Jayden & Trish - A Sloppy First Date and a Scratched Rim

When Jayden called The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up about being ghosted by Trish, he thought it might be over an unpaid dinner bill. But as the truth unraveled, the real reason turned out to be far messier—literally. Between too many shots, unexpected valet duties, and a mysterious scratch on a luxury car, this date had all the makings of a disaster. Yet somehow, it still ended with an unexpected twist. Listen to find out how a boozy night and a dented rim led to one of the most awkward—and hilarious—second date setups ever.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jayden is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Trish.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him a second date. But first, Jaden, how long
has it been since you heard from Trish?

Speaker 3 (00:20):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (00:21):
Man, it's been over four days now.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
So, oh, are you sure she's ghosting you?

Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah, you know, I can kind of give you the
whole rundown, but like for sure, because we were talking
a lot, I mean, doing a lot of texting, voice recording,
and now it just went from every you know, hour
or so to nothing four days and we went on
at two and that's kind of where after that date,

(00:49):
that's where I have not heard anything from her.

Speaker 3 (00:52):
Well, what happened on the date?

Speaker 4 (00:54):
Well, you know, so I went to this place called
you know that place. It's kind of like a bougie bar.
It's got a kind of TVs and it's kind of
it's slick, you know, it's got those like Wagoo sliders.
Oh yeah, yeah, I mean it's super fun. It's loud,
and you know it's kind of one of those places
where you could hang and kind of vibe. And I

(01:17):
think we were really vibing there. I mean she was
the last time of my jokes, I mean my corny
you know kind of daddy jokes, and I mean we
were like locked in nine.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
Dad jokes, daddy jokes. I love that.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
Yeah. I mean I was like feeding her drinks and
I was giving her like proper whiskey cheese, and you know,
we were like definitely like making eye contact and she
was impressed. I could tell there was definitely sparks there.
It's just wow. It just didn't feel like a job interview.
You know, I've been in so many dates that just
feel like, here's my resume, this is who I am.

(01:57):
But this looks like we were vibing. So I had
a good time. But I got admit that I kind
of overindulged a little. I mean I think I forgot
to pay the bill, but I mean I checked my
card statement and there was nothing there. Oh yeah, So
I feel bad. I feel like I maybe she thinks

(02:20):
I'm a cheap skate or something. But because it was
so good, and cool before that, and I don't know,
I even asked her to come, you know, in for
a little bit afterwards, for a nightcap and a little backscratches,
like not a creepy way.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Okay, what did she say to that?

Speaker 4 (02:40):
I mean, I don't know. I mean I thought we
were vibing.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
So did she go in for backscratches or no?

Speaker 4 (02:46):
I mean she it was really quick. She came in,
said good night, and she left real quick, real fast.
And I've texted her a couple of times since. And
then there was nothing. I mean, I know, I had
a few drinks and I was kind of maybe a
little bit looser than I normally am, but we had
a good time, and so I don't know, maybe there
was just something about that bill that maybe I still

(03:09):
haven't figured it all out yet.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Okay, Okay, well we'll try to figure it out for you.
Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
you and maybe get you a second date if you
still want one.

Speaker 4 (03:21):
Okay, yeah, please, I really want to know.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Okay, we'll get your first date follow up right after this.
If you're just joining us for Today's first Date follow up.
Jaden is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
a woman named Trish. So we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date. But first, Jaden,
why don't you recap your date for us real quick?

Speaker 4 (03:47):
Yes, I've been talking to Trish for a couple of weeks,
and you know, we went out to get some drinks
and some food at a nice, swanky place. We had
a great time, but maybe a little bit too much
to drink. And I didn't know exactly who paid the
bill because I looked on my account. I don't know

(04:07):
where it is. I don't see that bill. And I
did ask her to come in for a little bit
and she kind of bailed. I'm just totally getting ghosted.
I haven't heard a thing in four days.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
Well, you're ready for us to call her?

Speaker 4 (04:20):
Please do?

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Trish please.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Yes, this is Trish.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Hey Trish, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show.

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Hi Tris. I'm mina Hyan Victorian and my name is Jubil.
What's up?

Speaker 4 (04:43):
Hi? Hi?

Speaker 1 (04:45):
Hi?

Speaker 3 (04:45):
Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 4 (04:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (04:49):
No, right, Hey, we'll check it out sometimes, Trish, I
would love to have you see what you think of it.
But we're calling you today because one of our listeners,
but who does know the show, actually sent us an
email about you and wanted us to call you.

Speaker 4 (05:05):
They did.

Speaker 2 (05:06):
Why, Well, we do a segment on our show. It's
called the first Date follow up. That is, if you
go out on a date with somebody and then you
ghost them, the person you're ghosting can email us and
ask us to get you on the phone and ask
why you're ghosting. So we're calling you about someone that
you are currently not talking to.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
So who are you ghosting?

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Oh okay, oh my god, all right, I already know
like this has to be about Jayden?

Speaker 2 (05:31):
Yes it is, Trish. We talked to Jaden. He told
us all about your date, said he really likes you,
but he can't figure out why you're not getting back
to him and wondering if you have a moment to
tell us.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
Okay, yeah, I mean that's fine.

Speaker 4 (05:48):
I just say this is awkward.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
I mean I guess Okay, he was really like clastered
on our date. Did he mention that at all.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
He study over indulged a little bit. He didn't think
he was that yeah that drunk.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
Oh guys, he was like white girl wasted. Like I
had to drive his car home. I had to drive
him home that night.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
Oh wow, how did you get home?

Speaker 4 (06:17):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (06:17):
I had to call him for a ride at his
place waiting while he's just like so sloppy and actually
he had the nerve to like invite me in for
what did he say? He was like a nightcap and
like backscratches.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Which.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
The backscratches.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
We thought that might be a little week We were
wondering if you got the backscratches.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
No, I did not partake. I like honestly, he was
a good guy that Like I really liked him at first,
Like I just thought we had some good banter, Like
he was really cute and confident, and he took me
to a really nice place. We were having a really
good time and like he was he was, like he
even asked the waiter for a tequila pairing to like

(07:04):
go with our like loaded pots, which was pretty funny.
But like honestly, he just kept going, like somewhere around
shot four, like he just started to spiral, Like I
mean floppy loud, like he kept winking at me like
not a good wing, I know, and I was like

(07:30):
not getting drunk like that. So really he like was
doing laugh by me. And I mean I told him,
like get some more food or maybe some water or
just something, and he was just like, nah, I'm good,
let's do one more and then he like forgot he
even said that. So I mean honestly, he he had

(07:51):
like a really fancy car. I felt uncomfortable driving it,
but I just tried to take him home park it
and I like went inside just quickly, just waiting for
my ride. But like he never took water or anything.
So I mean, honestly, the night just was a blast,
Like I've had better nights with my weighted blanket.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
Well, thank you for telling us why, Trish. I will
also let you know that Jaden is on the phone
and just heard all that and wants.

Speaker 3 (08:18):
To talk to you.

Speaker 4 (08:20):
Oh try, I mean, that's why you go to me
because I had a couple too many shots.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
This was about the boo the bell. No, like nothing's
wrong with the bell. I mean you you paid the bell,
and thank you. I mean he took out that metal card.
You just wouldn't like not stop showing off and talking
about and you you even actually you bought a round
for the table next to us. Oh wow, and remember

(08:52):
you tamed out like put it on the miles.

Speaker 4 (08:58):
I did. Oh man, Okay, I guess that's on me.
Maybe I was a little bit too drunk, but uh,
I mean I kind of got admitted. It was kind
of like charming drunk, right, It wasn't like embarrassing.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
Oh kid, he like slurred the words wag you sliders.

Speaker 4 (09:18):
You kept saying wag you sliders.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
He tried to high fight the server when she brought
the ketchup.

Speaker 4 (09:24):
Like sound hilarious, a Tricia, I mean we did have
a thing, right, Like I'm can't we just start over
like a new night, a new vibe, like I promised,
like two drinks that's it. No shots, honestly, no shots
and maybe, uh this time we'll just get.

Speaker 3 (09:44):
Desserted, Trish, would you like to go with Jane again?
We'll pay for it.

Speaker 4 (09:51):
I mean, Steve man, like it was messy. What if
I told you that you scratched my rims when you
parked my car and I didn't even say anything because
I don't like you that much. We did. I seriously did.
I mean, don't really one card to the left side. It's

(10:11):
like near the curve that you were driving, uh right
side still perceive, So I'm not mad about it.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
Like, oh, I mean I really like I apologize for that.
Like I was like honestly trying to get out of there.
I never drove a car like that, so like I
didn't like really know at the time.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
Okay, well, I mean, can you make it up to me?

Speaker 2 (10:35):
By what do you think Trisha? Make it up to him?
You know that way you don't pay for the rim
at all, you know, thousand money.

Speaker 1 (10:47):
I feel like I'm being you know, like blackmailed into
this e bit. But like, honestly, he is funny, and
I mean I did really think that we did get
along and have great chemistry before like the tequila got
out of control. But like I am, I do feel
really bad about scratching the rims.

Speaker 4 (11:07):
But like I mean, don't worry about it. Let's not
make it about the rims. Just kind of say yes,
because you know that we might have something fun.

Speaker 3 (11:17):
He likes.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
Wow, I mean you know, okay, yeah, let's let's do it.

Speaker 4 (11:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
Sure, I mean, but if you get waited again experiencely,
I'm going to key the car, forget the rim was
first date Ball