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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Randy is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Rose.
And I really hope that they go out again, because
Randy and Rose a dory before we find out about
your date and why you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
How long has it been since you talked to Rose?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
It's been It's been about a month.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
WHOA.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah. I just was like, you know, a week or
two is understandable, but after about a month, it's like, Okay,
I think I did something really wrong here. Some things
I just you know, I just really want to find
out what what happened.
Speaker 5 (00:45):
You know.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Sure, so we know you're getting ghosted, we just need
to know why. But if it's been a whole month,
why do you want to still get a hold of her.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
There's just something about her, you know. I'm a podcaster
here and I and I had.
Speaker 6 (00:57):
To reviews on movies and stuff.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
And she commented on one of my stories on the
podcast and we just got to talking and there was
just such a strong connection that I just I couldn't
let oh. I can't stop thinking about it. I need
to know. It's like, everything seemed so great. Why why
did disappear on me? Like something?
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Tell us about the date? Then?
Speaker 4 (01:18):
So we got to talk in and I found out
that she lived close by. I had a movie I
was reviewing. It was a horror film.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
I asked, hey, do you want to do you want
to go to this movie with me? We can get
drinks at the bar beforehand and everything like that, and
she was down and I was like, that's perfect, and
you know, everything went off without a hitch. We went
to the bar, had a few drinks, and I'm a
movie buff and so finding someone that is also passionate
(01:50):
about movies, the conversation.
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Flows so perfectly.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
We had a few drinks, really getting along. We went
to the movie early, we were ready. The movie was
pretty good, and again it was a horror film. And
so she did get a little scared.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
And did she jump into your lap at any point
or your arms?
Speaker 6 (02:08):
Well, you know, there was one moment. There was one.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
There was one really big scare moment, you know the
jump scares in movies. Yeah, so that was a big
jump scare moment and she grabbed my hand really tight then,
and it just it felt really good, and I was like,
you know, she might not be into horror films. Yeah,
but I kind of like, he's a little scared, just
like holding on.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Did she keep her hand on or take it off?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
After well, she grabbed my hand really really tight, and
it actually hurt, it's how she grabbed it. But after
that it was kind of like deadpans. She's like, nope, done,
and I was like, oh, I guess, I guess that
was too much.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Was one of the best feelings for me, at least
when I've gone on dates before to the movies and
is it's a scary movie. They jump and grab your
hand and then they leave it there on your hand.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
You're like, yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
So then she asked, She's like, I need to use
the restroom, and I was like, okay, okay, go ahead,
do you think then ten minutes go by, now, twenty
minutes go by, the movie ends, I'm like, Rose, where
are you? You know? And so it was like kind
(03:17):
of weird, just like everything seemed to be going so
smoothly and then out of nowhere, you just disappear.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
On me, Like does she just bounce?
Speaker 4 (03:26):
Yeah, she just bounced, and so I like, you know,
at first, I was scared. I was like, is she okay?
Did something bad happen? Where did she go? But you know, text,
you know, callback, no, no, nothing, And I thought about,
you know, because I wrote the review it was an
okay movie, But I thought about like mentioning something. But
it's like, I don't want to bring anything up on.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
My podcasting to this movie, right, yeah, not a data
movie is a movie for friends, you know.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
So I just att a loss, and I just I
really just want to know what did I do wrong?
Because if I did some thing incredibly wrong, I need
to know because I don't want to miss out on
another another person if she's done, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
I mean, are you sure you don't want to just
cut your losses? I mean, this girl bounced on you
in the middle of a movie, which should be a
red flag to you, and is not responding in a month,
which should also be a red flag to you.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
So I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Yeah, nine times out of ten, i'd be like, all right,
it's over, it's fine. But there was just something about
the way we connected over our love of movies that
I was like, I can't I can't let this go.
I just can't.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Well, WHI try. I figured out.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Man, We'll play a song come back, and then call
her and see if she answers, and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting you and why she's skipped
out on the movie, and then maybe get you another
date if you still want them. Okay, yeah, yeah, all right,
we'll play a song come back to your first they
follow up next. I'm really interested in finding out what
happened to Rose. Rose is the girl that Randy went
(04:54):
out with for the first eight follow up Today, we're
about to call her and ask her why she's ghosting
him and see if we can get a another date
if he still wants one after he finds out the reason.
But Rose just took off in the middle of their date. Randy,
why don't you recap the date real quick to refresh
everybody's memory before we call her?
Speaker 6 (05:09):
Oh yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
So I met Rose via a comment on the podcast
that I work, and we hit it off.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
It's not weird.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Grab a couple of drinks before a movie that I
had a review. Had a drink, great conversation, great start
to the movie. In the middle of the movie, for
some odd reason. She said she had to use the
restroom and just never came back. And I don't know
what happened.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
It's like scary or heartbreaking or both.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
All right, we'll try to figure out where you're going
to call the number right now, see if she answers,
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Okay, you ready?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
You know him, I speak to Rose please she Hey, Rose,
how are you? My name is Jubal and I'm calling
from a radio show. It's called The Jubel Show.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Hi, Rose, this is the show too. My name is Hi.
I'm Victoria. How are you?
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Guys, It's fine, I guess, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
The show, I do. I do you appreciate that? Rose?
Speaker 6 (06:21):
So why are you calling me?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I guess like we're just wondering why you ran out
of a date in the middle of it.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
This is the first date follow up?
Speaker 2 (06:31):
And Randy about you in case you guys went out
and you were at a movie and then you went
to the bathroom and you were gone. You haven't talked
to him since then. Randy is wondering if you would
tell us the reason that you're ghosting it.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Well, we're glad to hear you. Okay, a little bit.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
Scary, right, No, okay, so, oh my gosh, I have
no idea like what he may have shared with you.
But yeah, I mean I know I know the show,
and so I okay, we're going to talk about this. Okay,
what did he say?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I mean, what did he say?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
Because I love the date? I mean I absolutely loved
the date.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Why did you leave it?
Speaker 6 (07:11):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Well, like, first of all, Randy, I don't know, you know,
if he mentioned that he's a podcaster so kind of
like you guys, like he's on the radio and has
like this really sexy voice, he was even sexier in person.
So like we would help for drinks before our date.
You know, I'm not a big drinker, but I knew
that I needed to kind of like loosen up. And
everything was perfect. I mean, everything was perfect, and I
(07:36):
was feeling like loose. I was feeling, you know, just comfortable.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
You're not a huge Hora fan.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
I mean I haven't watched like horror movies since like
high school. But like whatever, it's not that big of
a deal. I don't feel like they're that, you know,
there's not that much artistic stuff that goes into it,
you know, so I'm not into like dumb slash replets
or anything like that. But this movie was okay. But
I do get scared easily. I mean I felt comfortable
holding his hand. Randy was so good to me and gentle,
(08:06):
and it felt so like perfect. There was like no
judgment or anything. But there was this point in the
movie that I got scared. And I don't know if
any other women out there, I mean, my doctor said, okay,
I peed myself.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
I being we got it, been there, girl, It's okay,
laughing too hard?
Speaker 6 (08:29):
Did I peed my pants? Oh my god? And I
didn't know what to do.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
And I thought about it a second because you know,
like it was dark.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
And it just happened.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
It didn't mean to happen, and so I excused myself
to the bathroom. And when I made it to the bathroom,
I was mortified because it wasn't like I was going
to be able to go under the hand dryer. I
wore this skirt and I guess I just had too
many drinks. I don't know, and I was completely covered
and I'm sitting there thinking like my chair is wet,
(08:58):
my entire skirt is wet. That like meing is so sexy.
He's going to think I'm a crazy person. And I
just was. I was too embarrassed, you know what I mean.
I just slipped out when no one was looking, thank god.
I mean, and I just I had to run to
my car. I had to go home. I had to
completely change, completely change, And.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
I you know that.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
I mean, that's how it is when like a little
bit comes out and you can't stop it, and then
it's like literally sometimes and then it just keeps going.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
I know this is after the fact, but if it
ever happens again, just get a soda and dump it
on your side in the future, right, It might save you.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
A little bit.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
And I guess I just I was not thinking that's
a great idea, by the way. I was so flustered
that And I mean I got Randy's text.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
I did.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
I just did not know what to say, because I
don't want to start off with like lies, you know.
And he didn't say anything about it on his movie review,
so and I listened for it, like I did.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
That's cool. At least he didn't say that you beat
your pants on his podcast.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
Yeah he wasn't like I took this crazy personal for
date and she peed on me or something like, hell
I wasn't the goal and yeah, so I don't know
what to say.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Well, I think you said it all. Basically.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
You also said it to Randy because he's been on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (10:17):
Oh my god, Hi, Hello, Hirose. I am so sorry.
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
I've been trying hard not to laugh, like, oh my god,
I understand completely. I am just so happy that it
was not something crazy or that I did something wrong,
you know, yeah, no, no, it comes in my head. Yeah,
(10:49):
I know when Adam Standerd goes your pants.
Speaker 6 (10:55):
And I was.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Going to like Jim Madison moment too, but like I
didn't know if it would be. It's not funny, it's
not cool.
Speaker 6 (11:02):
It's so not funny.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
It's pretty fun like now that I've had I mean,
I wish you would have said something and like, hey,
I had an emergency, I need to go home, can
be schedule. But I just honestly, the biggest thing I
feel right now is relief, Like I feel really connected
to you, and it's like it's funny now, like we
(11:26):
if you'll have me, I would love to go on
another date and we can laugh about this, you know, Rose.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Would you like to go on another date with Randy?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Absolutely, absolutely, I would. Just as long as this does
not become our story of how we met, like we're
going to need to come up with something else.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
We'll do another one. So I have I have kind
of review that I'm doing next week and it's a comedy,
So maybe we'll just try it again and we'll watch
it comedy.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
That's when it really happens. Rose will be prepared.
Speaker 6 (12:01):
I will be prepared in a pendency school. Consider me,
Mi Stavis.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
That was the grossest thing ever. Jogle's first Date follow
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