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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lillian is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Drew.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if you'll tell us why is ghostinger and possibly get
her a second date if she still wants one. But first, Lilian,
how long has it been since you heard from old Drew.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Since our date? I haven't heard from him since then.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
And how long is that?
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Well, that was about like five or six days ago. Yeah.
So the thing is is that I think I almost killed.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Him, like not dramatically, but still there was like a
shrimp element involved. Okay, yeah, so okay, so this is embarrassing,
but okay, we were at this amazing tirestra right when
we got there are like legs grace und table, and
we kind of stayed touching, which was a really good sign.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Like I immediately felt.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Like we were vibing and we had really really good
energy and like he was like totally into me. Okay,
I don't know, I just like was trying to be
bold and I wanted to show him like I'm the
kind of girl that can like make a decision about
her order and about her life and everything. So I
ordered the pad tie with shrimps, and I didn't really
think anything of it.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
And so the waitress brings.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Out and drew like freezes, like full body stiffness.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
It was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Apparently he is deathly allergic to shellfish. And I'm just
sitting there like boom, this is so good, like pragnically
sorping up shrimp juice across the table from him.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
What a visual.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah, it was so embarrassing, so cringe. And he like
didn't tell me this until we were like really far
into the dinner. He was allergic to shellfish, and like
not just regularly, like definitely allergic. Like there was no
way a kiss could even happen.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
At all, like one of those where if you touch
your lips, he'd you know go into yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
And like he was like, oh, like I can't kiss you,
and and.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Not like in a flirty way, and like if we
accidentally graze our lips together, he will need like his
EpiPen kind of way.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Why didn't he tell you this like that?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
So, I mean I just would have told me earlier,
Like I definitely would have ordered something different.
Speaker 5 (02:35):
I could have gone like chicken or Tofu even like something.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Different, but he didn't really let me know. So I'm
just panicking a little bit.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
So is that why you think that he's ghosting you?
Or did something else happen?
Speaker 5 (02:48):
I mean, what else could it be?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
I feel like I we have such a good time,
we really hit it off, but I practically turned myself into.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
A biohazard for him.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
So I mean, I you know, there was no way
it was going to work out. I did text him
like immediately afterwards, and I said, like, I wish you
would have told me sooner, like again, like I would
have had me to gone with chicken or Tofu. And
so I text him right then after the date and
then it's just been radio silence ever since.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Okay, yeah, well we'll see if we can figure it
out for you.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
Then Okay, I will say this morning, I did send
him a.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Text, which is again so cringe.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
But in case he brings it up, like I sent him.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
A text and I was like, okay, I'm gonna be
funny about this. Like so I sent him like a picture,
like a selfie, and I had like kind of hot
and I like lost my.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Lips up and I was saying, like.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Look those shrimps, like kind of being funny about it,
and it's still nothing.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
So yeah, really really really very embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
And Kris, so put yourself out there looking hot and
then you still get left on red. That's infuriating.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Yeah, but I'm also mostly embarrassed.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date. Okay, that'd be great.
All right, we'll get your first day follow up right
after this, right in the middle of your first day
follow up.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
If sound like Irish sort of leper cottage.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
There, I did a little bit right in the middle
of your first date follow up.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I like it that way.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Lilian is on the phone today and she's getting ghosted
by a guy named drews. Soo, we're about to call
him and see if he tell us why he's ghostinger
and maybe get her a second date. But first, Lilian,
why don't you break down your situation for us again
real quick?
Speaker 5 (04:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Okay, So I went on the day with Drew like
we were totally vibing, and I ordered shrimp he had
high for dinner, and I'm like, beep into our meal.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I found out he's like definitely allergic to shellfish. So
I essentially like made myself a human bio hazard.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
And at the end of the night, she was like,
I like, can't.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Kiss you, won't kiss you, like, I will need my
EPI pen And I was so embarrassed, and I like
text him afterwards and everything, and I just have not
heard anything from him, and so I feel like that's
got to be why I'm getting goosted.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
But like we were vibing before that.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
All right, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Okay, go ahead.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
Okay, Well here we go.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Hello.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Hi, I'm aspeaking to Drew. Please.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
This is Drew.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Hey, Drew, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Hi, Drew, I'm Mina.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Hi, I'm Victoria Man, I'm Jebel. Have you ever heard
of the show before?
Speaker 5 (05:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Yeah on the radio?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Yeah cool.
Speaker 7 (05:40):
What's what's going on?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Well, we're calling you today because we got an email
about you.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Oh what was it about?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Well, it was about what a stunning lad you are?
Are you consider yourself stunning and a lad.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
That's true.
Speaker 7 (05:58):
I've used both of those words.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Well, we do a segment on the show called the
First eight follow Up. That's where if you're going out
on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,
that person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting and we got an
email about you from someone that you're ghosting, You know
that would.
Speaker 7 (06:14):
Be okay, this is about Lilian, is it?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Are you ghosting though?
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I mean yes, yeah, it is about Lilian.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Liian emailed us and tell us about your date, and
she's confused. She wants to know why you're not calling
her back? Do you mind telling us?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (06:32):
I mean, well I ghosted her because she literally outsourced
the entire date to Chad GBT.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
What does that mean?
Speaker 7 (06:40):
I mean like, any single question, what are we going
to eat? Any conversation topics, literally, any single thing that
she could have possibly had a human moment with me
with she had to refer to Chad GBT.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
First, did she tell you she was doing that? Or
she just was like old time a second?
Speaker 7 (06:58):
Yeah, no, I'm watching her real time, Like I couldn't
believe it myself.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
She was literally hop on CHATGBT while you're on the
date and ask it stuff to do.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
Yeah, it was like it was like she had the
boat and was talking to it before talking to me,
And I'm kind of just staring at her dumbfounded, like
is this actually happening right now?
Speaker 5 (07:18):
The way through? Okay, I'm here. Sorry, I'm here.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
On the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
That doesn't even make sense.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
First of all, I'm so glad you're alive, like for
messaging me back, Like I felt super awful because I
didn't know about the allergy and I would have never
ordered shrimp if I knew, I would have just gone
like vegan or something or eaten a freaking napkin. So
I'm just like kind of surprised now by what you're saying.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
Well, well, first of all, yeah, I am alive, and
I wasn't offended. You know, if you're hungry and wanting
shrimp like I'm found with that, you know. But the
Chad GBT stuff was truly way too much. I mean,
I never experienced someone having to have like an assistant
interact with another human being before.
Speaker 8 (08:12):
It was it was insane, you said, I said to
you like this one's a good one from CHASHGBT and
it was a great question and you agreed like it.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Was a really good question.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
It was if you could be the AI assistant to
any villain and history, who would it be? And you
really liked that one.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
So now it so that you're kind of turning that
on me.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
Well, I mean, yes, it was a good question, but
that wasn't your question. You asked AI like like, I
can't even I can't even believe that that is something
that you would even do, Like you need permission to
blink or something like you're asking okay, having a human moment.
Speaker 5 (08:51):
Well, I thought I was.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Being thoughtful and I like using First of all, you
work in AI.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
I thought that was thoughtful about like you do, and
that was showing you that I care about things.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
And I also just really like KATCHYPT Like why would
we not use it to prompt it? It's like having
a really smart friend who doesn't interrupt you and helps you.
Speaker 7 (09:13):
Yeah, I mean I do work in AI, but I
also like the women that I'm going on days with
to have their own thoughts.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
You know, Wow, condescending much, Drew, That's really condescending. I
do have my own thoughts. I just happen to prospect
them with AI. Sometimes it's called a critical thinking.
Speaker 5 (09:32):
You asked it.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
If I look more like a Drew or a Trevor.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
It was half a joke. Oh my gosh, it was
no joke.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
Yeah, you know what.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
You know me. You never bothered really to get to
know me. So you went on to ask chat TP
to recommend a shampoo that was good for men with
thick hair. But may start singing like why, I don't
why did.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
You think that was a good idea? Andrew? I was
really attacking for you, and you have wanted to be cute.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
Drew.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
You asked chat GBT about your things, possibly thinning hair
at some point during the day.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Yes, I mean listen, I had to kind of like
if if all we're Julie is talking to chatgybt, I
try to throw a bone. But you know, I mean,
men's hair loss is a big thing, something that's happening
to me, you know, be vulnerable a little bit.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
So we're both guys. Is playing with chat GBT the
whole time.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
I'm just trying to figure out.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
No, we were talking and asking it funny questions and
things like that. Again, I thought we were connecting over
something that we usually had in common. You sure tech
weren't asking me any of those questions With Andrew, I
was really attacked to you, and I wanted to be
cute and funny, and I wanted to add value to
the date.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
Ultimately, if you give me another.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Chance, I will already know what questions I'm going to
ask you and.
Speaker 5 (10:58):
Not bring out pat at all. I also won't order
any tremp Okay, do you want to.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Go out with Lillian again? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (11:08):
No, I don't think so. How do I know She'm
going to use You probably use the chat ept right
before going out on the day. Like, I just listen, Lillian,
You're You're truly beautiful. I I just can't be with
somebody who can't think for themselves. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5 (11:24):
That's palely fine. For the record, Drew chat cybt said
you weren't emotionally available anyways. You was first dateful