November 29, 2023 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Julia is on the phone today for a first day
follow up, but she's getting ghosted by a guy named Walker.
So in a minute, we're gonna call him and see
if we can figure out why he's ghostinger. But first, Julia,
how long has it been since you heard from Walker?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
About a week?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:21):
Week?
Speaker 6 (00:21):
Okay, that's kind of the sweet spot. How many times
have you reached out to him in that in that time?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
I've sent him a couple of packs, like three or four, Like,
what's a couple about three?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It's not too bad, and you've heard nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
From him, nothing, not a peep.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
All right, tell us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
He asked me to meet him at a sushi restaurant,
which I thought was really cool. Okay, we had dinner
and she hadn't had much sushi before, so he let
me kind of pick everything out, and he seemed to
really like what I picked out, like especially the spicy tuna. A. Yeah,
(01:00):
so dinner was went really well. He told me all
about his business study starting, and he just seems so
motivated and passionate. I loved that. And then we went
for a walk, which I thought was a really good sign.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Okay, how was the walk? It was nice.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
I mean it lasted about an hour and we just
kept talking.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
How did it end? Like, did you'll kiss?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Hug?
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Five?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
We hugged?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, yeah. Did anything happen between the walk and dinner
that may have been a little bit off?
Speaker 4 (01:38):
I mean, the only thing I can think is that
I recently I told him a lot about my work too,
because he was telling me a lot about his business.
And I recently got a promotion at work and I
was so excited about it.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Rats, thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
So I just wondered if that rubbed him the wrong
way or something like, how.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Do you think that could rubbed him the wrong way?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Well, he loves a little I don't know, like he
didn't want to ask me a lot about it or something.
And I wondered if because he's having he's just at
the beginning stages of starting a business, if he felt
a little insecure or something that I'm doing so well
in my career.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Did he talk a lot about his business? He did
talk a fair amount.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
I mean he seemed excited about it and like he
was really interested in what he's doing.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I don't know how that would take away from what
you're doing, but I mean there are guys like that,
so I believe it.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
But I know this, Yeah, yeah, it seems like maybe
he's not quite where he wants to be in his career.
So I wonder if that was it.
Speaker 6 (02:53):
Well, that's also kind of a red flag for you,
because you want to be with somebody that's a little
bit more secure in that space, right, If that was it,
I mean, we're highly speculating it's this point.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, I mean, I honestly, I feel like I've come
across this before. So Okay, that's what made me wonder
if that's the only thing I can think of, Because
we just had the best time, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
And then at the end when you guys hugged, did
he say like, oh I want to meet up again
or anything like that, or did he just bounce?
Speaker 4 (03:26):
No, I think we just said we had a really
nice time.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out
for you. We'll play a song, come back and then
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you
still want one. Okay, okay, all right, we'll plaus on
come back. Get your first Date follow Up, Next.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Right in the middle of your first Date follow Up,
if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Walker. So
we're just about to call him see if he'll tell
us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Julia, why don't you refresh
everybody's memory on your date with Walker.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
We went out for an amazing sushi dinner and had
a nice walk afterwards, and he told me about his
business that he's starting up, and he seems super into it,
and I told him all about my promotion at work
and how excited I.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Was about it. Did you make a lot of Walker
jokes while you were walking? I didn't even think about that.
I just thought of her right now. That could also
be a reason if you wouldn't stop with the Walker jokes,
like I would go hand on that.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
That would have been a great joke. I totally.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Okay. I was thinking maybe that is the reason, But
maybe not William. We'll call him right now. Are you ready?
Speaker 5 (04:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Okay, here we go. He Hi'm I seek the Walker please? Yeah,
this Jim, Hey man, how are you? This is a
radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. My name's Jubil. Hi.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
You know. Also on the show, Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
We got an email about you from somebody that you
are ghosting and they want to know why you're not
calling them back.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Oh okay, yeah, okay, this is Julia.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yes, it is Walker. Yeah, Julia emailed us, told us
a little bit about your date and is really confused
why you're ghosting her? Am I telling us?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I mean, that's that's about it. I'm starting to think
maybe emailing a radio show about it could be on
that list. But that wasn't it initially?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Okay, so wait, what's the deal? Why are you ghosting?
Speaker 5 (05:38):
I don't know, man. Like, we went to dinner and
it was fun. It was great. Actually, we got some sushi.
I'm not used to that stuff, but I housed a
couple of spicy tuneroles. Those things are great and it
was fun, you know, like it seemed pretty easy at first,
but she kind of got on. Oh god, she kind
(06:01):
of got into like this tangent about her job and
stuff and how she got this new promotion and then
she was very excited about it. It's it's it's cool,
but it's kind of dominated the whole back end of
the night, so I don't know, it just kind of
felt weird. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
She talked about her job too much? Is that it it's.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
Not even just about I don't know about the job,
but just seemed to be just all encompassing, you know,
like I don't know, like somebody's whole identity is wrapped
up in that, you know, and it's just I don't know,
it just kind of was it was kind of boring.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
I'm sorry her job is boring or the way she
talked about it.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
No, not that I don't know, you like, I don't
know much about finance, but that you know, just the
same thing over and over again.
Speaker 6 (06:45):
You know.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
Does that make sense if somebody's talking about just something
like you get excited and then it just goes downhill
and it's like, God, all right, I get it, you.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Know, I mean, is that all she talked about? It
just wasn't interesting or what I mean, Sure.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
It's interesting, your fears talked about some friends too, and
you know, they seem nice, and a little bit about
her family. But for the whole thing, it was about
like wanting a promotion and then what I had to
do to get it, and I finally got it. Now
I felt about it afterwards, like God, rent a movie
or something that's terrible. I shouldn't say that, but I
(07:19):
feel something.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Did you ask a question?
Speaker 5 (07:24):
I mean the usual stuff like, you know, where'd you
grow up and what were you into as a kid?
You know, did you play any sports? You know, where
do you live in the city, like that kind of stuff.
You know, pretty pretty basic stuff I think when you're
on a first date.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
All right, well thanks for telling us, man.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Yeah, for sure, thanks for asking.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
No problem. Yeah, Julia is also on the on the
phone and has been listening this whole time and wants
to talk to you. I shall tell you that I
don't have any recommendations.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Yeah, yeah, no, I'm I'm sure she is, man, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Right, she really is.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Hey, Hey, welcome.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Hey Julia.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Hey. Yeah, I guess I'm a little confused.
Speaker 5 (08:15):
I mean, you seem Yeah, I don't even know how
to put it any more plainly than I did when
I didn't know you were there. But uh, you know,
I don't want to be mean. It's just I'm really
happy for you, but it just I don't know. I
just feel like maybe we're it's just not in the
same spot.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
I mean, I just feel like someone can't accept a
woman in a relationship to be successful.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
Well, I mean, that's that's not it. That's no, it's
not it at all. It's you know, I just want
to at interest in life.
Speaker 4 (08:51):
I just are you intimidated by me?
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Not even a little bit. No, no, not at all.
I think it's great, you know, it seems to make
you really happy, and that's wonderful. I just don't know
if I can be a part of it.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Well, I think you're intimidated by me, and you can't
be with a woman who's more successful than you. I
think that's what it is.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
I'm sorry. I really don't know how to respond to that.
But that's absurd, that's not what this is. And it
feels kind of I don't know, that feels oddly accusatory
and weird to go to. It's not that at all,
trust me. I just think we're on two different playing
fields right now.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
That's all, okay, I think that's exactly what it is.
But agree to disagree.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
I guess, sure, I guess yeah. I'm sorry if I
gave you that impression, but that's not what this is.
So please don't don't harbor that ill will towards me.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
Okay, Well, if you don't want someone who's happy and
feels good about their job, then you know, can I
do about that?
Speaker 5 (10:02):
There's nothing you can do about it. Keep being those things.
It's just not for me. I think it's great. I'm
very happy for you.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Okay, Well, I don't really believe you. So you know,
just because you can't be happy at your job doesn't
mean I can't be happy at mine.
Speaker 5 (10:20):
I sure, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Walker, would you like another day with Julia? We'll pay
for it.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
I mean, I think that would be a horrible idea.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Jubile's first day follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorney Online at Advocates Law dot com.
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Julia is on the phone today for a first day
follow up, but she's getting ghosted by a guy named Walker.
So in a minute, we're gonna call him and see
if we can figure out why he's ghostinger. But first, Julia,
how long has it been since you heard from Walker?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
About a week?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:21):
Week?
Speaker 6 (00:21):
Okay, that's kind of the sweet spot. How many times
have you reached out to him in that in that time?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
I've sent him a couple of packs, like three or four, Like,
what's a couple about three?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It's not too bad, and you've heard nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
From him, nothing, not a peep.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
All right, tell us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
He asked me to meet him at a sushi restaurant,
which I thought was really cool. Okay, we had dinner
and she hadn't had much sushi before, so he let
me kind of pick everything out, and he seemed to
really like what I picked out, like especially the spicy tuna. A. Yeah,
(01:00):
so dinner was went really well. He told me all
about his business study starting, and he just seems so
motivated and passionate. I loved that. And then we went
for a walk, which I thought was a really good sign.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Okay, how was the walk? It was nice.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
I mean it lasted about an hour and we just
kept talking.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
How did it end? Like, did you'll kiss?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Hug?
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Five?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
We hugged?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, yeah. Did anything happen between the walk and dinner
that may have been a little bit off?
Speaker 4 (01:38):
I mean, the only thing I can think is that
I recently I told him a lot about my work too,
because he was telling me a lot about his business.
And I recently got a promotion at work and I
was so excited about it.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Rats, thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
So I just wondered if that rubbed him the wrong
way or something like, how.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Do you think that could rubbed him the wrong way?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Well, he loves a little I don't know, like he
didn't want to ask me a lot about it or something.
And I wondered if because he's having he's just at
the beginning stages of starting a business, if he felt
a little insecure or something that I'm doing so well
in my career.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Did he talk a lot about his business? He did
talk a fair amount.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
I mean he seemed excited about it and like he
was really interested in what he's doing.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I don't know how that would take away from what
you're doing, but I mean there are guys like that,
so I believe it.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
But I know this, Yeah, yeah, it seems like maybe
he's not quite where he wants to be in his career.
So I wonder if that was it.
Speaker 6 (02:53):
Well, that's also kind of a red flag for you,
because you want to be with somebody that's a little
bit more secure in that space, right, If that was it,
I mean, we're highly speculating it's this point.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, I mean, I honestly, I feel like I've come
across this before. So Okay, that's what made me wonder
if that's the only thing I can think of, Because
we just had the best time, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
And then at the end when you guys hugged, did
he say like, oh I want to meet up again
or anything like that, or did he just bounce?
Speaker 4 (03:26):
No, I think we just said we had a really
nice time.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out
for you. We'll play a song, come back and then
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you
still want one. Okay, okay, all right, we'll plaus on
come back. Get your first Date follow Up, Next.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Right in the middle of your first Date follow Up,
if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Walker. So
we're just about to call him see if he'll tell
us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Julia, why don't you refresh
everybody's memory on your date with Walker.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
We went out for an amazing sushi dinner and had
a nice walk afterwards, and he told me about his
business that he's starting up, and he seems super into it,
and I told him all about my promotion at work
and how excited I.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Was about it. Did you make a lot of Walker
jokes while you were walking? I didn't even think about that.
I just thought of her right now. That could also
be a reason if you wouldn't stop with the Walker jokes,
like I would go hand on that.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
That would have been a great joke. I totally.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Okay. I was thinking maybe that is the reason, But
maybe not William. We'll call him right now. Are you ready?
Speaker 5 (04:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Okay, here we go. He Hi'm I seek the Walker please? Yeah,
this Jim, Hey man, how are you? This is a
radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. My name's Jubil. Hi.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
You know. Also on the show, Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
We got an email about you from somebody that you
are ghosting and they want to know why you're not
calling them back.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Oh okay, yeah, okay, this is Julia.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yes, it is Walker. Yeah, Julia emailed us, told us
a little bit about your date and is really confused
why you're ghosting her? Am I telling us?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I mean, that's that's about it. I'm starting to think
maybe emailing a radio show about it could be on
that list. But that wasn't it initially?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Okay, so wait, what's the deal? Why are you ghosting?
Speaker 5 (05:38):
I don't know, man. Like, we went to dinner and
it was fun. It was great. Actually, we got some sushi.
I'm not used to that stuff, but I housed a
couple of spicy tuneroles. Those things are great and it
was fun, you know, like it seemed pretty easy at first,
but she kind of got on. Oh god, she kind
(06:01):
of got into like this tangent about her job and
stuff and how she got this new promotion and then
she was very excited about it. It's it's it's cool,
but it's kind of dominated the whole back end of
the night, so I don't know, it just kind of
felt weird. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
She talked about her job too much? Is that it it's.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
Not even just about I don't know about the job,
but just seemed to be just all encompassing, you know,
like I don't know, like somebody's whole identity is wrapped
up in that, you know, and it's just I don't know,
it just kind of was it was kind of boring.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
I'm sorry her job is boring or the way she
talked about it.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
No, not that I don't know, you like, I don't
know much about finance, but that you know, just the
same thing over and over again.
Speaker 6 (06:45):
You know.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
Does that make sense if somebody's talking about just something
like you get excited and then it just goes downhill
and it's like, God, all right, I get it, you.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Know, I mean, is that all she talked about? It
just wasn't interesting or what I mean, Sure.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
It's interesting, your fears talked about some friends too, and
you know, they seem nice, and a little bit about
her family. But for the whole thing, it was about
like wanting a promotion and then what I had to
do to get it, and I finally got it. Now
I felt about it afterwards, like God, rent a movie
or something that's terrible. I shouldn't say that, but I
(07:19):
feel something.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Did you ask a question?
Speaker 5 (07:24):
I mean the usual stuff like, you know, where'd you
grow up and what were you into as a kid?
You know, did you play any sports? You know, where
do you live in the city, like that kind of stuff.
You know, pretty pretty basic stuff I think when you're
on a first date.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
All right, well thanks for telling us, man.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Yeah, for sure, thanks for asking.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
No problem. Yeah, Julia is also on the on the
phone and has been listening this whole time and wants
to talk to you. I shall tell you that I
don't have any recommendations.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Yeah, yeah, no, I'm I'm sure she is, man, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Right, she really is.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Hey, Hey, welcome.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Hey Julia.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Hey. Yeah, I guess I'm a little confused.
Speaker 5 (08:15):
I mean, you seem Yeah, I don't even know how
to put it any more plainly than I did when
I didn't know you were there. But uh, you know,
I don't want to be mean. It's just I'm really
happy for you, but it just I don't know. I
just feel like maybe we're it's just not in the
same spot.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
I mean, I just feel like someone can't accept a
woman in a relationship to be successful.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
Well, I mean, that's that's not it. That's no, it's
not it at all. It's you know, I just want
to at interest in life.
Speaker 4 (08:51):
I just are you intimidated by me?
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Not even a little bit. No, no, not at all.
I think it's great, you know, it seems to make
you really happy, and that's wonderful. I just don't know
if I can be a part of it.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Well, I think you're intimidated by me, and you can't
be with a woman who's more successful than you. I
think that's what it is.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
I'm sorry. I really don't know how to respond to that.
But that's absurd, that's not what this is. And it
feels kind of I don't know, that feels oddly accusatory
and weird to go to. It's not that at all,
trust me. I just think we're on two different playing
fields right now.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
That's all, okay, I think that's exactly what it is.
But agree to disagree.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
I guess, sure, I guess yeah. I'm sorry if I
gave you that impression, but that's not what this is.
So please don't don't harbor that ill will towards me.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
Okay, Well, if you don't want someone who's happy and
feels good about their job, then you know, can I
do about that?
Speaker 5 (10:02):
There's nothing you can do about it. Keep being those things.
It's just not for me. I think it's great. I'm
very happy for you.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Okay, Well, I don't really believe you. So you know,
just because you can't be happy at your job doesn't
mean I can't be happy at mine.
Speaker 5 (10:20):
I sure, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Walker, would you like another day with Julia? We'll pay
for it.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
I mean, I think that would be a horrible idea.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
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