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April 9, 2024 12 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Damon is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Hazel.
So we're gonna call her in a few minutes and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting her and
maybe get him another date if he still wants one.
But first, Damon was, man, how long has it been
since you heard from Hazel.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
It's been a week. It's almost like six days, not
since I heard her froma Okay, yeah, Hazel. We met
on Instagram. One of her paintings came up on my
for you page and I slid on her. Damn you.
I saw the painting and that one on her page
saw her. He's a very beautiful woman. So slit her

(00:44):
DMS and inquired about a few paintments for an event
that I was going to have.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
You slid into her DMS, but you didn't tell her
straight up it was because you thought she was pretty.

Speaker 4 (00:54):
Nah, you know, you know, I wanted to.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
See if she were a spine first, so you.

Speaker 4 (01:00):
Know, I kind of just asked for a couple of pictures.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
Stopping painting to hold at my event, you know, just
for some aesthetics. But unfortunately the event never happened. But
that didn't stop me, you know, it didn't stop me
from asking her out.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
You had a legit event, though you didn't make up
an event, just talk to her.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, no, it just it didn't happen. It wasn't able
to happen because the schedule of conflict with the building, I.

Speaker 4 (01:26):
Had to cancel it. After canceling it, you know, I.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
Still reached out to Hazel and still she wanted to
go out, and she agreed, so we went to she
she mentioned somebody painting step she wanted to like. She said,
she wanted to see how how I could handle a
paint brush, and you know, but we ended up going
to get pizza next door to the painting step, and

(01:54):
there it was a great evening. You know, we were touching,
she you.

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Know, laughing, joking, and I think towards the end the
piece was making us stick.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
So I called hep uber, you know, to get her home.
We kissed, we you know, last she said she had
a great time with me. I text her and I
haven't heard nothing back in six days, man, So I'm
kind of just like wow, And so I was just
trying to see why she ghost to me. Though I
think it might have been because you know, I got

(02:26):
a little anger issue and the young man at the
pizza shot. I kind of had to yell at him
because he, you know, he just couldn't get the order right,
and so I got a little frustrated and kind of
yelled at him.

Speaker 2 (02:40):
But I hope that Hazel didn't see that when you
say he kind of yelled at him, like how bad?
Like how big was the yelling?

Speaker 3 (02:49):
I popped off for a little bit, you know, I
popped off a little bit on him to get his
act together. It was only pizza that he was he
was taking an order for, so, you know, but you know,
I kind of lost and I feel like that might
be the reason because I kind of lost my last
relationship because of that.

Speaker 5 (03:06):
That's kind of alarming, especially on a first date.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
I think he was high, you know, lazy eyes. I
was red, you know, a little smoothy. I'm like, you know,
I gat the benefit of the doubt though, because I'm like, Okay,
it's ten o'clock at night. Probably was tired, but I
don't know, you know, but he probably would have probably
was high.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, I mean, how did she react after you, you know,
hopped off.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah, well I don't I don't know if she really
seen it, because we sat down right after and ate.
Like I say, the night in it great. We kissed
after before she got her uber. She said she had
a great time, and like I said, I text her
and I haven't heard nothing for.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Six days now, Okay.

Speaker 4 (03:49):
Definitely not something that I would think that not.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
Heard from a perch for six days after a night
like that, I really thought this was the one.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
I mean, she could have been buzzed, she couldn't needed
the pizza to absorb it. That she could have just
wanted to get out of there. I hope not for
your sake.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
But yeah, I mean, well we'll see, man, We'll play
a song and then come back and call her and
see she'll tell us and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, man, great,
all right, man, play as song, come back, get your
first date. Follow up next. Right in the middle of
your first day, follow up if you're just joining us,
Damon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
a woman named Hazel. He said that he had a

(04:25):
great date with her, and he doesn't know why. So
we're about to call her in a second sef she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But before we do that, damon, why don't
you catch us up on your date with Hazel?

Speaker 6 (04:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (04:36):
Man, so the date was great. I met Hazel on Instagram.
He I saw my FU page, reached out to her
about some paintings for an event that never really happened
for me, but we still ended up going out to
us painting tip and when it got some pizza, the
night was going great. You know, I had to pop
off a little bit, got a little angry at the.

Speaker 4 (04:57):
Waiter for you know, he's.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
Seen, you know, immediate it, so you know, it was
really frustrating. But like I said, the date ended very well.
We embraced, We gave each other kids, and you know,
order an uber and make sure she got home safely.
But I just haven't heard it from a six to day.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Okay, man, Well we're gonna call it right now, so
you shall tell us. Okay, are you ready?

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Yes, sir?

Speaker 2 (05:19):
All right, here we go, Hello him masak to Hazel. Please, Yeah,
this is she? Hey Hazel, how are you? My name
is Jewbel and I'm calling from a radio show. It's
called the Jubil Show.

Speaker 5 (05:37):
Gangs All here, Hazel. My name's Neisa.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
What my name's Nina also on this show, and I'm Victoria.

Speaker 6 (05:46):
Okay, yeah, I'm sorry you're calling me from a radio station.

Speaker 5 (05:51):
Up, girl, what's going on?

Speaker 2 (05:54):
Well, we do a thing on our show. It's called
the First Date follow Up. That's where if you go
out on a date with somebody and then you end
up ghosting them, that person can email us to call
you and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got
an email about you from a dude named Damon.

Speaker 6 (06:08):
Oh yeah, this is like my worst nightmare right now,
you guys, I swear I've been thinking about this for
days and.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
Days talking to us.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
No this No.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
First of all, I feel terrible.

Speaker 6 (06:23):
I really didn't mean to like let it go on
for so long. I guess it has been almost a
week now. I guess it is ghosting. I was going
to say, like that seems like too strong of a term,
but honestly, all I've been trying to do is kind
of like work my own uh like feelings out about this.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
I guess. Okay yet nervous.

Speaker 6 (06:45):
Yeah, Okay, So I have I have a thing. It's
called miscephonia. Do you guys know miscephonia. It's the sensitivity
to to sounds okay and and uh like auditory emuli.
And it is a lot of times triggered by saying
that most people would consider normal, like chilling. I did

(07:10):
have a wonderful, wonderful time with Damon, and we have
definitely a lot of chemistry. I was so excited to
meet him and find out that he was so much
everything I had sort of hoped he was, and then
also things I didn't even think.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
To hope for.

Speaker 6 (07:28):
And when it became time to actually, you know, sit
down and have dinner, oh my god. The chewing, like
I have a pretty good handle on, you know, getting
ready to expect like, okay, there's going to be human
chewing sounds. I'm gonna be okay. But oh, you guys,
it was next level.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
Is his chewing is too loud for you?

Speaker 5 (07:50):
Is it next level for you or for anybody?

Speaker 6 (07:53):
No, it's for anybody, because I understand my predisposition to
feel like, oh my god, this is terrible.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
But it was like it.

Speaker 6 (08:01):
Became not just auditory and also visual because there was
so much like open and down chomping, like uh, I
could not. I didn't even know how to tell him.
He's like taking tiny bites and then just chewing them
so big and so much, and it's so splashy and

(08:21):
like I could I couldn't. I could not even like
focus anymore, and it ruined the whole thing for me,
and I felt so embarrassed. I was like, by the
time it had gone on for so long, I'm like,
I can't tell him this now. I usually don't tell
people about this like right away, because I don't want
them to feel self conscious, and it's something that I

(08:42):
had a pretty good hold on. Usually i'll bring it
up after a two dates or whatever. But I just
I've never had like such an intense problem like this,
and it just felt too late to tell him. So
I feel awful, and I've been trying to figure out, like,
how do I address this with him? How do you
talk to somebody about this after it has already happened.

Speaker 3 (09:01):
I regret it.

Speaker 6 (09:01):
I feel I have like a problem with I don't know, confrontation,
or it didn't have to be confrontation, right, I just
needed to be direct, But I I just like I
don't know what happened so fast, and I couldn't think
of a way. I was too just I was having
a reaction, and I was afraid that in the middle
of a reaction, I wasn't going to be able to
stay it in a way that was thoughtful enough.

Speaker 5 (09:23):
Or kind enough.

Speaker 6 (09:24):
And also, just how do you tell someone that?

Speaker 5 (09:26):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
I don't know how you would tell somebody that, especially
in a thoughtful way, because it's just like broth with
your tiny little mouth.

Speaker 6 (09:38):
This sound this sounds so stupid, and I can't. I
feel so embarrassed that you guys are like even involved
in it now and that I haven't just dealt with
like an adult on my own. But I honestly, this
has just never happened to me before.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
Damon, do you know that you chew that loud?

Speaker 3 (09:54):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (09:55):
Wow?

Speaker 4 (09:56):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (09:57):
You know my mom used to yell at me all
the time the way I hate.

Speaker 4 (10:01):
I just thought she was picking on me.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
You know, no one else ever said anything to me
about it.

Speaker 2 (10:08):
Okay, wait, why.

Speaker 3 (10:09):
Are you He's on the phone.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
You have him on the phone.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
Listening and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 6 (10:16):
Okay, Wow, I'm I'm I'm really sorry.

Speaker 3 (10:19):
Damon.

Speaker 6 (10:19):
Hi, I'm sorry that's taking me so long to talk
to you about this.

Speaker 3 (10:24):
Well, how you doing, Hazel? Like, in my defense, the
piece was really good, wasn't it? It was really good.

Speaker 4 (10:33):
It was worth it was worth too.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
And loud for wow, I do I do have. I
feel very embarrassed. It's something I should have listened to
my mom tell me a long time ago, learned how
to chew at your mouth closed. But you know, but
I would really love a second chance with you the

(10:56):
you know, just to be able to go out with
you and show you that you know, I'm not this,
I'm not she's you know, chomping cookie moths to eating
with his mouth open, you know, living everywhere.

Speaker 4 (11:08):
Yeah, that's something that you know, I.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Definitely will work on, uh, because you know, I want
my friend back, you know, I want to be able
to see how you're.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
Doing well, Hazel. Would you like to go on another
date with Damon? We'll pay for.

Speaker 3 (11:21):
It, guys.

Speaker 6 (11:23):
I feel so bad and but also thank you.

Speaker 5 (11:26):
I really needed to just say this.

Speaker 6 (11:27):
I can't even tell you, like how sick I felt
to realize what was going on and then now just
to be like I can't believe it could have been
over this easily. And yeah, I definitely want to go
on a second date. I had such a great time.
I really really did and in the future. Well, now
that I know, Damon, that you can be so open

(11:51):
to this feedback, I guess I just feel so much
more comfortable and I won't let it get to this
point anymore.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
Good. Well, you know what, Thank you, thank you. Hey, uh,
I can't wait to go out with you again. About
to ask you, about to go get on YouTube right
now and look at a couple of videos of mice
eating and see how those guys do it. So don't
want this to happen.

Speaker 2 (12:22):
Congratulations, you will. First date follow up
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