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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Craig is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Bailey. So in
a few minutes, we're gonna call her and see if
she tells us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Craig, what's up. How long
has it been since you heard from Bailey.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Okay, seems like the sweet spot, you know, in that week.
Did you try to reach out to her at all?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I have.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
I don't know, I don't know what's going on was happening.
I thought it went really well, so I'm not sure
why she's not getting back to me.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Okay, what'd y'all do?
Speaker 4 (00:38):
We went to We went to this restaurant, the Water
I would say, placed nice.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
Yeah, they have like great appetizers and stuff.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
And then we talked a lot, and I mean she
did bring care cards to.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
The date, like to do a reading.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Yeah, but she really didn't know how to how to
use them. So it was kind of like fun.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
And shoot, it was kind of like a like an icepicker.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Type deal, and yeah, we were both like making up
stories about what our future will be like.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
And it was cool.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
We kind of we kind of just like you know,
talked about how much give me we wanted and grew
up with a farm.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
It was fun.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
It was like we will she was saying, was saying
something similar.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
As well, and yeah, then it was going everything was
going great, and we walked I walked into her car
and we kind of, you know, we made out of
the parking lot and we did for a while and
it was great. And then I don't know, and I
want to get to, you know, to hold her. She's
like really really fun. She's like really fun, spontaneous type person,
(01:39):
which I'm really like looking for right now. And I
really liked the excitement she brings.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Did anything happen on the date that was awkward at all?
Speaker 5 (01:49):
Yeah, a little bit, because thing afterwards I.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Realized, I actually I'm kind of embarrassed by actually because
when I got home, I realized, like I spilled olive
oil on my my my pants, like my my from
the bread from like my my crotch area. Okay, and
I didn't notice at all until I until I got home.
So the only thing I'm thinking of I'm afraid that
she thought, like, you know, I peed myself or like
(02:20):
something worse from the makeout, I got too excited.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh was this a book? So it's a big oil
scene that was on your pants?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Yeah, it's because I dropped bread on me and the
bread had a lot of oil on it.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Yeah, and I didn't.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
I didn't even know. I would have talked, I would
have mentioned it. I didn't even know. So that's the
only thing I think why she would.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Not be might be not be calling it back, especially
if it's in a certain area.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
I mean, yeah, and I tried, like on her next day.
She didn't answer. Yeah, I don't know if it's a
pants or for something else.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
And you said you've texted her. What did you say?
Speaker 5 (02:59):
I was just like, hey, Hey, how'd it going? I
had fun?
Speaker 4 (03:02):
But like love to again, like you a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, you can't really explain over text. I feel like
if I got a message like a guy trying to explain.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
What that was, I don't know how i'd react, well,
especially if she didn't see it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Maybe she did.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
I didn't want to like take a picture of my pants, like, hey,
about this weird?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
All right? Well, yeah, that would be worse, Cigy, We
want to talk to you about this. What is this?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
All right?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call her
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and
maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, great, all right,
we'll play a song come back, get your first date,
follow up next. Right in the middle of your first
date follow up, And if you're just joining us, Craig
is on the phone and we're about to call Bailey,
a girl that he went out with who's now ghosting him,
(03:49):
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Craig,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Yeah, I went up this girl, Bailey. We had a
lot of fun to seafood plays. We uh you know,
played tear cards, left around, joked around.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Me out a little bit.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
I think it going well. I think everything went well
until I got home and I realized I had some
oil from the bread and I spilled on my pants
and in my crotch area, and it didn't look uh,
doesn't look great.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
So and I can call texted.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I haven't heard back, so I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
She's kind of go she's ghosting.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I'm so sorry, I'm laughing the host. I mean, come on, yeah,
I mean it is even if she is ghosting you.
Because of that, it's still pretty funny.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I know it is. All right, you're ready for us
to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Sure, yeah, okay, here we go.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Hi'm aspeak to Bailey. Please. Yeah, Hi, Bailey, how are you.
My name is Jewbel and this is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, the whole show here.
I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Oh Hi, I'm good. Uh, hi guy, thanks for calling.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I guess yeah. Have you listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Cool. So we're calling because this is a first day
follow up where if you go on a date with
somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can get
they can have us get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them? And you're currently ghosting somebody? Okay,
maybe do you have any idea who would email us?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (05:28):
You know, I casually, you know, I have met some people,
so I'm not exactly sure.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Okay, Bailey's busy, so it could be a number of people.
You want to throw out a name.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Okay, excuse me.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Is it Craig, Yes, congratulations, you did something. You got
that right, it's Craig. He emailed us and told us
about your date. And he says that you haven't talked
to him for a week, and he's wondering if you'll
tell us why.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
I mean, it.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
Actually might kind of sounds super stupid, but yeah, I
guess I have been avoiding him.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
So I didn't like his shoes.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Well, it's wrong with his shoes.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
She was wearing these like these like half sneaker kind
of like half hiking boot kind of shoe, you know,
are dates and and he just felt a little too
like you know, crunchy granola for me.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Okay, you know there's like that type the granola. Guys.
Speaker 6 (06:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
That shouldn't be a big deal.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
I know that sounds probably a lot of people think
that sounds super stupid, But for me, at this point
in my life, like it just seems like that's his vibe.
And I'm like way too tired and like getting older,
like to try to change a man and like make
a man fit into like the kind of style of
life that I would live and to change how he
acts or how he dresses.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
So yeah, I just feel like I'm past that teaching.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Stage of my life and I just want to find
a man who is like an.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Already trained, ready to be like the way that I
like him.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
So you don't want to have to train a dude
again to get into it.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Yeah, Like, let's be real, we all know we train
our men.
Speaker 6 (07:07):
I mean, come on, like you know, the drastic like
women kind of you know, we train our dude to
be in the way that we like our dudes. And
it just seemed like I'd have to work too hard
to try to change him. And I shouldn't want to
have to change somebody from who they are.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
You shouldn't. Yeah, you're right there, you shouldn't want to
do that. I mean, I get wanting to influence somebody,
Like if you really like somebody and you really hate
their shoes, I mean, there's definitely a way to be
like babe, you know, you look really cute.
Speaker 6 (07:30):
And I know, and that seems simple, but it just
seems like the way life I know. I guess I
just felt like I was like, oh, this is going
to take like months, years, of like trying to.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Like maybe make you be the dude that I'm usually into,
but this is not your style.
Speaker 6 (07:45):
So at this point I was just like, eh, you
know what, forget it, Like he is actually super hot.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
I had a great time with him. I just yeah.
After that, I was just like, this isn't going to
go past the first day.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Did you know that Craig is on the phone listening
and wants to talk to you?
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Uh no, a lot? High hell.
Speaker 6 (08:07):
You doing.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
I'm good. I'm sorry that you had to hear all that.
It's nothing personal.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
I think it's kind of shallow to be honest, especially
like over shoes, like I have other pairs of shoes.
I mean, yeah, I mean I think it's I don't
know how you judge someone based off one appearance one day,
but I guess that's your thing.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
It's kind of what you do so well.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
I mean, and I'm powered that if you were like confused.
Speaker 6 (08:34):
I mean, I know, we had like an awesome kiss
at the end of the night and that was great.
It's just like to me, of course they made out,
you know, like I had to laugh for Chartona and
you were there, you know, like make ups are just
like innocent and fun. Like I think maybe by us kissing,
you probably thought it would be more serious after that.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Like I don't know, it didn't have to mean.
Speaker 6 (08:55):
Anything, Like I just thought it was a one great
date and that was a great time.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
But that was just like.
Speaker 5 (09:00):
Believe it is that okay.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I mean that's that's fine. I mean, I guess you
had a lot of past trauma about.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Training guys or whatever that what that means. But there
was just a pair of shoes, So I mean, it's fine,
it's cool.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
No worries. I hope you uh, you know, bring bring
a pair of shoes to your next date. Do you
want the guy to wear so so you feel more comfortable?
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yeah, I mean I wouldn't really need to bring the shoes.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
I was obviously looking for a man who just like
knows how to dress on a date, is what I
kind of mean.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Like, I mean you do you.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
I'm sure you have plenty of other grat shoes then,
Like why was that like this choice to represent who
you are on date one? So I wouldn't say this
is all on me, just like I don't think it
has anything to do with trauma.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
It's just call I don't want to waste my time
on someone you like. He isn't really putting the thought
in on a date.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
I mean, I think a lot of girls like what
I wear.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
I mean I didn't like your I don't like your makeup.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
It was a little spy, But I wasn't trying to
end the entire relationship because you couldn't. You don't know
how to put on makeup. I guess that's your thing.
So you know, I just thought you had a bad
makeup day. I will see how well you didn't the
next time. But I guess we're not doing mass themselves now.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
And like you said, you'll find You said there's plenty
of girls who like your shoes, so definitely go find
one of them and you'll have a second date.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Are we sure about that? Bailey? Would you like another
day with Craig? Will pay for it?
Speaker 3 (10:22):
No, I'm good.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
I you know, I like somebody who really wants to
bring it and wants to respect me on the date.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
I'll pay. Uh No, I'm good as well.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
I'd rather not go on a second date someone who's
empty and Shallo has trauma over shoes and shirts and
the very questionable makeup choices.
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