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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Let's talk about this bitch Smerwalker.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Let's get into it, guys, especially because a lot of
y'all were tagging. I got a tweet that was like, ooh,
I can't wait to hear you talk about the Summer
Walker saga on horrible decisions suck.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Let's get into it. Let's get into the tee. What
could we even say? Well, well, well.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Up, Like what happened is that there were there was
a leaked voice note from Summer Walker to rapper Rich
the Kid that was leaked allegedly by his baby mom
slash fiance Tory Bricks. Now, I was just hoping my
(00:46):
good sister didn't respond or said bitch, that's Ai. All
you had to do was say that ain't me, it's Ai.
In the voice note, you hear summer Walker pretty much
say hey, just buy me a new phone, save me
under pizza hut. I know you're not gonna leave your
(01:09):
baby mama, but I want us to.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Fuck with each other forever.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
I think when you heard that, because that's the line,
that's all we need to know, right, Okay, So I
didn't see Summer's response.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
First, Well, I want to.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I wanted to say the voice and then I was
gonna play no, no, no, I was want to say the
voice note I didn't say her. I didn't see anything.
My first reaction was, Oh, she's being funny.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Did you think that?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
No. I've seen people say, oh, when you got a
side chick, you saved them under Pizza Hut.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So I was like, oh, she's trying to be funny.
First off, let's be very clear. It is twenty twenty five.
Nobody saves Pizza Hut's number, bitch, and.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I know, oh, we all know that we like a
slice from a real pizza rha and donody thought like that. Okay,
So you think she was serious because she was like, listen,
I'm tipsy right now, y'all gonna stop tucking each other.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
I don't even want go be with her.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I'm glad y'all together, give me a phone and take
me on a pizza head. I was like, Oh, she
being funny because you're like, I could tell you talking
to your trick and you just like nigga, keep breaking
me off. No, So I thought she was playing it
first until I listen. I listened to her six minute video. Well,
I don't have six minutes, but I have about a
minute and a half. But this is where she explicitly says,
(02:35):
I just want to be the side piece.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
This is what Summer Walker had two snaps.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I just want to be the side That's what I
will see him like.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I just want to be decided.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I just want you to kill I don't like him
enough to lay up next to him every day.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I don't even know how you do it.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
I'm not gonna start talking about him, you know, I'm
not gonna start talking about him, but you know the
things about him, girl, I don't know how you do it.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I was just trying to play in all little position.
He clearly wants to think. You know, he's obsessive.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
You can like say that you're gonna leave him alone,
and he will just call you back back to back,
get to call your friends, get to call your manager,
get to call your assistant, and get to sit and
stuff that and money.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
So why would you just.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Do you know on thing, you just give in, you like,
you don't let that, let that take me somewhere. And
you know what, I'm actually really glad you did this
because I was this close.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I said, Damn, I really want.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
To push and I really want a kind of Miami
but I really kept thinking about it, like, no, I
don't know because you you act nuts.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
And this is what I needed to see.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Yeah, huh So okay, okay, I want to hear your
thoughts and then I'm gonna get into the psychology of
all this with you.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So there's a few things that I actually thought were embarrassing.
So you're well, Okay, Remember Walker is actually too big
to have made this news, so too big in comparison
to them. Okay, Tory Bricks with all due respect and
riched a kid, I don't think they're on my radar
(04:14):
at all.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Maybe I would have swiped by.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
That on Hollywood Unlocked or Shade Room. Summer Walker, to me,
really is that girl? Like that's an R and B
rotation if it's R and B night. I just went
last night, like I just said, and I was like,
Summer was on it, Like, bitch, I'm gonna name I
can name summer songs. You can't name me mial songs.
I can name summer songs. What are we talking about here?
(04:37):
Like I'm about to.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Respond to that.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
And this is why the Internet sometimes is a curse,
because now you look like a Dodo, Like you really
couldn't let that whole just be like you and my
DM da da da, and I wouldn't. Because Summer talked
about it, it made it big. Rich the Kid, in
my opinion, leaked this because he actually has a little song.
Oh you think rich You think Rich linked it not Torri, Yes,
because rich just also put out a song. He goes, oh, well,
(05:02):
since y'all hear, and he put out a song, and
the song was kind of good, Rice.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
And Killer and someone else.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
But he had a little beat. Okay, Richard Kid only
got plugged walk talked to me, So I really think
he was like, what's the biggest play I could do here?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
And I think Summer did just release her album last week.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
And it's like, you shit on her because she got
all her cool shit going on. You can post your
shit up, make your name relevant again. I'm telling you.
I really think he was calculated and for Summer to
reply when all we're thinking about right now is her cute,
funny wedding dress. Shit, you're a dodo. The other thing
that really blew my mind was like, bitch, you've been
acting anxious for years and you got up there and
(05:44):
told us was fifth ninnies. You was able to do
all that, but she did say one really funny thing,
like the bitch was kind of funny even though she
looked stupid, she.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Was kind of funny.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
She was like, yeah, I mean, if he's gonna buy
me shit, like, I can't imagine what you do because I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Rich, so I can I see why you can't leave.
I was like, oh, oh that's fucked up.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Now, Okay, the summer is fucking lit. I've paid over
one hundred dollars the summer walker. I never think that
Richard the kid wouldn't even be on a group on
so and I would pay for her again. And she
barely did anything, but she sounded good. So okay, this
girl really got bread. And she like fucking with this
nigga because whatever, maybe if she wants to say, in
her words, not mine, bird brain, bird shit, you want
(06:27):
to trick on this nigga?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Cool, have him tricked on you cool?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
But replying was so stupid. You do not reply to
people when they're begging for you too. You telling me
I'm up here, I'm that nah, that's begging for you
to answer. You're trying to make me look bad. So okay,
I love if.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
We disagree here.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
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Go to patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions and unlock
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(07:15):
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Speaker 1 (07:30):
I am not here with Mandy because I'm in LA.
We're taking a little bit of our winter break.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I'm actually in Los Angeles, my other co host for
my show For Facts Sakes podcast. So if you're a
member of Horrible Decisions on Patreon, go ahead and add
For Fact's Sake to your list. Me and Eddie have
had our show for about five years now, and it's
all about random facts.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
We've only had one guest, actually it was Charlot Magne.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
But last week's episode was about cancel culture and we
just named a bunch of kids. What was it one
of the week before that talk about I don't know, oh, lawsuits,
lawsuits a.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Lot of people.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
You yeah, sorry because the podcast is leading over.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Yeah, but hey, I'm back on back on the Patreon
for Horrible Decisions finally.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
How many years ago in your a Horrible Decision before
the pandemic.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
For the pandemic. I remember the first time I was
on Horrible Decisions, I was just like, uh, just like,
look at my Instagram, just blowing up. Just black woman,
black women black Okay, all right, okay, hello bro, these
names are fun.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Hey.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Sorry, sorry, I know.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Sound like, hey, I'm me.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
But you're gonna want to see what he looks like anyway,
So just kind on over to perfect for fact, Like
all right. So it's crazy because like people ask Mandy
and I such specific sex questions and I was like, damn, like,
how are Eddie and I going to do this?
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Because that's fine, Hey, I had sex, you know me.
I have had sex. I've been in people, people have
been in me.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Really Now.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Eddie's married now, so I'm just like the married guy.
But to me, like married people sometimes give the best
dating advice, but you know, we it's pretty horrible advices.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Yeah, yeah, you're out there sucking and fucking have a
good time.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
That's that's what I done. Now the subject is plug
or not? And so I don't know. I don't know
if you means.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Butt plug butt plug? Who's a butt plug? Is that
a guy Eddie?
Speaker 1 (09:35):
We are trying to sell our patrion here?
Speaker 4 (09:36):
Do you think there's a guy with a who's a
butt plug? Plug?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
That's what I was like, is it a plug? Or
is it a plug?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
But that guy who can get you butt plugs? That's
something because I got a drug plug, But do you
have a butt plug plug? He just has a briefcase
full of butt plugs? Like, wow, aren't there any sex
choice slingers? Yeah, there should be a sex choice slinger because,
like I said, cheat, I guess yeah, all right? Also, what
you would want to from a story and want some
guy with a bag full of sex toys?
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah? No, but unless it was like because like certain vibrators,
like the womanizers like two upwards of two hundred dollars
or the we vibe the remotion.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
What's your vibrator? I don't use any, you don't use any?
Speaker 1 (10:13):
I need my hand you what you because I started
to desensitize my coach.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
I see, I was going really hard. It's like a
chef's thumb that things. I think doesn't feel anything anymore.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
How would you have a secon like you're just like
I can fuck myself.
Speaker 4 (10:33):
Yeah, And you're a vibrator because I guess, I guess
when you use a vibration so much, you must get
so you can it ruin a sex life where you're
like I getsitized.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
And I don't think this is a knock against vibrators
because if we have an ad that comes up, there's
a vibrator.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I wants you to buy it.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
What I'm saying like you start to overuse it. Yeah,
I think once you get to that point where you
need that strong of a fucking.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
I used to have an ex girlfriend back in the day.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I've never said the storybo oh my god, tell us
your sex stuff.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
And uh she was like very like uh high sex drive,
very almost like a little bit like like okay, relax,
you know, just like very very intesting. Let's do it
now right now, okay, almost like a coach like come
on twenty now, like all right, let's go right now.
She's like I go, do you ever use a second
you ever use a vibrator? She's like, I have one,
(11:20):
Like we should use it?
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Held right now, dude, I hope, dude, I'm telling you.
When she brought this out, I was like, oh, are
we like mixing cement? It had a plug? Damn not
even a battery, not double a not a plug like
(11:45):
this needs a plug plug or not blood sod And
it's like I couldn't. I was like, And when she pulled,
I was like, oh no, I'm good, Like that's okay,
like I would get bringing a fucking Star Wars tool.
It was like this, what was she?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
What would she want to?
Speaker 4 (11:58):
It was bizarre. I was like, that's not we are
we working our backs?
Speaker 1 (12:04):
It's like my it was like a white it was
a it was it from Brooks Thrown.
Speaker 4 (12:08):
I don't know what it was. I was like, I'm
good And ever since that I've never asked. It was
a great never because you wanted because when you ask,
you want to be.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Like tiny it's the tickler, not like not like you know,
did any of your male friends. So Eddie's a comedian.
If you guys haven't heard him, or you're new to decisions, decisions.
You haven't heard his name, So I'm wondering, like, do
comics ever talk about sex because I know some of
my like, oh like sex details like do male?
Speaker 4 (12:32):
No? No, me and my friends? Are you get no details?
Women get details like how big was it?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (12:37):
You know?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
What did smell it?
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Guys were like you get it in? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Cool, you get it in.
Speaker 4 (12:41):
It's like, oh yeah, we hooked up.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Get it in?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Like yeah, yeah, it was like that.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Why do I keep getting confused with Then I'm like,
did you.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Get it in?
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Like the get the dick in?
Speaker 4 (12:48):
Just like yeah, no, we hooked up. That's it, Like okay, cool,
I don't know if the don't whip it out first
all it's a little suss about friends, like tell me everything,
every smell, every tastey.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Feel and how did she feel? And how did did
you like right away? Or really wait was it all
over her chest? I don't ask any questions. No, no, no, guys, do.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
No I need a vote?
Speaker 4 (13:11):
No, I'd tell you. I'm not saying it. I'm not
saying anything. It's homerotic. But if I want to be
like buddy, take me there.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Like oh yeah, she was sucking my day.
Speaker 4 (13:20):
No, I don't. We don't talk like me and my
friends will talk like that. Is that I think it's
I think women like details. Guys don't just need to
know what happened.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Guys be talking about how nasty someone is.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
Maybe maybe it's just me, but my friends never like.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
All right, nobody the plug story? Or you didn't tell
anybody the story with that girl shit on you.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
No, I've never talked. I've only known women these stories
because women don't judge me.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
I don't even know how they can find that.
Speaker 4 (13:43):
No, we don't talk about my friends at all. Now
that we're married, we don't even talk about our wives
at all. It's like, what's her name again? Oh I
am but I can't wait to get there. Butthole anyway?
Plug or not?
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Not the plug?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
No worse anyway. That's the last time I asked a
moment about a sex story.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Okay, here we go. So, hey, guys, it's been a while.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
This shit is so long, So let me know if
I should send a voicemail to Mandy on the hotline
or sent a voicemail is like, yes, okay, So not
sure what I'm looking for? Validation, advice, just sending the
story into the ether. In May, my boyfriend met this
girl on Hinge Girl A. My partner is a guy
that falls head over heels for people quickly. He was
(14:35):
beginning to get deep feelings for her, like she could
be another girlfriend, but she lives on another continent. When
she left town, he was a bit depressed, but moved on.
Come June, he matches with another girl on Hinge Girl B.
She messages him, Oh my gosh, are you the guy
girl A was hanging out with last month.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
I'm the best friend she made during that trip.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
He and girl A and B have become good friends
and they connect and talk often. Girl B is local,
so he hangs out with her every so often. I
want you guys to know Eddie, who is a monogamous
married me and is looking like.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
What the fuck.
Speaker 4 (15:14):
Honestly, I'm not kidding. I just text my wife like
pasta tonight. So like, I don't know who A and
B are. I don't know if they're having on plan B.
I don't know what's I don't know what's in someone's A,
in someone's p I don't know what's happening. It just
sounds like someone is like in an open relationship with
someone and then then they're meeting that meeting women. That
woman happened to be friends with another woman.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Yes, I think, how does this happen?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
God, damn, let me go. How is there no monogamy world? Okay,
fast forward to September. Boyfriend tells me girl A is
coming back to town next month.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Sorry for the long background.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
I feel it is needed because this is where the
advice for the story comes in. Very early into girl
A being back in town, my boyfriend asks me if
I could be would be able to hook up the
girls with some SID.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
I don't even know what the flud it is, and
I do drugs. He said.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
They're both experienced with mushrooms, so he would like to
bring the happiness that is SID into their life. Bitch
put me on, So I ask him, will you do
it with them? He said probably not. I preferred if
they experience it for their first time together, but I'd
be willing to be their shepherd since I'm good at
it and I've done it plenty of times. So I said, okay,
I'll contact my plug said okay, this is a drug plug.
(16:30):
He said he'll work on it, but no guarantee I'll
get it before the girl leaves the country. So when
my boyfriend and I get together, we do a little
ketchup what have you been up to since we last
hung out convo. We also talk about our upcoming plans
for the week. He comes over on October twenty fifth. Damn,
this is tea. We do our catch up convo. He's
(16:50):
telling me about how he went out with girl A
and B and he feels bad for not going to
the club with them. He's very sensitive to loud noises
and bright lights. Okay, so your nigga's autested. They tried
to encourage him to try it out. He stood outside
of the club and immediately he's like, no one left,
And I joke, I bet you would have handled it
if you could have had a threesome at the end
of it. So then I asked him, are we going
(17:12):
to hang out for Halloween? He says, I'm not sure.
I may hang out with girl A and B. We
may just hang out another day around Friday. And then
he says, matter of fact, do you think you can
get the CID before the weekend?
Speaker 1 (17:22):
And I said, oh, well, I'm not sure.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
What my plug Well, you know, call me next time,
and I don't know if he'll even have it the
next time I see him. And he said okay, because
I was hoping to get it to them before the
girl leaves. So I said, okay, I'm working on it,
and I don't know because it's based on my plug.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Then I said, by the way, what do I get
out of all of this? Can you look up sid
by the way, see id? Okay, let's see oh acid?
Speaker 4 (17:47):
Oh as acid?
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Bitch? You did all of that?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Why did you you could just say it?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Almost? Sorry? Girl? I know you've been a fan.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
Friend, like a gen Z slang thing.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
He's like, what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (17:58):
And I'm like, well, I'm using my connection to get
you and these two people that I don't even like.
We were drunk during this conversation, so that I negativity
came out. I'm getting them the sit So what am
I getting out of it? And he says my happiness?
And I said, lol, that's cute, and no, really what
am I getting out of it? And he gets it negative,
takes it negatively and he's shocked that I'm saying his
happiness isn't enough for me to do the favor. And
(18:20):
I'm like, well, what about them because I don't know
them and they're getting happy and I don't even know them.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I don't like them. I don't know why you don't like.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Them yet, But he said, I didn't realize it was
transaction actional for you, and I'm like, well, I don't
know why it wouldn't be.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
I don't know them.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
And I also am like, what if you do this
then you end up having a threesome. I say this
jokingly before the fight started. You think you're doing me,
doing you this favor is out of the kindness of
my heart. And the fight kind of spirals a bit
from here. At one point, I say, you're not even
the one that has anything to offer me, especially since
there's no guarantee that he's even going to do it
with them. It's just two bitches offering him something because
(18:57):
I'm doing it for them. Oh so she thinks the
gls are gonna give him some ass. She's getting them drugs.
He said, well, I'm kind of hoping it would be
a surprise for them. So, like I said, I'm not
even asking for much, but fucking give me the money,
like something. How is it We're in a situation where
I'm getting nothing, and he said, well, what do you
want twenty dollars? And I got so mad. It just
(19:18):
adds to my point that he thinks I'm asking for
a lot. Eventually we both take turns going to the
bathroom to wash our faces to cool down, and come
back when the fight is over. Now it's November second,
I still don't have the acid. Girl A leaves the
country in a week. Girl B got sick with COVID.
They all didn't hang out, and he ended up having
the best holiway with me that we've ever had together.
(19:40):
And all he offered me was a favor for the
fight and apology and some homemade sinneroles. She emails eighteen
hours ago.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
This is a week ago.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
Just to update, girl is out of country and we
still got no goods. All the fighting for nothing, bitch,
you wrote All.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Of it was you all asked and.
Speaker 4 (19:57):
What you wrote back. You know, this reminds me of
actually with me my wife. Actually, my wife wanted to
get a new accent share and she wanted from West
Elm and I said we should just get it from Amazon.
It was four hundred dollars more. And then we have
a bit of a fight and anyway, that's what we
thought about recently. What the that's that's where my life
is at. If you want to fuck these horrors and
(20:19):
want me to get the acid, don't think I wanna
do it for free. I have no idea what I'm
doing here.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I'm not live it. Let me see what time she
said that email. That's good man. I literally said, I
don't know what I'm asking for.
Speaker 4 (20:33):
People think little Christian as hell. Man, I'm not even
I'm not even like strange of a guy. Man, I
will say this, So this guy is, he's he does
have a luxury here to even be in this situation.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Oh, I'm not going to hold you.
Speaker 4 (20:46):
He is like, very grateful that this woman's even Like fathomed.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
I was gonna say, I actually understand why she's mad. However,
I can't dictate the dynamic of someone else's relationship, but
I'll save it when I have conversation with my boyfriend.
It isn't like a choice that anyone else is going
to get Like, it's not like, oh.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Are we going to hang out?
Speaker 2 (21:04):
And then he says maybe I'll be with someone else, Like,
so we aren't there, And I'm not shading you at all.
I'm just saying I can't imagine someone telling me who
I would assume as the girlfriend is a priority, Like
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Sure, but can you get this? Can you get this?
Can you do this? Like I A'm doing a favorite
for it?
Speaker 4 (21:19):
That'll beat Yeah, Well you don't want to turn it
to like a personal assistant. Oh so you can ya?
Speaker 5 (21:24):
No?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Yeah, because I bet you if you were fucking somebody
else and you were like, oh, make sure you get
my new boosts and mushrooms and this and this and that,
what the fuck?
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Like I don't like this, I don't need to convenience you.
And you give me some mushrooms and some condoms. I
actually get some magnums. He's huge, And there be a
point like can you just get this yourself? There'd be
a point where you're like, why am I the club?
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (21:45):
I think so. I think there's a point where you
have to be like, hey, this is still a person,
not just a personal system.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
So I would tell you this because you never want
to run into this situation again. Nothing is wrong with
the ab girl, like, especially if it's in wind. You're
a dynamic and they have some little sexual thing going on,
who cares?
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Whatever?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
There should be boundaries drawn anytime you feel weird about something, right,
And I also think it's okay to say I don't
know how this is making me feel. What we got
to talk about it. For example, I think the last
person my boyfriend had sex with it's been a minute.
We've been monogamous for a bit as of lately, just
because I feel like we have too much life shit
(22:21):
going on for us to experience sexuality in the realm
where it's enjoyable, like, for example, just being totally transparent.
When I was in Brazil, my dad goes to the
emergency roo and I'm like, yeah, we can't just be
having reasons while I'm fucking calling the er and doing
all like damn, it kind of ruins it.
Speaker 4 (22:37):
But and he gets it, like and you're hitting certain
life you know, steps through You're just like not that
anything's shameful, but you can't be just feel.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Like like there's certain things that start to you.
Speaker 4 (22:45):
Can't be just like going down a woman like I
just signed a co signed a mortgage with her.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
I can't. Yeah, there's but don't get me wrong, that
would be fun. Right.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
So I say all this to say, one of the
things I discovered in the last person he had sex with.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
I was like, you know what I feel.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
I was like, I kind of don't want you fucking
someone from the past because I think it's this layer
of like, let's just say you fucked the miss a
year ago, and I guess we've been together. It's gona
half year so years before, and maybe you and her
ended because you couldn't give her what she want or
she liked you and something ended, and now you're fucking her.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
You don't need anything rekindled.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
I'm like, don't you kind of feel like that would
cause issues because now you have a girlfriend that's totally
chill with you fucking but like right, so we start
talking about it.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
He's like, what do you want from this conversation?
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Do you want me and you to make suggestions or
do you want me to cut off girls from the past?
And I literally said, I don't know, but I'm telling
you how I feel and something that's come into my
head for you to sit there and like we figure
this out together.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
Because I when guys.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
That I used to fuck hit me up, I do
speak to them, and that's something he brought up.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
He's like, Okay, well you be hitting them back.
Speaker 4 (23:58):
It also depends on what type of relationship we had.
If you're just like it was one night stand. He's
from Europe, but he's in town. Okay, fine, but you
can't be like, yeah, he was the one that got away.
I thought it was something special. But anyway, we're.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Gonna no, it's not anything that series, but it's still
girls that may have had feelings. So and I guess
the thing that we had to discuss was like, all right,
but how do they feel about you?
Speaker 1 (24:16):
Right?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Like what about these women? And what if they have
a lot of weight for their feelings with you? Maybe
they didn't mean anything to you, but you did do
that like whatever. So I'm bringing that up to you, listener,
because I approached the way something made me feel or
thought that I thought was you know, kind of bothering me,
and it didn't have a solution and I didn't have
(24:37):
an ask. I just needed to put it out there, right,
So I think it's okay in relationships where you have
open dynamics to be like, something's making me feel a
little icky and I don't know why. If we don't
communicate to that level, then you don't have successful open
relationships because you're not gonna not get jealous, You're not
gonna not act funny like that is the truth. What
I don't like about people in non monogamous relationships is
(24:59):
the idea that they, oh, like we're good. I don't
experience this, Like if you're a monogamous you do, but
I don't get y'all. It's like, yes, the fuck you do,
Like that's just the reality. So I think you absolutely
bring this up when you guys are not drunk and
you're like, you know what, you kind of made me
feel like I was the drug dealer plug and I
don't really want to be the liaison between you and
other women, Like think of it as I'm hooking up
(25:20):
a restaurant reservation for you and some other bitch, like
oh yeah, yeah, your happiness should not come with me
needing to help you to get women, Like I'm I
want you to be happy because when you when you fuck,
to me that your happiness and us being in a
dynamic isn't not right. Like the pleasure that I receive
(25:40):
in my relationship is like, let's just say I'm with
another person and it's like, oh yeah, she got to explore,
so that's fun. That's your happiness. That to me, is it?
That's the compersion. I've been saying that word for years.
We all have learned it. It's in the Nohl's Bard
compersion is the act of enjoying someone else's pleasure.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Bitch. I'm going to be the assistant en plug, so
it's not a butt plug. Yeah. Interesting? Any final thoughts?
Married guy?
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Um, yeah, I call my wife, Hey, what are you doing? No,
I will say that for this guy. I don't know
who this guy is, but you gotta feel like the
fact that you're even allowed to do this stuff, you
must feel real lucky. Just don't abuse your power. Don't
abuse that sort of comfort level.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
And also because I'm happy is very manipulative.
Speaker 4 (26:22):
Yeah, it's like, oh, I guess you find enjoyment not
making me happy, And like, no, I think this makes
me feel ncomfortable and I'm allowed to say that. I
think you're right. Communication is key for everything. If you're hiding,
you're hiding. You're dying. Bro.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
If every time I saw you, I asked you for something, Eddie, Oh.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
Can you tell me about this? And you get Eddie'm
running late, Eddie, can we do another time? Okay?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
So every single Wednesday we have you Got Decisions. They
are a little more relaxed in Our Decision's Decision episode
where you always get the both of us, but these
maybe solo might be with a friend another co host.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Did I do okay?
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Did I ruin it?
Speaker 4 (26:57):
Did I do okay? No?
Speaker 1 (26:59):
I think you do good because you gave us a
little section.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Yeah, ye put it out there. Why make a past
I get to go okay?
Speaker 2 (27:07):
Pature dot com backslash Horrible Decisions and then once you're
on there to hear old Horrible Decisions episode that you
probably missed going over to for facts sake Hatrereon dot
com f f S podcast. If you don't got an
extra six dollars Me and Eddie, you can actually subscribe
to it and get ten minutes of preview.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
That's a little tip, not the tip that you would
put in or the butt. Bye bye
Let's talk about this bitch Smerwalker.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Let's get into it, guys, especially because a lot of
y'all were tagging. I got a tweet that was like, ooh,
I can't wait to hear you talk about the Summer
Walker saga on horrible decisions suck.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Let's get into it. Let's get into the tee. What
could we even say? Well, well, well.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Up, Like what happened is that there were there was
a leaked voice note from Summer Walker to rapper Rich
the Kid that was leaked allegedly by his baby mom
slash fiance Tory Bricks. Now, I was just hoping my
(00:46):
good sister didn't respond or said bitch, that's Ai. All
you had to do was say that ain't me, it's Ai.
In the voice note, you hear summer Walker pretty much
say hey, just buy me a new phone, save me
under pizza hut. I know you're not gonna leave your
(01:09):
baby mama, but I want us to.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Fuck with each other forever.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
I think when you heard that, because that's the line,
that's all we need to know, right, Okay, So I
didn't see Summer's response.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
First, Well, I want to.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I wanted to say the voice and then I was
gonna play no, no, no, I was want to say the
voice note I didn't say her. I didn't see anything.
My first reaction was, Oh, she's being funny.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Did you think that?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
No. I've seen people say, oh, when you got a
side chick, you saved them under Pizza Hut.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So I was like, oh, she's trying to be funny.
First off, let's be very clear. It is twenty twenty five.
Nobody saves Pizza Hut's number, bitch, and.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I know, oh, we all know that we like a
slice from a real pizza rha and donody thought like that. Okay,
So you think she was serious because she was like, listen,
I'm tipsy right now, y'all gonna stop tucking each other.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
I don't even want go be with her.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I'm glad y'all together, give me a phone and take
me on a pizza head. I was like, Oh, she
being funny because you're like, I could tell you talking
to your trick and you just like nigga, keep breaking
me off. No, So I thought she was playing it
first until I listen. I listened to her six minute video. Well,
I don't have six minutes, but I have about a
minute and a half. But this is where she explicitly says,
(02:35):
I just want to be the side piece.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
This is what Summer Walker had two snaps.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I just want to be the side That's what I
will see him like.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I just want to be decided.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I just want you to kill I don't like him
enough to lay up next to him every day.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I don't even know how you do it.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
I'm not gonna start talking about him, you know, I'm
not gonna start talking about him, but you know the
things about him, girl, I don't know how you do it.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I was just trying to play in all little position.
He clearly wants to think. You know, he's obsessive.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
You can like say that you're gonna leave him alone,
and he will just call you back back to back,
get to call your friends, get to call your manager,
get to call your assistant, and get to sit and
stuff that and money.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
So why would you just.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Do you know on thing, you just give in, you like,
you don't let that, let that take me somewhere. And
you know what, I'm actually really glad you did this
because I was this close.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I said, Damn, I really want.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
To push and I really want a kind of Miami
but I really kept thinking about it, like, no, I
don't know because you you act nuts.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
And this is what I needed to see.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Yeah, huh So okay, okay, I want to hear your
thoughts and then I'm gonna get into the psychology of
all this with you.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So there's a few things that I actually thought were embarrassing.
So you're well, Okay, Remember Walker is actually too big
to have made this news, so too big in comparison
to them. Okay, Tory Bricks with all due respect and
riched a kid, I don't think they're on my radar
(04:14):
at all.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Maybe I would have swiped by.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
That on Hollywood Unlocked or Shade Room. Summer Walker, to me,
really is that girl? Like that's an R and B
rotation if it's R and B night. I just went
last night, like I just said, and I was like,
Summer was on it, Like, bitch, I'm gonna name I
can name summer songs. You can't name me mial songs.
I can name summer songs. What are we talking about here?
(04:37):
Like I'm about to.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Respond to that.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
And this is why the Internet sometimes is a curse,
because now you look like a Dodo, Like you really
couldn't let that whole just be like you and my
DM da da da, and I wouldn't. Because Summer talked
about it, it made it big. Rich the Kid, in
my opinion, leaked this because he actually has a little song.
Oh you think rich You think Rich linked it not Torri, Yes,
because rich just also put out a song. He goes, oh, well,
(05:02):
since y'all hear, and he put out a song, and
the song was kind of good, Rice.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
And Killer and someone else.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
But he had a little beat. Okay, Richard Kid only
got plugged walk talked to me, So I really think
he was like, what's the biggest play I could do here?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
And I think Summer did just release her album last week.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
And it's like, you shit on her because she got
all her cool shit going on. You can post your
shit up, make your name relevant again. I'm telling you.
I really think he was calculated and for Summer to
reply when all we're thinking about right now is her cute,
funny wedding dress. Shit, you're a dodo. The other thing
that really blew my mind was like, bitch, you've been
acting anxious for years and you got up there and
(05:44):
told us was fifth ninnies. You was able to do
all that, but she did say one really funny thing,
like the bitch was kind of funny even though she
looked stupid, she.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Was kind of funny.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
She was like, yeah, I mean, if he's gonna buy
me shit, like, I can't imagine what you do because I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Rich, so I can I see why you can't leave.
I was like, oh, oh that's fucked up.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Now, Okay, the summer is fucking lit. I've paid over
one hundred dollars the summer walker. I never think that
Richard the kid wouldn't even be on a group on
so and I would pay for her again. And she
barely did anything, but she sounded good. So okay, this
girl really got bread. And she like fucking with this
nigga because whatever, maybe if she wants to say, in
her words, not mine, bird brain, bird shit, you want
(06:27):
to trick on this nigga?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Cool, have him tricked on you cool?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
But replying was so stupid. You do not reply to
people when they're begging for you too. You telling me
I'm up here, I'm that nah, that's begging for you
to answer. You're trying to make me look bad. So okay,
I love if.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
We disagree here.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
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(07:15):
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Speaker 1 (07:30):
I am not here with Mandy because I'm in LA.
We're taking a little bit of our winter break.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I'm actually in Los Angeles, my other co host for
my show For Facts Sakes podcast. So if you're a
member of Horrible Decisions on Patreon, go ahead and add
For Fact's Sake to your list. Me and Eddie have
had our show for about five years now, and it's
all about random facts.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
We've only had one guest, actually it was Charlot Magne.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
But last week's episode was about cancel culture and we
just named a bunch of kids. What was it one
of the week before that talk about I don't know, oh, lawsuits,
lawsuits a.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Lot of people.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
You yeah, sorry because the podcast is leading over.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Yeah, but hey, I'm back on back on the Patreon
for Horrible Decisions finally.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
How many years ago in your a Horrible Decision before
the pandemic.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
For the pandemic. I remember the first time I was
on Horrible Decisions, I was just like, uh, just like,
look at my Instagram, just blowing up. Just black woman,
black women black Okay, all right, okay, hello bro, these
names are fun.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Hey.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Sorry, sorry, I know.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Sound like, hey, I'm me.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
But you're gonna want to see what he looks like anyway,
So just kind on over to perfect for fact, Like
all right. So it's crazy because like people ask Mandy
and I such specific sex questions and I was like, damn, like,
how are Eddie and I going to do this?
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Because that's fine, Hey, I had sex, you know me.
I have had sex. I've been in people, people have
been in me.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Really Now.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Eddie's married now, so I'm just like the married guy.
But to me, like married people sometimes give the best
dating advice, but you know, we it's pretty horrible advices.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Yeah, yeah, you're out there sucking and fucking have a
good time.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
That's that's what I done. Now the subject is plug
or not? And so I don't know. I don't know
if you means.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Butt plug butt plug? Who's a butt plug? Is that
a guy Eddie?
Speaker 1 (09:35):
We are trying to sell our patrion here?
Speaker 4 (09:36):
Do you think there's a guy with a who's a
butt plug? Plug?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
That's what I was like, is it a plug? Or
is it a plug?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
But that guy who can get you butt plugs? That's
something because I got a drug plug, But do you
have a butt plug plug? He just has a briefcase
full of butt plugs? Like, wow, aren't there any sex
choice slingers? Yeah, there should be a sex choice slinger because,
like I said, cheat, I guess yeah, all right? Also, what
you would want to from a story and want some
guy with a bag full of sex toys?
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah? No, but unless it was like because like certain vibrators,
like the womanizers like two upwards of two hundred dollars
or the we vibe the remotion.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
What's your vibrator? I don't use any, you don't use any?
Speaker 1 (10:13):
I need my hand you what you because I started
to desensitize my coach.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
I see, I was going really hard. It's like a
chef's thumb that things. I think doesn't feel anything anymore.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
How would you have a secon like you're just like
I can fuck myself.
Speaker 4 (10:33):
Yeah, And you're a vibrator because I guess, I guess
when you use a vibration so much, you must get
so you can it ruin a sex life where you're
like I getsitized.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
And I don't think this is a knock against vibrators
because if we have an ad that comes up, there's
a vibrator.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I wants you to buy it.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
What I'm saying like you start to overuse it. Yeah,
I think once you get to that point where you
need that strong of a fucking.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
I used to have an ex girlfriend back in the day.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I've never said the storybo oh my god, tell us
your sex stuff.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
And uh she was like very like uh high sex drive,
very almost like a little bit like like okay, relax,
you know, just like very very intesting. Let's do it
now right now, okay, almost like a coach like come
on twenty now, like all right, let's go right now.
She's like I go, do you ever use a second
you ever use a vibrator? She's like, I have one,
(11:20):
Like we should use it?
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Held right now, dude, I hope, dude, I'm telling you.
When she brought this out, I was like, oh, are
we like mixing cement? It had a plug? Damn not
even a battery, not double a not a plug like
(11:45):
this needs a plug plug or not blood sod And
it's like I couldn't. I was like, And when she pulled,
I was like, oh no, I'm good, Like that's okay,
like I would get bringing a fucking Star Wars tool.
It was like this, what was she?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
What would she want to?
Speaker 4 (11:58):
It was bizarre. I was like, that's not we are
we working our backs?
Speaker 1 (12:04):
It's like my it was like a white it was
a it was it from Brooks Thrown.
Speaker 4 (12:08):
I don't know what it was. I was like, I'm
good And ever since that I've never asked. It was
a great never because you wanted because when you ask,
you want to be.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Like tiny it's the tickler, not like not like you know,
did any of your male friends. So Eddie's a comedian.
If you guys haven't heard him, or you're new to decisions, decisions.
You haven't heard his name, So I'm wondering, like, do
comics ever talk about sex because I know some of
my like, oh like sex details like do male?
Speaker 4 (12:32):
No? No, me and my friends? Are you get no details?
Women get details like how big was it?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (12:37):
You know?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
What did smell it?
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Guys were like you get it in? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Cool, you get it in.
Speaker 4 (12:41):
It's like, oh yeah, we hooked up.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Get it in?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Like yeah, yeah, it was like that.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Why do I keep getting confused with Then I'm like,
did you.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Get it in?
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Like the get the dick in?
Speaker 4 (12:48):
Just like yeah, no, we hooked up. That's it, Like okay, cool,
I don't know if the don't whip it out first
all it's a little suss about friends, like tell me everything,
every smell, every tastey.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Feel and how did she feel? And how did did
you like right away? Or really wait was it all
over her chest? I don't ask any questions. No, no, no, guys, do.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
No I need a vote?
Speaker 4 (13:11):
No, I'd tell you. I'm not saying it. I'm not
saying anything. It's homerotic. But if I want to be
like buddy, take me there.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Like oh yeah, she was sucking my day.
Speaker 4 (13:20):
No, I don't. We don't talk like me and my
friends will talk like that. Is that I think it's
I think women like details. Guys don't just need to
know what happened.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Guys be talking about how nasty someone is.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
Maybe maybe it's just me, but my friends never like.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
All right, nobody the plug story? Or you didn't tell
anybody the story with that girl shit on you.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
No, I've never talked. I've only known women these stories
because women don't judge me.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
I don't even know how they can find that.
Speaker 4 (13:43):
No, we don't talk about my friends at all. Now
that we're married, we don't even talk about our wives
at all. It's like, what's her name again? Oh I
am but I can't wait to get there. Butthole anyway?
Plug or not?
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Not the plug?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
No worse anyway. That's the last time I asked a
moment about a sex story.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Okay, here we go. So, hey, guys, it's been a while.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
This shit is so long, So let me know if
I should send a voicemail to Mandy on the hotline
or sent a voicemail is like, yes, okay, So not
sure what I'm looking for? Validation, advice, just sending the
story into the ether. In May, my boyfriend met this
girl on Hinge Girl A. My partner is a guy
that falls head over heels for people quickly. He was
(14:35):
beginning to get deep feelings for her, like she could
be another girlfriend, but she lives on another continent. When
she left town, he was a bit depressed, but moved on.
Come June, he matches with another girl on Hinge Girl B.
She messages him, Oh my gosh, are you the guy
girl A was hanging out with last month.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
I'm the best friend she made during that trip.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
He and girl A and B have become good friends
and they connect and talk often. Girl B is local,
so he hangs out with her every so often. I
want you guys to know Eddie, who is a monogamous
married me and is looking like.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
What the fuck.
Speaker 4 (15:14):
Honestly, I'm not kidding. I just text my wife like
pasta tonight. So like, I don't know who A and
B are. I don't know if they're having on plan B.
I don't know what's I don't know what's in someone's A,
in someone's p I don't know what's happening. It just
sounds like someone is like in an open relationship with
someone and then then they're meeting that meeting women. That
woman happened to be friends with another woman.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Yes, I think, how does this happen?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
God, damn, let me go. How is there no monogamy world? Okay,
fast forward to September. Boyfriend tells me girl A is
coming back to town next month.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Sorry for the long background.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
I feel it is needed because this is where the
advice for the story comes in. Very early into girl
A being back in town, my boyfriend asks me if
I could be would be able to hook up the
girls with some SID.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
I don't even know what the flud it is, and
I do drugs. He said.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
They're both experienced with mushrooms, so he would like to
bring the happiness that is SID into their life. Bitch
put me on, So I ask him, will you do
it with them? He said probably not. I preferred if
they experience it for their first time together, but I'd
be willing to be their shepherd since I'm good at
it and I've done it plenty of times. So I said, okay,
I'll contact my plug said okay, this is a drug plug.
(16:30):
He said he'll work on it, but no guarantee I'll
get it before the girl leaves the country. So when
my boyfriend and I get together, we do a little
ketchup what have you been up to since we last
hung out convo. We also talk about our upcoming plans
for the week. He comes over on October twenty fifth. Damn,
this is tea. We do our catch up convo. He's
(16:50):
telling me about how he went out with girl A
and B and he feels bad for not going to
the club with them. He's very sensitive to loud noises
and bright lights. Okay, so your nigga's autested. They tried
to encourage him to try it out. He stood outside
of the club and immediately he's like, no one left,
And I joke, I bet you would have handled it
if you could have had a threesome at the end
of it. So then I asked him, are we going
(17:12):
to hang out for Halloween? He says, I'm not sure.
I may hang out with girl A and B. We
may just hang out another day around Friday. And then
he says, matter of fact, do you think you can
get the CID before the weekend?
Speaker 1 (17:22):
And I said, oh, well, I'm not sure.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
What my plug Well, you know, call me next time,
and I don't know if he'll even have it the
next time I see him. And he said okay, because
I was hoping to get it to them before the
girl leaves. So I said, okay, I'm working on it,
and I don't know because it's based on my plug.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Then I said, by the way, what do I get
out of all of this? Can you look up sid
by the way, see id? Okay, let's see oh acid?
Speaker 4 (17:47):
Oh as acid?
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Bitch? You did all of that?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Why did you you could just say it?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Almost? Sorry? Girl? I know you've been a fan.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
Friend, like a gen Z slang thing.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
He's like, what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (17:58):
And I'm like, well, I'm using my connection to get
you and these two people that I don't even like.
We were drunk during this conversation, so that I negativity
came out. I'm getting them the sit So what am
I getting out of it? And he says my happiness?
And I said, lol, that's cute, and no, really what
am I getting out of it? And he gets it negative,
takes it negatively and he's shocked that I'm saying his
happiness isn't enough for me to do the favor. And
(18:20):
I'm like, well, what about them because I don't know
them and they're getting happy and I don't even know them.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I don't like them. I don't know why you don't like.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Them yet, But he said, I didn't realize it was
transaction actional for you, and I'm like, well, I don't
know why it wouldn't be.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
I don't know them.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
And I also am like, what if you do this
then you end up having a threesome. I say this
jokingly before the fight started. You think you're doing me,
doing you this favor is out of the kindness of
my heart. And the fight kind of spirals a bit
from here. At one point, I say, you're not even
the one that has anything to offer me, especially since
there's no guarantee that he's even going to do it
with them. It's just two bitches offering him something because
(18:57):
I'm doing it for them. Oh so she thinks the
gls are gonna give him some ass. She's getting them drugs.
He said, well, I'm kind of hoping it would be
a surprise for them. So, like I said, I'm not
even asking for much, but fucking give me the money,
like something. How is it We're in a situation where
I'm getting nothing, and he said, well, what do you
want twenty dollars? And I got so mad. It just
(19:18):
adds to my point that he thinks I'm asking for
a lot. Eventually we both take turns going to the
bathroom to wash our faces to cool down, and come
back when the fight is over. Now it's November second,
I still don't have the acid. Girl A leaves the
country in a week. Girl B got sick with COVID.
They all didn't hang out, and he ended up having
the best holiway with me that we've ever had together.
(19:40):
And all he offered me was a favor for the
fight and apology and some homemade sinneroles. She emails eighteen
hours ago.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
This is a week ago.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
Just to update, girl is out of country and we
still got no goods. All the fighting for nothing, bitch,
you wrote All.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Of it was you all asked and.
Speaker 4 (19:57):
What you wrote back. You know, this reminds me of
actually with me my wife. Actually, my wife wanted to
get a new accent share and she wanted from West
Elm and I said we should just get it from Amazon.
It was four hundred dollars more. And then we have
a bit of a fight and anyway, that's what we
thought about recently. What the that's that's where my life
is at. If you want to fuck these horrors and
(20:19):
want me to get the acid, don't think I wanna
do it for free. I have no idea what I'm
doing here.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I'm not live it. Let me see what time she
said that email. That's good man. I literally said, I
don't know what I'm asking for.
Speaker 4 (20:33):
People think little Christian as hell. Man, I'm not even
I'm not even like strange of a guy. Man, I
will say this, So this guy is, he's he does
have a luxury here to even be in this situation.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Oh, I'm not going to hold you.
Speaker 4 (20:46):
He is like, very grateful that this woman's even Like fathomed.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
I was gonna say, I actually understand why she's mad. However,
I can't dictate the dynamic of someone else's relationship, but
I'll save it when I have conversation with my boyfriend.
It isn't like a choice that anyone else is going
to get Like, it's not like, oh.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Are we going to hang out?
Speaker 2 (21:04):
And then he says maybe I'll be with someone else, Like,
so we aren't there, And I'm not shading you at all.
I'm just saying I can't imagine someone telling me who
I would assume as the girlfriend is a priority, Like
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Sure, but can you get this? Can you get this?
Can you do this? Like I A'm doing a favorite
for it?
Speaker 4 (21:19):
That'll beat Yeah, Well you don't want to turn it
to like a personal assistant. Oh so you can ya?
Speaker 5 (21:24):
No?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Yeah, because I bet you if you were fucking somebody
else and you were like, oh, make sure you get
my new boosts and mushrooms and this and this and that,
what the fuck?
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Like I don't like this, I don't need to convenience you.
And you give me some mushrooms and some condoms. I
actually get some magnums. He's huge, And there be a
point like can you just get this yourself? There'd be
a point where you're like, why am I the club?
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (21:45):
I think so. I think there's a point where you
have to be like, hey, this is still a person,
not just a personal system.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
So I would tell you this because you never want
to run into this situation again. Nothing is wrong with
the ab girl, like, especially if it's in wind. You're
a dynamic and they have some little sexual thing going on,
who cares?
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Whatever?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
There should be boundaries drawn anytime you feel weird about something, right,
And I also think it's okay to say I don't
know how this is making me feel. What we got
to talk about it. For example, I think the last
person my boyfriend had sex with it's been a minute.
We've been monogamous for a bit as of lately, just
because I feel like we have too much life shit
(22:21):
going on for us to experience sexuality in the realm
where it's enjoyable, like, for example, just being totally transparent.
When I was in Brazil, my dad goes to the
emergency roo and I'm like, yeah, we can't just be
having reasons while I'm fucking calling the er and doing
all like damn, it kind of ruins it.
Speaker 4 (22:37):
But and he gets it, like and you're hitting certain
life you know, steps through You're just like not that
anything's shameful, but you can't be just feel.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Like like there's certain things that start to you.
Speaker 4 (22:45):
Can't be just like going down a woman like I
just signed a co signed a mortgage with her.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
I can't. Yeah, there's but don't get me wrong, that
would be fun. Right.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
So I say all this to say, one of the
things I discovered in the last person he had sex with.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
I was like, you know what I feel.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
I was like, I kind of don't want you fucking
someone from the past because I think it's this layer
of like, let's just say you fucked the miss a
year ago, and I guess we've been together. It's gona
half year so years before, and maybe you and her
ended because you couldn't give her what she want or
she liked you and something ended, and now you're fucking her.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
You don't need anything rekindled.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
I'm like, don't you kind of feel like that would
cause issues because now you have a girlfriend that's totally
chill with you fucking but like right, so we start
talking about it.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
He's like, what do you want from this conversation?
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Do you want me and you to make suggestions or
do you want me to cut off girls from the past?
And I literally said, I don't know, but I'm telling
you how I feel and something that's come into my
head for you to sit there and like we figure
this out together.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
Because I when guys.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
That I used to fuck hit me up, I do
speak to them, and that's something he brought up.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
He's like, Okay, well you be hitting them back.
Speaker 4 (23:58):
It also depends on what type of relationship we had.
If you're just like it was one night stand. He's
from Europe, but he's in town. Okay, fine, but you
can't be like, yeah, he was the one that got away.
I thought it was something special. But anyway, we're.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Gonna no, it's not anything that series, but it's still
girls that may have had feelings. So and I guess
the thing that we had to discuss was like, all right,
but how do they feel about you?
Speaker 1 (24:16):
Right?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Like what about these women? And what if they have
a lot of weight for their feelings with you? Maybe
they didn't mean anything to you, but you did do
that like whatever. So I'm bringing that up to you, listener,
because I approached the way something made me feel or
thought that I thought was you know, kind of bothering me,
and it didn't have a solution and I didn't have
(24:37):
an ask. I just needed to put it out there, right,
So I think it's okay in relationships where you have
open dynamics to be like, something's making me feel a
little icky and I don't know why. If we don't
communicate to that level, then you don't have successful open
relationships because you're not gonna not get jealous, You're not
gonna not act funny like that is the truth. What
I don't like about people in non monogamous relationships is
(24:59):
the idea that they, oh, like we're good. I don't
experience this, Like if you're a monogamous you do, but
I don't get y'all. It's like, yes, the fuck you do,
Like that's just the reality. So I think you absolutely
bring this up when you guys are not drunk and
you're like, you know what, you kind of made me
feel like I was the drug dealer plug and I
don't really want to be the liaison between you and
other women, Like think of it as I'm hooking up
(25:20):
a restaurant reservation for you and some other bitch, like
oh yeah, yeah, your happiness should not come with me
needing to help you to get women, Like I'm I
want you to be happy because when you when you fuck,
to me that your happiness and us being in a
dynamic isn't not right. Like the pleasure that I receive
(25:40):
in my relationship is like, let's just say I'm with
another person and it's like, oh yeah, she got to explore,
so that's fun. That's your happiness. That to me, is it?
That's the compersion. I've been saying that word for years.
We all have learned it. It's in the Nohl's Bard
compersion is the act of enjoying someone else's pleasure.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Bitch. I'm going to be the assistant en plug, so
it's not a butt plug. Yeah. Interesting? Any final thoughts?
Married guy?
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Um, yeah, I call my wife, Hey, what are you doing? No,
I will say that for this guy. I don't know
who this guy is, but you gotta feel like the
fact that you're even allowed to do this stuff, you
must feel real lucky. Just don't abuse your power. Don't
abuse that sort of comfort level.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
And also because I'm happy is very manipulative.
Speaker 4 (26:22):
Yeah, it's like, oh, I guess you find enjoyment not
making me happy, And like, no, I think this makes
me feel ncomfortable and I'm allowed to say that. I
think you're right. Communication is key for everything. If you're hiding,
you're hiding. You're dying. Bro.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
If every time I saw you, I asked you for something, Eddie, Oh.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
Can you tell me about this? And you get Eddie'm
running late, Eddie, can we do another time? Okay?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
So every single Wednesday we have you Got Decisions. They
are a little more relaxed in Our Decision's Decision episode
where you always get the both of us, but these
maybe solo might be with a friend another co host.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Did I do okay?
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Did I ruin it?
Speaker 4 (26:57):
Did I do okay? No?
Speaker 1 (26:59):
I think you do good because you gave us a
little section.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Yeah, ye put it out there. Why make a past
I get to go okay?
Speaker 2 (27:07):
Pature dot com backslash Horrible Decisions and then once you're
on there to hear old Horrible Decisions episode that you
probably missed going over to for facts sake Hatrereon dot
com f f S podcast. If you don't got an
extra six dollars Me and Eddie, you can actually subscribe
to it and get ten minutes of preview.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
That's a little tip, not the tip that you would
put in or the butt. Bye bye
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