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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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Speaker 4 (00:18):
That was a different cadence. That ain't really the jingle.
I still haven't locked it and secured it in. It
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(00:40):
you drop on wone's out of here.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
It's gonna be right about no?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Or what's the other drop side of you knowing?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
If you're on a metro, don't trust you and mustle
on the beat?
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Hope wait, let me google most famous drops. Well, they're
they're like producer tagline.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
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with most famous like beat drops?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Like music?
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Oh yeah, not it's producer tag line? Rought about No,
that's my friend. Tryan he beat.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Mustard on the beat. If you metro, don't trust you? Okay,
murder on a beat.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Not so nice, Yo, Pierre, you want to come out here?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Oh yeah, wait, what's hip makers? Because his is on
his is at the top of everything's too.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I see Mike Will made it.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah, tagline is, Oh lord, Justin made another one.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
They don't need to make it. I'll be hearing it
on a lot.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
DA got that dope. Weezy out of.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Here, just blaze take Keith. Fuck these niggas up.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
That was a goode. I do like that one. But
when I hear that this is.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
The song I think of, I just get the switch
Metro women was everyone let me see south Side on
the track. I can't hear that.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Either way.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
There's a whole producer's tag directory on genius dot com.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
What the fuck? Oh I forgot listen?
Speaker 2 (02:12):
You know technically we saw our tagline.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah, oh I know. It's not stolen.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
Yeah, I mean kind of okay. We didn't steal it, guys,
we just kind of borrowed it without permission. They know
they all got of course.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
They know that's juicy j. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
No, yeah, do not make this the clip, y'all, because
we don't need him coming after us, all right, I
don't need to come after it, but I thought it.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Was like because it was under a certain abount of seconds.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
No, no, no, no, no, none of that matters, bitch.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Did you not see the recent clip of Cisco explaining
how he didn't make no money from Thong song because
Ricky Martin sued him for saying live in Levida look
in the cadence of his song, bitch, cadence will get
you seared.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Okay, Oh no, y'all see.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I've been living on the inter and speaking of living
on the internet, y'all, I'm gonna read y'all one of
our Amazon reviews because we are New York Times bestsellers.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Linda will come.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
To read another company. But that's where y'all leave them,
so shit, that's what we read it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Well, it's that and Goodreads.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
If you guys want to leave us reviews on our book,
please go over to Amazon and leave a book review
or Goodreads. I have to look and see if there's
a way that we can read reviews from our audible,
but people have actually been leaving reviews from the audiobook
on Amazon as well. This one comes from Alex b.
She says nobody else could have told this story quite
(03:37):
like them. This book is truly like nothing else you've
ever read. No Holds Bard is part memoir, part self help,
part erotica, and somehow manages to be all three without
losing an ounce of depth or intention. Mandy and Weezy
hold nothing back. They are raw, hilarious, emotional, vulnerable, reflective,
and wildly wise. It's educational, entertaining, and healing all at once.
(03:59):
Nobody else could have told this story quite like them.
You could feel how much thought and heart went into
every chapter. This book deserves every award in accolade.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
It gets.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
It's bold, it's bringing. It invites you to unlock parts
of yourself you might have been scared to touch. Even
if your life looks nothing like theirs, even if you're
not into the same kinks, curiosities or experiences, it's still
worth the read just to witness two women telling their
truth with this much courage and creativity.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
And honestly, you need both the book and the audiobook.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
The print version is visually alive with personality and clever design.
The audiobook of full blown performance. The emotion, that tone,
the delivery, you'll feel like you're right there with them.
This is a muster read, no matter your genre, no
matter your background, you'll laugh, reflect, clutch your pearls and
walk away.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Changed, Alex, you did like did are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
A lot of comment on the audiobook? Comment?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Excuse me on the audiobook and where it wasn't like
my priority to like an audiobook. I'm not gonna hold you.
I didn't realize how much better we are at audiobooks
because we already podcasts for sure.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
I mean it washed, it was hard.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah, it was hard.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Shout out uh to Nicole who who worked with us
on that.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
But it wasn't a cale yeah right, Nicole Shelton.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Yes, yeah, yeah, shout out to Nicole Shelton.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
It was an interesting process.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
But I do love this so much of the whore
Hive like purchase the audiobook and the hard copy, just like,
thank y'all.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Now, this week we have a question y'all know if.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
You want to send it in, it's Decisions Pod at
gmail dot com. Okay, so the subject line for this
already lets me know we're gonna say yes, bitch.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Okay. The question is, am I tripping? Yep?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Please help ladies if you have to ask, keep you're tripping?
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Okay, nine times out of ten you are, But there
are some instances where it'd be like, no, bitch, you right.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Actually, before we get into this, uh, I had a
girl that was doing a service on me.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Was hair not that asked me if she.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Was not your cheating on your I wonder if it's
cause you know how like men be talking about cheating
on their barbers.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Oh yeah, I know, couse my makeup.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
Oh do you know how many people are trying to
get me to go to another blonde specialist?
Speaker 2 (06:33):
And I'm like, Nope, out them, Brooklyn. I'll keep traveling
to New York.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Bro, don't disrespect my hairstyle, is bitch, I'm gonna go
get my blonde from outtha until I'm done being blinde
ho damn.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Okay, So this is division telling me she was treating
my hair.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I was just getting a little carrots and joint and
she was like, so, I want to ask you some advice.
She was visiting a guy in Atlanta and they've been
dating each other. It's been a few months.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
He hits her up.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
She went out there to do some hair, Okay, she
they weren't covering the flight, so he covered the flight.
He's like, come see me whatever. So while she was
in Atlanta, or while she was going to Atlanta, one
of her gay homies invited her for a dinner party Saturday.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
On a rooftop.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Okay, I hit her boom was like, hey, by the way,
I have plans Saturday eight, And he was like, why
would you make plans when I'm flying you down here
for us to hang out.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
You said you had to work.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Now you about to step out, So he's like, you
leave it on Sunday, like you just thought making plans
on Saturday night. She's like, oh, well, I didn't invite
you because it was a gay party. I know you
probably ain't want to go. He's like, yeah, but you
didn't even like I'm flying you out here to do
up party on Saturday night.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
So she was like, am I wrong? Because he already
said to me I'm in chill mood.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
She's like, so basically, because he flies me out, I
can't do anything else. And I'm like, you know what,
I get what you're saying, because I don't think she's
wrong either, but I do think she's wrong for not
considering telling him first.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Hey, do you think she's wrong or not wrong? I
don't said you don't think she's wrong, but you do
think she's I don't think.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
She's wrong for wanting to make a plan for a
friend or having the idea that seeing a friend while
in Atlanta is normal, But at the same time, it's like,
I'm not gonna hold you. I would tell mania, like, hey,
did you want to would it be cool if would
you like to come and or.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Would you be okay with this? Or do we have plans?
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Like I ain't gonna hold you. If I'm dating somebody
dating not doesn't live it hold on if I'm dating
someone and he does not live in my city and
he buys my flight to come to his city to
make money because I'm working, essentially I'm coming there for work.
If he covers that and I make plans outside, bitch,
(09:06):
I don't really like you because I'm believing that No,
well this is this is my opinion.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
You don't have to think it's true.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
But bitch, if I like, I know how I've acted
when I traveled to see niggas. If I'm making plans
to see someone else, mind you say I'm coming in Friday,
I have to work maybe Saturday after work. Hair braiding
can sometimes take a day or two, so if I'm
working all this time, and he's covering my flight no no, no,
no no, and leaving and if I'm leaving on Sunday,
(09:35):
If I'm leaving on Sunday, he's clearly probably expecting at
least a night with her.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
I think that she's long in.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Four nights there, what that's a lot. I didn't hear
four nights. I did not hear shot flying in for
the day. She's flying in for the weekend. I think
it's Thursday to Sunday, three or four nights, right, But
here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
Yeah, three or four nights wasn't given. That's a detail.
I mean, that matters.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
So let's just say it was.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I'm definitely not about to not see Vinnie when I
come to Atlanta. I always see either Toya or Rashida.
Matter of fact, when I was my nigga brought me
to Atlanta to meet his family. His cousin was out there,
and mind you, we live in New York. But he
was like, oh, I want you to meet some of
my Atlanta family. I still was like, okay, let me
set up my time with so and so.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
I mean, I have a completely different take if it's
four days.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Like Thursday to Sunday. I was wrong Thursday.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
I mean, if it's four days, like yeah, like nigga,
I'm not gonna be That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I spill spend every single night with you. But also
I feel what he's saying. I think that that's also
something that should have been discussed. I mean, I think
if someone spends their money, like, I ain't gonna hold you.
If I fly a nigga in I'm expecting time, bro,
I don't give a fook like, so I think you
(10:50):
have to consider, like a lot of times you covering
someone's flight, there's kind of.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Entitlement there, yeah to the first DIBs.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
So like if you want to have your own little trip,
bitch by your own flight, don't accept it. Or if
I'm offering off rip, let me know, like, hey, I
know that you're getting my flight and I'm excited to
see you, but I have other plans outside of work.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Just letting you know, like that.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Needs to be set off the rip.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
I agree.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
If I'm flying again, that nigga my sex slave, bitch,
fuck out of here.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
That nigga I own.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
I bought your flight, even if it's main cabin nigga,
even if it's a middle seat, you better not go
see nobody else without let me know first and let
me say you can't.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
I understand the entire entitlement of buying the flight, but
I also was like, damn, I see where he's coming from.
He's like, damn, I feel you out to make weekend plans.
But I was like, exactly like I do either, even
if it is four days, like you could at least
been like, hey, I'm staying with you.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
We're dating, We got our shit going.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
So for me, I'm at the point in my relationship
where when weekend shit comes up that I want to
do or that he wants to do, we tell each
other like.
Speaker 4 (11:58):
Now I ain't gonna hold you. I just think that
as a woman, if you have other plans and you're
dating somebody and clearly like there needs to be an
open line of communication on expectations or bitch by your
own flight so you don't feel like you don't feel guilty.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Or knows because then a nigga's like he's slaying with me.
Niggas be doing that too.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
But that's what I'm saying now, bro, if I sit
here and save you money too, I think you do.
Like telling someone your plans is fair. I totally get it.
They're not in a serious relationship with the point you're
flying to somebody's city. That was literally that I am wrong,
Like that was in my head.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
I'm gonna save you money on a flight, and I'm
offering you.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
To stay with me.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Fuck nigga.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Oh listen, you don't getting all the plan.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
But then it literally said to her, I appreciate that
you're doing shit so that you're not cooped up under him.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Cool, It sounds good that she should have bought her
own flight.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Bitch, I don't want to just buy anything. Let me
jase me. I don't want to shit about her own flight.
Speaker 4 (13:01):
And now the nigga's probably not gonna date you anymore
after the train.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
By the way, speaking of buying your own I did
date night this month. Y'all know I planned date night
once a month or no one of us does it.
So this last month was my month and it ended
at bath house. Why my nigga was downstairs. He goes
this where you and Mandy got fingered. I didn't know
no one got fingered in a bathroom.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
She was like this the one y'all talk.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
No one got bath house.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Oh no, they have the one in fight Eye. Oh no, girl,
the one that we went to is now two floors rooftop.
It's crazy. Oh wow, it's really fire now. I know.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
There was that New York Post article that said there
were ship stains, but boy, that motherfucker was not. I was.
Speaker 4 (13:56):
Oh no, I love bath House. I mean there could
be a bad experience.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Now you can really love it like I love I
I love it was one of the best views y'all.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Bath house. Whoever working over there?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Why are we even pro both in bath house?
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Bitch?
Speaker 2 (14:11):
It's already small.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
No, it's not anymore.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Yeah, but it still is because it's New York City.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
But y'all be just get us. A little day passed
because that pool was hitting better than soho ol, oh
my god, even the day pass. No, girls, stop telling people.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
All right, well, let's see if this listener this week
is tripping again. If you want to send your letter
in and get your advice from us, the unofficial experts
at all.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
This shit is decisions pod at gmail dot com, not.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
The unofficial experts. Shout out.
Speaker 4 (14:42):
I don't know why people even ask us questions anymore.
All Right, Well, hey Mandy and Weezy. I'm a huge
fan of the pod and a recently divorced thirty one
year old bisexual woman who has now been given the
freedom to truly explore myself sexually.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
This podcast and O holds Bard have been instrumental in
guiding me on this journey. I appreciate y'all for the
sake of the pod. You can call me Karmen. She
also added her picture for reference.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Oh let me talk. I need help.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
I am currently dating and it has been hell and
recently met a man who is checking all the boxes.
Great personality, educated, no kids, me neither homeowner, good sex, etc.
The issue is he was engaged and broke it off
three years ago, but they are still co parenting their dog.
(15:34):
It is important to note that their engagement and died
due to family cultural differences, and they were damn near
forced to break up because her family wasn't accepting of
a black man. They meet up and trade their dog
on a monthly schedule, and they even communicate and trade
their dog when they are traveling for work, vacation, etc.
(15:55):
At first, I thought I'd be okay with it, but
when I was around the dog for the first time.
I knew this wasn't gonna work for me. The dog
was grimming me a what a God. All I could
think about was just ex fiance and also some of
the trauma he had experienced due to the way her
family handled things. I suspect that they are both still
emotionally attached and using this dog as a way to
(16:18):
stay connected.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Of course, he said that that's not the case, but you.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
Can't believe these niggas. This is also one of those
very small, very busy dogs. I did my best to
be kind and welcoming, but it was a lot to
handle with him jumping all over me.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
I recently decided that the best thing to do was
break it off.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
I was really feeling him, but I didn't want to
lead him on because I know the feeling was mutual
and he really liked me too. But when we discussed this,
he didn't offer any compromise and said that we need
to be locked in before he made any moves regarding
his dog.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
Did I make the right decision or am I trick?
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Yeah? You're sure.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
You think she's tripp because she don't want to paring
a dog with a nigga.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I think exactly what he said at then, like being
locked in, like that's not your nigga. You're feeling him,
You're finding this flaw and the dog thing, but you
really don't have room to.
Speaker 3 (17:13):
Be demanding shit yet.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
I can completely understand and thinking it's emotional attachment, but
be real with you, the way that Obay and ar
were trading Nina was an emotional attachment because we were
using that as an excuse too, but.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
We weren't doing monthly, we were doing more than that.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
And well, yeah, and she's saying she feels like this
is their emotional on.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
So I'm gonna be real.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
If me and him just had a chill relationship, he'd
still be watching Nina like dad nigga on some real shit.
We were just so we had such an easy schedule.
I mean even remember we were driving off to Roofs picnic.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
I dropped the dog off like it was just easy.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
And if you purchase a dog together, Now, Nina wasn't
his dog.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Nina was my dog.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
But when you purchase a dog together, it's kind of difficult.
And I can understand people not wanting to break up
that time. I know a lot of people have talked
about Kaitlin Nicole because she's got the dog when her
and Travis broke up, and.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I was like, oh, I don't think I knew about it. Oh,
people like.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Talk about it and her comments and shit, and I
just be like, Bro, people are obsessed, But I get it.
I don't know how long she's got that dog, but
she was with Travis five years. I'm only speaking on
this because it's a public relationship with public commentary. By
the way, for everyone listen, this is not personal conversations
I have with her about the dogs ever. But when
I saw people chatting about it, I was like, damn,
I feel for her because it's like, fuck, this.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Whole shit is going on, everybody talking about me. These
are my children. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I think if someone was my man, then I would
get to the point where I would maybe start making
demands on what makes me comfortable what doesn't.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
But at the end of the day, you're still a
new person.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
The dog might always fucking growled at you and look
at you funny until they like you, Like I don't know,
Like people really love their pets, bro, they do. They
love they pets like they love they kids.
Speaker 4 (19:06):
I know if y'all are on Patreon, So I'm about
to tell her she not tripping and here's why.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Okay, if y'all are on the Patreon.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
Y'all know, Wheezy and ed Ands and dan Meyer told
me I can't date no nigga with kids because I don't.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Want a co parent, right.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
So to me, this is almost.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
A non compromised force to be in a poly relationship.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Essentially, hear me out.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
She didn't she didn't agree to kind of sign up
for the dog because she brought up that both of
them do not have kids. I didn't agree, for a
like to deal with a baby mama. And so if
the kid is coming in, if the dog is coming
in essentially acting like a kid, and now you still
have ties with your ex fiance, to me, this is
(19:53):
giving like I now have to accept this other person
being a part of our relationship, of our schedule, of
our dynamic.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Would mind you?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
I thought you were perfect because you ain't had kids,
which meant I didn't have to.
Speaker 4 (20:05):
Deal with another woman or another schedule. And so if
this dog is now taking place like that, mind y'all,
it's fucked them kids, Well, bitch, just for them animals
sometimes too, because bitch is a dog. So to me,
I actually don't think you're tripping if this is like
a situation where not only that, it's forcing you to
(20:27):
feel insecure about your relationship because however much he's shared
about his previous relationship, you know it ended because of
her family, not because of their decision. It was kind
of forced upon them. So to me, if he's not
also reassuring you in your emotions or how you feel,
I absolutely don't think you're tripping.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I think that you didn't sign.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
Up to be what a partner who has the co
parent and having that dog even though it's not a
human being child, there's a co parenting dynamic.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Once a month.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
Bitch, you're not tripping.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
Go on to the next nigga who is single with
no kids, with good dick and.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
All the other things you have to know kids and
no dogs?
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Girl, Well, well to me, you gonna have a pet.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
You can have a pet, but I you know the
co parenting is a lot.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I'm not saying your vice is bad either. I honestly
see both. The reason the reason I think is tripping
is because you cut him off over the dog. That's
why I think it's tripping.
Speaker 4 (21:20):
I would cut a nigga off over his kids or
his baby mama. And at this point, to me, I
think that it wasn't just a dog. It's the fact
that there's a co parenting situation. If that nigga just
had a dog that just lived in his apartment all
the time, I don't think there will be iss.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
You know what, I'm reading this the co parenting element.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I'm reading one in Kennedy Ryan's book, shouting right now,
shout out to Kennedy Ryan.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
She she fucks with us.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
We gotta high around sometime soon I fell out New
York Times bestseller and it's before I Let Go, and
a lot of y'all have read this book, and I
think that John legends turning it into a TV series.
The long story short reading about co parenting where people
still want to fuck each other and they don't know
they want to fuck each other, but they feel tied
to each other in the way that she's writing about
how people are feeling like jealous and like thinking about
(22:02):
the other person. I'm like, I literally was reading the book,
put the book down, looked at my I said, we
ain't never leave the jail nay, because I ain't gonna
do this. We ain't already tattooed my deck. We are not,
and I like hand it in the book.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I'm like, I can't.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
It really reconfirmed for me what I used to be
insecure about when dating men with children. And the fact
of the matter is, y'all, so both have moved on,
but you still feeling I don't meant to that other person,
like it's.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
A weird how do you let go? So?
Speaker 1 (22:34):
I don't know, But anyway, bitch, yeah, I would, I
think unless you all.
Speaker 4 (22:40):
I mean, but to me if you're dating with intention,
but you you though so you could do it if
you saw like long term reasons to be with this
guy and this was a deal breaker. I think you
did the right thing. Don't waste your time. That wasn't
a situation you wanted to deal with. And the fact
that he wasn't willing to bend or compromise or consider
how you feel about it, he's not he's not off
(23:02):
of that.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Relationship yet enough to consider you. So I think you
did the right thing.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Let us know in the comments if you go on
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Speaker 2 (23:23):
And we would love to hear y'all's thoughts.
Speaker 3 (23:26):
On all the things.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
On the braider who got fluid out and so's not regular.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
I don't want she'd be Brighten.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
She'd be Brighten who decided to take a free flight
and hang out with her gay homeboys even though she
was dating a nigga. And also drop your thoughts on
this woman who left her nigga for co parenting a
dog with his ex fiance. If you guys have questions
like this, make sure you send it over to us Decisions.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
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Speaker 4 (23:54):
We want to hear from you and we will give
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Speaker 2 (24:02):
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Speaker 4 (00:18):
That was a different cadence. That ain't really the jingle.
I still haven't locked it and secured it in. It
ain't what it's supposed to be just yet. I want
I want music behind it and all. I'm gonna hit
up some of my little music industry friends. You're gonna
get we don't get this jingle drum. It's gonna say
(00:40):
you drop on wone's out of here.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
It's gonna be right about no?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Or what's the other drop side of you knowing?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
If you're on a metro, don't trust you and mustle
on the beat?
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Hope wait, let me google most famous drops. Well, they're
they're like producer tagline.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Oh wait now it's now you know what's coming up
with most famous like beat drops?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Like music?
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Oh yeah, not it's producer tag line? Rought about No,
that's my friend. Tryan he beat.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Mustard on the beat. If you metro, don't trust you? Okay,
murder on a beat.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Not so nice, Yo, Pierre, you want to come out here?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Oh yeah, wait, what's hip makers? Because his is on
his is at the top of everything's too.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I see Mike Will made it.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah, tagline is, Oh lord, Justin made another one.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
They don't need to make it. I'll be hearing it
on a lot.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
DA got that dope. Weezy out of.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Here, just blaze take Keith. Fuck these niggas up.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
That was a goode. I do like that one. But
when I hear that this is.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
The song I think of, I just get the switch
Metro women was everyone let me see south Side on
the track. I can't hear that.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Either way.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
There's a whole producer's tag directory on genius dot com.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
What the fuck? Oh I forgot listen?
Speaker 2 (02:12):
You know technically we saw our tagline.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah, oh I know. It's not stolen.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
Yeah, I mean kind of okay. We didn't steal it, guys,
we just kind of borrowed it without permission. They know
they all got of course.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
They know that's juicy j. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
No, yeah, do not make this the clip, y'all, because
we don't need him coming after us, all right, I
don't need to come after it, but I thought it.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Was like because it was under a certain abount of seconds.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
No, no, no, no, no, none of that matters, bitch.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Did you not see the recent clip of Cisco explaining
how he didn't make no money from Thong song because
Ricky Martin sued him for saying live in Levida look
in the cadence of his song, bitch, cadence will get
you seared.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Okay, Oh no, y'all see.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I've been living on the inter and speaking of living
on the internet, y'all, I'm gonna read y'all one of
our Amazon reviews because we are New York Times bestsellers.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Linda will come.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
To read another company. But that's where y'all leave them,
so shit, that's what we read it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Well, it's that and Goodreads.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
If you guys want to leave us reviews on our book,
please go over to Amazon and leave a book review
or Goodreads. I have to look and see if there's
a way that we can read reviews from our audible,
but people have actually been leaving reviews from the audiobook
on Amazon as well. This one comes from Alex b.
She says nobody else could have told this story quite
(03:37):
like them. This book is truly like nothing else you've
ever read. No Holds Bard is part memoir, part self help,
part erotica, and somehow manages to be all three without
losing an ounce of depth or intention. Mandy and Weezy
hold nothing back. They are raw, hilarious, emotional, vulnerable, reflective,
and wildly wise. It's educational, entertaining, and healing all at once.
(03:59):
Nobody else could have told this story quite like them.
You could feel how much thought and heart went into
every chapter. This book deserves every award in accolade.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
It gets.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
It's bold, it's bringing. It invites you to unlock parts
of yourself you might have been scared to touch. Even
if your life looks nothing like theirs, even if you're
not into the same kinks, curiosities or experiences, it's still
worth the read just to witness two women telling their
truth with this much courage and creativity.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
And honestly, you need both the book and the audiobook.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
The print version is visually alive with personality and clever design.
The audiobook of full blown performance. The emotion, that tone,
the delivery, you'll feel like you're right there with them.
This is a muster read, no matter your genre, no
matter your background, you'll laugh, reflect, clutch your pearls and
walk away.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Changed, Alex, you did like did are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
A lot of comment on the audiobook? Comment?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Excuse me on the audiobook and where it wasn't like
my priority to like an audiobook. I'm not gonna hold you.
I didn't realize how much better we are at audiobooks
because we already podcasts for sure.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
I mean it washed, it was hard.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah, it was hard.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Shout out uh to Nicole who who worked with us
on that.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
But it wasn't a cale yeah right, Nicole Shelton.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Yes, yeah, yeah, shout out to Nicole Shelton.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
It was an interesting process.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
But I do love this so much of the whore
Hive like purchase the audiobook and the hard copy, just like,
thank y'all.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Now, this week we have a question y'all know if.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
You want to send it in, it's Decisions Pod at
gmail dot com. Okay, so the subject line for this
already lets me know we're gonna say yes, bitch.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Okay. The question is, am I tripping? Yep?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Please help ladies if you have to ask, keep you're tripping?
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Okay, nine times out of ten you are, But there
are some instances where it'd be like, no, bitch, you right.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Actually, before we get into this, uh, I had a
girl that was doing a service on me.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Was hair not that asked me if she.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Was not your cheating on your I wonder if it's
cause you know how like men be talking about cheating
on their barbers.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Oh yeah, I know, couse my makeup.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
Oh do you know how many people are trying to
get me to go to another blonde specialist?
Speaker 2 (06:33):
And I'm like, Nope, out them, Brooklyn. I'll keep traveling
to New York.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Bro, don't disrespect my hairstyle, is bitch, I'm gonna go
get my blonde from outtha until I'm done being blinde
ho damn.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Okay, So this is division telling me she was treating
my hair.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I was just getting a little carrots and joint and
she was like, so, I want to ask you some advice.
She was visiting a guy in Atlanta and they've been
dating each other. It's been a few months.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
He hits her up.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
She went out there to do some hair, Okay, she
they weren't covering the flight, so he covered the flight.
He's like, come see me whatever. So while she was
in Atlanta, or while she was going to Atlanta, one
of her gay homies invited her for a dinner party Saturday.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
On a rooftop.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Okay, I hit her boom was like, hey, by the way,
I have plans Saturday eight, And he was like, why
would you make plans when I'm flying you down here
for us to hang out.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
You said you had to work.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Now you about to step out, So he's like, you
leave it on Sunday, like you just thought making plans
on Saturday night. She's like, oh, well, I didn't invite
you because it was a gay party. I know you
probably ain't want to go. He's like, yeah, but you
didn't even like I'm flying you out here to do
up party on Saturday night.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
So she was like, am I wrong? Because he already
said to me I'm in chill mood.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
She's like, so basically, because he flies me out, I
can't do anything else. And I'm like, you know what,
I get what you're saying, because I don't think she's
wrong either, but I do think she's wrong for not
considering telling him first.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Hey, do you think she's wrong or not wrong? I
don't said you don't think she's wrong, but you do
think she's I don't think.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
She's wrong for wanting to make a plan for a
friend or having the idea that seeing a friend while
in Atlanta is normal, But at the same time, it's like,
I'm not gonna hold you. I would tell mania, like, hey,
did you want to would it be cool if would
you like to come and or.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Would you be okay with this? Or do we have plans?
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Like I ain't gonna hold you. If I'm dating somebody
dating not doesn't live it hold on if I'm dating
someone and he does not live in my city and
he buys my flight to come to his city to
make money because I'm working, essentially I'm coming there for work.
If he covers that and I make plans outside, bitch,
(09:06):
I don't really like you because I'm believing that No,
well this is this is my opinion.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
You don't have to think it's true.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
But bitch, if I like, I know how I've acted
when I traveled to see niggas. If I'm making plans
to see someone else, mind you say I'm coming in Friday,
I have to work maybe Saturday after work. Hair braiding
can sometimes take a day or two, so if I'm
working all this time, and he's covering my flight no no, no,
no no, and leaving and if I'm leaving on Sunday,
(09:35):
If I'm leaving on Sunday, he's clearly probably expecting at
least a night with her.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
I think that she's long in.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Four nights there, what that's a lot. I didn't hear
four nights. I did not hear shot flying in for
the day. She's flying in for the weekend. I think
it's Thursday to Sunday, three or four nights, right, But
here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
Yeah, three or four nights wasn't given. That's a detail.
I mean, that matters.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
So let's just say it was.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I'm definitely not about to not see Vinnie when I
come to Atlanta. I always see either Toya or Rashida.
Matter of fact, when I was my nigga brought me
to Atlanta to meet his family. His cousin was out there,
and mind you, we live in New York. But he
was like, oh, I want you to meet some of
my Atlanta family. I still was like, okay, let me
set up my time with so and so.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
I mean, I have a completely different take if it's
four days.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Like Thursday to Sunday. I was wrong Thursday.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
I mean, if it's four days, like yeah, like nigga,
I'm not gonna be That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I spill spend every single night with you. But also
I feel what he's saying. I think that that's also
something that should have been discussed. I mean, I think
if someone spends their money, like, I ain't gonna hold you.
If I fly a nigga in I'm expecting time, bro,
I don't give a fook like, so I think you
(10:50):
have to consider, like a lot of times you covering
someone's flight, there's kind of.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Entitlement there, yeah to the first DIBs.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
So like if you want to have your own little trip,
bitch by your own flight, don't accept it. Or if
I'm offering off rip, let me know, like, hey, I
know that you're getting my flight and I'm excited to
see you, but I have other plans outside of work.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Just letting you know, like that.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Needs to be set off the rip.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
I agree.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
If I'm flying again, that nigga my sex slave, bitch,
fuck out of here.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
That nigga I own.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
I bought your flight, even if it's main cabin nigga,
even if it's a middle seat, you better not go
see nobody else without let me know first and let
me say you can't.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
I understand the entire entitlement of buying the flight, but
I also was like, damn, I see where he's coming from.
He's like, damn, I feel you out to make weekend plans.
But I was like, exactly like I do either, even
if it is four days, like you could at least
been like, hey, I'm staying with you.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
We're dating, We got our shit going.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
So for me, I'm at the point in my relationship
where when weekend shit comes up that I want to
do or that he wants to do, we tell each
other like.
Speaker 4 (11:58):
Now I ain't gonna hold you. I just think that
as a woman, if you have other plans and you're
dating somebody and clearly like there needs to be an
open line of communication on expectations or bitch by your
own flight so you don't feel like you don't feel guilty.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Or knows because then a nigga's like he's slaying with me.
Niggas be doing that too.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
But that's what I'm saying now, bro, if I sit
here and save you money too, I think you do.
Like telling someone your plans is fair. I totally get it.
They're not in a serious relationship with the point you're
flying to somebody's city. That was literally that I am wrong,
Like that was in my head.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
I'm gonna save you money on a flight, and I'm
offering you.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
To stay with me.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Fuck nigga.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Oh listen, you don't getting all the plan.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
But then it literally said to her, I appreciate that
you're doing shit so that you're not cooped up under him.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Cool, It sounds good that she should have bought her
own flight.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Bitch, I don't want to just buy anything. Let me
jase me. I don't want to shit about her own flight.
Speaker 4 (13:01):
And now the nigga's probably not gonna date you anymore
after the train.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
By the way, speaking of buying your own I did
date night this month. Y'all know I planned date night
once a month or no one of us does it.
So this last month was my month and it ended
at bath house. Why my nigga was downstairs. He goes
this where you and Mandy got fingered. I didn't know
no one got fingered in a bathroom.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
She was like this the one y'all talk.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
No one got bath house.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Oh no, they have the one in fight Eye. Oh no, girl,
the one that we went to is now two floors rooftop.
It's crazy. Oh wow, it's really fire now. I know.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
There was that New York Post article that said there
were ship stains, but boy, that motherfucker was not. I was.
Speaker 4 (13:56):
Oh no, I love bath House. I mean there could
be a bad experience.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Now you can really love it like I love I
I love it was one of the best views y'all.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Bath house. Whoever working over there?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Why are we even pro both in bath house?
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Bitch?
Speaker 2 (14:11):
It's already small.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
No, it's not anymore.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Yeah, but it still is because it's New York City.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
But y'all be just get us. A little day passed
because that pool was hitting better than soho ol, oh
my god, even the day pass. No, girls, stop telling people.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
All right, well, let's see if this listener this week
is tripping again. If you want to send your letter
in and get your advice from us, the unofficial experts
at all.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
This shit is decisions pod at gmail dot com, not.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
The unofficial experts. Shout out.
Speaker 4 (14:42):
I don't know why people even ask us questions anymore.
All Right, Well, hey Mandy and Weezy. I'm a huge
fan of the pod and a recently divorced thirty one
year old bisexual woman who has now been given the
freedom to truly explore myself sexually.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
This podcast and O holds Bard have been instrumental in
guiding me on this journey. I appreciate y'all for the
sake of the pod. You can call me Karmen. She
also added her picture for reference.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Oh let me talk. I need help.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
I am currently dating and it has been hell and
recently met a man who is checking all the boxes.
Great personality, educated, no kids, me neither homeowner, good sex, etc.
The issue is he was engaged and broke it off
three years ago, but they are still co parenting their dog.
(15:34):
It is important to note that their engagement and died
due to family cultural differences, and they were damn near
forced to break up because her family wasn't accepting of
a black man. They meet up and trade their dog
on a monthly schedule, and they even communicate and trade
their dog when they are traveling for work, vacation, etc.
(15:55):
At first, I thought I'd be okay with it, but
when I was around the dog for the first time.
I knew this wasn't gonna work for me. The dog
was grimming me a what a God. All I could
think about was just ex fiance and also some of
the trauma he had experienced due to the way her
family handled things. I suspect that they are both still
emotionally attached and using this dog as a way to
(16:18):
stay connected.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Of course, he said that that's not the case, but you.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
Can't believe these niggas. This is also one of those
very small, very busy dogs. I did my best to
be kind and welcoming, but it was a lot to
handle with him jumping all over me.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
I recently decided that the best thing to do was
break it off.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
I was really feeling him, but I didn't want to
lead him on because I know the feeling was mutual
and he really liked me too. But when we discussed this,
he didn't offer any compromise and said that we need
to be locked in before he made any moves regarding
his dog.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
Did I make the right decision or am I trick?
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Yeah? You're sure.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
You think she's tripp because she don't want to paring
a dog with a nigga.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I think exactly what he said at then, like being
locked in, like that's not your nigga. You're feeling him,
You're finding this flaw and the dog thing, but you
really don't have room to.
Speaker 3 (17:13):
Be demanding shit yet.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
I can completely understand and thinking it's emotional attachment, but
be real with you, the way that Obay and ar
were trading Nina was an emotional attachment because we were
using that as an excuse too, but.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
We weren't doing monthly, we were doing more than that.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
And well, yeah, and she's saying she feels like this
is their emotional on.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
So I'm gonna be real.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
If me and him just had a chill relationship, he'd
still be watching Nina like dad nigga on some real shit.
We were just so we had such an easy schedule.
I mean even remember we were driving off to Roofs picnic.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
I dropped the dog off like it was just easy.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
And if you purchase a dog together, Now, Nina wasn't
his dog.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Nina was my dog.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
But when you purchase a dog together, it's kind of difficult.
And I can understand people not wanting to break up
that time. I know a lot of people have talked
about Kaitlin Nicole because she's got the dog when her
and Travis broke up, and.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I was like, oh, I don't think I knew about it. Oh,
people like.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Talk about it and her comments and shit, and I
just be like, Bro, people are obsessed, But I get it.
I don't know how long she's got that dog, but
she was with Travis five years. I'm only speaking on
this because it's a public relationship with public commentary. By
the way, for everyone listen, this is not personal conversations
I have with her about the dogs ever. But when
I saw people chatting about it, I was like, damn,
I feel for her because it's like, fuck, this.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Whole shit is going on, everybody talking about me. These
are my children. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I think if someone was my man, then I would
get to the point where I would maybe start making
demands on what makes me comfortable what doesn't.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
But at the end of the day, you're still a
new person.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
The dog might always fucking growled at you and look
at you funny until they like you, Like I don't know,
Like people really love their pets, bro, they do. They
love they pets like they love they kids.
Speaker 4 (19:06):
I know if y'all are on Patreon, So I'm about
to tell her she not tripping and here's why.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Okay, if y'all are on the Patreon.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
Y'all know, Wheezy and ed Ands and dan Meyer told
me I can't date no nigga with kids because I don't.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Want a co parent, right.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
So to me, this is almost.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
A non compromised force to be in a poly relationship.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Essentially, hear me out.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
She didn't she didn't agree to kind of sign up
for the dog because she brought up that both of
them do not have kids. I didn't agree, for a
like to deal with a baby mama. And so if
the kid is coming in, if the dog is coming
in essentially acting like a kid, and now you still
have ties with your ex fiance, to me, this is
(19:53):
giving like I now have to accept this other person
being a part of our relationship, of our schedule, of
our dynamic.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Would mind you?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
I thought you were perfect because you ain't had kids,
which meant I didn't have to.
Speaker 4 (20:05):
Deal with another woman or another schedule. And so if
this dog is now taking place like that, mind y'all,
it's fucked them kids, Well, bitch, just for them animals
sometimes too, because bitch is a dog. So to me,
I actually don't think you're tripping if this is like
a situation where not only that, it's forcing you to
(20:27):
feel insecure about your relationship because however much he's shared
about his previous relationship, you know it ended because of
her family, not because of their decision. It was kind
of forced upon them. So to me, if he's not
also reassuring you in your emotions or how you feel,
I absolutely don't think you're tripping.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I think that you didn't sign.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
Up to be what a partner who has the co
parent and having that dog even though it's not a
human being child, there's a co parenting dynamic.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Once a month.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
Bitch, you're not tripping.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
Go on to the next nigga who is single with
no kids, with good dick and.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
All the other things you have to know kids and
no dogs?
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Girl, Well, well to me, you gonna have a pet.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
You can have a pet, but I you know the
co parenting is a lot.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I'm not saying your vice is bad either. I honestly
see both. The reason the reason I think is tripping
is because you cut him off over the dog. That's
why I think it's tripping.
Speaker 4 (21:20):
I would cut a nigga off over his kids or
his baby mama. And at this point, to me, I
think that it wasn't just a dog. It's the fact
that there's a co parenting situation. If that nigga just
had a dog that just lived in his apartment all
the time, I don't think there will be iss.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
You know what, I'm reading this the co parenting element.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I'm reading one in Kennedy Ryan's book, shouting right now,
shout out to Kennedy Ryan.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
She she fucks with us.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
We gotta high around sometime soon I fell out New
York Times bestseller and it's before I Let Go, and
a lot of y'all have read this book, and I
think that John legends turning it into a TV series.
The long story short reading about co parenting where people
still want to fuck each other and they don't know
they want to fuck each other, but they feel tied
to each other in the way that she's writing about
how people are feeling like jealous and like thinking about
(22:02):
the other person. I'm like, I literally was reading the book,
put the book down, looked at my I said, we
ain't never leave the jail nay, because I ain't gonna
do this. We ain't already tattooed my deck. We are not,
and I like hand it in the book.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I'm like, I can't.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
It really reconfirmed for me what I used to be
insecure about when dating men with children. And the fact
of the matter is, y'all, so both have moved on,
but you still feeling I don't meant to that other person,
like it's.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
A weird how do you let go? So?
Speaker 1 (22:34):
I don't know, But anyway, bitch, yeah, I would, I
think unless you all.
Speaker 4 (22:40):
I mean, but to me if you're dating with intention,
but you you though so you could do it if
you saw like long term reasons to be with this
guy and this was a deal breaker. I think you
did the right thing. Don't waste your time. That wasn't
a situation you wanted to deal with. And the fact
that he wasn't willing to bend or compromise or consider
how you feel about it, he's not he's not off
(23:02):
of that.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Relationship yet enough to consider you. So I think you
did the right thing.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Let us know in the comments if you go on
over to Underscore Decisions Decisions, post your thoughts on the
clip or if you are our Patreon community member, you
can see the full episode of this You Got Decisions
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Speaker 2 (23:23):
And we would love to hear y'all's thoughts.
Speaker 3 (23:26):
On all the things.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
On the braider who got fluid out and so's not regular.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
I don't want she'd be Brighten.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
She'd be Brighten who decided to take a free flight
and hang out with her gay homeboys even though she
was dating a nigga. And also drop your thoughts on
this woman who left her nigga for co parenting a
dog with his ex fiance. If you guys have questions
like this, make sure you send it over to us Decisions.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Pod at gmail dot com.
Speaker 4 (23:54):
We want to hear from you and we will give
you our our goddamn advice and clearly you gonna get
both sides of the coin from us.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
And we will see y'all next week.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
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