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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Amira is on the phone today for our first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named THEO.
So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see
if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
her a second date. But first, Amera, how long has
it been since you heard from THEO?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been a week and a half.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
How did you guys leave it after the date?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Well, I thought we would see each other again for
sure because it was such an amazing date, But he
hasn't you know. I tried texting him after the date.
I didn't hear anything. I was like, oh, well, people
get busy, but I still haven't heard anything, so I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the date
and let's see if we can find some holes.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Okay, So we met up and we went to go
to this like really cute like honey tasting Sunset Skyline. Yeah,
it was a picnic, like a picnic with honey tasting,
and I know it was so cute and fun. And
(01:08):
he's also the reason, like he suggested it because he's
an urban bee keeper. Oh, I thought that was cool.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
So he's pretty hipstery then.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah, for sure, but also like rugged, he's outdoorsy, and
he's like, you know, a gentle poet type. He was
like quoting roomy while drizzling honey into my tea. It
was like very cute, it's amazing, and we met like
we met in person.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
We didn't meet online.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
We met it like a weekend pop up market. And anyway,
the dates super romantic, very like indie rom com vibes.
There was one point where like a bee landed on
my nose and I sneezed mid laugh and which like
sprayed honey across the blanket and onto the honeycomb, and
(02:04):
like he nervously laughed. So I thought, okay, maybe I'd
recovered this. But then I also knocked over a jar
of lavender honey onto his shoes. Oh, but that's the
only weird thing that happened. Everything else was great. We
had an amazing batcher of constant laughs, just great vibes.
That was the only like weird mishap.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
It's probably still trying to get honey off him, because
once you get honey like multiplies and gets sticky everywhere
it was.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
And then he sneezed on the honeycomb.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Well my sneeze like spray sprayed honey kind of like
on the blanket and all the honeycomb. So it was
just kind of a weird, like uncomfortableation moment for just
a moment. But that's the only thing I can think
of that like kind of went awry. Everything else was
really romantic and cute. But I'm thinking maybe he thought
I was like clumsy or unhygienic with my sneeze. I
(02:57):
don't know, it's the only thing I didn't think of that,
Like everything was so romantic and cute.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Well maybe if he's an urban beekeeper, he really like
honey is his thing, right, so maybe he did take
that a little bit seriously. I don't know, I would
hope not. Yeah, did you guys cares or anything?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Well we didn't. We didn't kiss, but like it was
a very like romantic intimate date. Like at the end,
like we cleaned up, we watched the skyline, we shared
like a very like spark filled moment, like it felt
like a movie ending, Like it was really romantic, and
it sort of felt like, oh, this is something we're
going to take our time with So that's kind of
why it felt like it didn't go to the physical route.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
He was more romantic, you know, yeah yeah about going
out again.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
It was sort of insinuated. It was like, you know,
we kind of left it as like, you know, love
to see you again, and and I just figured like
it would flow and continue to flow like I got.
When I didn't hear from him, I'm like, are we busy?
So always out and leave a little text. But then
now when I'm not hearing, I'm like, okay, this is
obviously there's a reason he's out messaging back. And I'm
(04:06):
just so confused because I just thought it went really great.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
All right, well, well play us on comeback and then
call him and see fatels why's ghosting you? And maybe
get you a second date? Okay, thank you, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up next. Right in
the middle of your first day follow up if you're
just joining us, Amira is on the phone and she's
getting ghosted by a guy named Theo. So in a
second we're going to call him and cifatelos why he's
(04:30):
ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Amira,
why don't you break down your situation for us again
real quick.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, I went on amazing date with this urban beekeeper,
rugged poet, outdoors men, really cute. We had an amazing date.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Everything was wonderful.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
The only thing I can think of on this cute, cute,
honey tasting date was that I did sneezed at one point,
like mid laugh, and I sprayed honey and kind of
got honey on his shoes. It was like a whole thing.
But aside from that, the date went so great. But
it's been complete silence.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him? Yes?
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Okay, here we go, Hello him, answering the THEO please, yes, hey, THEO.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
How are you? This is a radio show. It's called
The Jebel Show.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Hi THEO. I'm Nina.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Hi, I'm Victoria, and my name's Juble. What's up?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Hot? Hi?
Speaker 2 (05:36):
How's it going? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Once or twice?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Once or twice? Great? Well guess what?
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Oh this is the thing with the date and the thing.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yes, it is first day follow up. That's where if
you go out on a date with somebody and you
end up phosting them. That person can email us to
get you on the phone and ask K why you're
ghosting them? Do you know who would email us about you?
Speaker 5 (06:03):
H O, man, Okay, this is awkward.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Uh ah.
Speaker 5 (06:09):
This is girl a me Era that I went on
a date with recently.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Yes, that's who emailed us, and she says she really
liked your dat I thought you guys really hit it off,
but doesn't know why you're ghosting or would you mind
telling us?
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I mean, look, look, she was like a great person
on it feel like the date went well, but like
I don't know, like she she talked a lot about
her job and she like she says she works like
seventy hours a week and she checks her emails a lot,
like at midnight, like pretty much like twenty four to seven,
and like, I don't know, it just it felt like
she was just like really really into her job.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
And is that a bad thing?
Speaker 6 (06:44):
I mean, you know, I just I dated a girl
that was like that, and it's just like I wasn't
into it, Like it just wasn't my thing, and like
nothing against her, it's just you know, I prefer not
to deal with that.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
So did that girl that you saw before just not
have enough time for you or was it just the
email is bothering you?
Speaker 5 (07:02):
Well, it was kind of everything, like a culmination of
everything between the emails.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Like it was like she always.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Had her phone on her and it was like blue
shirts like pocket and she was always checking it and
she always had little reminders and stuff. I was like
really really obsessive and like the whole thing, and like,
I don't know, I just felt like that whole thing
really interfered with like me getting to just connect with her,
because it was always like the job was always first,
and I was like second.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
It's basically just because she works a lot.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
I no, And look, I just would prefer someone to
give me their undivided attention, like I get works important
and all and like whatever, it puts food on the
table and all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Blah blah blah.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Yeah, but you know, just turn off your phone. You're
on a date, Like just the person in front of
you should be the most important thing, not the phone.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Okay, so you're all about being in the moment.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah, okay, all right, well thank you for telling us.
Now I'll let you know that Amira is on the
phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Okay, by hi, Seriously, work ethic is the Neil breaker here.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
I mean, you heard all the stuff I said. I
mean I think I made a pretty good case, you know,
like I'm just saying.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I mean, I do.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
I love what I do.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
It's a passion, but it's not a prison. Like I'm single,
I have the time and the things get serious. I
can build in boundaries like I can schedule date nights
and vacations and more spontaneous rooftop b parties whatever. Like
I run my life off right now. I'm single, though,
so I run it in a particular way.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I mean that's a good point. You can't give somebody
their your undivided attention until they earn it.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
I mean that that's fair. But you know, it's kind
of more like a boss with like a Google calendar
and like a bodyguard and like you know, like set
appointments and you.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Know, I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
And then you show me your schedule. That's a really
packed schedule, and I don't know how you fit so
many things in one day.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
You're just scared of a woman with ambition, scared.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
No, no, no, it's like no, it's like it's like
cautiously allergic, like I need to take a certain tech
and then like I'm good.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
What I'm not just ambitious. I'm hot and I'm not broke.
That's basically the dating jackpot, Like I don't understand what's
wrong with this.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Okay, I'm not broke.
Speaker 5 (09:26):
Uh all right?
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Facts?
Speaker 5 (09:28):
All right? So super hot, you know, not broke. You know,
I'm just a dude that's like really in touch with
nature and I don't have a I don't I'm not
on my phone all the time. I don't really rely
on technology. It's just me and trees and bees and honey.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
And that's kind of it.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Yeah, but don't you think that opposite a track like
I am not going to be on my phone twenty
four to seven when we're on dates together, like working
for me. But I can make time for my person
if i'm dating someone.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
But it's like, I don't know, you're to introduce your
urban beatkeeper boyfriend to all your corporate like dudes at
your event, like, oh, here's my boyfriend. He takes care
of bees, Like I don't know. That just doesn't really
go together.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I think that's crazy. I think it's really interesting what
you do. I don't know anyone else who does that.
I think other people would be interested and have questions too.
It's not like you're doing something like OnlyFans or something.
You're doing an interesting job.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
Yeah, I mean it's kind of weird.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
You know.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
It's like I don't know, I'd be keeping. It would
be like a novelty to you, and I'd be like, oh,
how cute he takes care of pees, he's a beat
keeper all Like, I don't know, Like that's I don't
know how I feel about that. That makes me really uncomfortable.
And uh, and I don't know a lot of suits
and ties, so that would also be a problem.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
And you know, like you're making up this whole story
that doesn't even exist.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
I mean, like no, no, I know, look, I okay,
maybe I'm like over anticipating this, but I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
I just well, deal, would you like another date with
a Marria? Will pay for it? You know, yeah, sure
we will.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Okay? I guess I like overreacted.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
But can we just do this again? Can we just
like press the reach out button and like do this again?
Speaker 3 (11:13):
Yeah, I mean I'm open to that. I just don't
want you projecting other things on me, like I never
told you you have to wear her suit. I never
like you know, I'm not gonna. I think you're just
projecting from past experiences onto me, and I just hope
you like look at you with fresh eyes when we've
on this second date. Let's just like see where it goes, so.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Fee'll be proud of yourself. Man, urban beekeepers are dope.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
I appreciate that. I wish more people would think that.
But great, Mary, you got another date. Congratulations, thank you
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