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August 7, 2025 11 mins

Tripp went all out for his first date with Bri — luxury ride, fine dining, seafood towers, and a bottle of wine to top it off. So why did she vanish right after dessert? He thinks it’s something minor… but she says it gave her the ick big time. Was it the food, the conversation — or someone else who showed up unexpectedly?


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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Tripp is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named
Bri and he really liked her and has no idea why.
So we're about to call her in a minute and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe
get him another date. But first trip, how long has
it been since you heard from Brie. H.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
It's been a couple of days now, okay?

Speaker 4 (00:26):
How many times have you reached out to her in
that time?

Speaker 3 (00:29):
Just you know, just a just a couple I texted
her like right after her date to to see what
was going on and had her come back and uh,
you know, like one at a time a day later,
and then I just texted her again yesterday to see
if she was okay and still nothing.

Speaker 4 (00:45):
Why don't you tell us about your date then, trip,
How did that go?

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yeah? Okay, sure, So we met on the League. Are
you guys familiar?

Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yeah? The League?

Speaker 3 (00:54):
That. Yeah, it's like a higher end dating appet to
prove to join, and it's so business professionals and stuff
who you know want to seems like big things in
their life.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
Yeah, I think I have heard of that. Then, okay,
so you met on there. So you guys are both
high powered business cards. Business cards, I mean, yeah, you
know I do, okay, and then Ritas it does pretty
well too.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
So we yeah, you know, we'll do it all right.
So you know, we had to talk in and so
we decided to go to like the higher end steakhouse
for for our date. I sent out a car to
pick her up, you know, really rolled out the red
car carpet for you know. It was we dropped a
good turn of change on this. You know, we got caviar,
seafood tower, pretty nice bottle of wine. She seemed really

(01:42):
into all of it. She she was you know, old
up and was really excited by by getting a car
to pick her up and uh, and all of that
conversation was good. We ate a bunch, We crank a bunch. Initially,
you know, I had invited her back to my place
and she said yeah, and then but you know, then
she kind of changed her mind. She like stepped away

(02:05):
to the bath room, uh, and came back and was like,
I need to go home.

Speaker 4 (02:10):
So she went to the bathroom came back and said
she needed to go home.

Speaker 5 (02:13):
Yeah, yeah, what do you think happened in that time
where she said yes and I need to go home?

Speaker 3 (02:19):
I mean, you know, really a lot and drank a lot.
So I'm assuming she was a little you know, embarrassed
that maybe some some tummy troubles we were heading her way, you.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Know, Oh okay, okay, felt like she got too drunk
or ate much.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
No, I don't. I don't think she was drunk. I
think she ate too much and maybe, uh maybe maybe
you know, I was worried about about what, you know,
what I might see the next morning, you know what
I mean, like, okay, in my bathroom.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
I see.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
That's one way to aspiral, do you I mean, do
you think that's why she ghosted you though?

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Because yeah, I mean I can't think anything else. Like,
like I said, the conversation was great. She had said
yes to coming back to my place, so I know
there was was nothing in the conversation that would have
thrown her off. So you know, that's that's really all
I can think of, and that she's like embarrassed to
be that she had to say no, and so you know,

(03:15):
has been kind of like weird because she thinks I'm
I'm judging her, but like I totally not want her
to know I'm okay, and that she shouldn't be embarrassed
by it or anything.

Speaker 4 (03:23):
Which the bathroom came back and then left.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
Basically you know, crew gri for like a you know,
a few more kind of wrap up moments. But but
she got out of there pretty quick.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
I was just going to say, did you get her
a car home?

Speaker 3 (03:34):
I did, of course, Like, yeah, car, the car got
her there, So like.

Speaker 5 (03:38):
Okay, maybe she had a thing for the car guy interception.

Speaker 4 (03:44):
I'm sorry, I hope that's not the case.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
I mean, I mean too, like, you know, I'd be
really bummed out if I got her the best looking
car guy.

Speaker 5 (03:53):
You know.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
All we'll try to figure it out for you to
play a song come back, and then call her and
see if she sells why she's ghosting you, and maybe
get you a date.

Speaker 4 (04:00):
Okay, all right, thanks, all right, we'll play.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
A song come back, get your first Day follow up
next if you're just joining us for today's the first
Day follow up. Trip is on the phone and he's
getting ghosted from a date that he went on with
a woman named Brie, and we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date. But before we do
that trip, why don't you catch everybody up on your
date with Brie?

Speaker 4 (04:21):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah, we went went to a high end steakhouse. We
we really you know, ate and drank the night away,
and you know, I took a car to pick her up,
and then she stepped back switch to the bathroom, came
back and like, we're like, oh, I got to go
home right now.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
You think maybe the reason you're getting ghosted is because
she had to go to the bathroom really bad and
she's embarrassed.

Speaker 3 (04:43):
Yep, what I think it is?

Speaker 4 (04:44):
All right, Well, see if we can figure it out
for you. You ready for us to call her?

Speaker 3 (04:48):
You better believe it.

Speaker 4 (04:50):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, may I speak to Bree? Please?

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Brie?

Speaker 4 (05:05):
How are you? My name is Jewbell and I host
a radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show. Hi, Bree,
the radio show is here. My name's Nina Hi, and
I'm Victoria. How are you?

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Good?

Speaker 4 (05:15):
How are you good? Do you ever listen to the show?

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (05:19):
If you ever heard a first date follow up? Before?

Speaker 2 (05:21):
Where we call somebody who's been on a date and
they've been ghosted, So we get the other person on
the phone to find out why they've been ghosted.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
Then I'll just tell you that's what this is.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Oh wow, Okay, Okay, we got an email about you
from a guy named Trip right, Okay, yes, uh huh.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
He says that you have talked to him since your
date it's been about a week. Said that you guys
met on the dating app The League, which is like
a very successful people dating app.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Right.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
Yeah, Then you told us.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
That you guys went out's to dinner and you went
to the bathroom during dinner at one point and came
back and we're like, I got to go and that's
the last year for you.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
Oh, it's interesting. That's his interpretation of the date. Okay, Well,
I feel like he's leading out some major points. I mean,
the date was initially lovely, you know, we went to
a nice place. I felt like he usually trying to

(06:23):
impress me, and like money was not an option. It
was ordering all the things, and I did think there
was potential there for a good portion of the day.
It really wasn't until the end where she really unraveled again.
I can't believe he left all of this out. But
so the bill comes and he took a screenshot of

(06:48):
the bill and then his phone rang. It was his mom.
He's sitting there. It seemed like she wanted to recap
everything we had ordered to make sure the bill was correct,
like that he was being charged correctly, and it was
a large bill, but he was one that insisted on
ordering like all the things.

Speaker 4 (07:09):
Took a picture and send it to his mom to
ask like huh yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
And then he told his mom, as I'm sitting there
that I'm going to go back to his place, which
is already very weird. But then she's saying things like
don't worry, I'll be responsible, and then he said, I know,
I'll be on my best behavior. And I'm not sure
what the conversation was completely, but it just it just

(07:37):
gave me the eck immediately, like I love mom's boy,
but this was like a bottle fed mama's boy. From
what I understand, I think the money is his mom's
money and she wants to know what he's spending it on,
so we has to send a photo of the checks.
So these aren't any surprises.

Speaker 4 (07:55):
Like even if that's the thing. Wouldn't you want to
send it like later for telling us, Brie, you didn't
tell us that part. Yeah, of course. Well she probably
doesn't think it's weird because he openly did it.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
B Guess what, he's actually on the phone listening and
has been listening and wants to.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
Talk to you. Oh okay, well I break.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Hi.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Hi, Uh, I guess you would. I guess I wish
you would have said something about it. It's never struck
me as weird. My mom's been a financial manager for
a long time, so like she always she always loves to,
you know, double check bills and is very involved in money,
like a pretty normal thing to do. And your parents
an expert, you know. And look, at the end of

(08:43):
the day, like I get what you're saying about her
being involved, Like I totally do. But uh, you know,
once once my mom falls in love with you, like
she won't, she definitely won't be as involved. You know.
It's that's that's just kind of a now thing.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Well what do you mean by that?

Speaker 3 (09:02):
Well, I mean, you know, she worries, she worries that
that that people are like after me for my money
and her money, you know, both of our moneyes. So
you know, once when she meets you and like approves
of you and stuff, she'll she'll definitely like back off.
It won't be as big a deal when she knows
that you're in it for the right reasons.

Speaker 4 (09:22):
Oh yeah, in a way it does.

Speaker 5 (09:26):
I just I wonder if money, if you're afraid of
people liking you for money, then maybe flashing it in
the beginning is maybe not the move.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
Yeah, I mean maybe, but like you know, again, the
league is a place for successful people, and like, like
I assume, I assume that anyone I meet on there
is is also comfortable with money and used to seeing
money spent. So, like, you know, it's not about flashing it.

(09:52):
It's about providing a level of I don't know, comfort, familiarity,
like confidence, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah, yeah, I mean I appreciate the lovely day and
I think you're you're a lovely guy, but I just
do not feel comfortable with that much mother a Like
that was just to me, like next level. And I
find it very hard to believe that she will back
off when she finds someone.

Speaker 3 (10:22):
She approves of. I mean, she she will, that's kind
of HERMO will be very engaged up front and then
back off where she's coming.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
I have a lot of friends that have mother in
law that stay and it's not It's not that way. Listen,
no offense. I'm sure she's lovely too, but that is
just not something I can sign up for.

Speaker 4 (10:43):
Well, Brie, would you like to go on another date
with triple pay for it?

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah? You know, I'd really love to see again. And
you know, the second date is always the date where
I take someone to meet my mom, So you know
you could get that screw it away.

Speaker 5 (10:56):
Okay, you know, I still I think you're minute to
stick with my no thank you.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
I I've never met someone's parents on the second date,
and this just seems like a lot for me right
from the get I just don't think we're a match.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
You know, on the day you mentioned that you like
keithh my mom makes a really great Keys, Like we'll
be missing out the specunity for a good Keys.

Speaker 4 (11:23):
I mean, come on, we gotta love a good keys.
Keith Lorraine hit it right again.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
I just don't think that that's I don't want to
lead you on trip. You seem like a nice guy
that I just think I got the dick and I
don't think I could come back from it, and if
I went over there for a second date, i'd be
just going over there for the keish and I don't.

Speaker 5 (11:51):
You will.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
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