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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Justin is on the phone today for our first Day
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Carle.
So we're about to call her and see if we
can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get
him another date. In a second, before we do that, though, Justin,
how long has it been since you heard from Carly?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Probably been a weings, I'd say, Now, have.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
You tried to reach out to her like multiple times
in that week?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
No, I definitely reached out to her for sure, you know,
and then I and then I reached out to her again,
and then that was you know, that was it. So
waited a few days and I still haven't heard anything.
So it was like, you know, I reached out, we
had the eight then I didn't talk to her the
next day or anything. I reached out to her the
day after then I'd never heard from her. Then I
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texted her again several days later just to kind of
check in.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Yeah, and uh, it's nothing I recognize voice. Have we
done a first day followed with you before?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Well, you know, you got me.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
So this is this first day follow up number two
for you, then.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
I guess, I guess wing the missus out of here.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Really listen, if you're even trying, then that's all. Yeah,
it's all good man. So you know the drill. Then wow,
don't why don't you tell us about your date?
Speaker 5 (01:20):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Okay, So I don't know if this came into play before,
but I love the outdoors. Uh, And I went on
the state with this girl, Carly, and Carly also loves
the outdoors, so we decided to go on the hike. Uh.
You know, I brought a backpack with a bunch of necessities,
you know, for a picnic. It got a really nice
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bottle of rose. It was still cold, keeping it chill,
you know how we like to do out here. So
he's got up a picnic at a you know, like
a top, little like overlooked thing. Uh. And it had
a gorgeous view and it was really quaint and cool.
But uh, we here enjoying each other's company and we
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just become completely honest. We couldn't help but notice. So
we just like kept seeing some movement and whatnot. And
then you know, when we started to kind of check
into like, well, what is that you know, is that
animals whatever it was people in costumes. Uh, it looks
like they were doing the cosplay or something like that. Well,
(02:27):
they were like, what the heck is going on? You know,
and it was funny, and we both decided we're like,
you know what, you know, this is in the moment,
let's do this. Let's just go figure out what's going on.
That's a fun part of the date. Yeah, so we did.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
You're a hiking and you ended up in finding a
bunch of costays people out in the woods, Like that
is a recipe for either a really great time or
a really weird time, which also could be great, right right.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Right, I like weird, you know. So you know, so
we wanted to do a little investigated and we're like,
you know, let's do it. And we went down there
and turns out well and behold that they were in
fact a costly group. They got dressed up for a
phoe shoot and had speakers. We couldn't hear the music
from far away. But then once we got up there,
we're like, they had this like, you know, portable seeker
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that had like one of those like disco kind of
like kind of things. Going on a whole vibe. Yeah,
and they just welcomed us, welcomed us right into their party.
And honestly, Carly and I thought it was like, you know,
we keep kept giving each other looks and stuff like,
at least in my impression, we were like in our
own little world and we were just like dancing and
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laughing with new Kerns. Was really cool.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
I don't really know, you know, I mean, I know
that of when we were going back up at some point, uh,
I allowed her to Carly to pick up, you know,
some of the our picnic stuff, and you know, she offered,
but I hesitated. I'm a gentleman, like I really don't
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think like I just want to be like the brute
force sky, you know, so like I wanted to do
all that stuff, but I hesitated and I let her
do it. And like maybe she thinks like I'm not
burly enough or or I'm just not really sure. That's
how we had a great time. So I can't really
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make sense of why I would not be hearing from her,
especially after an evening like that. It was so fun
and one in a million.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
All right, man, Well you know how it works. Well,
play us.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
I'll come back and then call her and see if
we can figure out why you're getting ghosted and get
you another date if you still want one. Okay, all right, cool,
thank you, all right, pleas I'll come back get your
first day follow up right after.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
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Speaker 2 (04:53):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up,
and Justin is on the phone today he's getting ghosted
by Carly. He's actually this is his second first eight
follow up.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
He's still trying.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
He's still trying, still trying, And I feel like, you know,
you're the type of personality that you never really lose,
even if you kind of lose.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
That's how I feel, all right.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
So we're about to call Farley and see why she's
ghosting him. But before we do that, justin refresh everybody's
memory about your day with Carly.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Yeah, this really cool, random, unique date where we were
at went hiking and went to this lookout and then
saw some people down below us, and we weren't really
sure what was going on, but it looked intriguing and
we decided to check him out. So when we got
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down there, we realized they were a dressed up doing
cosplay and they had like a party going on. They
had like a speaker with music and like lights and stuff,
and they were all dancing around and it was really fun.
We went down there, We had a good time. We
danced around and laughed at people, you know, exchanged some numbers,
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did all that kind of good stuff. It was great.
Since that point, I didn't contact her the next day,
and I figured I'd reach out here today after and
I did. I never heard back from her. And then
I waited several days and I reached out again, did
and never heard heard that from her. So now I'm like, well,
what the heck happened? You know? And ultimately I think
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maybe I did something during that time, and I think
it was that maybe I wasn't serve enough as I
should have been and taking charge of lifting the things
back up, because we brought pictick stuff for the lookout,
and then we packaged it up and then brought it
back down to the people, and then we went back
to our spot because we had left some things there. Oh,
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I don't know, you know, I just really don't know
what it.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
What it is manual labor on a date. Bro, Well,
she asked me to do something. I'm kidding.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
We're about to find out, all right, here we go,
I am about to call her. Okay, Hello, I may
speak to Carly please. This is hey Carly.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (07:23):
My name is Jeubell, hosts the radio show, and the
show is called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
And the whole show is here to Carly. Hi, my
name is Nina.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
I'm good. I'm what's going on?
Speaker 4 (07:38):
Have you ever heard of the show before?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
No?
Speaker 4 (07:41):
I mean I.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Feel like I'm familiar, but I haven't listened to you.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Right, it sounds like a nice note. Hey, So we're
calling you today because we do a segment on the show.
It's called the first date follow up. What that is
is if you go out on day with someone and
then you end up ghosting them, that person can email
us to get you on the phone and ask why
you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
So you are currently ghosting something, buddy?
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Oh, okay, do you know you're ghosting.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
I mean my most recent yeah, my most recent date.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Justin Yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Justin is the one who emailed it, and he wants
to know why you're ghosting and.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
I mean to me, Actually, I mean he was actually
really fun. We had a good time. He like, we
planned to go on a hike and.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
I'm sorry, Carly, I don't know what just happened.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Justin is actually on the phone listening and wants to
talk to you, and it sounds like he's having some problems.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
Dude, he had to do that before she even told us.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Wait what yeah, Justin go just go ahead now, man,
find your answer.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Oh what happened?
Speaker 4 (08:57):
What'd you drop?
Speaker 3 (08:59):
I'm I just I don't know. I just dropped like
my pen or something. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
Anyways, Hi Carly, it was a heavy pen. Yeah, you know,
so you.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
Want to know, you want to know why I.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Didn't text you back, Right, That's what this whole thing is.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Well, yeah, I mean you know, I thought we had
some times. Honest, we did.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
We did have a fun time.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
You are not wrong.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
It was super fun.
Speaker 7 (09:31):
It was super weird and like nothing like that ever
happen my life ever, right, And yes it was. It
was a bizarre once in a lifetime of like alternate
reality sort of date, and it was it was fun,
but here's the deal. And I think that you think
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I don't know this, but I saw you with this.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Is gonna sound so dumb, but with.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
One of the fairies, and you.
Speaker 6 (10:00):
Were like, it's like one of the girls dressed up
with the ferry, right, And so I saw you guys
exchange home numbers, and in the moment, I was like,
oh whatever, you know, this is the first day and
now we're at this.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Constantly party in the woods, so.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
It's not like I have like you know, it was
not a big serious thing, but you know, I was
just thinking about it and I was like, I don't I'm.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Not up for like casual stuff right now.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
I liked you and we had a great time, and
I think we had good chemistry, and I just don't
want to be like on a list of several girls.
And so that's totally cool that that's where you're at
right now, right like you obviously can, but that's that's
not where I go.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
Are you saying that I have like a roster? No,
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (10:52):
I have no idea you were on with me and
then you were exchanging numbers with someone else.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Absolutely not. I actually really liked you and the faery
was looking for a web designer, which my brother is
so like that had nothing to do with anything other
than me connecting to people. I'm not like a roster guy.
I'm like, uh, I think I really like you guy,
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and well that I had a real connection with you,
because I've never had that kind of like like what
was that that was so cool? Like what happened with me?
Speaker 8 (11:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:30):
So like like I thought we were like gonna go
like watch a movie or something like pretty casual or whatever,
and then they were like dancing with fairies and causeplay
and all this stuff, and I'm like, yes, this is
totally my person, and like I feel like I really
have a connection with you, and I'd really like you
to give me a those shots and if you would,
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you know, that's awesome. But then now I'm kind of
thinking like, okay, first time, Like I totally get where
you're coming from. Why you didn't want to call you
back next time, though, Like you definitely got to speak
up on those kinds of things because if you don't,
like that's kind of a red flag, and then I
might be.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Going like a girl that you've been on one date
with to be like why are you talking to that other.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
Girl, No you don't because that would be weird.
Speaker 5 (12:23):
But like, I'm really here, so that's why I didn't.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
By the way, come on, let's be real. Forget the
altered reality stuff. In reality, we're talking about a fairy here,
a person a cause play fairy. I'm not trying to
date no fairies, honey, Okay, I'm trying to date a
princess that I can make my queen.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
Carl would you like to go on another date?
Speaker 8 (12:53):
I I say yes, but I think I will, right,
all right, we had like a renaissance fair or we
have to level up, right, so you've got to wear yeah?
Speaker 3 (13:08):
All right, Yeah, that's how we're gonna go with this one.
All right, we're gonna.
Speaker 4 (13:12):
Go congratulations, Justin you got another date?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
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