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December 10, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at adcusa dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Alicia is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.
So in a little bit we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
get her another date. But first, Alicia, how long has
it been since you heard from Jason?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Hi, guys, it's been like like two weeks.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Have you tried to reach out to him?

Speaker 3 (00:26):
I've tried like once or twice.

Speaker 4 (00:27):
Like I don't want to seem crazy or anything, but yeah,
I've tried a little and just nothing in response.

Speaker 5 (00:33):
Well, why don't you tell us about the date and
how you guys met.

Speaker 4 (00:36):
Yeah, so we.

Speaker 6 (00:37):
Met on him, you know, as most people do these days.

Speaker 7 (00:40):
I which outed for a good minute, Like it was back.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
And forth for like a couple of weeks. Actually, he
suggested we do like a traditional date to dinner, which
he paid for. It was very nice.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
We didn't get drinks afterwards, we just sort of went
our stuff ways.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
So I don't know, I felt like it was really positive.

Speaker 7 (01:04):
We did tiss just a little bit, very small very nice,
and he texted to make sure I got home, which
felt like a positive sign. And yeah, that was the
last thing i'd heard from him.

Speaker 5 (01:16):
So what was going on during like the dinner, Like,
what were you guys talking about? Did you feel like
you guys were flirtatious? Because I mean, to be honest,
it sounds a little bit dry from you know, just
that was that. I mean maybe I mean for both
of you, even not just him.

Speaker 8 (01:31):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
I mean I thought in the conversation, like I don't.

Speaker 6 (01:35):
Want to be again, I don't want to sound.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
Crazy, but I thought this guy was really perfect. He
really checked all of my boxes and he was so
he was so flirty over like the hinge messages and everything,
and when we were texting, he was super flirty and
I was really excited.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
So maybe that's why I'm sort.

Speaker 6 (01:52):
Of downplaying it now because I was a little.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
I was just so sweet and I felt like the
conversation good.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
I mean, obviously now I'm replaying it and I have
like a million like, oh my god, what did I
do wrong? But yeah, I'm just kind of shocked that
he hasn't. I wonder if he felt the same way.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
How did the kiss happen.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
Oh it was sweet.

Speaker 4 (02:12):
He like walked me to my car and we were
just having a nice little conversation about something completely unrelated,
and then he was.

Speaker 3 (02:19):
Like, can I kiss you? Which also we love consent
love that he asked, do yes?

Speaker 7 (02:23):
We do?

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Also also like a really like a green flag, Like
I thought that was a really like mature, like grown.

Speaker 6 (02:28):
There kind of thing to do.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
So yeah, another positive with a moment from the date.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Okay, is there anything you can think of that like
an awkward moment or something like that that could have happened.

Speaker 4 (02:39):
I mean, I don't, Like I said, my ego is
just probably a little bit bruised by this.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
So I'm automatically looking at myself in the mirror being like,
am I not.

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Cute enough for this guy? Or honestly, I'm like did
my breath think a little like did I eat something
stinky at dinner? Because it was like it was like
a quick kiss. It wasn't like prolonged and drawn out,
so I thought, oh god, what if.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
My mouth is stinky? For some reason?

Speaker 4 (03:04):
She could have been more passionate probably, I don't know,
or like we talked about work.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
That was a good thing.

Speaker 4 (03:11):
He's got like a really great stable job in finance,
and I'm a server right now. I mean, I do
a lot of things, but I'm a server's sort of.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
My main source of income. And I wonder if maybe
that was off putting to him.

Speaker 6 (03:24):
I'm not sure did he.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Say anything when you told him that.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
No, he wasn't like overt me, like judgmental or anything.
I mean, I mostly consider myself a creative, like I
have like a multi hyphenate, like I have a lot
of things that I do, So it's you know, I
think I saw myself.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
Pretty well in that regard, and hopefully he wasn't like
off put by. He seemed like supportive of it. He
was like, oh, that's great, like seeing like that was admirable.

Speaker 4 (03:45):
For me to be, you know, juggling so many things
at once and then being a server.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
So I was off with by it.

Speaker 6 (03:50):
He didn't, he didn't really let all.

Speaker 5 (03:51):
You know, maybe it was more like intimidation than a
negative thing. You know, maybe it's just like, wow, she's
creative and can do so many things.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
I don't. I'm so linear and whatever. I don't know
if he is. I don't really know what he does, but.

Speaker 3 (04:03):
I don't know yeah.

Speaker 4 (04:04):
I mean, I definitely ask him a lot of questions
about it, Like I think, you know whatever, everybody's job
is interesting.

Speaker 3 (04:09):
I like people are passionate about so. But then I'm
also like, did I ask too many questions?

Speaker 6 (04:12):
You know what I like?

Speaker 3 (04:15):
And you know?

Speaker 2 (04:17):
All right, Well, let's see if we can figure it
out for you so you can get out of your
head on the whole thing.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
I get it though.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call him
and see if it tellus why is ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date? Okay, okay, guys, thanks, all right,
we'll play a song come back, get your first say,
follow up the next right in the middle of your
first day, follow up if you're just joining us. Alicia
is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a

(04:42):
dude named Jason. So we're about to call him and
see if it tell us why he's ghostinger and hopefully
get her another date if she wants one. But first, Alicia,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?

Speaker 3 (04:51):
Yeah, So I went out with this guy, Jason. We
met on Hinge. We talked for a little bit before.

Speaker 4 (04:56):
I haven't heard from him in two weeks and I
am totally spiraling about.

Speaker 3 (05:00):
We did kiss on the date, but it.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
Was brief and I wonder if my breath was stinky
or if I was on the date.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
That's the recap.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, well, are you ready for us to call him?

Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (05:10):
All right, here we go. Hi, maswek to Jason. Please. Yeah,
this is hey Jason. How are you?

Speaker 2 (05:28):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.

Speaker 5 (05:31):
Hi, Jason, I'm Nina also on the show.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Yeah. No, no, I know you guys. You why are
you calling me?

Speaker 1 (05:39):
Sweet? We're calling you because somebody emailed us about you.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
Okay, So I don't know if you know the segment
we do, the first day follow up. That's where if
you go out on a date with somebody and then
end up ghosting them, they can email us to get
you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting? Okay,
So is there anybody that you can think of that
you're ghosting?

Speaker 3 (06:01):
I mean not really, I don't know.

Speaker 8 (06:04):
I mean, like, you know, online dating, it's like you
have like seven conversations going, you know, and it's like
kind of hard to remember sometimes, like who is.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Somebody who actually went on a date with.

Speaker 8 (06:16):
Yeah, I mean, you know, it's so rare that like
you actually meet somebody on the apps that like is
actually worth going out with. And so I don't always
like get out on a date with somebody, So like, yeah,
I don't really been on a lot of dates through HIMS.
It's probably like one like lately.

Speaker 6 (06:32):
That I can remember.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Yeah, No, it was a it was a Leisha Ye
got it correct, That is it.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
That's who emailed us. She wasn't a wire ghostinger, she says.
She tried to reach out to you a few times.

Speaker 8 (06:45):
Uh yeah, I mean I don't know, you know, like
sometimes people are like really really good like communicating in
one style and then not so good.

Speaker 3 (06:56):
And another one.

Speaker 8 (06:57):
You know, like all right, she's kind of a chat
when you know what I mean, she's great, like great
at chatting on the app, right, and like the conversation
was super flirty and like, you know, it was like
we were both like you know, never like leaving each
other on red. Like there was a lot of just quick,
quick back and forth.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
And it was going really good.

Speaker 8 (07:17):
And I don't know, like I mean I feel like
the maybe that set things up a little like the
bar a little bit too high because then like when
we got in person, it wasn't as fun. But I mean,
and that was okay, but like the real deal breaker
was like she says she wanted a baby, and I am.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
Like so not ready for that.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (07:37):
No.

Speaker 8 (07:37):
So we're sitting across from each other in the boots
in the restaurant and she points over my shoulder and
she goes, I want one of those so bad, And
I turn over my shoulder and there is this like
mom with like a toddler, like you know, she's like
you know when it's says, and I'm just.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Like, I mean, I feel like that's a little bit
much on a first date. I think it's actually like
I want one of those so bad.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Put one in me right now.

Speaker 5 (08:05):
Oh I mean, I'm not saying put one in me
right now, but I think it is important to have
that conversation early on a date because that way you
save each other time. If you're a hard no and
she's a hard yes, Like why you even bother having
a second date? This this ghosting makes sense then yeah.

Speaker 8 (08:18):
I mean's like I was totally going to take her
back in my place, but like after like that happened,
like I don't want to risk be hunting up father
right now, so.

Speaker 3 (08:26):
Like that was great? Okay, Sorry, Hi Jason, Hi, it's
really I need to arify something.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
Alicia is on the phone listening and wants to talk
to you. If you haven't figured that out.

Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yet, yeah, of course you Okay, okay, Hi, Hello, I
hope you're doing well. You Oh my gosh, I what
are you talking about. I definitely do not want a baby.
I did not mention that I wanted a baby on
the date.

Speaker 7 (08:56):
Are you?

Speaker 3 (08:56):
I'm like crazy?

Speaker 8 (08:57):
You You pointed over my shoulders, said I want one
of those so bad, and there was like a mom
with her toddler sitting right mine.

Speaker 4 (09:05):
I said, no, I was pointing at the drink on
somebody's table. I don't want a baby.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
It wouldn't be weird if you did.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
But okay, are you serious? It wasn't. It wasn't the
mom and the cooing baby behind us. No, it was the.

Speaker 4 (09:27):
Drink that was at the chief of some eur us.
I'm so embarrassed that you thought I was talking about
that on a first date.

Speaker 8 (09:35):
I mean I turned around and all I saw was
mom and baby and like my, like my stomach dropped
and then you're kidding me right, it was a cocktail.

Speaker 5 (09:48):
Be sure you don't want a baby, because you know,
you see what you want to see and say what
you want to say.

Speaker 4 (09:54):
Oh man, I definitely maybe was a little quiet on
the first day.

Speaker 3 (09:59):
Sometimes I get service on first dates, but I definitely
would not have pointed at a child said I want
a baby.

Speaker 6 (10:07):
Okay, Well, good, now that.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
We got that figured out, Jason, would you like another
date with Alicia?

Speaker 1 (10:12):
Will pay for it?

Speaker 7 (10:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (10:15):
I mean like everything was pretty solid until that moment,
and now that I know that, I completely missed that one.

Speaker 3 (10:23):
Yeah, yeah, that sounds great.

Speaker 8 (10:25):
God I am I am so sorry I didn't ask
from what you were talking about.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
Yeah, I would.

Speaker 8 (10:36):
If you're down, I would love to take you out again.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
That that is completely okay, and I would love to
go out with you again.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
Thanks for thanks for the second chance.

Speaker 6 (10:45):
And to be fair, I think.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
You also mentioned something about taking me home that night
because I was listening to everything you said.

Speaker 6 (10:50):
So maybe you can make that.

Speaker 8 (10:54):
Now that I know where you stand on babies.

Speaker 3 (11:01):
You will's first date.

Speaker 8 (11:02):
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