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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Well for the order, I'm actually gonna do this really quickly.
This was one of my demonic moves that I did.
Oh you're through the mattress, that's right, Oh my god.
But no, I was able to make this nigga come
like three different times without penetration. But the one I'm
gonna share is with because this is like my first
time doing a part of like edging with a verbal technique.
(00:26):
But it was so great. So basically he was fucking
me from the back and it was great and we
just had a rhythm, we had emotion. So he's fucking
me from the back, and immediately, like I, I can
feel when it gets harder on my pussy ladies, you
kind of feeling, you kind of know when like they're
(00:48):
getting there. And so he's fucking me. He's fucking me.
He's fucking me. He's fucking me. And right when I
feel like maybe he's because he's making I hear his breathing,
I'm like, okay, okay. I Immediately as I know he's
about to come, I screwed out. I scoot out, and
you could hear a big old sigh out of his mouth.
(01:08):
So I scooed out. I pulled the condom off, and
you could he seemed pissed because he was like, I
was about to come. And so what I did in
that moment was I start stroking his dick and rubbing
the back of his head with my nails, and so
as I'm doing that, I just start kissing him and
I'm like, oh, no, you're gonna come for me, You're
gonna come. And I literally, in the moment start talking
(01:31):
through keeping his dick hard, and I'm rubbing the back
of his head and I'm like, kiss me right now.
And I'm literally like breathing into his mouth doing like
this thing while I'm stroking him at the same time.
And bruh, he screamed when he came, like on some
what the fuck was that? And also, how the fuck
(01:51):
did you know I was about to come?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Just the waiannigg bruh yea quart is it?
Speaker 1 (01:56):
So I'm literally and he was just like, or what
the fuck that? What the fuck was that? But also
the thing was, how did you know I was about
to cut? Like basically, how did I know? Throb? But yeah,
so it was really really really really great, and it
was like, but now here's here's the crazy part. I
(02:17):
feel like I got to see if I could do
it with two more niggas before I really know what
I'm doing, because it could have just been we was
in the moment, we was feeling it, you know what
I mean, Like it could have just been that, like
we were in sync, we were in motion, we were
in rhythm. But I made him come. I was talking
them through it. I was breathing. I felt like, oh, bitch,
(02:39):
you're putting it on them. You put it down now.
That's what I felt like. So anyways, my and my
order is to maybe practice edging in this way. So ladies,
if you have someone that you feel like you were
super connected with in the bedroom, by by my order
(03:00):
for this would be to write when you feel he's
going to come and bust slide out, like get from
underneath him or get from in front of him and
immediately turn around, stroke his back and just talk him
through it. Talk him through it. Jack the thing all spit, dude, girl.
(03:20):
I was grazing, grazing the balls with my nails. I
was doing it all and I was like, I was
breathing in his mouth and was like, no, you're gonna
come for me. So I got you. I know it
was coming, like, I'll be really nasty. So yeah, that's
uh my hoar dirve is to edge and stroke until
he comes.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Well, boy, don't we know what the clip's gonna be?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
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(04:03):
And now here's You've Got Decisions if.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
You would like to have us answer your questions.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
a terrible thriftfle guess what.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
You've got Decisions, You've got Decisions.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Welcome back, y'all. We have another episode for you today.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
All about your issues, your problems, and us judging because
that's our favorite thing.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Oh we're definitely going to be judging for sure. If
you want us to give you our thoughts, opinions and
judgments on your life, then go ahead and email us
at Decisions pod at gmail dot com and we will
read you for filth when we get to your goddamn email.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
It's on because y'all listen to this show and you
judge us every week. Weasy fucking another bitun it's always saying,
oh my god, I god spinach in ite teeth.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
See it's something to judge.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Oh you know what's crazy. I have a few things
in my life that I'm taking the therapy now because
I actually refuse to be judged by you bitches. I'll
let y'all keep judging me interrupting people, but I'm not
gonna let you bitches judge my life. And if you
are on Patreon, I guess that's where you can judge
me because I talked about no longer really judging people
(05:22):
or the men they choose the fuck because I choose
to fuck a guy with tte and autism. So there's that. Nonetheless,
before we get into judging you on your bullshit, we
did actually weezy or receive a really good email. Finally,
I wanted to start with the title is two bold
women helped Me find my freedom? Oh my god, I'm
(05:44):
here listen. I saw this email and I was like,
you know what, I need to give this some public reading,
because I think people forget that we really be out
here doing the Lord's work.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Okay, this news work, but okay, sister.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
I mean Allas were the Lord's work, Jesus Christ's work,
you know, the Universe's work. Whatever, whatever you believe in,
that's the work we do in bitch. Okay, Okay, Dear
Mandy and wheezy, Hey, ladies, I just wanted to finally
write the fan letter I've been composing in my head
for years. I'm a Miami girl, born and raised Haitian American.
(06:20):
So when y'all start talking Miami nonsense or cracking those
jokes only Floridians really understand, I feel seen. And I
went to school in Orlando Fall seven. What's up, chopacity.
But I'm thirty eight now, a wife and a mom
of two beautiful daughters, and I've been married for eight
amazing years. My husband and I are both tax attorneys,
(06:42):
and I have to thank him for putting me onto
your show. Growing up, I had experiences that made me
feel uncomfortable, ashamed, and way too exposed to things before
I was ready. That early confusion and hurt stayed with
me for a long time, and then came the Internet.
Shout out to my my younger self accidentally finding porn
while trying to look up low Wayne in the Hot
(07:03):
Boys uh y'all search Hotboys with a z dot com.
By my teens, I was making choices I didn't fully understand,
trying to feel connected or grown, even when it didn't
leave me feeling good about myself. Then a pregnancy scare
in college had me slamming the brakes hard. I basically
went into a PG rated lockdown until marriage. Okay, when
(07:26):
I met my husband, we actually didn't even kiss for months,
which is wild because girl, the chemistry was chemistry, chemistry fying,
and when we finally fucked, it was delicious. But even
then I didn't fully understand my own body, my own pleasure,
or how much shame I was still caring. And that's
where you two come in. Listening to you taught me
(07:46):
that there was nothing wrong with me. I just hadn't
learned how to relax, explore, and feel safe with myself.
Your conversations helped me unlearned shame I didn't even know
I was still holding on to. They made me comfortable
to my own identity, my desires, and my womanhood. And
thanks to that, I experienced my first true orgasm with
my husband. Wow right, your podcast has brightened some very
(08:09):
hard days. On mornings I didn't want to get out
of bed, the thought of putting on another episode made
it easier. The laughter, the honesty, the rawness was something
I loved and needed. People who judge you they're just
mad they can't be as free that used to be me.
I'd listen and clutch my pearls, like did they just
say that? But the more I listened, the more I
(08:29):
realized I was the one who needed to loosen up.
You help me see myself more clearly and accept myself
more fully. I love both of your perspectives, even when
I'm not into everything you talk about. I love learning, laughing,
and growing through your conversations. So thank you for being loud, bold, funny, smart, sexual, unfiltered, compassionate, chaotic,
(08:51):
and brilliant all the things at once. Thank you for
making people feel less alone, and thank you for helping
women like me again. Yes, oh my period just started.
Ah emotional. I really like reading stuff like that. Oh
my god, bitch, you're wiping your face too. Are you crying?
Speaker 3 (09:14):
No? I think, okay, not crying, but I think I
feel away because you know, if you've been listening to
the show a long time, like or if you've read
No Holds Barred and you read the done Done, very sad,
Oh my god, I'm gonna die chapter, it really was
disheartening to hear how many people had given me feedback
(09:35):
about like I just kind of sometimes complain about nothing.
Depression is a mental illness. And like I had a
podcast too that I had to come to and listen
to and it felt fun and I realized sometimes how
even though I feel like I'm just sharing my life
and it's whatever, or you're just sharing some funny sex story, like,
it's really relief. And I appreciate hearing stuff like that
(09:57):
because where is no it's not hitting me because I
feel appreciated. I mean, of course I do. It's more
so hitting me because I'm like, oh, I've been you too.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Yeah. I think for me, these are normally things we
get to take so much in, especially when we tour,
and I think there was so much around the book
this year and we did we still to me, only
did like eight book stores maybe nine, and it was
intimate and it was sometimes less than what our meet
(10:29):
and greet is in our live shows, and so for me,
you know, even taking that break the year before, I
feel like we haven't really been on the road a lot,
and I feel like I haven't got to take in
what horrible decisions and now the rebrand and just what
the overall universe has meant for people, and now even
the book with people responding to what they read in
(10:51):
the book. I just I didn't think I would get
emotion like that. But I am also bleeding profusely, and so,
you know, hormones. Bitch.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
I had this conversation.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
I'm just thinking about it of like how this is
like a piece of selfishness reading that. Y'all know I
always talk about Brionda, my Jesus friend, my Bible girlfriend. Right,
And so I fed the house duh on Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1 (11:20):
That's so crazy. I'm doing a pantry volunteering tomorrow, oh,
organizing food in the.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Food I don't know why I don't do this more often,
But this one is three blocks from my apartment. And
I was leaving the gym and I was like, do
y'all need help tomorrow? And he's like, yeah, damn, I
wish I didn't say three blocks from my apartment because
I really want to share where it is. But long
story short, I go to this spot and all I
saw was Christmas brunch is the next day, and or
(11:47):
Thanksgiving brunch whatever. Normally it's just a soup kitchen, so
I'm thinking it's going to be way more food than
it was.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
It was just eggs and Deli ham.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
And when I left, I said to Brionda, like, I
feel so good. I like feel so bad that I
feel good, And she was like, oh no, this is
if I like one of God's disciples to like go
and do this stuff.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I don't care.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Let this be if I'm gonna feel good from doing anything,
it can be this if I were selfish from.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
This, like feel good about it.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
Feel good that you read that like you want to
gloat in like, oh my god, I help somebody today.
That is the best thing you can stand in and
say yeah, I did that because you're supposed to. She's like, yeah, sure,
we're all supposed to be helping that neighbor X y Z.
But feeling good who cares, Like sorry.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
That's what we're supposed to do.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So I think reading this sometimes taking those moments in
of like okay, yeah, what I do is amazing. Yeah,
you know, to our Haitian Miami's sista who is listening,
we really hear the opposite sometimes or a.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Lot of times.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Oh yeah, so I had a nigga tell me to
my face years ago, I was hurting the black community.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Oh we get that, And I think to me, I
guess even just from our clips that go viral, I
think every day there's an interaction where people are saying
we're unworthy. Who's ever gonna take us serious? Is the
type of woman you shouldn't listen to? This is discussing content.
How did it land up in my algorithm? These whrrors
(13:19):
are nothing like and those comments are the ones that
we see every day. Just because it's Instagram, it's collaborated.
It's hard to just not read them. I know y'all say,
don't read them, but it's it's literally in our feed
like feel interne.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Coruptive because where someone might just put a crying emoji
and laughing lol, oh my god, so funny. The next
one is a paragraph dissertation about why we're so terrible,
So it's hard to ignore it.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
It is, it really is. So I think just receiving
this and when I saw it in the email. I
was like, this needs to be shared because I was like,
it felt good to hear it feels good to have
someone say that these are the thoughts that's been in
my head. So I want to share it with you guys.
And I think just receiving that feels gut you know.
(14:04):
I want to share that before we now talk about
the person who the other person who wrote it.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Oh, I was gonna say.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
I actually thought it would be a good time to
talk about bad comments and we could talk about something
a bit topical and talk about Akasha.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Oh. I mean, I'm I'm cool with doing that too.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Okay, so you can make this a little different.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I'm fine with that.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Thoughts about the Akash just lean shit.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
You know what's crazy? Was it?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
You were involved in the first half of it?
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Was it? I want to say it was so, I'm
not gonna lie. He had descended to me. That was
not something that landed across my algorithm?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Is it because you weren't?
Speaker 1 (14:44):
It wasn't me?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Neither me neither.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Because I don't I don't follow flagrant stuff. I follow
Schultz still, but even his stuff doesn't show up on
my algorithm or Timeline. Akash is in the part because
he's on flagrant. My algorithm on on Twitter is still
very black Twitter. He's Indian. I didn't see it. So
(15:06):
when edd And hit me and was like, are y'all
going to talk about this? I think you're in that
universe you should, I was like, Nigga, what is this?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
So if you guys also haven't heard of it.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
The reason that it came across my feed is because
I interviewed on Horrible Justline and Akash before they were married,
and I don't know the number of the episode, but
Justline hit me was like, girl, have you seen this?
And they were on a flight headed they're doing fine,
like whatever, but she was just like because it.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Was me, so wait, they pulled they pulled clips from that.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Interview of her oh saying she had flirted around and
done stuff with other men, but she hadn't had sex.
And I also don't know why people find that to
be unbelievable, like they don't believe her.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yeah, but because it did come out to be alive, right.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
No, she made a video and said when I was
in college, and that's the thing about Nigga's really trying
to pull your card but they're not. I was at
the frat houses popping my pussy out every night, and
so now when people heard popping my pussy, they were like, oh,
you were fucking because they don't know.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Do people not? No, Like, even when you say plussy, plussy,
pussy popping hand or depression fit, pussy popping on a
handstand is literally poppy yo pussy dancing.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
And you know when she said it.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
The second I watched the clip, because they compiled all
these clips to her, I was like, okay, And even
the way she said it, it's like I laughed because
I knew exactly when I watched it, like, oh this
is this it is No, she didn't have sex with
anyone before Ahkash, but she did have like sleepovers, makeouts, touching,
like she's went to different bases. And she said it
(16:52):
on horrible Okay, what I was thinking about bad comments
number one buck with a Kash and she He's the
reason I went to their wedding. I'm technically cooler than
I don't know. I guess it's Eden. By the way,
I don't know if I've ever told you this. Old
(17:13):
Bay designed their apartment back in the day. No, oh yeah,
because he was like, hella into that. Why do I
always date design niggas? Anyway, the long story short, I
have seen his stand up and he talks about Justleen
all the time, and suddenly she becomes an influencer and
a podcaster and starts talking shit too, and now she's
a fucking piece of shit bitch gold digging horror. Okay,
(17:38):
Justlene has also worked at Goldman Sacks. She was, I believe,
like finance, amazing jobs, hustling, bustling, doing her thing, and
then finally her nigga was like, don't worry no more,
and she said, h hi and didn't want to. And
now we are seeing this whole thing where people are
tearing this couple up, calling Akasha cut because he's taking
(18:01):
care of his wife, which is technically the most masculine
thing y'all niggas could do. And it's strange to me
that they just find all of the time in the
world to tear this girl down because she started making
you know, podcasts and having a voice and talking about
past experiences and it really made me think, right, so
I started talking about me and about it. I was like, yo,
(18:23):
I feel so bad for them because this isn't her right,
like I'm thinking, I'm just saying, like she's new to
this podcast game. Imagine if you were famous, niggas never
put a card on you because they're like, oh, we
easy been talking like this, and now it feels like
this exposure piece because his wife is out there thinking
(18:44):
for the rest of the guy, Alex's girl, Andrew's girl,
Mark's girl, Nobody's girl is out there, but a coscious girl,
and now it makes it so easy to tear this bitch.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Down for the guy.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
There was a virgin on the show. Bro, I'm telling you,
like the way that we treat women when we think
they're whoores is crazy.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
And I really was looking at them comments like oh,
I've been seeing this bitch.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
This todayin't none to a bitch like me.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
I mean, I think for I think for you and
I it's felt different because we take on these comments
by ourselves because we don't we're not public with our partners,
so our partners aren't receiving it to where we can
cope with each other. We take it on a lot.
(19:32):
Right now, they are attacking Akash or whatever they feel
like Akash is done wrong and they're attacking her, which
means they're attacking their union. Yeah up, And it's like
that would be even harder, which is why, Like when
I was with actor Bay, I already knew he already
has enough critique in the work he's done and how
(19:54):
he wanted to elevate his career, and that was a
common conversation that we always had, like and I think
that's why I was so so much more considerate of
the things I shared on this platform because I didn't
want us both to be attacked or I forgot about
him bro like, So it was like but it was
(20:15):
because he was public, and at any point that we
became public, the attack would be on his decision to
be with me. Who they think he is for being
with me, why we're together. I already get the attacks
that I get, Like I think there's no there's nowhere
where I think I'm publicly going to share my partner
(20:38):
and welcome him into this type of.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
And that's the thing like having a partner that's out there.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
Like sometimes I'd be on scholar March's page and like
I like some of her design shit or whatever and whatever,
like me and my man be like, man.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Who would it take?
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Because my money get on got Instagram. I was like,
who would it take? What kind of check?
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Because it's not even the check more than he loves
brands right, And it's like, so if they all.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
Want I don't want, no nigga, what is the bro?
Speaker 3 (21:04):
I love this, but we'd be talking like damn, just
imagine posting your life and being able to.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Be hay right.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
And one of the things that made me feel really
sad within this whole thing and made me think about
us is like, yeah, when you really stand in it
and you've really had a certain type of career, we
went from people that you know, felt totally invalidated to
now New York Times bestsellers. It's very hard for a
man to make us or woman too, make us feel
(21:35):
like we're less than. It's still beautiful to read messages
like that today, but we know how far we've come.
And so for sure, that was on my mind a
lot when seeing their discourse on what's been going on
over the last few weeks, because I'm like, bro, the
girl has been with him, how long she was with
him when she was broke, he was broke, And on
top of the fact, it's like some what she makes
(21:55):
content and she's like I'm gonna go get boatoks and
go to plates and blaha, okay, Son.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Just to turn this into an evergreen topic, right and
not a gosh not even maybe necessarily us. But what
advice then, would we both kind of give to someone
who gets into a relationship with someone, adores that person,
and then maybe does find out something about their past
(22:23):
that everyone around them is judging because that happens too.
Imagine if you get with a man, you start datum,
you keeping them secret, but y'all hanging out, y'all fucking
you grow to like him, and then you bring him
around your friends and family and they all got stories
about some fuck shit that he did, some whost shit
(22:43):
he did, and are questioning, why the fuck are you
with this person? Like, I guess, yeah, Like what would
you say to that? Like how do you navigate everyone
around you having something negative to say about your partner
and maintaining that interest? I guess.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
I don't know. This is the most well liked person
I've ever dated.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
But the one thing I would say that fucks with
me sometimes is the fact that, like, I have cared
so much in the past because it actually ruined how
I felt about that person, because in the beginning. In
the beginning of my relationship, everyone compared him to old
Bay just because I was non monogamous, thinking it wasn't
(23:27):
my choice, okay, and putting their own ideas of what
non monogamy is. And now that they realize he's a
good man and an honest man, it's like, oh, okay, well,
now Wheezy did right, And so eventually people have to
fall in line. Everybody's always gonna have a fucking opinion, bitch.
They are opinions of my ex girlfriend. They felt like
she was too jealous, Okay, so what am I gonna
(23:50):
do date another woman who isn't sorry, But I'm like,
I'm not even trying to be a dick here, but
like there's always going to be something, and like we gotta.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Cut the shit, like and it could never be me, bitch,
You've been worse. So yeah, like when you feel good,
when you're happy.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
One of my homeboys started dating a white girl and he's, uh,
he's famous, I guess popular, and he's like, I know,
bitches be looking at me, and I'm like, bro, I'm
gonna talk shit about you as a joke, but like, if.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
You a bitch, that makes you happy. What do you
give a fuck? Bro? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:25):
Like, and I just I just think that it worked too,
you know, like, what can you do?
Speaker 1 (24:30):
What are you supposed to do? I think you just
have to be at a place where you're like also
willing to sit in the I told you so like.
And when I say that is like, if there's stories
about a person for being a whole, being a cheater,
being an abuser, and you choose to move forward, there
has to be to where if you become something or
(24:54):
hurt by that same bubble, just being able to sit
in the eye I told you so like, but willing
to be the ignorance is bliss when it comes to
the thoughts and opinions of what someone else may have
on the person you choose.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Yeah, agreed, use are a little different, but.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
I mean it is a little different. However, out by
the way, only because when does this come out? I'll
make sure this comes out the same week. I only
say that because I don't know why I've been sitting
on thoughts about our episode with Winter and Shy, But
(25:36):
a part of the conversations around the domestic violence, like
you know, when we do episodes, and you know, I
know the notes just got sent to us. So I'm
sitting on like what the conversation was, and I just
wish I asked harder questions around the comfortability of both
(26:00):
of them admitting to laying hands on partners, just because
I don't think that there is enough of those accountability
type conversations amongst women.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
So like, literally, I will tell you, and I don't
know if she said it publicly. Actually I think she
has shy, had really taken responsibility. Okay, I don't know
about Winter. I couldn't be and I don't know what
happened with Winter, but.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
Well, I'm talking about even just the story they shared
on our podcast.
Speaker 3 (26:32):
When she spoke about it, she was like, but and
there's no sorry I could say, like, there's nothing I
could do, like letting my emotions like it was.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
She was very self aware.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
I'll say that, I don't know if that's the best
word I could use. It was like talking with someone
that it already unders like they're just like, hey, this
is the wrong I did. I'm going to tell you
the story, but like, fuck, I fucked up, and it's
something we would wish we'd hear more often from women.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
I think, yeah, exactly, a winter did the I.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Mean, well, it was her story on our show, and
as I'm looking through the notes and I'm like, damn,
like a part of me like wish I would have
been like I don't know. I just think that that's
a conversation where even when a woman says, damn that
I was fucked up, I did it. A lot of
times when women are the abusers, there's a past, there's
(27:28):
a level of excuse, there's a level of they do
it again, and they do it again with multiple partners,
and there's just no level of accountability. And there's really
not that conversation amongst women as to how we need
to not even think we can lay our hands on men.
And then that's not even the conversation. I think it's
even a deeper, darker conversation with the lesbians because that
(27:53):
bitch just be fighting. It's well, I don't even go
to lesbian night. Some I used to go to fucking
lesbian gay night. The girls is fighting.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
The girl, the girls that are gay as a girl,
gay girl, the gay girls.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
Girl, the girls be fighting. It's almost on a fight.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
And I remember I was saying something in the car
and I'm like, bitch, what you want to do.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
And it's really because it's like, oh, our girls women
are ABUSI tangi uh decisions pot at gmail dot com.
Go ahead and send your questions in. And also if
you want why did you way?
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Wait? Where do we go? You said fight? Did we
not talking about this? Oh?
Speaker 3 (28:29):
I was just like, let's let's go to Nexica. I
don't even want to get in my feelings about how
far gone I was when I was a gay.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Girl wanted to fight.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Oh okay, she said she that was trauma.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
Okay, But if you want to see the video to this,
you want to see us cry, go on over the
Patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions, where you still get raw, nasty,
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Speaker 1 (28:55):
And to see you guys next week. The priest position
Well for the order, I'm actually gonna do this really quickly.
This was one of my demonic moves that I did.
Oh you're through the mattress, that's right, Oh my god.
But no, I was able to make this nigga come
like three different times without penetration. But the one I'm
gonna share is with because this is like my first
time doing a part of like edging with a verbal technique.
(00:26):
But it was so great. So basically he was fucking
me from the back and it was great and we
just had a rhythm, we had emotion. So he's fucking
me from the back, and immediately, like I, I can
feel when it gets harder on my pussy ladies, you
kind of feeling, you kind of know when like they're
(00:48):
getting there. And so he's fucking me. He's fucking me.
He's fucking me. He's fucking me. And right when I
feel like maybe he's because he's making I hear his breathing,
I'm like, okay, okay. I Immediately as I know he's
about to come, I screwed out. I scoot out, and
you could hear a big old sigh out of his mouth.
(01:08):
So I scooed out. I pulled the condom off, and
you could he seemed pissed because he was like, I
was about to come. And so what I did in
that moment was I start stroking his dick and rubbing
the back of his head with my nails, and so
as I'm doing that, I just start kissing him and
I'm like, oh, no, you're gonna come for me, You're
gonna come. And I literally, in the moment start talking
(01:31):
through keeping his dick hard, and I'm rubbing the back
of his head and I'm like, kiss me right now.
And I'm literally like breathing into his mouth doing like
this thing while I'm stroking him at the same time.
And bruh, he screamed when he came, like on some
what the fuck was that? And also, how the fuck
(01:51):
did you know I was about to come?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Just the waiannigg bruh yea quart is it?
Speaker 1 (01:56):
So I'm literally and he was just like, or what
the fuck that? What the fuck was that? But also
the thing was, how did you know I was about
to cut? Like basically, how did I know? Throb? But yeah,
so it was really really really really great, and it
was like, but now here's here's the crazy part. I
(02:17):
feel like I got to see if I could do
it with two more niggas before I really know what
I'm doing, because it could have just been we was
in the moment, we was feeling it, you know what
I mean, Like it could have just been that, like
we were in sync, we were in motion, we were
in rhythm. But I made him come. I was talking
them through it. I was breathing. I felt like, oh, bitch,
(02:39):
you're putting it on them. You put it down now.
That's what I felt like. So anyways, my and my
order is to maybe practice edging in this way. So ladies,
if you have someone that you feel like you were
super connected with in the bedroom, by by my order
(03:00):
for this would be to write when you feel he's
going to come and bust slide out, like get from
underneath him or get from in front of him and
immediately turn around, stroke his back and just talk him
through it. Talk him through it. Jack the thing all spit, dude, girl.
(03:20):
I was grazing, grazing the balls with my nails. I
was doing it all and I was like, I was
breathing in his mouth and was like, no, you're gonna
come for me. So I got you. I know it
was coming, like, I'll be really nasty. So yeah, that's
uh my hoar dirve is to edge and stroke until
he comes.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Well, boy, don't we know what the clip's gonna be?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
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(04:03):
And now here's You've Got Decisions if.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
You would like to have us answer your questions.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
a terrible thriftfle guess what.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
You've got Decisions, You've got Decisions.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Welcome back, y'all. We have another episode for you today.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
All about your issues, your problems, and us judging because
that's our favorite thing.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Oh we're definitely going to be judging for sure. If
you want us to give you our thoughts, opinions and
judgments on your life, then go ahead and email us
at Decisions pod at gmail dot com and we will
read you for filth when we get to your goddamn email.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
It's on because y'all listen to this show and you
judge us every week. Weasy fucking another bitun it's always saying,
oh my god, I god spinach in ite teeth.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
See it's something to judge.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Oh you know what's crazy. I have a few things
in my life that I'm taking the therapy now because
I actually refuse to be judged by you bitches. I'll
let y'all keep judging me interrupting people, but I'm not
gonna let you bitches judge my life. And if you
are on Patreon, I guess that's where you can judge
me because I talked about no longer really judging people
(05:22):
or the men they choose the fuck because I choose
to fuck a guy with tte and autism. So there's that. Nonetheless,
before we get into judging you on your bullshit, we
did actually weezy or receive a really good email. Finally,
I wanted to start with the title is two bold
women helped Me find my freedom? Oh my god, I'm
(05:44):
here listen. I saw this email and I was like,
you know what, I need to give this some public reading,
because I think people forget that we really be out
here doing the Lord's work.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Okay, this news work, but okay, sister.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
I mean Allas were the Lord's work, Jesus Christ's work,
you know, the Universe's work. Whatever, whatever you believe in,
that's the work we do in bitch. Okay, Okay, Dear
Mandy and wheezy, Hey, ladies, I just wanted to finally
write the fan letter I've been composing in my head
for years. I'm a Miami girl, born and raised Haitian American.
(06:20):
So when y'all start talking Miami nonsense or cracking those
jokes only Floridians really understand, I feel seen. And I
went to school in Orlando Fall seven. What's up, chopacity.
But I'm thirty eight now, a wife and a mom
of two beautiful daughters, and I've been married for eight
amazing years. My husband and I are both tax attorneys,
(06:42):
and I have to thank him for putting me onto
your show. Growing up, I had experiences that made me
feel uncomfortable, ashamed, and way too exposed to things before
I was ready. That early confusion and hurt stayed with
me for a long time, and then came the Internet.
Shout out to my my younger self accidentally finding porn
while trying to look up low Wayne in the Hot
(07:03):
Boys uh y'all search Hotboys with a z dot com.
By my teens, I was making choices I didn't fully understand,
trying to feel connected or grown, even when it didn't
leave me feeling good about myself. Then a pregnancy scare
in college had me slamming the brakes hard. I basically
went into a PG rated lockdown until marriage. Okay, when
(07:26):
I met my husband, we actually didn't even kiss for months,
which is wild because girl, the chemistry was chemistry, chemistry fying,
and when we finally fucked, it was delicious. But even
then I didn't fully understand my own body, my own pleasure,
or how much shame I was still caring. And that's
where you two come in. Listening to you taught me
(07:46):
that there was nothing wrong with me. I just hadn't
learned how to relax, explore, and feel safe with myself.
Your conversations helped me unlearned shame I didn't even know
I was still holding on to. They made me comfortable
to my own identity, my desires, and my womanhood. And
thanks to that, I experienced my first true orgasm with
my husband. Wow right, your podcast has brightened some very
(08:09):
hard days. On mornings I didn't want to get out
of bed, the thought of putting on another episode made
it easier. The laughter, the honesty, the rawness was something
I loved and needed. People who judge you they're just
mad they can't be as free that used to be me.
I'd listen and clutch my pearls, like did they just
say that? But the more I listened, the more I
(08:29):
realized I was the one who needed to loosen up.
You help me see myself more clearly and accept myself
more fully. I love both of your perspectives, even when
I'm not into everything you talk about. I love learning, laughing,
and growing through your conversations. So thank you for being loud, bold, funny, smart, sexual, unfiltered, compassionate, chaotic,
(08:51):
and brilliant all the things at once. Thank you for
making people feel less alone, and thank you for helping
women like me again. Yes, oh my period just started.
Ah emotional. I really like reading stuff like that. Oh
my god, bitch, you're wiping your face too. Are you crying?
Speaker 3 (09:14):
No? I think, okay, not crying, but I think I
feel away because you know, if you've been listening to
the show a long time, like or if you've read
No Holds Barred and you read the done Done, very sad,
Oh my god, I'm gonna die chapter, it really was
disheartening to hear how many people had given me feedback
(09:35):
about like I just kind of sometimes complain about nothing.
Depression is a mental illness. And like I had a
podcast too that I had to come to and listen
to and it felt fun and I realized sometimes how
even though I feel like I'm just sharing my life
and it's whatever, or you're just sharing some funny sex story, like,
it's really relief. And I appreciate hearing stuff like that
(09:57):
because where is no it's not hitting me because I
feel appreciated. I mean, of course I do. It's more
so hitting me because I'm like, oh, I've been you too.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Yeah. I think for me, these are normally things we
get to take so much in, especially when we tour,
and I think there was so much around the book
this year and we did we still to me, only
did like eight book stores maybe nine, and it was
intimate and it was sometimes less than what our meet
(10:29):
and greet is in our live shows, and so for me,
you know, even taking that break the year before, I
feel like we haven't really been on the road a lot,
and I feel like I haven't got to take in
what horrible decisions and now the rebrand and just what
the overall universe has meant for people, and now even
the book with people responding to what they read in
(10:51):
the book. I just I didn't think I would get
emotion like that. But I am also bleeding profusely, and so,
you know, hormones. Bitch.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
I had this conversation.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
I'm just thinking about it of like how this is
like a piece of selfishness reading that. Y'all know I
always talk about Brionda, my Jesus friend, my Bible girlfriend. Right,
And so I fed the house duh on Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1 (11:20):
That's so crazy. I'm doing a pantry volunteering tomorrow, oh,
organizing food in the.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Food I don't know why I don't do this more often,
But this one is three blocks from my apartment. And
I was leaving the gym and I was like, do
y'all need help tomorrow? And he's like, yeah, damn, I
wish I didn't say three blocks from my apartment because
I really want to share where it is. But long
story short, I go to this spot and all I
saw was Christmas brunch is the next day, and or
(11:47):
Thanksgiving brunch whatever. Normally it's just a soup kitchen, so
I'm thinking it's going to be way more food than
it was.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
It was just eggs and Deli ham.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
And when I left, I said to Brionda, like, I
feel so good. I like feel so bad that I
feel good, And she was like, oh no, this is
if I like one of God's disciples to like go
and do this stuff.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I don't care.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Let this be if I'm gonna feel good from doing anything,
it can be this if I were selfish from.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
This, like feel good about it.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
Feel good that you read that like you want to
gloat in like, oh my god, I help somebody today.
That is the best thing you can stand in and
say yeah, I did that because you're supposed to. She's like, yeah, sure,
we're all supposed to be helping that neighbor X y Z.
But feeling good who cares, Like sorry.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
That's what we're supposed to do.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So I think reading this sometimes taking those moments in
of like okay, yeah, what I do is amazing. Yeah,
you know, to our Haitian Miami's sista who is listening,
we really hear the opposite sometimes or a.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Lot of times.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Oh yeah, so I had a nigga tell me to
my face years ago, I was hurting the black community.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Oh we get that, And I think to me, I
guess even just from our clips that go viral, I
think every day there's an interaction where people are saying
we're unworthy. Who's ever gonna take us serious? Is the
type of woman you shouldn't listen to? This is discussing content.
How did it land up in my algorithm? These whrrors
(13:19):
are nothing like and those comments are the ones that
we see every day. Just because it's Instagram, it's collaborated.
It's hard to just not read them. I know y'all say,
don't read them, but it's it's literally in our feed
like feel interne.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Coruptive because where someone might just put a crying emoji
and laughing lol, oh my god, so funny. The next
one is a paragraph dissertation about why we're so terrible,
So it's hard to ignore it.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
It is, it really is. So I think just receiving
this and when I saw it in the email. I
was like, this needs to be shared because I was like,
it felt good to hear it feels good to have
someone say that these are the thoughts that's been in
my head. So I want to share it with you guys.
And I think just receiving that feels gut you know.
(14:04):
I want to share that before we now talk about
the person who the other person who wrote it.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Oh, I was gonna say.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
I actually thought it would be a good time to
talk about bad comments and we could talk about something
a bit topical and talk about Akasha.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Oh. I mean, I'm I'm cool with doing that too.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Okay, so you can make this a little different.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I'm fine with that.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Thoughts about the Akash just lean shit.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
You know what's crazy? Was it?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
You were involved in the first half of it?
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Was it? I want to say it was so, I'm
not gonna lie. He had descended to me. That was
not something that landed across my algorithm?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Is it because you weren't?
Speaker 1 (14:44):
It wasn't me?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Neither me neither.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Because I don't I don't follow flagrant stuff. I follow
Schultz still, but even his stuff doesn't show up on
my algorithm or Timeline. Akash is in the part because
he's on flagrant. My algorithm on on Twitter is still
very black Twitter. He's Indian. I didn't see it. So
(15:06):
when edd And hit me and was like, are y'all
going to talk about this? I think you're in that
universe you should, I was like, Nigga, what is this?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
So if you guys also haven't heard of it.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
The reason that it came across my feed is because
I interviewed on Horrible Justline and Akash before they were married,
and I don't know the number of the episode, but
Justline hit me was like, girl, have you seen this?
And they were on a flight headed they're doing fine,
like whatever, but she was just like because it.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Was me, so wait, they pulled they pulled clips from that.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Interview of her oh saying she had flirted around and
done stuff with other men, but she hadn't had sex.
And I also don't know why people find that to
be unbelievable, like they don't believe her.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yeah, but because it did come out to be alive, right.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
No, she made a video and said when I was
in college, and that's the thing about Nigga's really trying
to pull your card but they're not. I was at
the frat houses popping my pussy out every night, and
so now when people heard popping my pussy, they were like, oh,
you were fucking because they don't know.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Do people not? No, Like, even when you say plussy, plussy,
pussy popping hand or depression fit, pussy popping on a
handstand is literally poppy yo pussy dancing.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
And you know when she said it.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
The second I watched the clip, because they compiled all
these clips to her, I was like, okay, And even
the way she said it, it's like I laughed because
I knew exactly when I watched it, like, oh this
is this it is No, she didn't have sex with
anyone before Ahkash, but she did have like sleepovers, makeouts, touching,
like she's went to different bases. And she said it
(16:52):
on horrible Okay, what I was thinking about bad comments
number one buck with a Kash and she He's the
reason I went to their wedding. I'm technically cooler than
I don't know. I guess it's Eden. By the way,
I don't know if I've ever told you this. Old
(17:13):
Bay designed their apartment back in the day. No, oh yeah,
because he was like, hella into that. Why do I
always date design niggas? Anyway, the long story short, I
have seen his stand up and he talks about Justleen
all the time, and suddenly she becomes an influencer and
a podcaster and starts talking shit too, and now she's
a fucking piece of shit bitch gold digging horror. Okay,
(17:38):
Justlene has also worked at Goldman Sacks. She was, I believe,
like finance, amazing jobs, hustling, bustling, doing her thing, and
then finally her nigga was like, don't worry no more,
and she said, h hi and didn't want to. And
now we are seeing this whole thing where people are
tearing this couple up, calling Akasha cut because he's taking
(18:01):
care of his wife, which is technically the most masculine
thing y'all niggas could do. And it's strange to me
that they just find all of the time in the
world to tear this girl down because she started making
you know, podcasts and having a voice and talking about
past experiences and it really made me think, right, so
I started talking about me and about it. I was like, yo,
(18:23):
I feel so bad for them because this isn't her right,
like I'm thinking, I'm just saying, like she's new to
this podcast game. Imagine if you were famous, niggas never
put a card on you because they're like, oh, we
easy been talking like this, and now it feels like
this exposure piece because his wife is out there thinking
(18:44):
for the rest of the guy, Alex's girl, Andrew's girl,
Mark's girl, Nobody's girl is out there, but a coscious girl,
and now it makes it so easy to tear this bitch.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Down for the guy.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
There was a virgin on the show. Bro, I'm telling you,
like the way that we treat women when we think
they're whoores is crazy.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
And I really was looking at them comments like oh,
I've been seeing this bitch.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
This todayin't none to a bitch like me.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
I mean, I think for I think for you and
I it's felt different because we take on these comments
by ourselves because we don't we're not public with our partners,
so our partners aren't receiving it to where we can
cope with each other. We take it on a lot.
(19:32):
Right now, they are attacking Akash or whatever they feel
like Akash is done wrong and they're attacking her, which
means they're attacking their union. Yeah up, And it's like
that would be even harder, which is why, Like when
I was with actor Bay, I already knew he already
has enough critique in the work he's done and how
(19:54):
he wanted to elevate his career, and that was a
common conversation that we always had, like and I think
that's why I was so so much more considerate of
the things I shared on this platform because I didn't
want us both to be attacked or I forgot about
him bro like, So it was like but it was
(20:15):
because he was public, and at any point that we
became public, the attack would be on his decision to
be with me. Who they think he is for being
with me, why we're together. I already get the attacks
that I get, Like I think there's no there's nowhere
where I think I'm publicly going to share my partner
(20:38):
and welcome him into this type of.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
And that's the thing like having a partner that's out there.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
Like sometimes I'd be on scholar March's page and like
I like some of her design shit or whatever and whatever,
like me and my man be like, man.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Who would it take?
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Because my money get on got Instagram. I was like,
who would it take? What kind of check?
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Because it's not even the check more than he loves
brands right, And it's like, so if they all.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
Want I don't want, no nigga, what is the bro?
Speaker 3 (21:04):
I love this, but we'd be talking like damn, just
imagine posting your life and being able to.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Be hay right.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
And one of the things that made me feel really
sad within this whole thing and made me think about
us is like, yeah, when you really stand in it
and you've really had a certain type of career, we
went from people that you know, felt totally invalidated to
now New York Times bestsellers. It's very hard for a
man to make us or woman too, make us feel
(21:35):
like we're less than. It's still beautiful to read messages
like that today, but we know how far we've come.
And so for sure, that was on my mind a
lot when seeing their discourse on what's been going on
over the last few weeks, because I'm like, bro, the
girl has been with him, how long she was with
him when she was broke, he was broke, And on
top of the fact, it's like some what she makes
(21:55):
content and she's like I'm gonna go get boatoks and
go to plates and blaha, okay, Son.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Just to turn this into an evergreen topic, right and
not a gosh not even maybe necessarily us. But what
advice then, would we both kind of give to someone
who gets into a relationship with someone, adores that person,
and then maybe does find out something about their past
(22:23):
that everyone around them is judging because that happens too.
Imagine if you get with a man, you start datum,
you keeping them secret, but y'all hanging out, y'all fucking
you grow to like him, and then you bring him
around your friends and family and they all got stories
about some fuck shit that he did, some whost shit
(22:43):
he did, and are questioning, why the fuck are you
with this person? Like, I guess, yeah, Like what would
you say to that? Like how do you navigate everyone
around you having something negative to say about your partner
and maintaining that interest? I guess.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
I don't know. This is the most well liked person
I've ever dated.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
But the one thing I would say that fucks with
me sometimes is the fact that, like, I have cared
so much in the past because it actually ruined how
I felt about that person, because in the beginning. In
the beginning of my relationship, everyone compared him to old
Bay just because I was non monogamous, thinking it wasn't
(23:27):
my choice, okay, and putting their own ideas of what
non monogamy is. And now that they realize he's a
good man and an honest man, it's like, oh, okay, well,
now Wheezy did right, And so eventually people have to
fall in line. Everybody's always gonna have a fucking opinion, bitch.
They are opinions of my ex girlfriend. They felt like
she was too jealous, Okay, so what am I gonna
(23:50):
do date another woman who isn't sorry, But I'm like,
I'm not even trying to be a dick here, but
like there's always going to be something, and like we gotta.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Cut the shit, like and it could never be me, bitch,
You've been worse. So yeah, like when you feel good,
when you're happy.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
One of my homeboys started dating a white girl and he's, uh,
he's famous, I guess popular, and he's like, I know,
bitches be looking at me, and I'm like, bro, I'm
gonna talk shit about you as a joke, but like, if.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
You a bitch, that makes you happy. What do you
give a fuck? Bro? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:25):
Like, and I just I just think that it worked too,
you know, like, what can you do?
Speaker 1 (24:30):
What are you supposed to do? I think you just
have to be at a place where you're like also
willing to sit in the I told you so like.
And when I say that is like, if there's stories
about a person for being a whole, being a cheater,
being an abuser, and you choose to move forward, there
has to be to where if you become something or
(24:54):
hurt by that same bubble, just being able to sit
in the eye I told you so like, but willing
to be the ignorance is bliss when it comes to
the thoughts and opinions of what someone else may have
on the person you choose.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Yeah, agreed, use are a little different, but.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
I mean it is a little different. However, out by
the way, only because when does this come out? I'll
make sure this comes out the same week. I only
say that because I don't know why I've been sitting
on thoughts about our episode with Winter and Shy, But
(25:36):
a part of the conversations around the domestic violence, like
you know, when we do episodes, and you know, I
know the notes just got sent to us. So I'm
sitting on like what the conversation was, and I just
wish I asked harder questions around the comfortability of both
(26:00):
of them admitting to laying hands on partners, just because
I don't think that there is enough of those accountability
type conversations amongst women.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
So like, literally, I will tell you, and I don't
know if she said it publicly. Actually I think she
has shy, had really taken responsibility. Okay, I don't know
about Winter. I couldn't be and I don't know what
happened with Winter, but.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
Well, I'm talking about even just the story they shared
on our podcast.
Speaker 3 (26:32):
When she spoke about it, she was like, but and
there's no sorry I could say, like, there's nothing I
could do, like letting my emotions like it was.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
She was very self aware.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
I'll say that, I don't know if that's the best
word I could use. It was like talking with someone
that it already unders like they're just like, hey, this
is the wrong I did. I'm going to tell you
the story, but like, fuck, I fucked up, and it's
something we would wish we'd hear more often from women.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
I think, yeah, exactly, a winter did the I.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Mean, well, it was her story on our show, and
as I'm looking through the notes and I'm like, damn,
like a part of me like wish I would have
been like I don't know. I just think that that's
a conversation where even when a woman says, damn that
I was fucked up, I did it. A lot of
times when women are the abusers, there's a past, there's
(27:28):
a level of excuse, there's a level of they do
it again, and they do it again with multiple partners,
and there's just no level of accountability. And there's really
not that conversation amongst women as to how we need
to not even think we can lay our hands on men.
And then that's not even the conversation. I think it's
even a deeper, darker conversation with the lesbians because that
(27:53):
bitch just be fighting. It's well, I don't even go
to lesbian night. Some I used to go to fucking
lesbian gay night. The girls is fighting.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
The girl, the girls that are gay as a girl,
gay girl, the gay girls.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
Girl, the girls be fighting. It's almost on a fight.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
And I remember I was saying something in the car
and I'm like, bitch, what you want to do.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
And it's really because it's like, oh, our girls women
are ABUSI tangi uh decisions pot at gmail dot com.
Go ahead and send your questions in. And also if
you want why did you way?
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Wait? Where do we go? You said fight? Did we
not talking about this? Oh?
Speaker 3 (28:29):
I was just like, let's let's go to Nexica. I
don't even want to get in my feelings about how
far gone I was when I was a gay.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Girl wanted to fight.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Oh okay, she said she that was trauma.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
Okay, But if you want to see the video to this,
you want to see us cry, go on over the
Patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions, where you still get raw, nasty,
dirty sex talking episodes for as low as five dollars
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Speaker 1 (28:55):
And to see you guys next week. The priest position
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