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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Craig is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Bailey. So in
a few minutes, we're gonna call her and see if
she tells us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Craig, what's up. How long
has it been since you heard from Bailey.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Okay, seems like the sweet spot, you know, in that week.
Did you try to reach out to her at all?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I have.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I don't know what's going on. Was happening.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I thought it went really well, so I'm not sure
why she's not getting back to me.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Okay, what'd y'all do?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
We went to We went to this restaurant on the water,
I would says EPU played nice. Yeah, they have like
great appetizers and stuff, and then we talked a lot.
And I mean she did bring teart cards to.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
The date, like to do a reading.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Yeah, but she really didn't know how to how to
use them, so it was kind of like fun and shoot,
it was I don't like a like an ice picker
type deal. And yeah, we were both like making up
stories about what our future would be like, and it
was cool. We kind of we kind of just like
you know, talked about how much kid we wanted and
grew up on a farm and it was fun. It
(01:15):
was like we will she was saying, was saying something
similar as well, and yeah, then it was going everything
was going great. And we walked, I walked into her
car and we kind of, you know, we made out
of the parking lot and we did for a while
and it was great.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
And then I don't know, and I want to get it,
you know, to hold her. She's like really really fun.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
She's like really fun, spontaneous type person, which I'm really
like looking for right now. And I really liked the
excitement she brings.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Did anything happen on the date that was awkward at all?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah, a little bit, because.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Afterwards I realized, I actually, I'm kind of embarrassed by
actually because when I got home, I realized, like I
spilled olive oil on my my my pants, like my
my from the bread from like my my crotch area.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Okay, And I didn't notice.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
At all until I until I got home so the
only thing I'm thinking of.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I'm afraid that she thought, like, you.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
Know, I peed myself or like something worse from the makeout.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I got too excited. Oh so was this a book?
Speaker 1 (02:26):
So it's a big oil scene that was on your pants?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Yeah, it's because I dropped bread on me and the
breads had a lot of oil on it.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah, and I.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Didn't I didn't even know. I would have talked, I
would have mentioned I didn't even know. So that's the
only thing I think why she would not be might
be not be calling me.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Back, especially if it's in a certain area. I mean, yeah,
and I tried, like on her next day. She didn't answer. Yeah,
I don't know if it's a pants or something else.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
I don't know. I don't I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Then you said you've texted her. What did you say?
Speaker 4 (02:59):
I was just like, hey, I have to go, and
I had fun, but to love to do that again,
like you a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, you can't really explain over text. I feel like
if I got a message like a guy trying to
explain what that was, I don't know how i'd react. Well,
especially if she didn't see it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Maybe she did. I didn't want to like take a
picture of my pants, like, hey, about this weird?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
All right? Well, yeah, that would be worse. Craig, Hey,
we want to talk to you about this. What is this?
All right? Well, we'll play a song come Back, and
then call her see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, great,
all right, we'll play a song come back, get your
first day follow up next. Right in the middle of
your first date follow up and if you're just joining us,
(03:40):
Craig is on the phone and we're about to call Bailey,
a girl that he went out with who's now ghosting him,
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Craig,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Yeah, I went up this girl, Bailey. We had a
lot of fun with.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
A seafood plays we uh, you know, play.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Tear cards, left the round, joked around me out a
little bit. I think going well.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
I think everything went well until I got home and
I realized I had some oil from the bread and
I spilled on my pants and just sitting in my
crotch area and doesn't look uh, doesn't look great. So
and I in a call texted I haven't heard back,
so I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
She's kind of good. She's ghosting.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I'm laughing best.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
I mean, come on, yeah, I mean it is even
if she is ghosting you because of that, it's still
pretty funny.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I know it is. All right, you're ready for us
to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Sure, okay, here we go.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Hi, I'm I speak to Bailey. Please, Hi, Bailey, how
are you? My name is Jewbel and this is a
radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, the whole
show's here. I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Hi.
Speaker 6 (04:59):
I'm good.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Uh.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
Hi, guy, I think for calling?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I guess yeah. Have you listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (05:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Cool. So we're calling because this is a first day
follow up where if you go on a date with
somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can get
they can have us get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them. And you're currently ghosting somebody?
Speaker 6 (05:19):
Okay, maybe do you have.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Any idea who would email us?
Speaker 6 (05:24):
Oh? You know casually. You know, I have met some people,
so I'm not exactly sure.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Okay, Bailey's busy, so it could be a number of people.
You want to throw out a name.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Okay, let excuse me. Is it Craig?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yes, congratulations, he did something. You got that right. It's Craig.
He emailed us and told us about your date. And
he says that you haven't talked to him for a
week and he's wondering if you'll tell us why.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
I mean, it.
Speaker 7 (05:53):
Actually might kind of sounds super stupid, but yeah, I
guess I have been avoiding him.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
So I didn't like his shoes.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Well, it's wrong with his shoes.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
She was wearing these like these like half sneaker kind
of like half hiking boot kind of shoe. Huh, you know,
are dates and and he just felt a little too
like you know, crunchy.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
Granola for me. Okay, you know there's like that type
of granola. Guys, I don't know. That shouldn't be a
big deal.
Speaker 7 (06:25):
I know that sounds probably a lot of people think
that sounds super stupid, but for me, at.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
This point in my life, like it just seems like
that's his vibe.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
And I'm like way too tired and like getting older,
like to try to change a man and like make
a man fit into like the kind of style of
life that I would live, and to change how he
acts or how he dresses. So yeah, I just feel
like I'm past that teaching stage of my life and
I just want to find a man who is like
an already trained ready to be like the way that
(06:55):
I like him.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
So you don't want to have to train a dude
to get into that.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Yeah, Like, let's be real, we all know we train
our men. I mean, come on, like, you know, the
direstic like women kind of you know, we train our
dude to be in the way that we.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
Like our dudes.
Speaker 7 (07:10):
And it just seemed like I'd have to work too
hard to try to change him. And I shouldn't want
to have to change somebody from who they are.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
You shouldn't. Yeah, you're right there, you shouldn't want to
do that.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I mean, I get wanting to influence somebody, Like if
you really like somebody and you really hate their shoes,
I mean, there's definitely a way to be like babe,
you know, you look really cute and.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
I know, and that seems simple, but it just seems
like the way I lie.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
I know, I guess I just felt like I was like, oh,
this is going to take like months years of like
trying to like.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
Maybe make you be the dude that I'm usually into,
but this is not your style.
Speaker 7 (07:41):
So at this point I was just like, eh, you
know what, forget it, Like he is actually super hot.
Speaker 6 (07:47):
I had a great time with him. I just yeah.
After that, I was just like, this isn't going to
go past the first date.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Did you know that Craig is on the phone listening
and wants to talk to you?
Speaker 6 (07:56):
Uh? No, is a lot high.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Hell, I'm good.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
I'm sorry that you had to hear all that. It's
nothing personal.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
I think it's kind of shallow to be honest, especially
like over shoes, Like I have other pairs of shoes.
I mean, yeah, I mean I think it's I don't
know how you judge someone based off one apparent one day,
but I guess that's your thing.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
It's kind of what you do. So well.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
I mean, I'm and I'm pologize if you were like confused.
I mean, I know we had like an awesome kiss
at the end of the night and that was great.
It's just like to me, of course they made out,
you know, like I had to laughs a startin a
and you were there, you know, like make ups are
just like innocent and fun. Like I think maybe by
us kissing, you probably thought it would be more serious
(08:48):
after that. Like I don't know, it didn't have to
mean anything, Like I just thought it was a one
great date and that was a great time.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
But that way, just like believe it is that okay,
I mean that's that's why. I mean, I guess you
had a lot of past trauma about training guys or
whatever that what that means. But there was just a
pair of shoes, So I mean, it's fine, it's cool,
no worries. I hope you uh you know, bring a
pair of shoes to your next date. Do you want
(09:16):
the guy to wear so you feel more comfortable?
Speaker 7 (09:20):
Yeah, I mean I wouldn't really need to bring the shoes.
I was obviously looking for a man who just like
knows how to dress on a date, is what I
got to mean, Like, I mean, you do you I'm
sure you have plenty of other grat shoes then, like
why was that like this choice to represent who.
Speaker 6 (09:35):
You are on date one?
Speaker 7 (09:37):
So I wouldn't say this is all on me, just
like I don't think it has anything to do with trauma.
Speaker 6 (09:41):
It's just call I don't want to waste my time
on someone you like. He isn't really putting the thought
in on a date.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
I mean, I think a lot of girls like what
I wear. I mean I didn't like your I don't
like your makeup. It was a little spy.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
But I wasn't trying to end the entire relationship because
you couldn't. You don't know how to put on makeup.
I guess that's your thing, so you know, I just
though you had a bad makeup day.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
I will see you how well you didn't the next time.
But I guess we're not doing that themselves.
Speaker 7 (10:07):
No, and like you said, you'll find you said there's
plenty of girls who like your shoes, so definitely go
find one of them and you'll have a second date.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Are we sure about that? Bailey? Would you like another
day with Craig? Will pay for it?
Speaker 6 (10:19):
No, I'm good.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
I you know, I like somebody who really wants to
bring it and wants to respect me on the date.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
I'll pass.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
No, I'm good as well.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
I'd rather not go on a second date someone who's
empty and shallo has trauma over shoes and shirts, and
the very questionable makeup choices
Speaker 6 (10:38):
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