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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at dot com. Rose is on the phone
today for our first date follow up and she's getting
ghosted by a dude named Malik. So we're about to
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Rose,
how long has it been since you heard from Malik?
(00:21):
Too long? Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
He was just I don't know, I had I had
a real good time. I assumed he did too. Yeah,
but it's been a minute.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Do you want to go ahead and tell you about Yeah? Yeah,
tell us about it.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
So so we matched and we decided to go on
a date and it was his idea to do like
a like a mini golf, you.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Know, like a rooftop mini golf situations. And it was
really cute, lots of people, good music, there was a
live DJ. It was like it was it was really romantic. Okay,
getting points right. And he's super cute, very tall, hard working.
But the thing that I loved about him the most
was his ambition because he.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Wanted to.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
From depending like from his background.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
And his family.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
He wanted to be like the first person that you
know to have something for himself, and he wanted to
start you own production company, and so I was like, man,
this guy's really hot. You know, he's ticking off a
bunch of the boxes. So during the day I had
this happened sometimes when I have bubbles, but like sipping
like champagne or whatever, I'll start hiccupping, and like it's
(01:34):
been a thing since I was a kid, and like
my hiccups are like loud, and I can't it doesn't
matter how many times, like I hold my breath or whatever,
Like I can't help it. And so it happened at
the worst time during the state and so I'm just
hiccuping through it really loud, and I guess I like
it's like I'm like literally racking my brain. It had
to be because maybe he felt like that was weird,
(01:58):
but like I can't. I can't help that, you know.
And even at one point time he tried.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
To scare me, which was also cute, and.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
It didn't work, but yeah, I don't, I don't know.
He just like just went silent after that, and I
was like that that has to be why it has
to be the only reason why I die. If that
is the reason why, Like, wouldn't it be kind of cute,
like maybe she's nervous or if it's like the bubbles,
like what are you gonna do about it?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Like I would think it's kind of just funny. And
if he's annoyed by that, then unless he thought you
were like hammered and you're like hamping hammered, you know, Okay, No,
definitely not hammered.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
First day, not hammered. Yeah, I'm just kidding up. You know,
we have fun, you know, and whatever that like that happens,
and so yeah, I was kind of thinking about that.
I was like, if he honestly goes to me because
of like a bodily function, then I don't know, you
might not be my guy. But like literally, that's the
(02:55):
only thing that I can think of the only thing.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
It's a less offensive bodily fund right.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
It could be much worse, It's.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
True, much worse. Did his mood change after he started hiccuping?
I mean, is that why you think it might be
that he kind of.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Made crazy faces? But like he would make like I
could I could see a little bit, and I'm like,
all right, well whatever, Like he didn't seem like completely
turned off you know. We even kissed at Sanda of
the night too, So that's why I'm.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Like, as you did kiss?
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Yeah, of course the kiss hand and he walks me.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Back to my car.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
That was the last thing that he said to you.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
He had a great time.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Anything about like seeing you again?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Uh, well, I didn't want to be like, well, are
you going to see me again? You know, so I
just thought that you'd follow up. I wanted to, but
I thought that you would follow up with a text,
you know, because I don't want to seem too thirsty. Right, yeah,
you know, what's the girl to do?
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Did you text him?
Speaker 4 (03:49):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I want him to, you know, show up and show
I co text them. But now I'm like, this now
feels weird. It feels like a game of chess, and
I'm not good at chess. I'm really not good at
playing John.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
So I'm gonna let him show.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Up and make his move.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
But his move has been way too long.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
And maybe he was waiting for you to make the move,
which is another thing that would drive me crazy. But
maybe I want him.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
To show up as a man, not to make it
about a gender thing, but I would like it for
him to show up and show me that you know,
let's let's do around too.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Okay, cool, Well, well plas, I'll come back and then
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, okay,
we'll get your first d follow up next. If you're
just joining us for today's first date follow up. Rose
is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a
dude named Malik. So we're about to call him and
(04:42):
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her a second date. But before we call him, Rose,
why don't you break down your date again for us
real quick.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, Matt's not an app one. On our first date,
we went to play mini golf, had a great time.
I had not too much a drink, but I was
hiccupping really loudly, and I don't know if he was
like turned off by that. And then after that, after
a great night and a kiss in a hug, walked
to the car.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Nothing.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
All right, Well, are you ready for us to call
him and see if you'll tell us?
Speaker 4 (05:13):
I mean, I'm nervous, but sure, Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to the leak please.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Uh, this is a leak?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Hey mileak? What's up? How are you? This is a
radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi,
I'm Victoria and my name's Jubile. How are you?
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Radio show? What is this like? Why are you guys
calling you?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Maybe I might have seen something on TikTok before. Just yeah,
I haven't haven't heard of this.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
It's a radio show. It's called Juble Show. You can
check it out on the radio or podcast wherever we
get your podcast. But the reason we're calling you to
is that we do a segment on the show and
it's called the First Dight follow Up. That's where if
you go out on a date with somebody and you
end up ghosting them, that person can email us to
ask you why you're ghosting them. And we got an
email about you, Malik an email?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
What?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
We got an email about you from someone that you
went on a date with, but now you're not calling
them back?
Speaker 4 (06:19):
You know? Yeah, this is awkward. What did What did
the email say?
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Said great things? That said you were awesome, They really
liked you, and they're confused while you're ghosting them, Are
you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Oh you're talking about the girl like one on the
date last week Rose, Yes, it is.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I would hardly remember her a week ago.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
The thing is, well, you know, I get on a
lot of dates, you know, being a dude.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
But like the thing about Rose that I remember, she
just kept like hiccupping on the date.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
But the thing is, it wasn't even the hiccups that
like got me.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
What really made me not want to go on another
date with her was the fact that she kept like
heckling other people on the golf course.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Like she kept saying things like don't choke and.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Get it in the hole, like just allow people to
like have a good time and we're just here to.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Just be on a day together.
Speaker 5 (07:14):
And I'm like, I'm not trying to see you heckle
people every time that we are having a good time together.
It just felt like the energy was a little off
for her, and so she.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Was hecking people on the golf course.
Speaker 5 (07:29):
Yeah, it was very like aggressive and like condescending for me,
just as a guy, I'm like, I'm not and if
you can talk to random strangers like this, like that
makes me feel like you can talk to me any
kind of way too.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
And I'm like, no, I don't know if this is
like a good match for me.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Well, thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that.
The leak, of.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Course, it was strange to us. She sent an email.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Yeah, she's on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
She's here, Yeah, she's on the world. Rose, This this
is really awkward. I don't even want to talk to you.
All those dates that you've.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
Been going on, I mean yeah, I mean I've been
meeting some cool people, so you know, wow, okay, and Rose,
you're one.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Of those cool people.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
Until you were heckling and public shaming the people on
the golfers like time having.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Me I was rooting for I was, I was cheering
them on.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Like you were literally saying, like it in the whole
just like.
Speaker 5 (08:32):
You know, it felt like we were at a sporting
game versus a date a first day.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
I'm like, oh no, this.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Is not came off.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
So I guess you interpreted my burping its sparting also
because it really wasn't that serious.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
I mean, the burping thing.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
I can get past the burping thing, Like you know,
I've burped too, But at the end of the day,
like we're here on a first day, everybody's having a
good time, and I just felt like it just came
across very like aggressive and honestly.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Kind of rude. Like even people were looking at you, like,
why is she yelling at me?
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Really they were excited.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I thought the sitement.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
Roads they wasn't excited. You gotta be honest with yourself,
like this is why I mean again, I have to
see other people.
Speaker 6 (09:10):
But like literally in the leak, it was the rooftop
mini golf with the DJ and energy and people and laughter,
Like it's not like we're at like the Professional Golf
Gold Championship.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
You're allowed to make noise, you're allowed to root for
other people.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
And if that's too much for you, then I'm glad.
I understand maybe you'd be better off dating and nun Oh.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
You know, Rose, you really have a way of turning
a simple thing of like golf into like this huge
thing such as like the Hunger Games.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
And I'm like, you haven't turned this.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
Small thing of golf like into such a big issue.
What can you make a big issue about in our
relationship if we weren't even continue dating.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
So of course I'm gonna.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Do that relationship in the league.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
You're terrible at communication. No, yeah, you're right, You're right.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
Yeah, No, really, honestly, Rose, you're terrible at reading the room.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Honestly.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
You never say honestly before giving an honest answer.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
Well, you know, I honestly feel like this is me
being very office.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
I like that, maleak And.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
This is why this is why I dosted you Rose,
just really thread.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yeah, it feels like maybe because you don't want to
get owned by me, milk, Is that what it is?
Speaker 5 (10:29):
You know what I told you, Everything that I'm building,
and there's nothing you really can own from me.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
So yeah, I'm owning the other dates.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
That No, no, no, I love that. I hope that they
I hope that they're quiet enough for your for your
terms whatever. Why don't you just man up.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
A little bit? Would you like to go out with
Rose again? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Oh yeah, you know, I'd rather use that money. And
just like like I said, I've been going on other
dates and.
Speaker 5 (10:59):
You know clearly this was never going to work out
between Rose and I Roll.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
You know what, whoever, you're notckling next, have a good
time with them.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
WHOA, thanks, we'll have a great time. Jubile's first Date
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