January 13, 2025 • 12 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Melissa is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Austin.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Melissa, how long
has it been since you heard from Austin.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
So did you try to reach out to him?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I have, Yeah, I mean I just kind of distinct
him for a wonderfull time and I would love to
do it again soon. And I hadn't heard of anything,
but I thought, you know, our date was really solid,
so I'm I'm really surprised.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Sure, why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Sure? Okay, Well we met on bumble. You know, I
was instantly attracted to him, just to set you up,
you know, just to know the backstory a little bit
before the date, Like, you know, we had talked for
a couple of weeks and you know, we had some
really great phone conversations, so like then take a pation
(01:06):
to meet in person was like super high. We met
at an indoor mini golf arcade place and we like
kissed right away. It was it felt like we were magnets.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Okay, that's hot.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, and I really haven't felt like something like this before.
It starts for flying. The date was just super hot
and exciting, so yeah, I didn't want the night to end.
And we went back to Austin. We started talking about
life flowers staring at the sky from the falcony and
(01:47):
we hooked up.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
So yeah, like the chemistry was just crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
When you kissed right away, describe like what what happened there.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
So, since we were talking for a couple of weeks
and it was building up, I already felt really familiar,
like I've known him. So when I saw him waiting
for me at the front, I just like instantly like
ran up to him and he like scooped me up,
and it was like out of a movie.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Like oh wow, okay, sounds like yeah, it was.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Like that dirty dancing scene, you know, like were you
you know, and it just felt so spontaneous and we
just instantly felt super comfortable.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
It was really sweet. So anyway, I left in the morning,
and you know, I told him verbally like I can't
wait to see him again, and you know, I joked that,
you know, he better call me and he said, of course,
and that was it. And I'm so confused.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Did anything happen like that would have made him not
call you back?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I mean, the only thing that I can think about
was like, I do have a kid, and I wasn't
completely upfront with him, but like I needed to know
like that something was really there, that it really was
real and human being met like I knew that it was.
It's just like a hard thing to slip in when
(03:22):
you're on an amusing leet. But as I was leaving,
I told him I I need to get home.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
To my kid, and okay, and that's.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yes, yeah, And I kept it light. I didn't like
really want to get into it, just because I really
was in a rush. But I felt like maybe he
was like processing that news as I was leaving. I
don't know, he seemed like he internalized it, but it
seemed like we you know, I did say, let's talk
about it next time, and it seemed like that was
(03:57):
definitely a conversation like I'm open to have being NFL
Like he's someone that would also be open having that conversation.
That's just why I'm just surprised, because he seems like
a really open person.
Speaker 5 (04:09):
Well, you could be processing though, because you know, if
real feelings are starting to develop at that point, then
you really have to ask yourself, like, Okay, you know
what role am I going to play with somebody that
has a child?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
Like?
Speaker 4 (04:19):
How does that work? We'll see.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call him
and seefa tell us why he's ghosting, maybe get you
another date?
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Okay, okay, all right, that sounds good.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
All right, we'll play a song come back. Get your
first date follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Right in the middle of your first Date follow up
if you're just joining us, Melissa is on the phone
and Melissa is getting ghosted by Austin. So we're about
to call him and see if he'll tell us why
he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Melissa,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah? So I met this incredible guy off of bumb
We talked for a couple of weeks. We went on
this like mind blowing date we hooked up. The chemistry
was off the charts, and lo and behold, I flippen
when I'm walking out the door, I tould get home
to my kid, and I feel like I sleeked him
(05:16):
out and I haven't heard from him since, and it's
been a week.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Because that was the first time that you told him
that you had a kid, was when you were leaving.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Yes, but I do feel like we, you know, coming
in hot with our chemistry. I just felt like it
wasn't ever the right time to really unpass that. But
I feel like that's what a second seat would before.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Okay, well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Please, Okay, here we go. I man speak to Austin. Please, Austin.
What's up?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Man?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
This is Jewbil. I'm calling from a radio show. It's
called the Jewbil Show. Kay, Austin. I'm Nena also on
this I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
That's overwhelming.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
How are you good?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Good?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
So I'm on the call with three people here.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Have you ever listened to the Jubil Show before?
Speaker 6 (06:12):
I believe so. Well.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
We do a segment on the show it's called the
First Aid follow Up. That's where if you go out
on a day with somebody and then you end up
ghosting them, that person can ask us to email you
and ask why you're ghosting. And we got an email
about you, Austin, you have any idea who it would be?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
If I feel like you do.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
I feel like it's probably Melissa.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
You are correct, sir, So you're intentionally ghosting her.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
I don't know if I would use the word ghosting.
I kind of yeah. I did put some space there
and then call her.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Do you mind telling us why she wants to know? Oh?
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Man, it's kind of complex. I feel like when people
want to get together that they should have a clean
space for each other.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Please space?
Speaker 6 (06:56):
So she's she's got a whole situation going on with her. Really,
I don't know if she's if she lives with her
she has, if she had a kid. I always say
this without putting any story in.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
So we we stay stayed together at my place, and
it was like in the morning, I'm half asleep because
we you know, we have some drinks. We had a
good time, and her phone's going off but constantly, and
I'm and I'm like, is that my phone? No? No, no, Oh,
it's hers, okay, and you know, she's texting and doing whatever,
and then she picks up the phone. She thinks I'm asleep,
(07:28):
I'm sure, and she's like whispering, but she's like she
sounds really tense, like someone's barking at her on the phone,
and I hear her saying like, oh, no, no, no, I
have too much to drink, so I'm staying at her
friend's house.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
I'll be home soon.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
And I was like, like what, And then before she
hangs up, I could hear it be like you two,
which to me was like somebody just said I love you, right,
And so I'm standing there like like what up.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
I don't know if I can come.
Speaker 7 (07:54):
From the radio, but like, you know, waiting for her
to maybe tell me something. And then she chance to
get home to her kid, which, okay, you have a kid.
I don't know why you're telling me now, and you
can tell me earlier, but I mean, it's not going
to make me ghost you.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
But I'm waiting there for.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
Her to explain further. But then she just leaves, and
I'm like, is she's going home to my husband and
I a baby daddy?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (08:19):
She said something about a baby daddy, like I'm oh,
I'm so sorry my baby daddy were waking you up
or whatever. She kind of briefed it out like it
meant nothing, and I'm like, you're telling me that you're
answering the phone from your baby daddy. Clearly you're going
home to him, and that's a whole situation.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Though.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
No, the conversation that.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
She was happy, I couldn't make out exactly what she
was saying, but clearly there's this guy who's borderline yelling
at her and she's like, no, I'm sorry, I don't know.
I just got drunk. I'm staying at her friend's. I'll
be home soon. I heard her say i'll be home soon.
That's really messy.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
And I had a.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
Great time with her, and it was a very passionate
date and we really hit it off. Shockad, Wow, so
you're getting involved with me. It's so intense, but you
have a whole situation here.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Well, thanks for telling us. I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
And now I'll let you know that she's actually on
the phone listening and wants to stop to you.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Hi, Austin, Yeah, happy to hear it. Yeah, I mean,
this was my idea to have you on the radio,
so I wanted to hear your side of the story.
All I can say is that, yes, my child's father.
You know, he is still in love with me, and
(09:33):
I just felt like it's best right now to keep
him happy while you know, we have our son, so
I play along, but we are definitely not together.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
So he thinks you're together.
Speaker 6 (09:49):
Yeah, but for our.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Kids, you know, because we want to have a family
unit for him, and it's not fair to a kid
just because we didn't work out that we have a
divided family, that.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
You're with him. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Yeah, Well, like I said, like it's for our kid
right now, it's a temporary situation until it changes.
Speaker 6 (10:17):
Well listen, listen.
Speaker 7 (10:19):
Obviously, we had a great time and we connect at
a very deep level physically, We're drawn to each other,
like I can't even explain it with words. It's very
noble that you put your child first, but at the
end of the day, you basically have a boyfriend. He
thinks that all he has to do is work harder
to get you if he's not all the way there.
(10:40):
It is just so dramatic.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
It's like, like, for what it's worth, he knows.
Speaker 7 (10:46):
That that's what you say. That's what you say, And
with all due respect, men don't.
Speaker 6 (10:52):
See it like that.
Speaker 7 (10:53):
They see it as you're just adjusting and he's going
to eventually get you.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
And at the end of the day, you know, I know.
Speaker 7 (11:00):
You say you're playing along, but obviously he said I
love you and you said you too.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
So no matter what you yeah, I do the person I'm.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Lovely, So that's going to be an awkward thing to hear. Anyway,
you're laying next to somebody else.
Speaker 7 (11:14):
I think if you clean up your situation, it takes
a little bit of growing and you make final what
the relationship is with him, Like if you're not with him,
he has to know that, and he can't think there's
a chance and hit me up sometimes. But Melissa, let
me ask you, what do you do you sleep in
the same bed.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
With him, Melissa, I'm not gonna lie to you. Yes,
but it's for our kids.
Speaker 7 (11:38):
Okay, So you have no business even talking to me.
And that sucks to say because I had a great
time with you, but you have nobody too.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I just know that I won't find chemistry like we
have ever again. And I hate to see that guy
and I feel like, I you know how to shoot
my shot? I guess you know. So you know I tried.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Well, Austin, would you like to go out with and
Melissa again? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (12:04):
I can't do that right now. I mean, in a year,
if things change, call me back up, give us a
free date.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
But right now I respect that, and you know, I'll
clean up my situation and I hope you don't meet
someone else, and I'll call you however long it takes.
You know, I'll circle back.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
Good luck, guys, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Melissa is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Austin.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Melissa, how long
has it been since you heard from Austin.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
So did you try to reach out to him?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I have, Yeah, I mean I just kind of distinct
him for a wonderfull time and I would love to
do it again soon. And I hadn't heard of anything,
but I thought, you know, our date was really solid,
so I'm I'm really surprised.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Sure, why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Sure? Okay, Well we met on bumble. You know, I
was instantly attracted to him, just to set you up,
you know, just to know the backstory a little bit
before the date, Like, you know, we had talked for
a couple of weeks and you know, we had some
really great phone conversations, so like then take a pation
(01:06):
to meet in person was like super high. We met
at an indoor mini golf arcade place and we like
kissed right away. It was it felt like we were magnets.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Okay, that's hot.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, and I really haven't felt like something like this before.
It starts for flying. The date was just super hot
and exciting, so yeah, I didn't want the night to end.
And we went back to Austin. We started talking about
life flowers staring at the sky from the falcony and
(01:47):
we hooked up.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
So yeah, like the chemistry was just crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
When you kissed right away, describe like what what happened there.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
So, since we were talking for a couple of weeks
and it was building up, I already felt really familiar,
like I've known him. So when I saw him waiting
for me at the front, I just like instantly like
ran up to him and he like scooped me up,
and it was like out of a movie.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Like oh wow, okay, sounds like yeah, it was.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Like that dirty dancing scene, you know, like were you
you know, and it just felt so spontaneous and we
just instantly felt super comfortable.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
It was really sweet. So anyway, I left in the morning,
and you know, I told him verbally like I can't
wait to see him again, and you know, I joked that,
you know, he better call me and he said, of course,
and that was it. And I'm so confused.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Did anything happen like that would have made him not
call you back?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I mean, the only thing that I can think about
was like, I do have a kid, and I wasn't
completely upfront with him, but like I needed to know
like that something was really there, that it really was
real and human being met like I knew that it was.
It's just like a hard thing to slip in when
(03:22):
you're on an amusing leet. But as I was leaving,
I told him I I need to get home.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
To my kid, and okay, and that's.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Yes, yeah, And I kept it light. I didn't like
really want to get into it, just because I really
was in a rush. But I felt like maybe he
was like processing that news as I was leaving. I
don't know, he seemed like he internalized it, but it
seemed like we you know, I did say, let's talk
about it next time, and it seemed like that was
(03:57):
definitely a conversation like I'm open to have being NFL
Like he's someone that would also be open having that conversation.
That's just why I'm just surprised, because he seems like
a really open person.
Speaker 5 (04:09):
Well, you could be processing though, because you know, if
real feelings are starting to develop at that point, then
you really have to ask yourself, like, Okay, you know
what role am I going to play with somebody that
has a child?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
Like?
Speaker 4 (04:19):
How does that work? We'll see.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call him
and seefa tell us why he's ghosting, maybe get you
another date?
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Okay, okay, all right, that sounds good.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
All right, we'll play a song come back. Get your
first date follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Right in the middle of your first Date follow up
if you're just joining us, Melissa is on the phone
and Melissa is getting ghosted by Austin. So we're about
to call him and see if he'll tell us why
he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Melissa,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah? So I met this incredible guy off of bumb
We talked for a couple of weeks. We went on
this like mind blowing date we hooked up. The chemistry
was off the charts, and lo and behold, I flippen
when I'm walking out the door, I tould get home
to my kid, and I feel like I sleeked him
(05:16):
out and I haven't heard from him since, and it's
been a week.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
Because that was the first time that you told him
that you had a kid, was when you were leaving.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Yes, but I do feel like we, you know, coming
in hot with our chemistry. I just felt like it
wasn't ever the right time to really unpass that. But
I feel like that's what a second seat would before.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Okay, well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Please, Okay, here we go. I man speak to Austin. Please, Austin.
What's up?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Man?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
This is Jewbil. I'm calling from a radio show. It's
called the Jewbil Show. Kay, Austin. I'm Nena also on
this I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
That's overwhelming.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
How are you good?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Good?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
So I'm on the call with three people here.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Have you ever listened to the Jubil Show before?
Speaker 6 (06:12):
I believe so. Well.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
We do a segment on the show it's called the
First Aid follow Up. That's where if you go out
on a day with somebody and then you end up
ghosting them, that person can ask us to email you
and ask why you're ghosting. And we got an email
about you, Austin, you have any idea who it would be?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
If I feel like you do.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
I feel like it's probably Melissa.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
You are correct, sir, So you're intentionally ghosting her.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
I don't know if I would use the word ghosting.
I kind of yeah. I did put some space there
and then call her.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Do you mind telling us why she wants to know? Oh?
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Man, it's kind of complex. I feel like when people
want to get together that they should have a clean
space for each other.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Please space?
Speaker 6 (06:56):
So she's she's got a whole situation going on with her. Really,
I don't know if she's if she lives with her
she has, if she had a kid. I always say
this without putting any story in.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
So we we stay stayed together at my place, and
it was like in the morning, I'm half asleep because
we you know, we have some drinks. We had a
good time, and her phone's going off but constantly, and
I'm and I'm like, is that my phone? No? No, no, Oh,
it's hers, okay, and you know, she's texting and doing whatever,
and then she picks up the phone. She thinks I'm asleep,
(07:28):
I'm sure, and she's like whispering, but she's like she
sounds really tense, like someone's barking at her on the phone,
and I hear her saying like, oh, no, no, no, I
have too much to drink, so I'm staying at her
friend's house.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
I'll be home soon.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
And I was like, like what, And then before she
hangs up, I could hear it be like you two,
which to me was like somebody just said I love you, right,
And so I'm standing there like like what up.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
I don't know if I can come.
Speaker 7 (07:54):
From the radio, but like, you know, waiting for her
to maybe tell me something. And then she chance to
get home to her kid, which, okay, you have a kid.
I don't know why you're telling me now, and you
can tell me earlier, but I mean, it's not going
to make me ghost you.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
But I'm waiting there for.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
Her to explain further. But then she just leaves, and
I'm like, is she's going home to my husband and
I a baby daddy?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (08:19):
She said something about a baby daddy, like I'm oh,
I'm so sorry my baby daddy were waking you up
or whatever. She kind of briefed it out like it
meant nothing, and I'm like, you're telling me that you're
answering the phone from your baby daddy. Clearly you're going
home to him, and that's a whole situation.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Though.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
No, the conversation that.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
She was happy, I couldn't make out exactly what she
was saying, but clearly there's this guy who's borderline yelling
at her and she's like, no, I'm sorry, I don't know.
I just got drunk. I'm staying at her friend's. I'll
be home soon. I heard her say i'll be home soon.
That's really messy.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
And I had a.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
Great time with her, and it was a very passionate
date and we really hit it off. Shockad, Wow, so
you're getting involved with me. It's so intense, but you
have a whole situation here.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Well, thanks for telling us. I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
And now I'll let you know that she's actually on
the phone listening and wants to stop to you.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Hi, Austin, Yeah, happy to hear it. Yeah, I mean,
this was my idea to have you on the radio,
so I wanted to hear your side of the story.
All I can say is that, yes, my child's father.
You know, he is still in love with me, and
(09:33):
I just felt like it's best right now to keep
him happy while you know, we have our son, so
I play along, but we are definitely not together.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
So he thinks you're together.
Speaker 6 (09:49):
Yeah, but for our.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Kids, you know, because we want to have a family
unit for him, and it's not fair to a kid
just because we didn't work out that we have a
divided family, that.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
You're with him. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Yeah, Well, like I said, like it's for our kid
right now, it's a temporary situation until it changes.
Speaker 6 (10:17):
Well listen, listen.
Speaker 7 (10:19):
Obviously, we had a great time and we connect at
a very deep level physically, We're drawn to each other,
like I can't even explain it with words. It's very
noble that you put your child first, but at the
end of the day, you basically have a boyfriend. He
thinks that all he has to do is work harder
to get you if he's not all the way there.
(10:40):
It is just so dramatic.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
It's like, like, for what it's worth, he knows.
Speaker 7 (10:46):
That that's what you say. That's what you say, And
with all due respect, men don't.
Speaker 6 (10:52):
See it like that.
Speaker 7 (10:53):
They see it as you're just adjusting and he's going
to eventually get you.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
And at the end of the day, you know, I know.
Speaker 7 (11:00):
You say you're playing along, but obviously he said I
love you and you said you too.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
So no matter what you yeah, I do the person I'm.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Lovely, So that's going to be an awkward thing to hear. Anyway,
you're laying next to somebody else.
Speaker 7 (11:14):
I think if you clean up your situation, it takes
a little bit of growing and you make final what
the relationship is with him, Like if you're not with him,
he has to know that, and he can't think there's
a chance and hit me up sometimes. But Melissa, let
me ask you, what do you do you sleep in
the same bed.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
With him, Melissa, I'm not gonna lie to you. Yes,
but it's for our kids.
Speaker 7 (11:38):
Okay, So you have no business even talking to me.
And that sucks to say because I had a great
time with you, but you have nobody too.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I just know that I won't find chemistry like we
have ever again. And I hate to see that guy
and I feel like, I you know how to shoot
my shot? I guess you know. So you know I tried.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Well, Austin, would you like to go out with and
Melissa again? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (12:04):
I can't do that right now. I mean, in a year,
if things change, call me back up, give us a
free date.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
But right now I respect that, and you know, I'll
clean up my situation and I hope you don't meet
someone else, and I'll call you however long it takes.
You know, I'll circle back.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
Good luck, guys, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
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