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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Shane is on the phone today for our first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Carolina.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
maybe get him another date.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
But first, Shane, how long has it been since you
heard from her?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
It's been probably like three weeks?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Okay. Have you reached out to her in that time?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah, like maybe four or five times.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
That is a definite ghosting.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
So I don't think that's why he's tell him that
he knows tell us about your day.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I'm sorry, Shane.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Yeah. So I actually met her on Instagram. She just
slidd my DMS and apparently we had gone to the
same college together, but I didn't know where while we
were both there. But we chatted for probably a few weeks,
and then we met up at this bar. It had
arcade games in it. We played Papa Shaan and ski
(00:59):
ball and stuff. It was cute. What really attracted me
to her was that she was competitive about it. You know,
I love that and a girl, but we did that,
had some drinks, had some snacks, and it was a
great time, like a lot of flirting, a lot of
touching going on. We talked endlessly, we laughed like it
(01:21):
really seemed like perfect date. Yeah, I mean, the only
thing that I can think of is that we both
uber there and then after the day we both went
in our respective ubers. Now, but before that, she pulled
me into the alley and we made out like pretty intensely,
(01:41):
and it escalated into like this weird dirty talk. I mean,
she told me to tell her that I was a
piece what she Yeah, she made me do this little
strip tease and she was filming this.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
And we were okay with that.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
It was weird, but something about it was kind of hot,
like I was kind of into it. She kept asking
me if I wanted more, and obviously I said yes,
and then on a dime, it just completely stopped because.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Your cars came or just all of a sudden, She's like, okay,
I'm done now.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
No, It's like the switch was just turned off. And
she thanked me for the night. She gave me one
more kiss, and then she asked me if I knew
what I did, and I didn't Bill how to answer that.
I mean, I don't know if it was some kind
of like kinky build up thing.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Yeah, but that was it.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
I mean that was the that was the last time
I talked to her.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
So, you know, you did something, he did a strip tease.
Maybe I did something to her. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
I have no idea. It was so bizarre.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Yeah, and you've texted her and she said nothing to you.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Yeah, absolutely nothing.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I was just so invested.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah, like, what what was like the last thing you
did before she just stopped.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
I mean I think I just you know, say I'd
like to see her again and had a great time.
You had the usual end of day small talk.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, but I mean like when you were naughty little
boy well transition, Yeah, Like was there something that you
did when she was like okay, I'm done.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Like pull your pants up, brokelay.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
No, the way that she acted, it didn't seem like
she was reacting to something that I did. It just
all of a sudden, she just stopped. I really have
no idea why.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
I mean, maybe she just like got it, you know
what I mean, maybe she's done well. Some people get
off on different things, like maybe that was her moment
and I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
We'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and get you another day of you still wanting.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
All right, well plas on'll come back, get your first
day follow up next. Right in the middle of your
first date follow up if you're just joining us, Shane
is on the phone and Shane is getting ghosted by Carolina.
So we're about to call her and see if just
alice why she's ghosting and maybe get him another date.
But first, Shane, why don't you catch everybody up on
your date with Carolina?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Yeah? So in our on Instagram we went out, had
a great time in Arcade bar. Afterwards she had me
do like this weird kinky stuff in the alley and
I was pretty into it. And then she just suddenly
stopped and I have not heard from her since.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Okay, are you ready for us to call her? Iw
i'd want to know what I'm ready? Yeah, all right,
here we go. She will still laugh.
Speaker 6 (04:50):
Sorry, Hi, Hey.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Hey, hey, is this Carolina?
Speaker 6 (05:05):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Yeah, this is the Jewbil Show. It's a radio show.
My name is Jewbul How are you hi. I'm Nina. Hi,
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Do you listen to the show?
Speaker 4 (05:15):
I do? Actually?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Do you have any idea why we're calling you today? No?
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Not really?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Okay? Have you heard a first date follow up before? Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Yeah, yeah, well.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
That's why we're calling you. We got an email about
you from somebody that you're ghosting.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
His name is Shane.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Really yeah, Shane emailed us and told us about your date.
And he said it's been three weeks since he heard
from you, and he wants to know if you'll tell
us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 7 (05:47):
Oh okay, I'm ghosting him because I got what I
want from him.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
It wasn't Oh my god, I can't believe you actually
called you it. It wasn't a like, was not a
real date for me.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
It wasn't a real date. What does that mean?
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Okay? So I was literally just on Instagram. You probably
told you that that's how we met.
Speaker 7 (06:10):
But I was scrolling and I saw himma, and I
recognized him because he screwed over.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
My sister in college.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Oh how so.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
My older sister, Elena and him were together and he
was a total just sleeping with anything that moved, just
mind her, making empty promises and all this crap.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
And she was so, oh my god, I've never.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Seen her more heartbroken.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
It was ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
This is in college.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Mm hm, So you saw him on Instagram and set
up a date with him to get revenge?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Oh, so he never met you when he was dating
your sister, like he had no clue who you were.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
No, no, I said that. I told her him that
we went to college together.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
He just went to college with my sister.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
And I wasn't even like in the picture.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
But I mean he believed it.
Speaker 7 (07:06):
I guess he believed what he wanted to believe, that
a girl would want to go out with him.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
And girl, okay, does your sister know that you did this?
Speaker 5 (07:15):
She knows now, she didn't know before the fact, but
I wanted.
Speaker 7 (07:19):
To give it to her his kind of like a
surprise because she's like fine now, I mean she's over him.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Because he's garbage.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
But I and I.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
Wasn't even thinking about it. I just saw him on
Instagram and I was like, oh my god, I have
to do this.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
So is that why you filmed him doing all kinds
of weird things in an alley and I was like.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Which part is revenge? Because it sounded kind of hot.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
He definitely seemed to think that it was because he
was really.
Speaker 7 (07:46):
Into it, but I that was for Yeah, that was
really wrench. I showed my sister the video and we
were cracking up about it.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
It was so freaking funny.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Mm hmm, and him saying I wanted to make sure
that I made him say that he was a piece.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Of He thought that that was okay. He thought you
were like, you know, that was your thing?
Speaker 7 (08:11):
Yeah, And I was like degrading him or whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Okay, Well for anything, the next time someone pulls out
their cell phone and an alley and wants to film
me doing weird things, I'm gonna question it twice.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
He made it so easy.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
He made it so easy.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Thank you for being honest with us, Karlina. Shane is
actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
Oh my god, seriously, I honestly I can't believe when
I'm Harry, are you serious?
Speaker 6 (08:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
It's uh.
Speaker 7 (08:52):
After like, do you just not really want to talk
after what you did to my sister? This is just
like if you heard someone I love, Like, like.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
Seriously, that was years ago. You are seriously crazy for doing.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
Oh my god, You're the one who would do whatever
a girl tells you in an alley.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
So I don't really know whatever you talk. I was
in college. Like I'm a completely different person now, absolutely psychotic. Okay, seriously,
you're gonna record me like that? Who else has seen
this video?
Speaker 7 (09:30):
John?
Speaker 4 (09:30):
Oh my god?
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Literally this me and my sister calmed down.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Why should I believe you? No, honestly, Caro, I should
get a warrior.
Speaker 7 (09:39):
Oh my god, oh my god, please always overreacting literally
like kill.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
The f out? What are you? You don't even know me?
Speaker 7 (09:52):
No, I know what you're like.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
I know you didn't react.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
How should I react to this? I mean, this is interesting.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I it's can saying what.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
You did to my sister.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
You don't cheat people like that.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
You have.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Like, oh my god, absolutely.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Whatever, man, it's just Karmen.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
It's just coming back around.
Speaker 7 (10:15):
You just can't handle it.
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Go down, Okay, Yeah, sure, sure you're real. I really
missed out. Huh yeah, I mean I guess you did.
Speaker 7 (10:24):
You're having fun. You're the one who did who was
so willing to do all the stuff in.
Speaker 5 (10:28):
The alley with me, like you didn't take any convincing.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
Yeah, because I thought I was on a real bait
and it turns out you're doing this revenge on me.
It's just absolutely crazy.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
Whatever.
Speaker 5 (10:40):
You just can't you just can't take it.
Speaker 4 (10:41):
Don't dig it out.
Speaker 7 (10:42):
Then if you can't take it, look, oh my god,
I'm gonna delete it anyway. I already said my sister,
and I'm gonna delete it.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
After I show one of my coworkers.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
You'll be hearing from me, okay, getting legal advice about this.
I'm serious. I'm dead serious.
Speaker 5 (11:01):
Okay, I'll hear from you on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Yeah, you can do anything, though, What does he say?
I willingly did a strip teath and now it's public.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Yeah, I'm sorry, Shane. I know it sucks on both sides.
I don't know what to say.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Yeah, okay, I guess I want to need to video.
Then I'll just pulled on to it and tase I
need to show it in court, so we'll just entertain
me until then.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Yikes. Well, Caroline, would you like another date with Shane?
Will pay for it?
Speaker 7 (11:28):
If you're paying for it, I'll just record him doing
more stupid stuff.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
That's find me. You're gonna hear from my lawyer. Okay, cool,
you know what. I'm glad I cheated on your sister.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Oh is that a second date for you guys?
Speaker 4 (11:41):
Yeah? No way in hell.
Speaker 6 (11:43):
Yeah I don't think so. He obviously doesn't learn from
his mistake.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
All right them buy then Stripper Boy
Speaker 6 (11:51):
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