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October 16, 2023 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
David is on the phone today for a first day
follow up. He's getting ghosted by Jade and has no
idea why. So we're gonna see if we can hel
him out when we call her in just a few
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him.
But first, David, how long has it been since you
heard from Jade or.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
Almost going on five days now? Like total silence.

Speaker 4 (00:23):
That's like that borderline part, like am I being ghosted?
Or what you busy? How many times have you tried
to reach out to her.

Speaker 5 (00:31):
In that time?

Speaker 3 (00:33):
You know, about once a day. I don't want to
seem like a you know, get in that stalker area,
you know, so I wasn't trying to be too intense,
but you know, yeah, i'd say about once a day.
So it's been you know, three or four times.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
I guess now I would say that's definitely getting ghosted.
And she hasn't just steady anything. I've even gotten the
thumbs up on the like I mean, it.

Speaker 3 (00:54):
Seems like almost like wrong number because I'm not even
getting like the red thing or anything.

Speaker 4 (00:58):
Yeah, yeah, oh h locked, I'm sorry, We'll tell us
about your date.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah. So, you know, it was almost storybook the way
that we kind of met.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
There was you know, one of those Spirit Halloween stores
that you know, little pop up stores that popped up,
and we were both kind of shopping in the same aisle,
and uh, an old song Sweet Caroline came on, and uh,
you know, they always have the weirdest thing. I don't
know if you guys ever been in one of the
Spirit besides the stores and self being weird, weird locations,
they always have just the most bizarre music happening through

(01:37):
the whole place, like stuff, you would know it's not
Halloween music, it's like this weird stuff. And Sweet Caroline
was one of them. That's what we kind of made
eye contact, like looking at each other like what is
this song? And then and then you know how Sweet
Caroline got that dune dun and we all kind of
almost in unison, kind of did the same thing. And
then it kind of had gone to be a joke,
and we were and we started talking about how weird

(02:00):
it was there playing the song, and then we just
started talking for a while, and uh, you know, I
asked her if you know, I started kind of walking
with her. She was shopping for the stuff, and you know,
kind of made sure it wasn't like, you know, weird
or I was over stepping my bounds. Everything was was
a vibe. And we got to the uh register area,

(02:21):
and I, uh, you know, I said, hey, you know,
really enjoyed your company, and uh, you know, I thought
i'd ask her out. You know, she told me if
I would take pictures of my Halloween set up at
home once I got it all set up. So that's
what I did. I got out, you know, a couple
hours later, got got my whole halloween vibe all checked
out in front of my uh in front of my house,

(02:42):
took a few photos, sent them over, and uh, you know,
she got back to me and sent me some of
some photos of what she'd been doing, you know, with
the Halloween stuff. And then we had our date, you know,
and it was it was all good. So she she
asked me, she said she had a bar she liked
to go to and if I would mind going to

(03:02):
this bar, you know that she went to it and
was went too far from where I was at, and
we went to the bar and you know, hung out,
got together with her and in this environment, in the
non fluorescent light version of spirit of Halloween, seeing her,
you know, at nighttime at this bar, I mean she
was even. I mean, I mean she's just gorgeous, like

(03:24):
you know, I mean really really just perfect ideal person
for me, and you know, we were really enjoying ourselves.
There was even a jukebox there, you know, like which
is funny because that's how we met, was because of
the music thing. And uh so I went to there,
you know, started playing some tunes on the on the jukebox,
and the whole night was perfect, and I figured that,

(03:48):
you know, this was like the perfect first date. And then,
like as I told you at the beginning, when I
first reached out to you all, just total silence since then,
you know.

Speaker 4 (03:57):
Did you guys kiss or anything at the end, or
was there a me flirtation? Like did you guys plan
on going on another date after that?

Speaker 3 (04:04):
I mean I got the impression, I mean, you know,
we we'll walk her to her door obviously, and everything
was you know, always good, and uh you know, she
kissed me on the cheek and uh she told me
she you know, text me some more Halloween's photos when
she gets them up and we set up another date,
and I mean it seemed like everything was just about
as picture perfect as it could be between you know,

(04:25):
how we met at the store to going out to
the bar. I mean, like it's like storybook. And that's
why I'm like just pretty much shell shocked that I
haven't heard literally from I don't know if there was
another guy that I never maybe didn't know about, you know,
that will be That's the only thing I'm kind of
thinking is like maybe there was another dude, and you know,
either I'm a rebound guy or I don't know. I mean,

(04:48):
that's the whole it just the whole thing doesn't make
sense to me.

Speaker 5 (04:50):
We'll try and to figure it off for you, the man.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
We'll play a song come Back and then call her
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and
then maybe get you another date if you still want one.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
Okay, sounds great, Thanks, all right, We'll.

Speaker 5 (04:59):
Play song about I can get your first day follow
up Next.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
First date follow up howered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot Com.

Speaker 5 (05:08):
Right in the middle of today's first date follow up.
If you're just joining us.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
David is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
Jade and he has no idea why. So we're about
to call her and ask her why she's ghosting him
and Steve he still wants another date when he finds
out why. But first, David, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory about your date with Jade?

Speaker 3 (05:25):
We Matt, that was like storybook meeting We Matt Matt
at the Spirit of Halloween store, connected on the music,
you know, like the music thing. We you know, I
ended up going on a date, hanging out. The end
of the date went great, and then just total silence
after that.

Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yeah, well you ready to call her?

Speaker 2 (05:44):
I guess yeah, all right, here we go, man, huh,
I may speak to Jade please, Jade, how are you?
My name is Jubell and I host a radio show.
It's called The Jubile Show.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
Hi, Jade.

Speaker 5 (06:03):
There's more people here too. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,
I'm Victoria. Do you ever listen to the show?

Speaker 6 (06:10):
Uh?

Speaker 5 (06:11):
No, Okay, that's all right.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
So we're calling you today though, because we do a
segment on the show it's called the first Date follow Up.
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can
email us to get you on the phone and ask
why they're being ghosted. So we got an email about
you from a guy named David.

Speaker 7 (06:30):
Oh.

Speaker 6 (06:32):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (06:33):
He said that you guys had.

Speaker 7 (06:35):
Allow Yeah, ohocked, but not in a bad way.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
Do you mind telling us why you're ghosting him? He
really want to know.

Speaker 7 (06:46):
He's a really sweet guy and really cute, okay, And
I mean he's really nice. But I'm a musician, okay,
and I work for a label. I'm always in music
and keeping as current as possible. And as much as
he's so sweet, all he likes is the Grandma music.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
I can't do it.

Speaker 6 (07:05):
I can't do it, he called.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
You know, he can't.

Speaker 7 (07:09):
Grandma music like. So she took me up on the
fort to date right, and he was blasting like it
was his favorite jam, Ryanstone Cowboy, And I'm like, okay,
maybe this is.

Speaker 6 (07:24):
Just wearing this radio landed.

Speaker 7 (07:26):
That's who I mean. I'm like oldies sometimes, but this
is not a sometime. He went to the sidebar. It
was cool as a dive bar, a light and there's
a dukebox. We were playing different songs. My songs ranged everywhere.
His songs were like John Denver, rain Drops keep Falling
on Ahead, and like there was Dolly Parton and Burt Bacharack.

(07:50):
Like it was just very specific.

Speaker 6 (07:52):
In a very small range of things he listened to.
I can't do that. That's just too much as sweet
as he is.

Speaker 4 (08:00):
No, so it's some music you don't think you could
like to tim about new music. Also, current music was
always is all inspired by those songs and stuff.

Speaker 7 (08:09):
But yeah, but I don't I don't think he's really
outside of that world. I don't know if he's even
opened too such. It's like I need somebody who's ready
to be open to the world and just living.

Speaker 6 (08:21):
In one time period music wise kind of lets me
know that that's how you live thosewise, that's interesting.

Speaker 7 (08:27):
I want to be in a small little place and
never move and never hear and never look.

Speaker 6 (08:33):
I can't do it.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
How can we?

Speaker 5 (08:34):
And just text on that.

Speaker 7 (08:36):
I thought the silence would help.

Speaker 6 (08:38):
I'm not good at confrontation.

Speaker 7 (08:40):
I don't like it, and I was like, maybe if
I just kind of drifted away, he kind of get
the hint and just move on with his world. I mean,
you can tell him that when you talk to him
and let him know that. You know, he was very sweet,
but I don't think it's going to work out.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Okay, Well you kind of already told him because he's
been on the phone this whole time, and you want
to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (09:02):
Oh hey, Jaye, what's up?

Speaker 6 (09:06):
Hi, David? This is incredibly uncomfortable.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
Well what was What's really uncomfortable is hearing what you're saying.
I mean, that night when we were at the bar
listening to all the songs you're talking about rain drops
and all that, you were singing and laughing and thinking.
You seem to know the words more than I did
that night for all those songs. So I know, I'm

(09:32):
really really confused about this.

Speaker 7 (09:34):
I know music, I'm a musician.

Speaker 6 (09:36):
I know these songs.

Speaker 7 (09:37):
I understand, But it's that seems to be your only interest.
Anything outside of that you complained about, like you just
weren't open to other things. And wait, wait, I'm sorry,
let's let's back this truck up. You thought by bringing
me on here to make me feel like some sort
of horrible person, like I'm some sort of but this

(10:00):
is the way to get us together.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Look, I just really really really liked you a lot,
and it was bizarre to me, and I thought, you know,
between as a store and the bar, we had the
perfect few days together. And I was just really confused,
why you just goes to me altogether? And I thought
maybe you guys, you coming on here and explaining it,
and you know, there might be a way where we

(10:26):
could kind of take it next level.

Speaker 7 (10:27):
You know, so publicly embarrassing me was your plan to
get me back.

Speaker 5 (10:34):
I think you should feel embarrassed you didn't. I mean,
you're telling the truth.

Speaker 3 (10:39):
Yeah, I mean, what are you talking about? You being embarrassed.
You're You're the one who's sitting there call me listening
to Grandma music year on the air in front of everybody.

Speaker 6 (10:48):
Listen. None of this makes it better.

Speaker 7 (10:51):
You just made me realize that my choice was right
and I should not feel bad about making the choice
on me. You pushed me in a corner and are
making me look the fool.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
Uh. Yeah, And by the way, this is not Grandma music.
This is classic music. There's a reason why people are
still listening to this music forty fifty years later. Now, okay,
you should know that being a musician, no.

Speaker 7 (11:16):
One listening to what new pussy Cat? Oh okay, And
it sound like you were listening to motown as well.

Speaker 6 (11:25):
You weren't. It was very narrow. It was like a
few years that you lived in to speak music.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
Very cute.

Speaker 5 (11:32):
I'm done, So would you like to go out with
David again? On another another date? We'll pay for it?

Speaker 6 (11:42):
Oh yeah, oh oh?

Speaker 7 (11:44):
I thought you were asking him because I know you're
not talking to.

Speaker 5 (11:48):
Thank you you will.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
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