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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Kayla is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jay.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him SEFA,
tell us why he's ghosting her, and maybe get her
another date. But first let's find out about the date. Kayla,
how long has it been since you heard from Jay?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
It has been a couple of days. But here's the
thing is that we work together.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Oh have you seen him around the office? I have,
and he just like ignores you.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I texted him. It's like a whole story.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Like so I knew, like he's really shy, and I
totally knew that he had a crush on me, and
I thought he was super cute, So like I asked
him out and he was like super surprised but like excited,
and then we decided to go to.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Go out to go to like half the hour after work.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Okay, okay, yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
That all went well. Like he was a total gentleman
who's like holding open my door, pulling, you know, pulling
out my chair. Like when I had to go to
the restroom. He stood up with me, which I thought.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Was really cute, and he like he started opening up
like when he felt comfortable, and he's like so funny
and I like him even more. It was it's great,
Like we shared a burger and fries, and then we
kind of had an intense makeout, espessially in the.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Hallway by the mouth.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
See, now I don't know what to do because things
have kind of gotten like weird.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Well, so what was your last interaction?
Speaker 5 (01:32):
So after your date, You're like, cool, see you tomorrow
at work, Like what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Yeah, So it was like, okay, see you tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
But then when we got to work, we like were
really cute and shared a coffee in the kitchen and
then like that night, when I got home from work,
I sent him a meme and like he didn't respond.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Had you talked before the meme other than work? I
mean yeah, that day we did.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Yeah, we did, yeah, And then he didn't respond, So
I was like, okay, like maybe he's busy whatever. And
then I went in the next day and he was
like super busy and we didn't get a chance to talk.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
And so now I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
If I even want to text him again, Like he
never looked up from his desk.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Guys, that's like kind of like how busy he is.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
I guess, you know, so it.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Has only been a couple of days, but like we
work together, so like it's kind of like alarming for
him to just like gohest my text kind of thing.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
You know.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Yeah, and you can tell when somebody is avoiding you.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
And it's you know, I'm kind of thinking, I feel
I don't know why this is happening. Like I feel
maybe like I was too forward and he's like whoa,
Like she needs to cool it, you know what I mean?
Or like I also made fun of how we like superheroes.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Wait what but.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
I was like, mane, I meant it in an endearing
way though, like I'm by but maybe he was offended.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I'm not sure what to do now.
Speaker 5 (02:58):
Okay, well it sounds like something happened between was the
meme making fun of the superheroes? Then possibly Okay, I
mean maybe he was offended by that. Maybe you know,
he could be. I guess some people really take their
superhero love seriously. I mean we're joking, but like they do.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Yeah, I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
I think this ghosting is like kind of just it's
a little alarming, and I don't Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
What to do now.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out
for you. We'll play a song come back in the
column and see ifiel tell us why is ghosting you?
And then maybe get you another date if you still
want one. Okay, that would be awesome.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Play, I'll come back get your first day follow up next.
Right in the middle of your first day follow up,
if you're just joining us that Kayla is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.
We're about to call him and seafields hells, why is ghostinger?
And maybe get her another date? But first, why don't
you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Kayla?
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
So Jay and I worked together and we went out
for a happy hour and we had a really good time,
a little bit of a makeup session, and everything was
fine the day after, except for that night I sentiment meme.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Possibly making fun of his superheroes, and.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
The next day he didn't look up from his desk
and he never answered the text. So I don't know
what to do.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Now then, and you see him at work stale, So
that's awkward. And he hasn't talked to you. He hasn't
talked to you at work. No, okay, here we go.
You ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I am all right? Hello him asking to Jay? Please?
Speaker 6 (04:38):
This is Jay?
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Hey, Jay? What's up?
Speaker 5 (04:40):
Man?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
How are you? This is Jewble. I host a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 7 (04:43):
Hi.
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Jay.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
My name is Tina. Also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Y what's up?
Speaker 7 (04:49):
Jay?
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
We do a segment on the show and it's called
the first Date follow Up. So what that is is
if you go on a date with somebody in the
new top ghosting them, that person can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
So you currently are ghosting somebody.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
Oh okay, yeah, and they would.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Like to know why.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Oh I'm.
Speaker 7 (05:13):
Shocked that they're surprised.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Let's just make sure we're talking about the same person.
I'm talking about. Someone named Kayla.
Speaker 7 (05:20):
Yeah, yeah, Kayla. I just I like Kayla for so long, man,
like for like over a years. She's just we worked together.
She's just just so pretty she smells amazing out of nowhere.
She like asked me out on a date. Yeah, And
I was like, this is not correct. This sounds too
good to be true. We went on a date. It
(05:41):
was good, and then we kissed and her lips are
just so.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Soft and it was awesome. The next day after the date, though,
I noticed in I was leaving the office there.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
Was a really nice arrangement of flowers and it had
been delivered to her, and there was a note that
uh said, I love you.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
Always, And I was like, I was.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Correct, it was too good to be true. It was
it was a joke to her. It was a joke
to her, and I was embarrassed, and I was My
plan of action was just just stay away from her
and just not communicate.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Okay, she didn't tell us anything about that. We did
talk to her about your date. She was really confused,
but she didn't tell us anything about having like a
boyfriend or Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
I don't know why she would. That would probably be weird.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
If she had a boyfriend, and she was trying to
act like she didn't. But anyway, we didn't know that.
So so she she has a boyfriend.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
You think the the the arrangement that was sent to
her is really nice, and it just it just screams
a guy or somebody is in her life that is
I wasn't aware of and the date was meaningless.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
I didn't get that vibe.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
Like I didn't either, But she didn't want to just
like talk to her and kind of ask her.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
And even if it was her, maybe it's like a
long distance boyfriend or something like that.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Like if it really was a boyfriend, then it would
have to be somebody that's like not around.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
But I'd want to also call her out. Oh yeah,
on it.
Speaker 7 (07:04):
I just it's just my heart sucked, and it was,
you know, because I really I really liked her. I
mean I don't I don't know why she really cares
that I'm ghosting her. She has like obviously other options,
So I don't know, I'm not sure what.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
This is all about.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Well, why don't we ask her? She's on the phone
and been listening this whole time and would like to talk.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
To you, Hikayla, Hey, Hey, hey, how are you.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
I'm good. It's good to hear your voice. So, I mean, so,
so what's what was what was the deal with the flowers? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
About those don't worry. They're like not from any guy.
They were my best friend. Why I know, it was
a very fancy arrangement, and it was it's totally something
that a dude is sent to a girl. But she
broke up with her boyfriend and she like had to move.
She wasn't able to sleep by herself. I've had her
like living in my apartment for like the last like
(08:00):
two weeks. So the flowers were a thank you and
like there is a lot of love, of course, but
it's like my best friend.
Speaker 7 (08:07):
So so you're telling me that you've received those really
nice flower arrangement because you're just a really good friend.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
I don't Yeah, I will have her text you or
call you or come for lunch one time or something,
because I promise you they're from her.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
She hasn't lived with me for the last like two weeks.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
I thank you.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
This wasn't a joke. Dude. Really, I like you, but I'm.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Like confused as to why you just wouldn't say something
to me instead of keeping your head down all day
at work and like I even looking at me.
Speaker 7 (08:43):
That's fair.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
I just I really liked you.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
I've liked you for a while.
Speaker 7 (08:47):
And then you asked me on a date and the
date was everything was just it's not like a dream,
and and.
Speaker 6 (08:53):
I just I just felt like it was also a shatter.
Speaker 7 (08:56):
Dream when I saw the flowers. So I just I
just wanted to make sure that I don't know, I
just really like you. And I was embarrassed when I
saw those flowers because I thought there was someone else
in the picture.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Oh no, there is nobody else, honestly, nobody else.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
And like, I genuinely like you, like I think, I like,
I want to see where this goes, kind of you know,
I do too, I do too.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
Also, it was I think another.
Speaker 7 (09:20):
Thing that really played into when I when I saw
the flowers was you also assuming that meme and it
was kind of like roasting me about liking superheroes. So
I just put two and two together and I just
I just thought you were it was I'm.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Sorry, I'm sorry, I won't send you any more means
like that, And honestly, I'm I'm I'm kidding, Like, I mean,
I don't.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Like superheroes, but you can like whatever you want. It's fine,
it's you, it's one of your likes.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Whatever, I'll take you.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Yeah, yeah, I know if not.
Speaker 7 (09:49):
Everyone's not everyone's cup of tea. But like, I wish
you knew more about superheroes because like you're kind of
my kryptonite.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
I don't know what that means.
Speaker 7 (10:04):
Okay, well I just just simply explain it. So Superman's indestructible,
and but when he gets around krypton Ie, he's he's
weak and.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
He's uh yeah, and that's how you know.
Speaker 7 (10:16):
You make me soil, you make me weak. And but
I'm not in a Superman type of way, but like
in a romancy way, I'm not doing this really well.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Yeah, so apparently he can't withstand your power. Jay, would
you like to go on another day with Kaylab? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 7 (10:35):
I just I'm glad that this is what this was
and it wasn't something else.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Absolutely, Cayla, would you like to go with Jay again?
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Absolutely? Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
Sweet, Well, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 7 (10:47):
Oh. I mean right now, I I feel like all
of the Avengers combined with that. Just I just feel
so powerful and indestructible. I just wow, wow.
Speaker 6 (11:00):
Herca left know
Speaker 4 (11:02):
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