June 30, 2025 • 10 mins
Selena thought her dreamy food truck festival date with Justin was the start of something special — complete with fairy lights, a lavender donut, and even a sweet goodbye kiss. But after ten days of no response, she turned to us to find out why she was ghosted.
Justin finally reveals the shocking reason: Selena brought a Ziploc bag full of her own hair on the date, explaining she collects and tracks her daily shedding for "science." Cue the chaos.
Was Selena’s hair-tracking just quirky self-care or a total red flag? Tune in to hear this hilarious and jaw-dropping confrontation — plus find out if Justin agreed to a second date or ran for the hills.
Catch all the unexpected twists in this unforgettable First Date Follow Up.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocate online at
advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Selena is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Justin.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
her a second date. But first, Selena, how long has
it been since you talked to Justin?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Ten days to hold days? Do you believe it?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I can't believe it, I know, and I len me
sound very nice, so I don't. I don't understand.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
And it feels like it's meant to be.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Right, Selena and Justin. What a coincidence?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Right, we could be the couple that makes it.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
They didn't make it, I know, but she could have.
You tried to get a hold of Justin.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah, I sent him a text, you know, and she
did not respond to it. I mean, it wasn't nineteen bad,
it was just casual. I said, hey, hope you're not
in a lavender donut coma text? Nothing, and then I
told him I can't wait to see him again, and
still nothing at last.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
I don't understand the.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
Inside joke.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
That's just an inside joke.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Okay, I was curious, So what do you guys do
on your date?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Okay? So we met at a food truck festival, which
is already cute, right.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Yeah, right, yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I was wearing I was wearing my I'm fun and
chill but also hot outfit, and he was like in
a Patagonia dad gear very I hike for fun energy
huh yeah yeah. And we tried everything tacos, dumplings, these
insane garlic noodles. I still dream about them. And we
(01:44):
ended the night sharing a lavender donut under fairy lights.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
That's you.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah, and he laughed at all my jokes. He said
I had the best energy he's been around in months.
So yeah, obviously I thought we were vibing hard.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah. Yeah. So did you guys kiss or anything? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Yeah, at the end of the night, like you know, well,
actually what happened was like I was wearing like really
strong perfume and he started sneezing a lot, and I
asked if he was allergic, and he goes, no, no,
but he started breathing like a pug and a sauna
and I was like, oh shoot, And then I was
like maybe I gave him a mile.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
To asthma pet like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah, but we kissed goodbye and he didn't die, so
I figured we were cool.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Throwing you do have good energy, Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
I have fun.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Why do you think he's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
I really don't know. I mean I was thinking that,
you know, the whole like, you know, maybe I was
like really actually allergic and he didn't want to say anything,
and he's maybe in a coma right now, you know,
we don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
All right, well, let's figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date. Okay, yeah, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up, next first.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online
at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Right in the middle of your first date follow up,
And if you're just joining us, Selena is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Justin.
So we're gonna call him in just a second and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her a second date. But real quick, Selena,
why don't you break down your date again and why
you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Yeah? I have the most dreamy date.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
We went to a food truck festival. We ate a
lot of stuff, you know. We ended the night with
a dreamy kiss, and I think he might just be
ghosting me because of the perfume I was wearing. Maybe
it was too much, you know, and he didn't want
to say.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Anything about that.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I don't know, but like, I feel like we had
a great date.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
But he was starting to smell what does that breathe
like a pug?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
All? Yeah, all right, are you.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Ready for us to call the pug in asana and
see how he's doing?
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Justin Justin?
How are you I'm doing?
Speaker 6 (04:28):
I'll care who's calling.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Hi Justin. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
What's going on?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Guys?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I've heard of it, but I've been listening to it for.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Okay, guess what, Justin, you're on the show today because
we got an email about you. Okay, So we do
a segment that's called the first date follow up. What
that is is if you go on to day with
someone and you ghost them, they can email us to
call you and ask why you're ghosting and you're ghosting somebody,
(05:05):
so they email.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Us about you.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
Yeah, this is about Lena.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Right, yes, it is about Selena.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
But look she's well. I had a time, but there
was just like there was just something that happened that
I couldn't shake. Okay what it was about?
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Do you have time to tell us what that thing
is that you couldn't shake?
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Yeah? She brought it ziploc bag and in the ziploc
bag was just like a fist full of her hair.
Whoa wait what Yeah? We were having this like picnic
and you know, she pulls out this bag like Cathie
(05:51):
and I thought she was bringing out snacks. Nope, it
was her hair, her hair.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Did you ask her why she had her hair?
Speaker 6 (06:00):
I think I was just taking it all in. I
was just like, uh, oh, okay, there's got to be
her explanation to this, and that's her hair. And it
was like like she was just like taking hand like
oh yeah, like there's the Tuesday pile of hair.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
Oh. Interesting, every day had its own pile.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
I asked, and I guess he's tracking her hair scientifically.
I don't know what that means. I really asked them
many questions, but she said she loses a certain amount
of hair every day, and so she collected and she's
just checking it for vitamins. What if that means?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Interesting?
Speaker 6 (06:45):
She literally said that. Look, she told me the amount
of hair she loses her and since she was more
humido like in humid in human weather, I lose you know,
a two one hundred and forty strands a day.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
And she brought up back grew who knows that?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Okay, first of all, it's not weird, it's data.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Just then that's Selena. She's on the phone and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Hi, do you have something against science or something? I
had no idea how judgmental you are?
Speaker 6 (07:18):
Selena? Why are you on the call? Why might be
ambushed with this? This is ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I just wanted to know why you were ghoasting me,
and I can't believe this is your reason. Okay, I
am on a hair growth journey. If you can't handle
my routine, you don't deserve the results.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Wow, Okay, I don't have to be on the hair
growth journey with you. I don't have to be on
the hair growth journey, Like why, like a zip blocked
bag is your hair? That's like, that's a boundaries thing.
It's not. That's not normal or comfortable for another person.
You're around you pulling out sass of your hair like,
(07:58):
I don't care. You could have done it like a
no more discreetly. I don't care what you do in private.
I have nothing against science, but I don't want to
be looking at your science. We're having a picnic.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Listen, there is nothing wrong with what I am doing.
I'm just tracking my shedding. It's responsible. It's called file feedback. Okay,
all right.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
The range girl, it's called the range. You're the range curious.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
You're more ankle stocks with slides, so maybe let's not
act like you're the pinnacle of.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
All right. It was a style choice. It wasn't like
at least I wasn't wearing slippers may pair on my feet.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Oh so that was a style choice. I guess ghosting
was a style choice too.
Speaker 6 (08:51):
Apparently I was supposed to handle a ziplock of hair.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
I mean subwardive.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Yeah, but that's not something you do on the first
daid I don't have to know about all your business
and science. I don't need to know about anything more.
Your body is working at that point when we're just
trying to enjoy a picnic.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Well, I have to keep it with me to track
my hair as they fall. Otherwise would it be very scientific?
Speaker 6 (09:29):
Yeah, but I think science could be paused for an
actor during a picnic.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
I can't believe this, Jess. We had such a great
time and you're gonna let it go over this. I'm
gonna have Lush's hair and you're gonna be bald, all right?
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Justin, would you like another day with Selena? Will pay
for it?
Speaker 3 (09:50):
No?
Speaker 6 (09:51):
I think I'm good. I'm gonna be living in fear
of being sorted in the spreadsheet.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
You'd be in the low test Asterom zero great column, and.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
You'd be in the collect your own hair A villain
origin story column.
Speaker 5 (10:10):
Wow You Will's first Date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocate online at
advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Selena is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Justin.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
her a second date. But first, Selena, how long has
it been since you talked to Justin?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Ten days to hold days? Do you believe it?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I can't believe it, I know, and I len me
sound very nice, so I don't. I don't understand.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
And it feels like it's meant to be.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Right, Selena and Justin. What a coincidence?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Right, we could be the couple that makes it.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
They didn't make it, I know, but she could have.
You tried to get a hold of Justin.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah, I sent him a text, you know, and she
did not respond to it. I mean, it wasn't nineteen bad,
it was just casual. I said, hey, hope you're not
in a lavender donut coma text? Nothing, and then I
told him I can't wait to see him again, and
still nothing at last.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
I don't understand the.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
Inside joke.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
That's just an inside joke.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Okay, I was curious, So what do you guys do
on your date?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Okay? So we met at a food truck festival, which
is already cute, right.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Yeah, right, yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I was wearing I was wearing my I'm fun and
chill but also hot outfit, and he was like in
a Patagonia dad gear very I hike for fun energy
huh yeah yeah. And we tried everything tacos, dumplings, these
insane garlic noodles. I still dream about them. And we
(01:44):
ended the night sharing a lavender donut under fairy lights.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
That's you.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah, and he laughed at all my jokes. He said
I had the best energy he's been around in months.
So yeah, obviously I thought we were vibing hard.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah. Yeah. So did you guys kiss or anything? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Yeah, at the end of the night, like you know, well,
actually what happened was like I was wearing like really
strong perfume and he started sneezing a lot, and I
asked if he was allergic, and he goes, no, no,
but he started breathing like a pug and a sauna
and I was like, oh shoot, And then I was
like maybe I gave him a mile.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
To asthma pet like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah, but we kissed goodbye and he didn't die, so
I figured we were cool.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Throwing you do have good energy, Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
I have fun.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Why do you think he's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
I really don't know. I mean I was thinking that,
you know, the whole like, you know, maybe I was
like really actually allergic and he didn't want to say anything,
and he's maybe in a coma right now, you know,
we don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
All right, well, let's figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date. Okay, yeah, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up, next first.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online
at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Right in the middle of your first date follow up,
And if you're just joining us, Selena is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Justin.
So we're gonna call him in just a second and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her a second date. But real quick, Selena,
why don't you break down your date again and why
you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Yeah? I have the most dreamy date.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
We went to a food truck festival. We ate a
lot of stuff, you know. We ended the night with
a dreamy kiss, and I think he might just be
ghosting me because of the perfume I was wearing. Maybe
it was too much, you know, and he didn't want
to say.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Anything about that.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I don't know, but like, I feel like we had
a great date.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
But he was starting to smell what does that breathe
like a pug?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
All? Yeah, all right, are you.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Ready for us to call the pug in asana and
see how he's doing?
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Justin Justin?
How are you I'm doing?
Speaker 6 (04:28):
I'll care who's calling.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Hi Justin. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
What's going on?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Guys?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I've heard of it, but I've been listening to it for.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Okay, guess what, Justin, you're on the show today because
we got an email about you. Okay, So we do
a segment that's called the first date follow up. What
that is is if you go on to day with
someone and you ghost them, they can email us to
call you and ask why you're ghosting and you're ghosting somebody,
(05:05):
so they email.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Us about you.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
Yeah, this is about Lena.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Right, yes, it is about Selena.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
But look she's well. I had a time, but there
was just like there was just something that happened that
I couldn't shake. Okay what it was about?
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Do you have time to tell us what that thing
is that you couldn't shake?
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Yeah? She brought it ziploc bag and in the ziploc
bag was just like a fist full of her hair.
Whoa wait what Yeah? We were having this like picnic
and you know, she pulls out this bag like Cathie
(05:51):
and I thought she was bringing out snacks. Nope, it
was her hair, her hair.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Did you ask her why she had her hair?
Speaker 6 (06:00):
I think I was just taking it all in. I
was just like, uh, oh, okay, there's got to be
her explanation to this, and that's her hair. And it
was like like she was just like taking hand like
oh yeah, like there's the Tuesday pile of hair.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
Oh. Interesting, every day had its own pile.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
I asked, and I guess he's tracking her hair scientifically.
I don't know what that means. I really asked them
many questions, but she said she loses a certain amount
of hair every day, and so she collected and she's
just checking it for vitamins. What if that means?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Interesting?
Speaker 6 (06:45):
She literally said that. Look, she told me the amount
of hair she loses her and since she was more
humido like in humid in human weather, I lose you know,
a two one hundred and forty strands a day.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
And she brought up back grew who knows that?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Okay, first of all, it's not weird, it's data.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Just then that's Selena. She's on the phone and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Hi, do you have something against science or something? I
had no idea how judgmental you are?
Speaker 6 (07:18):
Selena? Why are you on the call? Why might be
ambushed with this? This is ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I just wanted to know why you were ghoasting me,
and I can't believe this is your reason. Okay, I
am on a hair growth journey. If you can't handle
my routine, you don't deserve the results.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Wow, Okay, I don't have to be on the hair
growth journey with you. I don't have to be on
the hair growth journey, Like why, like a zip blocked
bag is your hair? That's like, that's a boundaries thing.
It's not. That's not normal or comfortable for another person.
You're around you pulling out sass of your hair like,
(07:58):
I don't care. You could have done it like a
no more discreetly. I don't care what you do in private.
I have nothing against science, but I don't want to
be looking at your science. We're having a picnic.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Listen, there is nothing wrong with what I am doing.
I'm just tracking my shedding. It's responsible. It's called file feedback. Okay,
all right.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
The range girl, it's called the range. You're the range curious.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
You're more ankle stocks with slides, so maybe let's not
act like you're the pinnacle of.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
All right. It was a style choice. It wasn't like
at least I wasn't wearing slippers may pair on my feet.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Oh so that was a style choice. I guess ghosting
was a style choice too.
Speaker 6 (08:51):
Apparently I was supposed to handle a ziplock of hair.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
I mean subwardive.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Yeah, but that's not something you do on the first
daid I don't have to know about all your business
and science. I don't need to know about anything more.
Your body is working at that point when we're just
trying to enjoy a picnic.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Well, I have to keep it with me to track
my hair as they fall. Otherwise would it be very scientific?
Speaker 6 (09:29):
Yeah, but I think science could be paused for an
actor during a picnic.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
I can't believe this, Jess. We had such a great
time and you're gonna let it go over this. I'm
gonna have Lush's hair and you're gonna be bald, all right?
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Justin, would you like another day with Selena? Will pay
for it?
Speaker 3 (09:50):
No?
Speaker 6 (09:51):
I think I'm good. I'm gonna be living in fear
of being sorted in the spreadsheet.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
You'd be in the low test Asterom zero great column, and.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
You'd be in the collect your own hair A villain
origin story column.
Speaker 5 (10:10):
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