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October 28, 2025 10 mins

When Nikki got ghosted after a romantic speakeasy date, she thought it was just another dating fail, until The Jubal Show called Josh and found out the real reason. Turns out, Josh believes he can speak to ghosts and refuses to date anyone who doesn’t. From haunted flirtation to spiritual boundaries, this First Date Follow Up takes a paranormal turn you won’t see coming.


Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Nicky is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Josh.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if his house why is ghostinger and maybe get her
another date. But first, Nikki, how long has it been
since you heard from Josh.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been a few days now, Okay?

Speaker 4 (00:22):
Is that really ghosting? Is that unusual?

Speaker 5 (00:25):
Well?

Speaker 1 (00:25):
I think so because he acted like he wanted to
see me again.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
So I texted him and it's been I.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Don't know, maybe like four or five days without any response.

Speaker 4 (00:35):
Okay, all right, Nikki, why don't you tell us about
how you met Josh and how the date went.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yeah, we met at this really cool cafe with like
old books and candles, and it was a really cool vibe,
like he seems to know a lot about places like that,
and it was a cool idea. And behind the books,
felst there was.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
A speakeasy Oh cute, Oh that's cool.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
Yeah, So when I got there, he showed me that,
and so we went.

Speaker 3 (01:03):
In there and it was kind of like a dark
room kind.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
Of romantic and like sort of eerie, but in a
sexy kind of way.

Speaker 4 (01:12):
Sexy.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
Yeah, it was fun. It's like I'd never been to
a place quite like that. And at one point the
lights kind of flickered and Josh kind of leaned in
and said, asked if I felt the energy shift?

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Ergy shift?

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (01:27):
Was that like now you know?

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Well, he wanted to tell me this story about a
ghost that apparently has been haunting that building since prohibition
times and only reveals itself to people.

Speaker 4 (01:41):
Who believe that's kind of cool. A ghost.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Yeah, it was a ghost, so he like it could
have been creepy, but it felt kind of exciting, like
he was making an effort and like putting on a
show for me. I kind of laughed and played along.
We had espresso martinis that were really good, and after
the he walked me to an uber and we were
hunging and kissing like no tongue but like still a

(02:08):
passionate kiss and kind of like you know, touching each other.

Speaker 4 (02:14):
That's hot.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
So I think he's exciting and interesting and so cute
and just like he's different from anyone I've ever met.
And I felt a really strong chemistry and I just
want more.

Speaker 4 (02:25):
So why do you think he's ghosting?

Speaker 6 (02:27):
Then?

Speaker 4 (02:27):
If it sounds like you want pretty well.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Well I think that he might be ghosting me because
I don't believe in ghosts.

Speaker 4 (02:36):
Wait, so is that real to him?

Speaker 5 (02:39):
Well?

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Yeah, I think, And like sometimes guys get insulted, I
guess to be like, he felt like I was laughing.
But I told him after we kissed that, you know,
like that I didn't really believe in ghosts, but that
I had had a really fun time and I told
him that he was a great storyteller.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
And then he asked if I believed.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
In ghosts, and I said no, and then his tone
sort of changed.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
But I didn't really think anything of it.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
I don't know if why that would be worth ghosting
somebody over because the date sounded like it went really well,
So I don't know that feels that feels weird?

Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yeah, I guess.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
I guess it's been more like I don't know, time
goes by so fast. I guess it's been more like
six or seven days, you know. But he told me
to text him when I got home, which was really sweet,
and I did, but there was no response.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
And then he hasn't reached out since then?

Speaker 4 (03:31):
What game is this guy playing? Does it kind of
feel like there's something weird? I don't know. Could he
just like be busy? That doesn't That doesn't feel right either.
What do you think, Nikki?

Speaker 2 (03:40):
What is there any other things going through your head
on why it could be that he's ghosting you?

Speaker 1 (03:45):
No?

Speaker 3 (03:45):
I really can't think of anything.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
I mean, I thought that, you know, I just thought
that we had a really good time and so, you know,
that's the That's the only thing I can think of.

Speaker 4 (03:56):
I mean, the laughing at him might be an issue.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Yeah, maybe it wasn't really laughing at him. I was
like laughing at the idea because like ghosts.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
But I mean it's kind of like a kid thing,
you know, just being honest, like I don't feel like
I'm being haunted.

Speaker 5 (04:11):
You know.

Speaker 4 (04:11):
Okay, Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it
out for you.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
We'll plus song come back and then call him and
see if Hotels why is ghosting you? Maybe get you
another date? Okay, Okay, thank you, Okay, well plays song
come back and get your first day follow up next
Right in the middle of today's first date follow up.
If you're just joining us. NICKI is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Josh, and
we're about to call him and see if hotel us.

Speaker 4 (04:34):
Why is ghosting or real? First, NICKI, why don't you
catch us up on your situation?

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Well, I went out on the state with this guy Josh,
like about.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
A week ago, and we had a great time.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
We had drinks and we went to this kind of
speakeasy place and he told me that, you know that
it's sort of haunted like by ghosts from the Prohibition era.
And I said, we had a great time, but I
did reveal later that I don't really believe it goes.
I think that's maybe why he's not reaching out.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
I don't know, because you kids, and then you said
that and then he ghost you. Do you believe in ghosting?

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Though?

Speaker 5 (05:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (05:10):
All right, are you ready for us.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
To call on?

Speaker 3 (05:12):
Yeah? Yeah, thank you?

Speaker 4 (05:15):
Yep, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak
to Josh. Please. This is hey Josh. How are you?

Speaker 2 (05:37):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jewbel Show.

Speaker 4 (05:40):
Hi, Josh. Ar'mina also on the show him Victoria. Hello,
how's it going?

Speaker 5 (05:45):
It's going greed.

Speaker 4 (05:47):
H do you listen to the show ever?

Speaker 3 (05:49):
Josh?

Speaker 2 (05:51):
Okay, that's okay, that's fine. Well, Josh, we do a
segment on our show. It's called the first Date follow Up.
What that is is if you go out on a
date with's somebody and end up ghosting them, they can
email us to get you on the phone and ask
why you're ghosting. So we got an email about you
from somebody that you went out with. M Yes, okay,
any idea who would be?

Speaker 3 (06:11):
Hm?

Speaker 5 (06:14):
I maybe a Nikki?

Speaker 2 (06:17):
It is a Nikki, and Nikki emailed us and told
us she had a really good time with you. But
she's confused and says you've been ghosting her for about
a week now.

Speaker 5 (06:26):
Yes, I have.

Speaker 4 (06:28):
Okay telling us why?

Speaker 5 (06:31):
Well, honestly, she doesn't she doesn't believe believe in she
doesn't believe in ghosts. Okay, she doesn't believe in ghosts.
She doesn't believe in the spiritual world. She's not open.
I've been able to speak to ghosts, hear them, speak
to them since I was a child, and honestly, and

(06:53):
she just doesn't believe. She doesn't think it's real.

Speaker 4 (06:57):
So well, why is that a problem for you?

Speaker 5 (07:00):
Hm, because anyone and everyone can speak and hear ghosts.
As long as you open yourself, you can.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
What does that have to do with dating her?

Speaker 5 (07:15):
Because if how am I.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
Supposed to open.

Speaker 5 (07:18):
My soul my spirits myself to someone who doesn't believe?

Speaker 4 (07:24):
Okay, so well that makes because it's about your need yea.

Speaker 6 (07:28):
More well, it's about it's honestly, never honestly, it's.

Speaker 7 (07:32):
About I never meant you like Maybe I wouldn't have
laughed about it if you explained it like that.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
I didn't know that it was more serious for you.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
Now?

Speaker 5 (07:47):
Could you not tell it was serious? I've been speaking
to ghosts all evening. You didn't think that was real?

Speaker 3 (07:56):
I didn't really know that. I mean, you know, I'm
open minded.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
It's just I I didn't know that you saw it
like this, or that you.

Speaker 6 (08:07):
This is what I am, this is who I am?

Speaker 4 (08:09):
Does that feel kind of rude?

Speaker 5 (08:13):
I'm just speaking to a ghost. Is not speaking on
the phone to someone else. Relating what they're saying to
the other person who doesn't have the spiritual ability was exciting. Honestly,
I have taken so much time training women to interact
with ghosts. Yes, and honestly, I feel like they just

(08:41):
they do it and they do it and they try
and they never really actually speak to them.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Well, I want to try that. I think that sounds exciting.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
I want to go back to the speak easy and
I want you to teach me about this.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
Fascinating, fascinating, that's a good thing.

Speaker 5 (09:00):
I'm open, you know, I'd like, why are you willing
to open yourself truly fully to the beyond?

Speaker 2 (09:13):
I'll ask, Josh, would you like to go on another
date with Nikki?

Speaker 4 (09:17):
Will pay for it?

Speaker 5 (09:19):
H will M? I think we can as long as
you understand. I will guide you only as far you
do understand that this is this is a journey with us.

Speaker 3 (09:36):
I do.

Speaker 5 (09:37):
I understand this is a journey. Not necessarily, I mean,
it is a date, but it's a journey.

Speaker 4 (09:42):
So I think that was a yes?

Speaker 3 (09:44):
Is that an for another journey?

Speaker 5 (09:48):
Yes, it is a yes.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Okay, Okay, hear that?

Speaker 4 (09:52):
Yeah, let us know how that goes to Nikki. You
got another date, Nikki?

Speaker 5 (09:57):
We will have it. We will have a wonderful time.

Speaker 6 (10:00):
There's there's a graveyard that I've just been. There's so many,
so many spirits there.

Speaker 5 (10:08):
Honestly, it's a great it's a great crowd.

Speaker 3 (10:11):
I would love to meet them.

Speaker 4 (10:14):
Yeah, yeah, I have a great time. Let us know
how it goes.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
Thank you and and and thank you and uh my
friend Jefferson he approves your choices.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
Well tell him I said, thank you and have a
good one, Josh, you have a.

Speaker 3 (10:30):
Wonderful Thank you. Guys, you will first date, follow up
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