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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
David is on the phone today for a first day
follow up. He's getting ghosted by Jade and has no
idea why. So we're gonna see if we can have
him mount we call her in just a few and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, David,
how long has it been since you heard from.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Jade or almost going on five days now? Like total silence?
Speaker 4 (00:23):
That's like that borderline part, like am I being ghosted?
Or what are you busy? How many times have you
tried to reach out to her in that time?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
You know, about once a day. I don't want to
see like a you know, get in that stalker area.
You know, I wasn't trying to be too intense, but
you know, yeah, i'd say about once a day. So
it's been you know, three or four times.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I guess now I would say that's definitely getting ghosted.
And if she hasn't the study anything, they've even gotten
the thumbs up on the like, I mean.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
It seems like I almost like wrong number because I'm
not even getting like the red thing or anything. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Oh wow, uh blocked. I'm sorry. We'll tell us about
your date.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah. So, you know, it was almost storybook the way
that we kind of met.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
There was you know, one of those Spirit Halloween stores
that you know, little pop up stores that popped up,
and we were both kind of shopping in the same aisle,
and uh, an old song Sweet Caroline came on, and uh,
you know, they always have the weirdest thing. I don't
know if you guys ever been in one of the
Spirit besides the stores and stuff being weird, weird locations,
they always have just the most bizarre music happening through
(01:37):
the whole place, like stuff you would know it's not
Halloween music. It's like this weird stuff. And Sweet Calli
Caroline was one of them. That's where we kind of
made eye contact, like looking at each.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
Other like what is this song?
Speaker 3 (01:47):
And then and then you know how Sweet Caroline's got
that dun dun, and we've all kind of almost in
unison kind of did the same thing. And then it
kind of had gone to be a joke and we
were and we started talking about how we're it was
there playing the song, and then we just started talking
for a while, and uh, you know, I asked her
if you know, I started kind of walking with her.
(02:09):
She was shopping for the stuff, and you know, kind
of made sure it wasn't like, you know, weird or
I was over.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Stepping my bounds.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Everything was was a vibe. And we got to the
uh register area, and I, uh, you know, I said, hey,
you know, really enjoyed your company, and uh, you know,
I thought i'd ask her out. You know, she told
me if I would take pictures of my Halloween set
up at home once I got it all set up,
So that's what I did.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I got out, you.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Know, a couple hours later, got got my whole halloween
vibe all checked out in front of my uh in
front of my house.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Took a few photos, sent.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Them over, and uh, you know, she got back to
me and send me some of some photos of what
she'd been doing, you know, with the Halloween stuff. And
then we had our date, you know, and it was
it was all good. So she she asked me, she
said she had a bar that she liked to go
to and if I would mind going to this bar.
You know that she went to it and wasn't too
(03:04):
far from where I was at and we went to.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
The bar and you know.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Hung out, got together with her and in this environment,
in the non fluorescent light version of spirit of Halloween,
seeing her, you know, at nighttime at this bar, I
mean she was even. I mean, I mean she's just gorgeous,
like you know, I mean really really just perfect ideal
person for me, and you know, we were really enjoying ourselves.
(03:32):
There's even a jukebox there, you know, like which is
funny because that's how.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
We met, was because it was the music thing.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
And uh so I went out there, you know, started
playing some tunes on the on the jukebox, and the
whole night was perfect, and I figured that, you know,
this is like the perfect first date.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
And then, like as I told you at the beginning.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
When I first reached out to you all, just total
silence since then.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
You know, did you guys piss or anything at the end,
or was there any flirtation? Like, did you guys plan
on going on another date after that?
Speaker 5 (04:04):
I mean I got the impression.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I mean, you know, we walk her to her door obviously,
and everything was you know, always good, and uh you know,
she kissed me on the cheek and uh she told
me she you know, texted me some more Halloween's photos
when she gets them up and we set up another date,
and I mean, it seemed like everything was just about
as picture perfect as it could be between you know,
how we met at the store to going out to
(04:28):
the bar. I mean, like it's like storybook. And that's
why I'm like just pretty much shell shocked that I
haven't heard literally from I don't know, if there was
another guy that I.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
Never maybe didn't know about, you know, that will be That's.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
The only thing I'm kind of thinking is like maybe
there was another dude, and you know, either I'm a
rebound guy or I don't know. I mean, the whole
it's just the whole thing doesn't make sense to me.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
We'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
So man, we'll play a song come Back, and then
call her if she tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then maybe get you another date if you.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Still want one.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Okay, sounds great, Thanks, right, We'll play song come.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Back, Get your first Day follow up next right in
the middle of today's first date follow up if you're
just joining us. David is on the phone and he's
getting ghosted by Jade and he has no idea why.
So we're about to call her and ask her why
she's ghosting him and see if he still wants another
date when he finds out why. But first, David, why
don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Jade?
Speaker 5 (05:18):
We Matt?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
That was like storybook meeting when Matt Matt at the
Spirit of Halloween Store connected on the music, you know,
like the music thing. We you know, I ended up
going on a date, hanging out. The end of the
date went great, and then.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Just total silence after that.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Yeah, well you ready to call her? I gosh, yeah,
all right, here we go. Man. Huh I means speak
to Jade please, Jade?
Speaker 5 (05:53):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
My name is Jewbell and I host a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi Jade, there's more people
here too. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Do you ever listen to the show?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
No, Okay, that's all right.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
So we're calling you today though, because we do a
segment on the show it's called the first Date follow Up.
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can
email us to get you on the phone and ask
why they're being ghosted. So we got an email about
you from a guy named David.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Oh oh.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
He said that you guys had a holloween store.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Yeah. Oh why that one shocked, but not in a
bad way.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Do you mind telling us why you're ghosting him? He
really want to know.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
He's a really sweet guy and really cute okay, And
I mean he's really nice. But I'm a musician, okay,
and I work for a label. I'm always in music
and keeping as current as possible. And as much as
he's so sweet, all he watches the Grandma music. I
can't do it. I can't do it called you know,
(07:00):
he can't Grandma music like. So she pick me up
on the for the date right, and he was blasting
like it was his favorite jam Ryanstone Cowboy, And I'm like, okay,
maybe this is just wharing this radio landed. That's cool.
(07:21):
I mean, I'm like old these sometimes, but this is
not a sometime. We went to the dive bar. It
was cool. It's a dive bar alight and there's a dukebox.
We were playing different songs. My songs ranged everywhere. His
songs were like John Denver rain drops keep falling on
ahead and like there was Dolly Parton and Burt Bacharack.
(07:43):
Like it was just very specific in a very small
range of things he listened to. I can't do that.
That's just too much, is no.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
So it's some music.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
You don't think you could like tim about new music,
although current music was always is all inspired by those
songs and stuff.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
But yeah, but I don't. I don't think he's really
outside of that world. I don't know if you've even
opened too such. It's like I need somebody who's ready
to be open to the world and just living in
one time period music wise kind of lets me know
that that's how you live ousewise.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
That's interesting.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
I want to be in a small little place and
never move and never hear and never look. I can't
do it.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
How can we just text him that?
Speaker 5 (08:30):
I thought the silence would help. I'm not good at confrontation.
I don't like it, and I was like, maybe if
I just kind of drift away, he kind of get
the hint and just move on with his world. I mean,
you can tell him that when you talk to him
and let him know that you know. He was very sweet.
But I don't think it's going to work out.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Okay, Well you kind of already told him because he's
been on the phone this whole time and he wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (08:56):
Oh hey, Jay, what's up?
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (09:00):
Jaging this? This is incredibly uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Well what was? What's really uncomfortable is hearing what you're saying.
I mean, that night when we were at the bar
listening to all the songs you're talking about rain drops
and all that. You were singing and laughing and singing.
You seem to know the words more than I did
that night for all those songs. So I know, I'm
(09:25):
really really cohased about this.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I know music, I'm a musician. I know these songs.
I understand, But it's that seems to be your only interest.
Anything outside of that you complained about, like you just
weren't open to other things. And wait wait, I mean,
I'm sorry, let's look back this truck up. You thought
by bringing me on here to make me feel like
(09:50):
some sort of horrible person, like I'm some sort of snob,
that this is the way to get us together.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Look, I just really, really, I really liked you a lot,
and it was bizarre to me, and I thought you know,
between as a store and the bar, we had the
perfect few days together, and I was just really confused,
why you just go to me altogether? And I thought
maybe you guys, you coming on here and explaining it,
and you know, there might be a way where we
(10:19):
could kind.
Speaker 5 (10:20):
Of take it next level. You know, so publicly embarrassing
me was your plan to get me back.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I think you should feel embarrassed you didn't. I mean,
you're telling the truth.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Yeah, I mean, what are you talking about? You being embarrassed.
You're You're the one who's sitting there, call me listening
to Grandma music. You're on the air in front of everybody.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
Listen. None of this makes it better. She just made
me realize that my choice was right, and I should
not feel sad about making the choice I made. You
push me in the corner and are making me look
the fool. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
And by the way, this is not grandma music. This
is classic music. There's a reason why people are still
listening to this music forty fifty years later. Now, okay,
you should know that being a musician.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
No one's listening to What's new pussy Cat? Oh okay,
And it's not like you were listening to Motown as well,
you weren't. It was very narrow. It was like a
few years that you lived in and I wanted to
speak with music.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Very gale.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
I'm done, looks. Would you like to go out with
David again? Another another date? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
Oh yeah, oh oh.
Speaker 5 (11:38):
I thought you were asking him because I know you're
not talking to Thank you, Jules.