July 30, 2024 • 9 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Michelle is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Steven.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
see if it's us why he's ghosting her, and maybe
get her another date. But first, Michelle, how long has
it been since you heard from Stephen.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about a week and a.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Half, okay, And have you reached out to him in
that time?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah? I texted three times, but then I was just like,
after the third text with no response, I felt like
I had to have some dignity and I.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Saw it's understandable.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Yeah, yea.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
So how was your date then? What happened?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Well, it was actually a great date. We went on
a picnic together and it was super cute, and then
we went on a little walk. It was just like
a lovely little hike. It was. It was also a
great date, like it was the kind of date that
you would see in a rom com. And I felt
so good after and we you know, shared a romantic
(01:03):
sunset kiss at the Yeah, it was it was really lovely.
And I didn't end up going home with him, and
then he was a gentleman so he didn't ask. But yeah,
I felt great about it afterwards.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Why do you think he's not calling you back?
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Well, I did mention on the date that I read
very smut book and.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
Like them, they like fairy born, this the kind of
books our friend.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Ready, It's like demeanor kind of changed after I brought
that up, and so I thought maybe that put him
off or he was judging me about that, But like,
I'd like a chance to explain myself because I don't
think it's that weird, but anything, I feel like it's that.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
All our social media producer Gaby rees that stuff all
the time. Yeah, she's always talking about the fairies that
are doing each other.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
But I want to know more. So when you brought
that up, how did he react to it? Was he like,
I read too. Do you think maybe it's the fact
that you read or that it's fairy porn.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
It's definitely the fairy porn aspect and not the reading.
He just kind of went quiet, and then after a
while he was like, oh, that's cool, and then he
didn't say anything else, so we changed the subject.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Yeah, so his vibe kind of changed after that for
the rest of the date, or it was just that
one awkward moment.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
I mean, for the rest of the hike, his vibe
definitely was different. Yeah, we kept hiking for a while
after that, but he seemed like he was super distracted.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But then he was fine when you guys kissed and
then did he say that he wanted to see you again?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
At the end, he was kind of like, yeah, I'd
love to see you again, but it felt sort of
half hearted, and then we parted ways, and I don't know,
he just seems like tired and over it by the end.
It was weird.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
So what about that makes you feel like you want
to talk to him again?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Well, I think feel like, up until the very end,
the date was so calm and so romantic, and I
hadn't had a date like that in such a long time,
and you know, I've been single for a couple of years.
I just like really enjoyed it. So I feel like
there is potential here. I just want to be able
to like clear up the fairy smutt issue.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
If that's what it is, all right, well, we'll see
if we can figure it out for you. Then we'll
play a song come Back, and then call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date if you still want me. Okay,
all right, thank you, all right, we'll play a song
come Back, do your first day follow up next. Right
in the middle of today's first date follow up and
if you're just joining us, Michelle is on the phone
(03:35):
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Steven. So
we're about to call him and see if he'll tell
us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another
date if she still wants one. But before we do that,
one of your fresh Everdy's memory on your date with Stephen.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Yeah. So Steve and I went on a date about
two weeks ago. We went on a picnic, we went
for a hike. It was lovely and I had a
great time. But at one point I mentioned that I
read fairy smut book. How have changed? So I'm trying
to figure out what the problem is. He hasn't reached
out to me. Half.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Well, are you ready to see if it was a
very smut that ruined your date? I'm ready, I'm all right,
here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Hello, Hi, man,
I speak to Stephen. Please. This is Steven. How are
(04:30):
you man? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a
radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Hi, Stephen, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Hi, I am Victoria.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Oh what okay?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
What have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Yeah, I've heard of it? Okay, why I don't up?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Well, do a thing on the show. It's called the
first Date follow up? What that is? If you go
out on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,
that person can email us to call you and ask
why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you.
Speaker 6 (05:01):
Oh oh, and you did? Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Yeah, and it's from somebody named Michelle. Okay, and Michelle
told us a little bit about your date. She said
she really liked you, and she's wondering why you're ghosting her.
Can you tell us?
Speaker 7 (05:17):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I mean, I like Michelle. It's a really nice girl.
I got nothing bad to say about her.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I don't know what.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
I don't know what to say she you know, she's
just uh, she's pretty cool.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Well, then how come you didn't respond when she reached
out to you three times?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I don't know she's like really like she's like very
physically fit and like she looks.
Speaker 8 (05:40):
Beautiful and and like that's not like a knock on anybody.
But she likes to like hike and stuff, and like
I'm just kind of not into all that.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
You're not into the hiking and stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Yeah, I mean it's.
Speaker 8 (05:55):
Not like I don't like enjoy like a walk, but
like it seems like she's somebody that like.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Really gets out on, like you know, she's just yoga
and she and we went on.
Speaker 8 (06:04):
The pike that like it was hot and I'm like
a gamer by heart dude, Like it wasn't that like
it wasn't necessarily her.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
I just figured like if that's the type of date
that she's gonna.
Speaker 8 (06:15):
Want to go on like over and over, Like I'm
really like I'm not lazy, but I'm just like that's
not my idea of.
Speaker 6 (06:22):
A good time.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Oh okay, she thought it might be because she's into
those adult fairy smart books.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Oh no, no, that was about the reason at all.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
No, no, not at all.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Actually, like I thought that was actually kind of cute.
Like I'm like, like I like I'm a gamer, Like.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I I was gonna say, yeah, if you're a gamer,
that's you.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
I mean like I'm not like, you know, like creepy
or whatever. I don't I don't find it weird. Like
I like there's gamer stuff that I kind of like.
That I thought was it's pretty like I.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Thought that was cool.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
I just don't like to freaking I just didn't want
to keep walking around all day.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
All right, Well, thanks for being honest with man. I
appreciate that now, Like you know that Michelle is on
the phone and she's been listening and let's talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:18):
No, TI, Yeah, what's up and set up?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Why were you so down to go for a hike?
I would have been fine with not doing that.
Speaker 6 (07:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (07:32):
I just thought I was just trying to be like easy,
but then I realized.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Like how much?
Speaker 8 (07:38):
So you talked a lot about how you're so like
basically active and stuff, and I just felt like I
don't want to to do that all day every day.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
So you didn't mind the fairy smut at all?
Speaker 9 (07:52):
No?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
No, no, no, dude, Actually, like I'm I think I
would like to hear more about that.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Okay, great, well I go indoors maybe yeah, No, we
don't have to even like get.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Up off the couch.
Speaker 6 (08:12):
Yeah, I mean not it's totally cool. But I mean,
like if.
Speaker 8 (08:15):
You if you really like hiking, like what's gonna happen, like,
you know, a couple of weeks and months from no,
like if I just like, like I really am not
it's not something I enjoy it at all, Like is.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
That gonna be a problem.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
I mean I can probably like keep it to myself somewhat.
But how inactive are you really? I mean you do
like leave the house.
Speaker 9 (08:41):
I mean like I'm like my friends joke with me
and they say that I'm accidentally fit.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
You know, I'm I'm not inactive.
Speaker 8 (08:49):
I just like I'd prefer to be like you know,
like playing games like I E good and I do stuff.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
But I don't like to just like set out on
an adventure and in nowhere to hike. That's not my
That's not what I like to do.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Okay, Well, we might have to get you a wee
fit or something like. We might have to find some
compromise here.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
That seems fair. Okay, then, Steven, would you like another
date with Michelle? We'll pay for it. We're not going
to pay for a we fit, but we'll pay for it.
The date.
Speaker 9 (09:21):
Yeah, no, I'm totally down, just as long as uh,
you know, maybe we could uber there and not go like.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Well, congratulations, Michelle, you got another date.
Speaker 10 (09:32):
Yeay, yay, Okay, I'm yeah, I'm down to take a
car there, and I do have some smut recommendations for
you when you're ready.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
You play your cards right, so we'll read you a
bedtime story.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
First Date, fallow Up,
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Michelle is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Steven.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
see if it's us why he's ghosting her, and maybe
get her another date. But first, Michelle, how long has
it been since you heard from Stephen.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about a week and a.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Half, okay, And have you reached out to him in
that time?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah? I texted three times, but then I was just like,
after the third text with no response, I felt like
I had to have some dignity and I.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Saw it's understandable.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Yeah, yea.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
So how was your date then? What happened?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Well, it was actually a great date. We went on
a picnic together and it was super cute, and then
we went on a little walk. It was just like
a lovely little hike. It was. It was also a
great date, like it was the kind of date that
you would see in a rom com. And I felt
so good after and we you know, shared a romantic
(01:03):
sunset kiss at the Yeah, it was it was really lovely.
And I didn't end up going home with him, and
then he was a gentleman so he didn't ask. But yeah,
I felt great about it afterwards.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Why do you think he's not calling you back?
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Well, I did mention on the date that I read
very smut book and.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
Like them, they like fairy born, this the kind of
books our friend.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Ready, It's like demeanor kind of changed after I brought
that up, and so I thought maybe that put him
off or he was judging me about that, But like,
I'd like a chance to explain myself because I don't
think it's that weird, but anything, I feel like it's that.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
All our social media producer Gaby rees that stuff all
the time. Yeah, she's always talking about the fairies that
are doing each other.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
But I want to know more. So when you brought
that up, how did he react to it? Was he like,
I read too. Do you think maybe it's the fact
that you read or that it's fairy porn.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
It's definitely the fairy porn aspect and not the reading.
He just kind of went quiet, and then after a
while he was like, oh, that's cool, and then he
didn't say anything else, so we changed the subject.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Yeah, so his vibe kind of changed after that for
the rest of the date, or it was just that
one awkward moment.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
I mean, for the rest of the hike, his vibe
definitely was different. Yeah, we kept hiking for a while
after that, but he seemed like he was super distracted.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But then he was fine when you guys kissed and
then did he say that he wanted to see you again?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
At the end, he was kind of like, yeah, I'd
love to see you again, but it felt sort of
half hearted, and then we parted ways, and I don't know,
he just seems like tired and over it by the end.
It was weird.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
So what about that makes you feel like you want
to talk to him again?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Well, I think feel like, up until the very end,
the date was so calm and so romantic, and I
hadn't had a date like that in such a long time,
and you know, I've been single for a couple of years.
I just like really enjoyed it. So I feel like
there is potential here. I just want to be able
to like clear up the fairy smutt issue.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
If that's what it is, all right, well, we'll see
if we can figure it out for you. Then we'll
play a song come Back, and then call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date if you still want me. Okay,
all right, thank you, all right, we'll play a song
come Back, do your first day follow up next. Right
in the middle of today's first date follow up and
if you're just joining us, Michelle is on the phone
(03:35):
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Steven. So
we're about to call him and see if he'll tell
us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another
date if she still wants one. But before we do that,
one of your fresh Everdy's memory on your date with Stephen.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Yeah. So Steve and I went on a date about
two weeks ago. We went on a picnic, we went
for a hike. It was lovely and I had a
great time. But at one point I mentioned that I
read fairy smut book. How have changed? So I'm trying
to figure out what the problem is. He hasn't reached
out to me. Half.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Well, are you ready to see if it was a
very smut that ruined your date? I'm ready, I'm all right,
here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Hello, Hi, man,
I speak to Stephen. Please. This is Steven. How are
(04:30):
you man? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a
radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Hi, Stephen, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Hi, I am Victoria.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Oh what okay?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
What have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Yeah, I've heard of it? Okay, why I don't up?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Well, do a thing on the show. It's called the
first Date follow up? What that is? If you go
out on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,
that person can email us to call you and ask
why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you.
Speaker 6 (05:01):
Oh oh, and you did? Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Yeah, and it's from somebody named Michelle. Okay, and Michelle
told us a little bit about your date. She said
she really liked you, and she's wondering why you're ghosting her.
Can you tell us?
Speaker 7 (05:17):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I mean, I like Michelle. It's a really nice girl.
I got nothing bad to say about her.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I don't know what.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
I don't know what to say she you know, she's
just uh, she's pretty cool.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Well, then how come you didn't respond when she reached
out to you three times?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I don't know she's like really like she's like very
physically fit and like she looks.
Speaker 8 (05:40):
Beautiful and and like that's not like a knock on anybody.
But she likes to like hike and stuff, and like
I'm just kind of not into all that.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
You're not into the hiking and stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Yeah, I mean it's.
Speaker 8 (05:55):
Not like I don't like enjoy like a walk, but
like it seems like she's somebody that like.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Really gets out on, like you know, she's just yoga
and she and we went on.
Speaker 8 (06:04):
The pike that like it was hot and I'm like
a gamer by heart dude, Like it wasn't that like
it wasn't necessarily her.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
I just figured like if that's the type of date
that she's gonna.
Speaker 8 (06:15):
Want to go on like over and over, Like I'm
really like I'm not lazy, but I'm just like that's
not my idea of.
Speaker 6 (06:22):
A good time.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Oh okay, she thought it might be because she's into
those adult fairy smart books.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Oh no, no, that was about the reason at all.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
No, no, not at all.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Actually, like I thought that was actually kind of cute.
Like I'm like, like I like I'm a gamer, Like.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I I was gonna say, yeah, if you're a gamer,
that's you.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
I mean like I'm not like, you know, like creepy
or whatever. I don't I don't find it weird. Like
I like there's gamer stuff that I kind of like.
That I thought was it's pretty like I.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Thought that was cool.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
I just don't like to freaking I just didn't want
to keep walking around all day.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
All right, Well, thanks for being honest with man. I
appreciate that now, Like you know that Michelle is on
the phone and she's been listening and let's talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:18):
No, TI, Yeah, what's up and set up?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Why were you so down to go for a hike?
I would have been fine with not doing that.
Speaker 6 (07:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (07:32):
I just thought I was just trying to be like easy,
but then I realized.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Like how much?
Speaker 8 (07:38):
So you talked a lot about how you're so like
basically active and stuff, and I just felt like I
don't want to to do that all day every day.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
So you didn't mind the fairy smut at all?
Speaker 9 (07:52):
No?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
No, no, no, dude, Actually, like I'm I think I
would like to hear more about that.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Okay, great, well I go indoors maybe yeah, No, we
don't have to even like get.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Up off the couch.
Speaker 6 (08:12):
Yeah, I mean not it's totally cool. But I mean,
like if.
Speaker 8 (08:15):
You if you really like hiking, like what's gonna happen, like,
you know, a couple of weeks and months from no,
like if I just like, like I really am not
it's not something I enjoy it at all, Like is.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
That gonna be a problem.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
I mean I can probably like keep it to myself somewhat.
But how inactive are you really? I mean you do
like leave the house.
Speaker 9 (08:41):
I mean like I'm like my friends joke with me
and they say that I'm accidentally fit.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
You know, I'm I'm not inactive.
Speaker 8 (08:49):
I just like I'd prefer to be like you know,
like playing games like I E good and I do stuff.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
But I don't like to just like set out on
an adventure and in nowhere to hike. That's not my
That's not what I like to do.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Okay, Well, we might have to get you a wee
fit or something like. We might have to find some
compromise here.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
That seems fair. Okay, then, Steven, would you like another
date with Michelle? We'll pay for it. We're not going
to pay for a we fit, but we'll pay for it.
The date.
Speaker 9 (09:21):
Yeah, no, I'm totally down, just as long as uh,
you know, maybe we could uber there and not go like.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Well, congratulations, Michelle, you got another date.
Speaker 10 (09:32):
Yeay, yay, Okay, I'm yeah, I'm down to take a
car there, and I do have some smut recommendations for
you when you're ready.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
You play your cards right, so we'll read you a
bedtime story.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
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