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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Remy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Erica. So in
a minute, we're gonna call her and just tell us
why she's ghosting and maybe get another date. But first, Remy,
how long has it been since you heard from Tarika.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's been in about two weeks now.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Okay, have you reached out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
I mean at first I was reaching out, but no,
I've kind of gotten the point and you know, held
back recently.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
But why don't you tell us about your date?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yeah? Sure, So we went out to take place in
town I really like, and then after that we went
out for a froyo and then we even went out
a little dive bar I really like after that. So
I don't know, it was a great night, you know,
you know, we met up around seven, and you know,
by the time I dropped her off, it was you know,
almost already night. So great night, a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
This is always weird to me when you go to
three different locations and then you get ghosted, because at
that point you you have a pretty good feeling that,
like this person wants to spend time with you, like
you had it out two different times. Did you feel
like she was super nice?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah, she was super nice. I like, you know how
we talked a while before even our first date, and like,
I don't know, we're both vibing really good together. And yeah,
it was really weird that she didn't tell me anything
was wrong.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
So could it be like work or family related that
she's not like something's going on in her personal life?
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, I mean she she's some like she really had
her stuff together, but you know, it's definitely possible she
get just gotten busy. But you know, like I said,
it's been in a couple of weeks, so I forgured
if she wanted to go out another date, maybe she
would have answered me. But I really at least, you know,
want to know why.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
During the date, Remy, did she give you feelings that
she liked you? Did she say that or is there
something that could have possibly happened that would have made
the date kind of take a turn?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Like so I guess the one thing is I was
making like kind of some suggestive comments, like you know,
because things were going so well, like, you know, how
much I liked her and stuff, and it seemed like
those feelings were kind of reciprocated. But I don't know,
maybe I pushed too hard, like that's the only thing
I could really think of.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
But like what did you say? What direction were you pushing? Like,
oh I really liked you? Reason we get married?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Or yeah yeah, yeah, no, no, nothing like that, but
just like, oh, you know, next time I have to
do this, and you know, things like that, like you
know kind of you know, you know, insinuating that you know,
this wouldn't be the only, you know, date.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
I think that's some good things.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, you can't think of anything awkward that happened or
any reason that you'd be getting ghosted.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Yeah, I don't know, Like, uh, I don't know. Maybe
I wasn't dressed right, like I was wearing like corduroy
pants or something. Maybe she was kidding me on that.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Corduroys are in now, so is ish Okay, so maybe
you were getting.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Judged on that, Like I mean, I like them? How
tight were they?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Just?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Right?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Man?
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
All right, well we'll see if that is the issue,
we'll play a song come back and then call her
and see if she tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then maybe get you another date if you still want.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Okay, all right, also appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
So we'll play a song. Come back and get your
first day followup next.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
if you're just joining us, Remy is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Tarika. So in a second,
we're going to call her and see if she tell
us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date.
But first, Remy, why don't you catch everybody up on
your date with Tarica?
Speaker 3 (03:29):
So, yeah, we went out to stage place, we had
frozen yogurt, you know, we went to a dive bar,
you know, all together. We're together probably for about five hours.
It's a great day. You know, A text her a
few times after the date. But now it's been about
two weeks, haven't heard from her. Don't know if she
was judging me on my corduroy paint and some of
the talent that was making, you know, you know, hoping
(03:50):
that we would you know, it wouldn't be our only
date or anything like that. And yeah, I'm just really
like to hear from her again, or at least find
out like why I haven't heard from her?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Okay, cool, you're right us a caller. Okay, here we go, Hi,
I speak to Erica.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Please. This is hey Tarica. How are you?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
My name is Jewbell and I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Hi, Sarah, I'm Nina. I'm also on the show.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. Please.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
That's cool.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
You listen to the show.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Every we do a segment on the show called the
First Date follow Up, where if you go on a
date with somebody and ghost them, that person emails us
to call you up and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Okay, so.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
We got an email about you?
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Okay, all right, it's.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
From a dude named Remy. Oh no, oh yeah, yep?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Are you ghosting Remy?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Can I say yes or no?
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Okay? Yeah? Would explaining to us what that means? Though,
I get like, I.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Definitely put off messaging him back. I'll put it that way.
I put off messaging him back.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
So he's not totally ghosted yet.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
It's just Elaine just mailed him a letter.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
At this point sounds funny.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
It wasn't anything like I literally just got thrown off.
That was that was it. Like it wasn't like anything.
I was just thrown off. Okay, So I couldn't stop
thinking about what happened when we went to get frozen
rbor like like I don't know what happened, but like
he he like became like a monster in that proio shop,
(05:50):
Like he added everything that they had available for toppings
and stuff, and he went bonkers, like he added everything
like cookies and gummy bears and sprinkles and the job
of syrup and the strawberry.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Yeah it sounds like having.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Yeah, it sounds like something I do too. I know
he was sending forty bucks. It's the hoppings are so good.
I don't understand what you just one right, Well.
Speaker 5 (06:23):
It was my thought process, but I was like, I
was like weird. I was like, okay, this thing is
going to weigh forty pounds. And I was just like,
you've never been to one of these places, Like is
this first time out of the house, Like I just
I guess I thought about it like way too much.
And then I was like, well, I'll get back to him.
You know, I was still in my head and then
(06:44):
I completely forgot to get back to him.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Okay, just for that sounds like something, Victoria. Yeah, obviously
you're judging him on having so many toppings.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Does that?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Does that tell you something about his character? You're just
really not sure how somebody can mix cookies and gummy
bears together. I'm not really understanding how this was like
an ick for you.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
It just it just like a lot like I think.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I was just stunned.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
It was kind of like a train wreck kind of thing.
I was just watching it, and I'm like, I just
can't I just can't stop thinking about it. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Okay, let me ask you this, Erika. This will help
me understand. What do you put on your frozen yogurt?
Speaker 5 (07:24):
Oh? Well, like the flavors coordinate, like I'll do like,
you know, two three flavors that like all make sense together,
but no toppings. I'll do some toppings, but I'll do like, oh, like,
let's do like a strawberry and a chocolate with like
some fresh strawberries on it or something like that that
makes sense, Like I do a couple of things.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Yeah, no, no, I get it now.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Her closet is like it's color coordinating. It is actually yeah,
see Okay, I just needed to understand, okay, why the
chaos was.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
The chaos is a good word for it.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yes, that's the reason that you're going singing is because
of the toppings on his froyo.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
I was just kind of picturing, you know how, like
there's those people at the like soda fountains that they
get like a splash of every single flavor in the
cup like that always.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Okay, I do that too. What, Yeah, it's very incoccident.
It's called Anina. I understand your name, like Nina aid,
you know, like lemonade.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Was like anyways, Erica, thank you for telling us.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I should also let you know that Remy is on
the phone listening and wants to talk a little.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
So yeah, I guess I kind of like you could
say a fruit punch of frozen yogurt, like you've heard
of the kid in the candy store, while I'm like
the man in the frog place, like I just can't
make my mind. So I guess maybe I didn't want
to hold on the date, so kind of deciding I
just started a little bit of everything. Sorry about that.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
If I don't think you me to apologize, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
I'm pretty offended.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
So I was okay, So I was CLARIFICA said, I'm
so sorry. I was not offended. I was just blown
away flesh. My mind is just blown. Like I don't
think I had the power to think after that.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
You know, maybe sometime you can go out for pizza
or something, but you know, I like to order a
lot of topics on those.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
I was gonna say, like, how many topics go on
your pizza? Like are you one of those people that
put like pardi concina butter or something.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
No, but maybe some sausage and pine apple and green
pepper and onion and Canadian bacon and taco and you know,
pepperoni and black oloves green olives. So not too many mushrooms,
but not too many toppings.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
But I.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
Don't know, like well, at least like with pizzas, you
can usually order like a half and half.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
So but yeah, so it it's just a proio hum
Like it was really kind of just going around a
hear from you.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Oh, Like I wasn't really like ghosting me because of it.
I just got in my head about it and then
I honestly I meant to get back to you, and
then I just I didn't like that. That's what like,
I wish I had a better excuse. I wish I
had a clever and I have nothing.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
It was just, would you like to go out with
Remy again? We'll pay for it. I mean, we'll pay
for most of it. I don't know how much ISO
cost if you guys get FROO, but we'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (10:30):
I mean, I guess your question is, like, is he
willing to go out with me again?
Speaker 4 (10:36):
That's fair?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Yeah, you know that, uh pizza with the twenty toppings
sounding pretty good now, so that'd be awesome.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
Well, I mean, if you want a third date, just
don't get the twenty topping pizza.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
I'm like Good's first date follow up