July 10, 2023 • 12 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Christa is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named
Cameron and she has no idea why. So let's see
if we can help her out, maybe figure out why,
and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. Krista,
before we talk about Cameron and your date, how long
has it been since you heard from him.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
It's been a couple of weeks now.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Have you tried to reach out to him multiple times?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I did.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
I sent a couple like texts back to back, but
double texting makes me feel a little weird.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
And then I did actually call him once and didn't
get a response.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
If you don't me asking if it's been like a
few weeks, what makes you want to actually get a
hold of him.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I guess, like, did the date just go that well?
Speaker 5 (00:51):
He went really well, and like, I know he's a
busy guy.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
You know, he worked really hard. So I guess there's
a part of me that's like, maybe he's just really
swamped right now and it has nothing to do with me.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
But to your point, though, Victoria, what was it about
Cameron that Krista? Yeah, but Christa, what was it about
Cameron that made him so special?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
He was like really charismatic and obviously there was like
a physical attraction there, but also like he just knows
how to like light up a.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
Room, like.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
No, his personality, like he just he like brought such.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Like this like warm and fuzzy feeling and he was
like making everyone smile around him.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
He was like.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Cracking jokes and he was like really really cute around
kids that we saw when we were on our date.
And yeah, I don't know, he just like made me
feel special and I could tell he was making other
people feel special as well.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Okay, well that makes sense. Yeah, so that's good. So
what do you think happened?
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Then?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Why do you think he's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I truly have no idea. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
I mean, like literally, the only thing I can think
of would be I'm a little bit more.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Awkward than he is.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
I don't know, like he's so natural with kids, but
like that's I don't really have that inclination.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
And so you know, like at one point I tried
to be like Cameron and I you know, I tried
to like make.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
This kid laugh when we were at the aquarium and
he actually the kids started crying, which like.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
It was not my intention obviously, What did you do?
I like kind of tried to like scare him a
little bit, like.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
I was sort of like impersonating a shark. It's like
a long story, but it kind of freaked him out.
And I don't know, I like Cameron and I laughed
about it, and so I thought it.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
Was you know, I thought it was like not a
big thing.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
But I don't know, maybe that was a red flag somehow.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Okay. I mean as a person who you know, I
never was around kids until recently, and so I was
always super awkward when I tried to talk to a kid,
and I just didn't know how to do it. So
I know where you're coming from, because I could tell
a lot of times when I would try, people be like, wow,
you obviously have never dealt with children before.
Speaker 5 (03:11):
You know.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
I don't know if that's enough to not call somebody back.
That was let's back up, Chris day. Can you tell
us about the date, like what happened on the date?
Speaker 5 (03:17):
Yeah, it was a day date, and like I said,
we went to this aquarium which was so fun, and
then afterward we.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Grabbed a couple of beers and some pizza. Yeah, it
was just like a.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Very wholesome, really fun, action packed day with kids crying.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah, seriously, all right, and you've heard nothing that you
other than just being awkward and making a kid cry.
You can't think of any other thing that went kind
of weird with your date.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
No, Like, we kissed at the end, and we basically
we both said like, I'm so excited to do this again,
and yeah, that was literally it.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, cool, Well, then we'll play a song come back,
and then call them and see if we can figure
it out for you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Okay, thank you, place.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Don comeback. Get your first Date follow Up, Next.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at ADVOCATESLA dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Right in the middle of your first Date follow up
if you're just joining us, Christa is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by Cameron, who she really liked
a lot. So we're gonna see if we can find
out why she's getting ghosted first when we call Cameron,
and then see if she still wants another date after
she hears why in just a second. But before we
do that, Christa refresherbody's memory about your date with Cameron.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Yeah, we went to an aquarium together. We had a
really great time. The only weird thing that happened was
like I accidentally.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Made a kid cry, but like I didn't think anything
of it, be like a lot about it.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
And then afterward we grabbed a couple of beers and pizza.
It was so fun. We kissed goodbye and we said
we'd see each other again.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
But I haven't heard anything that's weird. I mean, like,
it always trips me out when people will kiss and
they'll have like a nice moment at the end and
then get ghosted, you know, like yeah, if they just
go like all right, see you later or by with
no kind of affection, no kissing, no hugging, whatever, then
it makes sense. But when people like literally kissing then disappear, disappear,
(05:09):
kiss and disappear. M H Well, Christa, let's see if
we can make him kiss and reappear. I'm gonna call
him right now here we go, Hi, I speak to Cameron, please, Hi.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
Yeah, this is Cameron.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Cameron. What's up man? How are you. My name is
Jewbell from a radio show called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Hi, Cameron, not to overwhelm you, but my name is Nina,
also from the show.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
My name's Victoria, also from the show. There's three people
on the phone with you right now. We're calling you
because we got an email about you and we needed
to see if you had a few minutes to talk
about something.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, you So you guys have an email about me.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah. We do a segment on the show. It's called
the first Date follow Up. What that is is if
you go out on a date with somebody and then
you end up ghosting them, they can email us to
get you on the phone and find out what happened
and why you're ghosting them. And you're ghosting somebody that
listens to our show.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
Yeah, I think I know what this is about, honestly,
and I don't know if you guys really want want
me to go into it. I mean, I guess you do.
You're calling me, but like.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
You well, I mean, is that that much of a
thing thing, I mean, we got a couple of minutes,
It's okay.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Yeah, I want to make sure we're talking about the
right person. Her name is.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Christa, Yeah, yeah, that's that's that's the one.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I kind of figured, well, everybody who agrees to do
the first day follow up, they always know that they
can hear something that they might not want to hear.
So she wants to know.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
I'm kind of angry about it, if I'm being honest. Okay,
So the date was pretty great. I actually really really
liked her, okay, and so you're like, Okay, that should
be a good thing. Yeah, it is, but she is
in an open relationship with someone and she didn't tell
me that until.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Like literally we were leaping.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
Oh and then I have to supposedly that I'll meet
this guy because I don't know. I don't understand the
rules of that kind of arrangement.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
So how did that even come up though?
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Because we heard it was like a nice kiss at
the end of the day and then you guys were like, cool,
see you again soon. So where in that did that
come up?
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:23):
So we we kiss and it was good, and I
was like, I would love to see you again, and
then three hours later she said, yeah, I would love
to see you again, but I have to bring my
boyfriend and he would like to meet you as well,
because he she said she doesn't need permission to date anyone.
I mean, but I even got lost there. I'm like, wait, what,
(07:45):
Like you know what I mean, it's like layers of
players of like mental I don't, I couldn't. I didn't
want to even follow at that point.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
This is after you kissed.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
This is after we kissed. Yeah, this didn't come up
in the beginning.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
This didn't come up, you know, when we were texting
before the day. This came up at the end when
I felt emotionally like, she's a really cool person. I
could see myself with this person, do you know what
I mean?
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Yeah, I probably feel like I would ghost at that
point too.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
I mean, what are you gonna do?
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Like, I can't change that, do you know what I mean?
And I guess I'm judgmental, but I don't want to be,
And so just the best thing to do just to
like not engage and just move back into the weird
dating pool.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
It is so weird out there.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
I feel your struggle, Cameron, but I don't think you're
being judgmental for that. I think you feel misled.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Yeah, well thanks for telling us, man, I appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Yeah, Yeah, I mean, I don't I don't know. I guess.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
Sorry I wasn't more positive, you know.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
But that's feel all right? Yeah, I mean that's that's fine.
All we wanted to find out was the truth, and
I appreciate you being truthful. I also need to be
truthful and tell you that Christa has been on the
phone the whole time and has been listening and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Oh my god.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Okay, okay, Hi, Hi, how are you.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Not great? I feel that.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
I feel like you are actually being judgmental. To be honest,
A lot of people are in open relationships these days.
It's not like this weird, like abnormal thing. It's like
very common. And you didn't have to ghost.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
You could have. You could have just told me straight
up like I'm not comfortable with.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
That, and I would have under hypocritical, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Yeah, but I told you. It's not like I It's
not like I withheld information from you. I told you
when I needed to tell.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
You, so you felt you needed to tell me after
I got to know you and liked you as opposed
to me knowing that you come with a certain set
of everyone comes with you don't like you. Don't think
I need to know that I do. And that's why
I told you and I it was the first date.
(09:59):
It's not like I told, do you like three months
in or something like we had a great stage and
you even said that yourself.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
We had a great date. And I'm a I'm a
one woman man, and.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
I was really disappointed because I don't want to date
you and another dude, or you while you're dating another dude.
Do you know what I mean? Like I want to
develope one person.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
It goes both ways.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
Like you could have said on your profile, like I'm
not interested in dating you know, a person who's in
an open.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
Relation, Like don't you think that it would be the
person that's in the open relationship to disclose? Maybe you
can put that on your profile. Is there like a
simple like the pineapple that people can just put on there?
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Oh yeah, well I told like I told him in person.
I didn't like, I didn't want him to like judge
me based on my profile and then not like get
to know me, okay, and he got to know me
and he really liked me.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Yeah, I mean you.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
Told me at the end of the day, once we kissed,
once I had gotten to know you. Why didn't you
just tell me. Maybe at the beginning of.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
The date, it didn't come up.
Speaker 5 (11:01):
Cameron, you didn't ask me anything that that would like
make that would make me want to tell.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
You that, right, I didn't ask you at the end either.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
Yeah, okay, fair, But like you're making you're making me
out to be like a bad person because I because
I'm in an open relationship.
Speaker 6 (11:18):
I don't think you're a bad person. I'm just disappointing
because I really liked you. Cameron.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Would you like to go on another date with Crystal?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (11:26):
I appreciate that, but no, unless she is maybe knocking
to do this thing. But I don't want to change someone, you.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Know, Krista, how are you doing?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Allo?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Over there?
Speaker 3 (11:36):
I mean, of course, I'm disappointed.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
I think that really sucks and I feel like we're
shooting ourselves in the foot because this.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Just like this was a good thing.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
But I guess there's like I can't argue with your belief.
So I mean, Cameron, I'll I'll say, is like, you know,
we could have had a really good fun time the
three of us, and you're.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Missing out, so, uh don't I don't think so?
Speaker 6 (12:03):
But thanks?
Speaker 2 (12:04):
So polite,
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Christa is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named
Cameron and she has no idea why. So let's see
if we can help her out, maybe figure out why,
and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. Krista,
before we talk about Cameron and your date, how long
has it been since you heard from him.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
It's been a couple of weeks now.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Have you tried to reach out to him multiple times?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I did.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
I sent a couple like texts back to back, but
double texting makes me feel a little weird.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
And then I did actually call him once and didn't
get a response.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
If you don't me asking if it's been like a
few weeks, what makes you want to actually get a
hold of him.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I guess, like, did the date just go that well?
Speaker 5 (00:51):
He went really well, and like, I know he's a
busy guy.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
You know, he worked really hard. So I guess there's
a part of me that's like, maybe he's just really
swamped right now and it has nothing to do with me.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
But to your point, though, Victoria, what was it about
Cameron that Krista? Yeah, but Christa, what was it about
Cameron that made him so special?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
He was like really charismatic and obviously there was like
a physical attraction there, but also like he just knows
how to like light up a.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
Room, like.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
No, his personality, like he just he like brought such.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Like this like warm and fuzzy feeling and he was
like making everyone smile around him.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
He was like.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Cracking jokes and he was like really really cute around
kids that we saw when we were on our date.
And yeah, I don't know, he just like made me
feel special and I could tell he was making other
people feel special as well.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Okay, well that makes sense. Yeah, so that's good. So
what do you think happened?
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Then?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Why do you think he's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I truly have no idea. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
I mean, like literally, the only thing I can think
of would be I'm a little bit more.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Awkward than he is.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
I don't know, like he's so natural with kids, but
like that's I don't really have that inclination.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
And so you know, like at one point I tried
to be like Cameron and I you know, I tried
to like make.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
This kid laugh when we were at the aquarium and
he actually the kids started crying, which like.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
It was not my intention obviously, What did you do?
I like kind of tried to like scare him a
little bit, like.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
I was sort of like impersonating a shark. It's like
a long story, but it kind of freaked him out.
And I don't know, I like Cameron and I laughed
about it, and so I thought it.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
Was you know, I thought it was like not a
big thing.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
But I don't know, maybe that was a red flag somehow.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Okay. I mean as a person who you know, I
never was around kids until recently, and so I was
always super awkward when I tried to talk to a kid,
and I just didn't know how to do it. So
I know where you're coming from, because I could tell
a lot of times when I would try, people be like, wow,
you obviously have never dealt with children before.
Speaker 5 (03:11):
You know.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
I don't know if that's enough to not call somebody back.
That was let's back up, Chris day. Can you tell
us about the date, like what happened on the date?
Speaker 5 (03:17):
Yeah, it was a day date, and like I said,
we went to this aquarium which was so fun, and
then afterward we.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Grabbed a couple of beers and some pizza. Yeah, it
was just like a.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Very wholesome, really fun, action packed day with kids crying.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah, seriously, all right, and you've heard nothing that you
other than just being awkward and making a kid cry.
You can't think of any other thing that went kind
of weird with your date.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
No, Like, we kissed at the end, and we basically
we both said like, I'm so excited to do this again,
and yeah, that was literally it.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, cool, Well, then we'll play a song come back,
and then call them and see if we can figure
it out for you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Okay, thank you, place.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Don comeback. Get your first Date follow Up, Next.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
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online at ADVOCATESLA dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Right in the middle of your first Date follow up
if you're just joining us, Christa is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by Cameron, who she really liked
a lot. So we're gonna see if we can find
out why she's getting ghosted first when we call Cameron,
and then see if she still wants another date after
she hears why in just a second. But before we
do that, Christa refresherbody's memory about your date with Cameron.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Yeah, we went to an aquarium together. We had a
really great time. The only weird thing that happened was
like I accidentally.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Made a kid cry, but like I didn't think anything
of it, be like a lot about it.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
And then afterward we grabbed a couple of beers and pizza.
It was so fun. We kissed goodbye and we said
we'd see each other again.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
But I haven't heard anything that's weird. I mean, like,
it always trips me out when people will kiss and
they'll have like a nice moment at the end and
then get ghosted, you know, like yeah, if they just
go like all right, see you later or by with
no kind of affection, no kissing, no hugging, whatever, then
it makes sense. But when people like literally kissing then disappear, disappear,
(05:09):
kiss and disappear. M H Well, Christa, let's see if
we can make him kiss and reappear. I'm gonna call
him right now here we go, Hi, I speak to Cameron, please, Hi.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
Yeah, this is Cameron.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Cameron. What's up man? How are you. My name is
Jewbell from a radio show called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Hi, Cameron, not to overwhelm you, but my name is Nina,
also from the show.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
My name's Victoria, also from the show. There's three people
on the phone with you right now. We're calling you
because we got an email about you and we needed
to see if you had a few minutes to talk
about something.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, you So you guys have an email about me.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah. We do a segment on the show. It's called
the first Date follow Up. What that is is if
you go out on a date with somebody and then
you end up ghosting them, they can email us to
get you on the phone and find out what happened
and why you're ghosting them. And you're ghosting somebody that
listens to our show.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
Yeah, I think I know what this is about, honestly,
and I don't know if you guys really want want
me to go into it. I mean, I guess you do.
You're calling me, but like.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
You well, I mean, is that that much of a
thing thing, I mean, we got a couple of minutes,
It's okay.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Yeah, I want to make sure we're talking about the
right person. Her name is.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Christa, Yeah, yeah, that's that's that's the one.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I kind of figured, well, everybody who agrees to do
the first day follow up, they always know that they
can hear something that they might not want to hear.
So she wants to know.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
I'm kind of angry about it, if I'm being honest. Okay,
So the date was pretty great. I actually really really
liked her, okay, and so you're like, Okay, that should
be a good thing. Yeah, it is, but she is
in an open relationship with someone and she didn't tell
me that until.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Like literally we were leaping.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
Oh and then I have to supposedly that I'll meet
this guy because I don't know. I don't understand the
rules of that kind of arrangement.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
So how did that even come up though?
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Because we heard it was like a nice kiss at
the end of the day and then you guys were like, cool,
see you again soon. So where in that did that
come up?
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:23):
So we we kiss and it was good, and I
was like, I would love to see you again, and
then three hours later she said, yeah, I would love
to see you again, but I have to bring my
boyfriend and he would like to meet you as well,
because he she said she doesn't need permission to date anyone.
I mean, but I even got lost there. I'm like, wait, what,
(07:45):
Like you know what I mean, it's like layers of
players of like mental I don't, I couldn't. I didn't
want to even follow at that point.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
This is after you kissed.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
This is after we kissed. Yeah, this didn't come up
in the beginning.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
This didn't come up, you know, when we were texting
before the day. This came up at the end when
I felt emotionally like, she's a really cool person. I
could see myself with this person, do you know what
I mean?
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Yeah, I probably feel like I would ghost at that
point too.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
I mean, what are you gonna do?
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Like, I can't change that, do you know what I mean?
And I guess I'm judgmental, but I don't want to be,
And so just the best thing to do just to
like not engage and just move back into the weird
dating pool.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
It is so weird out there.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
I feel your struggle, Cameron, but I don't think you're
being judgmental for that. I think you feel misled.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Yeah, well thanks for telling us, man, I appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Yeah, Yeah, I mean, I don't I don't know. I guess.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
Sorry I wasn't more positive, you know.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
But that's feel all right? Yeah, I mean that's that's fine.
All we wanted to find out was the truth, and
I appreciate you being truthful. I also need to be
truthful and tell you that Christa has been on the
phone the whole time and has been listening and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Oh my god.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Okay, okay, Hi, Hi, how are you.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Not great? I feel that.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
I feel like you are actually being judgmental. To be honest,
A lot of people are in open relationships these days.
It's not like this weird, like abnormal thing. It's like
very common. And you didn't have to ghost.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
You could have. You could have just told me straight
up like I'm not comfortable with.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
That, and I would have under hypocritical, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Yeah, but I told you. It's not like I It's
not like I withheld information from you. I told you
when I needed to tell.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
You, so you felt you needed to tell me after
I got to know you and liked you as opposed
to me knowing that you come with a certain set
of everyone comes with you don't like you. Don't think
I need to know that I do. And that's why
I told you and I it was the first date.
(09:59):
It's not like I told, do you like three months
in or something like we had a great stage and
you even said that yourself.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
We had a great date. And I'm a I'm a
one woman man, and.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
I was really disappointed because I don't want to date
you and another dude, or you while you're dating another dude.
Do you know what I mean? Like I want to
develope one person.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
It goes both ways.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
Like you could have said on your profile, like I'm
not interested in dating you know, a person who's in
an open.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
Relation, Like don't you think that it would be the
person that's in the open relationship to disclose? Maybe you
can put that on your profile. Is there like a
simple like the pineapple that people can just put on there?
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Oh yeah, well I told like I told him in person.
I didn't like, I didn't want him to like judge
me based on my profile and then not like get
to know me, okay, and he got to know me
and he really liked me.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Yeah, I mean you.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
Told me at the end of the day, once we kissed,
once I had gotten to know you. Why didn't you
just tell me. Maybe at the beginning of.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
The date, it didn't come up.
Speaker 5 (11:01):
Cameron, you didn't ask me anything that that would like
make that would make me want to tell.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
You that, right, I didn't ask you at the end either.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
Yeah, okay, fair, But like you're making you're making me
out to be like a bad person because I because
I'm in an open relationship.
Speaker 6 (11:18):
I don't think you're a bad person. I'm just disappointing
because I really liked you. Cameron.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Would you like to go on another date with Crystal?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (11:26):
I appreciate that, but no, unless she is maybe knocking
to do this thing. But I don't want to change someone, you.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Know, Krista, how are you doing?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Allo?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Over there?
Speaker 3 (11:36):
I mean, of course, I'm disappointed.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
I think that really sucks and I feel like we're
shooting ourselves in the foot because this.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Just like this was a good thing.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
But I guess there's like I can't argue with your belief.
So I mean, Cameron, I'll I'll say, is like, you know,
we could have had a really good fun time the
three of us, and you're.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Missing out, so, uh don't I don't think so?
Speaker 6 (12:03):
But thanks?
Speaker 2 (12:04):
So polite,
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