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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date is follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocusla dot com. Leila is on the
phone today for a first DAVE follow up, and she's
getting ghosted by a dude named Trent. So in a
few minutes, we're gonna call him and see if he'll
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her a
second date. But first, Leila, how long has it been
since you heard from Trent? Hey?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
So it's been about a couple like months, I would
say a while. Yeah, he was just really nice. I
thought we had a lot of chemistry. I've been out
on other dates since, and like, to me, I'm still
thinking about him, so I'd love to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
All right, I get that, So why don't you tell
us about the date?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Then?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
So well, first of all, like he is like super charming,
of course, Like that's why I'm still thinking about him.
And he took me instead of like, you know, a
boring dinner date or whatever, he took me to a
trampoline dodgeball night at like an indoor kind of jump
part thing.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Yeah, wait a minute, they do that.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Okay, I didn't know they did that either.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
And so I was like, oh my god, it's such
a fun idea for a date.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
And it just made me feel at ease.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Like he was so goofy and confident and like he
was really charming. He had like this curly hair. I
was like, oh my god, he's just so cute, you know,
and then like you know, it was like competitive flirty,
like I don't know, it just felt like the whole
night was going so well. So I'm just not really
sure you know why he just didn't call me back
(01:34):
after all of that.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
So you feel like he was into you too. You
guys are like jumping and either was like a vibe.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, like like he didn't mind like losing and like cracking.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
Chokes the whole time. And you know, like at one point, like.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
We were like joking around and staked like a dramatic
death scene. You know, I tagged him with the ball
and we couldn't stop laughing.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
I was like, oh my god, this.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Is like what I would picture like movie first date
to me, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Yeah, fun, Oh fine, how did it end?
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
So, like what I will say is like the thing
that I keep thinking about on the date, I'm like,
is this the reason he's not talking to me.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
So like at one point, at one point, I like
went to go for a.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Big bounce and I ended up slipping, and like truly,
when I tell you, I belly flopped onto the trampoline
and that like it was loud and.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Every single person, no, it hurt.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Like you think you can only belly flop in a pool,
and here I am at like, you know, an indoor
trampoline park, just like slopping down and it was so
loud and everybody stopped to look. And then to top
it all off, my phone Like it is so America.
My phone like flew out of my hand, okay, And then.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
My theory started going off.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
And my theory was like don't forget bikini wax at
three pm, and I was like, oh.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
My god, it's just like hey, I know you fell
down right now, but you got to get the kini
wax at three.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Sherry couldn't just let me live for like a second,
like come on, do you think he heard it?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
And like, I mean he obviously saw you belly flop.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Well, he definitely heard it too, because like you know,
the whole thing was so embarrassing. And then he just
looked at me. He laughed, like he carried my phone
back to me. He hugged me, and I'm like right,
and he was like, this is the most fun I've
had in a while.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
And I was like, wait, me too.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
You know, so I don't know, like I can't imagine
why he would ghost me, because, like our chemistry was
so great, it made no sense to me why I
never heard from him again. I'm like, really, couldn't have
been a belly flop and a stery announcing my.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Wax, Like I don't I hope.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
See, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll
play a song come back, and then call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and
maybe get you a second date if you still want one. Okay, Okay, thanks,
all right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up.
Layla is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a guy named Trent. So we're about to call him
(04:05):
and so you feel tell us why he's ghostinger and
maybe get her a second date. But before we did that, Laila,
why don't you remind us about your situation again? Real quick.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Okay, So I went on the first date with Trent.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
He took me to an indoor like trampoline dodgeball night.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
It was so much fun.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
But now he's ghosting me, and I think it might
be because of like when I belly flopped on the
date and then my phone said like whax at three pm.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
So you know, all right, just complete chaos. I would
think that it would be a weird reason to ghost somebody,
but you never know. I mean some deser into that too.
That's the weird part to me. Into the waxing. Yeah,
they're always like who you are wax today?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Like they did? Really? Yeah? I just think ow. But anyway, okay,
for us to call ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Yeah, here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Hello, Hi maskik to Trent. Please is this him? Hey Trent?
How are you? This is a radio show. It's called
The Jubile Show. Hi Trent. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria
and my name's Juble. What's up? Hi?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
How are you good?
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
I think I have?
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Actually, yeah, oh well, are you familiar with the first
date follow ups that we do?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Kind of I might have heard like the end of
it one time, but no, not really.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Okay, Well, it's a segment where if you go out
on a date and you end up ghosting somebody, that
person can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay, and we got
an email about you from somebody. Okay, you have any
idea you're ghosting that would email us to call you
and ask why.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Uh. I go to this girl named Layla, but that
was like a couple of months ago.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Oh okay, guess what, Laila hasn't forgotten because that's who
email does. And she said that she liked you a lot,
and uh, yeah, hasn't heard from you. And once you know,
if you'll tell us why you're ghostinger, do you remember?
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Uh, this is kind of awkward.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Yeah, we had a the date was cool. I don't
I don't know what you guys know and not know,
but just.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Went to Dodgeball and had a great time. And she
said she liked you a lot. That's pretty much what
she told us.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Yeah, the Dodgeball was cool, but yeah, I don't know. Honestly,
it was a it was the legs, what legs her legs?
Her legs.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Yeah, I don't know how much I can deal with
all that hair down there.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
She had hairy legs, that's why you're not calling her back.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Uh yeah, kind of like over the top Harry legs
like harrier than my legs.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Okay, do you shave your legs?
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Who are you? Ask? How Harry are you?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I'm trying to get a picture on my head, Trent,
How Harry are you like?
Speaker 4 (07:13):
How Harry on my leg?
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
No, normal normal guy Harry, not like Italian Harry.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
But no. Wow.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Okay, Well, hair can be taken care of, but there
are people that have different beliefs when it comes to hair.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
That's why you're ghosting, right right? Was it just an
off day?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Like maybe she just didn't shave that day because she
wasn't expecting to take her pants off.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Well, I don't want to tell people how to handle
their hygiene. But if she's the kind of girl that,
like a little bit hippie like then doesn't like to shave,
that's cool. That's just not my bag, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Okay, Well, thank you for being honest with us.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Yeah. Now I'll let you know that Leila is actually
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
Wait, she's here, like right now, Hi, tryn hey, Leila.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
I just like I'm just like, honestly, I'm just so
shocked over here that you ghosted me over my hairy legs.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Like come on, yeah, I mean, I'm I'm sorry, but
that image just burned in the back of my skull
for the rest of my life.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
We're a deal, Like are your legs always hairy? Leila?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
You know?
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Like the thing is like it was, this is what
it was a couple of months ago. It was cold out, okay,
I was a wearing dance by my legs were not.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Shaved because switer, Like that's what that's for.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
You're right, I wasn't playing on taking my pants off
that day, so like who cares? Also, like that has
nothing to do with hygiene, just by the way, Like
just something you might want to research is like, just
because my legs are not shaved and smooth doesn't mean
my hygiene is that Also, like, let's let's.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Not forget when my serry phone went off and said
that I had a whax, Like this man should.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Have assumed I take care of my hair, Like the
hair that needs to be taken care of.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
I take care of it once every other month.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Oh well, you have to let your hair grow before
you get a wax, so you can get all the
hair pulled out.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Right in the winter, like maybe once every other month.
I am shaving my legs like and and what you know,
Like who cares?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
I don't know. It looked like a small woodland creature.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
That's just it was surprising.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
It was a little shocking when you jumped up for dodgeball.
It was like scared me a little bit. I'm not
gonna lie. I actually can't even believe that.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
For like months, I've been sitting here wondering what it
is that I did wrong, And you're gonna help me
because I didn't shave my legs Like that gross you
out so much that that's gonna like be the deciding
factor of you ghosting me, Like get a grip, dude,
Like I don't understand, Like, so what every person has
to be like perfect in your mind? And the perfection
(09:53):
list starts at shaving your legs, Like maybe you should
think of other things that aren't so superficial that you're
looking for in a partner, because that's probably like at
the end of my life, like, I don't think I'll
be shaving my legs anymore.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
So you know, look, I get that everybody different.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Everybody's jeans are different, everybody's you know, method and taking
care of themselves differ.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
I just don't want a date a girl that has
hairer legs than me.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
I mean, like, I saw his legs and from where
I'm standing, my legs were.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Not hairer than yours, sir.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
But if that's what you are thinking, that they were
hairer than yours, and maybe you should go get your
testosterone levels checked out.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
I'm like, Tranth, would you like another date with Leila?
Won't pay for it?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
My testosterone is perfect. I don't think we need to
be looking at my testosterone, right, we should look at
your testosterone.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
I'm okay.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
I'm okay over here. I'm good on the no shaved
season or whatever excuse you want to give yourself. I'm
okay on that girls shave all the time.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
They do and they don't too just because it's a
lot of work. Whatever.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
As far as me going on a second date, like
huge path, I do not need a person who is
more interested in if here than my personality.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
Take it easy, sasquatch, take it easy, well, I mean whatever,
You're an ool.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
So oy okay, Oh.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
It's cool without fatigu because you have no testosterone.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
You will first date, follow up,