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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Charlotte is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Henry.
So in a few minutes we're going to call him
and see if hoo tellus why's ghostinger and maybe get
her another date. But first, Charlotte, how long has it beens?
Has you heard from Henry?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's been a couple of weeks since I've heard from him,
Which it's weird because we were friends before this, and
we definitely texted now and again. So I'm just a
little thrown. I'm curious and maybe a little hurt too.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
So yeah, understandably, especially since you guys knew each other before. Yeah,
what was your last interaction with him?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Like?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
So, I actually planned on this whole day of events
because it is kind of our first actual date because
we've been friends for a long time and I've been, uh,
I've had a crush on him for kind of a while,
and so I planned this day of dates. It wasn't
too intense, but it was you know, a bunch of
different stuff. We went on a mini hike, and then
(01:05):
we got brunch at this place that I know both
of us like, and then we recovered from brunch separately,
we kind of flit up for a while and then
we met up for a concert in the park. So
and you know, it was fun. I feel like we
both had a really good time. So I just don't
know what's going on. I mean, we didn't look at
the end, like we didn't kiss or anything, So I
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don't know if I'm supposed to read into that, but
nothing bad happened, and so I just don't understand why
I haven't heard from him at all.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Yeah, so, when you guys decided to go on a date,
was he also understanding that it was not a friend
hangout and that it was a date. Did you guys
have that conversation where like, oh, let's explore taking this
to another level.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I mean, we didn't like have that conversation, but I
think it was pretty clear based on, you know, the
way we were talking about it. And we've now hung
out just the two of us, like for a whole
day like that.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
I mean we have hung.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Out the two of us, but not very often over
the past several years. I mean, definitely not at this level,
you know, I think, and he didn't ask. I think
it was clear for both of us, you know. I
mean that's what it feels like. I've had a crush
on him, and I feel like probably he could tell
at this point, you know, And so it just seems
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like we both knew and we both went out and
we had a good time. I really I really wanted
to work with him because I've just had feelings for
him for a while and he's just kind of a
special person to me. You know, he makes me laugh
and he's he makes me feel safe and stuff, but
also he's like guys guy, you know. So I feel
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it's just a good balance and we get along really well.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
You really like him. I really like him.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Yeah, Like how many times you text him or calling him? Well,
I I texted I try to go overdo it. You know.
I've texted him a couple times over the past couple
of weeks, But we.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Used to text.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I mean before this day, we would text pretty regularly,
like at least two or three days a week. You know,
we're I mean we've been in contact, you know, we're friends,
and we watched on the same shows and stuff that
we talked about that, but I just haven't heard from him,
and like it's been it's been over two weeks now,
so I just feel like it's not normal, and I
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just don't.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Know what happened.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
I mean maybe, Look, I don't know if I messed up.
I guess after brunch, like I had, I had a
few mimosas, and I didn't think I was acting weird
or anything. And I just know that when I got
to the park for the concert, you know, for to
get some drinks before the show, like he seemed maybe
a little annoyed because I was at I was late.
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I wasn't that late, but I was a little late.
And but I asked him if he was annoyed, and
he said no, he was just tired because we had
already had like a.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Whole day, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
So I don't know if it was that.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Okay, well we'll try to figure it out for you
to play a song come back, and then call him
and see if Hotels why is ghosting you? And maybe
get to another date. Okay, Okay, thanks, all right, we'll
play a song, come back, and get your first date
follow up next. If you're just joining us for today's
first date follow up, Charlotte is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a guy named Henry. So in
a second we're going to call him and see if
holthels why is ghostinger. But before we do that, Charlotte, wy,
(04:26):
don't you refresh our memory on your date with Henry?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
So, Henry and I have been friends for a while
for a few years, and we definitely texted regularly over time,
and we finally took it to the next level and
went on a date. But it was kind of a
whole day of stuff, hike and brunch in the show.
But I haven't heard from him since then. It's been
over two weeks, and that's weird because we usually do
(04:50):
text during the week, so I don't know if something happened,
but I'm feeling nervous about it, and I just want
to find out what's going on.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
You can't think of a reason why he'd be ghosting.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
You, No, I mean, like I said, I said, I
was a little bit late for the concert, But I
even asked him if he said it was an issue,
and he said no, he wasn't annoyed about it. So
that's kind of the only thing.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I can think of really, well, you're ready for us
to call him?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah, I guess so, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Hi, I'm I asking to Henry please.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, this is Henry. How are you?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
My name is Jubil. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Hi, Henry, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi. I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Guys? I'm good.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Do you listen to the show at all? Not?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Really?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
No worries. We're calling you because somebody you know does
listen to the show and they email us about you.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
We do a segment called the First Day follow Up.
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can
email us to ask you why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Really, okay, I have no idea who you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Have you gone any dates recently? Uh?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Well, kind of personal?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
But yes?
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Was it Kelly Champ?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
No, it's not Kelly?
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Okay, gotta no.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I want to keep trying to tell you anybody else?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Yeah, I mean that's really kind of it. I honestly
don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, please tell me you didn't.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Go to brunch or like a show with somebody.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Okay, yeah, but you mean Charlotte.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yes, Charlotte emailed us and she wants to know why
you're ghosting.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
Oh okay, I don't think I'm ghosting. I had no
idea that was even a date, like what, because we're friends.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I've known her for years.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
That was not a date it or was she thought
you were able to tell that she has had a
crush on you for a long time.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
No, I thought we were just doing like a friend
hang sing all day to be honest, like, and we
spent the day which was super fun.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
It was fine.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I had no idea she was interested in me, though.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Does that change things for you?
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I think so.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
I mean she definitely CuO.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
I never thought of her like that, like you know
what I mean, We never really went went that way.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
You know, we had sort of like boundaries and.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Your friendship boundaries, and like I said, we hung off
that day. Was totally fine. I just thought it was
just a friendly hang. I didn't know she had more
like feelings.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
This is like crazy, Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
She reached out to you though, after you guys hung
out that day and you didn't respond to her.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Yeah, I like most too. I mean, I thought up
at work or like when friends text you, she don't
get back to run away, I don't think anything of it.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Okay, Okay, well she definitely thought it was a date.
And Henry, she's on the phone right now and I'll
talk to you.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Oh what, oh wow, Hey, Okay, this has been very
much a roller coaster. I'm like kind of embarrassed honestly,
but also Henry, like, really, you really didn't know. You
really couldn't tell. I really couldn't tell.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
No, Like it was super obvious.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
We didn't kiss her anything, so there was no I
think it's me when we were flirting. Now, oh my gosh, honestly,
like I thought, I've been so obvious recently that there
was no way that you would have ever not thought
that was a date. Like we haven't hung out that
that much. Like I mean, like it sounds like, what
(08:45):
do you want him?
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Should it be a date?
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Should we? I mean, what do you think? You don't
have to tell me right now? Oh my gosh, you
don't have to tell her right now. I just I
have fun and I don't know.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Well, I mean, oh my gosh, no, you know, I
know this is crazy.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
This is totally crazy.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
I mean, so you're yes, I mean, if you want
to go out like a real date, like make it official,
like a day, yes, hell yeah, I'm into it.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
You are I mean, do you want to? Not just me?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Do you want to?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
I do want to?
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Yeah? And I feel like an.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
Idiot for like not even realizing this. I'm like super
stoked that, like because that's how you were super too too,
But like I never want to cross that friendship line.
And oh my gosh, yeah of course, because once you
cross that friendship line and someone's note into you, and
then you look like an idiot.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
And now you're embarrassed in the friendship and you have
to call a radio station to call.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Them so cut though, Oh my god, this is crazy.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Yeah, so yeah, I have Yes, I'm super excited. Yes, yes, yes,
like I'm in totally.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Totally, totally okay.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Well I didn't even need to ask what I have
to because that's what happens in the segment. So, Henry,
would you like to go on another day with Charlotte?
Will pay for it?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Hell?
Speaker 2 (09:58):
Yeah, yes, Well congratulations Charlotte, You've got another day?
Speaker 3 (10:03):
Wow, thank you. This is amazing And maybe I'll need
a copy of this in the future, so I might.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Ask you to play at your wedding, okay, but not
to put pressure on it. Just a little advice. Right
when you guys get together for that next date, just
kiss right away because it'll take away all the anticipation
and all the awkwardnesses. Do it right away, I mean,
it just breaks the away.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Yeah. Juble's first day follow up