May 23, 2025 • 11 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Bryce is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tessa.
So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see
if cha tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe
get him another date. But first, Bryce, how long has
this been since you heard from Tessa?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Hey? Uh, yeah, it's been about nine days, I guess.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Okay, all right, it's definite ghosting.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yeah, not that I'm counting or anything.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
But I don't sound callous about that.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
But even if you are counting, I get it, I
would feel the same way. Did you try to reach
out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Yeah, I've tried a couple of times. I called her, like,
you know, a couple of days after our date and
getting her back, and like I texted her a couple
of times since then, just casual kind of stuff, trying
to you know, reach out.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah, tell us about the date.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yeah, So, I mean we went to this really cool
little diner pop up that only serves pickle themed dishes. Yeah,
everything had pickles in it, and like it had all
different kinds of things, like they pickled lots of different
stuff too. It was really cool dirt, Yeah, it was.
It was super fun. Like even the dessert had like
(01:18):
elements of pickle in it. And I thought, and she,
you know, I thought I figured she would be into
it because in her profile it said, you know, adventurous
with food, and I thought, like, let's just you know,
I want not go full send on this one.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
So yeah, yeah, it went really well.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I think, you know, we had a lot of fun too.
I mean like we spent just hours laughing. She's hilarious.
She's like one of these girls who's sarcastic, but in
that way if you're not sure if she's roasting you
or flirting or a little bit of both, maybe and
then it just works, you know what I mean. She's yeah,
(02:01):
not quite you know what I mean, but like you
had a little bit of a fun edge to her,
and uh and I like that. I need that, you know,
it's good for me. And she's just she's gorgeous. I mean,
like she made eating a deep fried pickle looked like
a runway moment, if you know what I mean. Like, yeah,
Paris and Milan with pickles. It was amazing, you know,
(02:22):
like we did, like the we did the whole milkshaped
to straws, you know, like the old school brom combine.
It was it was adorable until it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
So yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Uh So personally we had like a super intense debate
about whether pickles should be considered a personality trait, and
somehow it got like really deep and like, I you know,
I I think I felt like she was just somebody
who got my weirdness, which she called me, literally called
me refreshingly weird, and that to me is like the
(02:55):
best compliment and it's ever given me. Yeah. Yeah, But
there was one moment and I might have been trying
to impress her a little too much. I did, you know,
like the pickle tossed trick where you flick a pickle
slice into your mouth, okay, like you kind of flick
(03:18):
it like a coin, like and it flips into your mouth.
It's I don't know, Okay, Yeah, I think she would
have been two if it worked. And that did not
go Yeah, that did not go great. It did not.
So Like I tried the thing and the pickle hit
this like went behind me over my shoulder, hit this
(03:39):
older lady right in the eye, and yeah, it was
not great. I apologized like a million times. Doesna laughed
really hard, like she she thought it was hysterical. She
was laughing. But I'm worried like maybe she thought I
was a little immature or reckless or I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
It's definitely an embarrassing moment. I mean, but she laughs,
so that's kind of a good sign.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Right it was again, though I don't know if she's
laughing at me or with me. Walks the line.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
How did everything end with her?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I mean, I thought it went ended well. I thought
we were gonna hang out after she seemed like it
was good, and then just kind of haven't heard from
our stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure
it out for you. We'll play a song, come back
and call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Okay, all right, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up, next.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,
Bryce is on the phone and Bryce is a pickle flipper,
but he's getting ghosted by a girl named Tessa, and
we're about to call her and see if she'll tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a
second date. But first, Bryce, why don't you recap your
date real quick for us?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yeah. So we went to a pickle themed pop up
for dinner, and I thought it was really great. We
seemed to be having a good time until I tried
to pickle flip, try to flip a pickle into my mouth,
and I missed and I hit an old lady in
the face.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
That's rough.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I don't think that was good. So yes, maybe that
might be why.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
All right, well, see if hitting an old lady in
the face with your pickle is the reason that we're
getting ghosted, I couldn't help it. We'll see if that
is the reason. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah,
all right, here we go. Huh, Hi, man, I speak
(05:55):
to Tessa please, isn't she hey? Tessa? How are you?
This is adeo show. It's called the Jewbil Show. Hi, Testa,
I'm Nina. Hi and Victoria. Hi, my name is Jewble
And how you doing today?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah? Uh, I'm I'm Okay, how are you good?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Thank you for asking? You ever listen to the show.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I'm not sure?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Okay? So yeah, Well we do a segment on the show.
It's called the first Date follow Up. What that is
is if you go on a date and you get ghosted,
you can email us and we'll call the person that's
ghosting you to ask why they're ghosting. Sore you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Oh my god, this is so did Brice, Yes, it's brace.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
We talked to him. He told us a little bit
about your date. He said he really liked you, you thought
you were awesome, but he's wondering why you're ghosting him.
Would you have a minute to tell us that?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Yeah? Yeah, sure, it's because he's a toe shoe guy.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I toash you.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
You know those shoes, the shoes were the individual toe
pocket one. Yeah, wear how shoe guy he wears on
a date, on a date? Not ironically, It wasn't ironic.
He called them a tickle hunting shoes. I can't, I
(07:20):
just can't. I can't. You guys on a minute, now,
wait a minute, listen. Those are high performance minimalist shoes. Okay,
like they promote natural foot posture.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, Tessa. That's Bryce. He's on the phone listening.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I don't shoes.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
They promote you said it again, They promote natural football.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, they promote looking like a swamp goblin.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Kind of ugly.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
You said you likes unique guys. I don't.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Yeah, yeah said I unique guys that didn't sail it,
guys who like live in a forest barefoot.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I thought you laughed about the pickle tossed. I thought
I didn't. What is my footwear?
Speaker 5 (08:13):
I laughed at it before I saw your shoes, and
that your toes were like waving at me.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
And did you use your toes to flick the pickle?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Wow? So this isn't about the pickle incident at all,
right you you go to me over, yes, yes, exactly, huh, yes.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Nice.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
It was a lot of toe. It was an aggressive
amount of toe all the time, Like it wasn't.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
I didn't even think you were looking at my seat. Honestly,
I'm surprised I wasn't. I told you. At the end,
they just like they reared their five ugly heads just
staring at my looking just for the record, locause my
feet are not ugly. I didn't see I mean, I
didn't your feet. It was what the feet were in.
(09:03):
But you, I mean.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
I was gonna say, obviously you get it, but I'm
just scared that you do.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Wait, but do people wear these out in public? I
thought people just like wear them in the water, And
I've seen people.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Every once in a while, I've seen, I've seen, but
most of the time I thought it was just you know,
for running or Yeah, of.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Course people wear them in public. They're actually better for
you than regular shoes, like your foot Your foothealth is
actually like a huge part of your overall health, and
these shoes are super beneficial, Like they're really good for you.
You know. They say the stomach is the second brain, Well,
but I believe your feet are like your third brain,
(09:40):
third brain.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Take care of the.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
Yeah, your meters should not be making your dating decisions,
then how is it working for you?
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Let me ask you something, TESA, you've dated other guys before, right,
mm hmmm, how nice were they? I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I try not to see someone on's feet on the
first date as a rule.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Okay, not on a first date, but answer the question.
I know that most guys don't take care of their
feet properly.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
It's true. It's a good question.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
I mean, look, I might ask for some statistics and
fasts and figures, so I'm not gonna You're not wrong,
You're not You got me.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Well, think about this, all right. You liked me, you
thought I was a nice guy. And I also take
really good care of my feet. They're manicured, they're in
good health. You never have to worry about getting athletes
from me. I feel like, you know this my third
and fourth print. I feel like I have a step
up on the competition.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
I feel like selling it. I mean, clean feet are tesla.
Would you like to go on another day with Bryce?
Speaker 5 (10:54):
I would be open if he doesn't kill me anymore
of his films.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
Maybe maybe no athletes, but really getting you, huh?
Speaker 5 (11:02):
It is a p You know, most aren't the best,
so I guess it now that I'm thinking about it, it
is kind of a plus. Do you have any other
view where I don't want to see your toes like
anything vans converse? I'm going I'll take you literally any
of it anything else?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Yes, I have other footwear, and I promise I won't
wear the toe shoes on a date with you again?
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Is that yes, Tessa? I you know what.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
Yeah, I guess, so I'll give it another shot, but
one toe out of line and I'm out of there.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
All right, great, thank you. I promise you will not
regret it. I will not show you my toes until
the proper time. You will first date fall up.
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Bryce is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tessa.
So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see
if cha tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe
get him another date. But first, Bryce, how long has
this been since you heard from Tessa?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Hey? Uh, yeah, it's been about nine days, I guess.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Okay, all right, it's definite ghosting.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yeah, not that I'm counting or anything.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
But I don't sound callous about that.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
But even if you are counting, I get it, I
would feel the same way. Did you try to reach
out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Yeah, I've tried a couple of times. I called her, like,
you know, a couple of days after our date and
getting her back, and like I texted her a couple
of times since then, just casual kind of stuff, trying
to you know, reach out.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah, tell us about the date.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yeah, So, I mean we went to this really cool
little diner pop up that only serves pickle themed dishes. Yeah,
everything had pickles in it, and like it had all
different kinds of things, like they pickled lots of different
stuff too. It was really cool dirt, Yeah, it was.
It was super fun. Like even the dessert had like
(01:18):
elements of pickle in it. And I thought, and she,
you know, I thought I figured she would be into
it because in her profile it said, you know, adventurous
with food, and I thought, like, let's just you know,
I want not go full send on this one.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
So yeah, yeah, it went really well.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I think, you know, we had a lot of fun too.
I mean like we spent just hours laughing. She's hilarious.
She's like one of these girls who's sarcastic, but in
that way if you're not sure if she's roasting you
or flirting or a little bit of both, maybe and
then it just works, you know what I mean. She's yeah,
(02:01):
not quite you know what I mean, but like you
had a little bit of a fun edge to her,
and uh and I like that. I need that, you know,
it's good for me. And she's just she's gorgeous. I mean,
like she made eating a deep fried pickle looked like
a runway moment, if you know what I mean. Like, yeah,
Paris and Milan with pickles. It was amazing, you know,
(02:22):
like we did, like the we did the whole milkshaped
to straws, you know, like the old school brom combine.
It was it was adorable until it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
So yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Uh So personally we had like a super intense debate
about whether pickles should be considered a personality trait, and
somehow it got like really deep and like, I you know,
I I think I felt like she was just somebody
who got my weirdness, which she called me, literally called
me refreshingly weird, and that to me is like the
(02:55):
best compliment and it's ever given me. Yeah. Yeah, But
there was one moment and I might have been trying
to impress her a little too much. I did, you know,
like the pickle tossed trick where you flick a pickle
slice into your mouth, okay, like you kind of flick
(03:18):
it like a coin, like and it flips into your mouth.
It's I don't know, Okay, Yeah, I think she would
have been two if it worked. And that did not
go Yeah, that did not go great. It did not.
So Like I tried the thing and the pickle hit
this like went behind me over my shoulder, hit this
(03:39):
older lady right in the eye, and yeah, it was
not great. I apologized like a million times. Doesna laughed
really hard, like she she thought it was hysterical. She
was laughing. But I'm worried like maybe she thought I
was a little immature or reckless or I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
It's definitely an embarrassing moment. I mean, but she laughs,
so that's kind of a good sign.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Right it was again, though I don't know if she's
laughing at me or with me. Walks the line.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
How did everything end with her?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I mean, I thought it went ended well. I thought
we were gonna hang out after she seemed like it
was good, and then just kind of haven't heard from
our stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure
it out for you. We'll play a song, come back
and call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Okay, all right, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up, next.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,
Bryce is on the phone and Bryce is a pickle flipper,
but he's getting ghosted by a girl named Tessa, and
we're about to call her and see if she'll tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a
second date. But first, Bryce, why don't you recap your
date real quick for us?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yeah. So we went to a pickle themed pop up
for dinner, and I thought it was really great. We
seemed to be having a good time until I tried
to pickle flip, try to flip a pickle into my mouth,
and I missed and I hit an old lady in
the face.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
That's rough.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I don't think that was good. So yes, maybe that
might be why.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
All right, well, see if hitting an old lady in
the face with your pickle is the reason that we're
getting ghosted, I couldn't help it. We'll see if that
is the reason. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah,
all right, here we go. Huh, Hi, man, I speak
(05:55):
to Tessa please, isn't she hey? Tessa? How are you?
This is adeo show. It's called the Jewbil Show. Hi, Testa,
I'm Nina. Hi and Victoria. Hi, my name is Jewble
And how you doing today?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah? Uh, I'm I'm Okay, how are you good?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Thank you for asking? You ever listen to the show.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I'm not sure?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Okay? So yeah, Well we do a segment on the show.
It's called the first Date follow Up. What that is
is if you go on a date and you get ghosted,
you can email us and we'll call the person that's
ghosting you to ask why they're ghosting. Sore you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Oh my god, this is so did Brice, Yes, it's brace.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
We talked to him. He told us a little bit
about your date. He said he really liked you, you thought
you were awesome, but he's wondering why you're ghosting him.
Would you have a minute to tell us that?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Yeah? Yeah, sure, it's because he's a toe shoe guy.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I toash you.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
You know those shoes, the shoes were the individual toe
pocket one. Yeah, wear how shoe guy he wears on
a date, on a date? Not ironically, It wasn't ironic.
He called them a tickle hunting shoes. I can't, I
(07:20):
just can't. I can't. You guys on a minute, now,
wait a minute, listen. Those are high performance minimalist shoes. Okay,
like they promote natural foot posture.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, Tessa. That's Bryce. He's on the phone listening.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I don't shoes.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
They promote you said it again, They promote natural football.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, they promote looking like a swamp goblin.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Kind of ugly.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
You said you likes unique guys. I don't.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Yeah, yeah said I unique guys that didn't sail it,
guys who like live in a forest barefoot.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I thought you laughed about the pickle tossed. I thought
I didn't. What is my footwear?
Speaker 5 (08:13):
I laughed at it before I saw your shoes, and
that your toes were like waving at me.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
And did you use your toes to flick the pickle?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Wow? So this isn't about the pickle incident at all,
right you you go to me over, yes, yes, exactly, huh, yes.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Nice.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
It was a lot of toe. It was an aggressive
amount of toe all the time, Like it wasn't.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
I didn't even think you were looking at my seat. Honestly,
I'm surprised I wasn't. I told you. At the end,
they just like they reared their five ugly heads just
staring at my looking just for the record, locause my
feet are not ugly. I didn't see I mean, I
didn't your feet. It was what the feet were in.
(09:03):
But you, I mean.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
I was gonna say, obviously you get it, but I'm
just scared that you do.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Wait, but do people wear these out in public? I
thought people just like wear them in the water, And
I've seen people.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Every once in a while, I've seen, I've seen, but
most of the time I thought it was just you know,
for running or Yeah, of.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Course people wear them in public. They're actually better for
you than regular shoes, like your foot Your foothealth is
actually like a huge part of your overall health, and
these shoes are super beneficial, Like they're really good for you.
You know. They say the stomach is the second brain, Well,
but I believe your feet are like your third brain,
(09:40):
third brain.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Take care of the.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
Yeah, your meters should not be making your dating decisions,
then how is it working for you?
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Let me ask you something, TESA, you've dated other guys before, right,
mm hmmm, how nice were they? I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I try not to see someone on's feet on the
first date as a rule.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Okay, not on a first date, but answer the question.
I know that most guys don't take care of their
feet properly.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
It's true. It's a good question.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
I mean, look, I might ask for some statistics and
fasts and figures, so I'm not gonna You're not wrong,
You're not You got me.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Well, think about this, all right. You liked me, you
thought I was a nice guy. And I also take
really good care of my feet. They're manicured, they're in
good health. You never have to worry about getting athletes
from me. I feel like, you know this my third
and fourth print. I feel like I have a step
up on the competition.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
I feel like selling it. I mean, clean feet are tesla.
Would you like to go on another day with Bryce?
Speaker 5 (10:54):
I would be open if he doesn't kill me anymore
of his films.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
Maybe maybe no athletes, but really getting you, huh?
Speaker 5 (11:02):
It is a p You know, most aren't the best,
so I guess it now that I'm thinking about it, it
is kind of a plus. Do you have any other
view where I don't want to see your toes like
anything vans converse? I'm going I'll take you literally any
of it anything else?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Yes, I have other footwear, and I promise I won't
wear the toe shoes on a date with you again?
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Is that yes, Tessa? I you know what.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
Yeah, I guess, so I'll give it another shot, but
one toe out of line and I'm out of there.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
All right, great, thank you. I promise you will not
regret it. I will not show you my toes until
the proper time. You will first date fall up.
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