July 21, 2025 • 56 mins
This week these New York Times Bestsellers are going SOLO! Mandii opens up about how things have changed since moving to Atlanta, while Weezy shares her date night plans and gets into a spicy debate on whether it's wrong to recycle date spots. Things take a chaotic turn as Weezy recounts a dramatic choking incident, and the ladies share an exclusive excerpt from their New York Times best-selling book No Holes Barred. The conversation heats up with viral reactions — including being “graced by God” to help a husband cheat, and a wild story of a mistress setup gone up in flames. The duo then reflect on the challenges of cheating, dive into the origins of the Kama Sutra, and wrap with a deep discussion on morals, virtue, and ATL culture.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say
decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsty.
You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Oh wait, you want to say together decisions decisions. Hey guys,
welcome to another episode my decisions decision.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
I'm your girl, mad DV.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Are you talking like that because you even dressed on Yeah,
I'm a little sophisticated lotot classy, a little demureur.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
What happened to hear?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
The girl was given demure and we lost time because
because a crackle went in fucking copyright and demure.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Right up on all the goddamn No, that is exactly
what happens. I'm weazy.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Welcome back for another episode. We're recording this episode out
of Atlantern, Georgia. Sure, so now you can let him
by a belt bibe five six months?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yes, So what's it like?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
And hel I realize the Southern hospitality ate so hospitality atalist.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
It ain't given what they said it was given.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Now.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I don't know if it's because I god damn too much.
I don't know if they thought the sweet tea was
gonna make up for it.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
But these people is really slow out here.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
They're slow, like they're slow and they don't want to
be a goddamn work And I stay that, Oh.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I see that.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
But I'm gonna say the Southern hospitality is a little
different because there's it's so warm, like they're so warm
and loving, like I had a terrible way for wait,
who's warm and loving?
Speaker 1 (01:37):
So I had some sushi in the airport because I
was like, airport sushi and the airport is nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You want to know what's crazy, diabolical bitch in a
Tulum airport there's a Michevan's dark sushi restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
You weren't talking about.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
I just I'm trying to defend myself because what I
called my niggas told me the sushi said, I thought
you was still there for big.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
It was just a tilly rope bitch. Anyway.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
So the girl brought something else out and I was like, oh,
this is what I ordered. Could I also get that
water and bring you out? Did I say I was
gonna bring your baby? Why you ain't say nothing to me?
You know it's crazy, And I was like, she's so cute.
I ain't gonna hold you, sir, ma'am, and David is
not making up for incompetence, beach.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
What I tell.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
You, bro, I had bitched christ.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Like because here's the thing. In New York, they'd be
a fish in this pup.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
They'd be like they with best because bitch, they got
fifty eleven people that they motherfucker got bet and they
get paid, get paid.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Some down here is like, bitch, So is that why
you like that one job? You said? What is that?
Why you like that one spot that we went to
because there was sad? This isn't is it crazy? Great?
Which one? Did I take your favorite? Another place that
we just went to? By by that spot? Yeah, don't
give it.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, I don't know what kind of food is it?
It don't matter because you'd be liking the safe s
didn't it? Didn't you given the team more work and
pulse because I'd be like, hey, bleep that ship, the wheezy.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Motherfucker barbacue this barbecue.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
That's it?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I say, barbecue spot. But let me tell you you're
talking about my Atlanta spot.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Okay, Yeah, that one was because we said at the
bar and the bartenders no meat first, they do. Okay,
because in Atlanta that toast o lytic. Shit, really do
hit that mother fucker Fried Snapper. But the service, That's
what I'm saying. So I said all of that to
say it's been different living down here because I'm.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Like, what do you love and what do you oh?
What do I love about Atlanta Georgia?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Actually something too that my boyfriend really enjoyed because he's
in LA and he's from a town in the UK
where he was one of the only black people, so
like he really loves how black Atlanta was, and I
think I enjoy that too. I feel I feel more
home here than anywhere. Also, maybe the audience doesn't know,
(03:53):
this is my third time living in Atlanta.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
So I went to.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
High school here shout out to Lakeside. So I lived
here in five oh six, moved back here two thousand
and nine, twenty ten. This is now my third time here.
Completely different Atlanta than when I went to high school
and when I moved back. But people really say this
all the time. What So one of my good friends, Brandon,
he's on a Patriot episode. He's from Atlanta, and like
(04:17):
he says, every time he's here and he needs people's age.
He has constant conversations about like this new Atlanta, Old Atlanta,
New Atlanta.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
What was the thing?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
So, I would say, my favorite part about being here,
y'all alaugh, it's.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
The belt line. Oh you said? You walk in all
the time, three times a week minimum, and me and
my best friend do it. How long is it? Long
as fuck? It's like long as fuck? Like how long
does it take it a walk?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Because my best friend parks the car, we go a
certain amount and then walk back, so we end up
doing about two point three.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Miles every time we walk. That's good.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I love the ability to be so close to my
friends I've been friends with for ten years plus.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
So even on Easter, my best.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Friend Taylor, who has been my friend since tenth grade,
we went to high school together here in Atlanta. She cooked,
so we went over there and it was just like
it just felt really good. I also like too that
everyone has houses, because like, you can hang out in
people's houses, which is much cheaper than going out. Well
what I mean you don't do in New York. I
wasn't going to people's houses. No, niggas live with people.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
It's small. It's like people's houses. No, man, he's not
as comfortable. You're not as comfortable.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
What I don't like is the service here. The service
is terrible. Everywhere. Everyone is angry, upset. I get it tariffs,
but it's fucking like people don't seem happy here, which
is crazy because you assume that in New York everyone's
miserable and hate it. And you say good morning, neighbors,
and they say, just like a standard possible, But I
(05:54):
expected like it to just be more hospitable. But no, really,
like when you think about it, or has some of
the best restaurants in the world. Yeah, when you set
a standard, people know how to follow through, right, And
who has the Atlanta standard?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I don't know. Like I'm waiting. I do like just
so eat food is here because I don't go as often.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I will shout out some of the restaurants that I
have been into in Atlanta that I really like, food
wise and service wise. A sushi, which is my favorite restaurant.
I always come here, and they're Roomies. Roomies is Mediterranean.
They have one in Colony Square and another one but
those I experienced.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
It, and I mean I'll go try them. Yeah, And
this is the worst Nobuo of all the Noboos I've
ever had. Bitch oh I did it.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Actually, I can't talk to you because they paid me
to go, but okay, yeah, anyway, not as crazy. It
was different restaurant, but yeah, there was a You just
made me think of something when you said community what
it feels like?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
You don't how munch of black people.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
So I, as you guys probably know, my partner and
I plan a date night once a month.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yesterday, now I'm under the weather. Yesterday was my day
to play in date night.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
So I found I wanted to because we love music,
so I thought, let me break down music that we love.
So the first spot was a listening place, like a
listening bar, and this is very popular in New York.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Now.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I don't even want to say it because they getting
too cool. But you type in listening where, I'm sure
you'll find one.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Found one that played all blues. Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Then the next one was what we were gonna eat,
and he loves Caribbean food, so that would be reggae
old school he loves.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And the next place was a jazz bar.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
So when we get to the Caribbean spot, it's called
Mango Bay. The food was great, okay, that's why I'm
shouting it out and He's like, oh, I've been here
before when it was Emani's and he's like, this place
bring me a.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Lot of memories right now. Yeah, I used to love
it here, and I'm like memories, Like what here you go?
Wait that bitch, hey what I know? Brou He was like, no,
this was like my first date spot when I was young. Okay.
I was like all right, and.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Then he's looking at me and he's like, why baby,
Like I haven't been since there's a new men her.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
New stuff like that I have a bone to pick
with this ship.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Okay ahead, because chill out, see And I realized I
was like, okay, maybe I sound silly, weird fucking Everybody's
like and inside, let me give you a.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
Strong example that I had not that long ago. Right,
So I don't want to say it was her birthday?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Right? She wanted to go.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
This girl wanted to go see a ladder, right, Okay, Broadway,
simple Broadway, Disney, cute.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Magic carpet, Genie p It is lucky. My point is
is that what a Q experience.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Right.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
She's like, oh my god, I want to see it,
sobod I'm like cool, right, I'm here, I'm about to
go get his ship.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
But did you see it already? Is it a problem
really that I want to go see with another bitch?
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Isn't a problem that I want to go see it
already now when you want to see it so bad?
And I saw it like years ago, years ago, years ago,
years ago.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Then he had to do the whole same thing. I
may not even been here since like twenty eighteen.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
It was no, I don't say that though, I don't.
I don't see that's the That's what a lot of
you guys up with a date because that was pretty light.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
It don't matter.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
It don't matter because for a girl, I don't care.
It could be thirty years I could have been dead.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
It don't matter. Like they're gonna think came matter.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
No, your body is before the pandemic are eras well.
We talked about like the best beaches you ever bring
to the race.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
It's not like race.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
One of the best beaches I ever been to was Antigua. Okay,
did you wave there with that bitch? He's like, no,
but I really want us to go. I think you'll
love it. Why I don't need to love it? You know,
beaches are on the road. On the difference The difference
is that she wanted to go to the Land. I
know that south crazy. I know she wanted to go
to Latin though, and I'm here like, I'm with it.
I'm gonna go get the tickets. We're gonna get some
nice stities.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
We're gonna see a Latin the monkey, and the g
you know what point right, So I'm fucked up forgetting
these tickets, even though I went to Aladdin already potentially
with another woman before.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
You're not well because it's ask is it? Because so
I gonna hold you. She does that.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
So, my my boyfriend's gonna be in New York. We've
been doing really good, seeing each other every two and
a half weeks.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Let me tell you that's great. So he's gonna be
in New York next week.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
So I said, oh my god, I can't wait to
take you to my favorite restaurant, especially because there's not
a lot of dairy on the on the menu. So
I'm like, let me take you to my favorite restaurant.
So I tell him this is the restaurant I bring
everyone to. But friends, by the way, shout out noavy,
yes everyone, that was a part of our tour video.
(10:33):
I took them to this restaurant. So anyways, this also
happens to be the restaurant where my ex men and
my mom. Sure, but does he know that I told
him everyone came to this restaurant?
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Did you throw that I have said that?
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Why?
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I can't remember why, but nonetheless, why we would motherfucker
have an argument.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
He's like, I don't want to go to your favorite
restaurant because you took your ex here.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
No no, no, no no, I don't want to go because
you too old.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
You it's not even my ex and my mom took
about three or four people I fucked to this restaurant. Exes, friends, colleagues,
business partners, everybody get this goddamn restaurant from me.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
And that's why she got this paranoida.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Why, okay, you know what it is. No, you're not
wrong at all because she requested it. But here's here's
what makes you weird.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
It was weird. Sometimes I want to have a new
experience with you.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
So when I plan date night, thinking I'm gonna surprise
you with this restaurant, I found that I just saw
it opened a few months ago.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
You and you walking like, oh, I remember this. When
he used to be I'm.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Like, fuck, so I'm not giving you this new thing
that you know what that sounds like. I threw this
surprise birthday party for you because I've never done it for.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Anyone you're making. I said, you want to give someone
about you.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
He's enjoying everything that you're planning now because he's been
there before.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Now you don't enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
But technically what you just said was this experience was
for him. He's enjoying it. You shouldn't be there, Yeah,
but it was doing something new. I wanted to give
him a new date night supposed but it's a surprise.
You can't know that he ain't never been there. If
you don't, it's a well. I don't really looked at
the nigga because I said, we ain't never eaven this,
We ain't never that's ode more Caribbean voo because he's been.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
We almost didn't go. I just wanted to show her
a whole new world.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
And the Aladdin was almost canceled because the fact that
I went there potentially maybe with another woman at one
point in time.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
In my life. Okay, so very like, let me say this.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah, I wanted to go out Broadway, and I said hey,
ad In, let's go see Wicked And he said, oh
I saw it already, but.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
I guess I cold see it again. I'll be like, no, no, no,
let's find something new. Would I not?
Speaker 7 (12:48):
Was?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Is that not natural?
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Okay she gave she gave that option, right, but I'm
like it was for her birthday, right.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
If you she's with pussy and she there singing a
whole new world, that's the only reason why it should
be upset.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Actually, no, I'm not mad at you Ador.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
What's he and we just if you let's just man
if the bifth that he used to fuck is on stage,
but you're mad at he bought another bit, I'll tell
you something.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
It's just I'm actually saying this. Alex is going to
hate us. Sorry on YouTube the amount of nigga E forgot.
I'm sorry. How many minutes in enough?
Speaker 2 (13:27):
So basically, like, let's just say we pull up to Aladdin.
The girl used to fuck just happens to be playing Jasmine.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
That's insane. That's that's not that you know? Just such
an are you? If he tells you? If you all
arrive like I can see maybe if you bet, we
not see this money you just found these tickets. We're
not going to told me like there was a DJ that.
I was like, I don't care. Well what you don't
what she told before? Okay? Yeah, maybe you'd go crazy.
(14:02):
Yeah imagine you knowing that before and then you're watching
the ship on a flip. Oh no, I'm getting the
house super out right there. Okay, So let me tell
you about what happened?
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Is we?
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Okay? So the irony of this clip coming out.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
I don't know if you saw my stories, but the
irony of the chicken Wing clip coming out the day
that this happened was crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
So we're at home. It's a Monday night maybe, and literally.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
I felt so bad.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
I was like, we actually it was probably a Thursday
because that chicken wing clip came out second. No, but
I'm just saying this. We all way camp, okay, Okay,
So we ordered Chinese food. We decided to watch We
make it a thing. Let's watch an old black movie
we never seen me watch disappear in accents and not lengthened,
and Wesley snips in the middle of eating my Chinese food.
(14:56):
It wasn't the bone, but maybe I took a big
chunk in the meat, and I Paul felt this lump
in my throat almost like you know, you eat, take
a vitamin, but it's too big and.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
It just wouldn't move.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
So I'm like, let me not true, because it can't
be that serious. After about like ten minutes, the lump
wasn't going away. And then when I drank water, there
was barely room for the water to get in because
something was stuck in my throat. So I was like,
I think I'm choking. He's like, how are you choking?
If you could tell like between the braces and now this.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
No, no dog.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
I was like, no, baby, I really think I'm choking.
He's like, okay, well eat something else to push it down.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Is it a bone? I'm like, no, it's not sticking out,
but it's it's not going down.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
He looked at me like, I'm dramatic, very much so,
and that's what it was even more upset because I'm not.
So I'm like, let me go to the try to
go throw it up. So I go in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Oh that's right.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
It was a Sunday night because we went out the
night before because my throwing up made him feel nauseous
just listening to it. So I was like, who trying
to get it out, but it wouldn't come out. It
was just keeping like going up and down. So then
I'm sitting down. I'm like, okay, Google what to do
when someone's choking. He's like, are you choking? I'm like,
something stuck with my tongue choking. So basically you dip
bread and water and you try to push it down. Okay,
(16:22):
we ordered a sandwich, literally ordered it. You ain't breaded out, No, girl.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'm trying to use me. Okay, all the bitch is
tell me back. Okay.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
So I'm eating water, I'm like fucking drinking, drink and drinking.
Nothing's happening. Now we're going to an hour and a half.
So for some reason, I don't know if it's because
it was too much, but the Internet said, my chest
starts to hurt, oh, like very sharpening, like like spasing.
And now he's looking like, what the fuck do I do?
So it says if you feel sharp pains in your chest,
(16:51):
call nine one one. Well damn, I was like, well,
let's come, no.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
You gotta call it uber? Did you?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Was you an ambulance? He drives right, let's stays out
on the ambulance field. He was like, let's see what
happens first. One of the other things that said to
do was get a carbonated drink like a Coca cola. Okay, inherently,
and then we googled when you go to the emergency room,
what do they do?
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Give you a coke? Literally, I'll do that. Do coca cola? Okay.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
So we go to the bodega together because I was
scared to be home alone.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Was in bed with pharmaceuticals cause I had three cans. Damn,
it was not much for that.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
You should have just ate bread. Like the bread wasn't
taking it well. The coca cola was making me burn.
Burtur Yeah. So finally the chest paints are getting worse
and I'm burfing like crazy. I'm like, he's taking me
the hospital. We get dressed, We go to the hospital.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Didn't try to throw up when it wasn't working.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
It was getting stuck, and it says, you don't want
to get it hot too high up because you really choke.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
You want to keep it low. If it's low, you
didn't like do the it.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Didn't work, okay, mind you, I'm choking like this for
two hours. We get to the first emergency room, which
we didn't know was an urgent care. We just google around.
We get to the East village, I walk in. The
guy the doctor at the desk sat, this is urgent care.
When he heard my symptoms, he said, your chest hurts
and there's food stock and I'm teared up. He's like,
(18:17):
either I call nine one one or you need to
prove to me you're going to a hospital. I'm like,
because my phone. He was like, oh, not letting me leave.
I'm like, my boyfriend's right outside. He's like, you need
to call him. Of course, I'm in a rush line.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
I got my phone. Do you know what it's like that?
Remember something? I spot? Bitch. I'm like six four six
six six. Finally I get him on the phone. He's,
what's crazy? I don't even know all my boyfriend I
want to start with. Not even the first number. It's
like a five o one right, No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
It's not even a plus four to four no, no, no, no,
I'm forgetting an American number.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Yo. I keep forgetting that. And that's why I thought
he don't have a I don't know at all. The
first three number. I don't even know the zip code
of that's crazy girl. So they called on one. They
got onto this Nigas number.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
He comes back around, know, he goes take me to
the emergency room and he just looking at me and
I'm like, you think.
Speaker 6 (19:07):
Getting me adrymatic, dramatic because the last thing that happened
was he had to fucking break up and yours and
he's like, no, baby, I don't it's fine.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
He dropped me off at triage. I get to the
front and I'm like this cause it's getting worse.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Curl. They take me immediately. Here's the gag. No, I
was about to say.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
They plucked me down and I can't breathe because it's
getting worse. And the woman's like, quick question, he suffered
from anxiety And I'm like no, no, so because my
chest was hurting.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Did they hooked me up to this? Ekg oh my god,
min Gi. I'm in the middle.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Everybody's looking at me too. It's like they know there's
no curtains. This is like emergency triage. In the room,
there's like thirty people looking at me. They're hooking me
up to all these tabs, all these things on my
fingers and then finally a nurse comes over and she's like,
where do you feel it?
Speaker 1 (20:03):
I point to where I feel it. She's like, let
me put gloves on. She did some kind of trick
with my throat. Bitch.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
I don't know what kind of dick sucking tip this is,
but it opened it up and it got it out right,
so I felt it go away. But now I'm like, fuck,
I'm hooked up to all these machines. Do I keep
this whole shirt?
Speaker 4 (20:24):
No?
Speaker 2 (20:25):
She solved the problem, so I'm like, I think it's fixed.
And they're like, well we have chess fancy of this
day and I'm like okay, and I'm like, oh my god.
Now my boyfriend's walking in after he parked the car,
and I'm sitting there and I'm just like, ooh, do
I hunch over? So he's not like this bitch got
off fund the house at three in the morning, Eat
Chinese food girl and the doctor came over.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
She was like, so it was a chicken wing. I
was like, I never told you it was chicken. I
said it was food.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
You raise his horror and she was like, well, we're
gonna hook give to some IVSA back.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
I said, oh no, no, I don't need to pack
this much. I feel better, I yelled. I say, don't
m I around me. Don't girl, don't know better? Don't
you sell me?
Speaker 2 (21:09):
No more tests? Wow, bitch, we get a car and
I was like, when you walked in there, you saw
this feeling bad?
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Yes, I did. I thought myself. I knew if this
bitch was waiting one more meet, she would have burked
it up. Girl was so we got hold at four
o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Beach really was out three hours dealing with emergency room
shape because I was choking.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
And I just want to say shout out to this
thing of being a trooper. Because I literally looked at him.
I was like, you know what, bitch, just be like,
would you love me if I was a word that
is you. I was looking at him. I was like,
you know I was in the hospitals. Look at me
like you hated me or you love me. He's like, boo, baby,
what the fuck? Dog?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Choking is close to drowning though, Oh no, lie, like
this is well yeah, if you ever chosen on the
bone or saw the asphyxiation, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
There was literally crying.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I'm like, I think it wasn't looking die I was
so scared. And apparently the doctor said, when you have braces,
a lot of people forget to chew their food because
you have to chew it like double.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
How do you forget if you got to do it double?
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Because naturally when you're eating, you don't chew that much,
but it's harder to break down the food. Crazy anyway,
So that was my new adventure. Also shout out to
the nurse that you need very embarrassing when they look
me up to ekg.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
She walking by a little clip where and she was like, wheezy,
I tell She looked twice and I was like, girl,
get me in and out.
Speaker 8 (22:29):
I heard.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
You a hazard.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
Literally at this point, you are a hazard. It's time
we in the studio. Is something medical?
Speaker 7 (22:39):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Am? I?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Breaking the brace is choking on a bone? Allegedly, Well,
I'm ready to get rid of these braces. And then
you know what he said to me, trying to try
to be funny but not be funny.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
When we got home, he was real quiet.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
He was like, I feel like you're the type of
person that needs the top of the premium insurance. If
we're gonna be doing that, if we're gonna be going
to the hospital.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
You need the best of it. You don't need no
little bullshit like you got. We might need to put
you in a bubble.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Literally there was some boy not bubble boy is crazy, bro,
Well then you really don't.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Like skin, bro. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Me and Brehanna, I was like with you, Mohama's anxiety
I have because I'm on birth control.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Like, so you do have anxiety? No, no, but you
told me to a medical a lot of medical. I'm
an anxiety girl. Hello, but as you trying to say
it gas lighting chalk, you said no, I had got anxiety.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
You lied.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
I also live. When they asked me, I have to
be lied sext me? WHOA you should not be ashamed?
How dare you live in your truth? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
You know they only have people lot Oh, they don't
have your lifetime. When you go which people have you
had sex within your lifetime? That's what I feel that
though I do ask you a question last twelve then
they say men or women, and then you say both. Well,
y'all say both, Sorry.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
They had it, Paul.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Okay, y'all have after our catchup every episode, so we're
gonna be doing something fun we're gonna give you snippets edit,
and Mandy gives me a number, and I'm gonna read some.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Things, or I'll give you one ear Okay, give me
a number. Sixty nine? Is it mine of yours? Course?
Sixty nine? So sixty nine comes from mine chapter.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
Ooh. Up until the age of thirteen or fourteen, I
had no idea about almost anything when it came to
sex besides insert penis and vagina.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
That's all I'm gonna get, Like, I need to wage.
This is my chapter. Can I put it back there?
Can you put it back? Yeah? It's me talking about
all of my ups and.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Downs and unlearning problematic ways in which we learned about
anal sex and my thoughts around and me acknowledging my
own homophobia.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Oh yeah, that was a good chapter. Can I put
it back there?
Speaker 2 (25:23):
Give me a number. I'm going to eighty six. I'm
going to give you the number one hundred and twelve. Okay,
I think number two one.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Twelve that is creative. Oh oh, okay, this is just
so oh this kind of sad.
Speaker 7 (25:43):
Oh this is when the page stops her. Oh no, okay, yeah,
matter it got dark. Give me, give me, give me
no no, no, don't read it. Give me forty two. Okay,
no'm mine, give me forty nine.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
Okay, get us out of here. Oh, I'm not gonna
hold Okay, this is funny. The first word on the page,
it's Mandy's What the fuck is this?
Speaker 2 (26:07):
It was so interesting that I found this feeling of
safety and complete ease with two strangers, and I decided to.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Say fuck it yet again? Nice, yes, good s.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
It's crazy because and I'll share with you guys, I
have wrapped filming the audible version of this, and I
assume Weze just landed in the pain chapter. So I
chose because they were the easiest ones for me to write,
because I was like, so for the pain chapter, you
chose paying to read first.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I chose pain first. Damn Beach, Sorry, I am reading my.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
It was my damn I can't remember now it was
either my abortion chapter or my sexual I believe it
was my sexual assault chapter. I get done reading it,
I come out of the booth and the engineer is
sobbing oh and like, and I don't want to do
black girl. So I'm through my pain chapter and she
has no idea what she's recording.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
Bitch.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
They record Future and ran pur Nigga's in the studio,
so she has no clue.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
She's just on the schedule recording Black Girl shout out
to her.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
I come out to the studio and she's like, I
need a break because normally they take breaks based on me.
And she's like, can I get a hug? And she's sobbing,
and she's like and she's like, this book is so important,
thank you, And I'm just like, like, I'm now crying
because so daring reading this. There's two chapters where I
(27:31):
literally start crying reading it. In mind, you didn't cry
writing it, but as I read it, because I'm talking
from the voice of myself and talking to my mom
or myself, talking to people who made me feel like
I should expect my sexual assault, And as I'm reading
the words, I literally start choking up and bitch, your
(27:52):
voice can't be cracking for the audiobook?
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Do they keep it what they do?
Speaker 2 (27:55):
No, no, no, no. Of all the things we've done,
reading this book for you, y' all literally is one
of the most mentally draining and hardest things I think
I've ever had to done. With the Freedom podcast, it's literally, well,
we're only doing the shared chapters bitch hard as fuck,
like I was hitting on my best friend, Like, bitch,
(28:16):
I need a drink.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
We need to read Negotia. No bitch when I tell you,
oh yeah, we ain't get paid enough. That shit was hard.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
So if you guys did not know, No Holes Bart
is also available on audible. Audibly however you listen to
your audiobooks kindle all of that. Do also purchase the hardcover.
And also we're going on tour bringing the pages to
the stages. Make sure you come and support us for
the No Holes Bar Tour. Well, let's lighten it up
with some reactionary bullshit. Okay, I actually want to show
(28:48):
y'all to de Lulu clips, not to de Lulu.
Speaker 8 (28:51):
This is the first Okay, I had a radical heart
shift from that moment I got in my word under
my word, I just completely changed as a person. And
I realized that God loves me, that God has a
purpose and plan for my life, that God chose me,
that I'm fearfully and wonderfully made. So he would call
me out my name, it wouldn't bother me because I
allowed God's voice to be louder than his. And when
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I was going through transition of him not coming home
on the weekends, not being there, telling me I hate you,
I'll never love you. I wish I never married you.
I knew that life and death is in the power
of the tongue through the word of God. So I
would say, you will love me one day. We will
have a good marriage one day. And although he would
go out for weekends, I would literally help him get
ready to go meet his side check by ironing his
clothes and getting him ready for the night. And these
(29:34):
are all things I was grace to do. I would
not encourage anybody to do that unless you are.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Graced by God to do this. But once I knew
who I was, I realized, now here's why. Oh my god,
sinners is there.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Okay, you said what you gotta say, and I'm gonna
say what I gotta say because I might lean a
little bit.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
At this point. Everyone's seeing sinners right the reason of
anything thinking about sinners.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
I was like, yo, okay. So I told a friend
who is very scared of scaring movies.
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Don't worry. God kind of wins in the end.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
But they said that on a call with black effect,
and they said, bitch, don't tell us the end, but
he doesn't win in the end now because when Sammy's praying.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Hold on Brone, people may still haven't seen it, y'all.
That ship right now.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
But when he's praying, they're not dying from the prayer.
They dying from the sunset. And it just kind of
exposes how bullshitty church fo guard. This woman was a pastor.
This is not people that believe in God, by the way,
church fulk and y'all know, it wasn't talking about you're.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
Telling me God made you do this, although in the
Bible don't they talk about you?
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Okay, because from what I know, when you guys make
the vow to be with each other, to honor each other,
how is one thing that God wants for you? Not
the save as the vows she made that day. And
it's a big disappointment to watch somebody who's leading a
congregation and telling us what she would allow someone to
(31:11):
do to her because God wanted it. So when I
heard her speak of this, I think first time, y'all know,
I think religion is a cult. That's my views and
thoughts on that. However, what I got from this clip
is that she is using the name of God to
(31:31):
save her. Sure, Nope, to explain her her non monogamous
viewpoint on relationships. The fact that you were ironing your
man's clothes to go see his side, chick, is just
you using God as an excuse to actually say that
you're okay. But I didn't get that because she brought
up him cursing her out, well, it didn't seem like
(31:53):
she was well. And then he stepped out, he cheated.
I knew you'd come back and be a good husband
to me, I'll let you go like that to me
was God said that you would come back to me. Ah, bitch,
I'm gonna let you go do what you want to
do because I'm gonna stay here, whether you chating.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
On me or not, whether you're a good partner or not.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
To me, is actually her using God as an excuse
to admit that she don't really love herself. She doesn't
believe she deserves better. She loves this nigga through anything,
and the fact that you fucking on another bitch don't
bother me. So let me just sit here and say
God's voice when she talks.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
About how he treated her like he was calling me
out of it.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
That's part where she doesn't believe she deserves better, so
she gonna put up with the nigga she love A
God said.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
Okay, now here's a comment that I think is insane.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Love you though, Jay Murphy, He said, it sounds very wild,
but it also sounds like she was very serious about
the covenant she made with God despite the infidelity. Marriages
are spiritual legal agreements in the spiritual world as well
as the physical until death. To us part literally means
death is the only thing that can separate, and nowadays
we're accustomed to divorce for our own reasons that hold
(33:02):
validity in our eyes. But when people stay and fight,
sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. She stayed the
fuck down and didn't have to. Seems delusional, but it's
a true reflection of her character and heart. Most women
wouldn't last a day in her shoes because they would
have been checked out. And that's fine too, you know what.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
I was like, Kobe, can we all sing? Can we
call a spade a spade?
Speaker 2 (33:21):
What? It sounded more crazy, but we absolutely accepted when
Gia said it, I asked her why she didn't leave
the marriage after and be cheated on her?
Speaker 1 (33:32):
And what did she say? Just for the kids.
Speaker 9 (33:34):
And she said the only explanation and I thought it,
but God, God is because God, and he admitted he
cheated that.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Nikola was sitting right there being saying, yo, yo're talking
about forgiveness with God like in my opinion, I don't
know if you heard that, but to me, when she
brought up God, it was like, Hey, I found forgive forgiveness.
This to me, she just didn't say. She said she
was graced by God the iron close to another beach
because because through God he didn't know, but through God
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she got through it. Really, but that's what I'm saying
to me, it's the same thing. One sounds nicer than
the other. One is explained differently because they both speak differently.
She sounds a lot more preachy, Gilla said, said it
in a way that was I think more digestible for
us to not question. I think it was probably relatable
to because a lot of times in a hard relationships,
(34:28):
I'm pulling up another Delulu clus but a lot of
times and and also Gia didn't sound Alulu to me.
That's why I said, it's the way she's sounding. This
woman sounds more preachy and leaning into God is the
all great manners. So why she's accepting bullshit?
Speaker 1 (34:42):
But she said.
Speaker 2 (34:43):
Accepting bullshit while Gia was forgiving, accepting bullshit and forgiving bullshit.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
No, I don't see a huge line with that. Let's
agree to disagree on this.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Accepting bullshit and forgiving bullshit. What is the difference to you,
okay and accepting that something happened and forgiving it?
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Are they not the same? Here's the difference to me.
Forgiveness means you've approached me with a mistake you made, okay,
I you aren't going to do it again, and a
mistake is not falling into other pussy. But if you
want to use mistakes, sure.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
Sure, But whatever it is, like you, you did something wrong, Okay,
you did, You're not want you don't want to do
it again.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
You're owning up to it. Fine. Accepting bullshit looks like
if Envy was having Gia.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
I in the fucking clothes and call it her a
bitching horror in the middle of you, because that's what
this nigga is saying. I do not think the two.
I mean, obviously their situation isn't as crazy. That's probably
why it's bad. But yeah, maybe in that scenario. Okay,
(35:43):
here's another crazy couple. I don't know if y'all remember
this as an old clip too.
Speaker 1 (35:47):
There was a big infidelity in New York that took
me ten years to heal from ten years ten years, and.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
We would go through the motions because with that infidelity,
who you don't want to wish it on your worst enemy.
Speaker 1 (36:02):
We had to experience murder through that.
Speaker 4 (36:06):
I was held at gunpoint with my own gun and
watched the mistresses I was living with at that time
killed in front of me, which she had to bear
that burden too. We lost our home to marson. Then
an innocent person was killed rushing to the fire of
our house burning down. Because of our mess, it was.
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Hard to get through and we had we had some
counseling and we felt that we were now.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Here's so, as the story does, bitches, and it is,
the lives was lost because you couldn't keep your dicking
your beans. Is she still there?
Speaker 2 (36:48):
Here's here's what Apparently, as the story goes, the mistress
had someone come get her, killed her, lit their house off.
Speaker 1 (37:00):
I don't know if it was one, and the mistress said,
who come get what? Explain this to me? Okay?
Speaker 2 (37:04):
So the mistress set him up for robbery, okay, and
the robbers off the mistress.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Damn bitch? What yes?
Speaker 2 (37:14):
And from what apparently reports are the husband and the
wife's house burnt down from another mistress because who just
set their house on fire? Probably another bitch that was
apparently it had to do with the setup. So just
because this nigga cheated, they lost their home, a bitch
(37:36):
lost their life.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Whoever came to put the fire out they died too.
And now you're telling me because you want a new
pussy that bad.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
No.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
But also she's still with him. At what point do
we say, now, what load is about that holds you?
Speaker 2 (38:03):
Was living in a mistress and that bitch sets y'all
ass okay till death? It was part no kill me, No, no,
that is you know what. I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
My spirit will live.
Speaker 4 (38:15):
I will.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
I want to know how.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
She had to have moved out the city, made all
new friends, got a new job, and disowned her family,
because I don't see how she could be sitting next
to the nigga that calls all that she said and
everyone just is like, look each other said it through this?
She said, I mean you know it took us a
while to get through it. I'm trying to pull up
the comments because a lot of people have shi how
do you get through Nigga? Two people died and you
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lost your house. I don't know how you get through it.
Obviously a lot of therapy, but therapy in the goddamn world.
And to me, well, here's the thing. You probably traumab
on through the whole thing you do, so the whole
time is going on. He got fighting you, nigga, You
make it it seem like we got through this this
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mishap together.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Nigga.
Speaker 2 (39:04):
You on the col bridge, you caused all this ship
and now I gotta go through this ship with you.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
And that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
He just saw someone die, So now he's like, oh
my god, baby, you know what's crazy?
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Someone said, made hold on, now, hold on?
Speaker 2 (39:19):
I mean, bro, she was consoling him over the loss
of his mistress. Not he was probably crying to her
mad that he lost the pussy.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
But it's not even that. Maybe because he just saw
someone die, it's traumatic. The bitch that he was fucking
that he probably liked just as much as hurt, or
even a little more more. Man, he was crying on herd.
You're so sad, b no ship traumatic deeds nuts.
Speaker 5 (39:46):
I just lost wait, just lost my better tonsha, I
just lost lost the woman Like what didn't y'all were saying,
when motherfucker Angela Tasha?
Speaker 2 (40:01):
Please, I'm grieving the love of my life to y'all,
Remember that Nigga said that this will go like that.
This is really staying to make her life.
Speaker 1 (40:11):
Either Puerto rican as shit. Listen, that wasn't good. We
don't know what mistress looks. Okay, wait, so some people
are saying, oh, this is the story that she set
him up. Is a rumor. Other people are fighting, but
it says that's what he said. May have happened.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
For all we know, the killer was telling uh that
that story is to bring suspicions away from him.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
Oh wait, maybe he killed her. This is tea.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
The three robbers were never confirmed. The police can't even
prove there were three robbers.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
Mind you. They threatened him with a gun, his gun,
but decided to stab her and slit her throat. Wait
a second, you want to know who this reminds me of?
Speaker 2 (40:48):
Eden? I don't know if you can fet check because
I don't have my phone. There's a really big I
just watched this documentary. There's a big time football player
who ended up dying, and the story is the Spanish nigga.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
No, no, no, no, that's Aaron Fernandez nigga. He was
killing niggas. Yeah, all right, So the.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
Story is this football player was married, who had a
whole nother house and mistress and everything. This young bitch
that he met at like Twin Peaks or some shit
like that. Kea and the dying come to find out,
she says, they claim that it's another nigga. X y
Z come to find out her other lover and her
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the mistress went and killed him. Oh because she was
He was trying to break up with her and they
tried to put it on a whole nother nigga, but yeah,
the mistress.
Speaker 1 (41:36):
All I know is there was a false story created.
It's on Netflix. Look up football players killed by mistress.
Steven mnick. Bitch Not I didn't even Netflix. Steve McNair, No,
I don't need to watch it before I go to
been a loon girl. Ain't scary. It's real life. They
realized jealous girlfriends. He was scared.
Speaker 2 (41:57):
Jill killed by jealous hotel room and I started just
scary stuff popular, so stuff like this. If those three
robbers were never found that nigga might be a psychopath.
He probably killed the mistress because the mistress was gonna
tell the wife, I'd have seen a lot of motherfucking
life timeh Someone said, this has been ten years old,
and there's so many misinformed stories over the years. Someone
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else said, girl, I googled it and the blogs got it.
He definitely said that.
Speaker 1 (42:21):
HELDO hold on another story, because this is what I'd
be liking, y'all. Look up.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
It's another documentary on Netflix, and it actually nigga, This
nigga who tried to kill his wife, who actually killed
his wife and tried to claim it a murder suicide
for insurance policy, ended up starting a whole race war
in Boston in the fucking eighties.
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Look at it.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
But literally all some lies. Bro, niggas will do whatever,
We'll do whatever for money. It's a covenan motherfucking lie.
Speaker 1 (42:47):
So much money? Are you gonna kill me for it?
Can you tell the insurance he's trying to get it together?
It was bro. Chuck Stewart, Chuck Stewart, Thank you, Chuck Stewart. Basting.
It literally started a whole race war and can can
I be so honest? There's two reasons I don't cheat,
only it should be way more on is that I
don't want to like die.
Speaker 3 (43:09):
Because I feel like cheating bill and has caused a
lot of people to be murdered. And two, I don't
think i'd be good at it. Yeah, might, she didn't
kind of hard.
Speaker 1 (43:21):
You will tell on me. I might tell on you
because my cheaters, But then I'm not gonna te your nerve.
As long as we've been having.
Speaker 2 (43:27):
This spot, I'll tell you to open up swing, let
him go, get some more coochie, do something.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
But be honest, I don't think. I don't think i'd
be good at it. Like my like my sub conscious
would like hurt like a lot.
Speaker 2 (43:39):
I'm conscious all the cheating. I think the thing is
like stepping over your tracks. That becomes difficult, like think
about what I excuse me, I think about what I
was cheating.
Speaker 1 (43:52):
And I was like, damn.
Speaker 2 (43:54):
Sometimes I would tell them because what happened to me
for the day, And I told the same sir, Oh God,
bab let me, you just told me that, and I'll
be like, damn, I thought I was on my other
boyfriends like, yeah, well you know the way you just say, yeah,
I told her friend, but you told us on the
black Effect call.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
No, I told a friend that told So you'd be
repeat a story. So that's okay. Yeah, so it makes sense.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
Good babe, you know i'd be repeatd she I was
talking about whole good never again.
Speaker 1 (44:20):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (44:21):
So let's take into Comma Sutra. What do you know
about commisations trip that on the cover of the books,
it be looking like that. Basically it's sexy.
Speaker 1 (44:36):
Okay, So I'm gonna be like touch points and moving
and looking and like it's sexual. There's different positions, so
other positions.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
I knew it was conversator as Indian physicians, not Indian position.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
Okay, Well let me read it because there's more ship
to it that I did not know. Okay.
Speaker 2 (44:53):
Comma Sutra is the Principles of love from ancient and
Hindu text so it can considered the oldest textbook in
Hindu autoerotic love, covering more than just sexual physicians, not
that bible on sex. Basically, I think like there's like
a bunch of books you could buy. It's like almost
like a calendar. Yeah, but The interesting thing is it
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also includes aspects of love, love relates, my break, fifth love, relationships,
and the art of living.
Speaker 1 (45:24):
The author but Sanyanayanada Malangara is believed to have compiled
and systematized this knowledge. Okay, here's what's crazy.
Speaker 2 (45:35):
I thought it was all sexual and these people were
so free and Kavastuture is often shown as something liberal
and progressive.
Speaker 1 (45:42):
But it was only the sex part.
Speaker 2 (45:44):
Because it's so many people in ancient times in India
and today that fall victim to the prejudices of this text.
It vets the cast system of it is and since
and it literally forbids intercast sex. What is?
Speaker 1 (46:01):
What is the chasmics is like society right right, So
you can't talk someone social classes, social social classes. That's thinking.
That's better. So yeah, you can't fuck someone under your
social class based on commons.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
No you don't, Well, niggas don't deserve no asked, what
about rich niggas who want to fuck you? Mitch, I'm
rich out how rich? Rich and rich for blocks? And
what if the blacks is like period? What about Jason MoMA?
He ain white?
Speaker 2 (46:35):
But I'm not fucking these white people within my community?
I'm doing very well, okay, So that's great.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
Principles of love.
Speaker 2 (46:49):
So in the first section they lay the groundwork of
the text by defining comma, which is the pursuit of
desire okay, explaining that attraction and passion to connect to
the heart, which Mandy would like to hear because she
says she don't want to fuck know O beatings it
don't it don't. Understanding your own desires is actually the
key to a good life. The next one getting a partner.
(47:13):
The second section of Kava Sutra covers courtship and marriage,
in which he talks about the qualities to look for
a partner. Physical beauty is first, virtue, and then compatibility,
so me saying, and I know you did because iby
fucking niggas off they looks and I never sometimes get
(47:33):
to the third one. We don't be compatible, but as
long as we both are attracted, it's fine. Now we're
not compatible with being together, but I do believe in chemistry.
Speaker 1 (47:42):
What was number two? Oh, physical beauty, virtue, and compatibility?
What the fuck is virtue? Is it their own ambition?
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (47:49):
I don't be talking about ambition when we talk about
the dick. Now the dude on on before we get there.
I do want to know what virtue is because virtue definition?
Speaker 1 (47:58):
Are we dumb?
Speaker 7 (47:59):
No?
Speaker 1 (48:00):
No, you google? Oh bitch behavior showing high moral standards? Oh,
I don't think I always got that. I've read you.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
If a bitch have a dated a drug dealer, you
don't be looking at vice. You ever was a side
chick to a married nigga, you're not looking at virtue.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
That nigga might have a body under his belt. What morals?
You know what I mean? If he aka his taxes?
What morals? That doesn't.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
Say?
Speaker 1 (48:37):
I'm like you see the snow a scare cannot be
good verse rod we is. Oh that's a good one.
Speaker 7 (48:46):
Do you know?
Speaker 2 (48:47):
Like that's how they say all of my people because
they hated out turkeys, we could take away their bodies
because they was feeding the place.
Speaker 1 (48:56):
That's robinhood.
Speaker 2 (48:57):
It's not Escobar was giving niggas turkeys and the caves.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Well, no, he was killing yoholok, let's do alcohol.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
He is in the third sections about the duties in
a marriage and he explains the role of a wife
in the household and that is only to support the
husband and the family.
Speaker 1 (49:17):
Wait, come a sutra gets in a marriage? Did not
note that? Why then the next one other men's wives.
The fourth text in this section they talk about cooking.
Speaker 2 (49:29):
Sor is about extra marital relationships, seduction and desire beyond marriage.
He explores the dynamics of attraction and infidelity and the
motivations towards it in societal norms, and why many just
seem deem it to be controversial. He says, it is
meant to be about the many ways that people express
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love and desire.
Speaker 1 (49:53):
It is human experience and connection.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
So human experience is like basically infidelity, is it, which
is crazy because we want to talk about virtue. Yeah,
well not only that, no, but we also talk about
ethical nominogamy a lot.
Speaker 1 (50:07):
So as long as you understand it's human nature and
niggas could just be like, I'm I'm a man, so
of course I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (50:14):
But there's it's human nature to to be able to
look at someone and be aroused to not have the
wandering eye if your partners insecure and kids, and that
exact fidelity sometimes goes back to religion, which this doesn't
necessarily cover. Interesting, but he said to let him about
the love expression itself. It is literally human experience and connection.
I don't know if we look this up, but is
(50:35):
the is the Hindu religion much like Islam? Do they
allow most wives and Hinduism? I don't know, but I
mean it says other men's wives, so like it might be.
Now the next session section is interesting and I love
this one. It's about Cortison's. Do you know what a
cortison is?
Speaker 1 (50:52):
The creep.
Speaker 2 (50:53):
It's a bitch selles pussy, not the court of zone cortisan.
So it's a does about it in brothels today in Nevada.
Speaker 1 (51:04):
No no niggas because I'm watching hand mace tills.
Speaker 2 (51:08):
Okay, So women who held significant social power to in
back in this time period for Hinduism describe skills and
seductions and relationships with patrons. So he would give a
glimpse into dynamics of love and desires and how courtisans
were also practical for this society because he believed that
you do need to go out there and fuck people.
(51:29):
And then the final text is seven and it's literally
the positions. It encourages people to approach sex with love, curiosity,
and passion and teaches you how to have physical pleasure
beyond just the physical but psychological enjoyment. So if you
look up all the positions, it's crazy because I thought
khamistuture was just the positions.
Speaker 1 (51:49):
I mean, it means all this other shit.
Speaker 2 (51:50):
I do also want to add in Hinduism, they do
not accept the practice of polygamy.
Speaker 1 (51:56):
And it's so funny my search. That said, otherwise, what
is it? Well, what is your search? Are you talking
about in India or are you talking about religious that?
Speaker 2 (52:05):
Yeah, Hinduism is a text so in India, yes, because
in India it's split between hint well, Hinduism, Buddhism and Islam.
Like Muslim Islamic religio religion. The Islam religion does allow
multiple wives.
Speaker 1 (52:20):
So yeah, in India, because there's Islams. Bitch, I'm trying
to South Park. Don't motherfuck the Latin Sorry I don't.
I'm here, there's Islams.
Speaker 2 (52:31):
But also y'all already know the only Muslim experience I
have is the Harlem girl.
Speaker 1 (52:35):
We tired asos are different? Please no war, Actually, no, bitch,
I'm in Atlanta now, I am in not one Muslim.
Speaker 2 (52:43):
Do you know how everybody has pork they're not here, bitch,
I love it the great pork when I go in
order as see what they say you want bacon. There
is no question about the bacon down here.
Speaker 1 (52:55):
Is there any posit?
Speaker 2 (52:58):
They don't even know what alai Isn't you just say
like hello, The only thing they got some veiggest spots.
Speaker 1 (53:04):
They got some plant based spots. That's the whole tips.
That's it.
Speaker 2 (53:08):
But baby, when I say pork is an abundance down here,
I'm loving it. I'm loving it. Okay, Well, if you
guys want to look up con, I would only go
to the positions because this other shit is a little
too outdated for me.
Speaker 1 (53:21):
Beach. You think it's out dating. I think.
Speaker 2 (53:27):
The idea that sex is super just for pleasure, like
I think we're too much of conscious human beings now.
And when you look up the fourth text, which he
talks about the courtisions, like how they're like there's there's society,
how they're needed in patriarchy and all this shit like
we are sex workers. He's saying, yeah, patriarchy, I believe
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that right, But to me, it makes women more disposable.
The wife's only thing is to support the family and
keep the husband intact, there's nothing about women having sex
for pleasure in here.
Speaker 1 (53:56):
This is male centered.
Speaker 2 (53:59):
I know it's males, but the overall notion though of it,
And maybe it's because we can now express our desired
need of pleasure. I think it's actually healthy and today
to have a book teaching that sex can be just
pleasurable instead of being for us. It's not maternal like
(54:21):
in Christianity women should only have sex to bear children.
That's that's that, that's a sair point, you know what
I mean to know something that old and says you
can fuck for a pleasure. I think it's just that
it's always at the expense of a woman having to
bear the bright bullshit.
Speaker 1 (54:35):
Well duh, because these niggas don't be doing the work.
But also the Indian niggas all do it. Indian niggas
a'll do what you say.
Speaker 2 (54:42):
Islam, the Muslims, the Protestants and the cat Now what
about the Chinese people from Sinners?
Speaker 1 (54:52):
What was they? It was Christian? Yeah, they were Christian too.
Speaker 2 (54:55):
They were she I don't think it was he was
trying to go out there and get some much Nah,
I ain't even go hold you. She did some bullshit
but shall if you want to hear us discuss our
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Speaker 1 (55:15):
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Speaker 2 (55:17):
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Speaker 1 (55:44):
You mean you can rob banks and trains, but you
can't steal these pussy. Here we go.
Speaker 2 (55:49):
You've been saying that for like the last ten days forever.
All right, I'm saying it before the movie came up.
Speaker 1 (55:55):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 2 (55:56):
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Speaker 1 (56:09):
We'll see you next week. Who
Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say
decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsty.
You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Oh wait, you want to say together decisions decisions. Hey guys,
welcome to another episode my decisions decision.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
I'm your girl, mad DV.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Are you talking like that because you even dressed on Yeah,
I'm a little sophisticated lotot classy, a little demureur.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
What happened to hear?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
The girl was given demure and we lost time because
because a crackle went in fucking copyright and demure.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Right up on all the goddamn No, that is exactly
what happens. I'm weazy.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Welcome back for another episode. We're recording this episode out
of Atlantern, Georgia. Sure, so now you can let him
by a belt bibe five six months?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yes, So what's it like?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
And hel I realize the Southern hospitality ate so hospitality atalist.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
It ain't given what they said it was given.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Now.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I don't know if it's because I god damn too much.
I don't know if they thought the sweet tea was
gonna make up for it.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
But these people is really slow out here.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
They're slow, like they're slow and they don't want to
be a goddamn work And I stay that, Oh.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I see that.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
But I'm gonna say the Southern hospitality is a little
different because there's it's so warm, like they're so warm
and loving, like I had a terrible way for wait,
who's warm and loving?
Speaker 1 (01:37):
So I had some sushi in the airport because I
was like, airport sushi and the airport is nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You want to know what's crazy, diabolical bitch in a
Tulum airport there's a Michevan's dark sushi restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
You weren't talking about.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
I just I'm trying to defend myself because what I
called my niggas told me the sushi said, I thought
you was still there for big.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
It was just a tilly rope bitch. Anyway.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
So the girl brought something else out and I was like, oh,
this is what I ordered. Could I also get that
water and bring you out? Did I say I was
gonna bring your baby? Why you ain't say nothing to me?
You know it's crazy, And I was like, she's so cute.
I ain't gonna hold you, sir, ma'am, and David is
not making up for incompetence, beach.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
What I tell.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
You, bro, I had bitched christ.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Like because here's the thing. In New York, they'd be
a fish in this pup.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
They'd be like they with best because bitch, they got
fifty eleven people that they motherfucker got bet and they
get paid, get paid.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Some down here is like, bitch, So is that why
you like that one job? You said? What is that?
Why you like that one spot that we went to
because there was sad? This isn't is it crazy? Great?
Which one? Did I take your favorite? Another place that
we just went to? By by that spot? Yeah, don't
give it.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, I don't know what kind of food is it?
It don't matter because you'd be liking the safe s
didn't it? Didn't you given the team more work and
pulse because I'd be like, hey, bleep that ship, the wheezy.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Motherfucker barbacue this barbecue.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
That's it?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I say, barbecue spot. But let me tell you you're
talking about my Atlanta spot.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Okay, Yeah, that one was because we said at the
bar and the bartenders no meat first, they do. Okay,
because in Atlanta that toast o lytic. Shit, really do
hit that mother fucker Fried Snapper. But the service, That's
what I'm saying. So I said all of that to
say it's been different living down here because I'm.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Like, what do you love and what do you oh?
What do I love about Atlanta Georgia?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Actually something too that my boyfriend really enjoyed because he's
in LA and he's from a town in the UK
where he was one of the only black people, so
like he really loves how black Atlanta was, and I
think I enjoy that too. I feel I feel more
home here than anywhere. Also, maybe the audience doesn't know,
(03:53):
this is my third time living in Atlanta.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
So I went to.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
High school here shout out to Lakeside. So I lived
here in five oh six, moved back here two thousand
and nine, twenty ten. This is now my third time here.
Completely different Atlanta than when I went to high school
and when I moved back. But people really say this
all the time. What So one of my good friends, Brandon,
he's on a Patriot episode. He's from Atlanta, and like
(04:17):
he says, every time he's here and he needs people's age.
He has constant conversations about like this new Atlanta, Old Atlanta,
New Atlanta.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
What was the thing?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
So, I would say, my favorite part about being here,
y'all alaugh, it's.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
The belt line. Oh you said? You walk in all
the time, three times a week minimum, and me and
my best friend do it. How long is it? Long
as fuck? It's like long as fuck? Like how long
does it take it a walk?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Because my best friend parks the car, we go a
certain amount and then walk back, so we end up
doing about two point three.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Miles every time we walk. That's good.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I love the ability to be so close to my
friends I've been friends with for ten years plus.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
So even on Easter, my best.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Friend Taylor, who has been my friend since tenth grade,
we went to high school together here in Atlanta. She cooked,
so we went over there and it was just like
it just felt really good. I also like too that
everyone has houses, because like, you can hang out in
people's houses, which is much cheaper than going out. Well
what I mean you don't do in New York. I
wasn't going to people's houses. No, niggas live with people.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
It's small. It's like people's houses. No, man, he's not
as comfortable. You're not as comfortable.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
What I don't like is the service here. The service
is terrible. Everywhere. Everyone is angry, upset. I get it tariffs,
but it's fucking like people don't seem happy here, which
is crazy because you assume that in New York everyone's
miserable and hate it. And you say good morning, neighbors,
and they say, just like a standard possible, But I
(05:54):
expected like it to just be more hospitable. But no, really,
like when you think about it, or has some of
the best restaurants in the world. Yeah, when you set
a standard, people know how to follow through, right, And
who has the Atlanta standard?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I don't know. Like I'm waiting. I do like just
so eat food is here because I don't go as often.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I will shout out some of the restaurants that I
have been into in Atlanta that I really like, food
wise and service wise. A sushi, which is my favorite restaurant.
I always come here, and they're Roomies. Roomies is Mediterranean.
They have one in Colony Square and another one but
those I experienced.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
It, and I mean I'll go try them. Yeah, And
this is the worst Nobuo of all the Noboos I've
ever had. Bitch oh I did it.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Actually, I can't talk to you because they paid me
to go, but okay, yeah, anyway, not as crazy. It
was different restaurant, but yeah, there was a You just
made me think of something when you said community what
it feels like?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
You don't how munch of black people.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
So I, as you guys probably know, my partner and
I plan a date night once a month.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yesterday, now I'm under the weather. Yesterday was my day
to play in date night.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
So I found I wanted to because we love music,
so I thought, let me break down music that we love.
So the first spot was a listening place, like a
listening bar, and this is very popular in New York.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Now.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I don't even want to say it because they getting
too cool. But you type in listening where, I'm sure
you'll find one.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Found one that played all blues. Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Then the next one was what we were gonna eat,
and he loves Caribbean food, so that would be reggae
old school he loves.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And the next place was a jazz bar.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
So when we get to the Caribbean spot, it's called
Mango Bay. The food was great, okay, that's why I'm
shouting it out and He's like, oh, I've been here
before when it was Emani's and he's like, this place
bring me a.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Lot of memories right now. Yeah, I used to love
it here, and I'm like memories, Like what here you go?
Wait that bitch, hey what I know? Brou He was like, no,
this was like my first date spot when I was young. Okay.
I was like all right, and.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Then he's looking at me and he's like, why baby,
Like I haven't been since there's a new men her.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
New stuff like that I have a bone to pick
with this ship.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Okay ahead, because chill out, see And I realized I
was like, okay, maybe I sound silly, weird fucking Everybody's
like and inside, let me give you a.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
Strong example that I had not that long ago. Right,
So I don't want to say it was her birthday?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Right? She wanted to go.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
This girl wanted to go see a ladder, right, Okay, Broadway,
simple Broadway, Disney, cute.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Magic carpet, Genie p It is lucky. My point is
is that what a Q experience.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Right.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
She's like, oh my god, I want to see it,
sobod I'm like cool, right, I'm here, I'm about to
go get his ship.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
But did you see it already? Is it a problem
really that I want to go see with another bitch?
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Isn't a problem that I want to go see it
already now when you want to see it so bad?
And I saw it like years ago, years ago, years ago,
years ago.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Then he had to do the whole same thing. I
may not even been here since like twenty eighteen.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
It was no, I don't say that though, I don't.
I don't see that's the That's what a lot of
you guys up with a date because that was pretty light.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
It don't matter.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
It don't matter because for a girl, I don't care.
It could be thirty years I could have been dead.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
It don't matter. Like they're gonna think came matter.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
No, your body is before the pandemic are eras well.
We talked about like the best beaches you ever bring
to the race.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
It's not like race.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
One of the best beaches I ever been to was Antigua. Okay,
did you wave there with that bitch? He's like, no,
but I really want us to go. I think you'll
love it. Why I don't need to love it? You know,
beaches are on the road. On the difference The difference
is that she wanted to go to the Land. I
know that south crazy. I know she wanted to go
to Latin though, and I'm here like, I'm with it.
I'm gonna go get the tickets. We're gonna get some
nice stities.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
We're gonna see a Latin the monkey, and the g
you know what point right, So I'm fucked up forgetting
these tickets, even though I went to Aladdin already potentially
with another woman before.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
You're not well because it's ask is it? Because so
I gonna hold you. She does that.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
So, my my boyfriend's gonna be in New York. We've
been doing really good, seeing each other every two and
a half weeks.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Let me tell you that's great. So he's gonna be
in New York next week.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
So I said, oh my god, I can't wait to
take you to my favorite restaurant, especially because there's not
a lot of dairy on the on the menu. So
I'm like, let me take you to my favorite restaurant.
So I tell him this is the restaurant I bring
everyone to. But friends, by the way, shout out noavy,
yes everyone, that was a part of our tour video.
(10:33):
I took them to this restaurant. So anyways, this also
happens to be the restaurant where my ex men and
my mom. Sure, but does he know that I told
him everyone came to this restaurant?
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Did you throw that I have said that?
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Why?
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I can't remember why, but nonetheless, why we would motherfucker
have an argument.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
He's like, I don't want to go to your favorite
restaurant because you took your ex here.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
No no, no, no no, I don't want to go because
you too old.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
You it's not even my ex and my mom took
about three or four people I fucked to this restaurant. Exes, friends, colleagues,
business partners, everybody get this goddamn restaurant from me.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
And that's why she got this paranoida.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Why, okay, you know what it is. No, you're not
wrong at all because she requested it. But here's here's
what makes you weird.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
It was weird. Sometimes I want to have a new
experience with you.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
So when I plan date night, thinking I'm gonna surprise
you with this restaurant, I found that I just saw
it opened a few months ago.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
You and you walking like, oh, I remember this. When
he used to be I'm.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Like, fuck, so I'm not giving you this new thing
that you know what that sounds like. I threw this
surprise birthday party for you because I've never done it for.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Anyone you're making. I said, you want to give someone
about you.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
He's enjoying everything that you're planning now because he's been
there before.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Now you don't enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
But technically what you just said was this experience was
for him. He's enjoying it. You shouldn't be there, Yeah,
but it was doing something new. I wanted to give
him a new date night supposed but it's a surprise.
You can't know that he ain't never been there. If
you don't, it's a well. I don't really looked at
the nigga because I said, we ain't never eaven this,
We ain't never that's ode more Caribbean voo because he's been.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
We almost didn't go. I just wanted to show her
a whole new world.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
And the Aladdin was almost canceled because the fact that
I went there potentially maybe with another woman at one
point in time.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
In my life. Okay, so very like, let me say this.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah, I wanted to go out Broadway, and I said hey,
ad In, let's go see Wicked And he said, oh
I saw it already, but.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
I guess I cold see it again. I'll be like, no, no, no,
let's find something new. Would I not?
Speaker 7 (12:48):
Was?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Is that not natural?
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Okay she gave she gave that option, right, but I'm
like it was for her birthday, right.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
If you she's with pussy and she there singing a
whole new world, that's the only reason why it should
be upset.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Actually, no, I'm not mad at you Ador.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
What's he and we just if you let's just man
if the bifth that he used to fuck is on stage,
but you're mad at he bought another bit, I'll tell
you something.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
It's just I'm actually saying this. Alex is going to
hate us. Sorry on YouTube the amount of nigga E forgot.
I'm sorry. How many minutes in enough?
Speaker 2 (13:27):
So basically, like, let's just say we pull up to Aladdin.
The girl used to fuck just happens to be playing Jasmine.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
That's insane. That's that's not that you know? Just such
an are you? If he tells you? If you all
arrive like I can see maybe if you bet, we
not see this money you just found these tickets. We're
not going to told me like there was a DJ that.
I was like, I don't care. Well what you don't
what she told before? Okay? Yeah, maybe you'd go crazy.
(14:02):
Yeah imagine you knowing that before and then you're watching
the ship on a flip. Oh no, I'm getting the
house super out right there. Okay, So let me tell
you about what happened?
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Is we?
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Okay? So the irony of this clip coming out.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
I don't know if you saw my stories, but the
irony of the chicken Wing clip coming out the day
that this happened was crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
So we're at home. It's a Monday night maybe, and literally.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
I felt so bad.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
I was like, we actually it was probably a Thursday
because that chicken wing clip came out second. No, but
I'm just saying this. We all way camp, okay, Okay,
So we ordered Chinese food. We decided to watch We
make it a thing. Let's watch an old black movie
we never seen me watch disappear in accents and not lengthened,
and Wesley snips in the middle of eating my Chinese food.
(14:56):
It wasn't the bone, but maybe I took a big
chunk in the meat, and I Paul felt this lump
in my throat almost like you know, you eat, take
a vitamin, but it's too big and.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
It just wouldn't move.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
So I'm like, let me not true, because it can't
be that serious. After about like ten minutes, the lump
wasn't going away. And then when I drank water, there
was barely room for the water to get in because
something was stuck in my throat. So I was like,
I think I'm choking. He's like, how are you choking?
If you could tell like between the braces and now this.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
No, no dog.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
I was like, no, baby, I really think I'm choking.
He's like, okay, well eat something else to push it down.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Is it a bone? I'm like, no, it's not sticking out,
but it's it's not going down.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
He looked at me like, I'm dramatic, very much so,
and that's what it was even more upset because I'm not.
So I'm like, let me go to the try to
go throw it up. So I go in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Oh that's right.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
It was a Sunday night because we went out the
night before because my throwing up made him feel nauseous
just listening to it. So I was like, who trying
to get it out, but it wouldn't come out. It
was just keeping like going up and down. So then
I'm sitting down. I'm like, okay, Google what to do
when someone's choking. He's like, are you choking? I'm like,
something stuck with my tongue choking. So basically you dip
bread and water and you try to push it down. Okay,
(16:22):
we ordered a sandwich, literally ordered it. You ain't breaded out, No, girl.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'm trying to use me. Okay, all the bitch is
tell me back. Okay.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
So I'm eating water, I'm like fucking drinking, drink and drinking.
Nothing's happening. Now we're going to an hour and a half.
So for some reason, I don't know if it's because
it was too much, but the Internet said, my chest
starts to hurt, oh, like very sharpening, like like spasing.
And now he's looking like, what the fuck do I do?
So it says if you feel sharp pains in your chest,
(16:51):
call nine one one. Well damn, I was like, well,
let's come, no.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
You gotta call it uber? Did you?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Was you an ambulance? He drives right, let's stays out
on the ambulance field. He was like, let's see what
happens first. One of the other things that said to
do was get a carbonated drink like a Coca cola. Okay, inherently,
and then we googled when you go to the emergency room,
what do they do?
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Give you a coke? Literally, I'll do that. Do coca cola? Okay.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
So we go to the bodega together because I was
scared to be home alone.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Was in bed with pharmaceuticals cause I had three cans. Damn,
it was not much for that.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
You should have just ate bread. Like the bread wasn't
taking it well. The coca cola was making me burn.
Burtur Yeah. So finally the chest paints are getting worse
and I'm burfing like crazy. I'm like, he's taking me
the hospital. We get dressed, We go to the hospital.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Didn't try to throw up when it wasn't working.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
It was getting stuck, and it says, you don't want
to get it hot too high up because you really choke.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
You want to keep it low. If it's low, you
didn't like do the it.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Didn't work, okay, mind you, I'm choking like this for
two hours. We get to the first emergency room, which
we didn't know was an urgent care. We just google around.
We get to the East village, I walk in. The
guy the doctor at the desk sat, this is urgent care.
When he heard my symptoms, he said, your chest hurts
and there's food stock and I'm teared up. He's like,
(18:17):
either I call nine one one or you need to
prove to me you're going to a hospital. I'm like,
because my phone. He was like, oh, not letting me leave.
I'm like, my boyfriend's right outside. He's like, you need
to call him. Of course, I'm in a rush line.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
I got my phone. Do you know what it's like that?
Remember something? I spot? Bitch. I'm like six four six
six six. Finally I get him on the phone. He's,
what's crazy? I don't even know all my boyfriend I
want to start with. Not even the first number. It's
like a five o one right, No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
It's not even a plus four to four no, no, no, no,
I'm forgetting an American number.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Yo. I keep forgetting that. And that's why I thought
he don't have a I don't know at all. The
first three number. I don't even know the zip code
of that's crazy girl. So they called on one. They
got onto this Nigas number.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
He comes back around, know, he goes take me to
the emergency room and he just looking at me and
I'm like, you think.
Speaker 6 (19:07):
Getting me adrymatic, dramatic because the last thing that happened
was he had to fucking break up and yours and
he's like, no, baby, I don't it's fine.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
He dropped me off at triage. I get to the
front and I'm like this cause it's getting worse.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Curl. They take me immediately. Here's the gag. No, I
was about to say.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
They plucked me down and I can't breathe because it's
getting worse. And the woman's like, quick question, he suffered
from anxiety And I'm like no, no, so because my
chest was hurting.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Did they hooked me up to this? Ekg oh my god,
min Gi. I'm in the middle.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Everybody's looking at me too. It's like they know there's
no curtains. This is like emergency triage. In the room,
there's like thirty people looking at me. They're hooking me
up to all these tabs, all these things on my
fingers and then finally a nurse comes over and she's like,
where do you feel it?
Speaker 1 (20:03):
I point to where I feel it. She's like, let
me put gloves on. She did some kind of trick
with my throat. Bitch.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
I don't know what kind of dick sucking tip this is,
but it opened it up and it got it out right,
so I felt it go away. But now I'm like, fuck,
I'm hooked up to all these machines. Do I keep
this whole shirt?
Speaker 4 (20:24):
No?
Speaker 2 (20:25):
She solved the problem, so I'm like, I think it's fixed.
And they're like, well we have chess fancy of this
day and I'm like okay, and I'm like, oh my god.
Now my boyfriend's walking in after he parked the car,
and I'm sitting there and I'm just like, ooh, do
I hunch over? So he's not like this bitch got
off fund the house at three in the morning, Eat
Chinese food girl and the doctor came over.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
She was like, so it was a chicken wing. I
was like, I never told you it was chicken. I
said it was food.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
You raise his horror and she was like, well, we're
gonna hook give to some IVSA back.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
I said, oh no, no, I don't need to pack
this much. I feel better, I yelled. I say, don't
m I around me. Don't girl, don't know better? Don't
you sell me?
Speaker 2 (21:09):
No more tests? Wow, bitch, we get a car and
I was like, when you walked in there, you saw
this feeling bad?
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Yes, I did. I thought myself. I knew if this
bitch was waiting one more meet, she would have burked
it up. Girl was so we got hold at four
o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Beach really was out three hours dealing with emergency room
shape because I was choking.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
And I just want to say shout out to this
thing of being a trooper. Because I literally looked at him.
I was like, you know what, bitch, just be like,
would you love me if I was a word that
is you. I was looking at him. I was like,
you know I was in the hospitals. Look at me
like you hated me or you love me. He's like, boo, baby,
what the fuck? Dog?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Choking is close to drowning though, Oh no, lie, like
this is well yeah, if you ever chosen on the
bone or saw the asphyxiation, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
There was literally crying.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I'm like, I think it wasn't looking die I was
so scared. And apparently the doctor said, when you have braces,
a lot of people forget to chew their food because
you have to chew it like double.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
How do you forget if you got to do it double?
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Because naturally when you're eating, you don't chew that much,
but it's harder to break down the food. Crazy anyway,
So that was my new adventure. Also shout out to
the nurse that you need very embarrassing when they look
me up to ekg.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
She walking by a little clip where and she was like, wheezy,
I tell She looked twice and I was like, girl,
get me in and out.
Speaker 8 (22:29):
I heard.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
You a hazard.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
Literally at this point, you are a hazard. It's time
we in the studio. Is something medical?
Speaker 7 (22:39):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Am? I?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Breaking the brace is choking on a bone? Allegedly, Well,
I'm ready to get rid of these braces. And then
you know what he said to me, trying to try
to be funny but not be funny.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
When we got home, he was real quiet.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
He was like, I feel like you're the type of
person that needs the top of the premium insurance. If
we're gonna be doing that, if we're gonna be going
to the hospital.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
You need the best of it. You don't need no
little bullshit like you got. We might need to put
you in a bubble.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Literally there was some boy not bubble boy is crazy, bro,
Well then you really don't.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Like skin, bro. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Me and Brehanna, I was like with you, Mohama's anxiety
I have because I'm on birth control.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Like, so you do have anxiety? No, no, but you
told me to a medical a lot of medical. I'm
an anxiety girl. Hello, but as you trying to say
it gas lighting chalk, you said no, I had got anxiety.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
You lied.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
I also live. When they asked me, I have to
be lied sext me? WHOA you should not be ashamed?
How dare you live in your truth? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
You know they only have people lot Oh, they don't
have your lifetime. When you go which people have you
had sex within your lifetime? That's what I feel that
though I do ask you a question last twelve then
they say men or women, and then you say both. Well,
y'all say both, Sorry.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
They had it, Paul.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Okay, y'all have after our catchup every episode, so we're
gonna be doing something fun we're gonna give you snippets edit,
and Mandy gives me a number, and I'm gonna read some.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Things, or I'll give you one ear Okay, give me
a number. Sixty nine? Is it mine of yours? Course?
Sixty nine? So sixty nine comes from mine chapter.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
Ooh. Up until the age of thirteen or fourteen, I
had no idea about almost anything when it came to
sex besides insert penis and vagina.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
That's all I'm gonna get, Like, I need to wage.
This is my chapter. Can I put it back there?
Can you put it back? Yeah? It's me talking about
all of my ups and.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Downs and unlearning problematic ways in which we learned about
anal sex and my thoughts around and me acknowledging my
own homophobia.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Oh yeah, that was a good chapter. Can I put
it back there?
Speaker 2 (25:23):
Give me a number. I'm going to eighty six. I'm
going to give you the number one hundred and twelve. Okay,
I think number two one.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Twelve that is creative. Oh oh, okay, this is just
so oh this kind of sad.
Speaker 7 (25:43):
Oh this is when the page stops her. Oh no, okay, yeah,
matter it got dark. Give me, give me, give me
no no, no, don't read it. Give me forty two. Okay,
no'm mine, give me forty nine.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
Okay, get us out of here. Oh, I'm not gonna
hold Okay, this is funny. The first word on the page,
it's Mandy's What the fuck is this?
Speaker 2 (26:07):
It was so interesting that I found this feeling of
safety and complete ease with two strangers, and I decided to.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Say fuck it yet again? Nice, yes, good s.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
It's crazy because and I'll share with you guys, I
have wrapped filming the audible version of this, and I
assume Weze just landed in the pain chapter. So I
chose because they were the easiest ones for me to write,
because I was like, so for the pain chapter, you
chose paying to read first.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I chose pain first. Damn Beach, Sorry, I am reading my.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
It was my damn I can't remember now it was
either my abortion chapter or my sexual I believe it
was my sexual assault chapter. I get done reading it,
I come out of the booth and the engineer is
sobbing oh and like, and I don't want to do
black girl. So I'm through my pain chapter and she
has no idea what she's recording.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
Bitch.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
They record Future and ran pur Nigga's in the studio,
so she has no clue.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
She's just on the schedule recording Black Girl shout out
to her.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
I come out to the studio and she's like, I
need a break because normally they take breaks based on me.
And she's like, can I get a hug? And she's sobbing,
and she's like and she's like, this book is so important,
thank you, And I'm just like, like, I'm now crying
because so daring reading this. There's two chapters where I
(27:31):
literally start crying reading it. In mind, you didn't cry
writing it, but as I read it, because I'm talking
from the voice of myself and talking to my mom
or myself, talking to people who made me feel like
I should expect my sexual assault, And as I'm reading
the words, I literally start choking up and bitch, your
(27:52):
voice can't be cracking for the audiobook?
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Do they keep it what they do?
Speaker 2 (27:55):
No, no, no, no. Of all the things we've done,
reading this book for you, y' all literally is one
of the most mentally draining and hardest things I think
I've ever had to done. With the Freedom podcast, it's literally, well,
we're only doing the shared chapters bitch hard as fuck,
like I was hitting on my best friend, Like, bitch,
(28:16):
I need a drink.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
We need to read Negotia. No bitch when I tell you,
oh yeah, we ain't get paid enough. That shit was hard.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
So if you guys did not know, No Holes Bart
is also available on audible. Audibly however you listen to
your audiobooks kindle all of that. Do also purchase the hardcover.
And also we're going on tour bringing the pages to
the stages. Make sure you come and support us for
the No Holes Bar Tour. Well, let's lighten it up
with some reactionary bullshit. Okay, I actually want to show
(28:48):
y'all to de Lulu clips, not to de Lulu.
Speaker 8 (28:51):
This is the first Okay, I had a radical heart
shift from that moment I got in my word under
my word, I just completely changed as a person. And
I realized that God loves me, that God has a
purpose and plan for my life, that God chose me,
that I'm fearfully and wonderfully made. So he would call
me out my name, it wouldn't bother me because I
allowed God's voice to be louder than his. And when
(29:13):
I was going through transition of him not coming home
on the weekends, not being there, telling me I hate you,
I'll never love you. I wish I never married you.
I knew that life and death is in the power
of the tongue through the word of God. So I
would say, you will love me one day. We will
have a good marriage one day. And although he would
go out for weekends, I would literally help him get
ready to go meet his side check by ironing his
clothes and getting him ready for the night. And these
(29:34):
are all things I was grace to do. I would
not encourage anybody to do that unless you are.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Graced by God to do this. But once I knew
who I was, I realized, now here's why. Oh my god,
sinners is there.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Okay, you said what you gotta say, and I'm gonna
say what I gotta say because I might lean a
little bit.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
At this point. Everyone's seeing sinners right the reason of
anything thinking about sinners.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
I was like, yo, okay. So I told a friend
who is very scared of scaring movies.
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Don't worry. God kind of wins in the end.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
But they said that on a call with black effect,
and they said, bitch, don't tell us the end, but
he doesn't win in the end now because when Sammy's praying.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Hold on Brone, people may still haven't seen it, y'all.
That ship right now.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
But when he's praying, they're not dying from the prayer.
They dying from the sunset. And it just kind of
exposes how bullshitty church fo guard. This woman was a pastor.
This is not people that believe in God, by the way,
church fulk and y'all know, it wasn't talking about you're.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
Telling me God made you do this, although in the
Bible don't they talk about you?
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Okay, because from what I know, when you guys make
the vow to be with each other, to honor each other,
how is one thing that God wants for you? Not
the save as the vows she made that day. And
it's a big disappointment to watch somebody who's leading a
congregation and telling us what she would allow someone to
(31:11):
do to her because God wanted it. So when I
heard her speak of this, I think first time, y'all know,
I think religion is a cult. That's my views and
thoughts on that. However, what I got from this clip
is that she is using the name of God to
(31:31):
save her. Sure, Nope, to explain her her non monogamous
viewpoint on relationships. The fact that you were ironing your
man's clothes to go see his side, chick, is just
you using God as an excuse to actually say that
you're okay. But I didn't get that because she brought
up him cursing her out, well, it didn't seem like
(31:53):
she was well. And then he stepped out, he cheated.
I knew you'd come back and be a good husband
to me, I'll let you go like that to me
was God said that you would come back to me. Ah, bitch,
I'm gonna let you go do what you want to
do because I'm gonna stay here, whether you chating.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
On me or not, whether you're a good partner or not.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
To me, is actually her using God as an excuse
to admit that she don't really love herself. She doesn't
believe she deserves better. She loves this nigga through anything,
and the fact that you fucking on another bitch don't
bother me. So let me just sit here and say
God's voice when she talks.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
About how he treated her like he was calling me
out of it.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
That's part where she doesn't believe she deserves better, so
she gonna put up with the nigga she love A
God said.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
Okay, now here's a comment that I think is insane.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Love you though, Jay Murphy, He said, it sounds very wild,
but it also sounds like she was very serious about
the covenant she made with God despite the infidelity. Marriages
are spiritual legal agreements in the spiritual world as well
as the physical until death. To us part literally means
death is the only thing that can separate, and nowadays
we're accustomed to divorce for our own reasons that hold
(33:02):
validity in our eyes. But when people stay and fight,
sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. She stayed the
fuck down and didn't have to. Seems delusional, but it's
a true reflection of her character and heart. Most women
wouldn't last a day in her shoes because they would
have been checked out. And that's fine too, you know what.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
I was like, Kobe, can we all sing? Can we
call a spade a spade?
Speaker 2 (33:21):
What? It sounded more crazy, but we absolutely accepted when
Gia said it, I asked her why she didn't leave
the marriage after and be cheated on her?
Speaker 1 (33:32):
And what did she say? Just for the kids.
Speaker 9 (33:34):
And she said the only explanation and I thought it,
but God, God is because God, and he admitted he
cheated that.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Nikola was sitting right there being saying, yo, yo're talking
about forgiveness with God like in my opinion, I don't
know if you heard that, but to me, when she
brought up God, it was like, Hey, I found forgive forgiveness.
This to me, she just didn't say. She said she
was graced by God the iron close to another beach
because because through God he didn't know, but through God
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she got through it. Really, but that's what I'm saying
to me, it's the same thing. One sounds nicer than
the other. One is explained differently because they both speak differently.
She sounds a lot more preachy, Gilla said, said it
in a way that was I think more digestible for
us to not question. I think it was probably relatable
to because a lot of times in a hard relationships,
(34:28):
I'm pulling up another Delulu clus but a lot of
times and and also Gia didn't sound Alulu to me.
That's why I said, it's the way she's sounding. This
woman sounds more preachy and leaning into God is the
all great manners. So why she's accepting bullshit?
Speaker 1 (34:42):
But she said.
Speaker 2 (34:43):
Accepting bullshit while Gia was forgiving, accepting bullshit and forgiving bullshit.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
No, I don't see a huge line with that. Let's
agree to disagree on this.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Accepting bullshit and forgiving bullshit. What is the difference to you,
okay and accepting that something happened and forgiving it?
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Are they not the same? Here's the difference to me.
Forgiveness means you've approached me with a mistake you made, okay,
I you aren't going to do it again, and a
mistake is not falling into other pussy. But if you
want to use mistakes, sure.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
Sure, But whatever it is, like you, you did something wrong, Okay,
you did, You're not want you don't want to do
it again.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
You're owning up to it. Fine. Accepting bullshit looks like
if Envy was having Gia.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
I in the fucking clothes and call it her a
bitching horror in the middle of you, because that's what
this nigga is saying. I do not think the two.
I mean, obviously their situation isn't as crazy. That's probably
why it's bad. But yeah, maybe in that scenario. Okay,
(35:43):
here's another crazy couple. I don't know if y'all remember
this as an old clip too.
Speaker 1 (35:47):
There was a big infidelity in New York that took
me ten years to heal from ten years ten years, and.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
We would go through the motions because with that infidelity,
who you don't want to wish it on your worst enemy.
Speaker 1 (36:02):
We had to experience murder through that.
Speaker 4 (36:06):
I was held at gunpoint with my own gun and
watched the mistresses I was living with at that time
killed in front of me, which she had to bear
that burden too. We lost our home to marson. Then
an innocent person was killed rushing to the fire of
our house burning down. Because of our mess, it was.
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Hard to get through and we had we had some
counseling and we felt that we were now.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Here's so, as the story does, bitches, and it is,
the lives was lost because you couldn't keep your dicking
your beans. Is she still there?
Speaker 2 (36:48):
Here's here's what Apparently, as the story goes, the mistress
had someone come get her, killed her, lit their house off.
Speaker 1 (37:00):
I don't know if it was one, and the mistress said,
who come get what? Explain this to me? Okay?
Speaker 2 (37:04):
So the mistress set him up for robbery, okay, and
the robbers off the mistress.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Damn bitch? What yes?
Speaker 2 (37:14):
And from what apparently reports are the husband and the
wife's house burnt down from another mistress because who just
set their house on fire? Probably another bitch that was
apparently it had to do with the setup. So just
because this nigga cheated, they lost their home, a bitch
(37:36):
lost their life.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Whoever came to put the fire out they died too.
And now you're telling me because you want a new
pussy that bad.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
No.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
But also she's still with him. At what point do
we say, now, what load is about that holds you?
Speaker 2 (38:03):
Was living in a mistress and that bitch sets y'all
ass okay till death? It was part no kill me, No, no,
that is you know what. I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
My spirit will live.
Speaker 4 (38:15):
I will.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
I want to know how.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
She had to have moved out the city, made all
new friends, got a new job, and disowned her family,
because I don't see how she could be sitting next
to the nigga that calls all that she said and
everyone just is like, look each other said it through this?
She said, I mean you know it took us a
while to get through it. I'm trying to pull up
the comments because a lot of people have shi how
do you get through Nigga? Two people died and you
(38:43):
lost your house. I don't know how you get through it.
Obviously a lot of therapy, but therapy in the goddamn world.
And to me, well, here's the thing. You probably traumab
on through the whole thing you do, so the whole
time is going on. He got fighting you, nigga, You
make it it seem like we got through this this
(39:03):
mishap together.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Nigga.
Speaker 2 (39:04):
You on the col bridge, you caused all this ship
and now I gotta go through this ship with you.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
And that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
He just saw someone die, So now he's like, oh
my god, baby, you know what's crazy?
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Someone said, made hold on, now, hold on?
Speaker 2 (39:19):
I mean, bro, she was consoling him over the loss
of his mistress. Not he was probably crying to her
mad that he lost the pussy.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
But it's not even that. Maybe because he just saw
someone die, it's traumatic. The bitch that he was fucking
that he probably liked just as much as hurt, or
even a little more more. Man, he was crying on herd.
You're so sad, b no ship traumatic deeds nuts.
Speaker 5 (39:46):
I just lost wait, just lost my better tonsha, I
just lost lost the woman Like what didn't y'all were saying,
when motherfucker Angela Tasha?
Speaker 2 (40:01):
Please, I'm grieving the love of my life to y'all,
Remember that Nigga said that this will go like that.
This is really staying to make her life.
Speaker 1 (40:11):
Either Puerto rican as shit. Listen, that wasn't good. We
don't know what mistress looks. Okay, wait, so some people
are saying, oh, this is the story that she set
him up. Is a rumor. Other people are fighting, but
it says that's what he said. May have happened.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
For all we know, the killer was telling uh that
that story is to bring suspicions away from him.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
Oh wait, maybe he killed her. This is tea.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
The three robbers were never confirmed. The police can't even
prove there were three robbers.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
Mind you. They threatened him with a gun, his gun,
but decided to stab her and slit her throat. Wait
a second, you want to know who this reminds me of?
Speaker 2 (40:48):
Eden? I don't know if you can fet check because
I don't have my phone. There's a really big I
just watched this documentary. There's a big time football player
who ended up dying, and the story is the Spanish nigga.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
No, no, no, no, that's Aaron Fernandez nigga. He was
killing niggas. Yeah, all right, So the.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
Story is this football player was married, who had a
whole nother house and mistress and everything. This young bitch
that he met at like Twin Peaks or some shit
like that. Kea and the dying come to find out,
she says, they claim that it's another nigga. X y
Z come to find out her other lover and her
(41:27):
the mistress went and killed him. Oh because she was
He was trying to break up with her and they
tried to put it on a whole nother nigga, but yeah,
the mistress.
Speaker 1 (41:36):
All I know is there was a false story created.
It's on Netflix. Look up football players killed by mistress.
Steven mnick. Bitch Not I didn't even Netflix. Steve McNair, No,
I don't need to watch it before I go to
been a loon girl. Ain't scary. It's real life. They
realized jealous girlfriends. He was scared.
Speaker 2 (41:57):
Jill killed by jealous hotel room and I started just
scary stuff popular, so stuff like this. If those three
robbers were never found that nigga might be a psychopath.
He probably killed the mistress because the mistress was gonna
tell the wife, I'd have seen a lot of motherfucking
life timeh Someone said, this has been ten years old,
and there's so many misinformed stories over the years. Someone
(42:18):
else said, girl, I googled it and the blogs got it.
He definitely said that.
Speaker 1 (42:21):
HELDO hold on another story, because this is what I'd
be liking, y'all. Look up.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
It's another documentary on Netflix, and it actually nigga, This
nigga who tried to kill his wife, who actually killed
his wife and tried to claim it a murder suicide
for insurance policy, ended up starting a whole race war
in Boston in the fucking eighties.
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Look at it.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
But literally all some lies. Bro, niggas will do whatever,
We'll do whatever for money. It's a covenan motherfucking lie.
Speaker 1 (42:47):
So much money? Are you gonna kill me for it?
Can you tell the insurance he's trying to get it together?
It was bro. Chuck Stewart, Chuck Stewart, Thank you, Chuck Stewart. Basting.
It literally started a whole race war and can can
I be so honest? There's two reasons I don't cheat,
only it should be way more on is that I
don't want to like die.
Speaker 3 (43:09):
Because I feel like cheating bill and has caused a
lot of people to be murdered. And two, I don't
think i'd be good at it. Yeah, might, she didn't
kind of hard.
Speaker 1 (43:21):
You will tell on me. I might tell on you
because my cheaters, But then I'm not gonna te your nerve.
As long as we've been having.
Speaker 2 (43:27):
This spot, I'll tell you to open up swing, let
him go, get some more coochie, do something.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
But be honest, I don't think. I don't think i'd
be good at it. Like my like my sub conscious
would like hurt like a lot.
Speaker 2 (43:39):
I'm conscious all the cheating. I think the thing is
like stepping over your tracks. That becomes difficult, like think
about what I excuse me, I think about what I
was cheating.
Speaker 1 (43:52):
And I was like, damn.
Speaker 2 (43:54):
Sometimes I would tell them because what happened to me
for the day, And I told the same sir, Oh God,
bab let me, you just told me that, and I'll
be like, damn, I thought I was on my other
boyfriends like, yeah, well you know the way you just say, yeah,
I told her friend, but you told us on the
black Effect call.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
No, I told a friend that told So you'd be
repeat a story. So that's okay. Yeah, so it makes sense.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
Good babe, you know i'd be repeatd she I was
talking about whole good never again.
Speaker 1 (44:20):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (44:21):
So let's take into Comma Sutra. What do you know
about commisations trip that on the cover of the books,
it be looking like that. Basically it's sexy.
Speaker 1 (44:36):
Okay, So I'm gonna be like touch points and moving
and looking and like it's sexual. There's different positions, so
other positions.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
I knew it was conversator as Indian physicians, not Indian position.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
Okay, Well let me read it because there's more ship
to it that I did not know. Okay.
Speaker 2 (44:53):
Comma Sutra is the Principles of love from ancient and
Hindu text so it can considered the oldest textbook in
Hindu autoerotic love, covering more than just sexual physicians, not
that bible on sex. Basically, I think like there's like
a bunch of books you could buy. It's like almost
like a calendar. Yeah, but The interesting thing is it
(45:16):
also includes aspects of love, love relates, my break, fifth love, relationships,
and the art of living.
Speaker 1 (45:24):
The author but Sanyanayanada Malangara is believed to have compiled
and systematized this knowledge. Okay, here's what's crazy.
Speaker 2 (45:35):
I thought it was all sexual and these people were
so free and Kavastuture is often shown as something liberal
and progressive.
Speaker 1 (45:42):
But it was only the sex part.
Speaker 2 (45:44):
Because it's so many people in ancient times in India
and today that fall victim to the prejudices of this text.
It vets the cast system of it is and since
and it literally forbids intercast sex. What is?
Speaker 1 (46:01):
What is the chasmics is like society right right, So
you can't talk someone social classes, social social classes. That's thinking.
That's better. So yeah, you can't fuck someone under your
social class based on commons.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
No you don't, Well, niggas don't deserve no asked, what
about rich niggas who want to fuck you? Mitch, I'm
rich out how rich? Rich and rich for blocks? And
what if the blacks is like period? What about Jason MoMA?
He ain white?
Speaker 2 (46:35):
But I'm not fucking these white people within my community?
I'm doing very well, okay, So that's great.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
Principles of love.
Speaker 2 (46:49):
So in the first section they lay the groundwork of
the text by defining comma, which is the pursuit of
desire okay, explaining that attraction and passion to connect to
the heart, which Mandy would like to hear because she
says she don't want to fuck know O beatings it
don't it don't. Understanding your own desires is actually the
key to a good life. The next one getting a partner.
(47:13):
The second section of Kava Sutra covers courtship and marriage,
in which he talks about the qualities to look for
a partner. Physical beauty is first, virtue, and then compatibility,
so me saying, and I know you did because iby
fucking niggas off they looks and I never sometimes get
(47:33):
to the third one. We don't be compatible, but as
long as we both are attracted, it's fine. Now we're
not compatible with being together, but I do believe in chemistry.
Speaker 1 (47:42):
What was number two? Oh, physical beauty, virtue, and compatibility?
What the fuck is virtue? Is it their own ambition?
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (47:49):
I don't be talking about ambition when we talk about
the dick. Now the dude on on before we get there.
I do want to know what virtue is because virtue definition?
Speaker 1 (47:58):
Are we dumb?
Speaker 7 (47:59):
No?
Speaker 1 (48:00):
No, you google? Oh bitch behavior showing high moral standards? Oh,
I don't think I always got that. I've read you.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
If a bitch have a dated a drug dealer, you
don't be looking at vice. You ever was a side
chick to a married nigga, you're not looking at virtue.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
That nigga might have a body under his belt. What morals?
You know what I mean? If he aka his taxes?
What morals? That doesn't.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
Say?
Speaker 1 (48:37):
I'm like you see the snow a scare cannot be
good verse rod we is. Oh that's a good one.
Speaker 7 (48:46):
Do you know?
Speaker 2 (48:47):
Like that's how they say all of my people because
they hated out turkeys, we could take away their bodies
because they was feeding the place.
Speaker 1 (48:56):
That's robinhood.
Speaker 2 (48:57):
It's not Escobar was giving niggas turkeys and the caves.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Well, no, he was killing yoholok, let's do alcohol.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
He is in the third sections about the duties in
a marriage and he explains the role of a wife
in the household and that is only to support the
husband and the family.
Speaker 1 (49:17):
Wait, come a sutra gets in a marriage? Did not
note that? Why then the next one other men's wives.
The fourth text in this section they talk about cooking.
Speaker 2 (49:29):
Sor is about extra marital relationships, seduction and desire beyond marriage.
He explores the dynamics of attraction and infidelity and the
motivations towards it in societal norms, and why many just
seem deem it to be controversial. He says, it is
meant to be about the many ways that people express
(49:52):
love and desire.
Speaker 1 (49:53):
It is human experience and connection.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
So human experience is like basically infidelity, is it, which
is crazy because we want to talk about virtue. Yeah,
well not only that, no, but we also talk about
ethical nominogamy a lot.
Speaker 1 (50:07):
So as long as you understand it's human nature and
niggas could just be like, I'm I'm a man, so
of course I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (50:14):
But there's it's human nature to to be able to
look at someone and be aroused to not have the
wandering eye if your partners insecure and kids, and that
exact fidelity sometimes goes back to religion, which this doesn't
necessarily cover. Interesting, but he said to let him about
the love expression itself. It is literally human experience and connection.
I don't know if we look this up, but is
(50:35):
the is the Hindu religion much like Islam? Do they
allow most wives and Hinduism? I don't know, but I
mean it says other men's wives, so like it might be.
Now the next session section is interesting and I love
this one. It's about Cortison's. Do you know what a
cortison is?
Speaker 1 (50:52):
The creep.
Speaker 2 (50:53):
It's a bitch selles pussy, not the court of zone cortisan.
So it's a does about it in brothels today in Nevada.
Speaker 1 (51:04):
No no niggas because I'm watching hand mace tills.
Speaker 2 (51:08):
Okay, So women who held significant social power to in
back in this time period for Hinduism describe skills and
seductions and relationships with patrons. So he would give a
glimpse into dynamics of love and desires and how courtisans
were also practical for this society because he believed that
you do need to go out there and fuck people.
(51:29):
And then the final text is seven and it's literally
the positions. It encourages people to approach sex with love, curiosity,
and passion and teaches you how to have physical pleasure
beyond just the physical but psychological enjoyment. So if you
look up all the positions, it's crazy because I thought
khamistuture was just the positions.
Speaker 1 (51:49):
I mean, it means all this other shit.
Speaker 2 (51:50):
I do also want to add in Hinduism, they do
not accept the practice of polygamy.
Speaker 1 (51:56):
And it's so funny my search. That said, otherwise, what
is it? Well, what is your search? Are you talking
about in India or are you talking about religious that?
Speaker 2 (52:05):
Yeah, Hinduism is a text so in India, yes, because
in India it's split between hint well, Hinduism, Buddhism and Islam.
Like Muslim Islamic religio religion. The Islam religion does allow
multiple wives.
Speaker 1 (52:20):
So yeah, in India, because there's Islams. Bitch, I'm trying
to South Park. Don't motherfuck the Latin Sorry I don't.
I'm here, there's Islams.
Speaker 2 (52:31):
But also y'all already know the only Muslim experience I
have is the Harlem girl.
Speaker 1 (52:35):
We tired asos are different? Please no war, Actually, no, bitch,
I'm in Atlanta now, I am in not one Muslim.
Speaker 2 (52:43):
Do you know how everybody has pork they're not here, bitch,
I love it the great pork when I go in
order as see what they say you want bacon. There
is no question about the bacon down here.
Speaker 1 (52:55):
Is there any posit?
Speaker 2 (52:58):
They don't even know what alai Isn't you just say
like hello, The only thing they got some veiggest spots.
Speaker 1 (53:04):
They got some plant based spots. That's the whole tips.
That's it.
Speaker 2 (53:08):
But baby, when I say pork is an abundance down here,
I'm loving it. I'm loving it. Okay, Well, if you
guys want to look up con, I would only go
to the positions because this other shit is a little
too outdated for me.
Speaker 1 (53:21):
Beach. You think it's out dating. I think.
Speaker 2 (53:27):
The idea that sex is super just for pleasure, like
I think we're too much of conscious human beings now.
And when you look up the fourth text, which he
talks about the courtisions, like how they're like there's there's society,
how they're needed in patriarchy and all this shit like
we are sex workers. He's saying, yeah, patriarchy, I believe
(53:47):
that right, But to me, it makes women more disposable.
The wife's only thing is to support the family and
keep the husband intact, there's nothing about women having sex
for pleasure in here.
Speaker 1 (53:56):
This is male centered.
Speaker 2 (53:59):
I know it's males, but the overall notion though of it,
And maybe it's because we can now express our desired
need of pleasure. I think it's actually healthy and today
to have a book teaching that sex can be just
pleasurable instead of being for us. It's not maternal like
(54:21):
in Christianity women should only have sex to bear children.
That's that's that, that's a sair point, you know what
I mean to know something that old and says you
can fuck for a pleasure. I think it's just that
it's always at the expense of a woman having to
bear the bright bullshit.
Speaker 1 (54:35):
Well duh, because these niggas don't be doing the work.
But also the Indian niggas all do it. Indian niggas
a'll do what you say.
Speaker 2 (54:42):
Islam, the Muslims, the Protestants and the cat Now what
about the Chinese people from Sinners?
Speaker 1 (54:52):
What was they? It was Christian? Yeah, they were Christian too.
Speaker 2 (54:55):
They were she I don't think it was he was
trying to go out there and get some much Nah,
I ain't even go hold you. She did some bullshit
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You mean you can rob banks and trains, but you
can't steal these pussy. Here we go.
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You've been saying that for like the last ten days forever.
All right, I'm saying it before the movie came up.
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