June 2, 2025 • 11 mins
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Jacob is on the phone today for our first date
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by Avas. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Jacob, how long has it
been since you heard from Ava?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Man, it's been at least a couple of weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Okay, have you tried to reach out to her during
that time, because it's kind of a while, right, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
I tried to play it cool. I think last text
I center, I was like, well, we met at a
coffee shop, until last thing, I told her, hey, I'll
see you, I'll see it, I'll see you back in
you know, in our spot, and then she didn't respond.
So I'm pretty sure she's a ghosting me. I haven't
called because I felt like that was a step too far,
(00:43):
but I'm running out of options.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
So did y'all actually have a first first date? Like,
was it at the.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
Coffee shop or did y'all just like randomly meet at
the coffee shop?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yeah, so there's actually like this coffee shop kind of
just in the neighborhood. It's not too far, and I
go there all the time, and that's actually the first
place where I met her, because I ended up seeing
her like three times in one week. So this one
day we kind of started doing a little small talk
and then we actually were like, well, hey, let's meet
(01:13):
here on purpose one, you know, next time. So that
was like maybe our first date. But it wasn't really
like a full date. It was more like a little
casual thing.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Okay, And then did you guys do something after that? Yeah,
we actually did.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
We really were enjoying the conversation with each other. So
I invited her to like come to my house because
we both like reality TV shows. So I was like, oh, well,
I've never seen Love is Blind. She hadn't seen it either,
so let's take us. Oh let's go to my house
to have some popcorn and some snacks and we can
just binge the whole show together. She was a little,
(01:51):
you know, a little hesitant on the going to my
house thing, so I'm hoping that's not what pushed her away,
but it did take a little but she did actually
come over.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
I was gonna say, a bold move for a first date,
to invite somebody your house, Okay.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I like the confidence and how that goes normally.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So it actually ended up going really well because when
she came over, I had all her favorite snacks. I
was ready to go. You know, like, I know she
loves popcorn, so I have popcorns. She likes hershey, so
I had Hershey. We just had a bunch of snacks
we could sit and watch this show, and we ended
up having a lot of fun, you know, clowning on
people route for the people that we really thought were
(02:32):
gonna have, you know, really fine love. And we even
drank a little wine too and got to know each other.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
So did was there like a connection with the two
of you?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
I felt like it was a connection. I mean it
was the best date I've ever had, hands down, and
like I'm really hoping that we can have more.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Okay, so what do you think could have gone wrong?
Like why would you be getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Oh man? Okay, So I think we would take a
break in between the different episodes, and it was between
I think.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Maybe episode two and three.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
You know, we just come into a little time to
get to know each other, right, we just kind of.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Talking and whatever.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
And halfway through that I just I told her, I
was like, this is the best date I've ever been on,
and I'm really glad that I didn't have to spend
a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Like, yeah, see, that was the thing.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I was really glad that I didn't have to break
the bank for us to have a good time. And
then she started to get off digit and kind of
wanted to leave. After that next episode, I'm like, I
was joking pretty much, but I'm hoping she doesn't think
I'm cheap.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Okay, yeah, well we'll see. We can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
We'll play a song, come back, and then call her
in Stifi's house why she's ghosting you, and maybe get
you another date. Okay, thanks, Yeah, in the middle of
your first day follow up if you're just joining us.
Jacob is on the and he's getting ghosted by Ava.
It's been a couple of weeks since he heard from her,
and we're about to call her and ask her why
she's ghosting him and see if we can get him
another date. But before we do that, Jacob, why don't
you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
So I met Ava at the coffee shop up the street.
We both like reality TV, so she came over to
my house so we could binge watch Love is Blind.
But I told her I was real happy we had
a date that wasn't expensive, And now I think she
might think I'm cheat.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
I'm just trying to think about how that would go.
Oh man, this is the best day ever. I'm so
glad I didn't spend any money. Yeah, especial do you
feel as the person that's on that date?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
No offense. I'm just trying to like you might be
onto something. Yeah, it might be the reason you're getting ghosted.
Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
I sure, I am all right.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Here we go. Hello, I may I speak to Ava? Please?
Speaker 5 (05:00):
This is her?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Hi Ava, how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbil Show.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Hi Ava, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria. Oh wow, how are you?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Hi, I'm doing good.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
You ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Okay? Cool.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
We do a segment on the show called the First
Date follow Up, where if you go out on a
date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Do you know who would email us.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
The only person that I've been on a date recently
was this one guy, but.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
That's probably and what was his name?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Jacob?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Okay, well guess what?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Guess what was emailed us and told us about your
date says that you're ghosting him and he has no
idea why would you mind telling us?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Oh? Goodness, like, I have really bad luck when it
comes to men. You know, our date was kind of cool.
It was cute and stuff. Uh, I just have really
that luck when it comes to guys, so sort of,
you know, I started liking him a little bit, and
uh we were watching some of the shows and you know,
(06:15):
caught feelings a little bit, and you know, I just
felt like it's probably easier for me to just stop
talking to him.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
What happened?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Everything was good.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
We were watching uh I think it was called Love
is Blind and yeah, so you know it was nice
and cute at first, but you know they go to
start talking about what they do and don't like in
certain people. Now now I'm looking at uh Jacob like, okay,
with qualities I don't like about him now, but then
I like him, but I don't really know.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Where it's going. Okay, was there something specific? That you
didn't like about him.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
There was like a situation to where where he did
invite me over to his house. It was the first
date which I went out on a limb to do.
Everything was cute, everything was you know, fun and stuff
like that. He just started playing around a little bit
too much, and I think that he just tried too hard.
(07:19):
So it was a turn off. How so, I'm not
you know, I like touchy philly and stuff like that,
but I don't really like someone to, you know, just
jump your bone. I'm a fifty fifty kiss type of person.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Did he tried to jump your bone?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Well? I think that when we were eating popcorn, I
think he was trying to hide something from me with
the bowl.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
WHOA, yeah, good for you, Like, not in that way,
but that he was very happy.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
It's kind of power, had that power over men. But
you know, it was my first time over there and
we were just supposed to be watching TV, yeah and
stuff like that. So then it's like, oh, you're like
that right now, and you're hiding it with the bowl
of popcorn that I'm picking my hand in.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
That is weird. That's very weird. Okay, Like did he
like him?
Speaker 2 (08:31):
I mean I was assumed, so it is now why
I stood up.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
I don't know, you're trying to get into popcorn, and
it's just like, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I don't know what to say it with with that situation,
So it's yeah that I don't.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
Know either, like do you want like would you have
wanted him to tell you? Or is it?
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Yeah? I mean that as a guy, I don't know
what I would do either, just try to hide it,
like because you did.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
You can't always control it, right, Jubil No, sometimes as
a mind of its own.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
You know, I don't think you hit it really well though,
I don't know know he.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
It was a pretty big situation.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
That could be that good. So that's why you're not
calling him back. Oh my gosh, a little scare.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Well, thank you for being honest, and Jacob is on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you, okay.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Jacob, Jacob, oh man, I'm so sorry about that.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
Yeah, I mean, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
I didn't even I was trying so hard.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
That the best word I can tell. Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
I didn't want to make things weird or awkward. That's
why I was trying to like maybe make it not
as obvious.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
I probably made it way worse.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
I just I really really like you and I love
having a conversation to tell.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
I was asking you why the popcorn kept falling on
the floor, and you were like, I don't know, I
didn't know what was going on down there.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
You know.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Then you didn't. You didn't tell me what was going on,
so it kind of freaked out a little bit. So
it's just like, Okay, is he getting like that because
we're watching these ladies on TV?
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Or no, it's definitely the beautiful lady I had in
my house. You know. Look, I'm really sorry, and I
hope that's not I hope that won't keep us from
being able to go back out. I just really like you.
Maybe I'll I'll do something where we're not sitting down
(10:49):
next time.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Can you give him some because I understand that this
is awkward, but I don't know how Jacob comes back
from this clear league Like it's like it's kind of
a compliment to you, Ava, but it's also like, what happened?
Speaker 4 (11:05):
I don't know, Yeah, tape what I'm not sure? Abel?
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Would you like to go on another date with Jacob?
We'll pay for it and give him another shot. He
doesn't sound like he's creepy. It sounds like he really
likes you.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Yeah, if he if he's able to double tape it.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Down, I might be willing to go on a tape
with him again.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
My gosh, well I'm heading the Staples, all right.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Cool?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Congratulations, shake, if you got another date, thank
Speaker 4 (11:41):
You, Haba fun guys, thank you, thank you.
Jacob is on the phone today for our first date
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by Avas. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Jacob, how long has it
been since you heard from Ava?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Man, it's been at least a couple of weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Okay, have you tried to reach out to her during
that time, because it's kind of a while, right, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
I tried to play it cool. I think last text
I center, I was like, well, we met at a
coffee shop, until last thing, I told her, hey, I'll
see you, I'll see it, I'll see you back in
you know, in our spot, and then she didn't respond.
So I'm pretty sure she's a ghosting me. I haven't
called because I felt like that was a step too far,
(00:43):
but I'm running out of options.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
So did y'all actually have a first first date? Like,
was it at the.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
Coffee shop or did y'all just like randomly meet at
the coffee shop?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yeah, so there's actually like this coffee shop kind of
just in the neighborhood. It's not too far, and I
go there all the time, and that's actually the first
place where I met her, because I ended up seeing
her like three times in one week. So this one
day we kind of started doing a little small talk
and then we actually were like, well, hey, let's meet
(01:13):
here on purpose one, you know, next time. So that
was like maybe our first date. But it wasn't really
like a full date. It was more like a little
casual thing.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Okay, And then did you guys do something after that? Yeah,
we actually did.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
We really were enjoying the conversation with each other. So
I invited her to like come to my house because
we both like reality TV shows. So I was like, oh, well,
I've never seen Love is Blind. She hadn't seen it either,
so let's take us. Oh let's go to my house
to have some popcorn and some snacks and we can
just binge the whole show together. She was a little,
(01:51):
you know, a little hesitant on the going to my
house thing, so I'm hoping that's not what pushed her away,
but it did take a little but she did actually
come over.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
I was gonna say, a bold move for a first date,
to invite somebody your house, Okay.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I like the confidence and how that goes normally.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So it actually ended up going really well because when
she came over, I had all her favorite snacks. I
was ready to go. You know, like, I know she
loves popcorn, so I have popcorns. She likes hershey, so
I had Hershey. We just had a bunch of snacks
we could sit and watch this show, and we ended
up having a lot of fun, you know, clowning on
people route for the people that we really thought were
(02:32):
gonna have, you know, really fine love. And we even
drank a little wine too and got to know each other.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
So did was there like a connection with the two
of you?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
I felt like it was a connection. I mean it
was the best date I've ever had, hands down, and
like I'm really hoping that we can have more.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Okay, so what do you think could have gone wrong?
Like why would you be getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Oh man? Okay, So I think we would take a
break in between the different episodes, and it was between
I think.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Maybe episode two and three.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
You know, we just come into a little time to
get to know each other, right, we just kind of.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Talking and whatever.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
And halfway through that I just I told her, I
was like, this is the best date I've ever been on,
and I'm really glad that I didn't have to spend
a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Like, yeah, see, that was the thing.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I was really glad that I didn't have to break
the bank for us to have a good time. And
then she started to get off digit and kind of
wanted to leave. After that next episode, I'm like, I
was joking pretty much, but I'm hoping she doesn't think
I'm cheap.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Okay, yeah, well we'll see. We can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
We'll play a song, come back, and then call her
in Stifi's house why she's ghosting you, and maybe get
you another date. Okay, thanks, Yeah, in the middle of
your first day follow up if you're just joining us.
Jacob is on the and he's getting ghosted by Ava.
It's been a couple of weeks since he heard from her,
and we're about to call her and ask her why
she's ghosting him and see if we can get him
another date. But before we do that, Jacob, why don't
you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
So I met Ava at the coffee shop up the street.
We both like reality TV, so she came over to
my house so we could binge watch Love is Blind.
But I told her I was real happy we had
a date that wasn't expensive, And now I think she
might think I'm cheat.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
I'm just trying to think about how that would go.
Oh man, this is the best day ever. I'm so
glad I didn't spend any money. Yeah, especial do you
feel as the person that's on that date?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
No offense. I'm just trying to like you might be
onto something. Yeah, it might be the reason you're getting ghosted.
Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
I sure, I am all right.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Here we go. Hello, I may I speak to Ava? Please?
Speaker 5 (05:00):
This is her?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Hi Ava, how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbil Show.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Hi Ava, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria. Oh wow, how are you?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Hi, I'm doing good.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
You ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Okay? Cool.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
We do a segment on the show called the First
Date follow Up, where if you go out on a
date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Do you know who would email us.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
The only person that I've been on a date recently
was this one guy, but.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
That's probably and what was his name?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Jacob?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Okay, well guess what?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Guess what was emailed us and told us about your
date says that you're ghosting him and he has no
idea why would you mind telling us?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Oh? Goodness, like, I have really bad luck when it
comes to men. You know, our date was kind of cool.
It was cute and stuff. Uh, I just have really
that luck when it comes to guys, so sort of,
you know, I started liking him a little bit, and
uh we were watching some of the shows and you know,
(06:15):
caught feelings a little bit, and you know, I just
felt like it's probably easier for me to just stop
talking to him.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
What happened?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Everything was good.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
We were watching uh I think it was called Love
is Blind and yeah, so you know it was nice
and cute at first, but you know they go to
start talking about what they do and don't like in
certain people. Now now I'm looking at uh Jacob like, okay,
with qualities I don't like about him now, but then
I like him, but I don't really know.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Where it's going. Okay, was there something specific? That you
didn't like about him.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
There was like a situation to where where he did
invite me over to his house. It was the first
date which I went out on a limb to do.
Everything was cute, everything was you know, fun and stuff
like that. He just started playing around a little bit
too much, and I think that he just tried too hard.
(07:19):
So it was a turn off. How so, I'm not
you know, I like touchy philly and stuff like that,
but I don't really like someone to, you know, just
jump your bone. I'm a fifty fifty kiss type of person.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Did he tried to jump your bone?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Well? I think that when we were eating popcorn, I
think he was trying to hide something from me with
the bowl.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
WHOA, yeah, good for you, Like, not in that way,
but that he was very happy.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
It's kind of power, had that power over men. But
you know, it was my first time over there and
we were just supposed to be watching TV, yeah and
stuff like that. So then it's like, oh, you're like
that right now, and you're hiding it with the bowl
of popcorn that I'm picking my hand in.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
That is weird. That's very weird. Okay, Like did he
like him?
Speaker 2 (08:31):
I mean I was assumed, so it is now why
I stood up.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
I don't know, you're trying to get into popcorn, and
it's just like, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I don't know what to say it with with that situation,
So it's yeah that I don't.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
Know either, like do you want like would you have
wanted him to tell you? Or is it?
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Yeah? I mean that as a guy, I don't know
what I would do either, just try to hide it,
like because you did.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
You can't always control it, right, Jubil No, sometimes as
a mind of its own.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
You know, I don't think you hit it really well though,
I don't know know he.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
It was a pretty big situation.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
That could be that good. So that's why you're not
calling him back. Oh my gosh, a little scare.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Well, thank you for being honest, and Jacob is on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you, okay.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Jacob, Jacob, oh man, I'm so sorry about that.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
Yeah, I mean, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
I didn't even I was trying so hard.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
That the best word I can tell. Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
I didn't want to make things weird or awkward. That's
why I was trying to like maybe make it not
as obvious.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
I probably made it way worse.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
I just I really really like you and I love
having a conversation to tell.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
I was asking you why the popcorn kept falling on
the floor, and you were like, I don't know, I
didn't know what was going on down there.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
You know.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Then you didn't. You didn't tell me what was going on,
so it kind of freaked out a little bit. So
it's just like, Okay, is he getting like that because
we're watching these ladies on TV?
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Or no, it's definitely the beautiful lady I had in
my house. You know. Look, I'm really sorry, and I
hope that's not I hope that won't keep us from
being able to go back out. I just really like you.
Maybe I'll I'll do something where we're not sitting down
(10:49):
next time.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Can you give him some because I understand that this
is awkward, but I don't know how Jacob comes back
from this clear league Like it's like it's kind of
a compliment to you, Ava, but it's also like, what happened?
Speaker 4 (11:05):
I don't know, Yeah, tape what I'm not sure? Abel?
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Would you like to go on another date with Jacob?
We'll pay for it and give him another shot. He
doesn't sound like he's creepy. It sounds like he really
likes you.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Yeah, if he if he's able to double tape it.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Down, I might be willing to go on a tape
with him again.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
My gosh, well I'm heading the Staples, all right.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Cool?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Congratulations, shake, if you got another date, thank
Speaker 4 (11:41):
You, Haba fun guys, thank you, thank you.
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Jubal Fresh
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