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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com. Bree is on the phone
today for a first date follow up and she's getting
ghosted by a dude named Jeff, and so we're about
to see if we can get another date and find
out why she was ghosted by calling him in a second.
But first let's find out about the date. Brie, how
long has it been since you heard from Jeff?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I have not heard from him in four days for
a very long date.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
When did you last talk to I mean, like, what
was your last interaction with him?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Like, so it was our date with our last interaction,
I've not heard from him since the date, and I'm
not sure what happened.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Did you reach out to him since?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yeah? Yeah, I'm starting to look a little bit crazy.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So you guys, okay, fair, well, let's talk about the day.
How did it go?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Okay? So we met on Hinge. He ticks all of
my boxes. It was a great first date. So he
basically picked everything out. He has his favorite neighborhood spots.
So we went to this really really nice Italian restaurant
and love of the Italian food was really thoughtful. He
asked me before we went what my favorite food was,
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so we had that in common, which was really cool.
And then we went to another little cute spot to
get some drinks and there was a tooth box there,
which I thought was pretty cool, and he gave me
money so I could pick out my favorite songs. I
thought it was very thoughtful. Yeah, like just really low key, sweet, sweet,
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thoughtful date. And we sat next to each other and
we sang like my favorite songs and uh like, we
accidentally brushed elbows a couple of times. It was like
the best date that I've ever been on. So I'm
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kind of confused. We had a lot in common, like
we talked about sunny movies, you like, like our childhood.
I was telling him I was interested in self a
dancing and he said he was like open to going
because I was trying to test the waters because pee,
we'd be you know, interested in the mother hang. We
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both are mediocre cooks. There was just like a lot
of commonalities and laughter and just I thought it was
good vibes and then I don't know, I thought it
was perfect, like yeah, we closed down the bar and
then Ki walked me home and then we kissed and
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I thought it was magic. And then I have not
heard from him since, so I don't know. I've been
We texted that night and that was fine, but then
I tried to keep texting to like, you know, are
you going to the salta Cross? We're gonna hang out?
How is your day? How is work?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Any of that. I've got nothing, any idea of why
he's ghost to you at all.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
My friends have a prediction. Okay, so I talk a lot.
I don't know if she's noticed. They think maybe I
over did. I was talking about like pillar talk and
intimacy and like, I don't know. Maybe they think I
just I was too hardcore for flirting. I came, I'm
too strong with Hey, let's go salt the dancing. I'm
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looking too far into it. I don't know. They're thinking
I did maybe too much flirting or too much like
where are we going with it?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
The next steps?
Speaker 2 (03:35):
How do you feel about this or that?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Maybe when your elbows brushed? Did you guys have long
sleeves on bare elbows?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I rolled my sleeves up. He did not.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Oh that's why we thought you're a little risky going
in bare elbows like that. Skin to skin. Well, we'll
see if we can figure it out for you. We'll
play a song come back, and then call him and
see what tell us why he's ghosting you and hopefully
get you another date. Okay, all right, we'll get your
first day follow up next. Right in the middle of
your first date follow up, if you're just joining us
(04:07):
and Bree is on the phone and she's getting ghosted
by a dude named Jeff, So we're about to call
him and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting
her and maybe get her another date. But before we
do that, Brie, why don't you catch everybody up on
your situation?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Okay? Because name is Jeff met On Hinge, best date
of my life, very thoughtful, very kind. Now has been
ghosting me for four days. My friends think it's because
maybe over shit, Maybe I like came on too strong.
I don't know. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
I must have been what it was? All right, Well,
are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yes? Please?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
All right? Here we go hello him a speak to Jeff. Please, uh,
je Jeff, how are you? My name is Jewbel and
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I host the radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show.
Hi Jeff, the whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Good. How are you?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
What do I owe the honor?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Once or twice?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
We do a segment on the show it's called the
first Date follow up. So that's where if you go
out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them,
that person can have us get you on the phone
to ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an
email about you, sucka. You need to be very nice coaching,
but we got an email about you.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
I think I sho where this is going?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
About about Kaylen No, I'm sorry, her name is Breus.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
You're busy, Jeff, never mind that? Okay, and I heard it,
but okay.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
So I'm going to give you a short answer. Relied
to me. He's a liar about what about her age?
I mean she was. I liked her. I liked her
a lot.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
So I went and you know, I did the the
proverbial scouting technique where you going on you know, social
media find out things about them. And I found out
that actually she told me she was thirty three the
app that she was thirty three.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I'm thirty years old. Turns out she's thirty eight? What
and yeah, yeah, kind of like comes with me for
a loop.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
I was like, well, we had a lot in common,
we shared a lot of stuff, we had it. I
had a great day. I thought we had a good time.
But I just don't do well with liars. How do
you know she was lying about her age?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Well her because her birthday on her on her social
media page?
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Okay, and then you asked her her real birthday or
something like how'd you find out the real birthday? Yeah?
It shows on apps like how old they are on
one app?
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Right?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
But then so she said she's hany.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
It said she was very great.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Okay, so it said she was. But then you saw
her birthdate on what.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
On her social media? On her face?
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Okay? Oh okay, So you didn't ask her about that.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Well, I didn't really need to ask her anything. I mean,
she already lied to me. She's gonna lie to me again.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
What do you ask? You don't suppose to have a
cool woman her age? Right?
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I mean, maybe it's like an accident. Maybe it was
like a typo. All of a sudden, you put in
the wrong number and you're thirty eight I don't know.
I just feel like, does it matter how old she is? Though? Like,
does is that really what bothers you?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
No, don't get it twisted. It's not about her age, okay,
It's about the fact that she was. She wasn't a forecoming.
It's about I've had my own pass experience that some
my lives about the little thing, the next thing, you know, everything,
So it's it's just kind of a deal breaker for me,
you know.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
So we spiral a little bit. That makes sense. Okay, well,
thanks for telling us, Jeff, I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Also, Bri is on the phone. She's been listening to
this whole time and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Oh oh, okay.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Three.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Jess. Yet the age on hinge is not correct. However,
you would not have met me if I didn't fudge
the number a little bit.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Oh, so you know you did.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Okay, there's so many it's not people normally don't bump
the age up to thirty five. So I've noticed that
the pool is much smaller. So I just reduced my
age by a little bit. An age is nothing by
that but a number. So I didn't think it was
a big deal, and I didn't realize he was googling me.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
I think it's safe to assume that anytime you go
on at risk of being googled.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
He should have asked me. You didn't even ask me.
You just assumed that I'm like a big wire because
it was hinge.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Well, I mean, honestly, that should have been one of
the things you addressed on, you know, I mean, maybe
something about letting.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
Me know that by the way, you know, maybe it
wouldn't have been such a such.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
A shock to me had I heard it from your
mouth instead of finding out on my own.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Okay, I understand that my intention was never to not
tell you. I was planning on telling you, and then
I just kind of got caught up in everything and
forgot about it and got nervous, and then it was
just in the moment. The plan was never not to
tell you.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
So have you lied to me about anything else? Is
there anything else you want to come clean about?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Or No, that's that's it. I don't know why I
would lie about anything else.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
So, you know, we were listening there at the jukebox
and you play all these songs, is I mean Flowers
you know by Miley?
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Is that not your favorite song is that? Are you
lied about that too?
Speaker 2 (09:48):
No, that is my favorite song. You saw me sing
to it loudly. That is definitely my favorite song.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
I mean, do you did you like the food that
we had? Did you like my neighborhood spot there? Or
did you lie about that?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I hate food. I just enjoyed the food. It was great.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I think Jeff has some trust issues, and that's okay.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
I'm not a liar. I'm not a bad person. I'm
not like trying to trick you. Nobody after thirty five,
like there's a cutoff on hinge. I don't know why.
So the pool small for dating options. So I just
made my net a little wider than I wouldn't have
met you otherwise. I really don't think it's a big deal.
I'm not lying about all sorts of weird things like
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pasta and music.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I was planning on telling you and then I just
got caught up. That's all.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Jeff, would you like to go on another date with Brie?
We'll pay for it, give it a chance and griller
in person. Right, Yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Would love to go on another date with Bree, and
I would love to, you know, come clean about whatever
we need to come clean about.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Okay, well, Brea, congratulations, you got another date.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
You're gonna be questioned every movie you make, but hey,
more power to you.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Yep, I will be asking you who Caitlin is.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Oh yeah, that's right. I forgot about that.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
You know what, it's trewe. I believe you.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Oh she had that in her back pocket.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
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