EP. 435: Truth or Dare, Strippers & Red Flags (Ft. Paul Pierce & Azar)

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, have you ever offered a fly woman out and
you didn't want to have when your beauty and your
body is the blue check ready to put show?

Speaker 2 (00:09):
Oh yeah, don't even sleep.

Speaker 3 (00:10):
I don't know this man and I get to it
real quick.

Speaker 4 (00:12):
They gonna make it comfortable for you. He's gonna be like, hey,
you know, bring a couple of your players.

Speaker 5 (00:16):
Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

Speaker 6 (00:17):
I don't think you should say decisions decisions.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
It sounded like you was talking to it cursing.

Speaker 5 (00:22):
You definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
You want to say together, decision to another episode of Decisions, Decision.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
And seeing Sorry, I'm your girl, Mandy.

Speaker 5 (00:39):
Hey, y'all, I'm easy. We are joining it to Fourresome today.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
It is it's kind of like an orgy. I'm excited
about this one today. Well, and we about to tell
the truth after dark, even though it is midday. So y'all,
we are joined today by Zaar and Paul Peers. By
the way, ladies, I know you have seen his clips.
Just stay with us for a second because we gonna

(01:03):
real his ass in this episode, I promise.

Speaker 7 (01:06):
So I have to tell you how I discoverage all
five So my business partner Alex and I started the
studio a few years ago. So when clips come on
on the internet, that's mainly how I find it if
the person's name isn't in their booking. So I see
this clip going viral with the WTF media block about
this man who look familiar.

Speaker 5 (01:24):
But why do I know? Who is he talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:26):
White women?

Speaker 5 (01:28):
I sent it to the group chat. I said, how
do we remove it? Put it out?

Speaker 7 (01:32):
Of course it's the LA studio athlete and white women,
And I was.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
Like, broal, what was the take? Why did you hate
to take? What was it?

Speaker 1 (01:40):
So?

Speaker 7 (01:41):
From what I can remember, and I would love for
you to say, it was something about white women being
more like docile, submissive and less argumentative.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Okay, yes, he's just.

Speaker 8 (01:49):
They appreciate more. I asked him, why do whit? Why
do athletes like white women? He said, they appreciate more,
and they apologize appreciate.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
They appreciate more.

Speaker 6 (02:00):
Oh please listen, she asked me why. I don't know
from my experience.

Speaker 4 (02:06):
So this is just like an educated guess because I'm
seeing cats and I'm hearing it from dudes who date
white girls who are black, who they outside they race period.
They're just like, man, it's just you know, for them,
they're like, you know, black women these days are too
masculine to where you know they want you to apologize.

Speaker 6 (02:27):
To them for everything you.

Speaker 4 (02:31):
Need to apologize, and when they when they feel like
they don't do nothing wrong, you're like, dam like, it's
just that's what it was.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
No woman is asking a man to apologize for something
he didn't do wrong. So if a woman is demanding
an apology or holding a man accountable, there is nothing
wrong with you showing up and apologizing to me if
you did some fun nigga shit.

Speaker 6 (02:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:51):
But man, we be feeling like, yeah, you gotta apologize
for being one minute late because y'all mad and y'all
feelings there's one minute, like, get over it.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
We are not having fits over a woman at LA.

Speaker 5 (03:01):
I'm having fits over fifteen, Okay.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
I think a fifteen minute great.

Speaker 6 (03:05):
Thirty. Thirty should be like all right.

Speaker 7 (03:07):
Thirty for like a date like where generally don't eat
it restaurant where you should even be seated without the
entire party.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Thirty one.

Speaker 6 (03:15):
It depends on who it is. It depends on who
it is.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
Thirty minutes, all right, listen who it is.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
It depends on who it is. If it's a baller,
he could be an hour late.

Speaker 6 (03:24):
An hour Oh no, no, no.

Speaker 5 (03:27):
No, okay, I have to pose this question no.

Speaker 7 (03:31):
As as like, are we in this brain of I
feel like most women we know, most black women, most
women in this I don't really know bum bitches anymore
I did when I was younger, but like pretty much
every woman in my life is doing well at something.
Does the baller ever value that he got a lit bitch?
And by that I mean literally what she's doing in life?

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Are they excited by the fact that they're meeting somebody
that might be smart as fucked, might de ac Dict might.

Speaker 5 (03:57):
Say masters in her bio?

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Like, I don't think men care about that.

Speaker 7 (03:59):
And I'm asking that question genuinely because that's how you
really then measure why if it's a baller, you don't
give a fuck about being late?

Speaker 6 (04:07):
All right, let me tell you this, So ballers, they're
not looking for that, They're.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Not looking for what part the masters the lit bitch? Okay,
now let's just say it's Instagram bitch. Is she expected
them to wait?

Speaker 7 (04:18):
When we know every other niggas on her line? Why
would she then wait for that baller when she's probably
got a bigger one on the phone.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
Or a bigger one or a big one.

Speaker 8 (04:25):
Yeah yeah, but why would he be on time for
that bitch when he has another Instagram bitch on his
line too? Okay, So they kind of like, do we
live in a world of a reality where people feel
like they have options so.

Speaker 5 (04:36):
They're dating never really courting. Then when you're a baller, like,
is there never any intentionality?

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I'm not gonna lie. That's that's my thing.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
Like even right now, I know like I'm not don't
really want a relationship, but I'm like looking for some
niggas to like fill my ross, you know what I mean.
And for me, whether we're having casual sex, seeing each other,
dating to meet, consideration is the biggest fucking thing right now,
because consideration is respect whether we are in a relationship
or not, if you inside me, if you're coming into

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my home, if we're spending time together.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
I think that there needs to be a level of respect.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
And if you can't consider me in certain aspects, then
I ain't gonna fuck with.

Speaker 7 (05:11):
You the baller meetings because I'm gonna tell you right now,
with the levels of talent I've worked with in the
last five years.

Speaker 5 (05:17):
Literally, the rappers that I forgot about were late.

Speaker 7 (05:20):
Not anybody that's doing well is less than ten minutes
or more than ten minutes late, because y'all, y'all was
on time.

Speaker 8 (05:29):
I love athletes are on time always because they have Yeah,
he's always on time.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
But I will say this.

Speaker 8 (05:36):
I will say this, and you might not like this,
but in my opinion, I think that every women brings
something different out of a man. I've dated ballers in
all type of man and because of who I am
as a woman, it brings something different. The same motherfucker
that takes you the sizzler takes me to Ruth Chris,
It's not gonna ever be the same. And I think
that as a woman, you can demand that your presence alone,
your aura, and if you feel like he's wasting your time,

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leave You ain't got to.

Speaker 3 (05:59):
Stay there, right.

Speaker 8 (06:04):
Wait, And the white women are not gonna challenge you
to be a better man either. The white women are
not gonna make you become the best version of yourself.
The white woman is not gonna push you up them.
The women you're talking about, that's gonna sit and just
wait there, I'm not judging.

Speaker 6 (06:18):
Are you just judged?

Speaker 3 (06:19):
That's not judge?

Speaker 6 (06:20):
What judge?

Speaker 8 (06:24):
Because you just said Black women are not gonna sit
the way they're gonna yell after one minute. So if
we're gonna make a general statement, I'm gonna make a
general statement. And my general statement is if we're talking
about any woman that's gonna sit up and wait for
a man for thirty minutes, clearly they don't respect themselves,
they don't value their time. So at the end of
the day, that type of woman isn't gonna challenge you.
If I'm gonna let you walk all over me, then

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that's not gonna make you a better man.

Speaker 3 (06:45):
That's gonna make you be more. I'm gonna actually bring more.

Speaker 8 (06:49):
Out of more negativity out of you because I'm gonna
allow you to be enable you more, allow you to.

Speaker 6 (06:55):
Be I got to see where we at.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
It depends on like where we at in our relationship
or or what we're doing based on I got to
base it off of that.

Speaker 6 (07:10):
No, no, no, because think about it.

Speaker 4 (07:12):
If I just met you, I get it, But like
if I've been if we've been kicking it for like
three months and I'm thirty that's disrespect. And now every
time I start being thirty to forty five late, every
time like, oh.

Speaker 1 (07:28):
I'm not gonna lie my My ex actually said that
I it was so uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (07:34):
I guilted him into being on time and and I
didn't like that.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
Well, this is what he said, which was some bullshit,
but it's because if he was like even five minutes late,
my mind went to, oh.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
My god, he's dead.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
I would create so much anxiety for him to be
on time.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Then he said it made him uncomfortable.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
But I was like, niggas be on time then, and
he was always on time. And then when we broke up,
he said that I created just like anxious environment because
I demanded him to be on time. And I was like, well, nigga,
and you were, and I thought it was a great
thing for you to do that.

Speaker 7 (08:06):
He was like yeah, But here's the real question, right
is the clip was about athletes, specifically with white women.
Are the athletes or men in high power actually needing
women to be that much more quiet submissive. I actually
don't even want to use the word submissive, because I
believe black women love to live in siminity, especially high
powered women. I'm meeting a lot of them being like,

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I want to step back. Is it really like you
really just need someone to shut the fuck up because
you got too much shit going on?

Speaker 4 (08:33):
Ooh, I mean it's just hold on, run back again.
That was a lot to take in.

Speaker 5 (08:43):
Okay, we hear this a lot.

Speaker 7 (08:45):
You aren't the first person to say this that clip
is just hot because they haven't yea, but men are
always saying this about white women sometimes latinas as well.
They don't say nothing, they do this, they do that. Whatever, right,
we hear this, and so then we can only assume
high powered men ballers, athlete celebrities really do want women
to shut the fuck up.

Speaker 6 (09:06):
It depends because most women be saying some stupid ship.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
Yeah, you just said, they just be saying some stupid ship.
So that's why.

Speaker 4 (09:17):
Yeah, some people like like I've been out with girls
and it'd be a group like this, and when they
get to talk and I'm.

Speaker 6 (09:23):
Like, you know, keep it, damn, Like you know what I.

Speaker 4 (09:29):
Like, it's just like, damn, it's better if you just
don't start talking making friends because you making it's like
it's bad.

Speaker 6 (09:34):
It's been a lot of those it's okay.

Speaker 4 (09:38):
So like, that's why a lot of men be like, man,
you just come out, fill the room out. I hate
a girl that I that I'm with just making friends
with everybody that just met, Like, dam you're getting everybody
at the table number we just got here.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Oh my god, you don't like that? Did I not
just tell you I hate a man like that too?
I literally just the nigga who I followed. I saw
him in a club and environment, and I literally said
he was moving like a bottle server, and I was disgusted.
I said, why are you pouring drinks for all these bitches?
Why are you talking to everybody? Just go sit over
there and look unfriendly and be fine. I was so

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mad that he was in everybody's face. So I get
the same thing.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
Feel like it's nice to see girls not be bitches.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
No, you don't have to be a bitch, but I
get it to like, I have a homegirl who she'll
be around next thing.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
You know.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
She got the brother number, the HOMEI number, all the
ship And then now you're not even being.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
A way I'm not.

Speaker 5 (10:32):
You don't sound like you're talking about that.

Speaker 6 (10:33):
Talking about No, I'm talking about females.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
You don't like friends.

Speaker 6 (10:36):
Wait, girls, all of get out and look, y'all look
at each other. Oh girl, you're so pretty odd like
your nails. Where'd you get your nails down? Oh?

Speaker 2 (10:43):
Give me?

Speaker 6 (10:43):
Nobody needs to.

Speaker 2 (10:44):
Find that out because they just did that.

Speaker 4 (10:47):
Why are you doing But y'all do it to like
ten people right there. It's like you just just was friends.
You just friend up the whole room.

Speaker 5 (10:53):
Don't give me enough, don't let me drinks.

Speaker 4 (10:56):
Come out too, And it's like, damn, damn, that's.

Speaker 5 (11:02):
I want to ask.

Speaker 7 (11:02):
Now, I don't know who the fuck I am in
the bathroom. I'm gonna make the best family.

Speaker 5 (11:08):
Alex. The niggas in the bathroom, I do this.

Speaker 6 (11:10):
We don't talk now. Well, I don't like it because
dis out listen.

Speaker 4 (11:14):
I don't like it for me because all I'm I'm
I don't need them talking to everybody about me.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
Oh I'm a girl that doesn't suck your dick, And
now you don't want them to be able to.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
Talk about you like. That's the problem is that all
these girls.

Speaker 6 (11:31):
Around private friends.

Speaker 5 (11:34):
You got the story.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
We all saw you on Instagram live throwing money with
bitches on the floor.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
You are not very private.

Speaker 1 (11:42):
That we didn't see that that ain't never happened.

Speaker 3 (11:47):
There was no money money.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
I'm not playing with you.

Speaker 8 (11:56):
I get it though, because when I was younger, I
used to kind of be that way. And I've noticed
like you're doing too much, like a woman who wants
to be too friendly and too in the mix.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
Sometimes it's like slow.

Speaker 8 (12:05):
Down, like we relaxed.

Speaker 4 (12:10):
Sorry, but to make the bigger points of this. Sorry,
but like the reason I didn't give the reason I
don't like that. So the reason I don't like that
because I've had girls become friends with those girls to try.

Speaker 6 (12:20):
To get closer to me.

Speaker 4 (12:21):
Ah, and that's what they do, and they don't the
girl that you don't see that.

Speaker 5 (12:28):
I've experienced about homeboys and girls.

Speaker 3 (12:30):
And I see all of that.

Speaker 8 (12:31):
I don't trust nobody, So i'd be like bitch, especially
if you're out with a certain type of caliber man
like he's somebody, he's a celebrity or whatever.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
When you are around that, women and anybody.

Speaker 8 (12:40):
Women men, they all want to get close to that
person in some type of way or capacity, and then
you're getting friends with them and they're asking questions or
they're saying slick shit and it's like I don't have
time for all of that, Like even me and Paul
when we're just out on some cool, you know shit,
like with other people, I'm so mean, like I'd be
like no move back, like I because it gets overwhelming.
It's like chill out, like we don't need everybody in

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the mix when you're out with those type of people,
you know what.

Speaker 7 (13:05):
I'm on the front when I'm I'm kind of out
of my celebrity inviting me to the table years. But
I am in that work capacity and I'm less friendly
in those Exactly.

Speaker 5 (13:16):
If I want a nigga that's on TMZ or even women,
I really don't exactly.

Speaker 3 (13:20):
I got you now, that's what it is. That's what
he says. But if I'm out and it's like where's
your lashes?

Speaker 8 (13:25):
Like I'm that girl, Like yes, girl, follow the thing,
like I would like to give women like ship like
I'm not I'm a girl's girl.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Whatever they want to say.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
So, yeah, well let's let's do a little icebreaker with y'all.
We're gonna we're gonna play a little truth or there
to get into y'all not both of y'all have to
pick yes to get into y'all just a little bit. Well,
I'm not getting into Paul.

Speaker 5 (13:49):
And neither is the doctor. So we found out here you.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
So let's start with a do you want truth or dare? Baby?

Speaker 8 (14:01):
Start start so I can see what kind of questions.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
He's a man.

Speaker 6 (14:06):
I take the lead, Paul, truth, dare I'll take I'm
the truth.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
You're gonna take her?

Speaker 7 (14:10):
Ye?

Speaker 2 (14:10):
Okay? Truth.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
Describe your most memorable hookup, good or bad, and explain
what made it so great or explain what made it
so bad?

Speaker 8 (14:21):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (14:22):
Probably my most memorable hookup was uh two thousand and.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
Six, damns here okay.

Speaker 4 (14:32):
First night boom hooked up, she came with me, got
on private jay, went to the next two cities. Uh,
moved in eight months later than I wound up marrying her.

Speaker 7 (14:44):
Oh my god, you end up we need to fun
on the first and you fucked her on the first
day you met her and she still ended up becoming
your wife.

Speaker 2 (14:53):
What made it so memorable?

Speaker 6 (14:55):
Like?

Speaker 1 (14:55):
What made it so dope that you even kept her
along the way because most most women are mad that
they sex. And then he's like, all right, let me
know when uber outside. What made her be able to
stay around? What made it so good.

Speaker 9 (15:07):
Man.

Speaker 6 (15:07):
I think it was just like I don't know truthfully,
Like she was cool.

Speaker 4 (15:12):
She was a vibe. She was still in school. Uh man,
I don't even know because she was with another dude.

Speaker 6 (15:19):
Actually, damn well, she was meeting another guy. He didn't
show up.

Speaker 5 (15:24):
Oh wow, he was thirty minutes late. See what happens
when you thirty good?

Speaker 2 (15:29):
Right, you might run in.

Speaker 6 (15:31):
I was, you know, it is too. I was real.

Speaker 4 (15:33):
I think I was too. I was vulnerable because I
was in the middle of a breakup because I was
actually still living with another girl, but we were broke up.
Oh my god, we were living together, but broke up okay,
because you know, we've been living together for like six years.
But I was like it was done because I was
living in hotels but she was still in my place.
Oh and so yeah.

Speaker 7 (15:51):
Can I ask you for the for the one night
not one night saying, but the first night hook up
that ends to a relationship. Is the first night different
and then it builds? Or do you actually feel something
different that first night? Is it deeper than lust?

Speaker 4 (16:05):
I don't know because I'm energy, you know what I'm saying.
I ain't talking to girls and like I could talk
to girls, get a number and be like, I ain't
trying to, you know, smash it. On the first night,
it was just like the energy because it was just
like we mad, and then we kind of hung out
and we was kicking in. It was like a vibe
and it was like damn, you know, we just kind
of like and then the next and then we kicked
it the next day, and then it was just like, damn,

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it's still a vibe.

Speaker 8 (16:28):
You know.

Speaker 6 (16:28):
It was just like the energy. You know.

Speaker 4 (16:29):
I don't know how to explain. You just feel a
person's presence, you know what I'm saying. It ain't like
you don't just go out with everybody you know and
have sex on the first day or kiss them the
first day that unless you feel like a certain type
of way right, you know, and you could date them
or say all right, this is cool for now, But
it ain't.

Speaker 7 (16:43):
I've always noticed when I've ended up having a long
term relationship girlfriend, boyfriend, or best friend, the first day
I met them.

Speaker 5 (16:50):
The next day we had to see each other. Oh
my god, we do something like.

Speaker 8 (16:53):
It was just my sister and her husband had sex
on the first day.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
Like a lot of people, I know who got married.
They just because it's a connection.

Speaker 8 (17:01):
It's there's a difference between like I'm just having sex
with you because I'm a hoe and I'm having sex
with you because I feel a deep connecttion.

Speaker 7 (17:07):
We gotta tell Joe Taylor this because she told us
six months remember on her show.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
I don't believe her and I told her.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
I told her to her face.

Speaker 3 (17:17):
Girl, I'm gonna do truth.

Speaker 8 (17:19):
You don't do truth because I'm not daring. Whatever y'all got,
I don't know, I don't know. I'm scared there next time.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
So you're not gonna do dare ground.

Speaker 3 (17:34):
Doing one round will give me truth?

Speaker 2 (17:36):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (17:36):
Truth?

Speaker 2 (17:37):
Azaar.

Speaker 1 (17:38):
What's a relationship red flag that you ignored and then
later regretted?

Speaker 6 (17:46):
Oh ship relationships.

Speaker 3 (17:51):
Don't speak for me. So can we have another question?

Speaker 5 (17:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (17:57):
Why do you want?

Speaker 5 (17:58):
No?

Speaker 1 (17:58):
No, no, no, it might be helpful though, No, I want
to know, like because we talk about red flags.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
Okay, just not on top of my head.

Speaker 7 (18:09):
In the book, he was going out a lot, but
I was enjoying time while going out with him, so
I didn't understand like, oh, it could have been another bitch,
bitch you just hear like this is his Emma, he's
gonna eat well without you, He's gonna go to.

Speaker 5 (18:21):
This party without you. He's probably gonna fly to Cobbo
without you.

Speaker 7 (18:24):
I kept thinking things were for me, this person's energy
and how funny were Nothing.

Speaker 5 (18:29):
Was curated for me. This is just who he was is.

Speaker 7 (18:31):
And so the fact that he was constantly out and
doing shit and just always had to be on the scene.
I really thought it was a part of our relationship
just being out together, and it wasn't.

Speaker 5 (18:40):
He was that party niggaive and he didn't hit me
back to me was a red flag. Once I found out,
I was.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
Like, oh, I think I have one.

Speaker 8 (18:47):
I would say that my red flag in a relationship
that I ignored in the past was a man like
talking negatively always about people he was with or you know,
just period talking about his exes, like why. And then
that made me realize, like, are you still holding on
to something?

Speaker 3 (19:07):
What do you have going on?

Speaker 8 (19:09):
And then also it's a character thing for me because
I realize when people are always talking bad about other people,
it's just a matter of time. It's when they talk
bad about you. It's not because you know, it's just on.

Speaker 3 (19:21):
Brand for who they are. You know what I mean,
it's just not your turn yet.

Speaker 8 (19:24):
I always tell people that when someone's doing something, it's
just not your turn yet.

Speaker 3 (19:28):
You are not special bleu.

Speaker 8 (19:30):
Or like if a man is not in his kid's
life and the present father, you think, why are you
even trying to build a life with this person?

Speaker 3 (19:36):
With this Personah, Like that's weird.

Speaker 8 (19:37):
And I've seen women do that where it's like you're
with a man he's not a present father, and now
you think you're about to have a baby with this
man and you're so different, right right? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (19:46):
I used to say that about like just in general,
like if you hang out with somebody who's a thief,
don't be surprised.

Speaker 7 (19:52):
When they ve do You Remember we were talking about this,
So Mandy has decided not to have children in her life.

Speaker 5 (19:58):
So a conversation we were having was.

Speaker 7 (19:59):
Like, what if he's a bad dad, you're not looking
for a parent a man to be a father when
I'm dating, I'm like, how do children like you?

Speaker 5 (20:07):
Whatever?

Speaker 7 (20:07):
That's not something that's gonna be a focus if you
don't want children. But if they're a bad dad, would
they then be a bad boyfriend?

Speaker 8 (20:13):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (20:13):
I'm not even I ain't shit though. I just want
to dig.

Speaker 1 (20:15):
Last week and he had to watch his daughter and
I said, you can't drop her off somewhere, and I
was mad that he was being a good dad. I
was mad at the moment. At the moment, I was
little like, damn you he could the grandma don't want
to watch them?

Speaker 2 (20:30):
A bit out with you?

Speaker 1 (20:34):
Well because I just cared about my needs at the time,
and I was like, damn, okay, well you're being a
good father.

Speaker 6 (20:38):
All right.

Speaker 5 (20:39):
I know I'm not lying.

Speaker 2 (20:42):
I'm not ship, I'm not lying. I was actually mad
in the moment.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
That he was being a good dad because I was like,
someone else could watch your daughter.

Speaker 2 (20:49):
I only need thirty.

Speaker 6 (20:50):
Minutes, man.

Speaker 3 (20:53):
Yeah, she just says what the truth is?

Speaker 2 (20:55):
I love that.

Speaker 7 (20:56):
I'm like thinking, I'm gonna call my home and be
like a lot the fun is he a baby moment.

Speaker 2 (20:59):
But I'm not gonna say listen.

Speaker 1 (21:02):
I said, listen, my period come on the three days,
so this is the time you got. And then it
came on two days early, and I said, see how
you do you know?

Speaker 6 (21:11):
Yeah? I was listening.

Speaker 2 (21:13):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
I do not through blood, sir, that is disgusting. I
do a lot of things, but I am not having
sex ship.

Speaker 5 (21:21):
On my short nails. Not a big deal. So period blood.

Speaker 2 (21:25):
First, why do you think I'd be having ship on
my nails.

Speaker 7 (21:27):
I'm just saying, dag what she's the short nails? You
know she got the short nails on.

Speaker 6 (21:32):
Her nails, on her nel.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
I don't know why. She just said it, like.

Speaker 3 (21:37):
I'm stressed out. What do you mean?

Speaker 5 (21:39):
Mandy got the short nails for the butt.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
But it's not just for the but it's for the
coochie too.

Speaker 3 (21:42):
What is this ship about?

Speaker 5 (21:44):
She's she she said, and I'm saying, you're going in
the booty is.

Speaker 2 (21:47):
Convinced it every time walk you through it.

Speaker 5 (21:50):
You're wearing brown by the way.

Speaker 1 (21:52):
By the way, it's only because she claims she's never
had antal sex and I haven't her only the tip
is I'm like, bitch, it's just the head.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
If the tip went in account, you.

Speaker 5 (22:02):
Asked my nigga right now, he'd be like, I never
my visions.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
Well that's the problem.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
She swears that anything regarding antal sex or the butt
is gonna be messy, and I'm like, bro, there's not
always they do the no, not everyone does an n
because I have a game, especially tell me about that.

Speaker 5 (22:18):
I'm gonna be real. If a nigga's cleaning his ass
out for me, that's too advanced.

Speaker 2 (22:23):
That's too advanced. But you want a dirty boy, he's
fleeting for me.

Speaker 7 (22:26):
I would actually rather see a little pebble than know
that you had a douche.

Speaker 5 (22:30):
But before I came, you would rather see a pebble.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
You also go into a van's asshole.

Speaker 5 (22:35):
Honey, we have a New York Times best seller for
a reason.

Speaker 7 (22:38):
Okay, I will say this locked. It hasn't been my
favorite Thing's clocked?

Speaker 2 (22:52):
That tea?

Speaker 3 (23:02):
Yeah, Chrissan.

Speaker 8 (23:03):
Oh so, so I just want to make sure.

Speaker 2 (23:10):
What is fleeting.

Speaker 5 (23:12):
So when you take the douche, you fill it with
water and you.

Speaker 3 (23:14):
Okay, okay, the enema in your butt?

Speaker 6 (23:17):
Wait, what are we talking about?

Speaker 2 (23:19):
Yeah, next next door.

Speaker 1 (23:27):
Okay, we're gonna get something that maybe you can relate
to and have conversations about a little bit more.

Speaker 6 (23:31):
We're talking about.

Speaker 2 (23:32):
People with money.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
So our reactionary segment, we play a clip and we
normally see if we agree with them, don't agree with them.
This one comes from a fellow athlete, Kyrie Irving says
that salaries posted puts a target on the backs of men,
and so I want to play this clip and get
your thoughts on it.

Speaker 6 (23:52):
You INSI to my life.

Speaker 9 (23:54):
Right when somebody finds out what you're making, how much
you're making, there's a say, the awkwardness, but it's it's
like all the texts that I received, people were happy
for me, but it was also almost like, damn, this
is how much he's making. And it's not necessarily me

(24:18):
being angry or mad.

Speaker 6 (24:21):
That it's out there.

Speaker 9 (24:22):
It's just me trying to better understand why it's out there,
because at the end of the day, yes, it does
help promote the league, but like us as players, that
doesn't help. It doesn't help. It just feels like it
puts a target, you know, on your back. If it's
puts a target on you for no reason, I still

(24:42):
want to watch porn.

Speaker 5 (24:44):
Why it just went.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
Right now?

Speaker 7 (24:50):
If we all clicked on Twitter right now, I would
come up with it.

Speaker 5 (24:54):
I really.

Speaker 2 (25:02):
On Twitter, like.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
It'll just be a regular clip in the next clip
is a whole It's that Yeah, sorry, that just was embarrassing.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
I'm blushed you.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
I want to ask you from from what he said,
do you feel like especially to me when you have
a job, right when you're a lawyer, if you work
in tech, if you're in corporate, normally people know how
much money you make. So do you feel like him
saying that it puts a target on the athletes back is.

Speaker 2 (25:38):
A true thing.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
And for you early on your career and dating, did
you ever like see a woman look up your salary?

Speaker 2 (25:45):
We've heard that women do that. Is it a thing
that you feel like? It's a bad thing?

Speaker 4 (25:48):
Though I didn't like it personally because when I first
came into the it used to be in the.

Speaker 6 (25:53):
Newspaper, but like you used to have, you can you
can go to grab.

Speaker 4 (25:58):
A newspaper or magazin scenes And it was like, damn,
Like you don't want people like that because this is
not only it's like so many different targets though it's
it's family. It's like because they're gonna be like, oh,
well you make wootie woo? Can I touch?

Speaker 3 (26:14):
I borrow?

Speaker 6 (26:14):
Can I borrow dooty woo?

Speaker 4 (26:15):
But then it's females like, ooh, girl he making I
know a dude told me a story that he was
out with a girl and she looked up the salary
right there.

Speaker 6 (26:22):
At dinner.

Speaker 5 (26:22):
He kind of looked, you go to the bathroom.

Speaker 6 (26:25):
Something happened to get a phone. She was on her phone.

Speaker 4 (26:30):
He kind of like, you know, he was on his phone.
But then he kind of leaned and he saw he
was looking up looking him up in the salary on
her phone.

Speaker 7 (26:38):
So why does that's the reason that it's public was
so that we know how they're allocating the money.

Speaker 5 (26:43):
Is that correct?

Speaker 6 (26:44):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (26:45):
I don't know why, because isn't that why we judged
wm A. How much are they making versus how much?

Speaker 1 (26:49):
Well, we know there's salary caps, so to me, like
we already know the cap of the team.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
You have a certain number of players, like I don't.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
I don't the reason they targets because some girls know this,
and this is what I've come to find out. They
will look at the roster.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
All right, First I look at the roster, My friends,
I look at the roster.

Speaker 4 (27:09):
But the roster, all right, he got he made. Okay,
he's the franchise player. I can't get him. So let
me go down here. Okay, it's more of them than
it is the guys at the top, all right, let
me get this role player down here. So when you
look at it, it's more role players dating celebrities. It's
more role players dating like the girls, because they figure

(27:30):
like the Kobe's and the Brons and the and the Jordans,
and I can't get them. I'm gonna just not even
I'm not even gonna shoot my shot there. Okay, you
know what I'm saying, but right here in the middle
and at the bottom, because the bottom is still great
for any.

Speaker 7 (27:42):
Girl, No, it is the especially literally would see her
friends see like four million or five million and be
like that ain't ship.

Speaker 5 (27:51):
She's like that you know, giving me.

Speaker 7 (27:53):
She's like, not to mention that's four or five million
dollars on top of the fact that they got a
Gatorade deal, they got a Puma deal, deals, whatever the fuck.
She's like, you got to add at least another twenty
five percent brand deals on top of that. She's like,
these men also don't know what the fuck to do
with five million dollars.

Speaker 5 (28:09):
She tells me all the time.

Speaker 7 (28:10):
I can't say the person's name now, but the top
niggas you talk about, She's like, they're so used to
the fucking game. They know the price, whereas he just pay.

Speaker 6 (28:19):
They more pressed the lower lower end is more pressed to.

Speaker 5 (28:24):
Have that five million sounds so hard to show.

Speaker 4 (28:27):
That they got something where the guys at the top
been doing it for so long.

Speaker 6 (28:31):
It's nothing.

Speaker 5 (28:32):
I'm not gonna take you out of you.

Speaker 6 (28:34):
And what I'm saying like they want it because they don't.
They trying to.

Speaker 4 (28:38):
You don't know who they are, so they gonna be
a little more flashy, a little more out there, and
he's he's more attainable.

Speaker 1 (28:46):
It's crazy because I just feel like the guys now,
these younger guys now are one hundred percent like not
moving how the old heads like they don't really go
out no more, like they don't show a good time.
And now you could just get any bitch that you
want by sending a DM right, Like it's way easier
now even for women to shoot their shot, like what
they used to have to stand at the hotel lobby
and meet y'all in the club, like y'all actually have

(29:07):
to be outside.

Speaker 7 (29:09):
Yeah for sure, you know what else living in La
your whole life, well I don't know your whole life,
but like being from out here, Like what are some
of the craziest shit you see in girls scamming? Do
for some of these like layers for fucking because I've
seen it. I know you have to see it. Just
going to a club, like you probably had homeboys, anybody, Like,
what have you seen them do?

Speaker 5 (29:27):
Just desperation.

Speaker 2 (29:29):
Yeah, because us growing up in Orlando, whole.

Speaker 8 (29:32):
Like gangster generation of family and people and shit. So
for me, I've seen women set niggas up. That's the
craziest thing I don't seen is where you gonna.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
I would be like, oh, this is Pop. Here's oh
hey baby, da da da, I'm fucking with you. He's
he's drunk.

Speaker 8 (29:46):
Take me back to your room. I already have three
niggas that we're gonna run into the room. Hey, this
is where we're at. I'm doing this with him, the
niggas running.

Speaker 3 (29:55):
I'm like, oh my god, help me. No, don't know,
but I'm in on it the whole time.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
You that's crazy.

Speaker 5 (30:02):
They tells this story about a threesome.

Speaker 3 (30:04):
Yeah, this is a very known thing in La that
people were doing.

Speaker 7 (30:06):
The girls were he said, both the girls was fucking
with him, and then one girl's.

Speaker 5 (30:10):
Like I'll be right back. He said, I knew it.

Speaker 7 (30:13):
He's like I'm in a hallway running dick swinging, running
down the fucking hallway.

Speaker 2 (30:16):
I knew.

Speaker 7 (30:17):
The second one girl just had to leave a bathroom.
She was stealing his fucking watches, and shit.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
Well there was a girl that just went to she
just got locked up.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
What she was doing was date raping, like putting date
rape drugs in men's drinks and literally stealing their watches,
like so mad watches. I think it was a bitch
of Miami, and she ended up getting caught doing it
because I guess she had done it to so many men,
just at.

Speaker 5 (30:36):
The same drug dealers.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
They always give you money, not just yeah, I've never
been in I can't do the drug deal I.

Speaker 2 (30:41):
Can't do it.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
I'm a Florida girl, Okay, I like real square, real safe.

Speaker 3 (30:47):
I was young, so I was.

Speaker 8 (30:48):
When I was young in La, I dated my boyfriend
was one of the biggest drug dealers ever.

Speaker 1 (30:53):
Is there an age, okay for the women listen who
likes that? Is there an age as women where you
got to outgrow down what they otro You gotta outgrow
a street nigga, like you ain't dealing with them anymore.

Speaker 3 (31:05):
Three because then you started three too much more to lose.

Speaker 5 (31:07):
Yeah, like for twenty three is y.

Speaker 2 (31:10):
Yeah, you can't after twenty three, you shouldn't fuck with it.

Speaker 3 (31:12):
I don't think so, I personally can't talk to you.

Speaker 7 (31:15):
Different as are like let's just say, they'd be like,
oh my god, you're so smart baby. You got a pool,
puzzy call pot Yeah, yeah, yeah, they show my bitch slick.

Speaker 5 (31:25):
She's doing this because she.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
Was just talking to a street years ago before her nigga.

Speaker 5 (31:29):
Tell the story.

Speaker 7 (31:31):
Back to Orlando, and it was the thing I used
to fuck with. I can't remember what his name was, Skee,
So anyway, Skeet was like, Bro, you don't remember fuck
with me, man. She fucked with Charlotte Mane and ship
they got mofucker podcast And I'm like, oh my god,
I cannot believe the fuck him.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
But that like, oh my, she got candles in her house,
got motherucking, she.

Speaker 8 (31:54):
Got pots like you go over there, she got she
got all.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
Type of ship over there. She got me right, she
got me like, oh man, nah, she got colown, she
got me cologn took to the mall like Dave Davey
having And then.

Speaker 7 (32:12):
When I was and I woke up in the morning,
he said, I'm a bitch on the zoom, I can't
talk to thank you, and.

Speaker 8 (32:18):
But the money comes so fast. They'll give you so
much bread a drug dealer, though my nig used to.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
Have money to Yeah, y'all, y'all are guessing hood niggers
right now, Like how you be doing broke niggas with
big dicks and.

Speaker 3 (32:33):
I can't No, I can't do that.

Speaker 5 (32:35):
We are we.

Speaker 2 (32:36):
Cannot platform these type of criminals.

Speaker 5 (32:38):
I'm just saying, right, the act not Young was like that.

Speaker 8 (32:44):
They were so much fun and like I remember my
first drug dealer guy that was my boyfriend, right, and
we called him He's He had a nickname Lambeau because
he drove drove a lamb Oh.

Speaker 1 (32:54):
Bitch, y'all, probably the same nigga. She had a nigga
name Lambeau on the podcast.

Speaker 5 (32:58):
No, it wasn't the same.

Speaker 8 (32:59):
He's like on drugs now, he's down bad, he's it's
not the same person.

Speaker 3 (33:03):
This is like a whole because because we need to
take maybe on drugs now.

Speaker 8 (33:08):
No, No, it's not the same person. I don't know
where he is anyways. What he looks like, you don't Yeah.

Speaker 5 (33:18):
He looked like big big. No, he's like an l A.
He's from l A from l A.

Speaker 6 (33:27):
Never had LOCKS seen him in a minute. He grew
him out. I got lost.

Speaker 8 (33:32):
Now maybe tall is very tall tall. I know it's
not him because this man is so damn bad on drugs.

Speaker 3 (33:46):
He saw he has a twin exactly. There you go,
he's a twin.

Speaker 6 (33:50):
She don't know that though.

Speaker 8 (33:56):
When I was dealing with him, he knew all the
popping breads, restaurants, all the stuff.

Speaker 3 (34:01):
Like he was taking me to the fly stuff.

Speaker 8 (34:03):
Every time I will be with him, he would give
me a gift and he would put me on the
stuff and he was finding.

Speaker 3 (34:06):
He'd be like, baby, what size is the same thing
to you?

Speaker 6 (34:11):
Baby?

Speaker 3 (34:12):
What side square bottom?

Speaker 5 (34:13):
You are investing your business?

Speaker 3 (34:15):
Yeah, investing? What size squad bottoms?

Speaker 6 (34:17):
You are?

Speaker 2 (34:17):
Baby?

Speaker 5 (34:18):
All right? Bye?

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Hang up?

Speaker 1 (34:19):
See them, Hi, guys, we're gonna take this. We're gonna
take this to the court room. We're gonna I think it's.

Speaker 3 (34:29):
I haven't since I was like twenty two.

Speaker 6 (34:31):
Though, but I've heard thirty years he got dressed.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
It is okay to be Eskimo's sisters with Okay, it
is fine. The fuck drug dealers who drive lamps, Okay,
that's not mean.

Speaker 3 (34:40):
It was when I was eighteen though, so this is
so many years ago.

Speaker 5 (34:43):
Okay, you don't have.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
That long ago eighteen. I was eighteen.

Speaker 6 (34:48):
So I'm how do you know you didn't know him
that long ago.

Speaker 5 (34:51):
I was fucking up three years ago.

Speaker 3 (34:52):
Yeah, it ain't. It ain't him, you know, because he
don't have a lambo three.

Speaker 5 (34:56):
Years ago.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
He down bad baddy.

Speaker 1 (35:00):
That's just selling the said why we shouldn't platform these men.

Speaker 2 (35:03):
Ladies. It's a short term lifestyle. They will end up
better in jail.

Speaker 7 (35:08):
A CL does not act like, yeah, he went to jail,
but then you healed from an A c L and
go back to making your millions.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
And a CL is not a career ender. You still
get paid if guaranteed money.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
Okay, excuse me, I'm just saying, don't be You're compared
at least to drug dealers. Oh my god, even though
some of them I know doud be pushing weight. That's
why some of them niggas in jail. Now I ain't
gonna say I did. There was there was an NBA
got to all right, y'all, we are taking taking this
thing out of the bedroom into the courtroom. Okay, So

(35:44):
we're starting a new segment around here where we see
if it's called hoe me court, and we're gonna see
who is guilty, who is wrong, who is innocent. And
this one comes from one of the things that most
recently went viral, where a woman very good looking.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
If I have money, I would have flew out too,
and this should have known what the folk was happening.

Speaker 1 (36:04):
Let me see if she fine that girl. I'll show
you the Instagram page. I went through the Instagram I
love she is fine. So anyways, there's a girl who
recently outed a Lakers player for leaving her stranded in
Turks and Kekos. She tweeted DeAndre a in security left
me outside in the middle of nowhere KOs because I

(36:25):
won't have sex with him. Now, this is why we
say this for you, because I know you got some
fly out rules and I'd love to hear if you
have any fly out stories. So we're gonna get into it.
But this is what I found interesting about this. So
apparently his attorney advised him to do this. Let me
break it down because I'd love to know if there
has been any talks about this being a thing, especially

(36:46):
with players. So his attorney advised his attorney advised him
to leave her in the middle.

Speaker 2 (36:53):
Of nowhere once she refused sex.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
And this is why once a room, once a woman
refuses sex, anytime they're after or that sex occurs, that
sex could be considered harassment or corrosion or even rape.
By removing her and not having any further contact, there's
a dividing line showing that sex was refused and sex
never occurred, thus thwarting in any future sexual assault cases,

(37:17):
both civilly and criminally. So he saved himself from having
a woman removed because she refused sex.

Speaker 8 (37:25):
So you laughed, Well, you shouldn't be going flying out
and you not think about you're gonna have sex?

Speaker 5 (37:30):
But what does the change?

Speaker 9 (37:30):
What?

Speaker 7 (37:31):
He? What is he? What?

Speaker 3 (37:33):
Then you should have known that before you got flewed out?

Speaker 1 (37:35):
No no, no, no no not if this is your
first time, you don't know if why are you on
a first time flying out because a girl he called
the PJ.

Speaker 5 (37:41):
Oh, well, like you, I'm going to see her.

Speaker 3 (37:46):
You should be ready to fuss.

Speaker 2 (37:49):
Alsie very clear.

Speaker 1 (37:51):
She took a picture in front of that PJ. So
at least she got a PJ picture. Okay, I'm not
I'm not gonna fashion.

Speaker 2 (37:58):
I don't care if I've been talking to a nigga
for five hours. If he says the PJ, bitch, I'm
getting on. Okay, I also know what you're supposed.

Speaker 7 (38:04):
To do with.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
You're gonna do that, I personally am not gonna do that.

Speaker 8 (38:09):
I'm not going on a PJ. Have declined it, and
I have receipts like, I will not do that because
if I'm not gonna fuck. If I want to fuck,
then I would do that. But I don't want a man.

Speaker 7 (38:20):
This is where it gets tricky because I definitely like
so I think it was.

Speaker 5 (38:26):
A second day we decided to go on a trip.

Speaker 3 (38:28):
I really thought I was gonna fuck it, but you
didn't feel it when you got there.

Speaker 7 (38:31):
Oh my god, he just started getting worse and he's
doing corny shit. I just I was starting to see
how he moves, like the story, every little thing we
were doing. It was starting to embarrass me and I
was like, damn, I really don't like this is too lame.
So I mean, at that point I was able to
get my own room and I was like, I just
kind of feel it uncomfortable. But I will say this,
there has to be a place where a woman can
change their mind and I really do think men can

(38:55):
make you feel that uncomfortable. They start talking to you
crazy when they get there.

Speaker 5 (38:58):
Remember that code is.

Speaker 2 (38:58):
Like giving jury at the moment, because I was ready to.

Speaker 8 (39:02):
But if she's guilty, shouldn't we shouldn't we shouldn't we
be teaching women though, that you should not be doing that.
I already have a vibe with a man, because in
my personal opinion, it's like if you are either you
either know that you're going to have sex regardless of
the circumstances, period point blank, you about to bust it open,
or you know that I may change my vibe. I

(39:23):
don't know this man, and I get the ick real quick,
so I'm not going to go on a trip with him.

Speaker 3 (39:27):
I get the ick real quick.

Speaker 7 (39:28):
Should we then say it? So the last time I
did a little fly, I think I was twenty four,
some nigga in Switzerland.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
Know that's the last fly you did with a nigga
like this?

Speaker 7 (39:37):
I was like ballplayer in Switzerland, and I remember saying
a few nights before, I was like, fuck, this is
my first little international flight.

Speaker 6 (39:45):
Young.

Speaker 5 (39:45):
I'm young, Okay, I got a little at last.

Speaker 7 (39:47):
Okay, so I'm like shit, So I was like, hey,
what if we don't really connect, Like I'm starting to
get very nervous, And I was young, so I was
being really honest.

Speaker 5 (39:56):
Yeah, he's like, cool, we take our time.

Speaker 7 (39:58):
We didn't fuck the first night, we started with kisses,
but maybe we built that relationship.

Speaker 5 (40:02):
What can women then say to not be obligated? Because
I wanted to fucking.

Speaker 1 (40:05):
But I really was getting scared, Like the only the
only answer for that is, but you have enough money
in your goddamn account to put your ass on a
flight back.

Speaker 7 (40:14):
I did get bored with him and did a little.
I was like, I'm just gonna go to Berlin for
a few days.

Speaker 3 (40:17):
So yeah, you're just gonna leave, but you have a
backup plan to me.

Speaker 2 (40:22):
Have you ever offered a fly woman out and you
didn't want to have sex.

Speaker 5 (40:26):
Work like or maybe it wasn't the first thing on
your mind.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
No, no, no, it's a bitch. If the tickets being bought,
it's on the mine on the box.

Speaker 6 (40:36):
I've already been established before you period blown down?

Speaker 2 (40:40):
Okay, Like I.

Speaker 4 (40:41):
Don't think I've ever flowed out a girl that I
just met at the club, like and that, like like
it's already been established, so you think, then I'm not
finding somebody out that I know that like for these
next days. I already know, cause it could be like
you know, it can be garbage. You know what I'm saying,
And I'm taking you way over.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
Here, but I how so, so is the player then
guilty of not having the conversation that he expects sex
from the PJ flyer?

Speaker 6 (41:08):
Okay, yeah, he damn that's right, like like like because
he wanted to. Sometimes things that's known need not be saying,
like if you jumping on.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
That thing, like you should know that if you're jumping
on that thing, you should be.

Speaker 4 (41:25):
I would have did it a little bit different, like
I wouldn't have left her stranded, and I also wouldn't
have put her like I would have left her stranded.
Once she said that, first of all, I don't know
him or nothing on her, he moved. If she had
have just said that to me, I would have like
I would have laughed it off, like okay, you know

(41:45):
what I'm saying. We would have went out, and then
if we spent the night and it and then the
next if it went down like that, she didn't like
because y'all say it all the time like we ain't y'all. Yeah, yeah,
I don't whatever. Y'all get a couple of drinks. Y'all
get a couple of drinks, then y'all cry.

Speaker 5 (42:00):
I think I I think I mean it. I'm not playing.

Speaker 1 (42:04):
I think women have to stop doing that. You gotta
stop playing that koy shit like, uh, but we're not
gonna fuck bro y'all gotta stop doing that because, especially
right now though, we're in this place where because men
think that we're all just koy and playing hard to get,
then that's where you can lean into something that seems
like coercion or it seems like you're in an uncome not.

Speaker 5 (42:24):
Playing hard to get me.

Speaker 7 (42:25):
But you know, okay, for example, no, I'm gonna show
y'all right now, I'm going to the wax lady because
my man flies in tomorrow.

Speaker 5 (42:31):
Toll right. I would go out like this on the
bottom bitch and be like, I'm not gonna fuck him.
If I got a Harry pussy, I ain't gonna fuck.
I really don't be wanting to fuck.

Speaker 2 (42:38):
And you know you think that now at this.

Speaker 8 (42:40):
Age, and they like, baby, I don't care if you
got a little bit say these niggas don't care about No,
you'd be.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
Thinking you care.

Speaker 7 (42:45):
I'll wear ugly underwear, bitch, I'll be doing it all
legs ain't shaded everything.

Speaker 5 (42:48):
And then next thing, you know, I just be like
I'm like, God, Wren, they thing that should be happening.

Speaker 7 (42:53):
Yeah, But I really do think when women say that,
I believe it is the truer intention, Like I'm not ready.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
For I think women should then.

Speaker 5 (43:00):
Like just stop saying it.

Speaker 1 (43:02):
You have to say it because that you not the president,
not if you're also one of these women who say
it in a way where you're playing.

Speaker 5 (43:09):
Coy or harder. Niggas got your game.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
So so I hit my other homeboy up who used
to be in the league as well, and I sent
him this because he's doing a lot of stuff and
I was like, you need to be talking to these
motherfuckers about consenting and all this other stuff. So I
sent it to him and he was like, she did
that ship because she probably wanted to be a wife.
And that's another thing. There's women who will literally hold
out to make it seem like they're not that type
of girl.

Speaker 6 (43:31):
I'm on the trip when I first meet you.

Speaker 2 (43:33):
Okay, so you said, don't come on the trip, don't come.

Speaker 4 (43:35):
At all, don't come in, don't come on the trip,
don't go there and say that. No I'm talking to
a wife. No I'm not like that, so I can't go.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
So if a woman's okay, that's game, that game? So
when when should she accept the trip? After y'all already
after you date?

Speaker 6 (43:52):
Like when you when you quarter her?

Speaker 5 (43:56):
We got a quarter?

Speaker 4 (43:57):
You gotta come over here. I can't meet you in jiff.
Why you across the country, out the country. If you're
trying to.

Speaker 7 (44:02):
Do that Instagram, if you genuinely are looking to be wifey,
why the fuck would you jump?

Speaker 5 (44:08):
I respect that is yeah. I was like, so she
not selling pussy and he didn't want.

Speaker 6 (44:13):
To pay, because if I could do it, then the
next dude can do it.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Valid. Oh I'm not gonna lie, but I'm to a
place now because I traveled so much.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
I turned down a trip to Panama this year because
I was just like, I know, if I go, I'm
a have to fuck him, and I don't want to
have to fuck him, and he'd be posting too much online.
So I was like, y'all know how the bitches was
mad It's like, bitch, I'm not I'm trying to be
all no goddamn trip. If I know this nigga finna
be posting? Can you even tell you ain't a nigga.
I want to be connected fact.

Speaker 7 (44:40):
That I'm a normal blue check person right for like
some kind of like entertainment thing. These girls, when your
beauty and your body is the blue check.

Speaker 5 (44:50):
Oh them niggas ready to post away.

Speaker 2 (44:51):
Oh yeah, don't even sleep, bru don't be don't be out,
don't okay, So a man is doing that now, men
are posting.

Speaker 1 (44:58):
When I say the nigga invited me and it was
supposed to be a nice ass trip, He's like, you
ain't gotta pay for nothing. I got other girls coming,
so like, no pressure. But I'm sure he probably wanted
like three syms and shit whatever. And I literally am
talking to my homegirl.

Speaker 2 (45:10):
I was like bruh. And I think it was like
Panama and Columbia. It would have been like two steps and.

Speaker 1 (45:17):
Just and I was just like, brouh, I don't even
want to go on this trip because I don't want
to have sex with this person. And I had to
sit and be like, bro, it's a girl ass woman,
I'm not even gonna go on a.

Speaker 5 (45:27):
Trip like you can't.

Speaker 1 (45:29):
I mean, and I know, like we're older now, been there,
done that, But for the younger girls, even not even
for celebrities, if you are dating a regular man, like
let's be very clear, which I also realized, flights ain't
that expensive, Like a nigga got a little three hundred
dollars to put you on even Spirit Delta Frontier whatever,
Like flights aren't that expensive anymore.

Speaker 2 (45:49):
So I'm like, if anyone flies you out, the intention
is to take it.

Speaker 7 (45:54):
And remember what I said earlier, the Nigga's gonna be
there anyway, Like curating a vacation for us is a
totally different thing than I'm pulling up on you.

Speaker 5 (46:03):
And I really think the pull up is the problem.

Speaker 7 (46:05):
If you pull up on a PJ or you pull
up because he's got a fucking mansion in the hills.
Either way, the pull up sets that intention of like
come fuck.

Speaker 8 (46:13):
But see, too many women want to have those experiences,
and those experiences are worth more than they how they
value themselves. And that's how I look at it. Like
for me, I'll tell you this and I really mean this,
and this is not judgmental to anyone, but you can't
fly me out. I'm not flying out because that's too
much on me. I have to go pack my shit,
come meet you wherever you're at. Being the environment that

(46:34):
you choose for me to be in, be around the
people that you choose for me to be around.

Speaker 3 (46:38):
The restaurant, then you choose.

Speaker 8 (46:40):
I'm not doing that because that's not an experience that
I've had input on and that I've curated. I'm grown
enough now where it's like, I know what I like,
I know what I want to be around, I know
what I don't want to be around. And if I'm
going on a trip, I'm going to have some type
of input or you're going to be my man.

Speaker 3 (46:56):
So you already know what's going on and what we do.

Speaker 2 (46:58):
Say you niggas the part Atlanta.

Speaker 4 (47:00):
Now, a lot of guys like me. They gonna make
it comfortable for you. He's gonna be like, hey, you know,
bring a couple of your friends.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
They get me all the time with that. They give
me every time.

Speaker 6 (47:12):
Hey, I want to feel comfortable, you know, bring like
two or two three friends period.

Speaker 2 (47:19):
I like, y'all want to go on a trip. Now
you may have to watch me this nigga dick, but.

Speaker 3 (47:25):
To watch.

Speaker 1 (47:28):
I want to girls and be like, so this is
like you want a free vacation. Like and some of
my friends thought, I'm fucked. So it's like you may
have to join. You may not ones that I haven't fucked.
I'm like, you may have to watch, but it's a
free trip. And like sometimes I get my own villa
and I'll be like, bitch, we have our own villa.
We just got to go and see them during the
day with the y'all.

Speaker 2 (47:50):
I'll tell you this.

Speaker 7 (47:53):
Was getting down back in the day. And you're hearing
this ship right now. Do you feel like something you
already do what's happening?

Speaker 2 (47:58):
Or did the niggas that.

Speaker 5 (47:59):
You was it? He never talked like this.

Speaker 2 (48:03):
I don't know what the question is.

Speaker 7 (48:04):
I don't know what the question I'm saying, Like the
way that she's talking about, I'm sure you be on
the guy trip with the girls get flown out?

Speaker 6 (48:10):
How you not.

Speaker 2 (48:15):
Be in court right now?

Speaker 6 (48:15):
He said, I bleed flowing out?

Speaker 5 (48:18):
Hey, you was maybe like a big trip.

Speaker 6 (48:22):
I don't think I've ever done that.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
You never did a big trip.

Speaker 6 (48:26):
Boys fly out girls?

Speaker 5 (48:28):
Yes, not even you. Like bro was in a Puerto Rico.
What's it called Fihardo? He said, we heard Billa's next
to us. I said, damn, there's some tall ass niggas.
Then I'm like, like, look at this trip.

Speaker 4 (48:42):
Need to be pretty much been in a relationship my
whole life. I flew out with the homies though, like
we'll go on the trip, go to Camp Coom back
in the day, go to Miami or whatever. But it
wasn't like girls fly girls out there. Wherever we was at,
we was, we knew Girls is gonna be there.

Speaker 7 (48:57):
You know what makes that a new fucking instruct How
do you trust these It's not a new thing.

Speaker 2 (49:02):
I was doing this fifteen years.

Speaker 7 (49:04):
I do think that the way the niggas stay in
a fucking villain, don't go outside and they have to
bring the vibe to a house.

Speaker 6 (49:10):
Yes, I was.

Speaker 5 (49:18):
The way.

Speaker 3 (49:19):
I have a question for both of you. But you
guys are very like free So I don't know where
we go.

Speaker 2 (49:23):
I don't like you. No, no, I don't mean you.

Speaker 3 (49:31):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (49:32):
My My username was free spirit.

Speaker 3 (49:35):
I said what I said this other day.

Speaker 5 (49:38):
I said, anyone who said.

Speaker 8 (49:43):
We're all free spirit, well it's not even a judgment
because I'm really not the judgments of person.

Speaker 3 (49:47):
Baddy likes to say that I am, but I'm not
very I'm not judging.

Speaker 5 (49:50):
I don't care.

Speaker 8 (49:51):
The point is is I just I'm I know that
I'm different because like I'm more like strict on the
nigga if I'm in a relationship.

Speaker 3 (49:58):
But I know, like you done talked about being free
and different items.

Speaker 5 (50:01):
So when I asked, and I'm not free, but you know,
you say something that really may.

Speaker 7 (50:07):
I wonder if people resonated with you said at this point,
I don't do this anymore because these are experiences I've
already had. When I was twenty two, it was so
fucking exciting to go to Switzerland. You know what I'm saying, like,
oh my goodness, now the way I'm living my life
really worried Coaud you take me? There's I got a
few I got lists where if I get offered to go,

(50:27):
I'm going because here I wouldn't even single because at
the age I'm Matt, I really don't want to be
stuck with three or four Exactly.

Speaker 2 (50:37):
You don't want to be stuck with.

Speaker 3 (50:40):
You don't want to be saying that you just don't know.

Speaker 5 (50:43):
I don't.

Speaker 7 (50:44):
I don't sit up on flights on my own, so
there's really nothing you could give me like you can't.

Speaker 5 (50:49):
That's my thing three days if.

Speaker 7 (50:52):
I really don't fuck with you period, which is why,
which is why I'm a room and I bring my
friends because now it's a trip for us.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
I don't have to lay up and be with you.

Speaker 5 (51:03):
But then it's gonna be in my head.

Speaker 2 (51:05):
What's going to be in your head?

Speaker 3 (51:06):
I feel you just the bat line.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
This is only if he ain't fun nigga and the
dick ain't good, because when he's a fun nigga, it's
a good And then.

Speaker 5 (51:14):
That's the thing.

Speaker 7 (51:15):
If I really want to experience a spot, I just
don't know. I really may not want to be with
you for three days and that motherfucker.

Speaker 6 (51:22):
So bring your friend right now.

Speaker 5 (51:24):
I really do. But I'm almost thirty now I'm telling
you that. Hold on. He said, we cooked. That's why
you said you. I don't care if I have the
second one hand.

Speaker 2 (51:34):
We's going no, he said, he said, but this way
because we're cooked. That's what he actually he's overcoked.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
Yeah, but you're agreeing with the over thirty cook statement
that that is what I'm hearing right now, And I
what what if you not fuck a place?

Speaker 2 (51:48):
What party?

Speaker 5 (51:49):
You know, like you've seen it all. So to me,
at that point, you're over it.

Speaker 3 (51:53):
And for me it's fucked up because I know we're
holding from out the country.

Speaker 8 (51:56):
My dad took me to Tokyo, Japan everywhere when I
was a kid, So for me, you can't impress me
with that as an adult, like I'll be like nigga, No.
That's why from a young age it's like you're gonna
do what Like I don't need you. My dad dropped
me off from the world.

Speaker 3 (52:08):
Word I will say, I am.

Speaker 7 (52:11):
Her say if you haven't experienced these things yet, I'm
not gonna hold you.

Speaker 5 (52:15):
I don't care how old you are.

Speaker 7 (52:16):
If there is something that makes you that excited from
a man to fly out, be it a PJ in
a turk.

Speaker 6 (52:23):
That's why.

Speaker 4 (52:24):
That's why we say when y'all get to be about
thirty and up, like y'all already had, I can't do
nothing to make you excited. That's not like the young ones.
I guess the young ones is gonna get excited to
have a trip to Bahamas.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
You actually just like you just said, you just said
it sounds crazy when he said it with you literally
date night, when with candle making, He's like, yeah, I know,
ain't no nigble to do this ship.

Speaker 2 (52:47):
You ate everywhere, been everywhere.

Speaker 8 (52:49):
That's not true though, if my man, the experience is
different when it's your man.

Speaker 3 (52:53):
If I love this man, he's my man.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
What y'all, that's what y'all y'all don't want to live.

Speaker 3 (53:04):
Y'all, bitch, I'm not doing that. All that are man ship.

Speaker 8 (53:08):
That's where I have to That's why I said a
free spirit, you free, well, because I'm not that free.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
Like ask us since we're so free, I was gonna
ask this.

Speaker 8 (53:17):
Free spirit a question if you have a man, since
we're talking about going on trips and like how men
like to fly women out, or how they go to
Brazil and these places because they know women are busting,
And why do you are, Like are you okay with
your man being like I'm going on a boys trip,
We're going to Brazil my home.

Speaker 6 (53:33):
Like.

Speaker 8 (53:35):
Yeah, because she's flying like his homemies, they're gonna fly
bitches out, But I'm not doing that, So.

Speaker 5 (53:41):
I think that all right.

Speaker 7 (53:43):
Well, I am in a dynamic where we're having sex
with women all the time, right, But this is what
I can't ask, but I would say no genuinely speaking
from my friends who aren't. I'm also doing this without
this person. I'm having sex with women.

Speaker 8 (53:56):
So so you guys wait, wait, wait, so you guys
have sex with women together and then separately you get
to have sex with women, and he gets to have
sex with women separately too.

Speaker 7 (54:04):
Yes, but we'd be so all about each other. We
don't really do it too much, but the separation. But
he tells you if like, for example, when we were
in Germany, there was this really cool brothel that we
had found online.

Speaker 3 (54:14):
A brothel is crazy, not like literally, it's like a spot.

Speaker 5 (54:17):
They rubbed you down, you get like four bites. That's right.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
I've been there, found.

Speaker 5 (54:21):
Out women can't go. So we're sitting at dinner and
I was like tired. Anyway, I was like there go
He's like, no, this is our trip, like this the
fuck it? I'm like, oh, go come home and tell
me what happened.

Speaker 7 (54:33):
And to me that for someone that isn't ready for
their nega to be with other bitches, that is the
most safe environment that you can have your man going
to Brazil or Colombia where there's sex workers and there's
an experience. If you know that that person may be
into that shit anyway. These are couples where you feel
like your man is about to do this and lie.
I think figuring out what you're willing to do and

(54:55):
what you could feel comfortable with is the best case scenario.
Sex Workers are such a good way for men to
exercise freedom if they're choosing to do it. Most women
really give a fuck about emotional ties to other women,
flying bitches.

Speaker 5 (55:07):
Out, being embarrassed on time just because they fly you.
Oh no, being.

Speaker 7 (55:11):
Embarrassed Instagram stories, I fuck your nigga, spending time together,
hanging out dinners, all that that's like, get in and
know each other. I've suggested to friends that think they're
dating men like this that that may have to be
your hardline if that makes you paying for some yes,
the trip sex.

Speaker 5 (55:27):
I think that shit kind of should just happen.

Speaker 7 (55:30):
I think women that are in relationships that are not
going to should be allowed one nigga on a little
trip every ten years.

Speaker 3 (55:36):
A woman should be able to go on give me like, hey,
you and your friends with saloon.

Speaker 7 (55:40):
It was a cute litt nig Okay, you fuck your niggas,
Like I think girls should have their little one.

Speaker 5 (55:43):
What's shall hall pass?

Speaker 7 (55:45):
But I just think that the sex work part of
it is really important because then this is literally the
sexual experience, because why else are we so irritated about
nominogamy Because we don't want to lose you.

Speaker 5 (55:58):
So Bamiya is going to be with his homeboys.

Speaker 1 (56:03):
But lose a nigga if you're gonna lose a nigga,
if you want to be lost, like exactly, like at
the end of the day, whether you let a man
futher all the other women that he wants or not,
like he gonna stay when he want to say, he
gonna leave when he want to.

Speaker 2 (56:15):
Leave, it doesn't matter.

Speaker 1 (56:16):
If you do all these things, you can plug it
from the back and make him feel the best, and
he's still gonna go out there and I want to.

Speaker 8 (56:22):
Do yeah, And if you and I'm not gonna be
in the business of curating a vibe for you to
make sure that I don't.

Speaker 3 (56:28):
Lose you, that's not what we're gonna do. I'm gonna
I'm gonna do what I can as a woman to
harness this connection I'm gonna woman to harness the connected.

Speaker 5 (56:42):
I don't say no, I'm not.

Speaker 7 (56:46):
Curating, but it makes if there's a room where you
know you're dating a man that wants to do this
and he's trying to lead it up to you and
be like, yo, then this is what I can handle.

Speaker 5 (56:56):
I just suggest that I get.

Speaker 9 (57:00):
Though.

Speaker 2 (57:01):
Men don't come in. Yeah, they's a lot to say.
Men don't come in saying I'm the type of man that's.

Speaker 7 (57:10):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (57:10):
They do a kind of man say they know a
woman is into monogamy. They are not at dinner like
just so you know, I want to slaughter into some
baby boy.

Speaker 5 (57:20):
Just you know, I like the fun of the bitches
from time to time.

Speaker 2 (57:22):
But I love you, baby boy.

Speaker 5 (57:27):
White women don't press the line.

Speaker 3 (57:32):
But this is what I'll say, is like, you're right.
Men don't say that.

Speaker 8 (57:35):
And then men are also so traumatized to where like
even if they felt like the woman could be into it,
they feel like it's like you're trying to set me up, like, oh, babe,
would you And then they're like, oh, you're trying to
set me up because they're scared because once you say it,
then they're gonna be like what see, I knew you
want to like, it's never They're never comfortable to come
and tell somebody that. And I feel like we don't
ever know that for sure because every man I've been

(57:57):
with it just said I want to be with you
and nobody else, and I love you, and I don't
even know.

Speaker 3 (58:01):
This is the vibe and this is this not.

Speaker 5 (58:04):
You said what I said, not FRAMEI up.

Speaker 6 (58:05):
Plus see, I think all women cheat anyway, So all.

Speaker 3 (58:09):
Women cheat is crazy to me. I don't think all
women get I think that a lot of women do.

Speaker 5 (58:12):
Cheese class.

Speaker 2 (58:13):
I mean, yeah, Alex over there class. I'm not gonna
hold you.

Speaker 6 (58:18):
Black men don't cheat, but all women cheat?

Speaker 2 (58:20):
Give me off the okay? I mean, I'm actually not
going to debate him on this.

Speaker 6 (58:25):
Yeah, there's no debate.

Speaker 1 (58:26):
Probably probably ninety percent of my homegirls during our time
as being friends have cheated on a nigga, like all
of them.

Speaker 3 (58:34):
I've never cheated on a man except once when I
was fourty.

Speaker 2 (58:36):
But you still cheated on a man? Then I still cheated.
I was fourteen years was how do I cheat on
the man?

Speaker 3 (58:43):
He wasn't even a real boyfriend. But the reason why listen, listen, listen,
it doesn't count because I was.

Speaker 5 (58:52):
I don't it matters.

Speaker 3 (58:55):
He's famous now and at the time that he was
a big rapper and they made like.

Speaker 5 (58:59):
A whole thing.

Speaker 3 (59:00):
This woman was a whole situation. I was fourteen.

Speaker 8 (59:03):
Carlos miller I Parcas said, it doesn't even count after
it before eighteen, Like whatever you did and when you
were fourteen does not count.

Speaker 3 (59:08):
I'm yeah, like that's so stupid.

Speaker 1 (59:11):
I was.

Speaker 3 (59:12):
It wasn't even a real relationship. We didn't have sex. No,
I cheated like kissing him on the last So I
never The only reason why I say that is because
it's just like whatever, I kiss.

Speaker 5 (59:22):
Him on the lips.

Speaker 8 (59:22):
I'll never forget that, right, But when I was grown.
In all my adult relationships past eighteen, I have never cheated.
I've been in multiple long term relationships, three and each
one of them niggas can say, come to the front
if I've cheated.

Speaker 3 (59:33):
I never cheated on a man. I never cheated on
a man.

Speaker 2 (59:38):
I haven't.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
I promise you I haven't, because once I feel the
desire to cheat, the relationship is over. Because if I
like a man, I don't see no other nigga. I
don't see no, I don't feel nobody else. I'm connected
to this person. I'm obsessed. I'm like, no, I love
this man. I want to be around him.

Speaker 8 (59:52):
As soon as I stop feeling that feeling, and as
soon as I feel like I'm interested in someone else,
the relationship should be over.

Speaker 5 (59:58):
You know why this scares me?

Speaker 7 (01:00:00):
Why because it kind of proves the rhetoric that women
really do emotionally cheat.

Speaker 5 (01:00:05):
And sometimes nothing you're saying is bad.

Speaker 7 (01:00:07):
No, but you know how some women are saying like, oh,
they don't take us as sexual beings, like you know
how women can have sex to feel free.

Speaker 5 (01:00:15):
When you hear things like this, it kind of proves
the opposite, which is a reality.

Speaker 7 (01:00:19):
Right, Like me, as a super sexual person, we joke
on this podcast, I'm emoho, I'd be, oh my god, No,
I want to eat first, let's cddle after today. Even
if I'm in a super sexual energy. My man hates
that I want to take bitches that we fuck on dates.
He'd be like, what, yeah, why are we doing this exactly?

Speaker 2 (01:00:37):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (01:00:37):
Yeah, you and another girl that y'all having sex with dinner?

Speaker 8 (01:00:43):
And do you guys have multiple sexual ocases with the
same women or is it just one and done.

Speaker 5 (01:00:47):
Yeah, most of times we don't really Yeah they all
got a girlfriend, both of y'all.

Speaker 7 (01:00:51):
Not a girlfriend, but like like alrid well, I say
that because like I would really like for us to
have one girl we really like, but that just hasn't happened.

Speaker 5 (01:00:58):
But a little off with all the hose be off
with men.

Speaker 7 (01:01:05):
But I definitely can't give women up. And I've been
in relationships with women were one really serious one and
it's just like you know, so I like the dynamic.

Speaker 3 (01:01:13):
Can I ask you the question if since you're bisexual
or right?

Speaker 6 (01:01:18):
Yes, yes, okay, you.

Speaker 8 (01:01:24):
Have I'm saying, okay, so if since you're bisexual, right,
would you be comfortable with being with a bisexual man?

Speaker 5 (01:01:33):
So I think that that question Here's why I'm really
freaky deck.

Speaker 7 (01:01:39):
However, there are a lot of things in my head
about masculinity that's not necessarily fair. That's connected to like
be in the bottom being the top how far. Like
for example, I used to with this drug dealer told
me once he would have dudes that owe him money
and he would make them like is it now something.

Speaker 5 (01:01:58):
About that way so hot and powerful and to turn
me on.

Speaker 7 (01:02:02):
And I was like that it feels like your dick.
He's like, that's what else they gonna do. They can't
pay me, they got to do that. And I was like,
oh my, this is so hot. Now there's another girl
somewhere listening, and you're covering your faces and ship.

Speaker 2 (01:02:15):
Don't look over your You asked her that question.

Speaker 6 (01:02:18):
I didn't ask that, God, but that makes you feel
good good I was.

Speaker 5 (01:02:23):
I just said it was sexy.

Speaker 8 (01:02:25):
Oh my god, I would be so turned off. Okay, okay,
but I'm not judging it, I know.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
But would you date him? Is what she's saying. Would
you date a bisexual men?

Speaker 3 (01:02:34):
Yeah, that's all I wanted to know because I'm curious.

Speaker 7 (01:02:35):
I think the reason that I wouldn't is because at
my age I'm not meeting many bisexual men that that
tell you they're bisexual. No, that can do both comfortably.
There's not this like one occasion.

Speaker 5 (01:02:50):
It's like, if you.

Speaker 7 (01:02:50):
Intrinsically need to get fucked, I'm gonna feel too weird,
like you really need dick.

Speaker 5 (01:02:56):
So that's gonna be a little But then you have it.

Speaker 2 (01:02:58):
In the closet, you can pull it.

Speaker 6 (01:03:00):
I still don't know what the answer is, but.

Speaker 7 (01:03:02):
If you have it, in the closet. Then that's not bisexuality.
You want to suck a man, then you really are bisexual.

Speaker 5 (01:03:08):
But you'll do it.

Speaker 3 (01:03:09):
You'll peg a man in the butt.

Speaker 2 (01:03:13):
Where else would you peg him?

Speaker 5 (01:03:16):
Remember, I was strapping up when I was gay, so
it really ain't that different than me.

Speaker 3 (01:03:19):
Oh women, you'll strapped women up too.

Speaker 5 (01:03:22):
Yeah, I was dating.

Speaker 2 (01:03:23):
Okay, still to this day.

Speaker 5 (01:03:26):
All the niggas you ask, you ain't never got no cushie. Wait,
so what is going? You asked the questions of all
I know? But this is great?

Speaker 3 (01:03:36):
So yes, okay, I'm not judging it.

Speaker 6 (01:03:38):
I just we like you.

Speaker 8 (01:03:44):
I really am not though, I just am very like, Wow,
it's crazy because it's like I'm so close off. I
feel when I get around y'all like I've been trying
to open you up as are, but you know, open
you up to new things and experience.

Speaker 7 (01:03:59):
As your question, I have too much shit in my
head about no no, no, like masculinity, Like okay, I'm
already super super dominant, and men have told me that
a lot of dudes be saying shit to me like
I feel like a homegirl.

Speaker 5 (01:04:11):
I'm not like soft enough. I felt a lot of
that what sign are you. I'm a pissy.

Speaker 2 (01:04:15):
We're not gonna do it.

Speaker 7 (01:04:16):
We're like too right, Like I always be treating niggas
like my homework, even when I'm in love with them.
So because of that, I need a man who's almost
way more over the top. And generally speaking, with bisexuality,
I think I start to see us a little even,
and that's what happens to me.

Speaker 5 (01:04:32):
Hmm, like they started. I don't know why it happens.
It's not that I'm trying to judge it, but it
does happen to me.

Speaker 7 (01:04:38):
And then I start to look at other men like
they're manlyer, which is really fucked up.

Speaker 5 (01:04:42):
I'm not saying it isn't, but it's what happens to me.

Speaker 3 (01:04:44):
So do you like super feminine women or more masculine women.

Speaker 7 (01:04:48):
I don't really date masculine women because I like the
girlies version of a girl. But I'm a last I'll
still be about to fuck me all the time every time.

Speaker 5 (01:04:55):
I don't know what it is, you know it stars
like the little boho hos.

Speaker 8 (01:04:59):
What is.

Speaker 3 (01:05:03):
And she's cute and she has like tattubes and then
but girly girls.

Speaker 5 (01:05:07):
When I sucked the super film girls, and that's what
me and my man are struggling with.

Speaker 2 (01:05:13):
The way you've been sitting here looking so lost.

Speaker 4 (01:05:15):
For I'm completely lost, y'all, y'all in the whole nother roalm.
I do not relate to none of this watching this podcast.
That's them.

Speaker 5 (01:05:28):
I'm just here for you know, God, we can't eat
a little COUCHI.

Speaker 6 (01:05:31):
It's all good, It's all good.

Speaker 2 (01:05:32):
But you definitely relate to that.

Speaker 6 (01:05:34):
You said, uh, film is what is film like that?

Speaker 8 (01:05:39):
Man?

Speaker 7 (01:05:39):
So people say lipstick lesbian. That's an old school term.
But when I'm sleeping with those girls where I'm meeting
them out, I feel like I'm just like their first
a lot. So that doesn't really work for me.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
I don't like that.

Speaker 5 (01:05:52):
Me and let me go really struggling with that. They
don't really they just be down there like I don't like.

Speaker 3 (01:05:56):
So wait a minute, this is my last question. I
don't want to you're out and about you meet them out?

Speaker 4 (01:06:01):
Like?

Speaker 8 (01:06:01):
Is it like y'all are out and it's like we're
looking for a third Is that like just on the movie?

Speaker 2 (01:06:07):
Do you see what she's saying? The way you're even
asking is so judging.

Speaker 8 (01:06:12):
I promise I'm just curious, like, is it that there
you're out and you're looking for a third?

Speaker 3 (01:06:17):
You know how they say that on the movies and stuff,
like we're looking for a third.

Speaker 5 (01:06:20):
So we're on abs, but for the most part, because.

Speaker 7 (01:06:23):
People have came to me looking for a third girls
and people come up, I was gonna say, but our
look is the same.

Speaker 5 (01:06:28):
My dude is tatted and has tattooed flocks, very earthy look.

Speaker 3 (01:06:32):
Okay, he's got that kind of look, and y'all look
like you'll have a third.

Speaker 5 (01:06:36):
Oh, bron, do you know who?

Speaker 7 (01:06:38):
He wants to suck the vote zoo his little thing.
We had a foursome with this with this lesbian couple.
She was said he the girlfriend was real cute. He
wasn't even owner the stud never had di before, and
he was like, I'm good if you go over there.
He was like, so he is so fascinated because he
really likes like especially you can see me I'm not
the girliest girl, right.

Speaker 5 (01:06:56):
He likes that shit.

Speaker 7 (01:06:57):
So he's like meeting studs like, I feel like people
rarely call them beautiful girls. I always want to say,
like they look like another guy or whatever.

Speaker 5 (01:07:04):
They like the manliness in them. And I don't. I
think they're beautiful women.

Speaker 3 (01:07:08):
So he likes thatuds if he's.

Speaker 5 (01:07:10):
Old like looking at himself that I'm a fuck this bitch.

Speaker 9 (01:07:12):
Bro.

Speaker 5 (01:07:12):
When we had Jazzy on the podcast, he was like,
we hanging out with her.

Speaker 3 (01:07:15):
I'm like, nigga, come down, oh wow, Like no, nothing,
I met her one time. No, I met her with
part one time.

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
Well, she be she'd be bagging all the bitches, so
she ain't trying to she ain't trying to hit on.

Speaker 3 (01:07:29):
Yeah, I remember we met her. It doesn't matter.

Speaker 7 (01:07:31):
It doesn't matter, and she's beautiful and she's like so
I think it's it's really that. But when we meet women,
most of the time they're girls.

Speaker 5 (01:07:39):
Pretty much want to fuckbut niggad and think I'm cute
too every.

Speaker 3 (01:07:42):
Time, so it's not hard for you.

Speaker 5 (01:07:45):
We always we really never not around a.

Speaker 6 (01:07:49):
Picture this like y'all just be out all the time.
Girls come up, like, Bro, I.

Speaker 3 (01:07:55):
Would like to observe.

Speaker 1 (01:07:57):
Have y'all never been in relationships like that where y'all
felt like y'all could just anybody.

Speaker 5 (01:08:01):
I don't think you probably always feel like like me
and my ex.

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
We we can literally fuck the bartender, the waiter. Like
even when I went to the.

Speaker 1 (01:08:09):
Club with y'all after filming y'all's pot, there was a
whole bitch that approached me to to fuck here's I
was going to do.

Speaker 2 (01:08:16):
It, and he was like, you don't want to.

Speaker 5 (01:08:17):
Actually, you could swipe through.

Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
You're showing up the problem. That's the dating.

Speaker 8 (01:08:24):
Does it say in the Bible we're looking for a
third vins being a photo together, y'all look alike, y'all
are cute, y'all are super.

Speaker 5 (01:08:33):
But I think when you see couples that kind of
looking sexual to thank.

Speaker 3 (01:08:37):
You, y'all are vibing, y'all look like you are looking for.

Speaker 6 (01:08:44):
The one, which okay, so.

Speaker 3 (01:08:47):
Scroll them up so you can see.

Speaker 7 (01:08:49):
Now you know how to use feel Oh what is
this called? Oh girl of lesbians be mad, they'd be.

Speaker 5 (01:08:54):
Like, I'm tired of y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:08:56):
What is it called field fields?

Speaker 5 (01:08:58):
It's just I'm in the field that, yeah, And it's
a lesbian act.

Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
That's where I met. I was looking at date a
couple last year and I met a couple.

Speaker 7 (01:09:08):
Just for couples that go on there, well, it's a
lot of couple people open a different sexuality.

Speaker 2 (01:09:14):
Like and different type of relationship styles.

Speaker 5 (01:09:17):
Oh interesting.

Speaker 7 (01:09:18):
But in the field for real is where I feel like,
I feel like we end up with girls that didn't
even realize they would do it.

Speaker 8 (01:09:26):
Because app because I never heard of that, I never
in person.

Speaker 7 (01:09:33):
They're not someone that would even discover. It's very like
first time, I can't believe I'm gonna on a date
with 'able. But he went to the bathroom at the
club reasently was like, Yo, I saw a girl that
you were really like, who you go down with me?

Speaker 5 (01:09:44):
It was it's like, uh, you know what, what is it.

Speaker 2 (01:09:47):
In New York?

Speaker 5 (01:09:47):
The public hotel? It's like always it's all one big bathroom.

Speaker 7 (01:09:50):
We go down there and he literally was like, yo,
me and my girl think you're beautiful, Like, can we
take you to dinner?

Speaker 5 (01:09:55):
She was like, I thought I was gonna meet a
nigga to night. This is not what I expect it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:00):
But they're just intrigued.

Speaker 7 (01:10:01):
They're like just looking and like probably also seeing that
I'm not being pushed, because you know, some dudes, especially
with look status, money, they're bringing girls back and their
girls probably just doing.

Speaker 5 (01:10:12):
It just because.

Speaker 7 (01:10:13):
But I think the openness and you see a couple
that's sexier, Like why not would'all would either of.

Speaker 2 (01:10:18):
Y'all ever be in an open relationship?

Speaker 1 (01:10:20):
No, I would never You would never know, Paul, it
never works, you said, open relationships never work. But like
the percentages that don't work, neither do monogamy monogamous relationships,
Like I think it's the same percentage.

Speaker 8 (01:10:36):
But I don't need all these different energies in my atmosphere.
Like if I'm gonna be with you, you know, like
get it, but old fashions, you like.

Speaker 2 (01:10:46):
Your old fashion.

Speaker 3 (01:10:48):
If it happens like I don't, couldn't cheat that.

Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
It don't work. That's what you say with a guy
if he cheated, or you like Miami and say you
got three cheats. How many cheats does a man have
with you?

Speaker 3 (01:10:57):
It depends on the type of cheat.

Speaker 8 (01:10:58):
It depends on the level of the cheat, seriously, and
it depends on how long we've been together and everything.
Like if I have a really strong relationship with someone
and he slipped up, like I would be really hurt.

Speaker 3 (01:11:08):
You might, I would be really hurt. You know, you
might come up on them. You do not just fall
into some you know, I say you slip.

Speaker 5 (01:11:20):
Let me tell you what I mean.

Speaker 8 (01:11:21):
By dad, you're out and about your loose, you're lit,
you're with your d A girl comes up and it's
just like a moment and you're out of town and
something happens, like I'm gonna be really hurt because you
broke my trust and I'm gonna feel really sad, and
I know I would be, and I'm gonna get over
it eventually.

Speaker 3 (01:11:35):
But it depends on the level of the relationship.

Speaker 8 (01:11:38):
Like if we're really strong and we have a family,
we built this empire, we're doing this, we're doing that,
and it happens like it is gonna break my trust,
we will have to rebuild. But like, I don't see
me just walking away immediately because of that, you know
what I mean, Like I don't see that, but I
do see, Like I don't know, I just.

Speaker 5 (01:11:54):
Don't love that.

Speaker 6 (01:11:55):
I'm a question. Can you be cheated on?

Speaker 2 (01:11:59):
Ye?

Speaker 6 (01:12:00):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (01:12:01):
Oh my god, this open stuff it gets too tricky because.

Speaker 5 (01:12:05):
Y'all have to.

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
It's live to me. You can still be lied and betrayed.
My ex we we had sex with a lot of doing.
My point because niggas.

Speaker 7 (01:12:14):
Lie because for example, right we have away, neither of us,
neither of us will be with other people if we're
in a bad place, like if we're arguing, and or like, uh,
my dad's older, so sometimes he has a lot of
health issues. Right, And there was this night where I
had to run to the hospital and I remember, like,
he told me he may see this girl this weekend.

Speaker 5 (01:12:34):
So I called him.

Speaker 7 (01:12:34):
He was like, baby, you ain't even got to like
tell me, I'm not about to like, trust me, I
get it. We don't even need to have conversations about
taking a pause when we're going through ship as a family,
when we're going through shit together, like we only do
this ship in happiness, Like we're not about to be
like imagine if I did that to him, he going
through some shit. I'm like, okay, I want to go
fuck this bitch. So we just make sure that when

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sex happens outside of each other and together, we're really
excited about it, because otherwise than it's a life that
happened there, he could lie to me and start saying,
somebody tricky.

Speaker 4 (01:13:07):
All right, I'm about to get all right, hold on,
So he go out, he find a female, smash her,
come back and like.

Speaker 5 (01:13:14):
Hey, baby, I found he never has sex with I
was talking to me, so if.

Speaker 4 (01:13:19):
He out, he gotta he gotta check in. But I
ask a girl right here, I think she's cool. Here,
look look this hurt right here?

Speaker 6 (01:13:24):
Is this cool? How does that work well for.

Speaker 5 (01:13:27):
One in our dynamic? I don't do this thing. I
have to find out something before we have He gotta
have it okay with me?

Speaker 7 (01:13:34):
Like, we're in a very committed, serious relationship and it's
been probably almost living together.

Speaker 5 (01:13:39):
So what the fuck are you about to do? Just
not come home till nine in the morning.

Speaker 6 (01:13:42):
No, like, we got some he got to call you
to tell you what's about to happen.

Speaker 7 (01:13:46):
He never had sex with someone the same night. He's
gotten some numbers to tell me about it the next day.
But that's not how that's not comfortable for me.

Speaker 3 (01:13:56):
Do you guys have sex? Like, have you a man
he had sex before?

Speaker 9 (01:13:58):
No?

Speaker 5 (01:13:58):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:13:59):
So do you have sex with you your friends? Or
is that off limits? Like let's say you have a friend.

Speaker 7 (01:14:03):
We talk about this all the time. She don't fuck
her friends. I all my friends just because like not all.
I'm you got a Remember I was dating a woman
and most of my friends remember that. I don't like
to cross the boundary with homegirls. I feel like they
then start to just be.

Speaker 2 (01:14:15):
Like and I don't we me and my friends were
all still very cool, but we don't know about our on.

Speaker 5 (01:14:20):
The next episode.

Speaker 3 (01:14:22):
Okay, yeah, this was a lot we were.

Speaker 2 (01:14:25):
It was the truth after dark. Okay, yeah you got
you guys talk a lot about it now.

Speaker 5 (01:14:30):
I definitely want to know.

Speaker 2 (01:14:31):
We both got to come on come on there. Yeah,
I came on there, we go up dad, and we
had a.

Speaker 3 (01:14:34):
Great, great, great time on you guys should come on.

Speaker 2 (01:14:37):
Well you're just so you know, it's fun.

Speaker 5 (01:14:44):
Yeah, I learned a lot. I learned a lot.

Speaker 3 (01:14:47):
Really, no, I am, I did. I'm really like, Wow,
this was important.

Speaker 6 (01:14:51):
This is something different right here.

Speaker 3 (01:14:52):
Yeah, this is so different, and I'm happy for your journey.

Speaker 5 (01:14:55):
Thank you. I love that for you.

Speaker 3 (01:14:57):
It's not even judging, like it not judge.

Speaker 8 (01:15:00):
This is like.

Speaker 4 (01:15:03):
Like listening to you on all the levels, like not
only with your boyfriend, what y'all do, but like how
you just broke down, how I've never seen nothing.

Speaker 5 (01:15:11):
But also this can't be every man.

Speaker 2 (01:15:14):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:15:15):
A lot of men men violates you. A lot of
women will violate that too.

Speaker 3 (01:15:19):
So yeah, you gotta be this like it's this is
something spiritual.

Speaker 5 (01:15:24):
You got for real.

Speaker 7 (01:15:25):
We talk about like man, we get pregnant, we ain't
gonna hos Like maybe we got to get one girl
we really love, Like do you.

Speaker 8 (01:15:31):
Ever have a situation that's my last question where it's
like a girl and you only that she only wants
had sex with you, so he just watches.

Speaker 7 (01:15:39):
That's actually the last girl we fucked was kind of
like that. They were kind of arguing about do you
know when you're drunk, you just be like this got
way more money. He was like kind of hardest bitch
and I was like, what the fuck? So that it
started off like that, but they're actually, I think in
the reverse, a lot of the girls we fuck are
super attracted to him and probably never been with a girl,

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and they're just like.

Speaker 3 (01:16:01):
They just want to have sex with him, but they're
gonna just take you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:03):
You don't like that.

Speaker 7 (01:16:07):
Offa bro, I'm gonn tell you right now.

Speaker 4 (01:16:17):
But the girl who she's like, I'm gonna take one
for the team. I'm gonna I'm gonna get her. I
know she comes with the package, but uh, I'm gonna
take one with the team by myself.

Speaker 1 (01:16:27):
I mean used to take He used to say he
was taking one for the team because we didn't have
the same type.

Speaker 2 (01:16:33):
So he would even though.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
He wasn't Yeah he wasn't, he wasn't investab, but he
would still get some because it's there.

Speaker 2 (01:16:39):
But he would tell me like.

Speaker 5 (01:16:45):
Truth after that, Yeah, we should do that.

Speaker 2 (01:16:46):
We'll dig into nomination.

Speaker 5 (01:16:48):
You guys are gonna contact questions.

Speaker 1 (01:16:51):
Yeah, y'all, y'all make sure y'all take that bizarre Paul truth.

Speaker 2 (01:16:55):
That's the dark.

Speaker 1 (01:16:56):
I love that you are doing more than just talking
about sports like a lot of the other guys like.
I love that you're just showing up as your true
authentic stuff, even though I hope some of your takes
are for viral clips.

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
I fig you're a great person. I love you down.

Speaker 1 (01:17:10):
Y'all are great together, and I'm really excited to see
how much bigger this podcast gets.

Speaker 2 (01:17:15):
And just congratulations on all things.

Speaker 1 (01:17:17):
And we don't have to do a part too, because
y'all turn this into a goddamn interview. At the end
we had we was trying to clock your ass. I
thought this was gonna be some gender warship. We have
all these questions about No, Yeah, well it's.

Speaker 3 (01:17:30):
Good and I want you guys to come on the
Truth after.

Speaker 7 (01:17:32):
Dark, y'all should when we out to eat with it,
they'd be like, oh my god, because it's good and
it's it's like a TV show.

Speaker 8 (01:17:40):
We're gonna come on Truth that Dark. We're gonna talk
about it so everyone knows that they're gonna come on.
We're gonna go dig into her sexual stuff because that.

Speaker 5 (01:17:50):
Not judging, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:17:52):
And before we get out of here, y'all, make sure
you go get your copy of No Holds Barred Sexual
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Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
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