Exit Interview

Exit Interview

Dates don’t usually end with a satisfaction survey. And yet — we rate everything in our lives, from Uber drivers to local coffee shops. We complete "exit interviews" when we leave our jobs, so why don't we do the same with dating? Dating experts Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (Dateable) invite guests to participate in the ultimate social experiment: conducting exit interviews with their exes and past dates. For the hopeless romantic going out on hundreds of dates without any sticking, will she find out what she’s consistently doing wrong? For the reformed f-boy who’s ready for a real relationship but can’t move past a situationship, will he learn how to express affection? For the high-powered executive who worries they intimidate all their romantic prospects, will they learn what really makes them shine? Tune into every episode of Exit Interview to hear the good, the bad, the cringe, and the shock of real feedback from real dates, and the lessons we can learn from them.


May 18, 2023 55 mins

 Over the course of this season of Exit Interview, we’ve learned that most people have absolutely no clue what they’re doing wrong in dating - but with some simple fixes, love may be right around the corner. In this season finale, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable check back in with several of our featured daters to see if they’ve heeded any of their advice. Did Kirstin find someone who wasn’t intimidated by her? Did Caroline ...

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We all have that thing that we are positive is blocking our romantic paths.. For Caroline - she’s convinced that it’s being a single mom. Is that really what’s holding her back from her second chance at love - or is it something totally different? In this next installment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable makeover Caroline’s life by doing the scariest thing ever: call up her old flames for feedback. Why did ...

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Kyle is a sex empowerment coach on the search for a primary partner who can fit in with his polyamorous lifestyle. You may have caught him on Amazon Prime’s The One that Got Away. Why can’t he be as open with his heart as his sexuality? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable put Kyle in the hot seat this week for the ultimate romance review: calling up his old flames to find out what he’s doing wrong. And some of these women have s...

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April 27, 2023 49 mins

Deborah is a romantic, through and through. But…maybe, she’s so hungry for love that she molds herself to adapt to whomever she’s dating.  You may remember Deborah from Christofer’s episode, and now she’s back for her very own Exit Interview. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Deborah understand what’s getting in the way of love. Tune in to hear their conversations with several of Deborah’s past flames - all o...

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April 20, 2023 51 mins

Justin is the full package - he’s handsome, he’s smart, he’s the life of the party. But now well into his 30s, he’s never had a boyfriend. Not only that, but he’s never been on a date. What is he doing wrong? Well, luckily, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help. Julie and Yue call up Justin’s friends (because he doesn’t have any exes) to help figure out what he’s doing wrong. Is Justin going after the wrong sort o...

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Kristin is so strong and independent that she worries she’s scaring off potential partners. In this instalment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Kristin understand how she is actually presenting herself on dates. And who would know better - than her exes? Julie and Yue call up several of Kristin’s old flames to answer these burning questions: Are Kristin’s dates really not ready to be in a ...

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So far, we’ve heard from five daters who are all struggling to find love. To help them, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable have conducted the ultimate romance review: calling up past flames to gather feedback. In this special edition of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue check in on these daters to hear if they’ve taken any advice to heart. Was Chris able to finally find love? Did Anchie finally get over Mindy? What happened when Ti...

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Anchie is ready for a serious partner, and yet he keeps hitting dead ends on his hunt for a longterm relationship.  But – maybe – could the key to solving his dating problems be hidden in the past? In this week’s episode, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable unpack Anchie’s dating life by calling up those who know him best - his old flames. Why did his ex feel like he wanted to just kiss “a girl” and not specifically her? Why did...

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Situationships - love them, hate them - they’re all too common this day in age. But Christofer - well, she’s the Queen of Situationships, and the fairest of them all. In this week’s episode of Exit Interview,  Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable sit down with Chris to figure out if Situationships are actually getting her the love she wants. And who better to ask – but Chris’s old flames? Get ready for a whole lot of heartbreak, ...

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As a recovering Type A, Pylin has dating down to a science. She’s on the boyfriend track, full steam ahead. But -  do people on board feel interchangeable? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable conduct the ultimate romance review: calling up Pylin’s exes to get their feedback. Is she scaring people away with her questions? Can she even read the room? Is she treating her dates like her psychology clients? Press play to find out. 


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Tia is suffering from a very serious case of Cool Girl Syndrome. Dating experts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help Tia recover. How? By talking to the people who know her best – her exes. In this first instalment of Exit Interview, Julie and Yue call three of Tia’s exes to gather feedback. Did she sabotage a perfectly good relationship? Why didn’t her old flame know they were actually on a date? Could someone s...

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March 9, 2023 49 mins

Angel has some strong F-boys tendencies - but still claims he’s looking for love.  Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are on the case.  To investigate, they call several of Angel’s old flames to gather feedback, uncovering many surprises. Did Angel ghost a date after she didn’t kiss him? Why does he still have his ex’s clothes in his closet? Does he actually know how to treat a woman he likes? Hear all of this and more on this ...

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February 28, 2023 2 mins

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