June 28, 2024 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Oliver is on the phone today for a first Day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Sarah and has
no idea why. So we're going to call her in
a few minutes and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting. But first, Oliver, how long has it been
since you heard from Sarah.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
How many times have you try to get ahold of
her in that week?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Well, I was texting her for the first couple of days,
three days, and I had spent like a text message
and she replied like really short, and then like the
next day I didn't hear anything, and then the next
day I didn't hear anything either.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
So then I tried to call her, and then after
that I just I was like, you know, I don't want.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
To seem too much like a stalker, so let me
just just back off.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
A little bit.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
So I haven't personally reached out to her in like
two days now, all.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Right, So we gave her a little break for a
couple of days. Let's right, let's go go back to
your date. Can you tell us about that.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Yeah, So we met up at a bar and we
were going to get a drink or two because I
had made reservations, so we were just kind of waiting
for those to get to get like get the tailor ready,
and but there was this really dope band that was
playing in the bar area and me and her were
just really enjoying the music and we kind of talked
(01:25):
about it, like, you know what, we can order food
at the bar. Let's you know, let's just still here.
So I went and canceled the reservation and we just
had some food there at the bar, had some drinks
and really enjoyed this cool band and that.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Yeah, and that was the date.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
And then after that I drove her home and left
her there, said good night and.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Yeah, so it was really weird. I feel like we
had an awesome time.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
So you just said good night? No kiss, handshake, a hug.
Was there any kind of interaction other than just buy
I guess I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Saying yeah, yeah, Like.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
I didn't feel like I should go in for the kiss,
but I definitely hug her and.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
I said, hey, I would love to hand again, see
you again. I didn't want it.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
I'm not too forwardive a guy like that, but I
you know, I definitely wanted to, Okay.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Of course, did you feel like she wanted to?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
That's that's the thing, Like she she seemed excited in
her response about going on another date, and it wasn't
like a quick little hog like it was. It was
a nice little embrace like just you know, you know
when someone really enjoys hugging and it's kind of there's
a little squeeze and yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
So then what about like on the date, was there
anything that was awkward that would make her not want
to call you back? Or is there anything really great
that happened?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Could she have also have wanted to go to the
dinner reservation and like not wanted to stay and listen
to the music? Like do you think she could have
met about that?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
No?
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I mean she she's actually the one that kind of
first suggested it. But you know, there was one thing
when when I walked back to the bar after canceling
the reservation, she was like kind of talk to this
guy and it was it sounded like it was a
little heated, like maybe they were arguing about something. I mean,
it seemed like she knew him that could have been
(03:08):
an ex or friend or something else. I'm not too sure,
but like when I asked her about it, she was
just like, oh, he was like trying to hit on me,
and you know, I kind of think of it now.
She did seem a little off after that interaction. Okay,
maybe it was an X. Maybe it was a you know,
a friendship gone wrong, or.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You didn't ask her like she just kind of she
was like, oh, you know, he's just hitting.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
On me, was she saying? Next to you and she
was getting hit on. I saw it.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
I wasn't like physically there, but I could see it
as I was walking.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Up, And by the time I got there, the guy
had already gone.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
But it looked like it was heated.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
She didn't seem amused by it.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Okay, we'll try to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
We'll play a song and come back and then call her,
get her on the phone and ask her why she's
ghosting you, and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Okay, yeah, that'd be perfect.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Play song, come back, get your first day follow up next.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Right in the middle of your first date follow up,
and Oliver is on the phone today he's getting ghosted
by Sarah.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
He doesn't know why.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
So we're about to call her in just a second
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date. But first, Oliver, why
don't you catch everybody up on your date with Sarah.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
Yeah, we went to a bar and we're going to
have dinner at a restaurant. And we had a great
time at the bar beau. It was live music, so
we decided to stay there and we had it at
a great time and it seemed like a pleasant evening.
You want to drop her off, but now I can't
get a hold of her.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
All right, Well we'll see if we can figure it out.
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Hello, Hi, my speak to Sarah. Please, Hey Sarah, how
are you? My name is Juwbel from a radio show
called The Jewbil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Hi, Sarah ar Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Oh hey, Hi, what's up? You listen to the show?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yes? Okay, I love it. Why are you guys calling me.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Because somebody else listens to the show too?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Well, I think a lot of people listen to you guys.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
This is a person that you know.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Oh okay, And they wanted us to call you because
you went out on a date with them, and now
you're ghosting them.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh okay, okay, I think I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
This is a first date follow up.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
And Oliver is a guy who emailed us and said
he went on a date with you and he doesn't
know why you're ghosting and he thought everything was cool.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh, Oliver, Yeah, you know what, He's actually a really
good person. He's a good guy.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Well, he told us about your date. If he's a
good guy, why don't you want to go out with
him again? You know?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
It's not I don't sound funny. It's not him. It's
I just don't know what I want.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I'm getting out of a relationship, and I don't know
for sure I'm going to get out of it or not.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
My ex keeps blowing up my phone. I was in
a two year relationship, so it's just really hard because
I just don't know exactly what I want.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
I don't know if I want to move on and
date other people or just be single for a while,
or get back together with my ex.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
So I'm just confused.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I get that why did you go on a date
in the first place, though, because I.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Didn't know what I wanted that I wanted to go
out and see I still don't know what I want? Well,
who was on dry what?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
That was Oliver Sarah? Or he's actually on the phone
listening and want's to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Oh yeah, yeah, who were you? That was my ex?
What that I I didn't want to say anything to
you because I didn't I didn't know how you would
take the situation. I just went through a breakup, of
go through a break up. My extion isn't happy, he
(07:02):
still wants me back. I don't know what I want,
and so.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
I just didn't say anything. It was awkward, and so
I just went on to the date my ex last
he didn't stay there you date? So yeah, he saw
he saw that I was on a date. He got
it on my friend's app, and he couldn't stand that
I was with another guy.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
So he showed up and.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
He's, you know, wanting to ask questions and all that stuff.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
I mean, like, why couldn't you just tell me that,
like are you Are you back with him?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Like what's what's the deal. I'm not back with him.
I just don't know what I want.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
I wanted to go out on a date with you
to see if that's what I want, and then he
showed up and so now.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I don't think. I'm just confused because he's.
Speaker 6 (07:51):
Bringing back all the good things that we have and
like why we should break up and why we.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Back together again. So I just don't know what I want, Like,
I don't know if I want to.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
Get back together with him or if I just want
to be single and have a good time or go
out with you.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Sarah, you did tell us that you're talking to him though.
Speaker 6 (08:09):
I am talking to my act Yeah, of course it
was two years. I don't know exactly what I mean.
I can't just end it.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
I feel like that's fair. But then why go on
a date with Oliver and like ghost him?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Yeah, I mean that's what dating.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
You go out and you date someone and you just
get to note them, Like I mean, it's not it's
not like her boyfriend girlfriend, But.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
You don't usually go on a date with someone when
you're still in a relationship with someone else, Like, like.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
How does that make any sense? Like are you just
trying to am I? Like a am I a booty call?
Like you're trying to hook up with me? And like, well,
what's wrong with a booty call?
Speaker 6 (08:52):
Maybe it takes another guy to get over the other guy.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Well, I'm not that guy.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
Like I'm trying to find like a relationship, you know,
Like I'm trying to be that guy.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I'm not trying to just be puking up with whoever.
Especially that you don't know me until you hook up
with me. Maybe I'm a little old friend. I don't
think that's I don't think that's true.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
But even so, like like what if I was there,
Like would your ex have like punched me in the face, Like, no,
he's not violent.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
He might follow, he's not violent. He probably would just
stare at your safe somewhere. I don't know, But he left,
so he left.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
He didn't.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
Hey, nobody asks for my advice.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
But whenever a third party, like as in an X,
shows up on a date, it's never a good sign.
They continue to pop up and even sometimes break into
the house and look at you in bed with that
person while you're sleeping.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
Well, and bring into the house and look at you
while you're specific. That's why I said, nobody ask my advice.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Well, I have experience in this apartment, and just let
just so you know, when the X pops up on
a date.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Run, Yeah, Yeah, that would have been good to know
Oliver would ran
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Juble's first day follow up
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Oliver is on the phone today for a first Day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Sarah and has
no idea why. So we're going to call her in
a few minutes and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting. But first, Oliver, how long has it been
since you heard from Sarah.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
How many times have you try to get ahold of
her in that week?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Well, I was texting her for the first couple of days,
three days, and I had spent like a text message
and she replied like really short, and then like the
next day I didn't hear anything, and then the next
day I didn't hear anything either.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
So then I tried to call her, and then after
that I just I was like, you know, I don't want.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
To seem too much like a stalker, so let me
just just back off.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
A little bit.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
So I haven't personally reached out to her in like
two days now, all.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Right, So we gave her a little break for a
couple of days. Let's right, let's go go back to
your date. Can you tell us about that.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Yeah, So we met up at a bar and we
were going to get a drink or two because I
had made reservations, so we were just kind of waiting
for those to get to get like get the tailor ready,
and but there was this really dope band that was
playing in the bar area and me and her were
just really enjoying the music and we kind of talked
(01:25):
about it, like, you know what, we can order food
at the bar. Let's you know, let's just still here.
So I went and canceled the reservation and we just
had some food there at the bar, had some drinks
and really enjoyed this cool band and that.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Yeah, and that was the date.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
And then after that I drove her home and left
her there, said good night and.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Yeah, so it was really weird. I feel like we
had an awesome time.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
So you just said good night? No kiss, handshake, a hug.
Was there any kind of interaction other than just buy
I guess I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Saying yeah, yeah, Like.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
I didn't feel like I should go in for the kiss,
but I definitely hug her and.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
I said, hey, I would love to hand again, see
you again. I didn't want it.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
I'm not too forwardive a guy like that, but I
you know, I definitely wanted to, Okay.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Of course, did you feel like she wanted to?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
That's that's the thing, Like she she seemed excited in
her response about going on another date, and it wasn't
like a quick little hog like it was. It was
a nice little embrace like just you know, you know
when someone really enjoys hugging and it's kind of there's
a little squeeze and yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
So then what about like on the date, was there
anything that was awkward that would make her not want
to call you back? Or is there anything really great
that happened?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Could she have also have wanted to go to the
dinner reservation and like not wanted to stay and listen
to the music? Like do you think she could have
met about that?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
No?
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I mean she she's actually the one that kind of
first suggested it. But you know, there was one thing
when when I walked back to the bar after canceling
the reservation, she was like kind of talk to this
guy and it was it sounded like it was a
little heated, like maybe they were arguing about something. I mean,
it seemed like she knew him that could have been
(03:08):
an ex or friend or something else. I'm not too sure,
but like when I asked her about it, she was
just like, oh, he was like trying to hit on me,
and you know, I kind of think of it now.
She did seem a little off after that interaction. Okay,
maybe it was an X. Maybe it was a you know,
a friendship gone wrong, or.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You didn't ask her like she just kind of she
was like, oh, you know, he's just hitting.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
On me, was she saying? Next to you and she
was getting hit on. I saw it.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
I wasn't like physically there, but I could see it
as I was walking.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Up, And by the time I got there, the guy
had already gone.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
But it looked like it was heated.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
She didn't seem amused by it.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Okay, we'll try to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
We'll play a song and come back and then call her,
get her on the phone and ask her why she's
ghosting you, and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Okay, yeah, that'd be perfect.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Play song, come back, get your first day follow up next.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Right in the middle of your first date follow up,
and Oliver is on the phone today he's getting ghosted
by Sarah.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
He doesn't know why.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
So we're about to call her in just a second
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date. But first, Oliver, why
don't you catch everybody up on your date with Sarah.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
Yeah, we went to a bar and we're going to
have dinner at a restaurant. And we had a great
time at the bar beau. It was live music, so
we decided to stay there and we had it at
a great time and it seemed like a pleasant evening.
You want to drop her off, but now I can't
get a hold of her.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
All right, Well we'll see if we can figure it out.
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Hello, Hi, my speak to Sarah. Please, Hey Sarah, how
are you? My name is Juwbel from a radio show
called The Jewbil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Hi, Sarah ar Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Oh hey, Hi, what's up? You listen to the show?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yes? Okay, I love it. Why are you guys calling me.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Because somebody else listens to the show too?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Well, I think a lot of people listen to you guys.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
This is a person that you know.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Oh okay, And they wanted us to call you because
you went out on a date with them, and now
you're ghosting them.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Oh okay, okay, I think I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
This is a first date follow up.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
And Oliver is a guy who emailed us and said
he went on a date with you and he doesn't
know why you're ghosting and he thought everything was cool.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh, Oliver, Yeah, you know what, He's actually a really
good person. He's a good guy.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Well, he told us about your date. If he's a
good guy, why don't you want to go out with
him again? You know?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
It's not I don't sound funny. It's not him. It's
I just don't know what I want.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I'm getting out of a relationship, and I don't know
for sure I'm going to get out of it or not.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
My ex keeps blowing up my phone. I was in
a two year relationship, so it's just really hard because
I just don't know exactly what I want.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
I don't know if I want to move on and
date other people or just be single for a while,
or get back together with my ex.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
So I'm just confused.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I get that why did you go on a date
in the first place, though, because I.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Didn't know what I wanted that I wanted to go
out and see I still don't know what I want? Well,
who was on dry what?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
That was Oliver Sarah? Or he's actually on the phone
listening and want's to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Oh yeah, yeah, who were you? That was my ex?
What that I I didn't want to say anything to
you because I didn't I didn't know how you would
take the situation. I just went through a breakup, of
go through a break up. My extion isn't happy, he
(07:02):
still wants me back. I don't know what I want,
and so.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
I just didn't say anything. It was awkward, and so
I just went on to the date my ex last
he didn't stay there you date? So yeah, he saw
he saw that I was on a date. He got
it on my friend's app, and he couldn't stand that
I was with another guy.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
So he showed up and.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
He's, you know, wanting to ask questions and all that stuff.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
I mean, like, why couldn't you just tell me that,
like are you Are you back with him?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Like what's what's the deal. I'm not back with him.
I just don't know what I want.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
I wanted to go out on a date with you
to see if that's what I want, and then he
showed up and so now.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I don't think. I'm just confused because he's.
Speaker 6 (07:51):
Bringing back all the good things that we have and
like why we should break up and why we.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Back together again. So I just don't know what I want, Like,
I don't know if I want to.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
Get back together with him or if I just want
to be single and have a good time or go
out with you.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Sarah, you did tell us that you're talking to him though.
Speaker 6 (08:09):
I am talking to my act Yeah, of course it
was two years. I don't know exactly what I mean.
I can't just end it.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
I feel like that's fair. But then why go on
a date with Oliver and like ghost him?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Yeah, I mean that's what dating.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
You go out and you date someone and you just
get to note them, Like I mean, it's not it's
not like her boyfriend girlfriend, But.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
You don't usually go on a date with someone when
you're still in a relationship with someone else, Like, like.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
How does that make any sense? Like are you just
trying to am I? Like a am I a booty call?
Like you're trying to hook up with me? And like, well,
what's wrong with a booty call?
Speaker 6 (08:52):
Maybe it takes another guy to get over the other guy.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Well, I'm not that guy.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
Like I'm trying to find like a relationship, you know,
Like I'm trying to be that guy.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I'm not trying to just be puking up with whoever.
Especially that you don't know me until you hook up
with me. Maybe I'm a little old friend. I don't
think that's I don't think that's true.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
But even so, like like what if I was there,
Like would your ex have like punched me in the face, Like, no,
he's not violent.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
He might follow, he's not violent. He probably would just
stare at your safe somewhere. I don't know, But he left,
so he left.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
He didn't.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
Hey, nobody asks for my advice.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
But whenever a third party, like as in an X,
shows up on a date, it's never a good sign.
They continue to pop up and even sometimes break into
the house and look at you in bed with that
person while you're sleeping.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
Well, and bring into the house and look at you
while you're specific. That's why I said, nobody ask my advice.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Well, I have experience in this apartment, and just let
just so you know, when the X pops up on
a date.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Run, Yeah, Yeah, that would have been good to know
Oliver would ran
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