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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Aaron is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by Monica. So we're
going to see if we can find out why and
maybe get him another date if he still wants one.
In a second, the first let's find out about the date, Aaron,
how long has it been since you heard from Monica?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Hey, guys, I love the show. By the way, four days.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Four days, So that's okay. Yeah, you're sure you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I think so at this point. I mean, here's the thing.
I felt like the date went great. We met him bumble,
I mean, like everyone, that's the only way you can
meet nowadays. But she is beautiful, you know, she's kind
of got like this, I don't know, this real like kid,
you know, youthful energy to her, you know. So we
(00:51):
were talking about like Disney movies, you know, just like
I'm a big kid at heart too. I love cartoons.
I love all of that. Okay, And we went out
for sushi and she was laughing. She seemed to be
having a good time. I don't know, I really don't know,
I thought it went well. I was a gentleman, didn't
try to kiss nothing, So I yeah, I really would.
(01:15):
I would love to possibly have a second date if
she is interested and tell us what happened. Sushi was good,
Sushi was good. He I'm not like a huge seafood fan,
but you know, I thought it would be I don't know,
something kind of a little more interesting. But I was
still pretty impressed, and having some socky with it definitely helped.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
We'll say that the wait, you're the guy that's like,
let's go to sushi and then gets California rolls and
then everything that's cooked. That's wrong with that? Let me
just go to a different restaurant. I don't know, or
maybe you just really like California roles. I'm sorry. I
didn't mean to clown you right now in here, and
I just found that funny.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
No, you're good.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I mean it was just fine. It's just not a
big seafoo I guess, okay, okay, is Monica a seafood goal.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Was she enjoying the sushi?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
She seemed to. Yeah, she seemed to be really into it,
and I don't know, I just thought it might be
something a little better than just taking her out for
you know, beers and burgers or something.
Speaker 7 (02:15):
You know.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
Sure, did you feel like she was flirting with you?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Yeah? Yeah, I really did. And like I said, even
when we were like chatting, you know, we seem to
have a lot in common. You seemed like both, you know,
I said, the kids at heart. You know, I'm someone
who I love to, you know, to make my date laugh.
And she definitely seemed to be clicking with my humor.
So I hope there can be a second one.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Can I ask?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
You said you were a gentleman and that you didn't
try to kiss or anything. Now, granted you met on
bumble not maybe that's more like a tender thing.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
But could that have been what she was looking for?
She wanted more of the because bumbles when the woman
reaches out to the man after that they after they match. Yeah,
something like maybe she wanted more hook up.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
I don't think so, I'll be honest, that's that's really
what I'm looking for. I mean, again, she's she's very beautiful.
That's not that I'm not attracted to her, but I
am kind of more in the market, you know, for
something more long term.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Okay, but I.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Didn't get that vibe either. I mean I didn't. I
didn't feel like she was disappointed, and I didn't make
the move.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
And there is there other than I mean, is there
anything else you can think of that might be the
reason you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I don't know. Maybe maybe I wasn't talking enough or something.
I I mean, that's kind of the only thing I
can think of, But she generally did. She seemed to
be laughing, she seemed to be having some fun, seemed
to be smiling a lot. So yeah, I really I
don't know if.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
You say you weren't talking enough, did do you mean
you just sat there and looked at her while she
sushi and tried to tell you things, Because you know what,
that might do it for me too, because then I'd
be tied your work really hard.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I wouldn't say that.
Speaker 7 (04:02):
I guess.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Here's the thing is that, you know, she was telling
me about her childhood family, and you know, she's kind
of been kicking around the ideas of going back to
school and stuff like that, and I generally enjoyed listening
to her and then listening to what her plans were.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
So okay, that's cool, all right, We'll see if we
can figure it out for you, will play a song
come back, and then call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you
another day if you still want me. Okay, sounds great,
All right, well plaus On, come back. Get your first
day follow up next, it's the Jubil Show.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
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Speaker 2 (04:40):
Right in the middle of your first Day follow up
if you're just joining us, Aaron is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Monica. So we're about to
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before
we do that, why don't you catch everybody up?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Aaron? What's the situation with Monica and the ghosting?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
H Yeah, we met on Mumble. We went out for sushie.
I thought at least it went really well well, but
I haven't heard anything in the past few days, and
I'm really hoping that I can possibly get a second date.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Okay, maybe you know, go somewhere where you like the
food instead of taking her to sushi.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Yeah, I'm sorry, maybe that's the reason.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
You know, that's kind of flaggy to me. No offense,
it's just it kind of is so maybe if that's it,
then that it's this is savable then.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, we'll see Aaron on my collar. Are you ready?
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Let's do it?
Speaker 7 (05:25):
All?
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Right?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Here we go?
Speaker 7 (05:37):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
I may I speak to Monica? Please? Monica? How are you?
My name is Jewbel host a radio show what is
called the Jewel Show?
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Yeah, and the whole show is here too, Monica. My
name is Nina in mine's Victoria.
Speaker 7 (05:49):
Wo hi, Hi Hi? Is this real?
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Yes? Yeah, listen to the show.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
Yeah I do.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Yeah, okay, cool? How would you like to be on it?
Speaker 7 (06:01):
Well, it depends on what for.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Let's say you were on it for the to Catch
a Cheater segment? Would you want to be on it
for that?
Speaker 6 (06:09):
Oh? No?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Okay? What about a first date follow up?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
You know where you go on a date with someone
and then ghosting him and we try to find out why.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Oh sure, okay.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Cool works perfectly then, because that's what this is.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
Wow, Okay, do you know who you're ghosting? Monica?
Speaker 7 (06:29):
I have a feeling is it Aaron?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Are you ghosting Aaron? Because it's only been a couple
of days. But he's pretty sure you're ghosting him.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Uh.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
I'm not purposely h ghosting him, but I guess it,
uh has.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Been sort of happening.
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Yes, why.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
Okay, well we want on a date and you know
he was really nice and everything, but he Uh on
the date, he brought.
Speaker 7 (06:58):
A rubber fish to It was.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
A kind of like a like a like a rubber.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
Fish, like the kind of like a kid would play
with like in a bathtub. He called it. He called it.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
Slippy fun.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
What okay, he named it Flippy? Yeah, yeah, he had
was like I don't know he he introduced Slippy in
the beginning and like put it on the bar next.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
To his beer. And I thought it was just like
him being silly at first, like oh he's playful. Okay,
you know we're at sushi, Like I'm gonna bring this
like rubber fish. I guess it was a weird whatever,
but he like he just kept referencing Slippy and like
talking to Slippy throughout the evening and like.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
Yeah, I didn't, like I didn't want to be meet
but I like call him.
Speaker 5 (07:47):
Out because it was like it was like a getting
stressed out watching everybody eat its friend yea, a fish.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
It was just kind of weird.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
I don't know, it was just a little weird making uncomfortable.
So yeah, I guess I kind of him.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Did it look like he brings Flippy with him everywhere?
Speaker 7 (08:07):
That's what I would gather. Yeah, like it was like
his like pal.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
That's really nice of you to just kind of understand
that some people have like nerves and the anxiety and
maybe Flippy's his friend. I don't know how I would
handle that. Actually, that's a really interesting situation, Monica.
Speaker 7 (08:25):
Yeah, it was.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (08:27):
It was like, you know, playful, but maybe not exactly
you know, my vibe.
Speaker 6 (08:32):
So I was just like maybe, you know, I don't.
Speaker 7 (08:35):
Know, it was weird.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Did like at the end of the day, did like
the three you guys hug it out together or did
you get a separate hug from Flippy?
Speaker 6 (08:46):
It did feel like he was like a third whale,
like he was like, oh.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Wow, okay. Outside of Flippy, Monica.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
How was the date outside of that? It was fun?
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Outside of that, it was like, you know, well, I
think our.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
Personality wraps were playful, like we're both kind of like
dorky in a fun way, you know. So I think
outside of that, it was it was fun.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
It was just the Flippy.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Okay, well, thank you for telling us and being honest
with us.
Speaker 7 (09:18):
Yeah, it's just so crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
I'll be honest with you now too. Aaron is on
the phone. He's been listening this whole time. I don't
know if Flippy is with him, but he does want
to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Oh wow there, Okay, uh no, Flippy, Flippy is not here.
He had a doctor's appointment. I'm kidding. I'm kidding a
hi erin listen. I'm sorry. I sometimes ask my friends.
I sometimes have a weird sense of humor. And I
know that you were telling me that you you know,
(09:51):
you love to talk to your cats a lot, and
so I just I don't want to be pets, and
it was dumb. I thought that I thought it would just.
Speaker 8 (09:58):
Be kind of like a fun wife breaker. I didn't
mean for it be that weird. And I do not
bring Slippy with me or sleep with him or anything
like that.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
Well, I hope you're not sleep with if you're trying
to date other people trying to date.
Speaker 6 (10:19):
Okay, I like cats, but I did tell on my hand,
you know, like alive, you know, I don't know. Yes
it's true, but.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Hey, I mean listener cats are great listeners. Don't nothing wrong?
Kind of the same again, I was, it was just
kind of meant as a silly, dumb joked an icebreaker.
I really did have a great time though, So if
you are up to it, and I promise Slippy will
be in no way coming to the date, maybe we.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
Could try Monica, would you like to go with Aaron again?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (10:59):
Oh that's nice. Yeah, I mean, yeah, it's one.
Speaker 6 (11:03):
As there's some like stuffed animals either like nothing, you know,
just us and then.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
I'd be down be you got to say that, but
that's kind of cool.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Yeah, no, listen, I Flippy said, he's already starting to
see someone else. Just let me know. And you like
dot again?
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Okay? Yeah, Well I'm glad we got that out of
the way because I did like you, so yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
Time.
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Yeah, so you got Flippy block Double's first day follow
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