JR & Marie FDFU: He Thought He Ruined the Date With One Joke… Turns Out It Was Way Bigger Than That

It was a movie-perfect first date—horses, kisses, sparks flying… and then one awkward comment changed everything. 💔 In this First Date Follow Up from The Jubal Show, JR is left totally confused after getting ghosted by Marie following what he thought was the best date of his life.

As the conversation unfolds, a misunderstood joke, a designer handbag, and a deeply personal assumption collide—leading to a twist no one saw coming. Was it just a bad joke at the wrong time, or did JR accidentally uncover something much deeper?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Because it's Christmas time, we're counting down the twelve first
day follow ups of Christmas has voted on by you. Yeah,
we countdown all the way to the number one first
day follow up that you voted on.

Speaker 3 (00:17):
Jr.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
Is on the phone today for a first date follow
up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in a
second we're going to call her and see if you'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe you get
him another date. But first, JR. How long has it
been since you heard from Marie?

Speaker 3 (00:30):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (00:30):
Man, a couple of days? I guess maybe a week now.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Okay, did you try to hit her up?

Speaker 5 (00:37):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Yeah, I've called a couple of times.

Speaker 4 (00:40):
I didn't leave a voice message every time I called
because I didn't want to sound crazy or whatever.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
But she just hadn't called back. I got nothing.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
All right, we'll tell us about the date.

Speaker 4 (00:53):
It was awesome, so we moun on the apps. I
just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,
she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature,
you know, with her friends.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
I mean the second we started talking, it was like
I was.

Speaker 4 (01:11):
Telling her about how always wanted to ride a horse,
but I've been like real afraid to try.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
And she laughed at it, you know, but like it
was that.

Speaker 4 (01:19):
Cute kind of laugh, and then she was like really encouraging,
and we decided that actually our first meeting would be
for me to go horseback riding.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
Oh that's a cool first day.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She
was amazing.

Speaker 4 (01:41):
She was like like my personal cheerleader. She was just
so warm and energetic and and I mean she was
gorgeous too. I just, oh, I can't get it out
of my mind. It was amazing. And after we rode horses,
we you know, we went home to shower and we

(02:02):
changed and.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
Then we met up for dinner.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
And oh my gosh, I'm smiling.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
So hard right now just thinking about it. Like it
was things, things are going great.

Speaker 5 (02:12):
You know.

Speaker 4 (02:13):
We we even kissed before we went into the restaurant.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
And that's a good sign, really good sign.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
That's usually it's like if you're lucky after dinner.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
You know, this was right away, and you.

Speaker 4 (02:29):
Know, set the tone for some real romance, and after dinner,
you know, we kissed again and I told her that
I was gonna call her this week with a plan
for another adventure.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
You know, it's just amazing. This is so good, So.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
You're really into her.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
It sounds like the date went great, though, to have
a two part date and kisses, it feels.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Like there's really great momentum. What could have gone wrong?
You think?

Speaker 4 (02:54):
You know, the only thing that I can really think
of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that,
like sometimes I say.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
The wrong thing at the wrong time.

Speaker 4 (03:04):
You know, I don't mean to, but like, we were
sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like
a designer handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,
she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make
a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So
I remember saying like, hey, where are you on OnlyFans
or something like, you know how you afford that fancy stuff?

Speaker 3 (03:32):
She It was like the only.

Speaker 4 (03:33):
Point where I forget all that romance is she looked
just like cold, and then she kind of played it off,
but she's like, I'm just I'm a good thrifter.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
And there was a little awkward moment there, you know, I.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
Moved on from it and I told her, you say, hey,
I'm mean to offend you or anything, and I told
her it was a joke.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
And that was the only moment that kind of that
I can think of that was like, oh, is that
what it was?

Speaker 4 (04:00):
Did I really ruin it by putting my foot in
my mouth again?

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land. You got
to tell that one right, just right. You gotta tell
that one just right and not be like, yeah, okay,
well yeah, maybe that's why she's not calling you back.
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she's house, why she's ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
Okay, oh my gosh, please yes, thank you.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
All right, we'll play a song come back, and get
your first day follow up next right, little of today's
first date follow up. If you're just joining us, Jr.
Is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Marie
and so in a second we're gonna call her and
see if she's house why she's ghosting him. But before
we do that, Jarah, why don't you catch us up
on your situation?

Speaker 4 (04:39):
Yeah, so went on the best first day I've ever had.
We broke one of my fears, going horseback riding. We
kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out
of a movie as far as I'm concerned. And I
may have put my foot in my mouth, but I think.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
It went really well overall.

Speaker 4 (04:59):
And I can't get her to get back to me,
and I really want to go on another adventure with her.

Speaker 1 (05:03):
But your foot in your mouth was there because you
asked her if she was on only fans because she
had nice things.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, but it was a joke, right right? All right, man,
are you ready for us to call her?

Speaker 3 (05:15):
I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Marie. Please.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
This is her.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
Hey, Marie, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show
him Marie. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victorian. Hey, how are you good things? How are
you great? Thanks for asking? Have you ever heard of
the show before? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (05:50):
I love the show?

Speaker 3 (05:51):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (05:51):
Thanks great? Do you like the first a follow ups?

Speaker 5 (05:55):
Yes? Oh?

Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yes, congratulations Because this is a first day fall up.
Oh no, you're gusting somebody. And they emailed us about you.
Do you know who that would be?

Speaker 3 (06:08):
Yes Jr?

Speaker 2 (06:14):
Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told us about
your date. He said he really liked you, and he's
not sure. Why are you ghost sing him? Do you
point telling us?

Speaker 5 (06:22):
Oh my goodness, I'm so marrious. Well I really liked
him too, but and and the date was great and everything,
but to be honest, he was asking some personal questions
and he seemed like he was crying a little good.
I couldn't tell if he was joking or not, but he,
you know, it was getting a little too close to

(06:43):
finding out a secret, honestly. And I I just don't
go out with guys like that.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Like inquisitive, like guys like that. Do you what do
you mean?

Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know, I like to
keep my privacy, you know, like my personal business is
my business.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Okay, what do you mean by that?

Speaker 5 (07:04):
Well? You know, I just I want a guy to
like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.
And I, you know, I'm not sure if he's like
creepy or not.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
You don't know if he's creepy or not why.

Speaker 5 (07:20):
Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my
bag that I mean, I'd like to have my stuff,
And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and
and and it made me think, is that how he
saw me?

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Is that?

Speaker 5 (07:34):
Like?

Speaker 3 (07:35):
Is that why he's okay?

Speaker 1 (07:38):
So you feel like he put two and two together
and you're usually low key about it.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
You probably knew how people that want to date you
because of that.

Speaker 5 (07:45):
Well, yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure
that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured
it out and that's why he asked me for a date.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
Ohha, whoa, whoa, Wait a minute, So you you are
on Only Fans.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 5 (08:03):
No, oh my god, Oh my goodness, old hi, Oh
my gosh.

Speaker 4 (08:10):
Yeah, I swear I did not know you were on there.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
I was just making a joke.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
That is a bad time joke.

Speaker 5 (08:20):
I thought that you that you for sure knew I
was on and that's why you asked me out. So
you really just saw me on the app and genuinely
just wanted to go out with me.

Speaker 4 (08:33):
Yeah, you seem so sweet. It's one percent for like
who you are.

Speaker 5 (08:40):
Oh my gosh, I'm going to cry.

Speaker 3 (08:44):
It is cool that you have an only fans.

Speaker 5 (08:49):
You do, You're cool with it.

Speaker 3 (08:52):
Yeah, I don't care about that. I'd never judge you
for that, you know.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
I mean, if you want to keep it a secret,
maybe you know, don't bring out the fans stuff.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
You were doing so well. This is just another one,
this moment.

Speaker 3 (09:08):
I like, what can I say? Yeah, no, I'm sorry.
I was so stupid.

Speaker 4 (09:13):
I was just trying to do I danced in person,
but you guys can't see that.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
And it was supposed to be a joke and I
suck at that.

Speaker 2 (09:20):
But you rode a horse j r.

Speaker 3 (09:23):
You did Yeah, and she was amazing. I never would
have done it if it wasn't for Marie. Like it
was great. It was you were my little You're my
hero that day, Marie. It was great.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
You guys are actually really cute.

Speaker 5 (09:35):
Thank you. You are really sweet, Air and I and
I do really like.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
You, Marie. Would you like to go on another day?
Which are We'll pay for it really?

Speaker 3 (09:43):
Yeah? Oh my gosh, please please say yes, Please say yes.
I swear already whoever you Yes, great, okay, Sorry