika.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Well, Tuxika is important because our main dater this week
says that because he is not going anywhere, he loves
a little Tuxiga.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Well he sounds like a cat.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
He does, providing some stability while someone else gets to
whip up a little chaos.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
So tell me, I V who is this main dater.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Our main dater this week is Sagarias.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Sagonias is twenty seven and a true Leo at heart.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Sagarias is a.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Brown Angelino born and raised in Northeast Los Angeles.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Fuck yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
He is passionate about education for LGBTQ students and is
looking to pursue his masters in school psychology.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Oh my gosh, that's hot.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
He is very family oriented and his Alita is his
number one.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Oh my god, I love absolutely you do.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
It is a necessity for someone seconds dates to speak Spanish.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Oh my gosh, are you like all the roster?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Now?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Just kidding?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Maybe?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
He says? How will they be able to meet MYA?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Of course I get that you will, like, Sagaria says,
and A good possible.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Yes, He says he doesn't want to be that deal
with the t rex arms.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
He considers himself a serial monogamous, looking for in his words,
more than.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Do you think we can find that today?
Speaker 6 (02:40):
Uo?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Okay, now I'm.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Really excited to meet.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Let's bring in Sagartia's welcome.
Speaker 7 (02:59):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
We're so good, We're so excited and we're so good
to have you here sold in my Hourlida.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
First, obviously we just read a big chunk of your bio,
but we want to hear it from you.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Tell us what Ouralita needs to know to find that
person for you.
Speaker 7 (03:16):
Malita, I call her honey, so she's my honey.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Oh c you.
Speaker 7 (03:21):
I need to be able to bring a girl home.
Speaker 8 (03:22):
To hers or like, you know, have that connection where
it's all three of us and like share me all together.
Like I need someone who's family oriented. I have little
cousins who are my world.
Speaker 7 (03:35):
With my family.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
I love that someone who.
Speaker 8 (03:38):
Can have like jokes and doesn't mind, you know, having
a barbecue on the Saturdays of the family.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
You know, Zacharias, what does it mean?
Speaker 1 (03:46):
More?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Antigo and Tim what does that mean to you?
Speaker 8 (03:49):
I a lot of us. I don't even like calling
them all these like Spanish alldists, but you know when
you hear Hu sing or and all those like old
school artists, and you're just like, I want to feel
that too, but without the like complications of when I'm
on of like the misogyny of like gender roles, and
(04:12):
like those.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Expectations, the little cultural baggage that we take in the
centuries and that we're trying so hard to get rid of.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
If I may ask you, how is.
Speaker 7 (04:22):
My grandma just turned eighty three?
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Oh, blessed, she's.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
Still going strong.
Speaker 8 (04:28):
She goes off on her own to the mall with
like her sister, which is my aunt.
Speaker 7 (04:34):
They call me like at the end of the.
Speaker 9 (04:35):
Day, me, oh, come pick us up in Santa Nita.
Really I go there too, So they're they're always on
the go Savina Centro, Like she goes to Ross on Tuesdays, like, of.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Course we got to get that discount.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yes, that was amazing.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
You said you're a big family guy, So how big
is your family? How many cousins? How often does the
family meet?
Speaker 9 (05:00):
I think the response to that is here or in Mexico.
So here in Mexico, I think we're a little bit
smaller because it's just my grandma and my aunt who
came to the United States, so essentially from their kids
and like the grandkids is what we're like here. But
I would say we're really close to like we're seeing
each other like on the weekends, as my grandma always says,
(05:24):
like we're always just like hang out, we see karaoke, youya,
So like we just like like to hang out family
in Mexico. We're still very close to My grandma was
a total twelve siblings, So.
Speaker 8 (05:45):
Mexico, it's like a constant thing. Always talking to Mithia
is like on FaceTime. Even though we're not like physically close,
I think we're all very close.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
That's lovely.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
As you said, you like a little dog sya guy,
and especially because you're going to stick around. So I
also want to know because you're a true Leo, I'm
wondering what ways you like to be wood and romance,
you know, for that little Leo heart.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
How does that look like?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
You know, I like the chase as a Leo. I
want to hunt my prey in the sense of like
I want God.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I love you said that spicy.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
It's one of those things that like, don't make it
easy for me, Like I want to get to know you.
Speaker 8 (06:29):
I want to, like I said, when I want to
think of like it wasn't easy back then.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
You gotta like work for it.
Speaker 8 (06:35):
You gotta woo her family, you gotta woo her, you
gotta like go the extra.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Mile, send pigeons instead of texts something like that.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
So zech ideas tell us when was your last relationship
and how long did it last?
Speaker 8 (06:51):
I would say it was about nearly a year ago.
It lasted for like about a year.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Then what happened?
Speaker 7 (06:57):
It just kind of came up in conversation that we
wann't looking towards the same future, and so we just thought, well,
then why are we going to continue a relationship if
we're not going to go in.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
The same direction, And how does that direction look like
for you?
Speaker 8 (07:10):
My thing is I want a wife at the end.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
I want to be married.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
I want to experience that, maybe because I see my
aunt my uncle's relationship where I'm like, I want that person.
I want to have that title. I want to be
able to say like, yeah, that's my wife right there.
Speaker 9 (07:27):
What about children, I'm open to children. It's not my
first like yes, okay.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
So I'm open to the idea if we understand what
it means to have a child.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Right right now? You're very close with your family, correct, Yes?
How are you hoping for your partner to fit into
your family life?
Speaker 8 (07:46):
We tell jokes. We're very sarcastic, We're very like a
silly family. I want someone who you know can fit
in with that, who's there for a good time, who
wants to contribute to the conversation, who's engaging.
Speaker 7 (07:59):
I think that's what it's like really important for me.
Speaker 8 (08:01):
Someone who can engage with my family because they're gonna
be there.
Speaker 7 (08:05):
They're gonna be there, They're gonna want to engage.
Speaker 8 (08:07):
They're gonna want to get to know her, you know,
they want to know like her story with her goals.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
So like someone who can like navigate that you know.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Now, I love that you you know you mentioned outgoing,
can engage, can be sarcastic and have jokes and have
a good time. You know, you're thinking of your wife, right,
You're thinking of like someone that you want to be
spending the rest.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Of your life with. And among the many good times
that we have as human.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Beings, there's also times that are not so great, like
conflict there rises. How do you maneuver around that, and
how do you hope your future wife maneuvers around.
Speaker 8 (08:42):
That communication If at the moment you're very upset and
you don't want to talk to me, all right, that's fine.
I don't believe in like brushing things under the carpet,
because then the carpet gets lump and we start tripping.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Mmm.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Mmmmmm. Beautiful.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
And if the argument happen and said the idea, are
willing to give it a break and wait till morning.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Yes, yeah, gorgeous, gorge gorgeous.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
You know I got to give them their space for that.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Yes, it's important.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
What's your love language?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
What type of way do you like to give care
and how do you like to receive care?
Speaker 7 (09:17):
Oh, I'm very much an acts of service.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
You if like it's one of those things where I
need to go do groceries, and I'll be like, well,
then let's go together, or let me let me If
I'm getting out earlier, let me get let me go
do that for you.
Speaker 7 (09:29):
So when you get home that's already taken care of.
Speaker 8 (09:32):
I'm out with family, or if I'm out on my
own and I see something, I'm like, bab I got
you this, I found it, I thought of you. So
for me, I like quality time mm hmm. And I
don't care if we're doing chores.
Speaker 7 (09:47):
I'm good, cute.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
That's how you like to receive ye, right, quality time,
making sure that you're having intentional time that's like just
you and her one on one together.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Be beautiful.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Anything you want to tell us that we don't know
about you that you would like us to know in
order to help us make the decision of who the
right person is.
Speaker 8 (10:05):
I need this person to know what sana sana, Oh my.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Gosh, make sure you put that in the questions.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
I wanted that.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
It is a vital wait. I have a follow up
one with that, because you know you love a little toxica, right,
and oftentimes that could be a red flag for people.
So I want to make sure I have a very
clear definition of what would be a red flag for
you and what's like totally okay for a Toxica to have.
Speaker 8 (10:30):
The main red flag is if the's like kind of
being sneaky about things in the sense of like you're
talking to other people. But I like like the toxica
with the loyaltiness of like it's you and me.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Ay, and then and then the well, thank you so much,
we will say goodbye to you for a little while.
I think Liliana is definitely ready to find someone who
loves your family and can make you.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Laugh and is interested in also settling down.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
We'll be back after the break. Welcome back today, Maya
Wani the first.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Hello contestants. Thank you all for joining us today. We
are so looking forward to getting to know you all. First,
we have Alex.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Alex is a born and raised Angelino. She says she
is an in person type of dater and hates the
texting bullshit.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
You know how I feel about that? I hate it?
Speaker 6 (11:34):
Well you go?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
You have?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
How many dine that?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Alex's green flags are people who go to therapy Yes,
have sub awareness, double yas and good friends around them
at triple yes and good practice and practices good communication
quadriple yeses alright. Then, Alex likes to hang out with
her dog and her family. She's also a four twenty
GIRLI likes to binge, watch TV, and is part of
(11:59):
Dyke Soccer. Wow, so cool, Hello Alex, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Oh my gosh, amazing a VC.
Speaker 4 (12:07):
Who else?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Who else?
Speaker 9 (12:08):
Come on?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Oh? Next, we have a Jessic Gay.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Jessica is passionate about resilience and works as a case
manager and a nonprofit.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Jessica is looking for a serious relationship and wants that
special someone who is empathetic and shows a lot of compassion.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
Oh my gosh, that's so sweet.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
She's attracted to good talkers yes and says, if you
have a way with words, you can have a way
with me.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Oh my goodness, I'm writing that down.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Yes, make sure you put audiobooks in there, because listen,
people who don't believe in therapy and hey, kids are
red flags for Jessica.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Oh my gosh, Yes, she says.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
She definitely used to fit the stereotype of the uhul lesbian. Oh,
but now she knows to take her time. Welcome, Jessica, Welcome.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
And finally a familiar face.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Jocelyn.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Jocelyn is passionate about the intersection of dating and disability,
and though she has tried every app under the sun,
she used to fulfill the opposite attracts drope and would
date buff I'm going to the gym every hour of
the day, Mexican guys, And while this was a huge
boost to the ego, she is looking for someone more
(13:29):
compatible now. Joscelyn's Awalita is her platonic life partner, and
anyone who dates her needs Auwalita's stamp of approval above
all else. Two as to impress, Oh my god, we
are so glad to have you, Jocelyn.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
You're so sweet.
Speaker 9 (13:46):
Hi.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
Everyone, I'm so excited to be here.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Bess Bessio's contestants. Well, now I think I have my
work cut out for me today.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Yeah you really do?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
You really really did beautiful.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
With that said, time to get to know you all
a little bed better with our first game. So here's
a little insight into our main data. He is big
on family and recently got Disneyland passes and has been
having fun taking his cousins.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
On all the rides.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
So for this game, we are asking you to tell
us what the name and theme of a new original
Disneyland ride, and here is the scary and thrilling element.
Have it be inspired by your dating life. So, for example,
my ride would be you know those like back and
forth boat style rides that you just have to go
(14:43):
really high and then go or low and then go back,
and you feel it in the stomach like when you're
going like all the way up and then you're like
feel the pressure going all the way down and then
going all the way up, and I would call it
the balance to avoid poly saturation.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
I'd be like wow, and just like.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
It feels it's very and it's fun because like listen,
that feeling is exciting and then you get ready to
throw up and then you sometimes made me throw up.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Cool, and it is right. What about you?
Speaker 4 (15:11):
What would your right be?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Well, let's talk about it. It's a Wilita's Mountain drop. Okay,
so it drops five times each time in honor of
an eggx.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Oh my god, that's sucking great.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
I love that. Do you want to sort us up? Alex?
What's the name of your ride?
Speaker 10 (15:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (15:34):
I'm a silly swinging girl, So put me on that
high swings, going around having a good time, and then
it's just all fun. I'll be here kicking my feet
little butterflies.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Okay, cute. What about you, Jessica, what's the name of
your ride? And what type of ride is it?
Speaker 6 (15:51):
After much thinking, I think mine would be called the
U haul Launcher.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
The U haul Launcher. Oh my god, that is incorredible.
Why are you the U haul launcher?
Speaker 6 (16:05):
Just from my previous experience as a U hauler, I
think it's only fitting. And you know, the good thing
is you get your copies of keys at the end.
You both get your keys to your house.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
That is amazing. How many times have you you hauled?
Speaker 4 (16:19):
That's the same question twice?
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Here, here, here, here, not to shabby, not to shabby, Justlyn.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
What's the name of your ride?
Speaker 5 (16:28):
Well, I don't know the name yet, but I know
what mixed it would be.
Speaker 7 (16:32):
It wouldn't be a.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
Mix between It's a Small World and Grizzly River.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Wait why Grizzly River?
Speaker 5 (16:39):
Because it starts off really nice and sweet and you know,
a mix of everything, and then it just gets super
super shaky and you just woman at the end.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
It just no, Oh my god, it's just no. It's
just no. Anyway, thank you for share your rights.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
You know, I'm not a rollercroaster person, but I would
go on these rides.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
This is your launcher. I mean I identify with that. That's true.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Awaita has definitely done you all under for sure.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Oh my goodness. Shall we move on to the next game?
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
You know you might not tell by just looking at me,
but I am quite a nerd.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I loved school, and.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
I will consider myself kind of a bit of a scholar,
especially in the subject of love. I'm gonna drop another
little hint about our maindater. He is passionate about education.
So let's picture you are giving a lesson, and especially
a lesson on love. What point are you raising in
(17:45):
your slide show. And remember this needs to be an
engaging lesson, so you have to keep the class paying attention,
so feel free to throw in anecdotal evidence. Lenna and
I will begin the lesson.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Lenna, let's class turn to page seventeen in the textbook
of Abuelita and please read the title of the chapter.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Remember to keep an open heart and mind.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
That is a critical lesson.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
What about my lesson?
Speaker 4 (18:15):
I can't wait to hear it.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Lessen number sixty nine, How to sixty nine a deep
study and kind of lingis you know something like that? Come?
Speaker 4 (18:29):
Oh, Willita, I'm there, I'm just teasing.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Now.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Should we hear about what these skilled teachers have to say? Absolutely,
let's find out.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
Alex. Will you start us off?
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Yes, what's your lesson?
Speaker 11 (18:39):
Let's your lesson?
Speaker 7 (18:40):
To to too?
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Yes?
Speaker 10 (18:42):
Alignment?
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Okay, and then like.
Speaker 11 (18:45):
Self love, but like how to really please yourselves?
Speaker 1 (18:48):
How to really please yourself as in like self pleasure? Yes,
tell me more. I want to dive in.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
That's the whole point.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
You want to dive in?
Speaker 7 (18:56):
Right?
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Yes, absolutely, this is very interesting, very.
Speaker 10 (19:01):
Much fore play very important with even with yourself, you know,
a little works of affirmation, get yourself going a little
stimulated dive into the self love and then just make
yourself feel good here here.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
That's an A plus for Alex, A plus amazing.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
I'm giving grades, and let me tell you one thing.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
I just so agree with that because like me, A
Wilita is single, but she I have a lot of sex.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
There's just nobody there, so we're gonna go on with it.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
But you are there.
Speaker 4 (19:30):
I am there, and I love studying there.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
You go nothing just like looking at America. Things are
happening anyway, Just justlyn. What's your lesson?
Speaker 5 (19:42):
My lesson is lesson one four three, which, as I
love you and a calculator, is love yourself first and
then love the other person, because then if you don't
love yourself, how are you gonna love somebody else or
care for somebody else?
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Here here?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Oh my gosh, I love all this like self love,
Oh so much love, Jessica, what's your lesson?
Speaker 6 (20:04):
So I'm going to go with a lesson on and
I don't have a good little title, so let's just
put like lessons sixty nine. As you said, yes, let's
say five love languages, a lesson on cordial languages.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Love it?
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Can you share one.
Speaker 6 (20:23):
So there is gifts, acts of service, which is definitely mine,
physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Yes, very nice, we love those.
Speaker 4 (20:35):
There's a good ones serve. You just taught us a lot.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Specially y'all are fabulous educators.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Unfortunately, one of these incredible, hilarious, charming contestants will not
be able to continue with us.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Who aa is.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Not moving on? Tough choice.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
You are each amazing young women with so much to
offer a possible partner. Thank you for being with us
on Date Mali the first. And I really really hope
that the person leaving us will find that special person
in your life very very soon.
Speaker 4 (21:15):
The person leaving us right now is Alex. Alex.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
I am so sad to see you go.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Thank you for your energy, your earnestness, your humor.
Speaker 7 (21:28):
Thanks so much for having me.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
We'll be back after the break. Welcome back to Day
my holily the first.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
Congratulations to our final two contestants. Welcome to the next
round of Day the first, which is a very intimate,
it's mostly holy, the asking more deep dive intimate questions
to see if one of you onlines the.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Most with our main dater.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Let's start with Jessica Welcome to Auriita Sala Cosina. I
have a piping cup of hot caffee to half with.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
Just do you and no, I need that they get away?
Speaker 4 (22:14):
No, how are you, Jessica?
Speaker 6 (22:16):
I am good now, I really want though.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
Let's talk a little bit about Jessica's love life.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
When was your last relationship?
Speaker 6 (22:27):
My last relationship was about four months.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Ago and it lasted how long?
Speaker 6 (22:33):
It lasted? About two months?
Speaker 4 (22:36):
Maybe?
Speaker 3 (22:37):
So most of your relationships in the past few years
have they just been short relationships?
Speaker 6 (22:42):
I've had the majority of them, sure, but I have
had a couple that definitely were more longer. My first
relationship was the U haul one, and that was with
a girl on Tumblr when Tumblr was a thing, and
we even got engaged after three months, so.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
I know that feeling We've done it, been there, done that.
So what happened? What broke it?
Speaker 6 (23:07):
We're very young, We're like nineteen twenty. Our lives were
very different. She lived in a different state, so it
was long distance. I think all those factors. Really it
was amicable though.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
That's nice. So you are ready for a long term relationship?
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (23:24):
And what are your biggest green flags?
Speaker 6 (23:26):
I love someone that can communicate that is one of
the things I've always wanted. I'm a really good communicator
because I put in the work, just past experience, therapy
all that. I mean, I really am big on communication.
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Are you looking for marriage? Actually yes, yeah?
Speaker 3 (23:44):
What are the qualities you want in that particular person
to share life with besides the communication factor, which is essential?
Speaker 6 (23:52):
Someone patient in kind? No, I think that's the biggest one.
Speaker 4 (23:57):
Okay, do you have an Awolita you're closed to?
Speaker 1 (24:00):
I do.
Speaker 6 (24:01):
My Aalita lives maybe like twenty minutes from here, but
I try to go see her every other week and
she basically raised me, so.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
So you're very close to her.
Speaker 6 (24:11):
Oh yeah, I mean we grew up in a big
Mexican family, so it's a terribles all the time.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
There was a lot of chobout at them Bandulus every
day in a little shot at tequila at the end,
just to kick the warm.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
Thank you so much, Jessica, Jocelyn, Hello, welcome back.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
So this is kind of fun because we've had a bit.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Of a one on one with you on another episode,
so this is gonna be an interesting type of one
on one. It's actually just gonna be you and Awlita.
So I got the hot coffee, ready to drag and roll.
Speaker 4 (24:44):
Ala they get away. Oh are you, my love?
Speaker 6 (24:47):
I'm good?
Speaker 7 (24:47):
Who are you?
Speaker 3 (24:48):
You're just so amazing that beautiful smile that just brightens
the whole screen.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
You really are a lovely lady.
Speaker 7 (24:55):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
Talk to me like if we didn't know each other,
what's going on with your love life?
Speaker 5 (25:01):
What can I tell you?
Speaker 6 (25:02):
Well?
Speaker 7 (25:05):
This is not your fault.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
You know, I keep just getting ghosted and like I
have these like conversations that are like so dry and
on like dating sites, and I just I just want
to delete it. I'm a very like quote unquote traditional person,
and I really wanted to meet someone in real life.
I told my roommate once, I'm like, I wish I
could meet someone in a museum. We can talk about
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a painting and just click. I didn't want to download
any apps because I didn't want that. I didn't want
to say to someone, Oh where did I meet this person? Oh?
I met them online? No, I met them at a museum,
or I met them at an ice cream shop or
wherever it may be. But yeah, I just want someone
that we're gonna like click, you know. I want someone
(25:48):
that I can be my own person with and we
can be a couple together where our own personalities. You're
going to be different from each other or the same,
but we're still gonna click.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
You know.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
I want my own thing, and then I want them
to have their own thing, and I want us to
have something together. I think it's all about compromise for me,
Like I told you guys, like love for me is
a hard topic, but I'm ready for that. I've worked
a lot to be where I am where I am
finally ready to find that person that I want to
spend you know, potentially for the long haul. Like you
(26:23):
guys know, my family is important to me. My grandmother
she is, She's everything to me.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
Oh you're so beautiful, Jocelyn. The main dater is sitting
right next to me. Tell him what you are offering.
Speaker 5 (26:36):
I'm offering a companion that it's compassionate, it's willing to grow,
it's willing to experiment things together. I am very open
with my sexuality, as you guys know, because I had
to be because of my disability, because I needed to
find who I was as a person in relationship and
(26:57):
sexually as well. Like I just offer that to a person,
openness and communication. If they can give me that, I
can give my own.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
Into it and beauty because that you are.
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Thank you, Thank you, my love, thank you for your
beautiful answers.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Jocelyn, obviously you know what we're about to say next,
that the main data has been here all along, as
you were last time, so you know that's been happening.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
So we tend to pretend to be just kidding. Let's
bring in Jessica for the secret. Welcome back. Thank you,
Thank you so much to the both of you for playing.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
You are both just such romantics at heart, charming I know,
my goodness. Unfortunately, only one of you will be able
to move on to go on a date with our men.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
What happened? You're forgetting?
Speaker 1 (27:52):
Oh shit, yeah, so we have a secret that we
have been keeping, so to you, both, lovely humans. Our
main data has actually been listening this whole time from
the start. He's been looking at y'all, listening at y'all,
taking notes, and Uha might have an idea of who
(28:15):
she likes for our main dater.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
But we're gonna talk. We're gonna talk a little bit.
Speaker 1 (28:19):
Before we make the final decision. So to both of you,
we're gonna ask you for a quick exit, and we'll
bring back our main contestant.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
This is tough.
Speaker 4 (28:34):
This is very tough.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
They're both very wonderful and.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
Thoughtful, and they both have a lot in common with Yes,
and I think our main data is gonna have to
help us with the tiebreaker.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
All right, So Sagar, this is when gets like, way,
I gotta choose so many wonderful.
Speaker 7 (28:56):
People at I could only afford one wire.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Fair in this economy, I feel that, y, no, you
can afford many.
Speaker 8 (29:11):
What I heard like what Johnson was saying about like
I want to meet someone in person of like let's
meet at museum and like go through the museum and
through the museum like get to know each other, like
looking at art and everything. I was just like, That's
what I've always said, I want to meet someone in person,
like organically you want to vibe with them and see,
(29:31):
like what do you have to offer? And with her
talking about compassion and like wanting to like communicate and openness,
like that was like really really.
Speaker 7 (29:41):
Like wow, I like that. I really like that.
Speaker 8 (29:45):
But with like Jessica, you know, I like how she
was like I guess like her method of like falling
in love has just been hard and quick and we'll
figure it out.
Speaker 7 (29:53):
The U haul situations, she can.
Speaker 8 (29:56):
Realize, like, you know what, now I want to take
it a step back and I live that, like, let's
love hard and I forget about the world.
Speaker 7 (30:03):
So I'm just like, that's hard for she, Like also
was I talking about.
Speaker 4 (30:06):
Like she's also come a long ways from that.
Speaker 8 (30:09):
Yeah, and so it's just like because I was once
there where I was just like love heart and fast
and then we'll figure it out. I don't know, I
find it really hard. I'm gonna need your like expertise
in there.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
So you would be happy with either of these beautiful women.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
Yeah, okay, thank you so much. You're so close to me,
Moya me.
Speaker 4 (30:35):
It's happening.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Let's bring in Jolin and Jessica for the verdict before
we share the final decision. The verdict, I'm gonna just
sing a song. It's not gonna influence anything, but it's
it's truly for ships and giggles.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Is it a song? I don't even know. It's not.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
It's more like a saying yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
So so here it goes like this, Sana Sana Gorlita,
Na Sino son.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Now what comes up? For y'all. When you hear that, Jocelyn,
vix vapor mix, vapor up.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Goodness, nice, nice, nice.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
It can do anything, it can heal just about anything, truly, My.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
Goodness, What about you, Jessica, What does it come up?
What comes up with you when you hear that?
Speaker 6 (31:27):
When I would fall when I was little, and my
would come up to me and say that to me
and just be like, you're fine now, by.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Incredible, incredible, Thank you both so much for answering that.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
I love it. Yeah, that's Sana is gonna be.
Speaker 4 (31:45):
Yeah, it's it's a good one.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Without further ado, Alida, you want to get away.
Speaker 3 (31:50):
You have both been so terrific, amazing, candid with your answers,
opening up your heart, which is all that we ask.
But at the end of the day, we have to
be someone who is going to be a little bit
closer to the desires of the heart of our main data,
and for that reason alone, the person who will meet
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our main data today.
Speaker 4 (32:15):
It is Jocelin.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Congratulations, Jocelyn, Jessica, my goodness, you are so.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
So kind, so earnest.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
It's been such a joy to listen to you and
watch you connect with a.
Speaker 6 (32:29):
Thank you thank you, thank you, Ni hi yai yai
yai ya.
Speaker 5 (32:36):
How do you feel it was pretty cool to see
both sides. I'm not gonna lie. I feel like I'm
on a dating show.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
Yes, the thing is Johncelyn. It's not the fact that
you came as one contestant or another.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
It is who you are that has gotten you this far.
It is that.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
Beautiful smile, that smart mind, that open heart. That's all
we can say. So I wish you all the best
in this new path.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Absolutely, and Jocelyn, without any further ado, meet Seges. First
impressions on Jocelyn.
Speaker 7 (33:15):
You know you had a really nice smile.
Speaker 8 (33:17):
I really like how you like just showed up smiling,
and I was like there was like adviment there.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
Yes, Joscelyn. First impressions on Seges.
Speaker 5 (33:27):
I think his smile too. I really like his smile.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Yes, yes, amazing.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Now we're gonna send our contestants away for a little
virtual date.
Speaker 4 (33:41):
Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
Really, So what part of Mexico do you usually go to?
Speaker 8 (33:48):
My family Mexico and from my dad's side, Wow.
Speaker 5 (33:53):
Me too, What my mom's side is from Walahada?
Speaker 8 (33:56):
Yeah, that's exactly where my dad's from I was able
to go and I finished college like on this type
program from the Mexican government that they were inviting like
of Mexican descent students out there, and like I spent
like a whole month over there.
Speaker 7 (34:11):
It was really really awesome.
Speaker 5 (34:13):
It was Mexico has my heart.
Speaker 8 (34:16):
Yes for me, it's like to go visit like my
family and like primarily I go to like let's see that.
Speaker 6 (34:25):
But it's just.
Speaker 8 (34:28):
I can never not like go too long from like
not going to Mexico.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
Oh my god, I want to go. This summer is
so bad because I haven't gone in over two years
and I'm just itching to go, you know, but I've
been working so months that i haven't been able to.
Speaker 8 (34:43):
Well if like if you're saying you're a substitute, like
was that I'm like the summers.
Speaker 5 (34:48):
Yeah, but I've been looking to get a summer job.
So yeah, I love Mexico City too. I love for
you to call. She's one of my favorite artists of
all time. And I went to her house and it
was amazing.
Speaker 8 (35:00):
Took me into like my third fourth time that I
went to Mexico to be able to go in because
it was like Sampara Algostava so said the end of that,
I couldn't make it in. So I went it like
kind of towards the telling of the pandemic, and like
my family was tell me, oh, like, this is a
really good time, because a lot of the times it's
so packed that you're not even able to enjoy the museum.
(35:21):
And I was just like okay, and it was like empty,
and I got to like literally like take my time
into her home, like I really really loved it because
she's also one of my favorite artists and oh.
Speaker 5 (35:34):
My god, I feel like we have so much in common.
I need you to show me some good tacos because
I feel like I haven't been good tacos. I am
so biased. My roommates always tell me, they're like, Dulson,
you're so picky. I'm like, no, I'm Mexican.
Speaker 7 (35:47):
Okay, Gomez, like, what is your taco meat?
Speaker 5 (35:51):
I love asala, I love three, I love I love
very like out there meats. I'm not very too much
into like chicken or anything like that.
Speaker 7 (35:59):
I am like, Okay, then I got the spot for you.
Where are you.
Speaker 5 (36:05):
I'm in Tokyo.
Speaker 7 (36:06):
Oh you're not far at all. I got the spot
for you. I'll say, I'll drop my location and we
can meet there. Okay, I know the Tacos spot for you. Okay,
I got you.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Well wow wow wow. I hope those sweeties headed off.
Find us back here next week as Lena and I
make some more matches.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Good work today, Oh we did good.
Speaker 4 (36:38):
I like what I'm looking at.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Date my Awi The First is a production from WV
Sound and I Heard Media's Michaultura podcast network, hosted by
me Vico Ortiz, joined by the fabulous Lena Montenegro. Dait
My Auri the First is produced by Leo Klem, Nico Raquel,
and Sophie Spencer Zavos.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
Our executive producers are Will.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
More Valderelma, Leo Clem and Nico Raguel WV Sound. This
episode was edited by Sean Tracy and Sophie Spencer Zalos
and features original music by Alvara Morello.
Speaker 2 (37:10):
And Gay Lopez.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
Special thanks to our team of cupits at WV Entertainment.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Special thanks also to our.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
Hopeful romantics this week, segar Yes, Jocelyn Alex and Jessica.
Additional thanks to Salt and Lime Media. For more podcasts
from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio, app, Apple podcasts or wherever
you listen to your favorite shows. See you next week,
and in the meantime, don't do anything Awalita wouldn't do.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
Just do it better. Okay, they see those
Elena, would you say you're a little toxica.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm not saying it, I'm just asking.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I really think that we all have that little toxica
in us.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we all have a little toxic and us.
I definitely have my days of being an avoidant THEMBO.
But I'm learning, I'm growing, I'm doing my best, and
that is all that we can ask for exactly.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Thank you, Alita, I really appreciate it. Welcome listeners. This
is date my aw Alita.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
First for our extraordinarily a Wilita Lileana plays matchmaker for
a star main Data. She'll meet three hopeful contestants before
choosing one of them to go on a one on
one date with our main dat. I am your host
Rico or this alongside the always titalating a Elita.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yes I like that.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yes, Well, what do we have to say about Tuxika.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Well, Tuxika is important because our main dater this week
says that because he is not going anywhere, he loves
a little Tuxiga.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Well he sounds like a cat.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
He does, providing some stability while someone else gets to
whip up a little chaos.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
So tell me, I V who is this main dater.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Our main dater this week is Sagarias.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Sagonias is twenty seven and a true Leo at heart.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Sagarias is a.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Brown Angelino born and raised in Northeast Los Angeles.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Fuck yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
He is passionate about education for LGBTQ students and is
looking to pursue his masters in school psychology.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Oh my gosh, that's hot.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
He is very family oriented and his Alita is his
number one.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Oh my god, I love absolutely you do.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
It is a necessity for someone seconds dates to speak Spanish.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Oh my gosh, are you like all the roster?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Now?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Just kidding?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Maybe?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
He says? How will they be able to meet MYA?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Of course I get that you will, like, Sagaria says,
and A good possible.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Yes, He says he doesn't want to be that deal
with the t rex arms.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
He considers himself a serial monogamous, looking for in his words,
more than.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Do you think we can find that today?
Speaker 6 (02:40):
Uo?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Okay, now I'm.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Really excited to meet.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Let's bring in Sagartia's welcome.
Speaker 7 (02:59):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
We're so good, We're so excited and we're so good
to have you here sold in my Hourlida.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
First, obviously we just read a big chunk of your bio,
but we want to hear it from you.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Tell us what Ouralita needs to know to find that
person for you.
Speaker 7 (03:16):
Malita, I call her honey, so she's my honey.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Oh c you.
Speaker 7 (03:21):
I need to be able to bring a girl home.
Speaker 8 (03:22):
To hers or like, you know, have that connection where
it's all three of us and like share me all together.
Like I need someone who's family oriented. I have little
cousins who are my world.
Speaker 7 (03:35):
With my family.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
I love that someone who.
Speaker 8 (03:38):
Can have like jokes and doesn't mind, you know, having
a barbecue on the Saturdays of the family.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
You know, Zacharias, what does it mean?
Speaker 1 (03:46):
More?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Antigo and Tim what does that mean to you?
Speaker 8 (03:49):
I a lot of us. I don't even like calling
them all these like Spanish alldists, but you know when
you hear Hu sing or and all those like old
school artists, and you're just like, I want to feel
that too, but without the like complications of when I'm
on of like the misogyny of like gender roles, and
(04:12):
like those.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Expectations, the little cultural baggage that we take in the
centuries and that we're trying so hard to get rid of.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
If I may ask you, how is.
Speaker 7 (04:22):
My grandma just turned eighty three?
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Oh, blessed, she's.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
Still going strong.
Speaker 8 (04:28):
She goes off on her own to the mall with
like her sister, which is my aunt.
Speaker 7 (04:34):
They call me like at the end of the.
Speaker 9 (04:35):
Day, me, oh, come pick us up in Santa Nita.
Really I go there too, So they're they're always on
the go Savina Centro, Like she goes to Ross on Tuesdays, like, of.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Course we got to get that discount.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yes, that was amazing.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
You said you're a big family guy, So how big
is your family? How many cousins? How often does the
family meet?
Speaker 9 (05:00):
I think the response to that is here or in Mexico.
So here in Mexico, I think we're a little bit
smaller because it's just my grandma and my aunt who
came to the United States, so essentially from their kids
and like the grandkids is what we're like here. But
I would say we're really close to like we're seeing
each other like on the weekends, as my grandma always says,
(05:24):
like we're always just like hang out, we see karaoke, youya,
So like we just like like to hang out family
in Mexico. We're still very close to My grandma was
a total twelve siblings, So.
Speaker 8 (05:45):
Mexico, it's like a constant thing. Always talking to Mithia
is like on FaceTime. Even though we're not like physically close,
I think we're all very close.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
That's lovely.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
As you said, you like a little dog sya guy,
and especially because you're going to stick around. So I
also want to know because you're a true Leo, I'm
wondering what ways you like to be wood and romance,
you know, for that little Leo heart.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
How does that look like?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
You know, I like the chase as a Leo. I
want to hunt my prey in the sense of like
I want God.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I love you said that spicy.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
It's one of those things that like, don't make it
easy for me, Like I want to get to know you.
Speaker 8 (06:29):
I want to, like I said, when I want to
think of like it wasn't easy back then.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
You gotta like work for it.
Speaker 8 (06:35):
You gotta woo her family, you gotta woo her, you
gotta like go the extra.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Mile, send pigeons instead of texts something like that.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
So zech ideas tell us when was your last relationship
and how long did it last?
Speaker 8 (06:51):
I would say it was about nearly a year ago.
It lasted for like about a year.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Then what happened?
Speaker 7 (06:57):
It just kind of came up in conversation that we
wann't looking towards the same future, and so we just thought, well,
then why are we going to continue a relationship if
we're not going to go in.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
The same direction, And how does that direction look like
for you?
Speaker 8 (07:10):
My thing is I want a wife at the end.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
I want to be married.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
I want to experience that, maybe because I see my
aunt my uncle's relationship where I'm like, I want that person.
I want to have that title. I want to be
able to say like, yeah, that's my wife right there.
Speaker 9 (07:27):
What about children, I'm open to children. It's not my
first like yes, okay.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
So I'm open to the idea if we understand what
it means to have a child.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Right right now? You're very close with your family, correct, Yes?
How are you hoping for your partner to fit into
your family life?
Speaker 8 (07:46):
We tell jokes. We're very sarcastic, We're very like a
silly family. I want someone who you know can fit
in with that, who's there for a good time, who
wants to contribute to the conversation, who's engaging.
Speaker 7 (07:59):
I think that's what it's like really important for me.
Speaker 8 (08:01):
Someone who can engage with my family because they're gonna
be there.
Speaker 7 (08:05):
They're gonna be there, They're gonna want to engage.
Speaker 8 (08:07):
They're gonna want to get to know her, you know,
they want to know like her story with her goals.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
So like someone who can like navigate that you know.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Now, I love that you you know you mentioned outgoing,
can engage, can be sarcastic and have jokes and have
a good time. You know, you're thinking of your wife, right,
You're thinking of like someone that you want to be
spending the rest.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Of your life with. And among the many good times
that we have as human.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Beings, there's also times that are not so great, like
conflict there rises. How do you maneuver around that, and
how do you hope your future wife maneuvers around.
Speaker 8 (08:42):
That communication If at the moment you're very upset and
you don't want to talk to me, all right, that's fine.
I don't believe in like brushing things under the carpet,
because then the carpet gets lump and we start tripping.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Mmm.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Mmmmmm. Beautiful.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
And if the argument happen and said the idea, are
willing to give it a break and wait till morning.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Yes, yeah, gorgeous, gorge gorgeous.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
You know I got to give them their space for that.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Yes, it's important.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
What's your love language?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
What type of way do you like to give care
and how do you like to receive care?
Speaker 7 (09:17):
Oh, I'm very much an acts of service.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
You if like it's one of those things where I
need to go do groceries, and I'll be like, well,
then let's go together, or let me let me If
I'm getting out earlier, let me get let me go
do that for you.
Speaker 7 (09:29):
So when you get home that's already taken care of.
Speaker 8 (09:32):
I'm out with family, or if I'm out on my
own and I see something, I'm like, bab I got
you this, I found it, I thought of you. So
for me, I like quality time mm hmm. And I
don't care if we're doing chores.
Speaker 7 (09:47):
I'm good, cute.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
That's how you like to receive ye, right, quality time,
making sure that you're having intentional time that's like just
you and her one on one together.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Be beautiful.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Anything you want to tell us that we don't know
about you that you would like us to know in
order to help us make the decision of who the
right person is.
Speaker 8 (10:05):
I need this person to know what sana sana, Oh my.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Gosh, make sure you put that in the questions.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
I wanted that.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
It is a vital wait. I have a follow up
one with that, because you know you love a little toxica, right,
and oftentimes that could be a red flag for people.
So I want to make sure I have a very
clear definition of what would be a red flag for
you and what's like totally okay for a Toxica to have.
Speaker 8 (10:30):
The main red flag is if the's like kind of
being sneaky about things in the sense of like you're
talking to other people. But I like like the toxica
with the loyaltiness of like it's you and me.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Ay, and then and then the well, thank you so much,
we will say goodbye to you for a little while.
I think Liliana is definitely ready to find someone who
loves your family and can make you.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Laugh and is interested in also settling down.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
We'll be back after the break. Welcome back today, Maya
Wani the first.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Hello contestants. Thank you all for joining us today. We
are so looking forward to getting to know you all. First,
we have Alex.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Alex is a born and raised Angelino. She says she
is an in person type of dater and hates the
texting bullshit.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
You know how I feel about that? I hate it?
Speaker 6 (11:34):
Well you go?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
You have?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
How many dine that?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Alex's green flags are people who go to therapy Yes,
have sub awareness, double yas and good friends around them
at triple yes and good practice and practices good communication
quadriple yeses alright. Then, Alex likes to hang out with
her dog and her family. She's also a four twenty
GIRLI likes to binge, watch TV, and is part of
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Dyke Soccer. Wow, so cool, Hello Alex, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Oh my gosh, amazing a VC.
Speaker 4 (12:07):
Who else?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Who else?
Speaker 9 (12:08):
Come on?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Oh? Next, we have a Jessic Gay.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Jessica is passionate about resilience and works as a case
manager and a nonprofit.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Jessica is looking for a serious relationship and wants that
special someone who is empathetic and shows a lot of compassion.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
Oh my gosh, that's so sweet.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
She's attracted to good talkers yes and says, if you
have a way with words, you can have a way
with me.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Oh my goodness, I'm writing that down.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Yes, make sure you put audiobooks in there, because listen,
people who don't believe in therapy and hey, kids are
red flags for Jessica.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Oh my gosh, Yes, she says.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
She definitely used to fit the stereotype of the uhul lesbian. Oh,
but now she knows to take her time. Welcome, Jessica, Welcome.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
And finally a familiar face.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Jocelyn.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Jocelyn is passionate about the intersection of dating and disability,
and though she has tried every app under the sun,
she used to fulfill the opposite attracts drope and would
date buff I'm going to the gym every hour of
the day, Mexican guys, And while this was a huge
boost to the ego, she is looking for someone more
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compatible now. Joscelyn's Awalita is her platonic life partner, and
anyone who dates her needs Auwalita's stamp of approval above
all else. Two as to impress, Oh my god, we
are so glad to have you, Jocelyn.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
You're so sweet.
Speaker 9 (13:46):
Hi.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
Everyone, I'm so excited to be here.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Bess Bessio's contestants. Well, now I think I have my
work cut out for me today.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Yeah you really do?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
You really really did beautiful.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
With that said, time to get to know you all
a little bed better with our first game. So here's
a little insight into our main data. He is big
on family and recently got Disneyland passes and has been
having fun taking his cousins.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
On all the rides.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
So for this game, we are asking you to tell
us what the name and theme of a new original
Disneyland ride, and here is the scary and thrilling element.
Have it be inspired by your dating life. So, for example,
my ride would be you know those like back and
forth boat style rides that you just have to go
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really high and then go or low and then go back,
and you feel it in the stomach like when you're
going like all the way up and then you're like
feel the pressure going all the way down and then
going all the way up, and I would call it
the balance to avoid poly saturation.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
I'd be like wow, and just like.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
It feels it's very and it's fun because like listen,
that feeling is exciting and then you get ready to
throw up and then you sometimes made me throw up.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Cool, and it is right. What about you?
Speaker 4 (15:11):
What would your right be?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Well, let's talk about it. It's a Wilita's Mountain drop. Okay,
so it drops five times each time in honor of
an eggx.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Oh my god, that's sucking great.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
I love that. Do you want to sort us up? Alex?
What's the name of your ride?
Speaker 10 (15:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (15:34):
I'm a silly swinging girl, So put me on that
high swings, going around having a good time, and then
it's just all fun. I'll be here kicking my feet
little butterflies.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Okay, cute. What about you, Jessica, what's the name of
your ride? And what type of ride is it?
Speaker 6 (15:51):
After much thinking, I think mine would be called the
U haul Launcher.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
The U haul Launcher. Oh my god, that is incorredible.
Why are you the U haul launcher?
Speaker 6 (16:05):
Just from my previous experience as a U hauler, I
think it's only fitting. And you know, the good thing
is you get your copies of keys at the end.
You both get your keys to your house.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
That is amazing. How many times have you you hauled?
Speaker 4 (16:19):
That's the same question twice?
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Here, here, here, here, not to shabby, not to shabby, Justlyn.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
What's the name of your ride?
Speaker 5 (16:28):
Well, I don't know the name yet, but I know
what mixed it would be.
Speaker 7 (16:32):
It wouldn't be a.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
Mix between It's a Small World and Grizzly River.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Wait why Grizzly River?
Speaker 5 (16:39):
Because it starts off really nice and sweet and you know,
a mix of everything, and then it just gets super
super shaky and you just woman at the end.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
It just no, Oh my god, it's just no. It's
just no. Anyway, thank you for share your rights.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
You know, I'm not a rollercroaster person, but I would
go on these rides.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
This is your launcher. I mean I identify with that. That's true.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Awaita has definitely done you all under for sure.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Oh my goodness. Shall we move on to the next game?
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
You know you might not tell by just looking at me,
but I am quite a nerd.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I loved school, and.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
I will consider myself kind of a bit of a scholar,
especially in the subject of love. I'm gonna drop another
little hint about our maindater. He is passionate about education.
So let's picture you are giving a lesson, and especially
a lesson on love. What point are you raising in
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your slide show. And remember this needs to be an
engaging lesson, so you have to keep the class paying attention,
so feel free to throw in anecdotal evidence. Lenna and
I will begin the lesson.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Lenna, let's class turn to page seventeen in the textbook
of Abuelita and please read the title of the chapter.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Remember to keep an open heart and mind.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
That is a critical lesson.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
What about my lesson?
Speaker 4 (18:15):
I can't wait to hear it.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Lessen number sixty nine, How to sixty nine a deep
study and kind of lingis you know something like that? Come?
Speaker 4 (18:29):
Oh, Willita, I'm there, I'm just teasing.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Now.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Should we hear about what these skilled teachers have to say? Absolutely,
let's find out.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
Alex. Will you start us off?
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Yes, what's your lesson?
Speaker 11 (18:39):
Let's your lesson?
Speaker 7 (18:40):
To to too?
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Yes?
Speaker 10 (18:42):
Alignment?
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Okay, and then like.
Speaker 11 (18:45):
Self love, but like how to really please yourselves?
Speaker 1 (18:48):
How to really please yourself as in like self pleasure? Yes,
tell me more. I want to dive in.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
That's the whole point.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
You want to dive in?
Speaker 7 (18:56):
Right?
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Yes, absolutely, this is very interesting, very.
Speaker 10 (19:01):
Much fore play very important with even with yourself, you know,
a little works of affirmation, get yourself going a little
stimulated dive into the self love and then just make
yourself feel good here here.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
That's an A plus for Alex, A plus amazing.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
I'm giving grades, and let me tell you one thing.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
I just so agree with that because like me, A
Wilita is single, but she I have a lot of sex.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
There's just nobody there, so we're gonna go on with it.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
But you are there.
Speaker 4 (19:30):
I am there, and I love studying there.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
You go nothing just like looking at America. Things are
happening anyway, Just justlyn. What's your lesson?
Speaker 5 (19:42):
My lesson is lesson one four three, which, as I
love you and a calculator, is love yourself first and
then love the other person, because then if you don't
love yourself, how are you gonna love somebody else or
care for somebody else?
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Here here?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Oh my gosh, I love all this like self love,
Oh so much love, Jessica, what's your lesson?
Speaker 6 (20:04):
So I'm going to go with a lesson on and
I don't have a good little title, so let's just
put like lessons sixty nine. As you said, yes, let's
say five love languages, a lesson on cordial languages.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Love it?
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Can you share one.
Speaker 6 (20:23):
So there is gifts, acts of service, which is definitely mine,
physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Yes, very nice, we love those.
Speaker 4 (20:35):
There's a good ones serve. You just taught us a lot.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Specially y'all are fabulous educators.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Unfortunately, one of these incredible, hilarious, charming contestants will not
be able to continue with us.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Who aa is.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Not moving on? Tough choice.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
You are each amazing young women with so much to
offer a possible partner. Thank you for being with us
on Date Mali the first. And I really really hope
that the person leaving us will find that special person
in your life very very soon.
Speaker 4 (21:15):
The person leaving us right now is Alex. Alex.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
I am so sad to see you go.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Thank you for your energy, your earnestness, your humor.
Speaker 7 (21:28):
Thanks so much for having me.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
We'll be back after the break. Welcome back to Day
my holily the first.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
Congratulations to our final two contestants. Welcome to the next
round of Day the first, which is a very intimate,
it's mostly holy, the asking more deep dive intimate questions
to see if one of you onlines the.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Most with our main dater.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Let's start with Jessica Welcome to Auriita Sala Cosina. I
have a piping cup of hot caffee to half with.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
Just do you and no, I need that they get away?
Speaker 4 (22:14):
No, how are you, Jessica?
Speaker 6 (22:16):
I am good now, I really want though.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
Let's talk a little bit about Jessica's love life.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
When was your last relationship?
Speaker 6 (22:27):
My last relationship was about four months.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Ago and it lasted how long?
Speaker 6 (22:33):
It lasted? About two months?
Speaker 4 (22:36):
Maybe?
Speaker 3 (22:37):
So most of your relationships in the past few years
have they just been short relationships?
Speaker 6 (22:42):
I've had the majority of them, sure, but I have
had a couple that definitely were more longer. My first
relationship was the U haul one, and that was with
a girl on Tumblr when Tumblr was a thing, and
we even got engaged after three months, so.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
I know that feeling We've done it, been there, done that.
So what happened? What broke it?
Speaker 6 (23:07):
We're very young, We're like nineteen twenty. Our lives were
very different. She lived in a different state, so it
was long distance. I think all those factors. Really it
was amicable though.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
That's nice. So you are ready for a long term relationship?
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (23:24):
And what are your biggest green flags?
Speaker 6 (23:26):
I love someone that can communicate that is one of
the things I've always wanted. I'm a really good communicator
because I put in the work, just past experience, therapy
all that. I mean, I really am big on communication.
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Are you looking for marriage? Actually yes, yeah?
Speaker 3 (23:44):
What are the qualities you want in that particular person
to share life with besides the communication factor, which is essential?
Speaker 6 (23:52):
Someone patient in kind? No, I think that's the biggest one.
Speaker 4 (23:57):
Okay, do you have an Awolita you're closed to?
Speaker 1 (24:00):
I do.
Speaker 6 (24:01):
My Aalita lives maybe like twenty minutes from here, but
I try to go see her every other week and
she basically raised me, so.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
So you're very close to her.
Speaker 6 (24:11):
Oh yeah, I mean we grew up in a big
Mexican family, so it's a terribles all the time.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
There was a lot of chobout at them Bandulus every
day in a little shot at tequila at the end,
just to kick the warm.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
Thank you so much, Jessica, Jocelyn, Hello, welcome back.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
So this is kind of fun because we've had a bit.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Of a one on one with you on another episode,
so this is gonna be an interesting type of one
on one. It's actually just gonna be you and Awlita.
So I got the hot coffee, ready to drag and roll.
Speaker 4 (24:44):
Ala they get away. Oh are you, my love?
Speaker 6 (24:47):
I'm good?
Speaker 7 (24:47):
Who are you?
Speaker 3 (24:48):
You're just so amazing that beautiful smile that just brightens
the whole screen.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
You really are a lovely lady.
Speaker 7 (24:55):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
Talk to me like if we didn't know each other,
what's going on with your love life?
Speaker 5 (25:01):
What can I tell you?
Speaker 6 (25:02):
Well?
Speaker 7 (25:05):
This is not your fault.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
You know, I keep just getting ghosted and like I
have these like conversations that are like so dry and
on like dating sites, and I just I just want
to delete it. I'm a very like quote unquote traditional person,
and I really wanted to meet someone in real life.
I told my roommate once, I'm like, I wish I
could meet someone in a museum. We can talk about
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a painting and just click. I didn't want to download
any apps because I didn't want that. I didn't want
to say to someone, Oh where did I meet this person? Oh?
I met them online? No, I met them at a museum,
or I met them at an ice cream shop or
wherever it may be. But yeah, I just want someone
that we're gonna like click, you know. I want someone
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that I can be my own person with and we
can be a couple together where our own personalities. You're
going to be different from each other or the same,
but we're still gonna click.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
You know.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
I want my own thing, and then I want them
to have their own thing, and I want us to
have something together. I think it's all about compromise for me,
Like I told you guys, like love for me is
a hard topic, but I'm ready for that. I've worked
a lot to be where I am where I am
finally ready to find that person that I want to
spend you know, potentially for the long haul. Like you
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guys know, my family is important to me. My grandmother
she is, She's everything to me.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
Oh you're so beautiful, Jocelyn. The main dater is sitting
right next to me. Tell him what you are offering.
Speaker 5 (26:36):
I'm offering a companion that it's compassionate, it's willing to grow,
it's willing to experiment things together. I am very open
with my sexuality, as you guys know, because I had
to be because of my disability, because I needed to
find who I was as a person in relationship and
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sexually as well. Like I just offer that to a person,
openness and communication. If they can give me that, I
can give my own.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
Into it and beauty because that you are.
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Thank you, Thank you, my love, thank you for your
beautiful answers.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Jocelyn, obviously you know what we're about to say next,
that the main data has been here all along, as
you were last time, so you know that's been happening.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
So we tend to pretend to be just kidding. Let's
bring in Jessica for the secret. Welcome back. Thank you,
Thank you so much to the both of you for playing.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
You are both just such romantics at heart, charming I know,
my goodness. Unfortunately, only one of you will be able
to move on to go on a date with our men.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
What happened? You're forgetting?
Speaker 1 (27:52):
Oh shit, yeah, so we have a secret that we
have been keeping, so to you, both, lovely humans. Our
main data has actually been listening this whole time from
the start. He's been looking at y'all, listening at y'all,
taking notes, and Uha might have an idea of who
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she likes for our main dater.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
But we're gonna talk. We're gonna talk a little bit.
Speaker 1 (28:19):
Before we make the final decision. So to both of you,
we're gonna ask you for a quick exit, and we'll
bring back our main contestant.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
This is tough.
Speaker 4 (28:34):
This is very tough.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
They're both very wonderful and.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
Thoughtful, and they both have a lot in common with Yes,
and I think our main data is gonna have to
help us with the tiebreaker.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
All right, So Sagar, this is when gets like, way,
I gotta choose so many wonderful.
Speaker 7 (28:56):
People at I could only afford one wire.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Fair in this economy, I feel that, y, no, you
can afford many.
Speaker 8 (29:11):
What I heard like what Johnson was saying about like
I want to meet someone in person of like let's
meet at museum and like go through the museum and
through the museum like get to know each other, like
looking at art and everything. I was just like, That's
what I've always said, I want to meet someone in person,
like organically you want to vibe with them and see,
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like what do you have to offer? And with her
talking about compassion and like wanting to like communicate and openness,
like that was like really really.
Speaker 7 (29:41):
Like wow, I like that. I really like that.
Speaker 8 (29:45):
But with like Jessica, you know, I like how she
was like I guess like her method of like falling
in love has just been hard and quick and we'll
figure it out.
Speaker 7 (29:53):
The U haul situations, she can.
Speaker 8 (29:56):
Realize, like, you know what, now I want to take
it a step back and I live that, like, let's
love hard and I forget about the world.
Speaker 7 (30:03):
So I'm just like, that's hard for she, Like also
was I talking about.
Speaker 4 (30:06):
Like she's also come a long ways from that.
Speaker 8 (30:09):
Yeah, and so it's just like because I was once
there where I was just like love heart and fast
and then we'll figure it out. I don't know, I
find it really hard. I'm gonna need your like expertise
in there.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
So you would be happy with either of these beautiful women.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
Yeah, okay, thank you so much. You're so close to me,
Moya me.
Speaker 4 (30:35):
It's happening.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Let's bring in Jolin and Jessica for the verdict before
we share the final decision. The verdict, I'm gonna just
sing a song. It's not gonna influence anything, but it's
it's truly for ships and giggles.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Is it a song? I don't even know. It's not.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
It's more like a saying yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
So so here it goes like this, Sana Sana Gorlita,
Na Sino son.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Now what comes up? For y'all. When you hear that, Jocelyn,
vix vapor mix, vapor up.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Goodness, nice, nice, nice.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
It can do anything, it can heal just about anything, truly, My.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
Goodness, What about you, Jessica, What does it come up?
What comes up with you when you hear that?
Speaker 6 (31:27):
When I would fall when I was little, and my
would come up to me and say that to me
and just be like, you're fine now, by.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Incredible, incredible, Thank you both so much for answering that.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
I love it. Yeah, that's Sana is gonna be.
Speaker 4 (31:45):
Yeah, it's it's a good one.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Without further ado, Alida, you want to get away.
Speaker 3 (31:50):
You have both been so terrific, amazing, candid with your answers,
opening up your heart, which is all that we ask.
But at the end of the day, we have to
be someone who is going to be a little bit
closer to the desires of the heart of our main data,
and for that reason alone, the person who will meet
(32:10):
our main data today.
Speaker 4 (32:15):
It is Jocelin.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Congratulations, Jocelyn, Jessica, my goodness, you are so.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
So kind, so earnest.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
It's been such a joy to listen to you and
watch you connect with a.
Speaker 6 (32:29):
Thank you thank you, thank you, Ni hi yai yai
yai ya.
Speaker 5 (32:36):
How do you feel it was pretty cool to see
both sides. I'm not gonna lie. I feel like I'm
on a dating show.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
Yes, the thing is Johncelyn. It's not the fact that
you came as one contestant or another.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
It is who you are that has gotten you this far.
It is that.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
Beautiful smile, that smart mind, that open heart. That's all
we can say. So I wish you all the best
in this new path.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Absolutely, and Jocelyn, without any further ado, meet Seges. First
impressions on Jocelyn.
Speaker 7 (33:15):
You know you had a really nice smile.
Speaker 8 (33:17):
I really like how you like just showed up smiling,
and I was like there was like adviment there.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
Yes, Joscelyn. First impressions on Seges.
Speaker 5 (33:27):
I think his smile too. I really like his smile.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Yes, yes, amazing.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Now we're gonna send our contestants away for a little
virtual date.
Speaker 4 (33:41):
Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
Really, So what part of Mexico do you usually go to?
Speaker 8 (33:48):
My family Mexico and from my dad's side, Wow.
Speaker 5 (33:53):
Me too, What my mom's side is from Walahada?
Speaker 8 (33:56):
Yeah, that's exactly where my dad's from I was able
to go and I finished college like on this type
program from the Mexican government that they were inviting like
of Mexican descent students out there, and like I spent
like a whole month over there.
Speaker 7 (34:11):
It was really really awesome.
Speaker 5 (34:13):
It was Mexico has my heart.
Speaker 8 (34:16):
Yes for me, it's like to go visit like my
family and like primarily I go to like let's see that.
Speaker 6 (34:25):
But it's just.
Speaker 8 (34:28):
I can never not like go too long from like
not going to Mexico.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
Oh my god, I want to go. This summer is
so bad because I haven't gone in over two years
and I'm just itching to go, you know, but I've
been working so months that i haven't been able to.
Speaker 8 (34:43):
Well if like if you're saying you're a substitute, like
was that I'm like the summers.
Speaker 5 (34:48):
Yeah, but I've been looking to get a summer job.
So yeah, I love Mexico City too. I love for
you to call. She's one of my favorite artists of
all time. And I went to her house and it
was amazing.
Speaker 8 (35:00):
Took me into like my third fourth time that I
went to Mexico to be able to go in because
it was like Sampara Algostava so said the end of that,
I couldn't make it in. So I went it like
kind of towards the telling of the pandemic, and like
my family was tell me, oh, like, this is a
really good time, because a lot of the times it's
so packed that you're not even able to enjoy the museum.
(35:21):
And I was just like okay, and it was like empty,
and I got to like literally like take my time
into her home, like I really really loved it because
she's also one of my favorite artists and oh.
Speaker 5 (35:34):
My god, I feel like we have so much in common.
I need you to show me some good tacos because
I feel like I haven't been good tacos. I am
so biased. My roommates always tell me, they're like, Dulson,
you're so picky. I'm like, no, I'm Mexican.
Speaker 7 (35:47):
Okay, Gomez, like, what is your taco meat?
Speaker 5 (35:51):
I love asala, I love three, I love I love
very like out there meats. I'm not very too much
into like chicken or anything like that.
Speaker 7 (35:59):
I am like, Okay, then I got the spot for you.
Where are you.
Speaker 5 (36:05):
I'm in Tokyo.
Speaker 7 (36:06):
Oh you're not far at all. I got the spot
for you. I'll say, I'll drop my location and we
can meet there. Okay, I know the Tacos spot for you. Okay,
I got you.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Well wow wow wow. I hope those sweeties headed off.
Find us back here next week as Lena and I
make some more matches.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Good work today, Oh we did good.
Speaker 4 (36:38):
I like what I'm looking at.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Date my Awi The First is a production from WV
Sound and I Heard Media's Michaultura podcast network, hosted by
me Vico Ortiz, joined by the fabulous Lena Montenegro. Dait
My Auri the First is produced by Leo Klem, Nico Raquel,
and Sophie Spencer Zavos.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
Our executive producers are Will.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
More Valderelma, Leo Clem and Nico Raguel WV Sound. This
episode was edited by Sean Tracy and Sophie Spencer Zalos
and features original music by Alvara Morello.
Speaker 2 (37:10):
And Gay Lopez.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
Special thanks to our team of cupits at WV Entertainment.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Special thanks also to our.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
Hopeful romantics this week, segar Yes, Jocelyn Alex and Jessica.
Additional thanks to Salt and Lime Media. For more podcasts
from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio, app, Apple podcasts or wherever
you listen to your favorite shows. See you next week,
and in the meantime, don't do anything Awalita wouldn't do.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
Just do it better. Okay, they see those
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