May 27, 2025 • 28 mins
Carlos is a bilingual (English/Spanish) actor, comedian, improviser, instructor from Miami, Florida with over 5 years of experience.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Not that your heartbroken.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
No, no, no, it's fine. I'm chilling now. Yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
I mean I went through a little like breakup like
almost a year ago.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
That was a little rough, but it was still like,
it's fine out.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hi, guys, welcome to ghost therapy. We
have Oh my gosh, this guy is so funny. I
love him. Carlos Hernandez fellow Mexican. He just moved to
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New York to make it in the big leagues.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
He's a writer, he's an actor, he's a comedian, and
he got some words from his spirit GUIDs like which
you know. I want to share them with you because
those words are for everybody. It's like, compare yourself to
the best. Don't compare yourself to who's next to you
or to no, compare yourself to the biggest names and
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set the standard high because if you're gonna do, you know,
all that sacrifice of going to another city, of making
it happen, then you better make it happen. And that's
the only way compare yourself to the best and try
to get there as soon as possible. I loved all
the messages that we received, and I hope you like
them too, because they can apply to everybody's life. So
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here's cardless Anandez. Thank you for being here again, mister
Carlos Nane's welcome to ghost Therapy. How are you?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I'm good? How are you? Bla good?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Thank you, very excited to have you on the show.
Are you ready?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I'm ready?
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I think I'm ready, My fellow Mexican. That's awesome. Who
do you want to talk to today?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I mean my spirit guys for sure.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Maybe my grandpa who passed in two thousand and two.
I was very young and I was very close to him,
even though I was pretty like eight years old.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Let's do this. I'm gonna do just a little prayer
and I'll be right back. Okay, I'm going to start off.
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They're applotting something about paying yourself. If this makes sense
to you, okay, something about that you're doing the right thing.
This is this has to do with money. There's like
a system that you have about like paying the paying yourself.
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Does this make sense? Like if you were like if
you had a company, and then you include yourself as
an employee and you pay yourself just to be smart
and have some money because you're the owner. And maybe
you don't make something like around that area, okay, because
they feel like they're you're doing a good job by
doing that or like receiving money. There's somehow there's a
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model of that. You have financial model that's really working,
and they're telling you to keep on going.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Okay, So having no plan is the plan.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Okay, Yes, that's exactly what I saw. Okay, So it
doesn't ring a bell, It's okay.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
I think.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
So, I mean maybe, I mean I do have my
own like LLC, and I you know, sometimes I'm a
little bit like on organized with the money, but I
always somehow have an idea what I'm doing and right
like how it's coming in and how often.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Oh so maybe maybe they're kind of telling you it
could be too you know that they're saying, do that
or do something like around that you know area, maybe
to protect yourself or to guarantee yourself some money you know,
on the side or whatever. Okay, I don't want to
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talk about something illegal or anything nothing like that. I
have no clue what I'm talking about, but yeah, something
about financial model that is working or that should work better.
I guess. Okay, okay, okay, okay. He says he that
you go through the same people. I don't know if
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it's to get jobs or to but he's they're like,
he has to diversify the people that he goes through
to get jobs or to get it or to do
project or something like that. He's like, there's nothing wrong
with kind of opening up the possibilities, something about don't
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get stuck going through the same people, okay, And not
that they're bad or anything like that. It's just like
for the energy to kind of move and not to
be the same energy all over again, or the same
kind of gig I think, all over again. So yeah, okay,
so diversifying, okay, cool, okay, And that doesn't make them
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bad people or anything. I don't know how long ago
this was. I don't even know what it was, and
you don't have to tell me, but there's something about,
like something bad happened to you that they're telling you
that was the worst part. Don't worry, it's going to
beooth sailing from now on. Okay, does this make sense
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at all? But it's like life changing. That's why I
feel it's more personal than everything else aship. Yeah something
like that. Uh huh okay, but they're like whatever it
was that you had to suffer, They're like, that was
the last part or the worst part from you're on,
It's gonna be okay, So don't be afraid or don't
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be you know for the next phase okay, because it's
it's gonna be all right. And the fact that you
know it helps because then you're kind of afraid or
you're it's something about being afraid of feeling, you know,
or being afraid of Oh no, what you know? I
got Okay, So does this make sense? Yes? Okay, Okay,
(06:35):
I mean I didn't get excited for you. I'm just
saying I'm glad it makes sense. Not that you're not
that your heart broken.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
No, No, it's fine, I'm killing you.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Yeah, you're good now.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
But I mean I went through a little like breakup
like almost a year ago that was a little rough,
but it was still like it's fine now.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Right, It's fine now. Yeah, Well maybe this is I mean,
I don't know if this is like forever or for
this time around or whatever, but it must have been
bad or something, because like something about if you live
through that, you'll live through. Yeah. I think this is
like for work. They're talking about raising the bar kind
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of that I don't know if you've been kind of
scared to do it or that kind of, but they're like,
raise the bar, it's gonna be okay. He's like, because
if you don't, I don't know what it is exactly,
but they're like, this has to happen. The sooner the better.
And I feel like they're saying like or either you
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make up excuses or you're like, oh, let me do
this first, or let me do this first. They're like, no,
it's more about like sitting down with yourself, not worry
about anything else, and then thinking about ways to step
it up. I don't know if this makes sense. Yeah,
and the sooner the better. And this is really weird,
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but they're like, and if you can include a girl
into it, no, this is but like a girl or
like a female something about a female touch or a
female voice or something about female that would really make
it different and would really I don't know, like give
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it another something like that. Does this make sense?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
It does? Actually? Yeah, really very specifically yeah. Oh wow,
I don't like this. Yeah, I would love to. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I mean I'm a comedian and a host and an actor,
so I'm always trying to consistently like find ways of
like putting out content that's funny.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
And I'm in the middle of.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Like trying to like develop a podcast right now, okay,
And I.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Was gonna do it on my own, and then recently.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
I started like like thinking, like to do it with
a co host, and like I was, I'm like I
literally filmed like the first episode with a girl like
right like last week, and like it was like a
test episode, but like.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
It worked work really well.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
There you go. Yeah, sometimes like we really need like
other things, like other people. Some some people make us better,
you know, some people, I don't know, our humor becomes different.
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, Okay, so now you know,
now you know? Okay, Okay, that is awesome. Okay, sir,
(09:53):
so awesome. You're an actor, you're a podcaster.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
What else is just comedian?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Comedian? Okay? Oh I love it. Do you write writer?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:08):
With the writing. They want to say something about the writing.
I don't know if you do comedy in your writing,
but they're they're saying that, like first, like the process,
like they're suggesting like a certain way of doing it,
like do it with no comedy or with no like
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very normal or very I don't know why they say romantic.
Maybe it'll make sense later on in your process like
more like that. And then for some reason they're like,
and then go in and choose the you know, comic reliefs. Yeah,
exactly based on what you already wrote and based I
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hear romantic again. So I don't know, maybe they want
to do a romantic comedy series into comedy or something
like that, but that they feel like that would be
a very nice process for you that I think that
you don't normally do.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Yeah, I don't really do.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
It's correct, Yeah, all right, so try.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Yeah, that's that's an interesting approach.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Yeah yea, yeah, yeah totally.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Is.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
You're a comedian and you kind of base everything out of.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
The yeah, like the premise of the situation, and then
like the rest comes out like later.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
So yeah, right, right, okay, cool. I don't know if
you're doing this or they're telling you to do it,
but there's some element of view like that you pull
everybody that you know into your projects. Or something like that,
or I don't know if you need to do it more.
But they're like, you know, like that's really good, like.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Bring people into the projects that I'm working on.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Yeah, okay, yeah, I normally I'm I'm trying to do
them more, like with what I told too, like about
the podcast and all that.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Yeah, yeah, because somehow it's like, you know, I like
to pay it forward kind of thing, but also you know,
but also that well, I think it's that Actually it's
like helping out the people that you know are talented
and maybe aren't doing so well or maybe you know,
it's like think about all that because there's a lot
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of possibility that maybe that guy is really funny to
you and you can write something based on him. Yeah,
something like that. But they're like pull in, pull everybody in,
pull everybody you can't in. It'll only make it richer
and make it even funnier, you know. Yeah, and then
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there's something about they're saying, we know it's hard, don't
back out. Does that mean anything?
Speaker 2 (12:53):
I mean at the moment, it doesn't, like maybe a
few years ago.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
At it, but oh ago, yeah, like no, I don't
know exactly what that would be.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Okay, maybe maybe just leave it around here and uh yeah,
maybe it'll make sense later, but just no.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Like what like just like quit, I have.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
No clue hold on. It's something about like it is
more more towards like personal and job kind of thing,
like like nobody said it was easy, don't worry about it.
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Just don't quit. It's gonna be it's like it, only
it gets worse before it gets better.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Okay, something like that, don't quit saying don't quit or quit,
don't quit, don't quit.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Don't quit. It's gonna be a little bump that it's
gonna make you want to quit.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
So I think they're saying that right now, and when
you're there, you'll know what it is. You'll know. I
don't know, but you'll know. Okay, Okay, mom, mom lives alone?
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Yes, my mom. No, she lives with my dad. They're
still together.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
They're still together. Yeah, Okay, they want to talk about
your mom. Is there something about your mom is because
they want to talk about That's why I asked if
she was alone, because she's feeling right now, like very alone.
She's feeling yeah, like very abandoned. Sounds super tragic. I
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don't want to go for that.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
It's probably because my sister and I moved out recently, like.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Oh recently, Okay.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
I moved to New York, like almost a year ago
or like in August.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Well, I go back and forth a lot, but I
was staying with them when I was going back, and
I got I recently got like a small apartment in
Miami and one in New York. So I'm not really
like I don't see her else often and my sister
lives in Jersey.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
So oh, you're killing her, poor thing. Okay, so that's
what it is. Okay, Well, I think that sounds about right.
But just I guess if you know how she's feeling,
I guess call her a little bit more, you know,
do little things bring her out whatever it is, because
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she's feeling like that.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
Try I tried to, you know, we can always do more.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah, we could always do more exactly, or maybe she's
you know, going through it right now. Maybe later on
it won't be like that. But right now, right now,
that you mentioned Miami, just a little quick thing that
they said something about Miami, like, don't dumb they concentrate
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more on New York, New York stuff. It's like Miami's
got nothing for you. That sounds yeah, that sounds bad,
but it's like not for what you want, you see,
they Miami can't offer that for.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
You in a specific That's why I'm here.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Awesome, Okay, okay. And also they're talking about speaking of
Miami like you can actually like write a lot of
like things about Miami that are funny, like the people like,
you know, I lived in Miami for eleven years. Yeah, yeah,
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so I think that's about right. And New York too
has a lot of you know, their character. Yeah, so
they're saying more like, you know, talk about Miami because
it'll make you it'll be funny. I know you've been
you moved out very like like a year ago. But
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there's something I'm seeing, like, you've got really good connections
in New York. Does this make.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Sense that I have good connections in New York? Uh huh?
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Yeah, okay, because they're like, you know what kind of
like maintenance, you know, even though right now you don't
need that, or it's you know, just keep everybody at
a place where when you do need them, it's not like,
oh so I haven't seen you in two years, but
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now you need me. You see what I'm saying. So
you know, let's go get a coffee for what for
no reason? You know?
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Okay, I like it. I like it?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Okay, yeah yeah, so start now, okay, okay, good.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
So keep the connections, is what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
Like connections, Yeah, yeah, because then you know people are
going to say, oh, only when you need me, you call.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
Okay, that's fair, normal, yeah, okay, But those are going
to help you a lot, by the way, just so
you know, like rely on them in a way, not
all of them at the same time.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
But I feel the connections that you do have are
going to get you more. But I feel that you
have very powerful connections. Just be very weary of how
you're going to use it and how you're going to
go about it, because you're not going to use people.
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That's not you, but it is. It is about, you know,
knowing when you're going to do really well with with
all that, So take advantage of it, thank you.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
Okay, cool, Okay, I'm writing some of these things down,
by the way, I hope that's okay.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
Oh, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Oko. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
It's because sometimes we forget we're like trying to hear and.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Yeah, of course I'm just riding like little boy plants.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, totally totally. What was your your
grandfather's name?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
My grandfather's name was kind of my same name, Carlos.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Something about left without saying goodbye? Does this make Does
this make sense with your grandfather?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
I mean yeah, definitely. I mean it was like and
then like he I mean, last I saw him.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Was when I was like nine years old, when he
visited in Mexico and he used to live in Cuba,
and then.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
And then he passed away like a year later after
he went back.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
He went back and he passed off. Okay, that makes sense,
so I think it is him maybe.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
I mean, like my grandma also passed away earlier this year.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
No, what's her name?
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Got him?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Yeah, but it wasn't the same relationship.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I mean, I didn't have a good really, of course
I had a great relationship with her, and she she
actually was a singer, so maybe, oh really, I don't
know that's even related, but I mean, but yeah, she was.
But I did go technically to say goodbye to her,
like in August of last year, because I knew that
she was doing kind of poorly. I didn't obviously know
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that she was going to like, you know, hopeing that
she would stay alive, but you know, she was like
nineteen ninety one.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
So it's just I felt like there's something you're going
to remember. Lead her on about Grandpa Carlos and left
without saying goodbye. I think it had more meaning than
you think. Not just like that he left and you
couldn't see him, but there's something a little bit more deep.
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Maybe it's not going to come to you right now,
but think about it, okay, or maybe tell your mom
or you who was this.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
Your mom's dad, My mom's dad, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Your mom's dad. It has a little bit more meaning that,
So tell your mom think about it.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
I think it's gonna make sense, okay, Like I don't know,
I don't know what what it means, but I think
it's something that you're going to figure out, or your
mom's going to figure it out if you tell her
the say that left without saying goodbye, like the phrase okay,
but I'm not like.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
He's not saying why he's saying it, you know what
I mean? Like it's supposed to be like something that
you'll understand. This is like a grandpa kind of thing.
He's like, stay focused, stay focused, like no girlfriends or no,
like no not girlfriends, but like no distractions, you know,
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stay very focused. He's like in a very privileged situation
and it really He's like, I don't want you to
kind of like get lost in the whole scene or whatever.
Is like really focused because this is like right now,
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this is your time and not your time to shine,
but this is the time to put the hard work in.
He's like, don't get don't get too He's like, don't
get too excited that nothing's happened, Like, don't get too sad.
I'm sorry that nothing's happening or something like that.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
You know.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
He says, it's like it's gonna happen, but right now
is the hustle, like the hustling period and then the rest,
the rest is gonna come, but keep very very focused,
like no destructions.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
There's something about him saying like I'm sorry, and he's
like like for being so but like stubborn, stubborn. He's like,
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I'm sorry for being so stubborn. I know you always
wanted the best for me, and it was just like
he's smiling. He's like I was kind of always mad
or something like that, you know, like he was very
and he's like, I'm really sorry. I didn't know I
was like that, and I'm sorry for the stubbornness, and
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he he thanks for he thanks her for everything, because
I feel like he never did thank her, you know,
like formally, you know, forever for everything she did because
of his like he puts his face like this, I
don't know he was. I guess he was kind of
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like tired or maybe like you know, just now.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Yeah, he had a little bit of he wasn't like
he was a great to me.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
He was great, but I know that he also had like,
you know, a little bit of an added to a problem.
It's temper.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
Yeah, oh okay, okay, so that's what he's feeling sorry for.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
I never really saw it because he was like, you know,
a sweetheart to me, but you know.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, behind the scenes everything.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Of course, when you're a kid, you know.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Yeah, when you're a kid, everything, Yeah, rainbows and butterflies.
It's like, okay, do you have like a question you
would love to share well to him or to her to.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Mm hmm. Yeah, I guess that what you were saying,
like if they were if they have anything because obviously
if they both passed, so like if they had anything
like you know, that they were left to say that
they weren't able to like say or anything that they
felt or advice like you know, anything along those lines,
right to either one.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Yeah, okay, you your spirit guides are saying, this time around,
it's gonna look look up this time around. Compare yourself
to the best. This time around, it's the big leagues.
Go into the big leagues. Don't be afraid. Maybe you
know it's like no, no, no, like, don't have that
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attitude that okay, well I'm gonna start and maybe I'll
go into that club, I'll do it for free, and no, no, no,
no no, it's like you are somebody. You are good
at what you are. Just because you know, like you're
not like super super super mega famous, like, it doesn't
mean that you're not worth what you're worth. So give
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yourself a little credit and don't go out and say
I'm gonna, you know, start over. I'm gonna barely gonna no,
barely nothing. You go for the best, You go for
the good auditions, you go for the you know, go
to the because that's why you're there. Don't lose any
time because you might be used a little bit, used
to things done a certain way. He's like, now, learn
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learn how they're really you know, like how the big
people do it. Observe, observe, and that's gonna be your Yeah,
like that's gonna be your standard, you know, and you're
gonna live up to that. So they're kind of saying,
now this ship got real, Okay, so do everything to
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be because you're gonna do well. You're gonna do really well. Okay, No, Carlos, Carlos, don, Carlos, perfect, Carlos,
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thank you so much for being here.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Of course, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
I hope you liked it. I hope it resonates with
you and I, oh, thank you so much. And I
feel like you have a very bright future over there.
I think you took the right decision and the right
the right city, Thank you, and more cities to come.
Yeah yeah, yeah, but not Miami.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I love that. I squeezed Miamii.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
Yeah yeah, yeah, ok, it's gonna think you're gonna and
I also see you like doing other things like branching
out and you're gonna be good at it. So good.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Thank you. I appreciate that
Speaker 1 (27:51):
Thank you and thank you everybody for listening to those
therapy you next time.
Not that your heartbroken.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
No, no, no, it's fine. I'm chilling now. Yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
I mean I went through a little like breakup like
almost a year ago.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
That was a little rough, but it was still like,
it's fine out.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hi, guys, welcome to ghost therapy. We
have Oh my gosh, this guy is so funny. I
love him. Carlos Hernandez fellow Mexican. He just moved to
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New York to make it in the big leagues.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
He's a writer, he's an actor, he's a comedian, and
he got some words from his spirit GUIDs like which
you know. I want to share them with you because
those words are for everybody. It's like, compare yourself to
the best. Don't compare yourself to who's next to you
or to no, compare yourself to the biggest names and
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set the standard high because if you're gonna do, you know,
all that sacrifice of going to another city, of making
it happen, then you better make it happen. And that's
the only way compare yourself to the best and try
to get there as soon as possible. I loved all
the messages that we received, and I hope you like
them too, because they can apply to everybody's life. So
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here's cardless Anandez. Thank you for being here again, mister
Carlos Nane's welcome to ghost Therapy. How are you?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I'm good? How are you? Bla good?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Thank you, very excited to have you on the show.
Are you ready?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I'm ready?
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I think I'm ready, My fellow Mexican. That's awesome. Who
do you want to talk to today?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I mean my spirit guys for sure.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Maybe my grandpa who passed in two thousand and two.
I was very young and I was very close to him,
even though I was pretty like eight years old.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Let's do this. I'm gonna do just a little prayer
and I'll be right back. Okay, I'm going to start off.
(02:44):
They're applotting something about paying yourself. If this makes sense
to you, okay, something about that you're doing the right thing.
This is this has to do with money. There's like
a system that you have about like paying the paying yourself.
(03:08):
Does this make sense? Like if you were like if
you had a company, and then you include yourself as
an employee and you pay yourself just to be smart
and have some money because you're the owner. And maybe
you don't make something like around that area, okay, because
they feel like they're you're doing a good job by
doing that or like receiving money. There's somehow there's a
(03:32):
model of that. You have financial model that's really working,
and they're telling you to keep on going.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Okay, So having no plan is the plan.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Okay, Yes, that's exactly what I saw. Okay, So it
doesn't ring a bell, It's okay.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
I think.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
So, I mean maybe, I mean I do have my
own like LLC, and I you know, sometimes I'm a
little bit like on organized with the money, but I
always somehow have an idea what I'm doing and right
like how it's coming in and how often.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Oh so maybe maybe they're kind of telling you it
could be too you know that they're saying, do that
or do something like around that you know area, maybe
to protect yourself or to guarantee yourself some money you know,
on the side or whatever. Okay, I don't want to
(04:25):
talk about something illegal or anything nothing like that. I
have no clue what I'm talking about, but yeah, something
about financial model that is working or that should work better.
I guess. Okay, okay, okay, okay. He says he that
you go through the same people. I don't know if
(04:47):
it's to get jobs or to but he's they're like,
he has to diversify the people that he goes through
to get jobs or to get it or to do
project or something like that. He's like, there's nothing wrong
with kind of opening up the possibilities, something about don't
(05:10):
get stuck going through the same people, okay, And not
that they're bad or anything like that. It's just like
for the energy to kind of move and not to
be the same energy all over again, or the same
kind of gig I think, all over again. So yeah, okay,
so diversifying, okay, cool, okay, And that doesn't make them
(05:30):
bad people or anything. I don't know how long ago
this was. I don't even know what it was, and
you don't have to tell me, but there's something about,
like something bad happened to you that they're telling you
that was the worst part. Don't worry, it's going to
beooth sailing from now on. Okay, does this make sense
(05:51):
at all? But it's like life changing. That's why I
feel it's more personal than everything else aship. Yeah something
like that. Uh huh okay, but they're like whatever it
was that you had to suffer, They're like, that was
the last part or the worst part from you're on,
It's gonna be okay, So don't be afraid or don't
(06:12):
be you know for the next phase okay, because it's
it's gonna be all right. And the fact that you
know it helps because then you're kind of afraid or
you're it's something about being afraid of feeling, you know,
or being afraid of Oh no, what you know? I
got Okay, So does this make sense? Yes? Okay, Okay,
(06:35):
I mean I didn't get excited for you. I'm just
saying I'm glad it makes sense. Not that you're not
that your heart broken.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
No, No, it's fine, I'm killing you.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Yeah, you're good now.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
But I mean I went through a little like breakup
like almost a year ago that was a little rough,
but it was still like it's fine now.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Right, It's fine now. Yeah, Well maybe this is I mean,
I don't know if this is like forever or for
this time around or whatever, but it must have been
bad or something, because like something about if you live
through that, you'll live through. Yeah. I think this is
like for work. They're talking about raising the bar kind
(07:23):
of that I don't know if you've been kind of
scared to do it or that kind of, but they're like,
raise the bar, it's gonna be okay. He's like, because
if you don't, I don't know what it is exactly,
but they're like, this has to happen. The sooner the better.
And I feel like they're saying like or either you
(07:49):
make up excuses or you're like, oh, let me do
this first, or let me do this first. They're like, no,
it's more about like sitting down with yourself, not worry
about anything else, and then thinking about ways to step
it up. I don't know if this makes sense. Yeah,
and the sooner the better. And this is really weird,
(08:19):
but they're like, and if you can include a girl
into it, no, this is but like a girl or
like a female something about a female touch or a
female voice or something about female that would really make
it different and would really I don't know, like give
(08:40):
it another something like that. Does this make sense?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
It does? Actually? Yeah, really very specifically yeah. Oh wow,
I don't like this. Yeah, I would love to. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I mean I'm a comedian and a host and an actor,
so I'm always trying to consistently like find ways of
like putting out content that's funny.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
And I'm in the middle of.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Like trying to like develop a podcast right now, okay,
And I.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Was gonna do it on my own, and then recently.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
I started like like thinking, like to do it with
a co host, and like I was, I'm like I
literally filmed like the first episode with a girl like
right like last week, and like it was like a
test episode, but like.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
It worked work really well.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
There you go. Yeah, sometimes like we really need like
other things, like other people. Some some people make us better,
you know, some people, I don't know, our humor becomes different.
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, Okay, so now you know,
now you know? Okay, Okay, that is awesome. Okay, sir,
(09:53):
so awesome. You're an actor, you're a podcaster.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
What else is just comedian?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Comedian? Okay? Oh I love it. Do you write writer?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:08):
With the writing. They want to say something about the writing.
I don't know if you do comedy in your writing,
but they're they're saying that, like first, like the process,
like they're suggesting like a certain way of doing it,
like do it with no comedy or with no like
(10:30):
very normal or very I don't know why they say romantic.
Maybe it'll make sense later on in your process like
more like that. And then for some reason they're like,
and then go in and choose the you know, comic reliefs. Yeah,
exactly based on what you already wrote and based I
(10:54):
hear romantic again. So I don't know, maybe they want
to do a romantic comedy series into comedy or something
like that, but that they feel like that would be
a very nice process for you that I think that
you don't normally do.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Yeah, I don't really do.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
It's correct, Yeah, all right, so try.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Yeah, that's that's an interesting approach.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Yeah yea, yeah, yeah totally.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Is.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
You're a comedian and you kind of base everything out of.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
The yeah, like the premise of the situation, and then
like the rest comes out like later.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
So yeah, right, right, okay, cool. I don't know if
you're doing this or they're telling you to do it,
but there's some element of view like that you pull
everybody that you know into your projects. Or something like that,
or I don't know if you need to do it more.
But they're like, you know, like that's really good, like.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Bring people into the projects that I'm working on.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Yeah, okay, yeah, I normally I'm I'm trying to do
them more, like with what I told too, like about
the podcast and all that.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Yeah, yeah, because somehow it's like, you know, I like
to pay it forward kind of thing, but also you know,
but also that well, I think it's that Actually it's
like helping out the people that you know are talented
and maybe aren't doing so well or maybe you know,
it's like think about all that because there's a lot
(12:24):
of possibility that maybe that guy is really funny to
you and you can write something based on him. Yeah,
something like that. But they're like pull in, pull everybody in,
pull everybody you can't in. It'll only make it richer
and make it even funnier, you know. Yeah, and then
(12:44):
there's something about they're saying, we know it's hard, don't
back out. Does that mean anything?
Speaker 2 (12:53):
I mean at the moment, it doesn't, like maybe a
few years ago.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
At it, but oh ago, yeah, like no, I don't
know exactly what that would be.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Okay, maybe maybe just leave it around here and uh yeah,
maybe it'll make sense later, but just no.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Like what like just like quit, I have.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
No clue hold on. It's something about like it is
more more towards like personal and job kind of thing,
like like nobody said it was easy, don't worry about it.
(13:39):
Just don't quit. It's gonna be it's like it, only
it gets worse before it gets better.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Okay, something like that, don't quit saying don't quit or quit,
don't quit, don't quit.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Don't quit. It's gonna be a little bump that it's
gonna make you want to quit.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
So I think they're saying that right now, and when
you're there, you'll know what it is. You'll know. I
don't know, but you'll know. Okay, Okay, mom, mom lives alone?
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Yes, my mom. No, she lives with my dad. They're
still together.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
They're still together. Yeah, Okay, they want to talk about
your mom. Is there something about your mom is because
they want to talk about That's why I asked if
she was alone, because she's feeling right now, like very alone.
She's feeling yeah, like very abandoned. Sounds super tragic. I
(14:41):
don't want to go for that.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
It's probably because my sister and I moved out recently, like.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Oh recently, Okay.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
I moved to New York, like almost a year ago
or like in August.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Well, I go back and forth a lot, but I
was staying with them when I was going back, and
I got I recently got like a small apartment in
Miami and one in New York. So I'm not really
like I don't see her else often and my sister
lives in Jersey.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
So oh, you're killing her, poor thing. Okay, so that's
what it is. Okay, Well, I think that sounds about right.
But just I guess if you know how she's feeling,
I guess call her a little bit more, you know,
do little things bring her out whatever it is, because
(15:29):
she's feeling like that.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
Try I tried to, you know, we can always do more.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah, we could always do more exactly, or maybe she's
you know, going through it right now. Maybe later on
it won't be like that. But right now, right now,
that you mentioned Miami, just a little quick thing that
they said something about Miami, like, don't dumb they concentrate
(16:04):
more on New York, New York stuff. It's like Miami's
got nothing for you. That sounds yeah, that sounds bad,
but it's like not for what you want, you see,
they Miami can't offer that for.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
You in a specific That's why I'm here.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Awesome, Okay, okay. And also they're talking about speaking of
Miami like you can actually like write a lot of
like things about Miami that are funny, like the people like,
you know, I lived in Miami for eleven years. Yeah, yeah,
(16:44):
so I think that's about right. And New York too
has a lot of you know, their character. Yeah, so
they're saying more like, you know, talk about Miami because
it'll make you it'll be funny. I know you've been
you moved out very like like a year ago. But
(17:07):
there's something I'm seeing, like, you've got really good connections
in New York. Does this make.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Sense that I have good connections in New York? Uh huh?
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Yeah, okay, because they're like, you know what kind of
like maintenance, you know, even though right now you don't
need that, or it's you know, just keep everybody at
a place where when you do need them, it's not like,
oh so I haven't seen you in two years, but
(17:39):
now you need me. You see what I'm saying. So
you know, let's go get a coffee for what for
no reason? You know?
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Okay, I like it. I like it?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Okay, yeah yeah, so start now, okay, okay, good.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
So keep the connections, is what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
Like connections, Yeah, yeah, because then you know people are
going to say, oh, only when you need me, you call.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
Okay, that's fair, normal, yeah, okay, But those are going
to help you a lot, by the way, just so
you know, like rely on them in a way, not
all of them at the same time.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
But I feel the connections that you do have are
going to get you more. But I feel that you
have very powerful connections. Just be very weary of how
you're going to use it and how you're going to
go about it, because you're not going to use people.
(18:44):
That's not you, but it is. It is about, you know,
knowing when you're going to do really well with with
all that, So take advantage of it, thank you.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
Okay, cool, Okay, I'm writing some of these things down,
by the way, I hope that's okay.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
Oh, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Oko. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
It's because sometimes we forget we're like trying to hear and.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Yeah, of course I'm just riding like little boy plants.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, totally totally. What was your your
grandfather's name?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
My grandfather's name was kind of my same name, Carlos.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Something about left without saying goodbye? Does this make Does
this make sense with your grandfather?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
I mean yeah, definitely. I mean it was like and
then like he I mean, last I saw him.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Was when I was like nine years old, when he
visited in Mexico and he used to live in Cuba,
and then.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
And then he passed away like a year later after
he went back.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
He went back and he passed off. Okay, that makes sense,
so I think it is him maybe.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
I mean, like my grandma also passed away earlier this year.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
No, what's her name?
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Got him?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Yeah, but it wasn't the same relationship.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I mean, I didn't have a good really, of course
I had a great relationship with her, and she she
actually was a singer, so maybe, oh really, I don't
know that's even related, but I mean, but yeah, she was.
But I did go technically to say goodbye to her,
like in August of last year, because I knew that
she was doing kind of poorly. I didn't obviously know
(20:23):
that she was going to like, you know, hopeing that
she would stay alive, but you know, she was like
nineteen ninety one.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
So it's just I felt like there's something you're going
to remember. Lead her on about Grandpa Carlos and left
without saying goodbye. I think it had more meaning than
you think. Not just like that he left and you
couldn't see him, but there's something a little bit more deep.
(20:53):
Maybe it's not going to come to you right now,
but think about it, okay, or maybe tell your mom
or you who was this.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
Your mom's dad, My mom's dad, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Your mom's dad. It has a little bit more meaning that,
So tell your mom think about it.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
I think it's gonna make sense, okay, Like I don't know,
I don't know what what it means, but I think
it's something that you're going to figure out, or your
mom's going to figure it out if you tell her
the say that left without saying goodbye, like the phrase okay,
but I'm not like.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
He's not saying why he's saying it, you know what
I mean? Like it's supposed to be like something that
you'll understand. This is like a grandpa kind of thing.
He's like, stay focused, stay focused, like no girlfriends or no,
like no not girlfriends, but like no distractions, you know,
(21:58):
stay very focused. He's like in a very privileged situation
and it really He's like, I don't want you to
kind of like get lost in the whole scene or whatever.
Is like really focused because this is like right now,
(22:19):
this is your time and not your time to shine,
but this is the time to put the hard work in.
He's like, don't get don't get too He's like, don't
get too excited that nothing's happened, Like, don't get too sad.
I'm sorry that nothing's happening or something like that.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
You know.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
He says, it's like it's gonna happen, but right now
is the hustle, like the hustling period and then the rest,
the rest is gonna come, but keep very very focused,
like no destructions.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
There's something about him saying like I'm sorry, and he's
like like for being so but like stubborn, stubborn. He's like,
(23:13):
I'm sorry for being so stubborn. I know you always
wanted the best for me, and it was just like
he's smiling. He's like I was kind of always mad
or something like that, you know, like he was very
and he's like, I'm really sorry. I didn't know I
was like that, and I'm sorry for the stubbornness, and
(23:37):
he he thanks for he thanks her for everything, because
I feel like he never did thank her, you know,
like formally, you know, forever for everything she did because
of his like he puts his face like this, I
don't know he was. I guess he was kind of
(23:58):
like tired or maybe like you know, just now.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Yeah, he had a little bit of he wasn't like
he was a great to me.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
He was great, but I know that he also had like,
you know, a little bit of an added to a problem.
It's temper.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
Yeah, oh okay, okay, so that's what he's feeling sorry for.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
I never really saw it because he was like, you know,
a sweetheart to me, but you know.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, behind the scenes everything.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Of course, when you're a kid, you know.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Yeah, when you're a kid, everything, Yeah, rainbows and butterflies.
It's like, okay, do you have like a question you
would love to share well to him or to her to.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Mm hmm. Yeah, I guess that what you were saying,
like if they were if they have anything because obviously
if they both passed, so like if they had anything
like you know, that they were left to say that
they weren't able to like say or anything that they
felt or advice like you know, anything along those lines,
right to either one.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Yeah, okay, you your spirit guides are saying, this time around,
it's gonna look look up this time around. Compare yourself
to the best. This time around, it's the big leagues.
Go into the big leagues. Don't be afraid. Maybe you
know it's like no, no, no, like, don't have that
(25:21):
attitude that okay, well I'm gonna start and maybe I'll
go into that club, I'll do it for free, and no, no, no,
no no, it's like you are somebody. You are good
at what you are. Just because you know, like you're
not like super super super mega famous, like, it doesn't
mean that you're not worth what you're worth. So give
(25:45):
yourself a little credit and don't go out and say
I'm gonna, you know, start over. I'm gonna barely gonna no,
barely nothing. You go for the best, You go for
the good auditions, you go for the you know, go
to the because that's why you're there. Don't lose any
time because you might be used a little bit, used
to things done a certain way. He's like, now, learn
(26:11):
learn how they're really you know, like how the big
people do it. Observe, observe, and that's gonna be your Yeah,
like that's gonna be your standard, you know, and you're
gonna live up to that. So they're kind of saying,
now this ship got real, Okay, so do everything to
(26:36):
be because you're gonna do well. You're gonna do really well. Okay, No, Carlos, Carlos, don, Carlos, perfect, Carlos,
(27:08):
thank you so much for being here.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Of course, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
I hope you liked it. I hope it resonates with
you and I, oh, thank you so much. And I
feel like you have a very bright future over there.
I think you took the right decision and the right
the right city, Thank you, and more cities to come.
Yeah yeah, yeah, but not Miami.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I love that. I squeezed Miamii.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
Yeah yeah, yeah, ok, it's gonna think you're gonna and
I also see you like doing other things like branching
out and you're gonna be good at it. So good.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Thank you. I appreciate that
Speaker 1 (27:51):
Thank you and thank you everybody for listening to those
therapy you next time.
Host
Paola Pedroza
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