EP 426: No Holes Barred

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say
decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsty.
You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
Oh wait, you want to say together the Decisions Decisions.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
The book is out. The book is out. Maybe you
can now go get no holes barre. It is available.
We have made it to that day. We're literally on
the day of recording.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
You guys know this is not our jam, but we
have been flying and traveling so much it was only
right to do a super fresh episode only a day late.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
But it's such a special day for us.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
I think one of the biggest days, if not the
biggest day of our entire careers. A friend of mine
sent us the photo in Calabasas.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
First of all, we've been puffing all these black old stores.
Tell of what calabas Lets put our motherfucker book on
the shelf early and they're not the white got a
goddamn book out. First of all, I was like, who's
tricking on you? In Calaba's death that I really wanted
to know what you lived at Calabs.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
But it was amazing to see and it was like, yeah,
it was right in the front. And I always when
I go to a bookstore and I'll see the books
in the fight, I always wonder, why, oh who are they?
Is a special so it'll be so cool to just
see everybody's share and please we're reposting like we are
re close when you walk in a store and see
it tag us, because it's surreal to me, Like I

(01:27):
I don't know. I never really thought for a second
when we were writing the book that I could just
be walking in and grabbing it and taking photos where
they're like having a tangible thing in my hand. I
didn't actually see it the hard copy until Mandy came
to the South of France and we just yeah, we
just left can Lions. It's Can, y'all. I know y'all
haven't seen everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
It is not Con.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
It is not Kansa. It's not Cannics.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
It is Can. I think it might not Gone. It's
not Cone. It's not Cone. It's not gone An. When
French people say, they don't say can no, it's can Lions.

Speaker 3 (01:59):
It's can't. Oh they can? You know, I don't know
how did friend we listen?

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Friends is like my least favorite place, but the South
of France is one of my favorite places to go,
but I think it's only because it's full of Americans
that week. So I had a wonderful time. Tuesday, I
brought the book because we had dinner with our iHeart family.
It was all the exacts. Black Effect was there, so
Dolly and Charlemagne was there, Malcolm Gladwell was there, quest

(02:28):
Love was there. Shout out to them, and we was there.
How we got to invite y'all. Listen, we were negroes
and half I say that.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
They said, hey not just bring one and they put
us in, you know, all together. But it was crazy
just to think these are the people that are being
celebrated with iHeart just this.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
You know. It was a very small dinner.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
It wasn't like they were honoring all of iHeart shit
last clone, no, no, no, no, it was.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
It was two tables and we was a part of them.
Two tables. It was a good time. I brought the book.
It was Weezy's first time seeing the hardcover, like, and
it's really dope. Our pictures bitch right down in the bag.
It's cute or whatever. So I brought it and Weezy
got to see it for the first time. We ended
up uh being able to talk about like just what

(03:11):
it was like writing the book and weasy and true
weezy fashion brought my future wife up with us. If
y'all my future wife, let me tell y'all a story
we ain't never heard of one. No, let let me
let me tell y'all a story. And I'm not a
lot of Latino puss. I am gonna share love latinas

(03:33):
I love women I date. The only type of woman
I haven't been with was a white woman. I feel
like that's literally it. I haven't been with a white woman.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
I have been with a lot of motherfucker carry.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
I loved in Miami. Okay, carry on, man, listen, I'm
actually gonna share a story because I have a question.
So I'm gonna share the Latino puss that I had
in Miami one time that didn't make the book. Anyways.
So we get into the iHeart Cafe, I'm talking with everyone.
I go to set the book down because we have
a signed seating. So I go to set the book
down and all my way back to go join Will

(04:06):
and Charlotte, Dolly, Me and Eva catch eye mind you.
Eva's talking to like a group of people. Eva is,
by the way, gorgeous. So literally I'm walking back and
I had to pass Eva. Me and Eva lock eyes.
Then she stops talking to the people and it's like,
oh my god, hey, bitch embraces me, and I was like,

(04:28):
does she see my clip online? Does she know who
I am? Or she just gonna do that. I'm like,
do you love me? No, I'm not gonna lie. Normally
were we these like everyone's flirting with her, bitch. I
don't care how if she was or not. I'm saying
evil on Glory was flirting with me. So anyway, she
goes and she embraces me and gives me a hug,
and she's like, so good to see you. And I
was like, bitch, good to see you. Okay, I just

(04:48):
say it like that, but I just smiled. I was nice.
So as soon as I leave her, bitch, you would
have thought I just met god bitch, I was like,
my heart was beating like a little fast, and I
was like, so you're a little social hold on, she's thumping,
heart pumping. So I go over to Charla and I'm like,
I want her, I said, and she knows me. Don't

(05:08):
know how she knows me or don't know if she
was just being nice, but she stopped talking to the
people embraced me, and I was like, I didn't know
I loved evil loungorid like this, I ain't gonna hold you.

Speaker 3 (05:17):
She had that energy. She had that energy.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
So anyways, I go and I'm like, y'all, I'm sliding
in them gms. When I tell you, Charlotte. Everyone was like,
don't you do that. I was like, don't you slide
on her? Dem don't And I was like, could I
do it, just real nicely, like let me do it.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
He's like, don't slide in evil Loungaria DM.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
I said, fine.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
So we're the last to speak at this I Heeart dinner.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
And we go up.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'm holding the book and I immediately go.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
And shout out that I don't that it's fucked them
kids for life. This is mine. He was speech in
front of all the execs and everything, and I pretty
much shout out Charlamagne for being my baby daddy. I
guess we're kind of in a thruffle cause I'm like, Charlot,
I don't want kids, but you allowing us on this
journey to write a book. This is now my baby,
this is my legacy, and I want to thank you.
So we start talking about the book.

Speaker 2 (06:04):
We might as well have been sexy read the second
we started talking about so we're like, we're like, ooh,
it's ronchy is this? So Will asked the question and
we reposed a question. Weezy said, here's a good question
to ask us. If anybody could read the book, who
would you want to read it? So Weezy go ahead
and share your part. So while we're up there, we're

(06:24):
basically speaking to people in between courses. So as each
course come out, they have like a different piece of
I heart talent coming out. So Malcolm spoke, Quest spoke,
Charlis poke, and then white folks and then us. So
once I get up there, I said, well, even though
I would love to see Malcolm Gladwell's face reading the
world word pussy out of our book, I'm going to

(06:45):
go with Eva Longoria because I read once in an
article that she said she was irritated that men don't
know how to please women.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
But she looked like I said, and I said, smile.
She smiled. Maybe she's like maybe I said that, And
I was like, yeah, I love her to read our book.
So she gets off, she get up. We don't know
she she gets up and comes and joins us. I've
just met, Like, oh, well, we'll get you a book, girl. No.
She she stands up, smiling and joins us in front

(07:14):
of everyone, and here go Weezy impum two. If you've
been listening to the pod anytime we had a guest,
Weezy was like, pick a number from zero two, so no,
from one to three hundred, and she's like, okay, Eva
Longoria says fifteen. I was like, I don't think. I
don't think anyone has picked a number that long. Fifteen

(07:36):
is like yeah.

Speaker 4 (07:37):
I was like, oh, I hope, I said, it's usually
forty plus.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
You know, it's crazy. So that's when I as soon
as she says fifteen, I was like.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
Let me read you what's on page fifteen, y'all, which,
by the way, the start of page fifteen was a
dud for a second.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
Oh no, no, no, no. First words.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
The first words.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
The first words are the only thing that can seal
me up. And I was like, okay, this is about
to turn up. So then we try to find, you know,
obviously a good entry point for it. So I'm like, okay, Eva,
this is about masturbation. Masturbation can release sexual tension. That's
what she That's what she read. No, so you were
at something said dump the thumb thump is now the

(08:18):
sound of my heart pounding after I've come.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
This is what she read alone and satisfy.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
Satisfied tells you this is when people starting to take
their phones out.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Bro. So she literally is is thump thump thumping. Like
reading that sentence, Eva goes, oh my god, let me read.
So Luckily there's those bullet points. And so in front
of all these execs, we have Eva Longoria read the
benefits of masturbation at dinner. It was so good. It
came up to shar and I said, do you remember

(08:47):
when you sniffed j Low's chair? Oh god, that's how
I feel.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
Mike was right there, I know, he was like, wait,
we got to get into some key that happened and
can I wasn't really a part of it, but we
saw in the breakfast the whole thing with Blake Lee Thornton.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Oh. I just talked to Sean about my thoughts on it.
But I know that's your friends, so it will be nice.
So because I was like, oh no, he didn't. I didn't.

Speaker 3 (09:09):
We should talk about that etiquette too, because I think
he was wrong.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
You feel listen to that situation, I don't think. Oh okay,
so let's talk about it.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
So we're head that doesn't know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
So I don't know him well, but I'm a fan
and I actually wanted to produce his pod back in
the day. We were gonna makebe figure out if he
would make a solo one. Now shout out to Blakelee Thornton.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
He's a really dope influencer and he covered the met
gala carpet. That's how a lot of people recently found him. So,
uh shared a store. We were supposed to do their
pod now was week that was whose podcast it was?
So I don't know him. So long story short. We
are hanging out on Wednesday night and can club. Oh no.

(09:51):
His wife was like, I can't never get him to
go out, but he might go to a dec D
Nights party.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
I'm like, fuck it, let's go out. We meet up
with Debbie's Brown birthday. Should we have a little dinner.
We walk across the street to Club Quarantine, which d
Nice does every year in Dan and basically he redes
his thing.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
He did on IG. When we first walked in, it
was a little bit oldheadish. It was like just oldies.
I will say. Mary J. Blige walked in and that
did pique my interest. I was like, oh, but it
was just like you know, but then it started getting
young and cool. So for some reason, for some reason,
people were being brought to different tables. JB.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
Smooth or No One. If you don't know who that is,
he was in, curb your enthusiasm.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
He's black, dude.

Speaker 2 (10:31):
People brought someone brought Lucky Day, Steve Stout came over.
People kept being brought to Charlotte's section. Now, everything during
Canned Week is this long in the week is free
except for bottle service. But all the cocktails were free, right.

Speaker 1 (10:48):
But not bottle service. So that it's very it's very
important it is. But I don't know if I would
have known that. So let me elaborate. Blakely did not
walk into the section. He was brought into the section. Blakelee,
by the way, is a man. Just want to add
that context. He was brought into the section. Again.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
I don't know why that was happening. He's not lying
about that. Now, me and Nina Park are sitting together.
We're saying, hey, we're chatting it out with Blakelee. Whatever
bottles come out.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
I didn't see this.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
I'm repeating what I heard what Charlotte name Blakeley said
on their instagram. Huh, Charlotte does buy bottles of Dom,
and I remember he came over to me.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
He goes, what do you want to drink three at
twenty hundred dollars a piece? Yes, he said, do you
want vodka ort tequila? I said, I'm not drinking as
a matter of fact, because my man wants tequila. But
don't even buy anything. We'll go to the bar. It's free.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
He just gets the Dom for him, Dolly and his wife.
Blakelee has a toast with everybody. I don't see this
because I really think Crystal Waters was on and I
was in my household. So i get on my phone
still in France, and I'm seeing Charlotte. Man hit me
like I'm homophobic now, and I'm like, yes, what's going on?

(12:08):
So Blake Lee basically is like Charlotte said to me,
you know you're drinking my bottles?

Speaker 1 (12:13):
Dog and Blake Lee was wearing thigh high boots.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Yep, they were flat, they weren't heels, and he said
he was being homophobic for doing that.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
I hated that. Then he said shout out and I
was like, ah, So Charlotte responded on the Bronx, No,
I'm brilliant Idiots club.

Speaker 2 (12:35):
I watched a breakfast I watched his brilliant idiots, he
said with justin envy and baby gave me doc here
of the day. It wasn't like a dog. I don't
think it was doc here the day. But he was like,
how am I homophobic?

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Et cetera. I agree. Blakelee hit me like, yo, are
you good? Like are we good? Or over this?

Speaker 4 (12:52):
I'm like, it was a breakfast court, breakfast club court,
that's court, all right, okay?

Speaker 1 (12:57):
And I'm like yeah, I mean, I think he was joking,
but it didn't come off funny because char really didn't
know him at the time, and it got really awkward
in this whole exchange. Now, while he was there, I
will say there were maybe fifty other people that came.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
People were walking in and out of Charlemagne's section, maybe
not fifty, maybe twenty, but anyone of influenced. I guess
they just kept getting sent over to the celebrity tables,
and so I really will stand on believing he thought
the bottle was free. However, I don't think that makes
Charlot homophobe, even if it was a joke, for being like,

(13:36):
I don't think it's ever a joke the contact someone
there maybe only were eight people in the section, so
the segment was not my thing.

Speaker 1 (13:44):
My thing. There is club etiquette. This is Charlemagne's table.
Charlemagne is a man. Whether you are gay, straight, yellow, purple, whatever,
if you are a man, you should not be reaching
into another man's bottles pouring your own drink without putting in. Oh,
I don't even think it's a man. Excuse me. Nope,
don't agree. I think fuck putting in.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
If you're gonna be at someone's table, I don't give
a fucking fee. The baddest visial world you ask, can
I make myself a cocktail?

Speaker 1 (14:13):
No? Either either or yet not speaking is awkward, and
I think that that's the thing on brilliant idiots. He
led to the fact that even him saying your name
on the clip, Charlotte man was like, we didn't even
introduce me to this guy. He comes over and is
the as they're doing the toes Charlotte's, Like the waitress
asked if it's okay for a drink, he said yeah.

(14:34):
He he told him this is my bottle, a after
he reached to make his own drink, which I agree, like, bro,
if you don't know nobody at this table, like you
just reached him making your own eye and that's the thing, right.

Speaker 2 (14:47):
I think he thought, I'm going to say this, and
I don't know Blakely well, but I'm going to assume
because I can't see why he made that comment otherwise.
I think he thought all of the celebs were getting
sat together, and I think he thought there's charlott and
Nina Parker, and I.

Speaker 1 (15:02):
Think he and he got brought into it. He did
not jump in there to say, hey to me, your Nina.
At the end of the day, he a goofy ass,
goof leaning into homophobia and making that a comment because
the man said, hey, brother, that's my bottle. It wasn't.
He didn't call you out your name, He didn't sit
here and say you couldn't be here because of your sexuality.

(15:24):
I think that it's very irresponsible to start labeling people
in that manner, especially when you went a club and hey, brother,
the Saint Shoe bottle, it's mine. And it's funny because
talking to Charlamagne at the breakfast club, he was like, bro,
I didn't even know how expensive the bottles were. He
said they were twenty four hundred yuo. So it was
easily about a seven eight thousand dollars check for three bottles.

(15:46):
And he was like, man, well, I'm here now, I'm
celebrating Debbie's birthday, and so I just thank it, you know,
I just think I just think the labeling of him
as a homophone like and that that's unfortunately what makes
this space kind of difficult, Like there are a lot
of black men, Charlotte being one who's very inclusive and

(16:08):
welcoming to all people, so you don't want to like
put out that narrative, even even the cloth that he's
getting like like around it. I just hate that his
his thing was to lean into the homophones. A twenty
eight hundred dollars bottle, by the way, bruh, dog bruh.

Speaker 3 (16:24):
Charlie got it.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
Rich as I think it's a fair the.

Speaker 3 (16:26):
Fair, like, hey, my brother, this is my bottle.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
Yeah, it's weird. I'm looking at every ounce of that.
I said, I feel really embarrassed. I really wouldn't ever
bring someone in your section section. I said, this is
my next thing. Oh my god, not you, and just
getting attacked primly. Oh, I'm not gonna lie. It's so funny.
Alex is a great point. Hey, Alex, I'm Brilliant.

Speaker 3 (16:46):
Idiots Alex Mark.

Speaker 1 (16:48):
When I saw him say Charlaonmae's I'm like, I want
now you gotta go breakfast club. Now, you guys, you
gotta you gotta get on your partner. Alex was on
Brilliant Idiots talking about well, he's saying he cool with Weezy.
That means Weezy need to put on that bottle.

Speaker 3 (17:00):
Go ahead of send we the invoice for a portion
of that bottle. That's what Alex said.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
Friend, So Alex said, go ahead of charge. That was man. Yeah,
but bro find it out water bottles all night and
I was dancing for four hours. Please, but I'll say this,
I said. I me and Blakely were talking and I
was like, listen.

Speaker 2 (17:19):
I was like, Charla Way is feeling hurt because he
really is not that nigga. And I said, but I
do think you should send bottles to Charlemagne on some
drake shit.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Oh yeah, that he should.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
And I think like, look, I've been a fan of
his content for maybe two or three years, and then
the look as though I think he could get it
for about one hundred and fifty.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
Oh he should go ahead of the dog and the
hook of the whole bottle.

Speaker 2 (17:38):
So I think people can miss, and I think that
one just happened to be a miss because all of
his content hits for me, he'd be calling out the
White House.

Speaker 1 (17:47):
He does a very good job at calling out who
needs to be called out. But that joke just didn't
land because I really don't think she is that nigga.
He asked, why are you leading into it being a joke?
It's a joke. He seemed offended, and he called a
man homophobic. I don't think that was a joke. I mean,
I'm hoping it was a joke, okay, because I don't.
I wouldn't have spoken because he made the dawn joke.

(18:10):
You know, I'm i sss upbout his boots and I'm
just like, maybe that was it, but okay, So here
I do want to talk about the free ship in
Can a little bit because at one point, bitch, there
was a whole day. I haven't had a day in
a while, and I challenge everyone to do this day.
I talk about this in our master class, which you
can go get. It's free if you ordered the book
before July.

Speaker 2 (18:30):
First you need to try to have a zero dollar
spend day. I was able to do it in Campo
Holy multiple days.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
First of all, we got to Friday and I said,
I've been here since Monday in Can because I spent
two days the niece. Literally we got to Thursday and
I was like, bro, we may have paid for two meals, drinks, meals, everything.

Speaker 2 (18:53):
Its basically just taking over every single portion of the beach,
taking over a restaurant and point.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
IHeart the iHeart cafe. I'm thinking it's just the dinner
Mandy night rat when I walk back in there.

Speaker 2 (19:06):
Nope, stays all day, all day. And when a check
didn't come, my nigga looking at me, he said, hold on,
let's go. And actually we do want to representde it.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
I don't want house to get I got it again, nigga,
I couldn't believe it. I did want to talk about
this little moment I had in Germany. So I told you,
I don't know if I told you in person that
I saw Old Day in Europe the first time in
two years. I'm gonna do a little solo episode on
Patreon because we need that catch up Nigga him giving
Miami and a hug and saying, treat her well. We'll

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Speaker 3 (21:36):
Connecting changes everything Well.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
I wanted to do a quick story about getting to
can because while these white prices are pricing, while the
weather is weathering, while we may be entering World War
three and don't have access to go to other countries.
Because she keep getting on the band list. So y'all
know I're living Atlanta now, and so I was like, oh, okay,

(22:01):
where normally I got to add on the tail in
last year, I had it on the tail end and
didn't say Trumpe and was like, ooh, well, this year
I had to come back because I had to host
Juneteenth on the East Shout out to JB, shout out
to the entire city of Oklahoma City, like it was
really dope. And now y'all are NBA champs as well. Ay,
And so literally I'm like, okay, I'm gonna leave Thursday.

(22:27):
I'm gonna get to Nice on Friday, so I have
a day in Nice and then Saturday I'm gonna do
a Dan Monaco and then I had to can on Sunday. Y'all.
I get to the airport. My flight is at eight
fifty pm on Thursday. It gets it gets good, It
gets good. This is a script. Okay, I'm gonna make
this into a fucking sketch comedy. If Kemp Pill was

(22:50):
still on, I'd be like, hey, guys, I got one
for you. So I get a direct flight from Atlanta
to Nise. Not sure how I was like, oh, thank God,
because I did not want to do all the la
in Europe. So I get a direct flight from Atlanta
Tonise leaving Thursday, getting in Friday at noon. I said,
this is perfect. So I get to the airport, get
there a little early because my luggage is heavy. I'm

(23:10):
bringing books. It's fucking it's I'm like, this is a heavy,
goddamn luggage. So I get there early, go to the lounge.
It like it's delayed, Like okay, supposed to be a fifty.
It gets turned to nine thirty. Okay. I get to
the gate at nine thirty. They're like, well it's now
ten fifteen. Okay, we start boarding. Get on the plane.

Speaker 3 (23:34):
I'm like, okay, good, we're getting out of here.

Speaker 4 (23:36):
Now.

Speaker 3 (23:36):
I might get get in it like one or two whatever, Get.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
On the plane. I'm sitting here talking to the guy
next to me. Cool ass, white dude, tat it up, bitch.
He gives me the nude beach. I don't know how
we got here to the nude beach, but clearly he
saw it was one of those. He gives me the
nude beach. A nie. I said, yo, we gotta go
to the new beach. We sitting there talking, drinking our wine,
getting ready to take off. I'm like, okay, let me
put on a movie. I can fall asleep too. I

(24:00):
put on Ten Things I Hate About You. Oh, good movie,
such a good movie. None of them looked like high schoolers.
I was like, whoa, how do we hear? Anyways, So
watching ten Things I Hate About You, we go to
take off. I'm like, okay, I fall asleep. Fall asleep
in the middle of ten Things I Hate about You,
I get woken up by Okay, guys, we'll be going

(24:20):
to the gate. Da da da da. Please make sure
you take everything off with you. I'm scared. I'm like, buddie,
we had to land in another country. Like, what you
mean were going to the gate. I'm like, I'm freaking out.
A nigga a bish beIN sleep. No, it is one
thirty in the morning. We never left goddamn Atlanta. We're
going back to the gate because the hours was it

(24:41):
from when it was taxi, Well, the flight was already
delayed by like two hours, and then I guess we
were on the tarmac for about another hour hour and
a half. Ooh, Like weather was bad. That sucks.

Speaker 3 (24:53):
Yeah, so it was so it's it's one thirty in
the morning.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
So we all get off and they're just telling us, Hey, guys,
they'll let you know up details at the gate, y'all.
This is Delta. By the way, I preface that because
what happened next made me question who the fuck I
was lying. So we get out to the gate, and
in the most Atlanta fashion, because we have no answers,

(25:17):
she says, check in, check in, Hello, Hello. I'm just
gonna let y'all know because y'all crew ain't had the
balls to tell you. Literally, this is on the The
reason y'all ain't taken off tonight is because they didn't
want to take the trip.

Speaker 3 (25:34):
They timed out and said they don't want to take
the trip.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
Suck. Let me tell y'all was about to happen. It's
one thirty in the morning, which means we gotta find
y'all a new crew. The chances of that happening at
one thirty in the morning are very high. Give me
five minutes, but do not come up here. Your crew
chose not to take this flight. Give me five minutes.
We're all sitting around and I'm like, okay, she said,

(25:57):
give me five minutes. Come back on No Live five
minutes later. All right, whatever number in email you use,
there's a hotel voucher and food vouchers for y'all. Y'all
gonna have to go stay in a hotel tonight because
we don't think that y'all.

Speaker 3 (26:13):
Gonna be able to get out tonight.

Speaker 1 (26:14):
So I'm looking around, looking around, and they're like, okay, well,
none of us can leave because even if we get
hotels for tonight, we don't know what time we got
to be back to the airport. So the funniest thing happens.
Mind you, this is a direct flight to the south
of France. I'm looking at people, look at these hotels.
It's the La Quinta, it's the it's the red roof

(26:35):
in hold On.

Speaker 3 (26:37):
So see, and here goes weezy. I think it's so easy.
I can't stay that.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
So literally, I'm across and they're like, what kind of
hotels do they think we're gonna stay at tonight? And
I'm hearing all these bougie people look at the list
of hold On and then they give us. Then they
give us two food vouchers twelve dollars apiece, and let
us know, y'all better go. The only thing open right
now is McDonald's and they about to close. What are
you in the morning. McDonald's is the only thing open,

(27:01):
and everyone's like, I'm not staying at these hotels. But
mind you, it's one thirty in the morning, so many
of these hotels are already booked, like two or three options.
So I'm listening to all these bourgie as people complain
about not want to say at the Laquenza or the
Holiday Inn. So then she comes back five minutes later,
it is two o'clock in the morning, because she says, hey, guys,

(27:24):
before we get a time that we can land, we
have to call air traffic control because Nice is such
a small airport they only allow one flight a day,
so we need approval to land this plane for tomorrow.
Shit bitch, She comes back. Flights officially been canceled, y'all.
Y'all gotta figure out how to get there because they're
not allowing two planes to land tomorrow and Nice so

(27:48):
the desk is down the hall. Good luck, y'all. No,
there's nothing she could do. She since now it's three
hundred people literally at two thirty in the morning. Hold on,
you're doing it too hold on. First off, I call
the Diamond Line. I get booked on the next direct flight.
I don't cause it's premium. I know, lucky there was
one seat left in premium, so there was no extra charge.

(28:09):
She put me on. I looked up. Here go Atlanta Airport.
I'm in the international terminal. So y'all already sending people
to hotels. Everyone's on the phone or lined up, and
it's three hundred people. The fucking trains are down. It
is a twenty three minute walk air trams. Oh shit,
not only it is a twenty three minute walk. Oh

(28:31):
my god, terminal E to motherfucking ground transportation. And then
you know you got to call it Uba two thirty
when I tell you so on the way. Walking on
the way there, I'm like, well, let me call my
hotel and niece cause they better give me a refund
because I make it there covering. No. No, no, no,
well I'll do I'm plotting them with Bear. So they said,

(28:53):
no worries, I'll just modify the reservation. The Marriott was great,
and so I'm walking and I'm like, wow, the growth.
Normally I would have been pissed about. My blood pressure
would have been hot I would have been like just miserable.
And as I'm walking from twenty three minutes down all
the goddamned terminals at the Atlanta Airport, I'm like, Giry,

(29:17):
you came so far. I'm talking to myself at this point.
It's three o'clock in the morning, and I'm like, you
know how you normally respond to things, And I'm just like,
in my mind, I'm genuinely like, I'm gonna make it
there because I'm supposed to be there, and I'm like,
there's a reason why we didn't get on that goddamn plane. True,
it might be that the new final destination just dropped.
I don't know. I've been just listen Bad Brother's Bad Brother, though.

(29:41):
I've been saying I don't need the stress of doing that,
and I was just like a good attitude. So I
got then, I got that. On Saturday, got to spend
I ended up cutting out Monacos, but the whole day
and Knees got to cam the next day.

Speaker 3 (29:53):
And I was just like everything the entire week.

Speaker 1 (29:55):
Yeah, it was fine. No, When I say, yeah, everything
that we said we wanted, the people we said we
wanted to meet, we met.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
And I was just like, it's because I came into
this week with that energy. It had to be and
it was just like so great.

Speaker 1 (30:09):
But no, as I was sitting there, I think it was.

Speaker 3 (30:11):
I think it was just funny. First off, the lady
at the gate talking like this is so plain.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
I get it.

Speaker 4 (30:16):
Though she did it, it's not her. It was three
hundred people to attack her. And thank god, by the way,
that you took a nap right before that long walk.
At least you were arrested.

Speaker 3 (30:26):
I'm not gonna lie rest imagine you didn't take it nap.

Speaker 4 (30:29):
You're gonna be cranky walking all the way down to
the Brown Transportation.

Speaker 1 (30:33):
I told you.

Speaker 5 (30:34):
I got home because I forgot my toy and still masturbating.
When I get home, I said, oh my god, cleaning.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Really, they'll do anything you want. They gat meet up
looking same liquid to ship. Bitch didn't say there and
I said, sorry, this is what I book.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
They gave it back. I started ordering food that they
wouldn't let me get. They gave it back. Yeah. I
was like, you know what, I remember when I what
was it? I was telling y'all, oh, when we were
supposed to make it to another country, what was it? Vietnam,
and then we couldn't get in with the visa and
we were sitting in the airport like what do we do? Yeah?
And you know what's hard of the same latitude, Like
you know, it'starting together. We forgot to tell you about

(31:13):
that too, because that almost happened to me a Crystal
because we were traveling with Adriana. Adriana has a German passport,
so she booked our routing to Vietnam. Bitch me and
Crystal get there, they say, oh no, y'all, bitches need visas.
Now we literally had that day.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
They will, y'all they're on a weekend. Y'all were there
on a weekend.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
I'm trying to think if any fun travel stuff happened
with us. No, but the one thing, obviously the Old
Bay story is tea, but that's a whole episode. So
there's this club I don't know if anyone's ever heard
of it. Listening, it's called Berghein, And actually last week's
episode with Jerry, she talks about going in there.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
Okay, so my man and I are playing this yer
trip and he is very like he would rather travel
to like Brazil, Japan or South Africa.

Speaker 3 (32:04):
I love that you get him to do everything he
don't want to do the cruise in now Europe.

Speaker 2 (32:07):
Oh he loved Europe though, And it sound funny because
when you were in pairs together, he's like, I get
it now, baby, He's like, I see because he would
make fun of me and be like, oh you like
that white shit. The second he got there, he's like,
I've seen more niggas than I thought I would like.
So we get We've been listening to a lot of
House and more recently Techno at a spot called Basement
in New York, which I mentioned was in the Baby

(32:28):
Girl movie for that crazy club scene. So we're like,
all right, we gotta go to the real shit. And
I have heard the real shit is in Berlin. This
club called Berghein. Berghein is basically this I don't even
know how to describe it. It's maybe five stories warehouse building,
a five story dungeon imagine.

Speaker 1 (32:48):
So all he's the club. No, it's just a club,
and it's open because you're a dungeon're a dungeon.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
But ohrs, But we'll talk about what's in there a
little bit because I want to keep the code and
get back in one day four days. The club is open,
okay from Thursday to Monday. So we're like talking to
people in Germany, like how do we get in? What's
the best way to get in. I spoke to Liz
Knebridch because she loves techno and she's like, tell you today, bitch,
you get their Sunday morning, you have brunch. And then

(33:16):
he stayed on London warning and I'm like what, So
I was really worried.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
We wouldn't get in.

Speaker 2 (33:21):
The door guy whose name's Spenn, actually he was in
john Wick for he's a well known doorman. He's in interviews.
Everybody's terrified at this guy. I watched this interview they
had to like dub it. He basically is like what
I do is face control. You can't pay me.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
No one's gonna convince me you can get it.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
If I say no, it's me and a team of
other people and we decide if you fit the energy
for this club, and if you don't, you don't get in.

Speaker 1 (33:43):
If he says no, there's no talking. There's also tiktoks
and Reddit threats where you can figure out how to
get in.

Speaker 3 (33:49):
That's spin okay.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
So basically when they ask you how many people are
you hold up the fingers.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
You don't speak. They look you up and down. They
may ask you what dj you know? They may not
they may say why are you here? Like you got
to figure out your answer. You wear all black, you
don't smoke in line, you don't get on the phone
in line.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
If you can google rules. I'm telling you this is
what I know. This is insane.

Speaker 4 (34:08):
This man looks by the way all the audio listen
is very intimidating. Man face covered in tattoos, snake bites,
gray beard and looks like would crushed by school at Harby.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
And then something interesting he said. He's like, listen, uh,
there's places I can't get into because of how he looks.
Right for ta to tase.

Speaker 2 (34:23):
He's like, so there's just places you can't get into,
like if you don't get the vibe in it. So
me and my man get there around four pm on
a Sunday. We heard that's when the line is low,
because you may be in hours for three hours in line.
But it's the best club in the world, they say
Elon Musk got rejected.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
It's a whole thing. You can't get it. Not that attractive.
No tables just to say, like, you could be the
richest man in the world. Right. So we're watching people
get turned away and my niggas like damn, like they
kind of look like they fit, Like why the fuck
they get it? So then we get closer, He's like,
we don't need niggas in this line. We get ain't

(34:57):
no way, I'll blow this shit up. Not getting in
is the fucking culture of this club. So we get
to the door. I'm thinking this guy is the urban myth.
I'm thinking because he's been working at twenty years. I'm
not thinking we all see him, bitch, we see you.
And I'm like, oh fuck, because there are other door
guys people talk about, but this is the one. My

(35:19):
man's wearing black, black pans, thick, chunky, like those big
botaga booze, and just some cool shit. He got his
shirt open a little bit so you might see a
little nipple ring. I was just wearing all black and leather.
So the door guys look at us, say how many?
They look us up and down. He says something in
German to the guy next to him. Then they pull

(35:40):
out spend he's the main guy. He's looking us up
and down. They start talking to each other. Bro, I
didn't know it was gonna take this long. So I'm swimming, bitch,
I'm like, oh my god, this feels like racism and oppression.
This is too much. And then finally it's just boom
one head nod and does this like go in. Well,

(36:01):
you can't say anything, you know, So we're just walking
in and he squeezing them olve and I'm like, oh shit,
oh shit, oh shit. They cover your phones. This is,
by the way, German thing phones covered.

Speaker 2 (36:10):
First thing I see when I get in, literally a
dude with his dick out and wearing wristlets to hold
his phone on his ankles.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
Did he go in with his dick out? Not set?

Speaker 2 (36:22):
But this was another tip I got for anyone going
to berg Hine. So you bring a bag with you
and they know you're gonna change. The first floor is
the cod check.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
The code check is so full because everybody's getting undressed.
So now at this point I told all like, I'm
taking my pants off, like now I want to get undressed.
So I'm thinking I'm about to walk into a sex club.
It's not a sex club, but I don't know what
to call it. You walk in it's a nude club.
It's not even a nude club.

Speaker 3 (36:49):
If you saw a whole dick, girl, it's a nude club.

Speaker 1 (36:51):
People wearing clothes, some people are not, some people have
their tips out. I don't know what it is a club,
so my nudity, it's not. You saw dick a titty
the club. It has no rules period. A club with
no rules. No, so you cut a stuff your man
dick in the club. I'm gonna tell you what I
saw a little bit. Oh, I'm gonna tell you everything.
This is a sex club, bro. It's not as like, okay,

(37:13):
we're not going to label it like how. People don't
want to be lax, so they say it is at
the best club of the world.

Speaker 2 (37:18):
And I was talking to this black girl in the
bathroom who she doesn't know me or you, but she
was like, I feel.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
Like you do something with someone someone hold I know you.
And I'm like, okay, maybe. So I was like, what
do you think? She was like, I only came here
because I heard it was hard to get in and
I wanted to know I could get in. She was like, but.

Speaker 2 (37:35):
I hate techno and I hate house music. She's like,
I fucking I cannot believe how much I love this thing.
She's like, it is just the weirdest energy. So basically
we start walking through the club and my man and
I were still geeked off the fact that we got
in this shit. We want to talk about it, like
why are you looking at this a long?

Speaker 1 (37:50):
Did he say? Nigga? What did you say?

Speaker 2 (37:51):
So we're walking by and there's these little inlets like
it looks like closets but with no door, private rooms,
but only one two people could fit in, like literally
if it looked like a box, like if you walked in,
someone that got in there would have to squeeze and
be suffocated.

Speaker 1 (38:08):
Or put their dick in you yep, And that's what
I saw. And oh, so we're looking at it and
I'm like, okay, I need to get high out. I
need to do some drugs. Now, do some drugs. So
I'm trying to go to the bathroom and do my
drugs like a good person. And then finally I'm waiting
online and someone just pulls some shit out. She says,

(38:30):
would you like some spid? Do some spid? I was like,
oh no, and I will go do my ecstasy alone.
Ye go back out and it's like, it's five forty
five the club closed at eight am to night. It's
five forty five pm. He's like, what are we gonna do?
I'm like, I don't know, dude. It is wild. I've
never seen anything like this in my life. I'm like,

(38:52):
I got to get out of here. Let's go get
a drink. I go get a drink. I'm waiting on
the bartender. Bartender is standing next to three on the
bartender is wearing like all techno clothing, and another one
comes out fully naked with a huge, huge rabbit's foot
hanging from the chain on his dick, and he says, oh,

(39:12):
but are you from would you like to drink? And
I'm like, dick water, I don't bitch? What dick out? Bitch? Wait?
Are all the bottles okay? Sorry, this is where my
mom went. Are all the bottles at least on the wall,
like above them? Because all I'm thinking is, as a
former bartender, sometimes it's down anywhere else is his dick

(39:36):
slanging possibly touching the tops of the bottles where it
pours out.

Speaker 4 (39:42):
I just would like to also, also, is it like
sacrilegious to share bottles there? Because that was a problem
earlier in this Oh.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
There's no tables, okay, everyone, there's no tables. There's no
way you can pay to get there is no exclusive No.
I don't know, honestly, unless the bottle are coming from
above you, I don't know if I want a dick
slinging bye ma ba.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
Well, no choice match. And you know what else is crazy?
This club is so true to the fact that no
one's above anyone. When the DJ walked in, he walked
in through the front door, I saw people bugging out
about him. No oh well, he then climbed up a
ladder to get to a section, to put his things down,
and climb down the ladder to get to the fucking
bro best anciste I've ever heard, I've never I was

(40:27):
just wow, it was a lot.

Speaker 1 (40:31):
And then it's an unlabeled sex club. I think it's
just a very pre for all love call free. I
really don't think it's a sex sob. I swear to God,
like if there's no there's no, there's no. But there's
no way of fun. There's clearly a lot of places
as the bathroom a little slits in a world. I
think it's them all. It's just cool to me.

Speaker 5 (40:51):
Though.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
To me, though I think it's to me, I would say,
and maybe because we we in Europe. But to me,
if I'm going to a place that's not a sex club,
like you and I are liberated. To me, if I'm
going to a club, I don't believe that I'm going
to see anybody's dick or anyone's think Like to me,

(41:12):
that's like there's that sexual assault technically their sex.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
It's to rest why that is why all of these
people are judged based on if they fit the vibe.
Maybe you will see four fucking niggas fucking each other.
Are you gonna be weird about it? I don't know
how one guy with face tattoos can determine it. Well no, no, no, no, apparently,
And I don't know because now after we got in
we've just been googling, like trying to figure out about
this club. There's a rumor online that he's been paid

(41:38):
to like do the most.

Speaker 1 (41:39):
Like curate vibes and like do shit like that. Like
I actually think that you can do that.

Speaker 2 (41:43):
I think for twenty years, if you've been running one
of the most well known clubs in the world, Yes,
I do think you can do that.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
I think I could look at somebody and be like,
you ain't about this life one hundred percent. I think
we all can do that. And I think in my
in my first thirty seconds of just looking at someone
where you can't say words, which means you can't have
a conversation and you're just looking at energy, has energy bro.
For example, there's a clip of Peggy Goose, she's a
really dope DJ who is talking to another DJ in
BBC and the girl goes, how do I get in?

(42:12):
She was like, you gotta look ready, and the other
girl are you huh? I agree, I agree, I think
you gotta know. So then we start talking about this. Right.
I talked to my homeboy who runs Jerk and Joel
Off shout out to Sante. He's like, damn, nigga, you
got in. I didn't get in, And I'm like.

Speaker 2 (42:27):
Hell because I'm thinking he's a handsome looking guy and
he's like I had so many people I was with,
So I'm like, all right, now, I don't think he
means black shit. I think he means he throws the
afrobeats party basically, right, Afrobe's anshult.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
So if you bring a niggas from the club with you.
How are they dressed? Are they dressed in just like regularly? Shit?
Like what they looking like?

Speaker 2 (42:44):
Because you really got to fit the bill for people
that like this music, for people that do this, like
you can't look like a first timer. And I heard
them say to the guy before us, have you been
here before? And he said no, and they talked and
then they.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
Still let him in. But he kind of a little
life vibe.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
Yeah, And I think that if more people did this
instead of being for example, little Sisters Adore in New
York that a lot of people can't get into. They're
known notoriously for letting in skinny model girls and it's
turned into this whole cool kid's culture.

Speaker 1 (43:16):
But it used to be a cool.

Speaker 2 (43:16):
Club, but it's not really anymore. What if it was
just based off people that looked like they were ready
to fucking dance and.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
That were cool, not hot, cool, that whatever, short, just
a cool motherfucker instead of skinny model white.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
You just think even cool. But I think even cool.
It's subjective.

Speaker 1 (43:35):
I do want to shout out to Okay, see because
I found out cold they there's something called an unction
and it's a thirty and up crowd. You cannot get
it unless you are thirty plus and she's twenty seven.

Speaker 3 (43:47):
So she was like, oh, you gotta be thirty. And
she said it like it was real old.

Speaker 1 (43:50):
And I was like, oh, did you go? I didn't.
I was so tired. I had just lend it from France.
I had to go from France. Okay, see the whole festival.
I was like, ain't no way, I'm making it out.
But she was telling me by the unction and I said, yea,
I love that name. And what I'm realizing too is
thirty enough crowds are loving R and B. It's why
almost the only time I go out, even in Atlanta,

(44:11):
were looking for the R and B parties And I'm like, damn,
that's a good name, I said, because I like a
little thirty up crowd. Although I do like my Wyans too,
But the Wayians in the South dress a little too
Yanish for me. Oh.

Speaker 2 (44:23):
I like Kawaiians everywhere doing you know what? Learn that
in London the Wayans the like that culture of like drill,
like nog the cdentral Sea. Look, let me tell you something.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
Hate it crossing people's street, Hate it not crossing the street.
I don't like them.

Speaker 2 (44:42):
I'm walking down the Lower east Side. Yo, I'm sorry
if I sound like a fucking Karen. Me and my
nigga are mid thirties.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
The other day we saw some niggas we were walking
in it. I said, get him out of here, go left.
I don't want to, he laughed. He's like, I'm like
eight niggas, bunched up, thirteen years old after school. You marijuana,
get up in marijuana?

Speaker 3 (45:03):
Well, no, I ain't gonna need you to me.

Speaker 1 (45:05):
It's it's not for shown. I hate it the Jesus.
And here's my problem with the Yan fashion in Atlanta.
Like me and my friend now have a game where
when we go out, we literally try to decipher who's
hetero and who's not. The why in look is a
mix between guess real hood. But in Atlanta they bedazzle

(45:27):
ships and they wear ship no, and then it be
crop top like you go white there. So I'm like,
you know why under me in my head is like that,
hold no, no, no, let me finish. It'll be bedazzled
tight with the crow top and it's still a ski
mask where it's ninety degree. That's okay for Atlanta. That's
what that is it's the white. It looks like that's

(45:48):
my life with this is the way. That's the look,
the way the that's the way the drill rappers dressed.
Don't like it, like you know, I don't like it.
He is you know, like if you know, like you
went to Paris for fact music.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
It's this thing I kate when rain into on accidents,
basically just music day. It started in the seventies where
free concerts were all over the streets in France, and
now it's turned into people could just play music from
their homes like you basically follow the street to different sounds.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
It's so much fun. So my whomeboy invites me to
this party. Be on my nigga about the pull up.
I want to say it was sponsored by Snipes or
Nike and it's free. Right. We got up there, I
see thirty niggas with Travis Scott Braids and Nike Tech.
I said, we're not going They're gonna be shooting we
are No, Wow, that's crazy. I'm going to daily paper, bitch.

(46:37):
I'm going to motherfucker every day pop why I'm not
going to ask shit, Y'all'm n exactly going to be
trying to kill me. Oh, it's funny. I've been trying
to figure out where to go in Atlanta because it's
a mix. I do want to go where the Waiians are,
not the ones that just like the Wayans, but y'all
know I like me a little Wayian, so I've been
trying to go there. And then also them's her crowd,
so the cigar bars. So it's like been interesting to

(47:00):
figure out where the hell just to go out where, Yeah,
you know people you know makes sense. Yeah, let's get
into y'all. We are now authors. We authors, Baby, We're
gonna get into a little bit of the book to
share with y'all some things, talk about it and really

(47:22):
hopefully get y'all just as excited as we are that
the book is now out, that you get to read
all the things we shared.

Speaker 3 (47:27):
We'd be vulnerable on the podcast, but we even more
vulnerable in the book.

Speaker 1 (47:31):
And listen, you may just be.

Speaker 2 (47:32):
A listener that doesn't really care about reading anything about us.
You don't need to care about me and die it
easy to read this. It's really that good of a book.
I will say different compliments I received from this book.
Last night when Shara hit me, he said, everyone that
loved to say and will love this book. One of
my other homegirls said, I kind of feel like I'm

(47:55):
reading a self help book for help that I didn't
ask for, but now I kind of like it. I
like reading about tips about BDSM. She's like, I like
reading about these heartbreak tips. She's like, I feel like
I'm married, but just reading on how I should have
done things feels good. And I think it's all of
this juicy detail about someone that you don't know.

Speaker 1 (48:17):
But it's non fiction. When we read nonfiction, we're normally
reading it to better our money or mental health. We
never think about nonfiction for the sex. Yeah, so I'm
like excited for you to dig in. I wanted to
break up real quick some conversations for us based on
the sections of the book, just so that we can

(48:37):
maybe add some elements to it, tell them something they
may not know, get deeper into something. So I wanted
to start with pleasure, because pleasure outside of our introduction
is where the book starts. And so for pleasure, I
wanted you to share your favorite moment in the book
from this section. Really, it could be a sense of
a tip or a specific story about a certain person.

(48:59):
So for me. Specifically, my three chapters and the Pleasure
of Portion are about masturbation, being a unicorn on vacation,
and anal sex, which I love. Y'all, actually has something
to do with that chapter title. We literally leaned into
something that was said on the podcast when Vinnie joined us.
But can I put it back there? That's the title

(49:20):
of that chapter. But I wanted to actually add because
this is a story told on the podcast. Y'all remember
when I took my solo trip to Mexico and became
a unicorn for a couple and it was just super wonderful.
This chapter, even though you've heard the story on the podcast,
I kind of tied into the fact that so many

(49:44):
of us maybe stop ourselves from exploring or doing things
that we want to do because of how we think
people will perceive us. So that chapter, the theme is
about would this have happened if I came with friends?
Would this have happened if I was thinking too much
about what the people on the boat would.

Speaker 3 (50:01):
Have thought about me for staying on this island with strangers?

Speaker 1 (50:04):
Would I have got to experience this dope ass experience
of a weekend? Had I let what public perception would
have took about this experience from me, and so I
really lean into hopefully the reader from that reading that chapter,
the reader gets that, damn, how many times did I
not shoot my shot because I was in fear of rejection?

(50:27):
How many times did I not date this person because
I just knew my friends wouldn't like him or my
mama wouldn't like him, And I want to make all
those people happy instead of choosing my own happiness first.
So that was, like I would say, my favorite chapter
of the pleasure section, but also the theme that I
was able to bring around a story that y'all already
heard on the pod.

Speaker 2 (50:46):
I think the pain section will be people's favorite because
it jumps around. Oh no, I want to think it's no, no, no,
I know I'm just saying, but I think the pleasure
starting with the pleasure is really fun because when you
pick up a book like this, that's what you respect read.
I think for me one that I haven't really discussed
the safety chapter. You don't really hear me talk a
lot about, but I'm thinking about it because we did

(51:07):
the breakfast club.

Speaker 1 (51:08):
This morning and I kind of forgot about how necessary
it is.

Speaker 2 (51:14):
For so in the safety chapter I reference needing a
devil and an angel on your shoulder. Mine is Vinnie
and Brionda. And I know if I'm about to do
some crazy shit, I'm gonna call any and he's gonna
be like, bitch, go thought that nigga Brionda.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
Be like, oh my goodness, okay, well I'm here.

Speaker 2 (51:33):
She'll never tell me no, she'd never judge. And I
think surrounding yourself with that community in your pleasure seeking journey,
there does need to be someone else oden than you,
because a lot of the inner turmoil I'd experienced with
sexuality was because I didn't have anyone to relate to,
and many times people kind of shame you for it,

(51:55):
or you feel like they're gonna talk behind your back.
Many of us have a group of a few friends,
and I actually just recently said, I don't know if
you've had this experience recently, but it's such a good
place of comfort. My all girls are in a group
chat with me and I was telling them something don't
lie did and they were about to go to lunch.
I was like, I don know, y'all, I was about
to talk about me and they were like, olla, well,
and we are with a smile, and I was like, damn,

(52:15):
I am in such a good safe place, and you
don't really.

Speaker 1 (52:18):
Get here till you're in your thirties. Right, there's always
a bitch you can't staying something wrong, And it feels
good to know that I've built that for myself, much
like Chosen Family. So in the pleasure chapter, just knowing
I got to do something fun and then sneaking call
a friend and having that safety net, like, it didn't
hit me that that was that pivotal for this book.
Now there's the off the cuss question. There's sex throughout

(52:42):
the book. Is there a sexual experience or story that
you wish made the book cheating all old Bay? Probably okay,
okay for me, I think, And I questioned myself, y'all know,
I told y'all a story about the editor not allowing
me to be the bi sexual bitch that I am. Yeah,
And so I did at one point want to make

(53:05):
a story about my frivolous casual sex with women because
back in Miami. And it's so funny because this story
just I don't remember who I was talking to. I
think I was talking to somebody who No, it would
have been a new story. It would have been a
new chapter. But I remember having this conversation about what
the club scene is like now, and I was like, yeah, man,

(53:27):
back when I lived in Miami, I remember being able
to eat couci in the in the bathroom saws. They
were like, wait, how did you eat pussy in the
bathroom sauce. I said, yo, I did it twice, No,
maybe three times twice in play well, okay, I did
it twice and play.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
Once it Jerry's if y'all know Jerry's, if y'all in
your thirties. Jerry's was the.

Speaker 1 (53:44):
Diner on South Beach that is no longer open, and
then I ate Pussy. I shared the story a story.
No story was this side of the beach. No, it
was down on the other side. And then I ate Pussy.
Y'all heard the story when I went to Tutsis and
so I'm literally like talking about the clubs and I
was like, yeah, I used to pussy the stalls da da,
And so I go to start talking about like my

(54:06):
ex girlfriend and me that I dated when I was.

Speaker 3 (54:08):
In Miami and what that, and I was like, damn, okay.

Speaker 1 (54:12):
I realized that there was this questionable part of me,
and it didn't make it in there because I was like,
I'm not changing none of my chapters, but for me,
I was like, damn, if I really could have shared
all the wild, random sex with women I had, like
on the dock and tootsies and stalls, I was like, wow,
I actually don't have those stories with a lot of men,
Like Bro.

Speaker 2 (54:31):
That's because of safety. That's a good point to like
ring up. And so I don't know if it was safety, no, no, no, no,
Bro were in the bathroom, I was on my knees
like crazy. They could take me to give me head,
and for some reason, niggas made me feel insafe. I
don't know if I was letting man just take me
in the bathroom and do shit strangers, yes, I mean
my niggas. Yes, I've done it with like people that
I know what you're saying. Safety is your thing, Okay.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
Like the way that I've learned how women respond to me,
it's not because I'm the baddest man in world, even
though i'd like to think. So. Women feel safer with women,
like we're fucking area of sault. So we were able
to eat each other pussy because we feel safe in
the club safety O show us. Also all the women
who have sucked digging a club, good for you, but yeah,

(55:13):
you're right safe spacey plussy in a club.

Speaker 2 (55:15):
By the way, the reason I would want to add
the old Bay thing is because, oh, that sounds so suitable.

Speaker 1 (55:22):
I didn't want to say this out loud say it.

Speaker 2 (55:26):
I feel like a lot of people feel really bad
for me after reding that chapter, and I had some
bad moments, but I had another boyfriend I was okay,
which I was really living it up like I thought
he was going to be my central relationship because it
looked so good on paper, and I didn't really think

(55:49):
I needed.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
Much more for stability for me. In the beginning of.

Speaker 2 (55:57):
That relationship, I really didn't focus on I always thought
everything could be fixed, which isn't true. Like I always
just kind of thought, hey, great on paper, we'll fix
this other shit, I'll go to therapy, I'll figure it out.
But this is a great catch to the point where
I didn't really care about much else. Now, I didn't

(56:19):
need a relationship that badly. I was having so much
fun in my life and it's stumbled on one. But
at that particular time I met him I was coming
off of Scissors rebounding a little bit, and I felt
like I needed that with a man, and I felt
like he was a perfect man for it, and I
also had a lot of fun with him. But the chapter,
when I read it back, and it's some one that
people talked to me about the.

Speaker 1 (56:40):
Most, it does feel sad.

Speaker 2 (56:42):
But I really was getting fucked, like I had two
other niggas, Like I really was giving my lick.

Speaker 1 (56:49):
Back in real time. But I felt like bringing it
up in the chapter with Muddy, how terrible he was,
so I needed people to know he wasn't shit. Before
I told you that you, I didn't start until he started.
Guess crazy. Sorry for pain, we talk enjoyment, consequences, and trauma.

(57:10):
Why did we and I want to talk to the
to the audience here. Why did we feel it was
important in this pain section to include BDSM or the
pleasure of pain? I think it was because we definitely
knew we didn't want to make this book too dark,
and so yeah, the way of making it fun pain
pleasure like it went hand in hand and someone and sometimes,

(57:31):
to be truthful, when I say pleasure and pain, I
don't think of heartbreak, pain I think of sex pain.
So I think when the reader picks this up, they're like, ooh,
pleasure and pain. So when you fucking hear about a
story that's violent, you're like, oh shit, I think that
is the unexpected party. I know we got our trigger
warnings too, and I love that. Lauren on Breakfast Club

(57:53):
was like, I really loved that y'all included these trigger
warnings because when you're reading a book and you get
into hearing about fucking a couple and eating pussy and
taking dick in your ass, and then you get to
a sexual assault chapter, it's like, WHOA, So you guys
do have the trigger wanting to be able to flip
through the book on your own time, because we definitely
don't want to trigger you why you read this, But yeah,

(58:14):
I was it was important for us to include that,
and it's in the master class. I decided to do
a whole breakdown of BDSM and then the dungeon that
I'm actually speaking about in the book get the master class.
I have a whole video in the exact room, so
the way I described the space and what it looks like,

(58:35):
you actually have a visual representation of the rig that
suspended me in the air, and I literally also bring
out the chastity belt that I put my exes Dick in,
and you also get to see the thing that electrocuted me.

Speaker 3 (58:47):
So the electro play toy is there. Everything is in
the master class.

Speaker 1 (58:52):
So again, make sure you get that it's only available
till July first, and then for free, for free, for
all of you out.

Speaker 3 (59:01):
Progression Healing is a journey. Where do you think you
still have the most work to do?

Speaker 1 (59:07):
Like, even based on the stories you narrated in your
progression part, is there anyone that still seems like a
work in progress. I think.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
Myself is the work in progress for the story, particularly
about depression and suicide and all that stuff.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
I'm such a happy person in my day to day that.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
It doesn't really come up often, but when it does,
it's hard to get out of it because I'm so
emotional when.

Speaker 1 (59:37):
I'm happy, I'm so happy. I'm not just content, I'm excited,
and I'm screaming it at you.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
I feel like more recently in my life, just just
said it to me when we were walking out of
the Bakfast club. You look really good, and I was like,
oh god, I'm just really happy. Like, that's my answers continually.
I'm really happy and I feel it in and out,
and I lost ten pounds.

Speaker 1 (59:56):
That added to it. Everybody keeps saying, oh, you look great,
don't know you? I got it off. Now what I
will say when those sad moments come.

Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
I then almost re tracked back to like this dark
place of who I was, because it can really take
me down. So some of the tools that I've used
that I even talk about, how I talk about what
my therapist did for me, automatic thoughts, how to fix them,
sometimes I forget. I forget how to use them, and
I really need to start practicing what I preach all
the time. This week, we're gonna be doing so much

(01:00:31):
extra work. I'm sure it may take my bad thoughts down. Like,
for example, I don't know if this has ever happened
to someone. It happened to me last night, and I
was able to get through it. So I knew I
had to go to bed by a certain time because
make up was six forty five, with the breakfast club
at nine whatever. Right around ten forty five, I'm like, Oh,
if I keep staying up, I'm only gonna have seven
hours and fifteen minutes. It's like, oh, if I'm still awake,

(01:00:52):
I'm only have six hours to sleep. Then I went
to the bathroom and I see the clock at four am.
I'm like, oh, wow, so now I only have ninety minute.
Like the way that my brain starts to spiral, it's
so awful and I can't stop myself sometimes, And I
think that is the biggest piece of work for me.
How am I talking to myself when I'm stressed out?
Why don't wake up every daytime?

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
All? I just talked about going through the airport. That's
the That's the thing that I'm like, so glad that
I have in control.

Speaker 2 (01:01:18):
I did that a little bit when with the Reckfast
club today, actually, and I helped myself, so I inverted
the address, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:01:25):
I left my house early. I was so proud of myself.

Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
Got to one twenty fifth instead of one twenty five
West fifty fifth.

Speaker 5 (01:01:33):
What was it?

Speaker 1 (01:01:34):
Bruh.

Speaker 2 (01:01:34):
The second I started seeing horle, I'm like, this don't
feel right. And after it got fixed, I'm looking at
the clock. I'm watching it go from thirty two minutes
to get there twenty nine minutes to get there.

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
I'm late. I'm embarrassed, and I'm like, I go, oh, yeah,
they were trying to start without you, and I was like, no,
let's again, God right, only six minutes. You were forty
minutes late. No, no, no, six minutes from when we
were recording. Oh, as soon as you got there, we started.
But yeah, I got there in nine thirty six. They
said nine thirty start.

Speaker 3 (01:01:59):
No no, no, no, no, no, no this Yeah, they
were ready to go at night.

Speaker 1 (01:02:03):
Oh no, they were ready going night. I'm glad. I
didn't know that. It would have gave me anxiety. I
literally had to say to myself, this is a mistake.
It happened. If I start to get upset, then it's
gonna throw the vibe oup with the both of us.
It's gonna read on my face.

Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
I'm not able to help talk about this book because
I'm gonna be so overworked and upset I can't think
about it. I made a mistake. I got to accept
my fate. I'm gonna get there. It's gonna be great.
Everything will be okay. Like it's tough because we are
our biggest critic and I'm about to tear myself up
in the car and fuck all this shit up.

Speaker 1 (01:02:36):
Fuck all this energy up, not just for myself but
everybody else around me. So like, yeah, my thoughts get dark, dude,
and when they do, I've just got to learn how
to be better about it. And talking about that in
the book was very freeing, just about ay, like life
goes on, everything wound up being good.

Speaker 3 (01:02:55):
I think, Yeah, that's that's where I've had the most work.

Speaker 1 (01:02:59):
I used to get worked on hoping that people showed
up how I wanted them to show up, or do
as I wanted them to do, or be who I
wanted them to be, whether it be a partner, whether
it be you, whether it be a friend, whether it
be my mom, my dad, my dad. Definitely, that's a
whole nother story. And now I just exist where I'm
like people are in their own worlds. I have my
own world. I can't make make anyone get out of

(01:03:22):
the own world that they existed, I said, So I
just have to exist with my own thoughts. I only
have control over how I show up. And like I said,
even when that plane canceled, I talked to my best
friend the next morning. She's like, ooh, bitch, I know
you was tight, And I said, actually, friend, I wasn't.
Everything that happened was completely out of my control. And
I said, the only thing that I could control was

(01:03:44):
how I felt in the moment. And I said, at
that moment, I made the decision, You're not gonna be mad.
There was nothing you could do. You're gonna get home,
you're gonna go to sleep, you're gonna take the flight
tomorrow and hopefully everything works out. And that's been such
a freeing thing to get to. Like I used to
be in therapy, like I don't understand like why this,

(01:04:08):
and I would just get so upset that things didn't
happen the way I thought everything should happen. And now
that I just be like, Okay, well there's nothing you
can do. Don't even get mad at this person. Just
allow them to be who they are. You are who
you are. You can only control who you are. How
do you want to be today? Do you want to
be upset? Do you want your energybo? Do you want
to be nasty? Because if you don't want to be,

(01:04:28):
those things show up the way that like allows you
to have a good day. And when I allow you,
boy that having a good day, everything just kind of
works out.

Speaker 2 (01:04:38):
Like I talked about this before bringing up the manifestation
visualization rituals I did on the master class.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
But like in my story, I'm headed to the airport.

Speaker 2 (01:04:50):
I had to leave earlier because I had a meeting,
so my man is still in bed on our original flight,
but I had to get to New York, you know.
And I'm tired because we went out the night before
and we're all cutled up, and I gotta get up
at six am. I'm on the way to the airport. Mandy,
I'm not even joking. The Uber driver says, excuse me,
excuse me.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
One moment and he points to the wheel of his
car like outside, and I'm like, okay. One moment he
starts to blow up his shit with a little bike pump.
I'm like, dog, I'm fucking late. I'm already in a
bad mood because I lost my first class seat because
I switched to my flight.

Speaker 2 (01:05:24):
This is total rich people problems. And let me tell
you something, I don't care this flight I paid for
my seat on because I said, hey, Mandy and I
are doing the breakfast club right after this trip, and
we uppress every single day. I'm gonna spend this money
on my seat because I deserve.

Speaker 1 (01:05:43):
To lay it down. Lost the seat because I had
to fucking leave early, so fucking tire boom blows out.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
Then on the highway tire goes out again. I gotta
get another uber. Thirteen minutes to get this other uber.
It's me and the luggage. While I'm rolling the luggage
to the car, there was so much cobblestone spalls off.

Speaker 1 (01:06:01):
Well fall up. It's now I'm lugging sixty pounds bag
stressed Mandy, this ah get to the airport. Flight is
at nine thirty. I'm there at eight twenty seven. You know,
the bag don't go on if it's not an hour
before I run. I get there. My seat was thirty
four J not lying to you get to the thing?
She answered, my ticket there's four A on the ticket

(01:06:23):
and I'm like, oh my god, and she goes, I
guess people didn't make it, so you got upgrade it
to verse class, Nigga. I paid six hundred dollars for
that seat. Do you know how much I paid for
the one before? Forty seven? I was like, dog, this
is just good karma, because you know what my text
message was to my man about the about the flight.

(01:06:45):
Fuck it, I said, this is shitty. I'm in a
hot ass cart this nigga and got a c It's
my second crid to grave on a highway and I
wrote the God damn, I had a great time. Life
is Good book comes out tomorrow. Boom.

Speaker 2 (01:06:57):
The way that we are starting to move through life,
I don't know if it's something we could have done.
In the beginning of the show, I had to chip
on my shoulder about so many things. I've had so
much anger, so much confusion. Why is it happening to
me just letting that shit go? Like life is good, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:07:14):
Going to be tired this week. You're gonna get on
my nerves. I'm gonna get on your nerve. Absolutely damn.
I mean it already happened, you know, you know time
to this, I'm I'm at the thing. She's like, girl,
I went to Harlem. I switched to that address twenty
four minutes away. I'm like, well the thing is so.
I was just like, but you know, it was only Parson.
I'm like, we got a long week. She gonna get here.

(01:07:36):
And I literally was like, hey, you know I got
anxiety to tell Mandy that because I know what she
feels about.

Speaker 2 (01:07:40):
Time let alone fucking Charlamagne and breakfast club and is
our first thing we stay back, and I hate that.
That's the first place my brain went. But it's like,
what are you gonna?

Speaker 1 (01:07:49):
What can you do? Man?

Speaker 2 (01:07:51):
You gotta just be happy. And at the end of
the day, this shit just came out. I fucked up
because when we still does the breakfast club it sucks.
I was late, but this just happened, Like I really
want to just feel good about my life instead of
putting myself in this I hate everything mode.

Speaker 1 (01:08:07):
Every flight goes through turbulence, like you got to go
through ship, not every flight with me all that, and
I've been on some flights where I ain't feel a
shake get to the first flight. Okay, where were you looking?
I'm just I don't know. I went home. Let's be
very clear. I live in Atlanta. That's that run you know,

(01:08:30):
bring out in the city and there's you know jfkn
or you know, you know you in that whole for hour.

Speaker 2 (01:08:36):
Atlanta's a really they set their airport up. Even though
it's amazed, it's convenient to the city. That is one
thing that Atlanta has.

Speaker 1 (01:08:44):
I was about to say or not if you got
to go on the outskirts. I just happened to live centrally,
but yeah, no, that shit is what happened. The last
question that I want to ask, and I brought this
up on the Breakfast Club, but it was just so
powerful to me when I think about, like how everything

(01:09:04):
pans out. So we're in the south of France. The
last thing that I do for my trip, I went
to like this beautiful villa. It's funny because I'm so American.
I kept calling it the strip, but it's the quassette,
oh right, strip, the strip, like the cossette. But I
was like, yeah, I on the strip because that's what

(01:09:24):
she used we used to call South Beach.

Speaker 2 (01:09:26):
Basically, the beach is a really long road, maybe it's
like a mile and a half. You all the restaurants
and you have all the shops.

Speaker 3 (01:09:32):
So colleagues, I called the trip a little like South
Beach to me, just in the south of France.

Speaker 1 (01:09:37):
So I go to this thing. Shout out to Sharon.
I was invited. She was on my flight, saw me
sitting down. I got invited to do this salon culture
conversation and it was just really dope that what's the company.
It's salon culture conversations, A long culture conversation everything. I
host something and I go to this villa up. Oh
my god, it's so gorgeous. And we get to this

(01:10:01):
last thing. It's like a kind of you know, relaxing
thing for the end of the week. And this lady
comes up and starts talking and heard her tone. Everything
was just so beautiful. And she has this bag she
starts handing around. She's like, pull out a card. People
start pulling out cards, and I want to read the card.

(01:10:23):
I literally took a picture of it because I was
like wow. So I pull out this card and it
said when did you know your story has power? And
I immediately read it and my eyes get watery. And
at this point I'm like, which is drunk? Like you
had that much rose? Why is this making you so emotional?

(01:10:43):
And it made me so emotional because immediately I'm like,
my story is right here in this book, Like I
knew it had power when I was able to quit
my job and do this for a living, Like I
quit my career in twenty nineteen, and I don't even
want to call it a job because I fucking bust
my in school for four years, got two degrees and
was like, this is about to be my career. I

(01:11:04):
finally made it, and now I left that and have
been doing what I've been doing based on my story.
Charlemagne doesn't give us the opportunity to have this book
if we weren't sharing our story every goddamn week on
this podcast. And so when I when I read that
card in front of there was probably maybe twenty twenty
five other people there, and I start sharing about this

(01:11:26):
book and like what it is meant over the last
year and a half to write it, what it's meant
over the last eight years to be on a podcast
to share it. And right before coming to this event,
I met the Martinez on the strip and this girl
comes up and it's like, Mandy, it's you. Her eyes
start watering and she's like like like this, like she's like,

(01:11:51):
I don't want to cry. I just want you to
know that you helped me get through a really dark
time with a breakup and just thank you. And then
we just embraced, hugged and we both just started bawling,
and I was like, that's when I knew my story
had power. From the meet and greets to us going
on tour to us really being able to meet the

(01:12:12):
people that we've had impact on. I was like, maybe
it's powerful. And I know, like people be in the
comments and have their talks about we need to go
to therapy, we'll be single forever. No, it's gonna want
us well or me whatever. I'll speak for myself. It's
just really it meant so much to not only pull
this card but get that story right before it and
now all week we get to talk about our goddamn

(01:12:34):
stories in a motherfucking book and for it to end
with power to say power, that's what this book ends with.
And I was like, oh my Gody hat Yonnavirus, I
see you. And it's just been that. Everything has been
like so amazing. So y'all getting the book this week,
we're putting it in the air. We all thought, but

(01:12:54):
we're gonna be New York Times bestsellers because we are,
y'all rock with us. That's time what happened, I said,
because we live in New York and it's time eight
that too, that too. But I'm just really excited about
this book. And I don't know if you have a
different story, but I wanted to literally on that. I
think it's how did you know your story has power? No? No,

(01:13:15):
let's have not yet. Okay, good story. Well, guys, the
book of that motherfuckers by the way, just got word.
If you're listening to this, if you're listening to this
today Brooklyn, we sold out, So we're excited to see
y'all tonight at Word Bookstore in Brooklyn. However, if y'all

(01:13:36):
want to see us in Philly, pull up Wednesday. That's tomorrow,
the twenty fifth, y'all pull up to Uncle Bobby's and Philly.
We will be there from seven to eight thirty signing books,
meeting and greeting with y'all and really really excited to
touch y'all and feel y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:13:52):
Remember what Saucy Santana said, what what meeting agreed? Charlottagne
was like you outside, he's out just meeting a greeting.

Speaker 1 (01:13:58):
We meet in agreeting y'all at Uncle Bobby's on Wednesday,
and then Thursday, y'all, we are at State Solid State
Solid State Books there where we are having a conversation.
So we and I will be joined by our co
author Tempest X, and we will be having a conversation
where y'all also get to do Q and A with
us as well as signing your books. And then Friday, y'all,

(01:14:21):
New Haven, Connecticut at the Pride Center, We'll be doing
a conversation with what does it black girls read books to?
Or black kids? Yeah? Hold on, let me make sure.
Let me make sure I got cuz, y'all, I think
my boyfriend parents going so that Connecticut. Will hold on,
I want to make sure I get his name. Here

(01:14:43):
we go, Here we go.

Speaker 3 (01:14:45):
Kids with two d's read two so the kid Pig
will be.

Speaker 1 (01:14:51):
Interviewing us about the process of writing the book, and
then we will also be signing those also, if you
are in Atlanta, meet me at forty fourth and third
Bookstore on Sunday three pm, right after the brunch. Baby,
I'll be there also with tempest X as well as
a nice friend of mine moderating. And then weezy on Tuesday,

(01:15:12):
coins and you got to go to Atlanta to La
July Second. I'm gonna be with our girl, Shan Boody,
our Reparations bookstore.

Speaker 2 (01:15:20):
Shan's gonna be interviewing me. But I thought it might
be fun because my mom is there.

Speaker 1 (01:15:24):
Oh, that'll be fun.

Speaker 2 (01:15:25):
A little I'm gonna do a little second, since she
went viral for talking about stroking that I'm a man
at Ralph's on Woolshir asked her.

Speaker 3 (01:15:31):
About that doubt that's crazy. No one that knows what
my mom said.

Speaker 1 (01:15:36):
Every loves that. And guess what really really really excited
to let y'all know, bitch, we will be at Essence Festival.
We got a mother fucking lot this baby. There we go,
There we go, there we go. Well, I want to
wait till you sit down so I can shout out
our sponsor. Well, shout out to AT and T driven

(01:15:58):
Black Stage. Not only are they bringing us at the
German Black Stage, we will be sitting with the Candy Burusts.
Really excited to be talking to Candy. Y'all know I'm
a housewives stand so we'll be having a conversation with her.
And also AT and T is supporting us as authors.
So if you come to Essence Festival, Wall supplies last.

(01:16:20):
You can go to the AT and T booth and
get No Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration
and power. Also, right after our live show, we will
be signing books, so you can bring it, you can
buy it against the port of local bookstore or if
you go to the marketplace at essenspest As Wall Supplies
last you could pick it up. Yeah. Also believe us

(01:16:41):
Guilla is also sponsoring books for that weekend as well, So.

Speaker 2 (01:16:46):
Yeah, maybe we man, we're gonna be having some really
cool talks about HIV, black women and how to stay safe,
sponsored by Gilliad who are coughing some books for all
the girls that need to read too.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
So come and see you some on Saturday. Inter you can,
I can, I really ruin your walt and there you go, y'all.
Thank y'all so much for tuning in to yet another
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