July 16, 2024 • 11 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ryan is on the phone today for a first day
follow up. He's getting ghosted by Chelsea. So in a
few minutes we're going to call her and see sha
tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date if he still wants one. But before we
do that, Ryan was up, how long has it been
since you heard from Chelsea?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Uh, it's been i'd said, probably about a week or so.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Have you how many times have you tried to reach
out to her at that time?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Probably about three or four times.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
You know.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I didn't want to seem like I was a stocking,
you know type, So after the last time, I just
you know, left it alone and got in contact with
you guys, you know, to see if I could try
and figure something out, because you know, I don't know
what I did wrong. I thought it was a great
first date. I thought we hit it off, and I've
just been ghosted ever since.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Why don't you start by telling us about the date?
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Okay, So we went out, in our drinks conversation, everything
was was pretty good, and this came about after you know,
us connecting on Hinge. Had some friends tell me some
good things about HIMS, so I figured I'd try it out. So,
you know, we went on our date and then we
went to a nearby park after that.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
How to go at the park.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
The park went good, but I guess there was something
that was pretty questionable that happened at dinner. You know,
we were hanging out, having a good time, chatting it up,
and so she got a phone call and she said
she needed to take the call, and she excused herself
from the table and went out for this call. And
the call was probably about She was gone for about
(01:41):
fifteen to twenty minutes. Oh, I thought it was pretty
important because she stepped outside of the restaurant. But she
walked all the way to the corner or like you know,
up the street a little bit, and I could see
from the restaurant that she was in a heated exchange,
Like her hands were flying, and I could like the
veins popping out of her forehead, and she was like
(02:04):
yelling and screaming into the phone. And I was by
this time, like, you know, the food came, her food
was cold. I didn't want to start eating without her,
And so you know, she comes back inside and she's
like really cool, calm and collected, and I said, is
everything okay? And she said, yeah, I'm just dealing with
some family stuff. You know, my sister called me and
(02:26):
you know, a little sibling sibling quarrels or whatever. So
I just said, okay. I said, well, do you want
me to order you something else? You know, I can
have them send this back and we can order you
a fresh one, so that way it's high and you know,
she didn't want to eat at that point. She said, no,
I'm fine. We can just wrap up, you know, if
(02:48):
you want to eat, and you know, we can go
to the park. So yeah, that's kind of how the
that portion of the date went. That's the only pickup
that I could think of that happened.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
That's that pretty big hiccup.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
She whows you to the park, which is a good
sign because to continue after dinner, like she kept it going.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, that's what I don't understand. We went to the park.
You know, we had you know, break conbo and I
even got to you know, pick in on the cheek.
At the the end of the day, thought was great,
And I just don't know what else happened. It's really weird.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
All right, Well we'll see we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call
her and see if Shell tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then maybe get you another day.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
All right, thanks, sounds good, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Plays on Comeback, get your first Day follow up next.
If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,
Ryan is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Chelsea
and doesn't know why. So in just a second, we're
gonna call her Steefsha, tell us why she's ghosting him,
and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Ryan,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Yeah? So kind to Really, what I thought was a
great date with Chelsea. The only hiccup that happened during
the date was she had to take a phone call
from you know, an important phone call to deal with
the situation. Family situation, I guess. But other than that,
we hit it off. Great conversation, great energy, great vibes,
even got a pick on the cheek at the end
(04:15):
of the night. After that, just ghost nothing gone cricket.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
All right, you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Mas speak to Chelsea.
Please guys che Chelsea. Hi, how are you?
Speaker 4 (04:39):
My name is Jubel and this is a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show. Hi, Chelsea, I'm Nina also
on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
Hi. Hello.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Actually?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Have?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Cool?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Really cool? You know why we recalling you?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Did I win something?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I hope I did.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
It's possible. It depends how much you like Ryan. You
remember going on a date with Ryan.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
Oh, oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So this is a first date follow up the segment
where we if you've been ghosted, you can email us.
So we get that person on the phone and ask
why you're being ghosted. And Ryan emailed us about you, So.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
The reason why I'm ghosting him is because I'm trying
to dodge my ex and I honestly didn't want to
scare Ryan away. So my eggs texted me while I
was from the date with Ryan, and he texted, I
need to see you, and then he continued like, I
trust your phone. I'm coming to see you. Oh yeah,
(05:51):
And so I went to call him to kind of
diffuse the situation, because like we've been broken up for
about six months, but he's really having a hard time
accepting the breakup, and so he drives by my house constantly.
He like sends me still flowers to work.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Oh my gosh, wow.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
And so I honestly I took the call and after
that I just had a hard time because I just
don't want I really feel like I need to get
a handle on him before I bring anybody into my
life and bring this drama into anybody's life.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
And I honestly feel bad for Ryan, like I just
don't want to bring that to him, And so I
just haven't really responded much to Ryan.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
You liked him though, Yeah, I like trying a lot. Actually,
it's actually kind of respectful.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Like, think about how many people have like X drama
and they don't even care about the new person they
bring into their life. And now this new person is
like collateral damage. I think that that's really cool of you.
But I also think that's something you could probably tell him.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
I guess I could have told him. I honestly feel
like I just it's not fair. It's not fair to
bring anybody with my ex is pretty preciously as easy. Yeah,
and I just don't want to put him in any
dangerous situation.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Oh wow, you think he's like dangerous.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Well, I mean I don't know about how he.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Will be confrontational, Okay, if he sees me with another guy. Yeah,
and so that hasn't happened yet, so I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Well, if you think about it this way, though, your
ex is still controlling you because you're not dating people
you want.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
To date pretty much. Yeah, that's true. I didn't even
think about that.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Yeah, my opinion, that's pretty unacceptable. But like, how do
you handle how do you handle that?
Speaker 5 (07:41):
I don't know. I am really trying hard to just
be civilized and talk to him and just try to
calm him down and just let him know that I'm
not interested anymore. And it's just been really hard.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well, I have a couple ideas for you, but I'll
get to those at a second.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
First, I'm want to let you know that Ryan is
actually on the other line and has been listening and
wants to.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Yes, Hi, Ryan, Hey, Chelsea, how are you.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
I'm good to you.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
I'm so sorry. I honestly did not mean to go
see you. I just it's just been really stressful, Alean.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
I'm so happy to hear your voice. I'm sorry to
put you on the radio and put you on the
spot like this, but I didn't know what else to do,
and I, yeah, closure I needed to know. I just
really thought there was a connection there, and so yeah,
I'm happy to hear that it wasn't me.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
No, you didn't do anything wrong. You were so sweet.
I felt like we really had a connection, and it's
been so hard for me. It's been really heavy because
I just honestly don't want to put you in any
weird situation, you know, I don't think it will be fair.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
There are a couple of questions. Are you completely Are you
still attached emotionally like you? Do you still have feelings
for him?
Speaker 5 (09:02):
No? I don't have feelings for him and it's been
six months.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Yeah, absolutely not, Chelsea.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I have a question for you, why do you still
talk to him?
Speaker 5 (09:13):
I don't know. I'm just do you feel bad something
like that? I'm feel bad for him. I know he's
stuff bering.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
Care about yourself. You're done with a relationship with him.
You don't need to talk to him unless you have,
like a kid or something and you have to talk
to him. You don't need to.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Feel bad for him, feel bad for yourself. You're not
able to date Ryan, and you want to date Ryan,
and you're letting your extra control how that issue goes
because you're worried about your ex. Worry about yourself. Get it, girl,
Well you should get it girl.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
You should also make sure that your man like has
some type of restraining order if he really does keep
popping in random places, because that is not okay.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
Yeah, if it's super bad, you should do that for real.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
Yeah, I mean I haven't really stopped fully the communication
that I could definitely block him. I just feel so
bad for him because I thought he's just really suffering
and I just don't I mean, I hated having to
break up the relationship, but I really don't have any
feelings for him.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Believe me, it's hard. It's hard to not talk to
somebody who's persistent. But you ghosted Ryan, you can ghost again.
Like this life coaching right now is just you know, accurate.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
That's true. You know, sorry, Ryan.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
You can tell she's so empathetic too, which is a
great quality.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Chelsea, But Doubles, would you like to go on another
day with Ryan. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (10:37):
I will love to.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
I am really like right, what else you got?
Speaker 5 (10:42):
Like?
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Just get it girl, That's all I'm science.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Thank you. I really want to say thank you. Guys.
I'm so much for getting us back together here and
so that we can continue on. And Chelsea, don't worry.
You know, I'm a big boy. I can hold my own,
I can hold you down and you know, protect you
and myself. So no worries about the crazy X and
(11:09):
come get it girls.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
Jubile's first Date follow up
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ryan is on the phone today for a first day
follow up. He's getting ghosted by Chelsea. So in a
few minutes we're going to call her and see sha
tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date if he still wants one. But before we
do that, Ryan was up, how long has it been
since you heard from Chelsea?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Uh, it's been i'd said, probably about a week or so.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Have you how many times have you tried to reach
out to her at that time?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Probably about three or four times.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
You know.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I didn't want to seem like I was a stocking,
you know type, So after the last time, I just
you know, left it alone and got in contact with
you guys, you know, to see if I could try
and figure something out, because you know, I don't know
what I did wrong. I thought it was a great
first date. I thought we hit it off, and I've
just been ghosted ever since.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Why don't you start by telling us about the date?
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Okay, So we went out, in our drinks conversation, everything
was was pretty good, and this came about after you know,
us connecting on Hinge. Had some friends tell me some
good things about HIMS, so I figured I'd try it out. So,
you know, we went on our date and then we
went to a nearby park after that.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
How to go at the park.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
The park went good, but I guess there was something
that was pretty questionable that happened at dinner. You know,
we were hanging out, having a good time, chatting it up,
and so she got a phone call and she said
she needed to take the call, and she excused herself
from the table and went out for this call. And
the call was probably about She was gone for about
(01:41):
fifteen to twenty minutes. Oh, I thought it was pretty
important because she stepped outside of the restaurant. But she
walked all the way to the corner or like you know,
up the street a little bit, and I could see
from the restaurant that she was in a heated exchange,
Like her hands were flying, and I could like the
veins popping out of her forehead, and she was like
(02:04):
yelling and screaming into the phone. And I was by
this time, like, you know, the food came, her food
was cold. I didn't want to start eating without her,
And so you know, she comes back inside and she's
like really cool, calm and collected, and I said, is
everything okay? And she said, yeah, I'm just dealing with
some family stuff. You know, my sister called me and
(02:26):
you know, a little sibling sibling quarrels or whatever. So
I just said, okay. I said, well, do you want
me to order you something else? You know, I can
have them send this back and we can order you
a fresh one, so that way it's high and you know,
she didn't want to eat at that point. She said, no,
I'm fine. We can just wrap up, you know, if
(02:48):
you want to eat, and you know, we can go
to the park. So yeah, that's kind of how the
that portion of the date went. That's the only pickup
that I could think of that happened.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
That's that pretty big hiccup.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
She whows you to the park, which is a good
sign because to continue after dinner, like she kept it going.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, that's what I don't understand. We went to the park.
You know, we had you know, break conbo and I
even got to you know, pick in on the cheek.
At the the end of the day, thought was great,
And I just don't know what else happened. It's really weird.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
All right, Well we'll see we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call
her and see if Shell tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then maybe get you another day.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
All right, thanks, sounds good, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Plays on Comeback, get your first Day follow up next.
If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,
Ryan is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Chelsea
and doesn't know why. So in just a second, we're
gonna call her Steefsha, tell us why she's ghosting him,
and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Ryan,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Yeah? So kind to Really, what I thought was a
great date with Chelsea. The only hiccup that happened during
the date was she had to take a phone call
from you know, an important phone call to deal with
the situation. Family situation, I guess. But other than that,
we hit it off. Great conversation, great energy, great vibes,
even got a pick on the cheek at the end
(04:15):
of the night. After that, just ghost nothing gone cricket.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
All right, you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Mas speak to Chelsea.
Please guys che Chelsea. Hi, how are you?
Speaker 4 (04:39):
My name is Jubel and this is a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show. Hi, Chelsea, I'm Nina also
on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
Hi. Hello.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Actually?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Have?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Cool?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Really cool? You know why we recalling you?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Did I win something?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I hope I did.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
It's possible. It depends how much you like Ryan. You
remember going on a date with Ryan.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
Oh, oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So this is a first date follow up the segment
where we if you've been ghosted, you can email us.
So we get that person on the phone and ask
why you're being ghosted. And Ryan emailed us about you, So.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
The reason why I'm ghosting him is because I'm trying
to dodge my ex and I honestly didn't want to
scare Ryan away. So my eggs texted me while I
was from the date with Ryan, and he texted, I
need to see you, and then he continued like, I
trust your phone. I'm coming to see you. Oh yeah,
(05:51):
And so I went to call him to kind of
diffuse the situation, because like we've been broken up for
about six months, but he's really having a hard time
accepting the breakup, and so he drives by my house constantly.
He like sends me still flowers to work.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Oh my gosh, wow.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
And so I honestly I took the call and after
that I just had a hard time because I just
don't want I really feel like I need to get
a handle on him before I bring anybody into my
life and bring this drama into anybody's life.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
And I honestly feel bad for Ryan, like I just
don't want to bring that to him, And so I
just haven't really responded much to Ryan.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
You liked him though, Yeah, I like trying a lot. Actually,
it's actually kind of respectful.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Like, think about how many people have like X drama
and they don't even care about the new person they
bring into their life. And now this new person is
like collateral damage. I think that that's really cool of you.
But I also think that's something you could probably tell him.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
I guess I could have told him. I honestly feel
like I just it's not fair. It's not fair to
bring anybody with my ex is pretty preciously as easy. Yeah,
and I just don't want to put him in any
dangerous situation.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Oh wow, you think he's like dangerous.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Well, I mean I don't know about how he.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Will be confrontational, Okay, if he sees me with another guy. Yeah,
and so that hasn't happened yet, so I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Well, if you think about it this way, though, your
ex is still controlling you because you're not dating people
you want.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
To date pretty much. Yeah, that's true. I didn't even
think about that.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Yeah, my opinion, that's pretty unacceptable. But like, how do
you handle how do you handle that?
Speaker 5 (07:41):
I don't know. I am really trying hard to just
be civilized and talk to him and just try to
calm him down and just let him know that I'm
not interested anymore. And it's just been really hard.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well, I have a couple ideas for you, but I'll
get to those at a second.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
First, I'm want to let you know that Ryan is
actually on the other line and has been listening and
wants to.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Yes, Hi, Ryan, Hey, Chelsea, how are you.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
I'm good to you.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
I'm so sorry. I honestly did not mean to go
see you. I just it's just been really stressful, Alean.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
I'm so happy to hear your voice. I'm sorry to
put you on the radio and put you on the
spot like this, but I didn't know what else to do,
and I, yeah, closure I needed to know. I just
really thought there was a connection there, and so yeah,
I'm happy to hear that it wasn't me.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
No, you didn't do anything wrong. You were so sweet.
I felt like we really had a connection, and it's
been so hard for me. It's been really heavy because
I just honestly don't want to put you in any
weird situation, you know, I don't think it will be fair.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
There are a couple of questions. Are you completely Are you
still attached emotionally like you? Do you still have feelings
for him?
Speaker 5 (09:02):
No? I don't have feelings for him and it's been
six months.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Yeah, absolutely not, Chelsea.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I have a question for you, why do you still
talk to him?
Speaker 5 (09:13):
I don't know. I'm just do you feel bad something
like that? I'm feel bad for him. I know he's
stuff bering.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
Care about yourself. You're done with a relationship with him.
You don't need to talk to him unless you have,
like a kid or something and you have to talk
to him. You don't need to.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Feel bad for him, feel bad for yourself. You're not
able to date Ryan, and you want to date Ryan,
and you're letting your extra control how that issue goes
because you're worried about your ex. Worry about yourself. Get it, girl,
Well you should get it girl.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
You should also make sure that your man like has
some type of restraining order if he really does keep
popping in random places, because that is not okay.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
Yeah, if it's super bad, you should do that for real.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
Yeah, I mean I haven't really stopped fully the communication
that I could definitely block him. I just feel so
bad for him because I thought he's just really suffering
and I just don't I mean, I hated having to
break up the relationship, but I really don't have any
feelings for him.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Believe me, it's hard. It's hard to not talk to
somebody who's persistent. But you ghosted Ryan, you can ghost again.
Like this life coaching right now is just you know, accurate.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
That's true. You know, sorry, Ryan.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
You can tell she's so empathetic too, which is a
great quality.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Chelsea, But Doubles, would you like to go on another
day with Ryan. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (10:37):
I will love to.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
I am really like right, what else you got?
Speaker 5 (10:42):
Like?
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Just get it girl, That's all I'm science.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Thank you. I really want to say thank you. Guys.
I'm so much for getting us back together here and
so that we can continue on. And Chelsea, don't worry.
You know, I'm a big boy. I can hold my own,
I can hold you down and you know, protect you
and myself. So no worries about the crazy X and
(11:09):
come get it girls.
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