December 18, 2024 • 9 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Allegra is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Gary.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and
maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how long
has it been since you heard from Gary?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It has been five days?
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Who's keeping tracker?
Speaker 5 (00:24):
You know anything? Five Jay's on the dot? What was
your last interaction with him?
Speaker 6 (00:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Uh, it was great, Like he asked me to maybe
go on a second date and I was looking for that,
just even a text from him, and yeah, now it's
a fifth day. I've been feeling I haven't been sleeping.
I know that's embarrassing, but I just really liked.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Him a lot.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Have you tried to reach out to him?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, I sent, like, I sent three texts and I
think that's about it. Like, I'm not gonna push it anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
What are you saying in the text?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Are you just like hey, yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
I'm just like hey, I had a great time. And
then the other one was like hope you're doing well.
Third one was like, hey, do you want to go
to six Flags together or something?
Speaker 5 (01:10):
Okay, well, let's try to figure it out. Why don't
you tell us about your date.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Yeah, so we had a picnic at the park and
we went to a market, got some sandwiches, and I
brought Monopoly.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
That was fun.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
We went to go see a movie after so I
thought like things were going really well.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
There was chemistry, in my opinion.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
We just talked about like where we went to school,
like what our hobbies are, and I feel like I
really liked how quirky he was, and and that like
he had he was interested in, like reptiles, and I
really tried to engage with him and telling how how
my dad also has like like esoteric interests. And I
(01:53):
was really nervous, honestly. So I don't I'm afraid if
I like messed up or anything, but I was just
really anxious.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Maybe I like got something out of.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
The blue or made him feel bad about liking reptiles.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Do you remember anything awkward that you might have said?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Yeah, well, I think he told me before like on
his previous relationship. He uh, he cheated on his last
girlfriend and so I kind of maybe said, like, yeah,
like that wasn't a good thing to do, Like maybe
I wasn't supportive to him.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
You know, a pretty.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Bold thing to come out on a first date. They
cheated on their last person. I sent you I have
a track record of cheating in my relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yeah, I was like, you probably don't want to be
supportive of that. I think it's okay to say that
that was a bad decision. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Yeah, So I don't know what's happened since then.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, we've been texting for two weeks on it from
a dating app, so we were like, we've already gone
through the first stages of like ice breakers.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
So that's why we died pretty deep that day.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Okay, well we'll play a song come Back, and then
call him and see if I'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, thank
you so much. All right, we'll play song come Back,
get your first Day follow up next. Right in the
middle of today's first date follow up, And if you're
just joining us, Allegra is on the phone, and Allegra
is getting ghosted by a guy named Gary, and we're
(03:20):
about to call him and see ifi'll tell us why
he's a ghostinger and see if we can get her
another date. But first, Allegra, why don't you catch everybody
up on your situation?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, it's been five days since he texted me, and
I thought our first date went amazing. Maybe I heard
his feelings on something that was personal.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
And yeah, I'm just curious to see like what he's
up to. It's been a while.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
You ready? Yeah, Okay, here we go. Hi, I speak
to Gary please. Yeah, this is Gary, Gary. How are you?
My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Hi, Gary, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (04:08):
Hi everyone, how are you? I'm good? What's going on?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Do you ever listen to the radio show at all?
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I have?
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Okay? Great? Have you ever heard a first date follow
up before?
Speaker 7 (04:22):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I have? Perfect. Well, then you know that that's the
segment that we do where if you go on a
date with someone and then end up ghosting them, they
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:35):
Yeah, that's so.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
We got an email about you, Gary. Oh did you Yes,
we did. Any idea. Who would email us and say
that you're ghosting them?
Speaker 7 (04:47):
I can think of one person.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, okay, does it start with an agra, Yes it is.
She emailed us. We talked to her. She told us
about your date. She said she really liked you, but
she's confused and wants to know why you're ghosting or
would you mind telling us?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Surely? Well, did she tell you about the date?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
She did? She said it was good. She said, you
guys went to like, to a park and then you
like reptiles. Yeah, she said, She said, you guys talked
about a bunch of stuff, including the fact that you
like reptiles, and she said it was a really good date.
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:23):
We went to a I guess you could call it
a park, but it was actually a graveyard.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
What.
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Yeah, she laid out a picnic blanket over just you know,
like a random person's grave, and then she wanted us
to eat on it.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Okay, so you guys met at the graveyard. She took
you to the graveyard, took her to the graveyard. How
did you get to a graveyard?
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Well, she said she wanted to have a picnic, and
so I met her and she took me to it.
She said was going to be a great spot for
picnic and then she, like I said, she just laid
that brought me to a graveyard. I kind of felt
we were walking through the graveyard to go to the
next you know that there was a park on the other.
Speaker 7 (06:02):
Side, huh.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
But no, no, it was like full picnic basket on
top of someone, you know, someone who is decomposing.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
You didn't say anything about that, like, hey, we go
to like where there's a picnic table that part and
not dead people.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
I was, I mean, I was shocked, frankly, and I
was I was hungry, so I was too hungry.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
Lady. She was just talking the whole time, so.
Speaker 6 (06:27):
I maybe got like two words and I was, I
was just sort of in shock. It just felt like
you know, when you're running out the clock and it
just couldn't move any slower.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Did she address the fact that you guys were at
a graveyard while she was talking to you and you
were eating.
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Oh? Yeah, she loved it. She thought it was fantastic.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
Then it's so cool that this is here and that
we can enjoy this sort of stuff.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
My momyard, she totally would. My mom loves going to
different grave yards. And just celebrating people's lives and learning
about them.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I don't think that's what they were doing. I mean,
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Maybe she's got a fascination with it too, you know.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I thought maybe it was someone that she loved. But
then she started talking about how she, you know, likes
to go to different grave sites.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
And do the same thing, like have picnics at the graveyard.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Yeah, and sometimes she goes by herself, she said. Sometimes
it's just she likes to bring a blanket and sunbathe.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
My mom always says that the whole idea is that
if you don't acknowledge them and then they are forgotten.
I mean, for me, I would be very creeped out
in a graveyard. I'm just wondering if her mentality is
similar to my mother's, where it's just as she wants
to honor people that she doesn't know.
Speaker 7 (07:45):
It was.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
If we weren't at a graveyard, it was just a
picnic in a park, but.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
It was on a grave. I just I thought it
was It was.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Super weird, and if I'm being honest, it.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
Was probably the worst situation could I've ever been in.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Okay, Well, Lego felt differently. She thought it was great.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
Oh I know, yeah, she she made that very clear.
It's like it felt like maybe she was.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
At one point I was like, is this is is
she wanting to leave me in the grade?
Speaker 7 (08:14):
And is there?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Okay? Yeah over here back behind the behind this building.
Smart Well, Gary Allegra is on the phone listening and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (08:26):
Oh yeah, that's right, that's right.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I forgot that.
Speaker 7 (08:30):
She that that's what you do. She's right there on
the phone.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Huh high Allegra, Gary, you're a buyer.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
You you loved it? So I I.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
Was uncomfortable when you kept saying do you do you
love it? Isn't this great? Don't you love it? And
I said yeah, like that you think that's how somebody
says yeah when they're excited about something.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Well, you could be a little more honest because I
didn't get the cue.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Wants a cheater, always a cheater. I don't know you're
gonna cheater?
Speaker 7 (09:05):
How did I what?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Yeah? You should feel guilty, like still to this day.
So yeah, you told me what are you talking about?
You told me that cheer flast relationship?
Speaker 7 (09:18):
Absolutely not. I don't mean what are you talk this?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I never said that plastic cheater mode. Honestly, I don't
even know who you are.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Gary.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
I wish I never met you.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Well, don't say that too quickly, Gary, Would you like
another date with a legro? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (09:37):
No, no, thank you?
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Yeah you, Gary, you will. First D follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Allegra is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Gary.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and
maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how long
has it been since you heard from Gary?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It has been five days?
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Who's keeping tracker?
Speaker 5 (00:24):
You know anything? Five Jay's on the dot? What was
your last interaction with him?
Speaker 6 (00:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Uh, it was great, Like he asked me to maybe
go on a second date and I was looking for that,
just even a text from him, and yeah, now it's
a fifth day. I've been feeling I haven't been sleeping.
I know that's embarrassing, but I just really liked.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Him a lot.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Have you tried to reach out to him?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, I sent, like, I sent three texts and I
think that's about it. Like, I'm not gonna push it anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
What are you saying in the text?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Are you just like hey, yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
I'm just like hey, I had a great time. And
then the other one was like hope you're doing well.
Third one was like, hey, do you want to go
to six Flags together or something?
Speaker 5 (01:10):
Okay, well, let's try to figure it out. Why don't
you tell us about your date.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Yeah, so we had a picnic at the park and
we went to a market, got some sandwiches, and I
brought Monopoly.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
That was fun.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
We went to go see a movie after so I
thought like things were going really well.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
There was chemistry, in my opinion.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
We just talked about like where we went to school,
like what our hobbies are, and I feel like I
really liked how quirky he was, and and that like
he had he was interested in, like reptiles, and I
really tried to engage with him and telling how how
my dad also has like like esoteric interests. And I
(01:53):
was really nervous, honestly. So I don't I'm afraid if
I like messed up or anything, but I was just
really anxious.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Maybe I like got something out of.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
The blue or made him feel bad about liking reptiles.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Do you remember anything awkward that you might have said?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Yeah, well, I think he told me before like on
his previous relationship. He uh, he cheated on his last
girlfriend and so I kind of maybe said, like, yeah,
like that wasn't a good thing to do, Like maybe
I wasn't supportive to him.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
You know, a pretty.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Bold thing to come out on a first date. They
cheated on their last person. I sent you I have
a track record of cheating in my relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yeah, I was like, you probably don't want to be
supportive of that. I think it's okay to say that
that was a bad decision. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Yeah, So I don't know what's happened since then.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, we've been texting for two weeks on it from
a dating app, so we were like, we've already gone
through the first stages of like ice breakers.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
So that's why we died pretty deep that day.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Okay, well we'll play a song come Back, and then
call him and see if I'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, thank
you so much. All right, we'll play song come Back,
get your first Day follow up next. Right in the
middle of today's first date follow up, And if you're
just joining us, Allegra is on the phone, and Allegra
is getting ghosted by a guy named Gary, and we're
(03:20):
about to call him and see ifi'll tell us why
he's a ghostinger and see if we can get her
another date. But first, Allegra, why don't you catch everybody
up on your situation?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, it's been five days since he texted me, and
I thought our first date went amazing. Maybe I heard
his feelings on something that was personal.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
And yeah, I'm just curious to see like what he's
up to. It's been a while.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
You ready? Yeah, Okay, here we go. Hi, I speak
to Gary please. Yeah, this is Gary, Gary. How are you?
My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Hi, Gary, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (04:08):
Hi everyone, how are you? I'm good? What's going on?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Do you ever listen to the radio show at all?
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I have?
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Okay? Great? Have you ever heard a first date follow
up before?
Speaker 7 (04:22):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I have? Perfect. Well, then you know that that's the
segment that we do where if you go on a
date with someone and then end up ghosting them, they
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:35):
Yeah, that's so.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
We got an email about you, Gary. Oh did you Yes,
we did. Any idea. Who would email us and say
that you're ghosting them?
Speaker 7 (04:47):
I can think of one person.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, okay, does it start with an agra, Yes it is.
She emailed us. We talked to her. She told us
about your date. She said she really liked you, but
she's confused and wants to know why you're ghosting or
would you mind telling us?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Surely? Well, did she tell you about the date?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
She did? She said it was good. She said, you
guys went to like, to a park and then you
like reptiles. Yeah, she said, She said, you guys talked
about a bunch of stuff, including the fact that you
like reptiles, and she said it was a really good date.
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:23):
We went to a I guess you could call it
a park, but it was actually a graveyard.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
What.
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Yeah, she laid out a picnic blanket over just you know,
like a random person's grave, and then she wanted us
to eat on it.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Okay, so you guys met at the graveyard. She took
you to the graveyard, took her to the graveyard. How
did you get to a graveyard?
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Well, she said she wanted to have a picnic, and
so I met her and she took me to it.
She said was going to be a great spot for
picnic and then she, like I said, she just laid
that brought me to a graveyard. I kind of felt
we were walking through the graveyard to go to the
next you know that there was a park on the other.
Speaker 7 (06:02):
Side, huh.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
But no, no, it was like full picnic basket on
top of someone, you know, someone who is decomposing.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
You didn't say anything about that, like, hey, we go
to like where there's a picnic table that part and
not dead people.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
I was, I mean, I was shocked, frankly, and I
was I was hungry, so I was too hungry.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
Lady. She was just talking the whole time, so.
Speaker 6 (06:27):
I maybe got like two words and I was, I
was just sort of in shock. It just felt like
you know, when you're running out the clock and it
just couldn't move any slower.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Did she address the fact that you guys were at
a graveyard while she was talking to you and you
were eating.
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Oh? Yeah, she loved it. She thought it was fantastic.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
Then it's so cool that this is here and that
we can enjoy this sort of stuff.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
My momyard, she totally would. My mom loves going to
different grave yards. And just celebrating people's lives and learning
about them.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I don't think that's what they were doing. I mean,
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Maybe she's got a fascination with it too, you know.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I thought maybe it was someone that she loved. But
then she started talking about how she, you know, likes
to go to different grave sites.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
And do the same thing, like have picnics at the graveyard.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Yeah, and sometimes she goes by herself, she said. Sometimes
it's just she likes to bring a blanket and sunbathe.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
My mom always says that the whole idea is that
if you don't acknowledge them and then they are forgotten.
I mean, for me, I would be very creeped out
in a graveyard. I'm just wondering if her mentality is
similar to my mother's, where it's just as she wants
to honor people that she doesn't know.
Speaker 7 (07:45):
It was.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
If we weren't at a graveyard, it was just a
picnic in a park, but.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
It was on a grave. I just I thought it
was It was.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Super weird, and if I'm being honest, it.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
Was probably the worst situation could I've ever been in.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Okay, Well, Lego felt differently. She thought it was great.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
Oh I know, yeah, she she made that very clear.
It's like it felt like maybe she was.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
At one point I was like, is this is is
she wanting to leave me in the grade?
Speaker 7 (08:14):
And is there?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Okay? Yeah over here back behind the behind this building.
Smart Well, Gary Allegra is on the phone listening and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (08:26):
Oh yeah, that's right, that's right.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I forgot that.
Speaker 7 (08:30):
She that that's what you do. She's right there on
the phone.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Huh high Allegra, Gary, you're a buyer.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
You you loved it? So I I.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
Was uncomfortable when you kept saying do you do you
love it? Isn't this great? Don't you love it? And
I said yeah, like that you think that's how somebody
says yeah when they're excited about something.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Well, you could be a little more honest because I
didn't get the cue.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Wants a cheater, always a cheater. I don't know you're
gonna cheater?
Speaker 7 (09:05):
How did I what?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Yeah? You should feel guilty, like still to this day.
So yeah, you told me what are you talking about?
You told me that cheer flast relationship?
Speaker 7 (09:18):
Absolutely not. I don't mean what are you talk this?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I never said that plastic cheater mode. Honestly, I don't
even know who you are.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Gary.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
I wish I never met you.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Well, don't say that too quickly, Gary, Would you like
another date with a legro? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (09:37):
No, no, thank you?
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Yeah you, Gary, you will. First D follow up
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