How To Survive A Family Trip + Baby Blowout Battles | For The Dads Podcast - For the Dads

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Pop a Team six see Team six. You might be
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sections of our YouTube videos on social media, they have
been phenomenal. We implement them into this episode and talk
through some of the responses and comments that are out there.
What else, We also talk about our family vacation. Myself,
my wife are two little girls. We went on a
family vacation in Canada. We talk about week three in

(00:43):
the Trenches with Shrham and we talk about a lot
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store at bwtv dot com to buy the new Papa
Team six shirt. Again that is bwtv dot com. Enjoy
this episode. Welcome to Ford the dads. Make sure you
take out your trash. Are we recording is the first question,
because what I've noticed is the little Tech deal isn't
backed by you anymore. It's over by Chef Jack, captain

(01:27):
of Semen Team six. So, Chef Jack, are you now?
Are you now the guy who hits the record button?

Speaker 2 (01:33):
I am now the guy that hits the recording.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
I saw some wat in the comments saying this should
be on Jack, it shouldn't be on the guy helping
host a show. To that guy, I say, you are wrong,
because that was Shirm. That was that was Shirm's like
entire like, yeah, he is a co host. Well, we
started this show, it didn't feel like it was gonna
be this much of a co hosting show with each other.
Now I felt like you were gonna chime in, You're

(01:55):
gonna run the stuff, You're gonna help produce a lot
more we did. We've gotten very lucky with our intern
Chef and but to that comment, it's like yeah, but
we understand that, and we hear you that Chef Jack
could have possibly been the one that hit record or
ask a question, are we recording? But we don't. We
take full accountability in this place.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
There there is no part of me. First off, I
took pictures of his new setup. Please put that in
the edit on YouTube so that they can see it
set up. His set up is dialed, dialed. I walked
through that door into the production side today. I saw
that there was no recorder over here himself. He did,

(02:34):
and I said.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
This wasn't a team this wasn't a duo conversation.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
I lowered my head and I said good. I said good,
but honestly because and I told him, like I love that,
And this was in the part that we didn't record
last week. Chef is full of time now well starting.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
He hasn't signed a dotted line, nor does he have
the contracted.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
Does he have the contract?

Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, yeah, he's been offered to be for he's been Yeah,
he's heard that he's going to get offered full time,
which is even which is funnier because it's like we
haven't even had well, I guess you came up and
you said thank you, and I'm like, buddy, you've you've
crushed it all summer and for you to take on
a full project like for the dads, like take on
the show, it is nuts. What are you twenty three? Yeah,

(03:25):
twenty three unpaid internship coming in on the production side.
We had zero thought of hiring anybody outside of like
social media, and for you to come take on this
show for the dads, take on this brand afore the dads. Yeah,
there are some things I think we could tighten up
on YouTube and posting. Right now, guys, as you're watching
Chef Jack, our twenty three year old intern who's been.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
A stud a stallion, dude.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
What is the saying? Whyse beyond his ears?

Speaker 3 (03:52):
Is kind of wise beyond his years.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
It's kind of the sentence people say when you bring out, Hey,
what do you think about Chef Jack? He's he's wise
beyond his ears. He's got that professionalism about him. Yes,
and uh, but for you to take it on, dude, seriously,
it's you've crushed it.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Thank you. I appreciate it.

Speaker 4 (04:07):
It's fun, Like just like everyone who probably listens or watch, like,
it's a fun to watch you guys interact and put
on the show, and I feel like I got a
great seat to it and I've enjoyed.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Like every bit of the work. Like it's been cool.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
I'm just I just graduated college and I was sitting
on my couch two months ago with my buddy drinking
a beer and I saw on Instagram, you guys are
looking for in turns and I had nothing lined up.
So I was like, full, full transparency. I got denied
to a bunch of places, and I was like, well,
let's just see, let's see what we're gonna do. I
was already gonna be back to Nashville, and so to

(04:40):
go from that two months later, sitting here and it's
like it's really cool on my end, and I'm like,
just pump for this whole podcast. And yes, not official yet,
but well, you know it's gonna be a good road.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
I mean, shout out Chef Jack in the comments. Shout
out Chef Jack, captain a Seman Team six.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
He is the happened now of both the Record Button
and Semen Team sig Yes, and well, dude, well deserved,
well earned. I won't gload too much because he waxed
poetic very well, but Chef is awesome and Jared was
in charge of picking our interns this summer, of filtering
them down to like a number that we could easily

(05:21):
select our interns. Yeah, and when he pulled up Jack's
resume and his video that he submitted, he said, in
that moment, I don't think this guy needs to be
an intern. I think he needs to be full time.
And JP and I after watching that, and Mitch as well,
but JP and I actually spoke about it. We're like, dude,

(05:42):
before he even got in the building, this guy's a stud.
So those places that rejected you, their loss. That's our game.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
And correct me if I'm wrong too. But for the dads,
was more like a project that he approached asking to do.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yeah. Yes, and dude, the whole this whole process. The
reason that I feel like we thank everybody at the
top is because we went into this so blind. There
was an idea that you had generated. There was a
full pitch deck. There was us working with our third
party production part or really you working with our third

(06:17):
party production partner, going Sherman, this could be a really
good show. This is where I see you, blah blah blah.
We had no idea that it was going to get
the buy in that it got. We had no idea
what it would look like with me having a baby.
How much can Sherman carry on his shoulders? Having a
child is a very humbling experience, and I feel like

(06:39):
I'm texting this guy multiple times saying you are the man,
you are crushing it. I feel like I'm letting everyone
down with how much I'm not doing and the fact
that an unpaid intern is editing the full episode doing
social cle.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Like showing up early, staying late.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
You're a stud, dude, Well you're a stud.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Quickly, I'd like to throw back.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
Sharam within a week came to me and offered, Yeah,
as much as I'd love to say, I've had the
brilliant idea of approaching Sherm came to me and asked
to watch the episode and possibly help out with some clips.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
Right because Sherm was essentially gonna be doing yeah as
much as possible on it. Again us not experiencing what
it'd be like when you had your kid. It's like, yeah,
you did you miss hit and record?

Speaker 3 (07:24):
Could it have been? Dad brain?

Speaker 1 (07:25):
I saw a few comments out there, and you, of course,
thank you guys, hey, and thank you guys, But I'm
not God, I will not accept that, but thank you,
thank you, I see you. Yeah, and then he watched
the first one and started breaking down and making clips
and you'd be like, hey, uh, Chef Jack's been the
one making the clips and posting everything on the internet,

(07:46):
and it's kind of like, you know, oh, that's awesome
to hear. It seems like we're going to need a
producer for this show.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
Yeah, because there would be some weeks where and now
we're just kind of going into the weeds of like
the back end stuff here at Busting. But uh, it
is a full on operation that is really fun, and
I feel like something that will be explored way more
from what I'm hearing with the bust scene stuff of
like this fall is it's a full on operation. And

(08:13):
so the intern's coming in and crushing like they did,
but especially Chef and shout out big Cheese Caeso Grande
for his help. Dude is unreal. Just being able to hey,
I can really edit this episode because I can trust
Chef to do these social clips. Yeah. Oh well, now
I'm you know, with baby, I'm coming up here trying

(08:37):
not to micromanage, but how's the how's that edit going,
Oh man, it's good, I got it.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
I was on the couch with my boy drinking a beer. Sure,
nothing lined up. You just be a dad man, that's
all you gotta worry about.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
Right now. I'm like, this guy's an unpaid intern told
me this, Yeah, crazy, crazy.

Speaker 4 (08:54):
I want the responsibility like in a in a way
like that, Like it's been cool because I didn't if
I could, I've been able to do some cool stuff
before graduating. But i'm you know, taken on like a podcast.
It's like you don't even know if you can do it.
So it's kind of a cool challenge to be like,
oh yeah we can, and I agree will there's some
stuff we can hone in on and trying to juggle

(09:17):
some hats. But yeah, it's just cool all around.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
That's why I told you no one just.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Knowing that everything's coming from you is like, you know,
obviously there's tons of empathy. It's like I'm scanning stuff
and kind of looking at and it's like, it's why
you want to throw resources and bring in a social
media producer and bring in bringing talent to help because
the buy in of the show has been so cool
and it's like you don't want to let you don't
want to let everybody down. It's like we're building this
community and people are comment and people are you know,

(09:42):
whether it's on Instagram, on YouTube, whatever it is. We
talked about the Papa Team six shirts, like, the community
buy in has been awesome.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
We didn't even know if this would be a weekly
show when you were first pitching it.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
Right, because we just didn't know how often we wanted
to potentially do it. It's like committing to doing another
show on top of us and all the things we
got coming down the pipe with Busting with the Boys.
Used didn't know. I personally didn't know how often I
would want to do it or would have the bandwidth
to do it. But it's been so fun.

Speaker 3 (10:11):
It's been fun, dude, And shout out these Sikkahs that
showed up to buy that PT six shirt.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
Bro were sold like over five hundred right now, which yeah,
that's unreal, dude. We wish it was all the shirts.
So if it's like we have ten thousand views in
the last episode, I wish all ten thousand dads, all
ten thousand Papa Seals chimed in and boll the shirt.
I know it's still coming because this shirt is a
shirt that just it bonds the fatherhood. It imagine yourself

(10:41):
walking around, say you're on vacation, or say you're just
walking around on a Saturday. Maybe you're at the farmer's
park and you look down over by the lettuce and
tomatoes and you just see a Papa Seal repping a
Papa Team six shirt and you just know that they
tune into the same for the Dad's podcast that you do,
and you go up and tap on the shoulder and
be like PT six and just dap them up. That's
a fatherhood that is etched yep. That only dads and

(11:04):
only Papa Seals and Papa Team six members understand. And
that's what juices me up about it. When we're getting
the text from Garrett on how many you know, I
think it was like in the first thirty minutes over
around one hundred.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
And fifty was sold. Yeah, it just it gassed me up,
and then it just very I don't remember the amount
of time, but later that day, Oh by the way,
we're at four eighty eight like something like that. I
was like eight, Oh my god, and.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
I'm like I'm out enjoying vacation.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
In Canada.

Speaker 1 (11:32):
A lot of great stories that are gonna come from
Canada on this episode. Let's go in week three of Scarlet.
I know there's some fun, fun stories down the pod. Yeah,
but being in Canada and like, you know, you want
to make video, you want to like do stuff to
keep juicing the Papa Team six. But I'm like, I
gotta be here, I gotta i gotta enjoy vacation to
turn off the work brain.

Speaker 3 (11:51):
But juice.

Speaker 1 (11:52):
When I saw you made your video to promote the
Papa Team six shirts, I'm just I'm geeking and smiling
behind my phone. I'm like, man, I can't wait to
do some of this stuff when I get back. But
it's been awesome. Bwtv dot com is where you can
buy our first iteration of our Papa Team six shirts.
And to start off, there's a comment from Alex Alex

(12:12):
W fourteen fifty seven. It says, showed my wife the
new shirt. Her response, the bear has all that gear,
but where's the baby? Mom taking care of the baby boll?
Dad grills with the gear, then he put damn still
getting the shirt. PT.

Speaker 3 (12:26):
Six. The mom is right, Mom, I'm.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
Damn, I'm looking at the detailed shirt, and people are like,
why you guys not wearing the shirts right now? We
haven't got him in we haven't. We haven't gotten him
in the shop yet, trust me.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
But that's okay.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
But I'm thinking, I'm like looking at the details of
the shirt because i love the shirt. And then I'm
like laughing about this quote because I'm like, the mom
is one hundred percent right, Like what is this? What
is this Papa Sial doing in the garage? Just setting
it up so you can get a nice photo for
the Graham It's just back. I'm locked and loaded ready
for my watching. It's like, where's the kid?

Speaker 3 (12:55):
Which was me? I mean truly me and that raccoon video?
Where's Scarlett? I'll tell you where she is. She's getting
bounced by Jill and they're probably crying and Jill's going,
what the hell is my husband doing?

Speaker 1 (13:07):
The Papa team Shook six shirt. That's pre game. That's
getting ready. You're getting to go on watch.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
You're getting ready, dude, because you're pulling some uh you're
pulling some some all nighters.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah yeah, but you want to you want to keep
ripping YouTube coming.

Speaker 3 (13:21):
I'm so sorry, don't wheel pop. We have Brooke McKenzie
seven eight two six. Hey guys, my name is Brooke.
I just gave birth eight days ago. My fiance and
I are twenty five and twenty six years old. None
of our friends have children yet. And essentially she walked
into the room husband was uh watching for the Dads
on the TV. She popped the squad next to him.

(13:43):
She said, she's equally as big of a fan as
her husband. Let's go, Brooke, come on, let's go. That.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
Does that juices me up?

Speaker 3 (13:58):
Does juice us up?

Speaker 1 (13:59):
Just to picture of couple sitting on the couch and
watching for the Dad's podcast on I'm going to assume
big screen.

Speaker 3 (14:06):
Yeah, just enjoying the night and Mama bears like, yo,
this ship's gased.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
Yeah, we gotta do more for the moms. I saw
a couple being like, do the collab with the wives
with the wives podcast? Should be doing collabs with mom.
But trust me that stuff. These three brains, one of
them operating the most, and that chef Jack. The other
two brains more just dad brain fleeting, just taking it
as it comes. We will have a strategy and there
will be some fun down the pipe to so he'll

(14:33):
bloom lesson of the Week last week on enjoying the
Magic Years from his book Five Types of Wealth. Having
see Heal bloom On. I think would be a lot
of fun having dads on moms. Yes, just doing fun collabse.
I think it'd be sick, especially diving into the weeds
of how do you do this? Yes, this is how
dad's kind of bitch on the side and talk shit

(14:53):
behind your back a little bit.

Speaker 3 (14:55):
How do the moms do it? The wives would be crazy, dude,
we would be flamed. But we hold her own. We
hold her. I would have to sit over there with you.

Speaker 1 (15:05):
Because the dad's out there watching. We're representing Papa Team six.
We can't just go quiet into the night and lay down.

Speaker 3 (15:12):
No, we need a full kangaroo corda. Don't put the
camera chef on them too much. Keep it over here.
I'll come sit next see you. We'll have them over here,
and it's gonna be two v two.

Speaker 1 (15:23):
Yeah, it'll be two v two and a lot of
times it'll be like you're one hundred percent right. But
let me just tell you what goes on in my
brain when this happens. And I'm not defending myself. Sometimes
I'm just not thinking about it. I can't read your mind,
but you do a.

Speaker 3 (15:41):
Great job of communicating. Yeah, and I love you. You
look beautiful. Yeah, sweetheart, we love you.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
Here we go from a Nick C ninety six Papa
Team six sled dog again. You have one girl of
my own, My girl has, my girl has three girls.
Just found out the gender of our baby on the way.
We will have a full roster of girls. Girl, Dad
times five, pray for your boy. This comment right here
is why dads go silent later in life. It's why

(16:11):
you find him sitting in the corner at a holiday
party and everybody's like, oh, what's up with Joe over there?

Speaker 3 (16:16):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (16:17):
He doesn't talk whole lot. That's because he's out manned
and out gunned the moment he gets into the car
to go home. Because you know Joe, if you just
sit and get to know him and talk to him,
I'm sure he's gonna love hunting. He's probably got his camera, like, Hey,
check out this a porner I found on my farm.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
He does. But he stays quiet at parties.

Speaker 1 (16:33):
Why because those dads who say one wrong thing on
the car right home?

Speaker 3 (16:39):
Honey, what you have to say? Why'd you say it
like that. Dad, don't talk to you like that, dad, Dad?
Oh my god, what was his say?

Speaker 1 (16:49):
Thanks for telling everybody I don't give you blow jobs anymore?
What what the hell was that?

Speaker 3 (16:56):
I turn have some fun. I can't just be a man.

Speaker 1 (16:58):
I can't just have some fun at a holiday party,
joke around with the boys.

Speaker 3 (17:01):
And I did say blow job. I said, smoke my pipe,
death friend. That's death friend. They fucking say that. But
that right there is how dads go silent.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
And that is why I'm terrified of having a third daughter,
because you just get out, you get out numbered, and
he's just like you fucking let me just get home,
let me survive.

Speaker 3 (17:22):
Where's my baby? Yeah? Let me yeah? Yeah? Where's my baby? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Where's my baby boy at? Where's my lineage? Where's my
heir to the throne?

Speaker 3 (17:31):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (17:31):
But that's what happens, I'm telling you. That's kind of
my that's my thesis on it. I've thought about this
a lot because a lot of dads out there that
are like great, great talks when you when you break
through the barriers, and you wonder why they're sitting with
the twenty four pack at the end of at the
end of the dinner table or at the end of
the island, kind of sitting in the lung, just waiting
for the conversation to come in because he knows he
says one wrong thing. It's listen, boys, I love having

(17:53):
a great time around you guys. But the minute I
leave here, the other twenty three hours.

Speaker 3 (17:58):
Nood there there. There was a perfect example of that
by the way of a girl that I went to
high school with, very social girl would have like bonfires
at her house and friends all come over and her
dad all girls. They had, all girls. Her dad was
such a fucking legend. Dude, so quiet though you had
to get him in the right spot. But he's the
one while the party's going on inside, he's building the

(18:20):
bonfire outside. Yeah, are you putting gas on that? You
don't put gas on a bonfire, You put diesel because
it burns slow.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Anybody ever showed you this trick? Runs out to the woods,
Go get that lighter. Go, I'm gonna show you how
desel burn slow. This is what you look for when
the wood's a little too dry. You don't want the
wood too dry. And what are you doing right there?

Speaker 3 (18:42):
What is that? No, we're not using an electric lider.
We're using mattress. We're gonna step away, We're gonna toss
the matches.

Speaker 1 (18:49):
Hold that thought.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Here comes the ill ball and chain. But truly such
a legend, dude, and very like Yeah to your exact point,
Gang camera is probably a CFB sicko. I didn't have
too many talks with them, but all of us we
had always talk about like, bro, he's such a legend.

Speaker 1 (19:08):
Yeah, and you gotta I don't know how to say this,
but you gotta continue.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
You can't let you can't let him take.

Speaker 1 (19:16):
Your voice away.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (19:18):
You know when you start having a conversation, I'm saying,
I'm asking you a question, then your wife starts answering
for you.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
They talk for you, so you're just like, you know, what's.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
The But hey, Nick, congratulations on the girl coming the
girl dad of five.

Speaker 3 (19:31):
We love Nick, and you have a voice in our comments. Yes,
you have a voice in this comment section.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
Nick, I expect to see another comment from you on
this episode.

Speaker 3 (19:43):
Your existence is futile. Yeah, but we love you.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
This is why you gotta love Papa Team six because
we're all in this shit together.

Speaker 3 (19:50):
We are, It's why we have the platform and we
may have a new branch of the military with this comment. Okay,
reporting then sorry, this is Carlos. Carlos the one reporting
from the goon Berets. Can we represent as well the

(20:14):
goon Berets. Look, he said, it's just how you're gooning. Dude,
you're talking like he's not seeming team. He's just jerking.
He's just he's gooning. You're just jerking off. He's just jerking.
And he wants to be at six. He wants to
start the goon Berets. Jack McPherson would fucking love to

(20:36):
be a part of the goon Berets.

Speaker 1 (20:38):
With this being a family show. Can I tell you
what my opinion.

Speaker 3 (20:41):
Is, please go ahead.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
I love it.

Speaker 3 (20:44):
I love it the beretson Berets. Get that on a shirt, dude.

Speaker 1 (20:50):
Okay, for there's there's probably because you know we got
I would like to assume very quality parents and mature
adults on here. They probably have no clue what we're
talking about.

Speaker 3 (20:59):
Yeah, and they're like, hey, where's the you.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
Know, goon Yeah, gooning meaning urban Dictionary. All right, here
we go.

Speaker 3 (21:13):
So this is the goom Berets, This is the goom Berats. Okay, bro,
I can't say this. I thought gooning might just be
jerking off. We're all adults here.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
Gooning is an act.

Speaker 3 (21:28):
We're in.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
Porn Addicts masturbate in edge for hours on end, yet
do not achieve orgasm, nor do they want to for
weeks or months. Any orgasm a gooner or goo neet
does have should be ruined. Oh ah, Yeah, the goom Berets,

(21:53):
the goom Berets Family show.

Speaker 3 (21:55):
Family show, they can represent they Yeah, like we can
be aware that the gooon Berets are a thing. Yeah,
and that there's an assignment. There's a job somewhere out
there where we will need the goo Berets later on
down the rest.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
Yes, because no matter what, when the TikTok moms come
after us, we're gonna need an army. That's what you
call those sikos. Yeah, the special That's what I said.
Papa sherm Hey fifty miles south, Go talk to house
goon Beret.

Speaker 3 (22:28):
Go go light the torch.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
Who said that comment, Carlos the one. Go talk to
Carlos the one. He's head, he's head of the goo Berets.
House goon Beret, House goon Beret House. Yeah, House Bolton,
House Gooner, House Gooner. I'm trying to get in my
Game of Thrones Brainery Carlos of House goon Yeah, Carlos,
the one of House Gooner, and let him know. The

(22:51):
leader of the goom Berets small army, very niche. But
when a push comes a shove and we might need
to build out an army for a war, we gotta
be able to call on the goon Berets.

Speaker 3 (23:02):
I don't know that the moms of House TikTok march
upon for the dads, light the beacon.

Speaker 1 (23:09):
Let the yeah, let the gooon Bereas know winter is coming.
So yeah that moms are here.

Speaker 3 (23:18):
That was probably my favorite comment that I saw, Like
that's funny, bro dude, God, I think I replied to
it on YouTube. I was like, this is fucking.

Speaker 1 (23:29):
What makes me laugh.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
Twos.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
We might have people tuning in for the first time
that are like, what in the fuck did Tim put
me on? What link is Tim? What show is Tim
trying to put me on?

Speaker 3 (23:41):
Right now? And they're probably in the office.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
I thought he said they talked about dad hats lesson
of the week. They do fun call ins with some
some dad advice, not experts. We're not experts experts and
we will get to those segments. But this is just
a boy's goofing.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
This is just we're we're goofing with Papa Team six.

Speaker 1 (23:59):
We are And if you want to be a part
of up at Team six bwtv dot com, go get
you that shirt first iteration.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
Pop can subscribe, I can subscribe.

Speaker 1 (24:07):
I like the envision those shirts too, being a collectible
one day, like maybe we have this show for thirty years.

Speaker 3 (24:13):
Dude, I like that. I'd okay. One, I love that idea.
Two an idea that I'm just throwing out there. I
kind of wanted to talk to you about this before
we did on the pod, but I feel like it's
the right Okay. There's a podcast that one of my
friends used to listen to last podcasts on the Left,
and they would sell these little buttons that you put
on a backpack, like you know those like sorority buttons

(24:36):
that those people made. Yeah, it's like miniature ones, and
they would sell them with like little sayings from their podcasts.
But a guy and I need to find the DM
who's actually a VET was like yo in the Army,
like in the military, or I think he was actually
in the Navy. He was talking about how they have
something called morale patches, where it's not like official patches,

(24:58):
but they're just morale that you put, like on the
back of your backpack or somewhere.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
In your study.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
We could make little badges with those miniature sorority buttons
that would go perfect on like a diaper bag or
like something like this.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
Bro, the possibilities are endless. You just have to execute.
We have to execute.

Speaker 3 (25:20):
We have to execute.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
And speaking of execution, here's a dad hack from Cameron
Blake ninety eight ninety A dad hack. We're not even
to that segment, but I want to shout out this
dad hack. Teach your son how to use the fly swatter.
My two year old spent thirty non tantrum minutes on
a mission deleting flies as Dad cracked a couple of

(25:42):
cold ones watching sports, teaching patients hand eye coordination and
the killer instinct. Bet could Betty could even take Taylor
three twenty two to the pool side if he could
ever find the zone. His stats forty two whiffs, twenty
four almost twelve dead at watch Goda Love Dead aut watch, dude,

(26:04):
eight dead flies. It's a dad hat. Let your boy
get going with the fly swatter.

Speaker 3 (26:10):
What a legend. Yeah, and if for any of the
hunters out there, that would be a good introduction into
hunting world with those assault guns. Have you ever seen
those salt shotguns? Oh yeah, no for fly? Oh will oh?

Speaker 1 (26:24):
Oh oh yeah yeah for fly Yeah. Okay, I know
you're talking about.

Speaker 3 (26:27):
That would be sick too. Just let them go. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (26:31):
Just I love the dead out Watch stad dude, the
dead out Watch, Like I had to watch rude. She's
like dad watch uh forget what she calls him in
ballet where they like hop or leaps.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
I it's leaps. Dad watched my leaps.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
And she's just got those little focus fakes on.

Speaker 3 (26:45):
She's just leaping in the kitchen.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
I'm just like, oh my god, that I watch, Oh
that I watched ooh, And I'm just having a shame.
But it's always Dead out Watch. Sweete. I've watched you
four times. Can I finish making breakfast? Okay?

Speaker 3 (27:02):
All right?

Speaker 1 (27:02):
Do you know what?

Speaker 3 (27:03):
Do one more? Doing? More? Make this the best one?
Oh my god, dude, I wish I could be a
fly on the wall for stuff. Like that I cannot
wait for Scarlett to be able to start talking. I
cannot wait, dude.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
I feel you, And I always stop myself and just
be like, yeah, you can.

Speaker 3 (27:24):
Wait, because it flies by, bro.

Speaker 1 (27:28):
And you see the parents in the comments and just
talk about how they love the show and they love
hearing the lessons or whatever it is, because time just
flies by. Because I made the comment the other day
like I can't wait for Scotty to get older to
her and Root can play because I know it's going
to be magical. And then Charles like, we can wait,
like we gotta enjoy, like just enjoy Scotty Army crawling

(27:51):
around right now. I like to think she's like, oh, Papa,
Team six, I got crawls because she's not crawling yet.
She'll like get up to her hands and knees and
kind of like like rock back and forth.

Speaker 3 (28:01):
Oh you about the girl, and then she'll go back.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Down to the tummy and just her little left foot
and right arm and she just goes.

Speaker 3 (28:06):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
She's got a nice little pivot, nice little pivot foot. Okay,
but you say like I can't wait, and it's you
just gotta remind yourself you enjoy it man.

Speaker 3 (28:15):
Yeah, because it flies.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
We got this stupid picture frame, not stupid. I love
the picture frame. But it's connected to your phone, so
it's like digital and shows all of our family photos.
That's sick and so you just see h great survival kid.
That's actually my survival kid.

Speaker 3 (28:28):
Shout out okay.

Speaker 1 (28:29):
Is a little digital picture frame that connects to an album,
so it's just like running photos. But we just we
see all the old photos of Ruin. I'm just like,
I missed that little girl.

Speaker 3 (28:37):
So she's still.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
Little, like she's still three years old, and we got time,
but she's going to school this month, and I'm like,
I know I'm gonna take it harder than she does
her mom. We're gonna take it hard, way harder than
she does. But it's like, God, her little chubby cheeks
at those early ages. Just God, enjoy every second. Bro,
do your best, because I know it's fucking hard. Right now,
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Speaker 3 (30:10):
I'm Gonna be a wreck. Dude, I'm gonna be a wreck.
It already is starting to happen. Of like, because Scarlett
was so small when she came out. She was five
pounds six ounces. Yeah, and so were little hands and feet.
They look huge. That's the first thing everybody says. They're like, whoa,
we're hands and feet are like long and stuff. And
it's like, well, yeah, because she doesn't have the cherub
chubby hands yet. Yeah, I'm starting to see it in

(30:34):
her hands now, dude. As she's growing like her she's
kind of fluffing up and I'm like, damn, you're growing fast.
You're growing fast. I just got to stay locked in.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
I know my boy who have vacations with. He's my
best man in my wedding, like my best friend growing up.
I like to think of a first generation best friend
nick maybe yeah, nick O g Og, Like he's one
of my first friends I ever had because we went
through like first communion together and then we were in
the same pod and classrooms. Uh, travel with him a
baseball But one of my first friends ever was.

Speaker 3 (31:05):
He good friends with Buddy with the Killer Basement.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
Killer Basement, Killer Basement Dad Brain remind me.

Speaker 3 (31:13):
At his house quite a bit.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
Oh Logan, Logan you're talking about? Oh yeah, that was
the crew right there, Oh Logan. Yeah, any tier ones listening, Yeah,
for Tier Ones a bus and they know the they
know the Lure Logan. But yeah, me Nick Logan, John
Chuck like we had a squad man. But anyway, he
was telling me like, uh, he reminds himself like when

(31:36):
he's like putting he has Grady, who's like a year
and a half, Like he's putting the little one down,
he might be frustrated. He's like, I just stare at
his little hands, dude, and it's just like a reminder
of them just how little and innocent and everything they are.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
Because when they're just going.

Speaker 1 (31:48):
To sleep on you and you're just staring at their hands,
their little feet, and you're just hearing the little breathing noises,
drinking the milk, try to capture it. I wish there
was a bottle you could just It's also they're all like,
I'll just video Scottie. I would with Rue, just like
sleeping and trying to like capture the little noises, and like, man,
I'm gonna weep one day looking at these videos, just

(32:09):
wishing they were this small again.

Speaker 3 (32:10):
I caught her. She's not actually smiling, and I mean
she is smiling in this photo. But I caught her smiling.
That's a good one. That's a good one. It was
pretty good. I'll send it to chef. But I caught
Scarlett smiling. That's her, Like yo, I just pushed a
ship out. I was gonna say, yeah, just like that,
milk just ram through this little body. Damn just shitted

(32:35):
on him and she did. Well we'll find out later. Sorry,
keep going with Nick.

Speaker 1 (32:39):
That was it?

Speaker 3 (32:40):
Oh, that was it. That was it.

Speaker 1 (32:41):
Just a joys like you. So you brought the small
hands and it made me think, like Nick was telling
me that, I'm like, no, bro, it's time just flies?

Speaker 3 (32:48):
Man?

Speaker 1 (32:49):
Can time flies?

Speaker 3 (32:50):
Can I ask a selfish question?

Speaker 1 (32:51):
Absolutely? Puppa Team six?

Speaker 3 (32:53):
Did I come up at all with Nick about the
record button? I let him down? No, because you know
Nick loves you. I told him.

Speaker 1 (33:01):
He texted me after the first episode, says, I love
the new for the Dad's podcast. Sure might be my
favorite podcaster. Well you know he might be your second, right,
Oh buddy, I didn't even make his top five, But
he loves you. Big fan of yours, he told me
to cut you some slack?

Speaker 3 (33:15):
Did he really?

Speaker 1 (33:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (33:16):
And I thought I did the best job I could
in the moment you did, I thought I did the
best job I could. I fully agree, fully agree. As
we discussed on Busting with the boys, and I did
not do a good job of shouting out this show,
I'm busting with the boys. That is on me.

Speaker 1 (33:33):
Yeah, it's you know, shoomless shout out, shameless plug. It's
a bigger audience.

Speaker 3 (33:38):
Yeah, big audiences. We gotta grow.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
We gotta grow. We need pop a team six members.
We need the moms, dads, everybody that enjoys his show
in this podcast. Yeah, you need a dish himunt in
your group chats. You need to comment, share and do
all the fun stuff to get this to build the
brain awareness truly, because even though you say, you know, say,
it gets a lot of reach. However it packs in
whatever the median is. Where it packs in. We know

(34:00):
who's tuned in, who's about Papa Team six? And for
the dads like that's you know, I digress, We both do.

Speaker 3 (34:08):
Yeah, did you have any other comments that stuck out
to you? I really quick, great, great iron Gilly Sure
come on, dog forgetting to push the record button is
a total boofer move, not mad, just disappointed. Great callback
by great iron Gilly.

Speaker 1 (34:24):
And great comment just to let you know like he's
thinking about you, he's rooting for you. Yeah, he just disappointed.
He's like, you don't operate that way. I know you.
You're better than that.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
Also, I've been seeing a lot of comments of Sherman
looks exactly like I thought he would. He looks like
he sounds. And that's just how does that make you?
It makes me?

Speaker 1 (34:47):
Let's go in the therapy room. How does that make
you feel?

Speaker 3 (34:49):
It makes me laugh? Dude, it's somebody ride under that
comment and a jiff of Matt Stafford waving.

Speaker 1 (34:56):
Oh bro, when they say fat Stafford on the internet,
that is my true my favorite.

Speaker 3 (35:01):
And when the beard grows out for him and me,
it does like fat Stafford begins to become a thing. Yeah,
so I love it. The comments were great this.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
Week, top dude. The comments are my favorite, Bro, Denny May,
this is a wife, This is a mom.

Speaker 3 (35:17):
God, shut out the mode.

Speaker 1 (35:20):
Hang on, let's hear it.

Speaker 3 (35:23):
T Okay, she's not a mom yet? Oh right now?

Speaker 1 (35:27):
Her body's building milk Team six Team minus seventeen days
until we become first time parents over here to our
baby girl. Love the pod guys, my hubs has me
locked in every Wednesday watching with him such awesome content
you are putting out in such great community you're building.
It's made my husband even more excited to be joining
Papa Team six. Does that not warm your heart and

(35:50):
make you think should we edit out the gooning? Because
she had to witness that, and she might be thinking,
I think, I don't know if I get on board.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
I think the gooning is the part that we bring
that most TikTok moms and dads don't break. Yeah, we
bring the gooning.

Speaker 1 (36:05):
Yeah, just yeah, just authenticity, just an inside look of
what dads actually talk about and laugh about behind closed doors.

Speaker 3 (36:16):
Carlos is just in his car going yeah Jesus Christ.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
I mean, and you being the younger version of me
being like in gooning, just jerking off like, oh, let's
look it up on the diction.

Speaker 3 (36:26):
I'm like, oh my god, oh yeah, it's the whole thing.

Speaker 1 (36:30):
Yeah, the goon berays, the goom berets.

Speaker 3 (36:34):
And the boofers. There's a there'll be a PT six boofer.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
I do like, so there was a there was a
dad who chimed in Coach Skelley. My one year anniversary
of joining Papa Team six, and I've learned a couple
of things. M So a good lesson from from Papa Skelly.
When you're in the foxhole, strap up that helmet and
keep your head down. But when the bullets stop flying,

(36:58):
make sure you check on mama, because even though you
may have caught some stray bullets, she's looking like Swiss cheese. Two.
Know when you just stepped on a land mine, a
dad loss and go down a hero, say sorry. And three,
the enemy is the only enemy. Wait and three the

(37:23):
enemy is only the enemy for a season. It will
get better. That's it. That's good that, dude.

Speaker 3 (37:32):
I like the enemy is only an enemy for like
just right now, because it's already starting with Scarlett of
like I said this last week, the little problems and issues,
Like I feel like there's new problems and issues each week,
but there's other problems in issues from the previous week
that it's like figure that one out, Yeah, got that

(37:52):
one solved, onto the next, let's fuck up something new. Yeah,
it's fun, dude, dude, It's a revolving door of new experiences.
I love it.

Speaker 1 (38:03):
Should we we we gotta keep today we we honestly
we got to keep this one under now or get
into our segments. How long have we actually been going
Chef thirty five for real? That's so we're we're pretty
much at the halfway point of the podcast.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
We shot last week before we got word that we
were before I went.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
And these are the vibes too. Vibes are still great.
Vibes are still great on the episode, but we were
having incredible vibes because we were.

Speaker 3 (38:35):
Like, we are right now. Do you want to kick
us off with what? Whatever? You want to kick us off?
I know we usually start with dad losses. Do you
want to crack a cold one first? Switch it up
a little bit.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
Dude, I have a lot we can do. Crack a
cold one first, because I got a lot of crack
of cold ones.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
You do, dude, go, you go.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
Just because we spent a week Saturday to Saturday in Canada,
yep up in bamf can More. We're like, I think
it's called Yoho. But we hit all these different lakes,
Lake Moraine, Lake Louise, Gosh, there's another one, Lake Moraine,
Lake Louise. There's a third one. There's a third one.

Speaker 3 (39:16):
They call it Lake Gatorade because that's what it looked like.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
Bro Let me hang on. Let me just for those at.

Speaker 3 (39:23):
Home or those listening or watching, switch like very quickly
google search Bamp. That's b A n FF Canada, and
oh my god, the views are insane. I mean, Will's
gonna go into it.

Speaker 2 (39:40):
Send me some pictures. I'll put them in the episode.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
I gotta think of this third lake, this third lake.

Speaker 3 (39:44):
I have you keep going on watx poetic just a
little bit. Uh, would shout out to my buddy, Actually,
I forgot to tell you this.

Speaker 5 (39:51):
Will.

Speaker 3 (39:52):
My buddy Derek was up in Bamp with his mom.
They were playing golf up there at that same resort
that Will was staying at, and uh, a part of me,
I wish that you guys had run into each other
and I got the most epic selfie of all time
from him. It did not happen, But shout out Derek,
who also enjoyed bamf.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
Emerald Lake, Emeralds Emerald Lake. So we had Sunshine Meadows, Lake, Moraine,
Lake Louise, Emerald Lake, Johnston Canyon or Johnston Falls Marble Canyon,
Downtown bamf Cascade Garden.

Speaker 3 (40:24):
HM.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
The trip was unreled, so I have a lot of
crack of cold ones, and my first crack of cold
one is just I was mentioning Nick earlier, Nick being
one of my first friends ever, yeah, and being my
my He's like, he's my best friend.

Speaker 3 (40:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:39):
But getting to go on vacation with him and his
kiddos and his family and seeing like Rue is three
and Hudson is four, and getting to see them play
in their dynamic and just like sitting back with my
boy and just being like, buddy, how crazy is it
that we're thirty five, We're dads with families, a couple
of kiddos and two oldest are playing right now and

(41:02):
getting along.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
Getting a long dude. They looked freaking cute. Bro chilling
that one window pick where Ruth's pointing out the window
and Hudson's right next year, Yeah, she's telling.

Speaker 1 (41:13):
Him some she was pointing at birds, bro like damn
their homies. And it was so funny because I was
watching for the first time Rue have interest in this boy, Hudson.

Speaker 3 (41:27):
Yeah, And it was a true like boy.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Girl dynamic to where Rue was just talking his ear
off and Hudson ain't wanting to talk sometimes a couple
of times and where Ruth's crying and she's like comes over,
like what's wrong, sweetheart. She's like, Hudson doesn't want to
talk to me, and I'm just like, oh, he's just
you know, he's just hanging out. He's just trying to
chill right now and play with his motorcycles. He's trying
to play with this four wheelers and she's bummed that

(41:50):
Hudson doesn't want to talk to him. And it was
just it was so fun to just watch and kind
of like chuckle and laugh and also kind of think, hey, Hudson,
he better tighten your ship up.

Speaker 3 (42:01):
Yeah, what the fuck.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
Don't be breaking my daughter's heart now, breaking my daughter's
art now that video?

Speaker 3 (42:08):
Yeah, yeah, keep your hands.

Speaker 1 (42:11):
I would talk to him with these like some of
these stern voices at times, because I know him like
we we obviously I've been around him several times, but
it's like he we're not like around each other all
the time to where like when I'm getting my voice
and talking, certainly, he's a got that He's got like
those eyes where he's like what we were at uh,
we were at breakfast and rud drew this or they

(42:34):
set you up, they sit you down, and they give
the kids like coloring sheets. So they're drawing bears and
Rue finishes beautiful, beautiful blue bear, all blue, a little
yellow in it. Yeah, yeah, blue bear. And she wants
to go show Hudson. And this is later in the week,
so I've got a little bit.

Speaker 3 (42:54):
Better rapport with Hudson. Yeah yeah, yeah. And I'm like,
go show Hutson, go show him.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
And as she's walking over there and go hey, honey,
he looks over and I go, you better tell her
you like it. He's four, he's boorty. He's like looking
down at the table. I'm probably like this far away
from him.

Speaker 3 (43:12):
He's like.

Speaker 1 (43:14):
And then rub comes over.

Speaker 3 (43:15):
She's like, honey, how do you look look at my bear?

Speaker 1 (43:17):
And he just goes I like it.

Speaker 3 (43:28):
I'm so sorry, Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
And then like she's still talking here he was talking
and you were talking a million miles and how And
I go, honey, I go tell her she did a
good job.

Speaker 3 (43:39):
And he's like, you did a good job. And yone
runs back to me. He likes it.

Speaker 1 (43:45):
He likes I know, he does, sweetheart, that's awesome.

Speaker 3 (43:50):
Oh my god, dude.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
And when they're over there and and that bird photo
that you're talking about, Rude like you can get up
and sit on like that side of the all to
like look out the window. And she's like, Hudson, do
you want to sit up here with me and hold hands?
And we're chuckling and Hudson sitting at the table and
I was like, Hudson, you better get up there. He
doesn't go up there because he's like coloring or doing whatever.

(44:13):
But we're laughing and Charl's like, will are you in
a spot to where you you're more upset? You'd be
more upset that Hudson like holds her hand, and it's
like you know the boy girl dynamic or if he
wouldn't hold her hand. And I'm like, I'm at the
point to where he better get his ass up there
and hold her hand because I don't want her to
be sad.

Speaker 3 (44:28):
Yeah, you gotta listen to Rude. You gotta do what
my daughter said.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
Yeah, yeah, because what I do before when your your
daughter's not around any boys or doing that stuff, and
you're like, oh, they're not gonna date until they're here
they're there, You're like, no boys, no, this, no, that
to where I'm seeing something in real time and I'm
just thinking, hey, Hudson, you better get your little ass
up there and hold her hand.

Speaker 3 (44:46):
You're gonna be the dad. Do YO have moms for?
Like I'm coming? Do you know what a mom is?

Speaker 1 (44:50):
A mom?

Speaker 3 (44:51):
Those big flowers? Do you do you have moms?

Speaker 1 (44:54):
No big flowers?

Speaker 3 (44:56):
I know it's like a Texas thing, but it's like
flowers made out of ribbons. It's a big fucking deal
for any Texas listeners or Arkansas and Oklahoma. I think
that moms too. But if you were my date, Will,
I would get this big old honking mom that says
your name on it says Will, and it's in our

(45:17):
school colors, and you would wear that to the homecoming game.
And since I got you a really big one, it's
basically an engagement ring for high schoolers, if that makes sense.
Will would be the dad that goes up to the
boyfriend two weeks before homecoming and slips them one hundred.
And that would be fucking big, big, And you know

(45:37):
what I'm talking about.

Speaker 1 (45:40):
I don't know how I'm gonna handle dating. I really
don't I would love to get put on any parenting
books about prepping for it, because I want to say
I would love to reenact The Bad Boys too. Will Smith,
Martin Lawrence coming up, answering the door just so you
get a gun out. Huh you smoke that shit?

Speaker 3 (46:00):
You smoking, don't you? You're high right now?

Speaker 1 (46:03):
Yeah, hey, you better have her home by ten. Ain't
gonna be no in the night. My homies roll out,
Ludacris playing in the background.

Speaker 3 (46:12):
He's just the entire time it says, yeah, yes, sir.

Speaker 1 (46:15):
I'm sorry. He just got out of prison.

Speaker 3 (46:17):
I just got out of jail, and I ain't going back.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
I ain't going back.

Speaker 3 (46:24):
What he said?

Speaker 1 (46:25):
You ever made love to him? Man, No, sir, you
want to dude, that guy won't be chitty chitty bang
bang that guy's face. I hope everybody watching has seen
Bad Boys do. That scene is iconic. If not, go
watch it on you That scene on.

Speaker 3 (46:39):
YouTube right now. Such a good scene. Dude. Oh where
was I going? The dating?

Speaker 1 (46:44):
Oh the dating.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
Literature that you want to get into.

Speaker 1 (46:47):
Yeah, I don't know what I'm gonna do. I think
that any boy that she probably dates, I'm just gonna
have like a good one on one talk with this gentleman.

Speaker 3 (46:57):
That'd be sick.

Speaker 1 (46:57):
Dude, give everybody the benefit of doubt. I'm sure I'll
do a first you know, first one off the bus.
What they look like when they come off the bus,
what I think of I'll probably prejudge him a little bit. However,
I think I'll just sit him down, man the man,
and just essentially let them know how important my daughter
is to me and her mom in there, and more

(47:18):
of like a respect conversation, so that way he can
at least feel my voice, I guess, feel my energy,
feel my I don't know like what she means to me.

Speaker 3 (47:30):
Can I tell you our chef's got something too, and
that I got some I got a.

Speaker 2 (47:34):
Good one for you real quick.

Speaker 4 (47:35):
This happened to a good friend of mine when he
first met his girlfriend's parents.

Speaker 2 (47:40):
They talked and it was all great. Sorry, and as
he was walking out.

Speaker 1 (47:45):
Come on, clear, clear, clear throat.

Speaker 3 (47:47):
Chef's got it. He's got you got I'm sorry. Good show,
it's a kid, good show. Moms are watching.

Speaker 4 (47:56):
As he was leaving, the dad goes, hey, wait one
second and rosen something in the air.

Speaker 2 (48:01):
My buddy catches it. He looks in his hand and
it's a shotgun.

Speaker 4 (48:04):
Shillcues you see that, and he goes yeah, and he
goes comes at you a lot faster when you're running
off my front lawn.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
He's like, don't be a jackass.

Speaker 1 (48:13):
See that's a good fear tactic.

Speaker 3 (48:14):
That's a good fear tactic.

Speaker 1 (48:15):
I want to do fear tactics, but I almost want
him to know the respect level that he's going to
have for not only my daughter but for us.

Speaker 3 (48:23):
I have a really, really good one. It has stuck
with me my entire life. I so, first off, shout
out Coach Wright. He was a coach at Aledo. This
dude is such a fucking sicko. By the way, I
can't believe I haven't told you about Coach Right. He
would get the Alito logo branded on his arm every
state championship that they would win. He said, every state

(48:45):
championship that we win, I'll make a custom Alito logo
and I'll brand myself. And they would do it in
the Cowboys Stadium locker room after the state championship. He
would let the kids go in there with the brand
and hold on. This dude's a psychopath in the best way.
Possible had a daughter two grades below me. She played soccer.
The boys and girls team were very close with each

(49:07):
other in high school. And all the boys and girls
are going to the same place. Where are going to
like Buffalo Wild Wings or something. She happens to be
riding in my car. I get a text, or I
get a call later that day from an unknown number.
I answer it, Sherman, this is coach right, hey, coach, yeah,
blah blah. I hear my daughter is gonna be riding

(49:28):
in your vehicle today. I go, yes, sir, goes. I
want to tell you something. Her life has been in
my hands, my entire life. It's been in my hands,
and she's now getting in your vehicle. Her life is
in your hands when you're driving my daughter around, and
you got that. I go yes, sir, and he goes,

(49:49):
I like you. You're a good kid. I know that
you're gonna be safe when you're driving. You're gonna make
sure everybody's gonna have their seatbelt on. Blah blah blah, Yes, sir, Yes, sir,
All right, Sherman, I'll have fun. Hangs up on me.
I was like, I like that, man, Yo. It scared
the fuck out of me. But he didn't say anything scary.
You didn't threaten me, right, but it's scared the fuck

(50:10):
at me. And dude, I was ten into that entire
I have never driven safer in my life because I
had his daughter in my hands at that moment. Yeah,
it was awesome.

Speaker 1 (50:20):
I love that because it's almost too like I'm trying
to picture if if I'm getting a phone call like that,
or you're having a conversation like that, it's like you're
also being made aware that dad is also going to
have a relationship with you, Like he's going to communicate
to you, yes, like one on one, like we'll be
able to talk about this and then also, hey, have
a great night tonight.

Speaker 3 (50:38):
Oh yeah, and I'm sure that daughter was probably like
you know, because he had to have asked somebody for
my number. Yeah, like I didn't have his number. He
was my coach.

Speaker 4 (50:48):
Like.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
I love too that he walked you through. I know
you're gonna have everybody's seat build on.

Speaker 3 (50:51):
Oh yeah, oh dude.

Speaker 1 (50:53):
He was usually no, you know the male brain, you
know how we operate. Yeah yeah, high school college like animals, bro, Yes, dude,
And so those thoughts always kind of you know, they
come into my brain. Another he in The Strong Father's
Strong Daughters. There's a story of the author. I don't
know if it was her dad or she was like
telling a story. But say you're supposed to be home

(51:14):
by ten o'clock, around like nine point fifty, her dad
or the dad would go outside and start doing yard work.
So that way when they pulled in, ain't gonna be
no funny business taking a little extra long in that
in that driveway. Dad just gonna be out there just
doing nothing until she walks in and you know, you
give it a little wave goodbye. You know what I'm talking about.
You pull in, bro, Hey, we got ten minutes to kill.

(51:36):
I had a good time tonight.

Speaker 3 (51:39):
Dad comes everybody you know and get some smooching going on.

Speaker 1 (51:42):
Next thing, you.

Speaker 3 (51:42):
Know, dad's got shovel over his shoulders.

Speaker 1 (51:45):
Yeah, you pull in and see Dad out there working shit.
So I like that technique.

Speaker 3 (51:51):
You're gonna be such a good dad for that. Like
prom night pickup. I want to be at the Compton
Household for prom night pickup. You just answering the door.
Yeah you got Oh you got her caressage. It's a
nice looking carissage.

Speaker 1 (52:06):
I got her one too. Just pull out a bigger one.

Speaker 3 (52:11):
And that's the word I was looking for. Mom's kind
of like a caressage but made of ribbons. Okay, saying
on cracker cold one, Yeah, sang on crack. Did you
have more?

Speaker 1 (52:22):
I could talk about Canada all day long.

Speaker 3 (52:23):
Yeah. So you go ahead and knock out your cracker
cold one. Okay, cracker cold one. We're crib training, so
we have the sleep schedule of Moms on Call, which
is a book very similar to twelve Hours and twelve Weeks.
You and I texted briefly about this. Will and Taylor,

(52:44):
uh like very kindly as part of my uh paternity
leave here at Busting because I am still coming in
like twice a week. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (52:54):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (52:54):
They included a night nurse, uh for the days that
I come into the office, I think, and can have
a night nurse that night. It just so happened that
that Mom's on Call book, the night nurse that we
had won whatever that was like Wednesday or Thursday night,
comes over and we find out.

Speaker 1 (53:14):
That she used to be.

Speaker 3 (53:17):
A not a client, but you're a It starts with
the C you're helping people. You're a consult coach, a consultant, coach.
You know what it was, actually coach. I was looking
for it. You're right, I think it's funnier that it's consultant.
I'm just coach coach. But she was a consultant as

(53:37):
well as a coach because she would help people with
this book and anyway she comes in. Her name's Rebecca.
Shout out Rebecca so sweet an employee of Carla's. Shout
out Carla. But yeah, dude, I mean she was like
the earlier that you start, I saw that you'll have
moms on call, y'all doing that. What's y'all's nightly routine. Yeah,

(53:59):
we want to get in into moms on call, and
we want to start with the zero to three weeks plan.
The sooner that you get her on it, the better.
I think the zero to three weeks, like you know,
there will be some little pains and this and that,
but you get her on it, she's going to adhere
to it faster. This is why kind of broke down
the signs to us. Mean, oh, dude, Jill and I

(54:22):
are sleeping in the same bed and like able to
just without a night nurse because now I can come
back and lay in bed with Jill and have Scarlett
on the monitor, and Scarlet's taken to the crib very
very well, which is to be respected you Yeah, yeah,

(54:43):
it is to be expected with the younger ones because
they still don't really know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
But you're still like I for everybody listening and talk.
You know, if you're into sleep training, there's a lot
of different methods out there. Yeah, you talk about a
book called Mom's on Call Call. I know, I've referenced
twelve hours by twelve weeks or twelve hours and twelve weeks. Yeah,
there's a lot of differ methods, but a lot of
it if you like dive into all that stuff. It's
just like the routine of them knowing their environment. You know,
when the curtains close, you put them on the changing table,

(55:09):
you start changing their diapers, slip them into their pj's.
You're closing the curtains, you're turning on the sleep the
seal machine, you're reading, whether you have a night lamp
next to you, and you're sitting there feeding in the bottle,
and you got some go to books that you read.
You're like training their mindset to know, hey, it's time
to This is when we start winding down and going
to bed, and which is different from like a nap.
Like you know, you'll train also doing nap time, but

(55:32):
like again, it's like getting all of their surroundings and
environment right to where their brain starts to figure out, Hey,
this is when it's time to rest, this is when
it's time for bedtime.

Speaker 3 (55:41):
This is your final feed, this is big feed beforetime. Yeah,
like it was so cool. I don't want to spoil
my dad loss because it is a fun one. But
you'll see in that story. Initially, Scarlett was in the
basinette with us in our room, very fussy, very very

(56:03):
fussy in the bacinet and we had been doing the
crib training before that. Mom was a little worried you'll
find out later why, so she wanted to keep a
close eye on Scarlet, so we had her in bacinet.
She's fussy, she's fussy. Jill falls asleep. I go do
my first change on night shift, and I just thought
to myself, Hey, I'm gonna help Jill get some sleep
and get some rest. Let's try the crib and I'll

(56:26):
keep a close eye on Scarlet on the monitor and
bro it you could see the difference in scarlet. Once
she got the sleepsack on and I put her in
the crib, she was like, this is the spot where
I sleep, Like, this is the spot where I'm comfortable.
This is the sounds and like it. Dude, it was cool.

(56:47):
And that's after like four nights. Yeah, but you could
tell that there was a major difference of bacinett. What
the hell is this? I want to be in that
shit crib? Oh hell yeah, this is yes, right, it
was awesome.

Speaker 1 (57:02):
And two it's like there are babies that do just
fine in the bastin that there are I wanted like
my mom because I remember I was like six or seven.
I was six when White was born, and I just
always remember like we slept not in a bassinet, but
just a close hamper next to the bed. I love that,
I know, like one of them wide you go to
the ground wide close hampers and we just slept next

(57:24):
to the bed. But there are babies that do well.
It's just every baby is different. You figure it out
like as you're going in. But I like, I know,
like myself, my wife too, It's like you you like
to have some kind of plan going into something, and
then if you got to deviate. You dev eight, but
at least you understand a toolbox by these methods, like
when there's times to deviate when and not make something

(57:45):
a habit. I love that though. That fires me up.
Have you tried, like a dad lost mind? Have you
tried putting that stuffed animal in the crib?

Speaker 3 (57:53):
Nor do I need to? No?

Speaker 1 (57:56):
No, Well I was supposed to say, like I put
a little stuffed animal on there and try. Yeah, Charles
c on the monitor, you.

Speaker 3 (58:01):
Got stuff that. Yeah, I thought you. I thought she's
like a stuffed animal. She's like sweeter.

Speaker 1 (58:04):
You can't put nothing in the crib when they're this little.
Oh he like goes upstairs and like, shit, I did
well just being she liked this line. I got her
being married to a nurse. That stuff was ingrand beforehand. Yeah,
like I know that that's so off limits, it's not
even funny. Yeah, I do not mess with if I
put a little uh bird cloth over the thing. But

(58:26):
to the point to where she's her arms are now
out and she can kind of move around and kind
of grab stuff, So you can't have something hanging on
the crib.

Speaker 2 (58:32):
Why is that suffocate It's.

Speaker 1 (58:33):
Like Sid's like if they were to get trapped or
caught to where they can't. Like Scarlet's young enough, she's
probably not able to, like roll over on her own.
It's like if she does and be like, oh shit,
she rolled over on her own. But a lot of
babies are not able to. If they get in that
spot and there's something stuffed in their face, it can
suffocate them.

Speaker 3 (58:49):
And SID stands for sudden infant uh death syndrome, which
is basically them passing away in their sleep.

Speaker 1 (58:56):
Right, So a lot of times, all the times you'll see,
like when you have your first kid, like they'll be
in the crib or they'll be wherever they're at basting,
that crib doesn't matter and there just won't be anything
in there because they're laying on their back. You don't
want them to risk any like there won't be any
pillow or nothing like that. We interrupt this episode because
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Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
Because even it's funny, dude, like even Scarlett in her
environment like with the passy. Right now, we'll put her
in with the passy. Which is a big difference between
twelve weeks and or twelve hours and twelve weeks and
moms on call is that they mom's on call allows
a passifire.

Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
We allow, I mean roue had a passing until three.

Speaker 3 (01:00:31):
Oh well then there you go like, yeah, I knew that, Yeah,
I knew that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
And like Scotty will have this woman up. She's not
a big passy gal, which fires me. Up because she's
does she just doesn't mess with PASSI she's not about it. Yeah,
because we tried to do that for her to help
self souons because they can grab these webinoves like the
little mini stuffed animals and they have a little passifar
on the end. Yes, but even Rue still has Tiger.
Tiger was a webinub, just doesn't have the passing up
there anymore because it fell off because it's just getting
you know, just getting raggedy and tossed around, and the

(01:00:56):
pass he fell off at some point. But it's like
the self soothing just have like a little stuffed Tigi's them.
I love it.

Speaker 3 (01:01:02):
Talk to Tigy so much. I got to talk to
Tige all that to say, very excited about the crib training.
Thank you. I mean, Jill would have gotten on the
sleep schedule stuff anyways, because that's Jill. But thank you
for being so on it with the twelve day or
twelve hours and twelve weeks because it did kind of

(01:01:26):
reinforce like, oh, this is important. But I'm seeing the
benefits of the importance of like giving me time, giving
Jill time, building structure now like it's ingrained in my
head Okay, nine o'clock's coming around, so we'll do that
final feed and then you're just.

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
In the know too. Like a lot of it was like, hey,
do this, you should do this, but it's like for
dads out there listening. One way to like you'll have
a massive win with your partner is you digesting a
book on like whether it's sleep training or sleep schedule.
Because a lot of times moms kind of they're the
they're the pioneer, they're the ones leading the charge, and
they're kind of teaching you why it is and you're

(01:02:04):
kind of like learning on the fly, versus if you're
on the same page and you understand a little bit
as well, it puts a massive stresser off of them because.

Speaker 3 (01:02:10):
They know you're in it with them. Yes, dude, Also
really quick, this is my dad hap for the week.
Actually it doesn't. It's a bonus hack. Rebecca was burping
Scarlet like we were doing like this style of burping.
The night nurse like set Scarlett up on her leg
and started just moving her in circles like this, and

(01:02:33):
like with the butt, like Scarlet's butts right here, and
she's just kind of like rotating Scarlet around she's burping
like crazy. Dude, it's so sick. I haven't heard of
that one. That's a good one. Okay, I got I'll
send you a video kill video.

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
Have you dine the motorcycle? You have to get farts out?

Speaker 3 (01:02:50):
Yeah, Jill does. That's so fun.

Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
You get him the motorcycle legs and then push on
their something. Oh, you got a little guests in there.

Speaker 3 (01:02:57):
You know that you can do that with full grown adults. No,
they do it in the hospital all the time. Jill
taught me how to do it. Oh, you literally like
this is such bad radio. But like you make a ball,
you make a fish, and you rub on the top
of the intestine and then down the side of the
intestine and then across again over by the belly button

(01:03:17):
of the bottom intestine, and then get both legs and
push in, pull out, push in, pull out. Repeat that.
If you're ever gassing and feel like shit, dude, you
will start.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
We should make each other far too. We should make
each other far for a social video.

Speaker 3 (01:03:32):
I'll do it. I'll do it, and we'll have Jill
teach us.

Speaker 1 (01:03:35):
I mean, Jill will chef can video and will just
be right here on the floor making each other far.

Speaker 3 (01:03:39):
I'd be laying in bed going and Jill come rub
it out, Dude, get my legs going. And it's just
we have to do that to be fun, have to
do it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
Should we get into dad losses? Yes, any more crackic
cole ones? That was it? Yeah, my crack cold ones.
I mean, vacation was just unreal. But I got some
good dad losses. Okay, cool my dad losses. On the week,
the theme is around hiking our very first hike, Day one.
We's got these new little hiking boots that we got
from Ari.

Speaker 3 (01:04:11):
I shot at Ari. I know, free shoutouts. Sorry, I
he's adorable little hiking boots. He's ready to go.

Speaker 1 (01:04:17):
It's a little rainy and cold outside, but it's our
first one. We're pushing through. This is at a sunshine
mountain or sunset whatever, and Rude doesn't want to hike.
We got I got a carrier most of the time,
or Charro does, or so or Nick my boy Nick,
Papa six was filling in caring her because Grady Grady,
their youngest, he's fussy. I'm right, he's riding on my

(01:04:39):
shoulders at times because I'm trying to I'm trying to
help out my fellow Papazio, like, let me take Grady, Like,
let you know, let's have fun with somebody he's not
as familiar with, because we'll probably just stop and just
be up high, like let's bounce. Oh look at this,
look at this rock. But Dad losses like hiking. Both
of my stories is around hiking, because it's like the
kids was just tough to get hiking. Sometimes if one's hiking,

(01:05:01):
the other one's pissed off. You know, you know what
I mean. It's like Scotty'll be fussy. Oh maybe it's
her feeding time. You get her fed. Oh, she's good
to go. She's knocked out sleeping. You probably saw a
lot of those photos to where she's just hanging out
the back, just knocked out. But she might be good.
And then Rue's upset. She's not one to hike. My
legs don't walk.

Speaker 3 (01:05:19):
I can't whoa no, bro.

Speaker 1 (01:05:21):
We were like and we're sitting there and join the
sights and I just see Rude just coming from behind us.

Speaker 3 (01:05:27):
He's like, like, what, sweetheart, what is it? She's like,
it's too cold, I can't walk.

Speaker 1 (01:05:32):
I need you to hold me, sweetheart. You just get
down here and then deadwe pick yup. I get me inside.

Speaker 3 (01:05:37):
It's too cold. It's too cold. She said that. Yes, bro, man,
shut up, get walking. You tell her how cold he
used to get in Lincoln.

Speaker 6 (01:05:45):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (01:05:45):
She she doesn't know.

Speaker 1 (01:05:47):
She will one day when he's playing against Iowa minus
thirteen degree wind chill. That wait, what is it, lard
whale lord? The maassline on his arms, no sleeves out
in the cold air coming out. That was your old
man out there.

Speaker 3 (01:06:04):
Get dadas inside.

Speaker 1 (01:06:06):
Yeah, you got a hoodie on, you got a jacket on,
you got your your little hiking pants and sweats, you
got your boots on.

Speaker 3 (01:06:12):
Like, just walk.

Speaker 1 (01:06:13):
I'm trying to teach her by the back half. It
was a big win because I'm teaching on my sweetheart,
if you just move faster and run like your body
will heat up. So I'm turning things in the games.
That's a little dad hackers and all the pairents know this,
turning things in the games. So it's like, oh my god,
look at that rock, Like, let's climb up that rock.
There might be a bear. There might be a bear
up there. And then you get them climb on the rock. Hey,
let's run up this hill. I think there's like a
bear or a fox up this hill. And you get

(01:06:34):
running up the hill and it's like, hey, don't you
feel better? She's like yeah, and then she's bragging about
how she walked like the last quarter of the hike.
But you're like, dude, you crushed it. And then you're
kind of building that callous throughout the week. Now we
get to Friday, we're gonna go and see Moraine Lake again.
But we had already seen Moraine Lakes. So I'm like, hey,
let's let's do a pivot. Somebody responded to me on
Twitter and said, we need to hike Mirror Lake. We

(01:06:56):
need to go up and see Mere Lake. They posted
this beautiful photo of Mere or Lake because I posted
one of us hitting the sunset canoe on Lake Louise,
which is all time. Okay, five am wake up was
tough rooting. You know, there's a lot of bitching and
moaning and complaining going on. But it's like, once we
get out to the boat, we'll be riding the boat.
It's gonna beautiful. You're gonna love it.

Speaker 3 (01:07:14):
She loved it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:15):
The sunrise canoe was all time. But we get to
where it's like, all right. The second part, we were
gonna go take a shuttle to the Moraine Lake. We
found out the shuttle you had to have car seats
in it. We didn't want to uninstall the car seats
from the car or from the car garage, reinstall them
in the shuttle. Then you do the whole trip with
the shuttle. You come back from the shuttle, you uninstall
them from the shuttle, you reinstall them in the car.

(01:07:35):
We didn't want to do all that. But I'm like, hey,
I got a great pivot. Somebody responded on Twitter said
we should hike Mirror Lake. This photo looks gorgeous. Yeah,
and he said the kids could handle it. Buddy, this incline,
Oh no, I mean my legs were shaking like a
dog show.

Speaker 3 (01:07:54):
You were, you were hurting that within ten minutes. Who's
this guy?

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:08:00):
I need to go back and back buddy.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
And then I go back on Twitter because I wanted
to respond to him, be like, bro, it was fucking
brutal to because I had the hiking the hiking carrier
on with the little Scottie sitting in the back. Charles
got all the bells and whistles, snacks, these heavy ass water.

Speaker 3 (01:08:15):
Bottles in there.

Speaker 1 (01:08:16):
I'm carrying forty plus in this hiking backpack going up
this hill. Hamstrings are burning. Like I said, my legs
were shaking like a dog shitting peach sheets. Not even
that high up. We're ten minutes in and I'm leaning
on a tree because you know, the rest of the
cruise a little behind me, because people are dragging a
little bit, and I'm thinking, ain't no way the kids
are gonna be able to handle this. Rude can't again,

(01:08:36):
she can't walk. Her legs aren't working. So you're moving
them right now. Just look down and go one step
at a time. I'm trying to do the left. Check
out this song left, left, left, right and left. And
she's crying and it's like you gotta stop. And we
get up to the mirror lake. Now it's a good
it's a good view. Yeah, it wasn't the picture. I

(01:08:57):
got up there and I look back at Nick and
I go, what the hell is this? I mean, it
was still a nice like little lake, but it wasn't
the photo that the dude showed me where there's a
mountains in behind it and it's just this beautiful mirror
looking you see the water and it just looks incredible.
It was Lake Agnes or Lake Agnew or whatever it was.
That's another like eight hundred one thousand meters up.

Speaker 4 (01:09:17):
What is this?

Speaker 3 (01:09:18):
This height was four hours, bro, bro their background trip.
Find out who that was because they won hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (01:09:26):
Set you up, buddy, it was a it was like
a four mile hike round trip.

Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
They set you up.

Speaker 1 (01:09:31):
Grew walked on the way down and we played this
game the entire time, like we were trying to count.
It was like three five onion, three five leopard. It
was three five say any word you want, and we
would just go back and forth all the way down
the mountain. But and I'm saying all the way up
and all the way down like this.

Speaker 4 (01:09:45):
This it was.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
The elevation was like this the entire time. There's no
like walking in and you get a little flat. It's
this the entire time going up this mountain two miles up, bro,
And I'm halfway through it. I'm sitting there.

Speaker 3 (01:09:59):
I'm like, motherfucker, like just full on switchbacks, like going yeah,
but I'm talking long, like there are a couple switchbacks,
but I'm saying long. You'd be looking up the mountain
with zero hope, you know what I mean, Like you
might find one, Okay, once we get around this corner
of my flatten out, or once we get around this
it might be.

Speaker 1 (01:10:18):
It might be easier. Buddy, You're you're looking up. You
couldn't look up. You just had to look down and
think one step at a time. Willie, You fucking got that.

Speaker 3 (01:10:25):
That's the worst part about hiking, of when you're saying
leaning up against the tree is it's like stopping is
almost worse than continuing to go.

Speaker 1 (01:10:33):
Yeah, because I got this this heavy hiking pack on it,
I'm like, I'm like sitting it on rocks, so I'm
just trying to take a break. I'm more in too
many layers at this point, so I'm sweating. I'm sweating everywhere.
And then on the way down it rains the entire time.
But Charli hits me with you got the easier job
as we're walking up. I will toss you off.

Speaker 6 (01:10:55):
This time.

Speaker 1 (01:10:58):
Because I know it's tough with the like she's with
the three year old. It's all of a sudden paralyzed.
She doesn't want to walk, so she's got a carrier.
At times she's gotta slowly walk with her. She's behind
the pack.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
So I get it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:08):
You're in hell with the little one. I'm like, I'm
glad I don't. I'm glad I don't have ru but
this with this weight on my back, like you know
how my L four five and s I joint is
I'm talking decompressed, my disc or fading on me. I'm
still feeling it right now. Hop on that for our
flight back from Canada. I'm getting off and I'm like
having to slowly, like fully extended, because that it was.

(01:11:31):
It was something she had the nerve to hit me
halfway up. He got the easy job.

Speaker 3 (01:11:37):
What'd you say? What you call her? I said?

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
I said, I said, bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:11:45):
You said that?

Speaker 1 (01:11:45):
I said some version of that.

Speaker 3 (01:11:48):
What you said? Said you really said that?

Speaker 7 (01:11:50):
Though?

Speaker 3 (01:11:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:11:52):
Yeah, yeah, I said, I said, good, shut up.

Speaker 3 (01:11:59):
No one in the comments.

Speaker 1 (01:12:01):
Hey, if we post this clip too, you better run
the key and peels of what the reference is. He
was like, what he didn't talk to her like that?

Speaker 4 (01:12:10):
I ate it.

Speaker 1 (01:12:11):
I heard her, and I just I kind of scoffed.
I just said all right, and I kept pushing because
there was no time. That's nobody's coming to save you. Yes,
that's where when you see the comments, I hope your
heart turns black, like you just had to focus on one.

Speaker 3 (01:12:23):
Step at a time. I love that you were leading
the pack too.

Speaker 1 (01:12:26):
But yeah, and the dad lost in all of that
because on the way down, Nick and Rachel and their family,
they're way behind us because Nick's having to carry Hudson.
He's sleeping at this point because he was like, it
was you know, we got up there, your throwing rocks
in the lake. You're having a great time. Ye man Ay,
these moments starts raining on us. And the loss for
me is I'm the one who led us up the mountain. Yeah,
Dade four mile hike, and I didn't know what I

(01:12:47):
was getting too. I'm going off a Twitter comment that says, hey,
you got to check out Mere Lake. Kids can handle it.
I'm ten minutes in being like, I hope it gets
flattered because there ain't no handling this.

Speaker 3 (01:12:57):
But ET six has its first in it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
Yeah, I'll find him.

Speaker 3 (01:13:02):
He's a great guy. Well here's the here's the issue.

Speaker 1 (01:13:06):
I go on Twitter to end up telling him to
break down. But I go on Twitter and he has
another reply. Damn, what is it saying we'll positive, we'll
edit and get get get faster to it.

Speaker 3 (01:13:20):
That's so rough, dude.

Speaker 4 (01:13:21):
Imagine he just accidentally he just messed up the lake
and he looks back at it like two hours later.

Speaker 2 (01:13:26):
Ah, ship, I should probably tell him that's not the one.

Speaker 1 (01:13:28):
It's not. It wasn't The lake was halfway up. Oh dude,
I say. He said, Uh, take hike up to Mere
Lake while you're there.

Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
Worth it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:36):
The kids can handle it. I said, we have changed
our plans and now going to Mere Lake because of
this reply.

Speaker 3 (01:13:41):
Thank you. He hits me with, awesome, we're scrolling. He's scrolling.

Speaker 1 (01:13:51):
Okay, awesome. My wife and I stayed at Morine Lake
Lodge for our anniversary a couple of years ago and
spent the day at Lake Louise. Also, I just looked
at the pigs. That lake is actually called Lake Agnes.
Mere Lake is on the way up, if I remember correctly.

Speaker 3 (01:14:02):
I'm not sure.

Speaker 1 (01:14:03):
He said a couple other things, but I'm stucked on
that the kids can handle it. I want to know
what kind of savages, what kind of Jocko Willings is
he packing in his family?

Speaker 3 (01:14:13):
Well, that's the problem. That's the issue with hiking and skiing.
Slash snowboarding. Is somebody just telling you, hey, the blacks
here are different, Like the blacks and Breckinridge are not
the equivalent of the black.

Speaker 1 (01:14:26):
You're talking about black diamonds. You make that clear, want
to talk about the people you could quite blocks and Wreckerridge.
I'm like, I know he means black diamond. I hope
he says black They're a little different. Yeah, sorry, what
were you gonna say?

Speaker 2 (01:14:41):
Someone had a comedy had a bit on that, some
stand up.

Speaker 3 (01:14:45):
Oh that is right. Somebody did have a good standout
to the.

Speaker 2 (01:14:48):
Gas station and they're like, well, the blacks here are
really rough.

Speaker 3 (01:14:55):
The black diamond. But you're right.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
It's it's almost like I have much other preface. Hey,
it's worth it. It's a little bit of a grind,
so buckle in, yeah, dude, because I'm thinking my first question,
do you have a three year old? If so, is
his name David Goggins? Because my three year old, her
legs stop working immediately.

Speaker 3 (01:15:12):
Because if you if you broke down college football to me, like, hey,
really getting on the team of college football, it's really
not that hard.

Speaker 1 (01:15:19):
Sherman.

Speaker 3 (01:15:19):
Yeah, you could have. Maybe you could have played college football, buddy,
me trying to play D one college football. Not a chance. Yeah,
it's really level to this Woolve's.

Speaker 1 (01:15:30):
Yeah, but I'm sitting there again ten minutes saying like,
holy shit, I hope this gets easier and it it
was that elevation the entire time. Dude.

Speaker 3 (01:15:41):
Uh, there's truly no worse feeling. My mom got hoodwinked
one time into a similar thing of oh my gosh,
you've never been on Galloping Goose Trail, Like it's the
best easiest hike of all time and the views are great.
My mom's like literally stuck on the mountain at one point.
I don't remember the full story, but I mean it
was like she got fucked.

Speaker 1 (01:16:02):
Yeah, I mean if it was just me, my wife Nick,
and his wife Nick and Rachel, Like that's a fun hike.

Speaker 3 (01:16:07):
Yeah, you're going up.

Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
Oh, let's go up to the Lake Agnes or Agnew.
I hate that I keep messing that up. But when
you got forty plus on your back and your three
year old is just not cooperating, I want to meet
this guy's kids. I do too, Jesus Christ. Oh another
dad loss. Yeah, we were sent Papa Team six. Papa

(01:16:31):
Team six soldiers will and Nick were sent on a
mission to go get diapers. We ran out of diapers
on the last day, or we had like one left.
It's like, hey, we need to go get sized four
diapers because we still got the plane ride home. Like,
who knows what Scotti. You know, you gotta have diapers.
Make sure you pack enough diapers, but we were running low.
Nick and his side, they were also running low. She
also told Nick, hey, you need to go get some

(01:16:52):
baby wipes too. We need wipes and we need five.
So he's getting sized five. I'm seeking size four. We
called down to the village because you got to drive
fifteen minutes down the mountain to get diapers. Yeah. Yeah,
we get down to they're like, yeah, we got size four.
We don't have size five. But Nick's gonna go and
get baby wipes. And we're just gonna go. Hey, Nick
and I, we're just gonna run the solo mission.

Speaker 3 (01:17:08):
We'll do it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:09):
You know, have them stay back, take care of the cakes.
You get a breath of fresh air, and I get
to talk to my boy because I feel like I
don't get to talk to him whole time, because when
you're on vacation with another family, you're not at dinner
catching up. You're at dinner negotiating with your kids to eat.
You're not really having intimate conversations. You're you're in the
trenches the entire time as parents, trying to.

Speaker 3 (01:17:27):
Be like, hey, how do you usually do this?

Speaker 1 (01:17:28):
Yeah, we usually go this route, like, let's work together
to try and corral all these minions the entire time.
So it's a nice breath of fresh air. Me and
my boy Nick, we're gonna drive down to the village.
We're gonna get some diapers. We go down, simple mission,
get fourst get fives, get wipes. We get down to
the village grocery store and we're in the aisle and
we're seeing fours and fives and we don't know which

(01:17:50):
brand to get. So me and him both are on
the phone calling our wives asking about, hey, there's Pampers here,
there's Huggies, Like, which brand do you want us to get?
And so my dad loss is just not being able
to accomplish the simplest task of going to just pick
up some diapers. Why do you got to call mom like, yeah,
I'm sure they got tolle. It's like they can't do

(01:18:11):
one simple thing and We're both in Aisle two, both
of us walking on you know, on the phone, and
I'm laughing. We're both start laughing because I'm like, look
at us. We can't go down this mountain and just
pick up diapers. We have to call our wives to
make sure we're getting the right ones. So that was
my that's my final Dad, Low dude, I couldn't. I
could not agree with you. More was that Target.

Speaker 3 (01:18:31):
I believe two days ago, we have some bougie wipes
that Jill has an order off the internet, and she goes, yeah,
we can get these Target brand wipes for her face
because you know they're ninety nine percent water, and I go,
the ones that we have at home are ninety nine
percent water. Why why are we getting And she was like,

(01:18:53):
those are the expensive ones. You don't use those on
her face. We get the store brand for that. I
was sitting over there pushing the all going I think.

Speaker 1 (01:19:01):
We do like the Coterie diapers. I think they absorb
a lot more like the overnight diapers. It's like you
can go and get overnight diapers, but these ones are
like an all purpose.

Speaker 3 (01:19:11):
Yeah, that's what we have. And then Codrie, I don't
know Coterie Coterie Code Codie, yeah, Code, we have the
wipes too, the Koterie wipes we use, is it honeywell,
honeywell honest, honest, yeah, honest. Okay, yeah, yeah, I've seen

(01:19:32):
that too, dude.

Speaker 1 (01:19:33):
It's so funny when Scarlett gets older and they get
done pooping. That's like, you know, if she goes pee,
she can do it by herself, she can get tole
paper and do all that. But when they're pooping, it's
so funny, Dad, I need you come wipe, and I'll
like walk in the bathroom and she's already like down
and hands on the ground, but up and stuff, and
it's just so funny because their heads just like in
the ground.

Speaker 3 (01:19:54):
It's just like, oh my god. I do like I
don't think about it at all when I'm doing diapers changes,
and I think the other night, like I I truly
kind of thought about what I was doing, and I
laughed because I had some extra uh oh man, I
know the name of destining the destining diaper rash cream.

(01:20:14):
And you gotta put it, you know, on the cheeks,
and then you gotta kind of get in between the
cheeks too and put it on there and whenever I
have extra destining, I just wipe it on my leg
like I'm just like, oh, I'll just wipe it off.
And then I was thinking about it. That's what I'm saying, dude.
Once I thought about.

Speaker 1 (01:20:30):
It, I say, you get ship on your hand and
you'll wipe it on your pant let.

Speaker 3 (01:20:33):
Well, no, this is after I've like cleaned her off,
cleaned her off, like I've wiped her with wipes, and
then I get the little cream because you know she's
all slick and clean. I get in there. Yeah, okay,
I would wipe it off on my leg not thinking anything. Okay, yeah,
I do that too. And then I thought to myself,
I did just get all up in that business. In

(01:20:55):
that business. Yeah, you put your finger in the hole
and you're just wiping it on your pant lets out
my leg like, oh yeah, that's fine, buddy.

Speaker 1 (01:21:02):
When you start, when you start wiping out, so they
go number two. It's it's just so funny, dude.

Speaker 3 (01:21:07):
That's hilarious. I didn't even think about that. Yeah, I'll
do my dad lost really quick for anyone that falls me.
Got to keep it under an hour, God, to keep
it under an hour for anyone that follows me on Twitter.
The Battle of Helm's Deep, which for Lord of the
Rings fans out there, they know what that is. If
you are not a Lord of the Rings fan, I

(01:21:29):
highly advise you to go watch the original trilogy.

Speaker 1 (01:21:33):
Have you?

Speaker 3 (01:21:33):
Are you a big Lord of the Rings guy?

Speaker 1 (01:21:34):
I have watched a Lord of the Rings. I've only
watched it around one time.

Speaker 3 (01:21:37):
Oh no, it's Taylor that hasn't seen it. Like he
was too scared. I think he tells the story where
he was like too scared as a kid. Yeah, but god,
great movies. Anyways, there's an epic battle Helm's Deep and
holy shit. So to preface this entire story, Taylor had

(01:21:58):
a end of the year intern party at his house,
a swim party to celebrate the interns and tell him
good job. We're like, we gotta showface at this party,
like it I need to say bye to the interns.
We need to get out of the house. Like you
can meet the baby, they can meet the baby. Jill
is fully on board. She's like, you do need to

(01:22:20):
show face at this party. We need to be good
about showing up to things and not making scarleting excuse
to miss out on stuff. Love that everyone's on the
same page. So Jill is being an absolute superhero and
packing the diaper bag. She's crushing it. But I do
technically have I got a little win because she had
a little oopsie. She had a mom loss and instead

(01:22:42):
of doing a scoop and a half of formula, which
would equal three ounces, she did two scoops and a
half of formula because we were rushing out of the house. Okay,
so after Taylor's we get in the car and where
ann Taylor's driveway. She's starts fussing. Jill goes, I'm just
going to feed her in the car. I said, Okay,

(01:23:04):
I'll text Taylor and just tell them, hey, we're just
we're parked in your driveway. Everyone pretty much has left
at this point. If you see my car, we're just
feeding Scarlet. We'll head out. Jill dumps all two and
a half of that formula into the bottle, mixes it up,
so Scarlet's working with like three times the carbs of
what is normally put into her body at feeding time.

(01:23:28):
Fast forward to Dad's night shift later that night. She
knocks it down easy, knocked it down and passes out,
and we're like, wow, she was really sleepy. The pool
must have taken it out of her. I mean, she's
so sleepy. Oh my gosh. Later that night, I do
first diaper change at the beginning of my night shift.
There's no poop. I go, oh, okay, well that's happened before.

(01:23:52):
There's pe in here though, so everything's working. Second diaper change,
Oh there's no poop. Okay, we're really rocking right now.
Look is on my side.

Speaker 1 (01:24:01):
God is God is with me.

Speaker 2 (01:24:02):
God is good.

Speaker 3 (01:24:03):
I was like, uh, but like, okay, like that's kind
of weird, but whatever. I get to my final one,
which is like four thirty five o'clockish in the morning.
In the morning is around the time of the final one,
and I change her diaper and again there's no pooper. Pete.
I put bottle in her mouth, and Dude, as soon
as bottle hits her mouth, it was truly Sourn's forces.

(01:24:28):
The Orcs were marching on Helm's Deep and the dun
dun dun, dun, dund dunk like piss and shit is
leaking out of her onesie. She shits so much that
it seeped through the diaper. It wasn't even a blowout, dude,
it was like seeping through all of her stuff because

(01:24:49):
it was a backlog of like the last three feeds
in that triple carb feed that we did. I'm I'm
just laughing at this point because I'm like, okay, now
I'm in it, Like this is what everybody's been talking about.
I'm in it. And dude, I'm feeling the hot stuff
just go down my chest. Oh my god, oh yeah,

(01:25:10):
all over me. I'm like, this is fine, We're fine.
I get her on the changing table.

Speaker 1 (01:25:16):
She's shitting all over you.

Speaker 3 (01:25:18):
It's the pea coming out, really, but the pea is
getting filtered through the shit and the diaper, so it's
like shitty piss. That's like leaking all over me. Oh buddy.
And I'm like, okay, but hey, we're fine, we're fine.
We'll get through this. I got used to wipes on her.
I'll get her cleaned off. So I get her cleaned off.
She's being she's being great, super easy on the changing table,

(01:25:40):
and I'm like, that wasn't that bad, look, Scarlett.

Speaker 1 (01:25:43):
We got it.

Speaker 3 (01:25:44):
We got the change. I got your diaper change, I
got you in a new outfit. You're all clean. Let's
put some lotion on you. Let's take you to the spa.
You love lotion, so I'm doing the lotion on her.
She's loving it. Get her in her new outfit just
waterfall because she has this whole backlog of all these
feeds in her belly, spits up all over the new change.

(01:26:06):
I'm like, hey, that's okay, let's burpy a little bit.
Blah blah blah. She's over there just burping like a champ.
Wipe her down, Wipe her down. Didn't change diaper because
I was like, she didn't put new outfit on all
over that that. We're now on the third outfit. So
I did three outfit changes. She was into her fourth one.

(01:26:28):
Only had to do one diaper change technically too, but
I survived the battle of Holmes deach we are good,
but it was crazy. You're better me, she would, we
would just it's gotta dry.

Speaker 1 (01:26:43):
Her off.

Speaker 3 (01:26:43):
You listen, we got this outfit on you.

Speaker 1 (01:26:47):
You gotta dry Jill.

Speaker 3 (01:26:48):
Before that too, had a not argument, but a stern
talking to you about setting mom up for success. At
the beginning of her shift. Oh, she said at Bustin,
when you call out, I bet you not half asset.
You seem to really put in full effort whenever you're
clocking out, whenever you're leaving, whereas with baby Scarscar sometimes

(01:27:11):
when we're clocking out, we just do the motions and
then here you go, Mom, I'm gonna go pass out.
None of the bottles are washed, none of the things
are done, et cetera. I said, honey, that's a great note,
and I'm going to take that and run with it.
And so that's in the back of my head as
I was doing a multiple outfit chang. I feel that.

(01:27:32):
But I have a new metal that I thought we
could bring into our lure of Instead of a purple heart,
it's the purple shart. And I got my I earned
a purple shart. I love that. For getting shitted on
by my daughter. Yeah, I rock with that. But that

(01:27:54):
was my dad loss.

Speaker 1 (01:27:56):
You handled it well, thank you. You know it sounds
like you kept the opt miss them up. I saw
the tweet, I saw the post Buddy he's in.

Speaker 3 (01:28:03):
For Oh dude, it was hey, you know, I dramatized that.
I put all the outfits on. I went into the
dirty clothes hamper and pulled all of them out and
put them on there. Yeah, made it look more like
a battlefield since we got to keep it under Now
are gonna hit these calls? Please please? Let's who's our

(01:28:25):
first call in?

Speaker 2 (01:28:25):
First call in is what a fellas?

Speaker 3 (01:28:29):
This is Trey and chatting is I have a tray
and chattananogos okay.

Speaker 5 (01:28:34):
Request because as a dad who logged a lot of
movies with my kids, I would love.

Speaker 4 (01:28:41):
To hear you guys talk about some movies that you
have logged.

Speaker 5 (01:28:44):
With your kids. Which ones are your favorites, not just
for the sake of entertainment, but it's like death, even developing,
even like good movies to watch with your daughters, you know, like, hey,
this is a great one. But yeah, I heard Will
talking about Mowanna and Unfortunate. Only Teffedi's not the bad guy,
will he. Teffedi's just the other side of the what

(01:29:06):
is it the heart necklace where you know our boy
Maui stole it from the heart of Taffiti. So when
her heart was restored, she was the big, old, green,
giant looking lady that laid down on the mountain range
and that was the end of that story. It's kind
of a you know, a analogy for us as people
where he can have anger and rage whenever you know

(01:29:26):
something's taken away and then kind of making things right.

Speaker 1 (01:29:29):
You knows.

Speaker 3 (01:29:30):
All that's to say, Will just Milan is a fucking classic.
So all that to say, will Wana is a fucking classic.
He's out here defending Milana with his life, which I
love it. Trey and chat Uga, he said, defending Traffedi's

(01:29:52):
name on behalf of the Dad's PT six. I'm out.
But his question was, what are three good films that
you watching with us? Some Pizza Friday films?

Speaker 1 (01:30:03):
So my go tos? Are we talking like favorites of rus?

Speaker 3 (01:30:05):
Yeah, favorites to watch with the kids you and that
you also enjoy.

Speaker 1 (01:30:10):
We've gotten in recently to cars, which fired me up.
We tried cars early on and she just wasn't you know.
She always wanted a princess on, so we'd had to
pick like princess movies. So Frozen, both frozens. She loves Frozen.
She's all about Frozen. Cars, great one, and the third one,
I would say, inside Out, great movie with the with

(01:30:34):
the feelings joy, happy, sad, what is it nervous? Anger?
I love inside Out and inside Out too. Yeah, I
love them both.

Speaker 3 (01:30:44):
Yeah, the anxiety one hit home for me. On the
second one, I.

Speaker 1 (01:30:47):
Was like, bro, inside Out goes hard.

Speaker 3 (01:30:51):
It's hard.

Speaker 1 (01:30:51):
There's a lot of good kids movies. It's kind of
hard to narrow it down to three. We do always
try to choose something different because we were when she
it's early on it's like Frozen or die you know
what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:31:01):
Like I'm talking tantrum.

Speaker 1 (01:31:04):
Yeah, Cars has fired me up recently. Just is a
good competitive one, overcoming adversity, and then inside Out. I
just I love the concept of inside out and dealing
with your feelings, labeling your emotions, getting to kind of
communicate with them in that way, like after the movie
in days following.

Speaker 3 (01:31:25):
So those would be my three, I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:31:28):
I mean Your Dragon, Oh, how to Train Your Dragon
is a great one. Oh, toy story is always a classic.

Speaker 3 (01:31:39):
But where's a lot live action How to Train Your Dragon?
I haven't seen it yet. I want to see it.
I want to see it. Le Loo and Stitch. The
live action is incredible, Okay, I need to see that.
That's Jill's favorite animated.

Speaker 1 (01:31:50):
Yeah, but those would be my movies.

Speaker 3 (01:31:54):
Excuse me time, Yes, we gotta wrap up. I do
want to say if you haven't seen Puss in Boots
the Wish movie. Have you seen that? No? Will you
have to watch that movie? To all listeners out there,
Boots the Last Wish? Okay, thank you, chef bro. That
movie is so fucking dial It is a great kids movie,

(01:32:19):
it is even better adult movie. And I truly walked
away from that movie with like some pep in my
step and was like, Hollywood can still tell a great story,
Like Wow, that was incredible, right story, Puss and Boots
the Last Wish. I was so surprised by that, thought
would just be another throwaway, but it was incredible.

Speaker 6 (01:32:40):
All right, Next caller, gentlemen, and particularly sure, I'm I'm
a member of pop a team six two years.

Speaker 7 (01:32:58):
I got a two year old son and now a
three month old daughter. It's a crazy trip, but sure.

Speaker 8 (01:33:06):
You're still in the sleepy baby feet sleep boob. That's
it has Will giving you the breakdown on what's next.

Speaker 7 (01:33:19):
You've gotta force your baby to sleep. You gotta figure
out ways to get them down, to calm them down.
You gotta figure out how you're gonna feed them, when
to feed them wake windows. Yeah, a lot coming up, Shuran,
Congratulations again, this is Riley Top a team six player

(01:33:40):
Royal Canadian Operators.

Speaker 3 (01:33:44):
Canadian operator. We gotta get a Canadian flag now, yeah,
we do. Riley from Canada calling in can we can
we pay for that international call? Is there a way
that we can cover him on the back end, get
him on the VENMO Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:34:02):
Yeah, yeah maybe, I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:34:03):
He'll get he'll get merched.

Speaker 4 (01:34:04):
But like, let's let's I think it's covered if it's continental,
like I think Canada there's now.

Speaker 1 (01:34:10):
Okay, okay, good, I would think good. So he's asking,
have I prepped you for what?

Speaker 3 (01:34:14):
Next phase?

Speaker 1 (01:34:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:34:16):
Next phase? Which just hearing that it's a reflection of
what we talked about earlier with like each week brings
new new challenges.

Speaker 1 (01:34:25):
Yeah, but being on that uh mom on calls, it's
like if I'm referring back to the twelve hours by
twelve weeks, like it all comes down to those wake
windows and sleeping and trying to get them to sleep
through the night. And when you're optimistic, you might have
a couple of good days to get stacked up, but
then a sleep regression might come and you're kind of
just you're just in the think of it again, it's
like a new challenge it's like new adversity. You're thinking

(01:34:47):
to yourself, oh man, I'm really stacking up four or
five six hours of sleep, but then all of a sudden,
they're waking up pissed off in your mind for no reason.
But that that to me would probably be your next phase.

Speaker 3 (01:35:00):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:35:01):
It's like once you get into the months, we will
be able to talk more about that. But I think
like your next week's because again you're going, as we're
talking in this episode is being released, you're on week
four right now.

Speaker 8 (01:35:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:35:10):
Yeah, it's like you're hopeful that they hit all those
three hours of sleep because they eat eat sleep shit
for a bit, and I know with twelve hours. By
twelve weeks it's like week six or week eight is
like when boot camp begins. Yeah, like when you're really
starting to dial them in on having them, teaching them
to self soothed, trying not to pick them up all

(01:35:31):
the time, and just being like, hey, daddy's here, finding
a song, going to your go to lulla byes. We
talk about that all the time, But that'll kind of
be your next That'll kind of be your next phase
in my opinion, if I can remember correctly, it's all
about in those first few months, like if you're on
like a sleep training, like the goal is getting them
to sleep.

Speaker 3 (01:35:49):
Through the night. The formula that we went by, Yeah,
that's kind of what Taylor alluded to you at the
pool party. We talked briefly and he was asking. He
was like, she's three weeks right, and I was like yeah,
and he was like yeah. Really. The next step, it
felt like for us, was like the baby's almost become
self aware. They're like, oh shit, I'm a baby, and

(01:36:10):
I'm like, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (01:36:11):
Yeah, And there's the good part of that is they
start to smile. It's like right now, especially with mom,
because they're in it twenty four to seven, you got
postpartum and everything else, Like the baby just takes from them, takes, takes, takes,
yeh needs, the boob needs, milk needs, faed needs, burb needs, change,
all the stuff, and Mama's just on deck the entire time.

(01:36:31):
And then when they start to smile, it's like, now
you're getting something back in return, which cheers you up,
gives you greta maybe taking photos, taking videos because again,
those first weeks, it's like you caught that smile picture
probably from her poop and stuff. But when they start
to look and see you and be aware and you
can kind of maybe entertain them a little bit, or
they're looking around and observing a lot more, you start
to get more. You start to get a return, you

(01:36:53):
start to get an.

Speaker 3 (01:36:54):
ROI on your investment. I'm excited for that, excited for that,
and I I'm excited for the challenge of it too.
I really do think that your heart turns black is
like such a real thing in this dad stuff. Yeah,
I don't know, like I don't know how to describe it,

(01:37:15):
but like I'm not miserable at four point thirty in
the morning feeding her. Yeah, And I can't describe that feeling.

Speaker 1 (01:37:22):
Yeah, I think you do a good job of not
putting yourself in like a reactionary state. It's almost like again,
it's like embracing and anticipating that sucking moments are gonna come.
And as long as you're able to anticipate, because you
can't anticipate a plan working. Yeah, you're anticipating a plan
and just go to just unfold and unravel. And you're
in those moments pivoting and trying to figure out, just

(01:37:43):
reminding yourself that this is what you signed up for?

Speaker 3 (01:37:47):
Yeah, Jill. The only note that I've gotten from this
last week was Jill is like I'm almost too unbothered.
In some moments, He's like, hey, Scarlet screaming. I'm like
holding Scarlet. I'm like, yeah, I know, like I you know,
I'm bouncer. Yeah's like, where you going to do the passy?
Do you want to take her outside? I mean she's
screaming something's wrong. I'm like, yeah, she's a baby. Like

(01:38:10):
it's all like, I'll figure it out. And she's like
I need some I love that attitude, but I need
some pep in the step, Like what's your plan? How
are you going to get her to stop crying? I'm like,
all right.

Speaker 1 (01:38:21):
I love the comments of the boys reacting to your
story about being out and getting on the video game.
Oh dude, so funny. Oh dude, so funny.

Speaker 3 (01:38:30):
Dude. Yeah, I mean, you live and you learn, dude.
And it's like, I'm trying to be a good partner
to Jill obviously, and that's like separate of Scarlett too,
like just in marriage. It's like by soccer coach in
high school had a great quote. He said, if I
quit whenever something was hard, I would have divorced my wife,
you know, thirty years ago.

Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
It's like, that's a bar.

Speaker 3 (01:38:51):
You know, everything's gonna be difficult. Good things in life
are difficult. But it's like, yeah, I don't even know
where I was going with that. You were spending.

Speaker 1 (01:39:01):
Yeah, you were blacked out and you were spending.

Speaker 3 (01:39:03):
Buddy, where were we even talking? I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:39:06):
That's the beauty of the show. You should get lost
in your thoughts, man. You got dad breaking going on
right now.

Speaker 3 (01:39:11):
I do.

Speaker 1 (01:39:11):
I'm thinking about how Yeah, my wife she's like, uh,
She's like, hey, you're gonna be home in time to
help with the bad time, because I was like, I'll
be home in time for bedtime.

Speaker 3 (01:39:19):
I forget. Sunday's is a bad time.

Speaker 1 (01:39:21):
We're recording right now on Sunday and we're trying to
get it in so that way we can get back
home and yeah, be on dad duty. But as far
as anticipating another little dad hack that I'll give before
I drop a quote that I heard from a gentleman,
you like that, please, A little quote that I heard
from a gentleman earlier, but a nice little dag dad
hack that I experienced with the two Littles with Hudson
and Rue in Canada was when we were staying in

(01:39:42):
the hotel together, same room, all that stuff, but prepping
them before anything happens. I remember I sat each of
them down individually. I was like, sweetheart, go go ahead
and step out in the hallway. I'm going to talk
to Rue one on one. And then I pulled Hudson
aside and I was like, hey, let me grab your
ear one on one and I sat him down and
I was like, hey.

Speaker 3 (01:39:59):
We're about to go to dinner time. We need you.
You know, Grady, I'm talking to Hudson. You know your brother.
Grady's fussy.

Speaker 1 (01:40:04):
You know Scotty she can get fussy too, and Rue
she's kind of she's up and down right now. Hudson, Yeah,
I'm gonna need you to stay poised. And he's like,
he's just looking at me, and I'm like, I love
your fit. I love how you get the stripes on
the collared shirt. I love how they met your boots.
They had little cowboy boots on them, and I love
that watch. You're rocking right now. You look like a star,
and I'm gonna need you to perform like a star.

(01:40:25):
At dinner tonight, when every things get a little hazy
and the sharing doesn't go well, I'm gonna look at
you and I'm gonna say, hey, Hudson, remember what we
talked about upstairs? And then I'm gonna need you to
lock in. I kind of did the same kind of
thing with the roof. That's that's that's a good little
Dada hack right there. Doesn't go perfectly, but at least
you can look and say, hey, honey, remember what we
talked about upstairs, and it'll be like and then and

(01:40:46):
then Hudson. I enjoyed being around Hudson, bro. It's like
getting to be around a little boys. It was like
I was having fun. And then, uh, but they both
want to press the elevator button when you go to
the eleve going everywhere with you're traveling around, she pushes
the elevator. But now you got Hudson, who also another
family that he didn't charged, and pressing the elevator button.

(01:41:08):
So they're going toes and losing their shit. More so
Rue if she can't touch the elevator button or Hudson
beats her and does, She's like, I'm gonna push on
and Hudson runs and just touches it and then just
looks at Rue and she just loses it. So I
grabbed both of them, like, hey, hey, hang on. They're
both talking about who's gonna touch the outside button, who's
gonna touch the button once you get in the elevator,
And as they're trying to figure out as they're going,
because we're like, all right, guys, want you press one

(01:41:28):
button the other one if you press the other, and
we was like, I want to press the outside buttons.
I want to press the outside button. And they're walking
toward the elevator trying to figure out who's going to
press what, and I stopped him. I said, hey, Rue, Hudson,
let's stop everybodys standing at the elevator. And I'm like,
right there in the hallway, I'm like, hey, let's figure
out and have a game plan. Who's pushing what button
before we get before we get to the elevator. Who

(01:41:50):
wants to push the outside button? And we was like,
I want to push the inside button. Hudson's like, I'll
push the outside butt. I'm like, all right, here's what
we're gonna do, Hudson, You'll press the outside button. And
Rue once we step in, you're gonna press L with
the star, L with the star. You're in charge of
pushing that button. Teamwork makes the dream work. Let's go execute.
We go on on two to one two, Rue press

(01:42:11):
the outside Hudson press the outside button, and Rue pushes
the inside button.

Speaker 3 (01:42:15):
It's perfection.

Speaker 1 (01:42:16):
Then if they're arguing about who's gonna press the inside button,
because everybody wants to press the inside button, Hey, here's
what we're gonna do.

Speaker 3 (01:42:24):
Rue.

Speaker 1 (01:42:24):
It's Huddy's turned to press the inside button. You're gonna
press two buttons. I'm gonna need you to push the
outside button. And then when we step in, Huddy's gonna
press the number, the floor number, and then you're gonna
press the door's closed button with the arrows going in.
So once he hits three, you hit the door's closed
button and we'll execute this planet. So Rouse hitting the
button twice, I'm like, all right, honey, you hit three,

(01:42:45):
and right when he hits three, I'm like, rough, hurry up,
push the closed door button. Puts the closed door door
has closed. You're like, oh my god, you guys crushed it.
You guys probably got us up to the third floor.

Speaker 3 (01:42:54):
Legendary going in like a huddle too, and going outside
down yeah, inside l star yeah on two on two
and closed door, closed door zip, closed the door zip
on two on two.

Speaker 1 (01:43:06):
Ready break And then if the door would start to
close before they can press the closed door button, I like,
put my hands it open back.

Speaker 3 (01:43:11):
Hurry up, close the door, but it's gonna get broken.
Oh my god, you guys saved this. But I fucking
love that, dude.

Speaker 1 (01:43:19):
Huddle them up, get the anticipation going.

Speaker 3 (01:43:22):
That's so much fun. Those those are like memories that
they will have once they get old enough. Is like
the little things.

Speaker 1 (01:43:31):
Yeah, that's I hope. So anyway, if not, I'm gonna
have videos of showing like, hey, look at this video
back when you guys are you know, old man, but yeah,
your old man kind of corralled you guys up. We'll
get to do it with Scotty and Scarlet. I mean,
Scotty's what eight months older than Scarlet. Yeah, it'll be
fun once they get old enough, man.

Speaker 3 (01:43:49):
Dude, that will be fun. That That's a crazy thought
in itself. As I see pictures of Scotty and I
do the math in my head and I'm like, oh man,
that's crazy yes, dude, how excites me? How old was
she when I went over for the trailer? I don't know,
maybe four months, five months?

Speaker 1 (01:44:06):
What month was the trailer?

Speaker 3 (01:44:08):
What month was the trailer release?

Speaker 1 (01:44:10):
The chef wasn't with me, wasn't here.

Speaker 3 (01:44:12):
Fuck, dude, So let's just say three months ago.

Speaker 1 (01:44:15):
I don't know, two months ago, three eight episodes, three
months maybe I'm already thinking of, like, so Scotty was
like five months old?

Speaker 3 (01:44:22):
Yeah? And how happy she was for feeds? How where
she was for feeds? How where she was of diaper change?

Speaker 1 (01:44:28):
When they get aware of feeds, bro, and you kind
of have the bottle at night time and you kind
of hold it away from their mouth just to see
him go.

Speaker 3 (01:44:37):
This move this move yeah, yeah, yeah, the where the
fuck is it? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:44:43):
Or when they're done with then they're just getting out
of the mount, you're like, do you sure you don't
one more thing?

Speaker 3 (01:44:48):
It's awesome? Really quick? Uh dad hack. When my hand
goes on doorknob, I remind myself what did Jill ask
me for? What she asked me to go get? Every
single time your hand? What do you do if you
don't remember? I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (01:45:06):
This couple you forgot to turn off the the little
the bottle heater that I shouted out a few weeks ago,
because after you pour it, you gotta hit the power
button to turn it off, and I just leave that
thing running. Hey, power button's on again.

Speaker 3 (01:45:20):
Ah. I don't have a dad hack just yet of
when your hand hits that doorknob, but you don't remember.
I will come up with one.

Speaker 1 (01:45:28):
Yeah, But because if you say the dad's out there
when you touch the doorknob, remember what your wife said
my wanting to be a learning father about this? How
do you even remember?

Speaker 3 (01:45:40):
That's what I'm saying as soon and I'm talking about
leaving the room right after she just told you I
need bottle. Okay, okay, I'm your close. It just remind
yourself it gets outside of three minutes. Oh yeah, I'm
gonna need help. You're fucking cooked. I'm doing six trips
for everything. Let's get to the lessons. Okay, I gotta

(01:46:01):
get home. Oh okay, really quick? Do you have let
me do what are the odd shout out fanduls? Okay,
go ahead, what are the odd shoutout FanDuel? We do
we have a sicko, an absolute sick Oh his name
is Mason Nestle Road. Okay, Mason said, uh, flooded the
basement a little too hard while on Seaman Team six

(01:46:23):
got the positive pregnancy test six days before the wedding.
I thought you told me about actually flooded the basement
days before the wedding. God, I love Papa Team six.

Speaker 1 (01:46:38):
I love the squad.

Speaker 3 (01:46:39):
Skipped Sperm Team six straight to Papa Team six. Come
this January, let's go announce the butN in the oven.
At the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding, he
sent me a video. I'll send you all this stuff.
We're crazy and we're waiting to find out the gender
until birth. But based off these last two sonograms, pretty

(01:47:00):
sure it's a baby boy. He drew a little diesel
piece on this undergram. This guy's a sick of a
true PT six.

Speaker 1 (01:47:07):
Six dude completed buds and didn't even mean the complete buds.
And for new listeners, that is breeding until dad status.
He was busting until dad status.

Speaker 3 (01:47:19):
He was busting until dad status. And the what are
the odds are it is a or fifty to fifty odds?
I guess if it's a boy or a girl. We
won't know. They're gonna find out when baby comes out.
I think that we gotta have a follow up there,
we do. But Mason, thank you for writing. And that

(01:47:39):
made me laugh really hard at like three thirty.

Speaker 6 (01:47:41):
Am.

Speaker 3 (01:47:42):
Oh that is a good one. Hey. He sent so
many pictures, dude sent like videos from the wedding. They
had one of those cameras that does the slow mode
three sixty and it's just all of his boys with
their asses out on the camp.

Speaker 1 (01:47:56):
It's a guy, he's built for proper, all right. So
the lesson segment this is this was just gonna be
a simple quote because again, I gotta make it home
for for bad time. Yeah, and I'm probably missing some
of bad time. I'm gonna have to make it home
for bedtime because I told my wife's seven seven ten.
It is now seven o'clock, so it'll probably be like

(01:48:17):
seven fifteen, seven twenty walk in that door.

Speaker 3 (01:48:19):
Okay, I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (01:48:20):
You know we tried to keep it under an hour.

Speaker 3 (01:48:22):
Yeah, Jared just texted me and said that he's showing
up to my house around six forty five seven for
dinner tonight.

Speaker 1 (01:48:28):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll get this quote out of
seven pm because This is one I learned from a
gentleman today. I was at a picnic for back to school.
Ruth's going to school this month, and al Ru's going
to school next month in aug Is it August.

Speaker 3 (01:48:43):
August? August?

Speaker 1 (01:48:44):
Yeah, the middle of August, like August thirteenth is Ru's
first day of school. Yes, parents, I'm gonna take it.
My wife and I were gonna take it way harder
than Rue does, because it's just buddy.

Speaker 3 (01:48:54):
Time is flying by.

Speaker 1 (01:48:55):
First. The police's gonna go hard, hard, bro, I'm talking.
I hit the post her debt. Oh, so you're most muscular.
But I was talking to this gentleman at this picnic
while we're out in ninety five degree heat, trying to
avoid small talk, as dads tried to do when you're

(01:49:15):
at these outings, of course, And I was talking to
a gentleman and we were kind of talking about, you know,
just being in the suck.

Speaker 3 (01:49:20):
Like I was like, dude, I hear you.

Speaker 1 (01:49:22):
I was trying to get Ru here, and she wanted
to go as a queen, so she wanted to wear
a two two over her outfit we had her. She
wanted to wear a two two. She wanted to have
the wand she wanted to have the wings.

Speaker 3 (01:49:30):
She wanted to have the.

Speaker 1 (01:49:30):
Crown, and was losing her mind to where we're having
a little bit of a tiff, a little bit of
a dust up at home. Mom goes out the car.
I just pick her up and I'm like, hey, sweetheart, Elsa.
When she goes to outings as a queen or a princess,
like she's got to go talk to people and socialize
and joy. She's got to play and do things that
she doesn't want to do. And she you know, when
she goes into her car seat, she can't wear wings
because when you're in the car seat, you can't wear

(01:49:51):
the wings. We got to get the wings off. But
at this point she does want to get the wings off.
We go to the picnic. We have a great time.
It's at a playground. They're playing, they're doing all this stuff.
So I'm talking to this gentle on the side and
we're kind of recapping these stories of being in the trenches. Okay,
and he and me with a quote that I thought
was a bar I think his name is Josh. Shout
out Josh, Shout out Josh. And he said, when I'm
in those moments I try to do my best. What's

(01:50:13):
going to be the best for them thirty years from
now versus thirty seconds from now. On taking the extra moment,
it's like whether you're whether they're in it and you're
sitting there with them while they're crying, whether they ruse
in a phase where it's like I don't want you
in the room, get out of the room. So I'm like, okay,
I just let her know that that will be I'm
gonna leave the room. That is going to be right
outside with a calm voice. That is gonna be a

(01:50:34):
right outside. If you need me, just let me know
if you need help, because I love you, Yeah, because
I love you. Whether you take a second to tell
them a story about one of their favorite characters, just
whenever you're in those moments and they're losing their shit
versus like compliance grab them all this stuff. We have
those moments. It happens. But that quote that bar of
I try to think about how I will want them
to be thirty years from now versus thirty seconds from now.

(01:50:55):
It just reminds you to like, just take those moments,
have that calm voice, stay in it, let them know, hey,
if they don't want you around them right now. I'll
be right outside if you don't need me, whether you
find a moment to be like, hey, Elsa, she goes
to parties too as the queen, and when she's the queen,
she doesn't wear wings and she socialized if she doesn't
want to socialize, and they kind of stop crying and
they're kind of like sitting there thinking.

Speaker 3 (01:51:14):
Elsa goes to picnics all the time. Name Anna literally said,
but it's a ball room with no ball and there's.

Speaker 1 (01:51:20):
Another story out there where she gets really frustrated and
doesn't want to go, just like you're being It's okay
to be frustrated. I can tell you're overwhelmed. I can
tell you're frustrated, but let's just take a beat. Or
if it's beyond that and you have a little data
el to where you get, you lose it for a second,
reminding yourself to go back to the conversation later in
the day when they're cool, calm, collected, whether it's at bedtime,

(01:51:41):
you might just say, hey, remember dad, Hey, I'm sorry
for getting mad at you earlier. You know why Daddy
got mad at you, And they might just say I
was sad or I was frustrated. Yeah, And you know
when you get frustrated, it just you know domino effect.
You talk to him about the ripple effect, and you
kind of just give them a little lesson on how
you would like their behavior to be when it's calm,
because when you get frustrated, then Mom might get frustured

(01:52:02):
Dadad gets frustrated. I did a poor job of being
frustrated back to you. I should have sat with you.
I should have empathized with you, because I know it
gets sad and frustrating at times, and you get mad
and you get overwhelmed, but you gotta know it's gonna
be all right, and you gotta know when that happens.
If Dad can say something to you in the moment
where we can remind and get back to even keel,
that would be the what I've thought about since that

(01:52:25):
gentleman Josh gave me that quote earlier today at the picnic.

Speaker 3 (01:52:29):
It's a bar. That is a bar. It's a bar.
It is like the even the little moments of like
you bringing up the monsters at the playground and stuff
like those little games and everything that are like the
quick solves, like that's obviously not gonna affect her in
thirty years. She's not gonna be afraid of it.

Speaker 1 (01:52:46):
Right, But it is like change, it's like doing things
to try and change their frame of mind. Yes, and
if you're beyond that, it's like, okay, you don't want
to see that right now, a sweetheart, Hey, that that
is going to leave the room. I'll just be out
here if you need me, yeah, or if you your
shit on him, you come back around to it. But
it's yeah, it's a nice juggle, man. It's a fun
it's a fun little balance and challenge. Sometimes not fun,

(01:53:07):
but anyway, we gotta roll.

Speaker 3 (01:53:10):
We gotta roll.

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