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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Tank is on the phone today for a first date
follow up. He's not getting a callback from a date
he went on with Jenna. I love the fact that
his name is Tank Tank. Is that your real name
or is that a nickname?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah? I no, Tank Tank is my real name. My
parents were in the military.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
That's cool. That is cool. It also could be a
little intimidating just.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Saying it's it's it's been a weird day, but it's
all right. Well, we're about to see if we can
figure out why you're getting ghosted by Jenna and maybe
get you another date if you still want one. First,
before we get into everything, how long has it been
since you heard from her?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
It's I think it's been about week. We can be
in a couple of days that I'm counting the days,
so I feel like it's it's been about nine days.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Yeah, okay, ahead, not that I'm counting, but exactly nine days.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
And in that time, how many times have you tried
to reach out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I did. I did the thing where you wait like
a couple of days at first and then I and
then I was about three days, and then I tried
the day after that. Then I wanted to give it
another day, and then I lit it another day and
I sure, I just haven't heard anything. I don't know
what's going on.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Tell us about your date then, well, first.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Of it was it was great. You know, we we
met on Tinder and we took it to the next step.
So we've been chatting on Snapchat for a while, like
about a week, and you know, we just wanted to
make you to make sure that neither of us were crazy,
and we decided to meet up, and you know, we
changed pics on each other and so we could you know,
not be catfish, I guess. And it was great. It
(01:33):
was really really nice. We decided to meet up and
we went to a coffee shop. You know, first of all,
when I saw it was so great because she's more
beautiful than the pictures were. She's really really beautiful. She's
really nice and talkative, and she just she kind of
had everything. So I was really really excited. Our plan
was to you know, have a cup of coffee, take
(01:55):
a long walk throughout the city, and then have dinner.
And we did. We did the call but then all
of a sudden, she was like, she said she had
to be back, she had to go somewhere and come
right back. And I was like, oh, okay, we'll probably
be a lot, like ten to fifteen minutes or something
like that. But I ended up waiting there for about
an hour and a half. What yeah, I was. It
(02:18):
was like it was like, that's like the one to
the movie. So I was just it was weird. But
then she came back after the hour and a half.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
For an hour and a half, you didn't question that.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
I kind of did. But then I was like, I thought,
maybe something may have happened something, maybe she got hurt
or something. So I just wanted to you know, who knows,
you know. So I waited and then she came back
and then we went to dinner, and the date kind
of continued. But that's the thing. The date continued, and
the dinner was good.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
You know, we even kissed at the end.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
It was great. So now I'm like, well, I don't
really know what happened to me.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
Well, when she came back, did you say anything of
why she was gone for an hour and a half?
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Yeah, did she tell you where she was?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I answer, and she said. She said, she just had
a bunch of stuff to handle, and things kind of
got on top of each other. And okay, she's kind
of apologetic about it, but you know, she she seemed
she seemed earnest, and I was just like, well, I
guess I could it must have been something really personal,
so she would tell me if she really need to
tell me. But I'm a little concerned.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
A long.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
Oh, Tank, bless you. That's really nice of you to
be patient like that. I'm sure she appreciated it. But
also what, I'm surprised you were there are still there.
Isn't that kind of flaggy to you?
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Tank?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Yeah, I mean it is. I didn't feel great about it,
but I mean then she came back and like I said,
the date weren't really good after that and everything, Okay,
I mean the absence in the middle was it was weird.
But I mean I still want to see her. I
mean that the date was great, Okay, so.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
You want to at least give it another shot.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I liked you. I liked you. I mean, yeah, it
was weird that she maybe.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
She wanted you to may It was like a game
she wanted to see if you would leave.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Yeah, I don't know. You sound really sweet, so I
don't know that you did anything, but I guess we'll
find out.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah, Okay, we'll play a song and then come back
and call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, cool?
All right, play a song, come back, Get your first
Day follow up, Next.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
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Speaker 2 (04:26):
If you're just joining us for today's First Day follow up,
Tank is on the phone and he is getting ghosted
by Jenna, So we're about to call her and see
if she'll tell us why she is ghosting him and
maybe get him another date if he still wants one.
But before we call her, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory about your date with Jenna?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
All right? Cool? So Jenna on Tinder, he uh upgraded
to Camp Chatt and like kind of got to know
each other a little bit better. And then we went
out and had a coffee date where we were going
to have a life. We'll walk afterwards and then go
to dinner. And then right after the coffee, Jenna disappeared
for that hour and a half and then she came
(05:02):
back and then we resumed the date and it was great,
like we had a really nice time and I really
want to go out with her again. But it was
kind of weird that she took off for like the
land of a movie, and I know what happened, and
I asked her and she didn't really divulge anything. So
I was like, let's go on.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Wep. Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yeah, yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, him asking to
Jenna please.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Yeah, this is Jenna.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Hey, Jenna, how are you? My name is Jubal and
host a radio show that's called The Jubile Show.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Hi, Jenna, the show's here too. I'm Nina, Hi, and
I'm Victoria him.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
And Hi everyone, I'm good.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Good? Do you this is the show at all?
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:54):
A little bit?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yeah, sweet cool. I don't know if you listen to
the first day follow ups at all, but that's the
segment we do where if you're ghosting somebody, they can
email us to get you on the phone and ask
why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Yeah, well we got an email from somebody about you
saying that you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Oh my god, do you know who that would be?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Maybe you want to take a shot.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
Is it Tank?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yes? It is Tank. Oh boy. He told us about
your date, and he says he cannot figure out why
you're not calling him back. Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Yeah, when we were on the date, I kind of
like left the table for a while, and I just
didn't really love how we handled it when I got back, Like,
to be honest, me leaving and coming back with a
bit of test and I even I like took the
time to quickly go like grab a little something to eat.
(06:56):
I wouldn't eat too much on the date itself, but
like the whole point of it was to really see,
you know, if you would stick around or if he'd
kind of correct the behavior when I came back and
like you know, would speak up. And he didn't. He
really just acteel like it was no big deal, and
I was kind of disappointed. I was really hoping he
would kind of, you know, man up and tell me
(07:19):
that he didn't appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Wait, WHOA is this something that you do regularly?
Speaker 5 (07:24):
I mean I don't know I would say regularly, But
you know, I liked him, and I just I feel
like I don't have time to waste, So I just
want to see from the very beginning if like, these
are people when I'm on dates, if there are people
that I could actually build something with.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
You know, So if you like somebody and you think
there's a potential long term thing, it's a red flag
for you if they don't call you out on leaving
them somewhere for a long time.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Yeah, I mean, I don't want to push over.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Okay, I was you know, we talked to him about
the day and he told us that you left for
a while, and I said he was very patient, and
I also was joking about it. I was like, maybe
she was testing you, but you actually were interesting.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
I don't know what to say to that. I mean,
I do have a lot of questions, but I'll just
leave that. Yeah there for right now. Thank you for
being honest with us.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I appreciate that. Yeah, of course. Also, I don't know
if you remember or not, but the first day follow ups,
the person that want us to call you is on
the phone. So Tank is on the phone. He's been
listening this whole time and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (08:27):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
I mean, uh, it's interesting, an interesting point of view.
I don't know. I guess if you want to mean
a man out, I understand that. But I mean, I
don't know. My parents are like really aggressive, so I
just kind of like, if someone wants to do something,
I think they have the right to do it. But
(08:53):
I mean, I don't know. I didn't want to. I
didn't want to get in your face about it, uh general,
like what exactly did you want me to do?
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I guess I just I really would have liked you
to just say something and be like even I mean,
you are such a great guy and you know, like
wanting to give me that time. But even if you
just had been like, hey, is everything cool? Like you
were gone a while, you just didn't even bring up
the elephant in the room. You just kind of act
like acted like nothing really, you know, how the ordinary happened,
(09:24):
and we just kind of kept going about the date.
And I don't know, that was just a little odd
to me.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
It's trying to be nice. You guys just met, yeah,
I mean, and.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
I remember being like everything was everything okay? Is everything
all right? And you were like yeah, it's like you
kind of brush off. So I was like, oh, well,
something important must have happened. Let me not pressed, because
you know I was making I was trying to make
a good first impression on you.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
I appreciate that.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
But but he didn't pass the time.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Mom entirely. I don't know, I guess I guess it
did come off a little bit as like push over e.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
And I mean the.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Name's tank, like you shouldn't be movable. I shouldn't be
able to push you over?
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Uh you know?
Speaker 5 (10:13):
Yes? So yeah, it's like a like a toy.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
All right, Well, I mean I can I can sure
you that I can be like like a tank. He
I am. Why don't we just do a second day
and I'll I'll show you what you want. I I
totally can.
Speaker 5 (10:30):
Wait.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Wait wait, Jenna, you're going on the second date with me?
Speaker 2 (10:32):
That's it?
Speaker 5 (10:33):
All right?
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Hello tank E, Jenna, would you like to get that
first there? Would you like to go on another date
with Tank? Will pay for it?
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Yeah? I would.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
After that, I would definitely go on another date.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Good.
Speaker 4 (10:46):
This makes me so sad.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I'm just confused.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
Yeah, I mean I listen, I like that energy. If
you could you could keep that up, Tank, that would
be good.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
You'll see, I will have fun. Well, Hey, Tank, you
got another date. Congratulations and Jenna I can't Maybe you
know you guys talked about an issue you had a Tank,
and he's going to fix that for you and become
the big firm tak that you need him to be.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Yeah, thanks, guys, appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
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