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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Stephen is on the phone today for our first Day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Yasmin.
So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see
if you'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him a second date. But first, Stephen, how long
has it been since your date?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
So, uh, it's been like a week.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Just be that she's working.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
No, I know she's working because we work together.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Oh that makes it awkward.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Okay, so you went out on a date with the coworker,
but now she's ghosting you.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Yeah, but you still see her at work, right, exactly awkward.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Yeah, let's figure out how we got here. So how
did you guys end up going on a date.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
So I just kind of liked her. I always at work,
like I just you know, we were we were always
kind of vibing. It seemed like when we were at work,
and I was just thinking, like why not mix Maybe
we can mix them like some fall vibes and romance,
you know. And so I invited her over for pumpkin
carving and scary movies. Yeah, I thought it was I
(01:09):
thought it was a good idea.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
What happened on the I mean.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
It's uh, first, she looked so good by the way
she came over, like one of these oversized sweaters, like
the cozy kind but still make you look hot kind
of you know what I mean. She just looked, Yeah,
she's I really, I really did. She's awesome. So the
night it started out great. We had some whiskey, we
had some popcorn, and like before the first pumpkin even
(01:36):
made its appearance, things got kind of steamy on the couch,
Like it kind of just happened a little bit. But
since we worked together, we agree to like sort of
pump the brakes a little bit. You know. It was
like we kind of it was, it got going and
then it we kind of backed off, but we were
still having like a really fun, like a flirty night.
You know, we're still kind of like charged up from that. Anyway,
(02:01):
Then came the incidents, as I'd like to refer to it.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
All Right, Yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I was kind of like, you know, I was very
in a very like whiskey fueled creative mode, and I
ended up carving a lopsided grin into my pumpkin when
I was hiring the other it looked like flaws from
goonies and that was not what I was going for,
and I kind of lost it. I sort of had
to melt down over the pumpkins. And I think what.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Kind of melt was probably meltown talking.
Speaker 5 (02:35):
I mean like I was just like I was, I
was kind of worked up. I was like, yeah, I said,
twenty minutes in the phase and like, I may or
may not have launched the pumpkin off the balcony.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Belted his mother, possibly.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
In those situations before.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I worked. I worked so hard on the pump and
it came out terribly and I just kind of.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
You know, sorry, what is she doing though, Like, while
you're freaking out over your pumpkin and tossing it off
of a balcony.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Meanwhile her pumpkin looks perfect, It's great. She's like really
good at this. Obviously she's better at this than I am.
And she's just kind of like snipped her drink quietly
and was like are you okay? You know, and then
she left soon after, like no, okay, it's not even
like just the beginning. Yeah, to the day, I was like,
(03:33):
oh man, like I just scared away. I got us
with a gourd.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
All right, well, we'll see if that is the reason
that you're getting ghosted. We'll play a song come back,
and then call her and see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Okay, I got't really walk.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Yeah, I'll see if we can patch that up before
you All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
Right in the middle of your first day fall up,
And if you're just joining us, Steven is on the
phone and he is getting ghosted by a woman named Yasmin.
So we're about to call her in a second and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
maybe get him a second date. But first, Stephen, why
(04:11):
don't you remind us about your date again?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Real quick?
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Who I work with? My coworker invited her to come
over for like, you know, pumpkin carving and scary movies,
and everything seemed like it was going well until I
screwed up my pumpkin pretty bad and kind of ended
up throwing it over the box and yelling at it.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That is pretty It might have been too much for
you know, she might have been like, Wow, if this
guy reacts like that with a pumpkin, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Might be a little high strung. All right, are you
ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Okay, here, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak
to Yasmin. Please, Hey, Yasmin.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
How are you? This is a radio show. It's called
The Jewbil Show. Hi, Yasmen, I'm na. Hi, I'm Victoria
and my name is Jewbul. What's up?
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Okay, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I have? I have caught it before.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Okay, cool.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Why are you calling me?
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Well, we're calling you because we got an email about
you from somebody.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Okay, So I don't know how.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Much you've listened to the show, but we do a
segment that's called the first Date follow Up.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
That's where if you.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Go out on a date with somebody and you would
up ghosting them, that person can email us to get
you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
So we got an email about you from somebody that
you're not talking to after you went out on a
date with them.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Oh my god. Okay, do you have any ideas here?
It might be?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah, I'm pretty sure, okay, Stephen.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yes, it is your coworker, Stephen, and we talked to
him about your date.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
He told us a little bit about it.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
He said, it's been very awkward at working out because
you're not really talking to him, and he really liked you,
and he's wondering why he's getting ghosted.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Okay, this is kind of weird to explain.
Speaker 6 (06:22):
There was a song in his laundry hamper like hanging
out like hello stage.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Like a female.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
It's not. That's not what you think it was. Hold
on a minute.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Oh yeah, and that's Stephen. He's on the phone. Listen.
He wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Oh my god, but you're here. Okay, this is we are.
That song is not what you think like that? Oh man,
I can't believe. Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
So it wasn't the pumpkin thing because Stephen told us
about how he like kind of like freaked out on
a pumpkin because he carved a bat and threw it
out to the balcony and started yelling at it.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
You thought that was it, and I could have been it.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
No, it's not. It is not. It was a song
like it wasn't. I mean it wasn't just a song.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
It was neon pink and sparkling like it wanted to
introduce itself.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Wait, hold on, just so we can all have a
clear pictures even before you defend the song.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Where did you see this thong yasmine?
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Well, I was going to the bathroom and it was
in a hamper like hanging like it was like over
the edge like you could see it. It was just
clear as day.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Oh all right, all right now, Stephen.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
Yeah, so this is also going to sound strange, but
that was part of my Halloween costume. I was going
as a sexy lumberjack. That was the plan. And it
came in a costume kit. All right, a kit was
glitter Lingerie. Yeah, I liked. I was, so I was
(07:56):
gonna do is like pull the songs up, you know.
So it was kind of like knowing so you know,
my pants are down, like showing off the sexual thong.
That was kind of the idea. Yeah, yeah, right, listen,
they gave me a bunch of options. Don't costume shame you, Okay.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
It was shining halfway out of the hamper like a trophy.
If I didn't know if it was bad or evidence.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Evidence of what like you could have just said something
and they're like, hey, what's with the think Sparkley felt
like you think I'd leave it out like a random
you know song trap Like I don't, it's not. The
reason was the himper. I I spent like thirty minutes
trying on the thong and the mirror and stuff, but
I just in the end, it just didn't look right
on me. I felt like it wasn't for me.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Season's fine. Do you believe him?
Speaker 6 (08:46):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (08:48):
I don't know what to believe. I mean, does he
have a girlfriend?
Speaker 6 (08:51):
You have random girls come by. I don't know if
you thought it was going to look more appealing to
me you thought, I if I thought other women wanted you.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
It's just kind of weird. It was really a costume. Yeah,
it was just like, why didn't you say anything like
we were having a good time. I mean, besides the
pumpkin thing, but we're having a good time. You should
need to say something about the thought. Yeah, I just
I already felt weird. Okay.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
I mean we worked together, and the second I saw
that thing hanging out of your hamper, I was like, Nope,
this is the universe telling me to back off. Just
didn't want drama at work or to start asking questions
that would make things, you know, messy.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Look, I promise you it was I don't have a girlfriend,
I don't have visitors other than like door dash or whatever.
Like the Tholl thing. It wasn't. It wasn't like I
was trying to like show off or show you something
like it was just something for a dumb Holly, And like,
I don't want things to be awkward to work. But
I also really like you, like we have there's a reason,
you know you came over in the first place. We
(09:54):
like each other. We've had a good time at work.
We were having a good time that night. Like, don't
I don't want this silly, stupid, little costume malfunction to
ruin any of that.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Well, yes, then would you like to go on another
date with Steven? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Oh my gosh, this is so insane. But I don't.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
I mean, seriously, I I am just you're really something.
I don't know what to think.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Should you try it again and find out it's not
a bad thing?
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Listen, I'm it's just I swear to the costume, like
go the laundry hamper. I can even show you the package.
Like I I'll dig through my trash and find the
package that it came in for the costume, and like
I'll let you, you know, help me figure out what
you know, underwear. It looks good with the costume thing.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Yes, I mean if that's not incentive to go on
another date, I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Well, you know what, Let's do it friends. That's it.
Let's start just hanging out.
Speaker 6 (11:02):
No whiskey, no pumpkins, no war drum alsumptions, and let's
do that.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Okay, thank you fair, I'm terrible at just being friends.
Speaker 6 (11:15):
Okay, then start practicing because we're going slow.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
This is great. I'm so excited. This is the happiest
I've ever been to get friend zoned. Jub first Fall