September 24, 2025 • 10 mins
Selena thought her late-night arcade date with Marcus was unforgettable — neon mini golf, air hockey mishaps, and nonstop laughs. But now he’s ghosting her, and the reason he gives might be one of the strangest dealbreakers we’ve ever heard on The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com. Rolena is on the
phone today for our first Day follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a guy named Marcus. So in a
few minutes we're gonna call him and see if it
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
another date. But first, Selena, how long has it been
since you heard from Marcus? Hey? So about a week
(00:21):
and a half. Okay, have you been trying to get
a hold of him or was the last time you
guys talked on your date?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Yeah, I mean the last time that we talked another
date afterwards? You know, I texted him, hey, I had
a great time, and he wrote back, yeah, me too.
And you know, during the date, everything was awesome, So
I assumed, so we'd go on another date.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I mean, yeah, one would if it was good, right.
It was amazing.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
We like went for like this midnight mini golf and
arcade night at like the retro game lounge, you know,
and I'm talking neon lights if he's downtrack pumpkin spice cocktails,
you know, the best and and honestly, it was marcusistic.
So I was like, all right, this guy's got a
great vibe. He also has like this low key, you know,
(01:10):
bookish charm, but still we're sneakers, Like I don't know,
he's about to start.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
A dance battle like slag. I'm so into that exactly,
and like he's.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Got a great laugh Like I mean, he was awesome,
this really great guy.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Okay, so why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Well, so when we were at the Arcade, we were
like doing this you know, best of three air hockey challenge,
and honestly I got way too into it.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
What does that mean? Yeah, exactly, this sounds so lovely.
I can't even imagine.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
So so mane, they don't know myland strength. And you know,
at match point, I launched the puck so hard it
literally ricocheted, smacked the feeling quam and definitely went right
into someone's nachos. Oh like tage hot cheese everywhere.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Wow. Okay, but I mean the is that a reason
to ghost you?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I don't think. So. You know, Marcus like doubled over,
laughing even high five to me. And then you know,
we spent like an hour, you know, talking about vintage
pinball tips like it was.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I was just thinking about like, you know, this is
a kind of night that you tell your grandkids about,
you know.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Well, so then where was the issue?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Well, I don't know, Like we texted a little bit
after the date and then he like completely disappeared.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, okay, so you actually were texting after the date.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, like a little bit, nothing crazy, but like, is
it because I'm frequently strong and like, maybe you do
that stuff after like a little bit, but nothing like
a little bit of a makeout. But I thought that
vibe was there, But maybe he's obviously not into it anymore.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
him and see if ho tell us why is ghosting
you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, thank
you so much. Get your first day follow up next.
Right in the middle of your first date follow up
and if you're just joining us, Selena is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Marcus.
So we're about to call him and see if it
(03:20):
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
a second date. But first, Selena why don't you break
down your date again first, real quick.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So basically, this awesome our date and we ended up
going to this really cool retro arcade and we played
you know, Best of three air hockey and I hit
the pack way too harsh radios. Someone's got Joe's I
don't know my own strength, but I thought we were
laughing about it. And now he's pretty much ghosting me.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
All right, well you ready for us to call him? Please? Okay,
here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Marcus. Please.
(04:10):
This is Marcus. How can I help you? Hey? Marcus?
How are you? This is a radio show. It's called
The Jubil Show. Hi, Marcus. I'm Nina. I'm Victoria and
my name's Juble.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I know you guys.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
All right, well now we know you Marcus win something.
I must have won something. It's possible you could have
won something. This is the first Day follow up. You
know the segment where if you go out with someone
and you got them, they email us to call you
and find out why. I've heard of this. I've heard
of this show. Yeah yeah, no, but you did ghost somebody?
(04:47):
Oh yeah, so any idea who you're ghosting?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
You're just laughing about it. Marcus, where are you coasting?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I feel like I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Una, Yes it is Selena. She told us about your date.
We talked to her a little bit since she really
likes you. But now you're not calling her back. You
mind telling us why? Yeah, mini golf date. Uh, I
gotta say the day was great and and and she's
she's pretty, and and I just like she dressed like
(05:19):
my mom, Like, uh yeah, minilf Did you say mini
golf date? Yeah, we went to like Neon minigolf eighties
was like an arcade place. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, No,
I mean I went to minigolf with someone else. That
was arcade night, right, Okay, are we still talking about
(05:40):
the same person? Oh yeah, nachos. She like, we were
playing knock hockey and she kind of hit the knock
hockey thing into it doesn't It was like a kind
of a mess. But okay, okay, but that's not why
you're ghosting her. No, she dressed like my mom. She
dressed like your mom.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Yeah, it was a kind of turn off.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I like, everything was great, but then she were the top.
It was like my mom, So your mom has the
same top that she was wearing. It was like exactly
the same top, and I was like, oh gosh, it's
my mom. Just gonna say sometimes things just like turn
me off and that that was just kind of it. Okay,
But you guys kissed and stuff. Huh.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yeah, And when I was kissing her, I kind of
felt like I was kissing my mom.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Yeah, all right, probably better not to go back there then. Yeah.
I don't know. Would you date someone that dressed like
your mom, I don't know, or your dad, It depends.
I don't think it would bother me, but I don't
know if it's a deal break.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Did she act like your mom too? No, she didn't.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
She was fun. It was fun.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
It was just like I said, it's just a little
thing like that can make a break deal.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
It's like a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
I guess if like you're playing air hockey.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Everything was great. But I don't know. You guys don't
have like a little things that bother you when something
goes not the way you planned.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, I guess. I just I don't know how your
mom dresses, so I don't know if it was bad
or good. I don't know, like Mom's like, Oh, I
don't know the tom just target mom section. Mom. Okay,
all right, well keep step margus. Thank you for telling us.
I will let you know that Selena is actually on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh okay, hello,
(07:28):
yeah hi. So oh yeah, great taste.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
You got our mom's taste.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
I think that's ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
He goes to me over this that's in sade.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
I don't know, like if you if I dress like
your your dad, would you be into that?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Okay? No, but I wouldn't hold it against you.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Okay, so you you wouldn't date your dad or you wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
I mean, I don't know. I'm not trying to day.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
My mom just escalated. It's not the same thing, okay,
markets I am not it's not the same thing. I'm
not your mom. Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Look, I'm going to send your picture right now of
me wearing something else. You can raise that image of
me and your mom pop away from your bro.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
We had a vibe. You're sending him a picture.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Okay, So.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
That good?
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Oh what? Oh wow? Okay, so like my mom has
that braw By the way, now you're lying, okay.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Also, how do you know what kind of brought your mama.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
It's all in her laundry room. I don't know. Okay, okay, basically,
do you like what you see or not? Oh? I
mean yeah, you're you're beautiful to be fairy like you rock?
I want to be fair. You rock the top that
my mom wears way better than my mom.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Okay, all right, well now we're getting somewhere. Oh all right,
come on, Guys end up marrying women like their moms anyway,
so this will be a hilarious story one day. Maybe sure.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And you know what, I bet your mom's sending pictures
like that to your dad.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
I don't think so. But uh oh yeah, oh I
don't want to think about that. Marcus, would you like
to go on another day with Selena? Will pay for it? Yeah?
I mean well I kind of have to go, Like
I got a coffee date right now, so I kind
of have to go a date right now.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
I just want to say, good life. You're gonna do
like really great out there. Thank you? Where are you going?
Speaker 2 (09:58):
I have a date?
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Okay? All right? You really just give me that you'll
do great out there like a sports I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Whatever, you know, I just sent that picture to someone
else and actually I'm going to go on a coffee day.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Now, wow's a waste of my time.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
So I'm going to go your coffee and probably do
it a bunch.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
All right, Okay, what just happened? Juble's first day follow
up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com. Rolena is on the
phone today for our first Day follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a guy named Marcus. So in a
few minutes we're gonna call him and see if it
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
another date. But first, Selena, how long has it been
since you heard from Marcus? Hey? So about a week
(00:21):
and a half. Okay, have you been trying to get
a hold of him or was the last time you
guys talked on your date?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Yeah, I mean the last time that we talked another
date afterwards? You know, I texted him, hey, I had
a great time, and he wrote back, yeah, me too.
And you know, during the date, everything was awesome, So
I assumed, so we'd go on another date.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I mean, yeah, one would if it was good, right.
It was amazing.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
We like went for like this midnight mini golf and
arcade night at like the retro game lounge, you know,
and I'm talking neon lights if he's downtrack pumpkin spice cocktails,
you know, the best and and honestly, it was marcusistic.
So I was like, all right, this guy's got a
great vibe. He also has like this low key, you know,
(01:10):
bookish charm, but still we're sneakers, Like I don't know,
he's about to start.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
A dance battle like slag. I'm so into that exactly,
and like he's.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Got a great laugh Like I mean, he was awesome,
this really great guy.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Okay, so why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Well, so when we were at the Arcade, we were
like doing this you know, best of three air hockey challenge,
and honestly I got way too into it.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
What does that mean? Yeah, exactly, this sounds so lovely.
I can't even imagine.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
So so mane, they don't know myland strength. And you know,
at match point, I launched the puck so hard it
literally ricocheted, smacked the feeling quam and definitely went right
into someone's nachos. Oh like tage hot cheese everywhere.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Wow. Okay, but I mean the is that a reason
to ghost you?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I don't think. So. You know, Marcus like doubled over,
laughing even high five to me. And then you know,
we spent like an hour, you know, talking about vintage
pinball tips like it was.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I was just thinking about like, you know, this is
a kind of night that you tell your grandkids about,
you know.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Well, so then where was the issue?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Well, I don't know, Like we texted a little bit
after the date and then he like completely disappeared.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, okay, so you actually were texting after the date.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, like a little bit, nothing crazy, but like, is
it because I'm frequently strong and like, maybe you do
that stuff after like a little bit, but nothing like
a little bit of a makeout. But I thought that
vibe was there, But maybe he's obviously not into it anymore.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
him and see if ho tell us why is ghosting
you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, thank
you so much. Get your first day follow up next.
Right in the middle of your first date follow up
and if you're just joining us, Selena is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Marcus.
So we're about to call him and see if it
(03:20):
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
a second date. But first, Selena why don't you break
down your date again first, real quick.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So basically, this awesome our date and we ended up
going to this really cool retro arcade and we played
you know, Best of three air hockey and I hit
the pack way too harsh radios. Someone's got Joe's I
don't know my own strength, but I thought we were
laughing about it. And now he's pretty much ghosting me.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
All right, well you ready for us to call him? Please? Okay,
here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Marcus. Please.
(04:10):
This is Marcus. How can I help you? Hey? Marcus?
How are you? This is a radio show. It's called
The Jubil Show. Hi, Marcus. I'm Nina. I'm Victoria and
my name's Juble.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I know you guys.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
All right, well now we know you Marcus win something.
I must have won something. It's possible you could have
won something. This is the first Day follow up. You
know the segment where if you go out with someone
and you got them, they email us to call you
and find out why. I've heard of this. I've heard
of this show. Yeah yeah, no, but you did ghost somebody?
(04:47):
Oh yeah, so any idea who you're ghosting?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
You're just laughing about it. Marcus, where are you coasting?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I feel like I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Una, Yes it is Selena. She told us about your date.
We talked to her a little bit since she really
likes you. But now you're not calling her back. You
mind telling us why? Yeah, mini golf date. Uh, I
gotta say the day was great and and and she's
she's pretty, and and I just like she dressed like
(05:19):
my mom, Like, uh yeah, minilf Did you say mini
golf date? Yeah, we went to like Neon minigolf eighties
was like an arcade place. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, No,
I mean I went to minigolf with someone else. That
was arcade night, right, Okay, are we still talking about
(05:40):
the same person? Oh yeah, nachos. She like, we were
playing knock hockey and she kind of hit the knock
hockey thing into it doesn't It was like a kind
of a mess. But okay, okay, but that's not why
you're ghosting her. No, she dressed like my mom. She
dressed like your mom.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Yeah, it was a kind of turn off.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I like, everything was great, but then she were the top.
It was like my mom, So your mom has the
same top that she was wearing. It was like exactly
the same top, and I was like, oh gosh, it's
my mom. Just gonna say sometimes things just like turn
me off and that that was just kind of it. Okay,
But you guys kissed and stuff. Huh.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yeah, And when I was kissing her, I kind of
felt like I was kissing my mom.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Yeah, all right, probably better not to go back there then. Yeah.
I don't know. Would you date someone that dressed like
your mom, I don't know, or your dad, It depends.
I don't think it would bother me, but I don't
know if it's a deal break.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Did she act like your mom too? No, she didn't.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
She was fun. It was fun.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
It was just like I said, it's just a little
thing like that can make a break deal.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
It's like a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
I guess if like you're playing air hockey.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Everything was great. But I don't know. You guys don't
have like a little things that bother you when something
goes not the way you planned.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, I guess. I just I don't know how your
mom dresses, so I don't know if it was bad
or good. I don't know, like Mom's like, Oh, I
don't know the tom just target mom section. Mom. Okay,
all right, well keep step margus. Thank you for telling us.
I will let you know that Selena is actually on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh okay, hello,
(07:28):
yeah hi. So oh yeah, great taste.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
You got our mom's taste.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
I think that's ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
He goes to me over this that's in sade.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
I don't know, like if you if I dress like
your your dad, would you be into that?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Okay? No, but I wouldn't hold it against you.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Okay, so you you wouldn't date your dad or you wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
I mean, I don't know. I'm not trying to day.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
My mom just escalated. It's not the same thing, okay,
markets I am not it's not the same thing. I'm
not your mom. Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Look, I'm going to send your picture right now of
me wearing something else. You can raise that image of
me and your mom pop away from your bro.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
We had a vibe. You're sending him a picture.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Okay, So.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
That good?
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Oh what? Oh wow? Okay, so like my mom has
that braw By the way, now you're lying, okay.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Also, how do you know what kind of brought your mama.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
It's all in her laundry room. I don't know. Okay, okay, basically,
do you like what you see or not? Oh? I
mean yeah, you're you're beautiful to be fairy like you rock?
I want to be fair. You rock the top that
my mom wears way better than my mom.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Okay, all right, well now we're getting somewhere. Oh all right,
come on, Guys end up marrying women like their moms anyway,
so this will be a hilarious story one day. Maybe sure.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And you know what, I bet your mom's sending pictures
like that to your dad.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
I don't think so. But uh oh yeah, oh I
don't want to think about that. Marcus, would you like
to go on another day with Selena? Will pay for it? Yeah?
I mean well I kind of have to go, Like
I got a coffee date right now, so I kind
of have to go a date right now.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
I just want to say, good life. You're gonna do
like really great out there. Thank you? Where are you going?
Speaker 2 (09:58):
I have a date?
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Okay? All right? You really just give me that you'll
do great out there like a sports I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Whatever, you know, I just sent that picture to someone
else and actually I'm going to go on a coffee day.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Now, wow's a waste of my time.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
So I'm going to go your coffee and probably do
it a bunch.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
All right, Okay, what just happened? Juble's first day follow
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