June 10, 2025 • 32 mins
Diana Marti is a results-driven media executive with a passion for pop culture, story telling and elevating Latino voices.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So whatever you're doing that has those two things together,
which I love, go for it. And I almost see
it as something that seems like something that would make
you take the next step. Welcome to ghost Therapy, where
it's not just about connecting with Desi's loved ones, it's
(00:21):
about learning through them and their new perspective. Hi, guys,
welcome to ghost Therapy. Thank you so much for being
here this week. Today we have a beautiful Oh my god,
she's so beautiful. She looks like a model. She's Diana
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Marty and you know, she works in media and she's
done a lot of a lot of stuff in media.
But she was wondering about her future, what she could do.
And it's crazy because us mediums, we are not allowed
to tell the future. We are not allowed to see
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who's going to die? Which is good for me, right
who would want? Who would want? That superpower? But this
time she's like, what am I going to do? How
do you see me? And she gave her a step
by step what she needed to do to get to
the future that she wants, and uh, listen to it.
(01:24):
Listen to it. It's pretty easy. It's awesome. Okay, So
here's Dana Marti on Ghost Therapy. Thank you for being here. Hi,
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guys from ghost Therapy. So happy to be here. We're
here with Yanna Marti all the way from Miami. Oh
I miss Miami. How are you, Danna good?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
How are you so excited to be here?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Oh? Thank you so much for accepting. I love the
purple in the back. Thank you got her favorite color.
I love it. I love it. Okay, who do you
want to talk to today?
Speaker 2 (02:12):
I would love to talk to my grandmother.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Grandmother, Okay, alrighty well, I'm going to see a little prayer.
I'm going to close my eyes and then I'll be
right back.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
The first thing I get from her, which is really weird,
she goes, ooh, I left on time. Like I don't
know what happened after death or if she was like
really sick, but it was like, oh, thank god I
got you know, I died that day or whatever. Does
this spring a bell? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:55):
I think a lot of things happened to a lot
of us after she got so we always joke that,
you know what she didn't get to see not beautiful things,
but also you know crazy things that happen.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Right, Well, she saw obviously, but she's like made it,
you know what I mean. Okay, she's laughing about it,
not laughing about what happened to you, but she's laughing
about like, Wow, I can't believe I missed it all. Okay,
let me continue. Okay. She doesn't tell me what your
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career is, but she tells you this. You're way too
early on every step. It's like a thing like don't
get ahead of yourself kind of thing. It's gonna happen.
Like you're so young and you always want like if
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you're four years old, I don't know, it's stupid, Like
if you're thirteen years old, then you already want a car?
Why because you can? Why because you have a I
don't know, you know how to drive or whatever. That's
not for you till you're sixteen or seventeen or I
don't know. In Mexico, I got my name at eleven,
so I don't know how it works at all in
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all the cultures. But you know what I mean, does
this ring a bell? And this I'm telling you it's
about your work. Okay, hold on, let me add something.
It's kind of like it's coming. You're on the right track,
don't get ahead of yourself.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Yeah, yeah, I think that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah what do you do?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
I've worked in media for like thirteen years. No, but
I also.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
I'm a part of nonprofits and other projects that I
have as well.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
So good for you. Congratulations. Okay, Okay, so ta gets slow,
It's all gonna be great. Why is she saying she's
there looking at you all the time. But it's a she,
so it can't be her. Is there anybody else that
died around you? Maybe like a friend or something? Do
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you know or I mean, of course you know, do
you remember.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
So you feel that it's it's someone younger or.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Yeah, it's somebody else. It's a girl, but it's not
your grandma because she wants to like tell you that
she's with you, like a very caring relationship.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
I had a great aunt that passed that she's like
my grandmother. She never had her own children, so she
was absolutely like my grandmother. She would watch all my
Selena Kania performances in the living room.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
So yeah, you did those two.
Speaker 5 (05:59):
Didn't Okay, So it must be her because she's not
really you know, not that she's not with you, but
you know it's something.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
It's someone that had to be very very special to you,
So this makes sense. Yeah, she was. She's always there
with you, okay, just so you know, she's never left
your site. Okay. Yes, what was her name?
Speaker 4 (06:24):
So we would call her, well, no her we called
her the Gonca, but her name was Goncha.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Love it okay. Yes, does it make sense that you
studied something else?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I initially started studying education, okay, just because I come
from a family of educators, and last minute I switched
over to journalism because, okay, my passion.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
That is so crazy. My mom had a kindergarten for
thirty something years. Wow, and I studied education too, and
I was like, what am I doing here? I don't
even want to be a teacher. And then I went
to a journalism that's so crazy. Okay, So you've followed
your dream. Good for you. Okay. What she's trying to
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say about this is that it's because it's something about
you didn't study it, but now what you know it's
like perfect humbo.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yeah, that's because I love to mentor I be someone
that people can come to, and so I think that
that part makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And I'd love to tease eventually at some point.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Your voice, your word, your I think it's kind of
the way you talk. It's something that's really going to
resonate with people like you really get through. So whatever
you're doing that has those two things together, which I love,
I'll go for it. Go for it, and I'll we'll
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see it as something that I mean, you can do
whatever you want, but it seems like something that would
make you take the next step and it's always going
to be better and better around.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
That are Yeah, okay, that makes yes.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
That's awesome. Okay, this will be very random. Most probably
I'm wrong, but I have to say, why is she
saying that it's not about the running something about the running?
And if it doesn't make sense, it's okay, just you know,
put it in the back of your mind.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
I will, I'll put in the market. I can't think.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Okay, you can't think of anything. That's fine, that's fine.
But it's something about don't waste your time on running,
something about maybe some other exercise but not the running
and not good for you. Okay in your case, obviously
you know, maybe makes sense.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Oh it does, Yeah, it tells I work out, but
I tried to start.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
I tried to start running and I almost passed out
trying to randomly, and it led to like me getting
checked for something else.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
It was all good, but after that, I just like,
not something I'm going to continue to do.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
So not okay, good, oh my god, it did make sense.
I'm so plucky. And do you see the wording it's
not about the running, because she could have said don't
don't run too much or be careful with the running.
I almost feel like the running doesn't matter. Mm hmm, yeah,
(09:48):
I feel like the weights maybe matter or like the other. Yes,
So don't feel bad about not running because it's not
about that. Yeah, okay, how random? Huh? I get like
so weird? Okay, crazy. I'm glad she said it to
you because then a lot of us think that the
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running is like the cardio and the most important to
lose weight. And now it's not.
Speaker 4 (10:16):
No, no, no no, And what happened to me was
kind of scary. So it's not that I'm never gonna
run again, but I it's not something I plan on
doing anytime soon.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Good good good. Yeah. Not putting yourself out for something
that's yeah whatever, Yeah, okay, perfect, is your grandmother up
there with your grandfather. Oh okay, okay, okay, there's something
it's really weird because there's something about like maybe on
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earth they didn't look that like that in love? Is
this correct? They did?
Speaker 4 (11:02):
They did, they did, but my grandfather had Alzheimer's very
while I was very young, so I got to see
them in love.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
If you will, I guess in love.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Okay, that that makes sense. Okay, this is the message
because when people show me that they're grabbing hands, that
they're by the hand, not everybody does it. It's to
show kind of like they're the loves of their lives.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
They were, Yeah, and you know.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
It's gonna come next life, next life, next life. They're
always going to be together. So maybe that makes sense.
Like the Alzheimer's thing, you never got to see it,
but they are for sure, yes, or if you can
tell your mom that's.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Something, ears I will.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like they're gonna be together forever.
Like I don't even know if that's good or not,
but yes, they're gonna be together and they're really is.
She's very happy that he's there. So I'm sure like
she's happy because now it's really him, you know, right, Yeah,
it must be hard yeah, okay, perfect. Do you have
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a brother, yes, yes, okay, what's his name? Carlos, something
about not making him a bad person, but something about
it's so wrong that he takes advantage of what he has.
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It's kind of like when you're super super smart and
you just don't study at all, you take advantage of
the fact that you're really smart. Something around those lines.
Nothing bad, nothing like he steals money, but it's it's
kind of like around there. Does this make sense to you? Yes, yes, okay,
(13:01):
So Carlos, he's like, she's like, listen, you gotta be
like everybody else. Okay, there, don't cheat your way through
life just because you have this. I don't know. She
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doesn't tell me. It's it's okay, she doesn't tell me.
But she's like, don't cheat your life, your your way
through life. Do it the right way because it brings
more satisfaction. And she almost like slaps him in the
back of his head, like, you know, like come on, dude,
like life is wonderful. You know, life is wonderful, and
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and you big things, good things, bad things, but stop it. Okay.
I don't even know what that means, but that's for
your brother.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
Okay, yeh, she knows give it to him.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
He knows what I'm talking about.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Perfect, Wow, that's that's pretty accurate. Yeah, well good that well,
you know what, that's awesome that she told him, you know, yeah,
because maybe maybe he'll think about.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
You know, yeah, we're a strange So I unfortunately haven't
spoken to my brother in like ten years.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
My parents and I haven't spoken to him in ten years.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Oh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4 (14:31):
It's okay now we've tried, but I'm I knew my
grandmother would say something something.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
About that, right, Yeah. Is he taking advantage of the
fact that you guys are like all over him, like
want to reconciliate, so he's like, eh, whatever. Maybe I
don't mean to pry in your family's business. I just
want to ask you, when was the last time that
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something was, you know, like that your parents tried.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
I mean maybe like a year or two ago. I've
definitely tried.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
A year or two. Okay, so it's not that much.
Speaker 4 (15:14):
No, no, No, I've definitely tried recently. My parents, I know,
have tried multiple times.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
So yeah, okay, I'm gonna give you a little tip,
which I don't think it's like the best one. But
I think that your grandma knows your brother and this
is why she's giving it to you. Stop looking for him, Okay,
just a little while. It's like an investment, Okay, it's
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like something about until until he feels that nobody begs him.
Then that's when he's gonna be like, oh shit, nobody
loves me, you know, And he's gonna be Yeah, so
he's gonna be like, oh no, I have to do
something about it. They lost they lost their will, and
(16:07):
I know it's gonna hurt. But in the long run,
you have a nephew, don't you. Mm hmm yeah, oh
you have many okay, but from him, from him, I
have three oh three nephews boys boys, three nephews one Okay, okay, okay,
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he mentioned the the the kids, because you're one day
gonna be a big, happy family. You see what I'm saying.
But it's but it's gonna take time. Also, I don't
care who was the victim and who was the victimy,
it's not that, it's not about that. He just needs
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to feel some you know. Okay. Oh, there's one gifted
in here, right, yes, yes, okay, what is it that
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might have to do a little bit.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
With it, or I mean is I mean, I know
my niece is super smart, so I believe you.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
My daughter isn't gifted as well.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Well, she's gifted as she's very very very smart. Yes, okay,
so it's yours, No, it's yours, it's your what's her name, Valentina?
You have something to say about Valentina? Yeah, because it
wouldn't make sense something about your niece. It's more about
m Yeah, okay, let me tell you a little about Valentina.
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Valentina in some weird way needs this is something about religion, okay,
because as people that are so smart, they don't believe
what everybody else has believed for so long, you know
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what I mean? Okay, And so even though it's like,
oh okay, yeah, Joseph is the father, but what was it?
Let saso? Does this cause insane? You know that noise?
(18:29):
See values? You know, it's like the Ten Commandments. It's
just somewhere where she has to you know, follow. It's
something about let her believe what she believes. And maybe
this is right now, maybe this is in the future.
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I mean, let her question everything, but just always try
to like the tank commandments this, and.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Well she's actually study at school this year, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Oh good, yeah, okay good. She might question you a
lot because she's so smart. Okay, but whatever you want
to say is fine. You can tell her like, read
that book, read that book, and I don't know, let's
talk about it one day, Let's get to dinner and
tell me what you think, and I'll tell you what
(19:23):
I think. You know, and that's fine because what I
was in a Catholic school my whole life, and they
just tell you what's right and what's wrong in general,
and that's good. Yeah, okay, okay, awesome, you have more.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Children or just Valentina, just Valentina.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Are you planning or did you lose a little boy?
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yes? Yeah, I lost a little boy.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Did you put a name on him?
Speaker 2 (19:52):
No?
Speaker 4 (19:53):
No, it was very early on. I was like twelve
thirteen weeks. Oh sorry, no, eleven eleven weeks.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Eli and Wicks, Well that's a lot. Mm hmm, that's
a lot. I'm so sorry. I mean, he's up there.
He just okay, this is what he says. Mom. I
know you tried, believe me, I know you tried. Okay,
and he's like it doesn't matter. Hold On, hold on,
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because the little kids are the hardest to understand. Hold On.
He's like, what were you gonna do? Were you divorced
at that time or maybe going through a rough time
with your partner?
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Well, it was it was past.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
It was after my divorce with with my partner, but
it was Oh but it was unexpected.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because she shows you alone. He shows
you alone, you know, and you know what I mean.
And he's like, what would I have what would you
have done? You know, it's just like it was not
the right time you were alone. It was going to
be very difficult and be like, thank god you dodged
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a bullet, you know that kind of thing. And of
course we don't see it that way. But he's smiling
so much. He's like, I'm super good over here. You know,
there's Valentina. Everything's good.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
You know.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
It was just going to be way too complicated for you.
And I think it just wow, maybe taught you through
or four lessons and.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
That's it, you know, wow.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Yeah, makes sense. Yet and he's happy. Yeah, and he's happy,
So don't worry something about his stomach. Why does he
show me his stomach so much?
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Do you know.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
No, no, I just know that he just stopped growing.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Maybe that he stopped growing.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Yeah yeah, okay, God, God, God, God, he's happy, he's so,
he's just beautiful.
Speaker 6 (22:11):
Do you know anybody named Adam it's with an a. Uh,
I'm super bad with names, Okay, so be thankful that
I even said a name.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
It's just not my thing. But just your dad's name
speaking with an a or your cetto is his middle name? Okay, okay, No,
he's just it's nothing important. It just says that like
his name was going to be with a name or
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with an ah.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
No, no, no, if that's true or not, I have to ask.
I don't know, okay.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
And when you ask ask for Adam, I don't know
who Adam is okay, and it just doesn't sound like
right right, But okay, there's Anatam out there. Okay, Okay,
it's fine. Fe Okay, here we go. Do you have
any questions?
Speaker 4 (23:11):
You know, as we were talking, I realized that, I mean,
I guess I spoke about my maternal grandmother and my
aunt because they're the ones that I haven't seen for
the longest. But my paternal grandmother passed away twenty in
twenty twenty three, and a lot of what you said
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about like just in time makes so much sense. And
as I was sitting here, was thinking about it because
she passed away, and then months later my aunt, her
daughter passed away, and then months after that, my son
passed away.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
So that's been the thought of.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Like, oh my god, like you know, that would have
really killed Aueila having to like she was a totally
about my aunt and my cousin's everyone. So yeah, I
think that also makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Yes, you know what happens sometimes when when I know
that they want to talk to more people like I
just it's crazy because it's like one stands here and
then bah blah blah, and then they switch and it's
the other grandmother. So I start saying like, oh, cancer
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this and that, and they're like, noah, my mom didn't
I have cancer? And then oh but the other one did. Okay.
I always I am sorry because it's like I don't know
why they do that just to make me look bad.
I think.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Makes so much sense in my grandma.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Better sense with the other girl.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
See yeah, yeah, yeah, well ok so that makes a
lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Oh okay, I got it. I got it. Yeah, of
course she would have been so sad.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
So and now she was the one that was receiving them, yes,
exactly right, and they're all happy together, but the one
with the love of their life, that dad, would be
karidav right.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
And also my grandmother Nana, because they were also my
grandmother had been with my grandfather since she was like
fifteen and the hair.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Of him until the day he died, and then.
Speaker 4 (25:22):
You know, she would always say it like that, that
that was the love of her life and and all that.
So glad, glad. Both of them were very much like that.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
That's so beautiful, okay, perfect, perfect, perfect. What's your mom's name, Gilda? Okay,
any more questions?
Speaker 4 (25:46):
Just if like what do they see in my future?
My grandmother's okay, Guardian angels and I'm always talking to them,
so right.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
Okay, no problem. They say that there are that they
that you, they see you. I wonder whose they okay,
because your son is here okay, telling or preparing others Okay,
because they're like, it's really hard and it's really cut
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throat what you do, and you're not made for that
because you're a really nice person, Like you're actually nice
you're actually good. Wow, something about controlling your hours that
way and and this I tell you, because what they're
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building up to is they want you, uh, they want
you to do a business around that m okay. They
don't want you to be here, there and everywhere. Okay,
and you know a lot of things. So if you
build something where I'm gonna teach you guys this, I'm
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gonna teach you guys this, and let's make this all
happen and you know, like a three sixty kind of thing. Yep.
I think that's where you're going and that's what's gonna do.
Do you feel that or do you want that?
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Both, because I see you smile and I'm like, please
tell me what's on your mind?
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Please please please, No, it's it's definitely where where I
see myself and the steps I've.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Taken to try to get there very soon.
Speaker 1 (27:31):
Got it? So you you that's awesome? Well there, yeah, yeah,
thank you very much, thank you. That is where you're headed.
And you know, let's help these people network. All the
people that are there network. Okay, you bring a friend today,
You bring a friend today, what does he do? What
does he do?
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Like?
Speaker 1 (27:52):
You know, because networking is so hard, and then you
go to the networking things and it's like nobody's worth it.
In fact, the real ones, the real ones.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Don't go exactly true.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
Okay, so we're gonna help them. You're gonna help them
out with the networking, which is something that nobody really does. Okay,
So incorporate everything and I think that's where you're heading
at and most importantly that you control everything. Yeah, yeah,
h yes, sounds great to me. Okay, one more question
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maybe before we go.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
No, unless they have something to say, I don't know
what to.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
On after an hour of things they have to say,
you want to ask that? No, no, no, no, I'm
like anything else to say.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
I don't have question.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
She she she's like, okay, this one is for homework. Okay.
She says that there's a lot of things that nobody
told you of the family.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Do you feel this there's a lot of things at what's.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
On that the family your family never told you? Does
this ring a bell?
Speaker 2 (29:13):
I mean I guess it could.
Speaker 4 (29:14):
There are you know, things you find doubt as time
goes on about certain things.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
Right, she's just saying that. She's like, I'm not gonna
be the one. But she says, you know what, you're old,
your mature. Ask ask your mom, ask your dad, whoever
you need to ask, Okay, because I feel like there's
like a lot of like holes in your life, like
(29:42):
I don't remember that. I don't remember that, and Mom
kind of like maybe made it smoother for you, or
Grandma made it smoother for you, you know, something like that,
and it's nothing bad, but she really wants you to
know the story, not just the ones, you know, the
(30:04):
ones that already is probably not you know, probably were
not that easy. So I was saying, like the real stories,
you still haven't heard them, and it's nothing bad or anything,
but you know, it's just a good way of learning
about your family sometimes, you know. Yep, So tell your mom,
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tell whoever you want. I need to know more stories. Yeah, okay, okay,
all right, sounds good. Okay, I'm going to tell Kadida,
I'm going to tell I'm going to tell. Oh wait,
who else did we bring down?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
My will?
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Your will? Ena? And your son? Can I recommend something?
This is your this is not for now, for later.
Give your son a name. Okay, maybe that's Adam. I
don't know. You do whatever you want, but give your
son a name, okay, because he's always with you, so
(31:08):
it's cool that you maybe say hey, what's up, you
know whatever, so your son also, and we give them
back to the light where they belong, and we thank
them so much for being here today. Vianna, I give
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you back all your energy and I take back mine
and it parlichus pit santo amen. Everything's perfect.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
Thank you, thank you so much. Paula, you were amazing.
No oh, thank you you're amazing.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Thank you, thank you so much, and thank you for accepting.
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Of course, of course, the w
So whatever you're doing that has those two things together,
which I love, go for it. And I almost see
it as something that seems like something that would make
you take the next step. Welcome to ghost Therapy, where
it's not just about connecting with Desi's loved ones, it's
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about learning through them and their new perspective. Hi, guys,
welcome to ghost Therapy. Thank you so much for being
here this week. Today we have a beautiful Oh my god,
she's so beautiful. She looks like a model. She's Diana
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Marty and you know, she works in media and she's
done a lot of a lot of stuff in media.
But she was wondering about her future, what she could do.
And it's crazy because us mediums, we are not allowed
to tell the future. We are not allowed to see
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who's going to die? Which is good for me, right
who would want? Who would want? That superpower? But this
time she's like, what am I going to do? How
do you see me? And she gave her a step
by step what she needed to do to get to
the future that she wants, and uh, listen to it.
(01:24):
Listen to it. It's pretty easy. It's awesome. Okay, So
here's Dana Marti on Ghost Therapy. Thank you for being here. Hi,
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guys from ghost Therapy. So happy to be here. We're
here with Yanna Marti all the way from Miami. Oh
I miss Miami. How are you, Danna good?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
How are you so excited to be here?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Oh? Thank you so much for accepting. I love the
purple in the back. Thank you got her favorite color.
I love it. I love it. Okay, who do you
want to talk to today?
Speaker 2 (02:12):
I would love to talk to my grandmother.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Grandmother, Okay, alrighty well, I'm going to see a little prayer.
I'm going to close my eyes and then I'll be
right back.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
The first thing I get from her, which is really weird,
she goes, ooh, I left on time. Like I don't
know what happened after death or if she was like
really sick, but it was like, oh, thank god I
got you know, I died that day or whatever. Does
this spring a bell? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:55):
I think a lot of things happened to a lot
of us after she got so we always joke that,
you know what she didn't get to see not beautiful things,
but also you know crazy things that happen.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Right, Well, she saw obviously, but she's like made it,
you know what I mean. Okay, she's laughing about it,
not laughing about what happened to you, but she's laughing
about like, Wow, I can't believe I missed it all. Okay,
let me continue. Okay. She doesn't tell me what your
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career is, but she tells you this. You're way too
early on every step. It's like a thing like don't
get ahead of yourself kind of thing. It's gonna happen.
Like you're so young and you always want like if
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you're four years old, I don't know, it's stupid, Like
if you're thirteen years old, then you already want a car?
Why because you can? Why because you have a I
don't know, you know how to drive or whatever. That's
not for you till you're sixteen or seventeen or I
don't know. In Mexico, I got my name at eleven,
so I don't know how it works at all in
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all the cultures. But you know what I mean, does
this ring a bell? And this I'm telling you it's
about your work. Okay, hold on, let me add something.
It's kind of like it's coming. You're on the right track,
don't get ahead of yourself.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Yeah, yeah, I think that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah what do you do?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
I've worked in media for like thirteen years. No, but
I also.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
I'm a part of nonprofits and other projects that I
have as well.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
So good for you. Congratulations. Okay, Okay, so ta gets slow,
It's all gonna be great. Why is she saying she's
there looking at you all the time. But it's a she,
so it can't be her. Is there anybody else that
died around you? Maybe like a friend or something? Do
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you know or I mean, of course you know, do
you remember.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
So you feel that it's it's someone younger or.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Yeah, it's somebody else. It's a girl, but it's not
your grandma because she wants to like tell you that
she's with you, like a very caring relationship.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
I had a great aunt that passed that she's like
my grandmother. She never had her own children, so she
was absolutely like my grandmother. She would watch all my
Selena Kania performances in the living room.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
So yeah, you did those two.
Speaker 5 (05:59):
Didn't Okay, So it must be her because she's not
really you know, not that she's not with you, but
you know it's something.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
It's someone that had to be very very special to you,
So this makes sense. Yeah, she was. She's always there
with you, okay, just so you know, she's never left
your site. Okay. Yes, what was her name?
Speaker 4 (06:24):
So we would call her, well, no her we called
her the Gonca, but her name was Goncha.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Love it okay. Yes, does it make sense that you
studied something else?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I initially started studying education, okay, just because I come
from a family of educators, and last minute I switched
over to journalism because, okay, my passion.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
That is so crazy. My mom had a kindergarten for
thirty something years. Wow, and I studied education too, and
I was like, what am I doing here? I don't
even want to be a teacher. And then I went
to a journalism that's so crazy. Okay, So you've followed
your dream. Good for you. Okay. What she's trying to
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say about this is that it's because it's something about
you didn't study it, but now what you know it's
like perfect humbo.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yeah, that's because I love to mentor I be someone
that people can come to, and so I think that
that part makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And I'd love to tease eventually at some point.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Your voice, your word, your I think it's kind of
the way you talk. It's something that's really going to
resonate with people like you really get through. So whatever
you're doing that has those two things together, which I love,
I'll go for it. Go for it, and I'll we'll
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see it as something that I mean, you can do
whatever you want, but it seems like something that would
make you take the next step and it's always going
to be better and better around.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
That are Yeah, okay, that makes yes.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
That's awesome. Okay, this will be very random. Most probably
I'm wrong, but I have to say, why is she
saying that it's not about the running something about the running?
And if it doesn't make sense, it's okay, just you know,
put it in the back of your mind.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
I will, I'll put in the market. I can't think.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Okay, you can't think of anything. That's fine, that's fine.
But it's something about don't waste your time on running,
something about maybe some other exercise but not the running
and not good for you. Okay in your case, obviously
you know, maybe makes sense.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Oh it does, Yeah, it tells I work out, but
I tried to start.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
I tried to start running and I almost passed out
trying to randomly, and it led to like me getting
checked for something else.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
It was all good, but after that, I just like,
not something I'm going to continue to do.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
So not okay, good, oh my god, it did make sense.
I'm so plucky. And do you see the wording it's
not about the running, because she could have said don't
don't run too much or be careful with the running.
I almost feel like the running doesn't matter. Mm hmm, yeah,
(09:48):
I feel like the weights maybe matter or like the other. Yes,
So don't feel bad about not running because it's not
about that. Yeah, okay, how random? Huh? I get like
so weird? Okay, crazy. I'm glad she said it to
you because then a lot of us think that the
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running is like the cardio and the most important to
lose weight. And now it's not.
Speaker 4 (10:16):
No, no, no no, And what happened to me was
kind of scary. So it's not that I'm never gonna
run again, but I it's not something I plan on
doing anytime soon.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Good good good. Yeah. Not putting yourself out for something
that's yeah whatever, Yeah, okay, perfect, is your grandmother up
there with your grandfather. Oh okay, okay, okay, there's something
it's really weird because there's something about like maybe on
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earth they didn't look that like that in love? Is
this correct? They did?
Speaker 4 (11:02):
They did, they did, but my grandfather had Alzheimer's very
while I was very young, so I got to see
them in love.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
If you will, I guess in love.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Okay, that that makes sense. Okay, this is the message
because when people show me that they're grabbing hands, that
they're by the hand, not everybody does it. It's to
show kind of like they're the loves of their lives.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
They were, Yeah, and you know.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
It's gonna come next life, next life, next life. They're
always going to be together. So maybe that makes sense.
Like the Alzheimer's thing, you never got to see it,
but they are for sure, yes, or if you can
tell your mom that's.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Something, ears I will.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like they're gonna be together forever.
Like I don't even know if that's good or not,
but yes, they're gonna be together and they're really is.
She's very happy that he's there. So I'm sure like
she's happy because now it's really him, you know, right, Yeah,
it must be hard yeah, okay, perfect. Do you have
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a brother, yes, yes, okay, what's his name? Carlos, something
about not making him a bad person, but something about
it's so wrong that he takes advantage of what he has.
(12:35):
It's kind of like when you're super super smart and
you just don't study at all, you take advantage of
the fact that you're really smart. Something around those lines.
Nothing bad, nothing like he steals money, but it's it's
kind of like around there. Does this make sense to you? Yes, yes, okay,
(13:01):
So Carlos, he's like, she's like, listen, you gotta be
like everybody else. Okay, there, don't cheat your way through
life just because you have this. I don't know. She
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doesn't tell me. It's it's okay, she doesn't tell me.
But she's like, don't cheat your life, your your way
through life. Do it the right way because it brings
more satisfaction. And she almost like slaps him in the
back of his head, like, you know, like come on, dude,
like life is wonderful. You know, life is wonderful, and
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and you big things, good things, bad things, but stop it. Okay.
I don't even know what that means, but that's for
your brother.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
Okay, yeh, she knows give it to him.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
He knows what I'm talking about.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Perfect, Wow, that's that's pretty accurate. Yeah, well good that well,
you know what, that's awesome that she told him, you know, yeah,
because maybe maybe he'll think about.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
You know, yeah, we're a strange So I unfortunately haven't
spoken to my brother in like ten years.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
My parents and I haven't spoken to him in ten years.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Oh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4 (14:31):
It's okay now we've tried, but I'm I knew my
grandmother would say something something.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
About that, right, Yeah. Is he taking advantage of the
fact that you guys are like all over him, like
want to reconciliate, so he's like, eh, whatever. Maybe I
don't mean to pry in your family's business. I just
want to ask you, when was the last time that
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something was, you know, like that your parents tried.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
I mean maybe like a year or two ago. I've
definitely tried.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
A year or two. Okay, so it's not that much.
Speaker 4 (15:14):
No, no, No, I've definitely tried recently. My parents, I know,
have tried multiple times.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
So yeah, okay, I'm gonna give you a little tip,
which I don't think it's like the best one. But
I think that your grandma knows your brother and this
is why she's giving it to you. Stop looking for him, Okay,
just a little while. It's like an investment, Okay, it's
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like something about until until he feels that nobody begs him.
Then that's when he's gonna be like, oh shit, nobody
loves me, you know, And he's gonna be Yeah, so
he's gonna be like, oh no, I have to do
something about it. They lost they lost their will, and
(16:07):
I know it's gonna hurt. But in the long run,
you have a nephew, don't you. Mm hmm yeah, oh
you have many okay, but from him, from him, I
have three oh three nephews boys boys, three nephews one Okay, okay, okay,
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he mentioned the the the kids, because you're one day
gonna be a big, happy family. You see what I'm saying.
But it's but it's gonna take time. Also, I don't
care who was the victim and who was the victimy,
it's not that, it's not about that. He just needs
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to feel some you know. Okay. Oh, there's one gifted
in here, right, yes, yes, okay, what is it that
(17:15):
might have to do a little bit.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
With it, or I mean is I mean, I know
my niece is super smart, so I believe you.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
My daughter isn't gifted as well.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Well, she's gifted as she's very very very smart. Yes, okay,
so it's yours, No, it's yours, it's your what's her name, Valentina?
You have something to say about Valentina? Yeah, because it
wouldn't make sense something about your niece. It's more about
m Yeah, okay, let me tell you a little about Valentina.
(17:49):
Valentina in some weird way needs this is something about religion, okay,
because as people that are so smart, they don't believe
what everybody else has believed for so long, you know
(18:09):
what I mean? Okay, And so even though it's like,
oh okay, yeah, Joseph is the father, but what was it?
Let saso? Does this cause insane? You know that noise?
(18:29):
See values? You know, it's like the Ten Commandments. It's
just somewhere where she has to you know, follow. It's
something about let her believe what she believes. And maybe
this is right now, maybe this is in the future.
(18:50):
I mean, let her question everything, but just always try
to like the tank commandments this, and.
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Well she's actually study at school this year, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Oh good, yeah, okay good. She might question you a
lot because she's so smart. Okay, but whatever you want
to say is fine. You can tell her like, read
that book, read that book, and I don't know, let's
talk about it one day, Let's get to dinner and
tell me what you think, and I'll tell you what
(19:23):
I think. You know, and that's fine because what I
was in a Catholic school my whole life, and they
just tell you what's right and what's wrong in general,
and that's good. Yeah, okay, okay, awesome, you have more.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Children or just Valentina, just Valentina.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Are you planning or did you lose a little boy?
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yes? Yeah, I lost a little boy.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Did you put a name on him?
Speaker 2 (19:52):
No?
Speaker 4 (19:53):
No, it was very early on. I was like twelve
thirteen weeks. Oh sorry, no, eleven eleven weeks.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Eli and Wicks, Well that's a lot. Mm hmm, that's
a lot. I'm so sorry. I mean, he's up there.
He just okay, this is what he says. Mom. I
know you tried, believe me, I know you tried. Okay,
and he's like it doesn't matter. Hold On, hold on,
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because the little kids are the hardest to understand. Hold On.
He's like, what were you gonna do? Were you divorced
at that time or maybe going through a rough time
with your partner?
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Well, it was it was past.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
It was after my divorce with with my partner, but
it was Oh but it was unexpected.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because she shows you alone. He shows
you alone, you know, and you know what I mean.
And he's like, what would I have what would you
have done? You know, it's just like it was not
the right time you were alone. It was going to
be very difficult and be like, thank god you dodged
(21:14):
a bullet, you know that kind of thing. And of
course we don't see it that way. But he's smiling
so much. He's like, I'm super good over here. You know,
there's Valentina. Everything's good.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
You know.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
It was just going to be way too complicated for you.
And I think it just wow, maybe taught you through
or four lessons and.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
That's it, you know, wow.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Yeah, makes sense. Yet and he's happy. Yeah, and he's happy,
So don't worry something about his stomach. Why does he
show me his stomach so much?
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Do you know.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
No, no, I just know that he just stopped growing.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Maybe that he stopped growing.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Yeah yeah, okay, God, God, God, God, he's happy, he's so,
he's just beautiful.
Speaker 6 (22:11):
Do you know anybody named Adam it's with an a. Uh,
I'm super bad with names, Okay, so be thankful that
I even said a name.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
It's just not my thing. But just your dad's name
speaking with an a or your cetto is his middle name? Okay, okay, No,
he's just it's nothing important. It just says that like
his name was going to be with a name or
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with an ah.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
No, no, no, if that's true or not, I have to ask.
I don't know, okay.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
And when you ask ask for Adam, I don't know
who Adam is okay, and it just doesn't sound like
right right, But okay, there's Anatam out there. Okay, Okay,
it's fine. Fe Okay, here we go. Do you have
any questions?
Speaker 4 (23:11):
You know, as we were talking, I realized that, I mean,
I guess I spoke about my maternal grandmother and my
aunt because they're the ones that I haven't seen for
the longest. But my paternal grandmother passed away twenty in
twenty twenty three, and a lot of what you said
(23:34):
about like just in time makes so much sense. And
as I was sitting here, was thinking about it because
she passed away, and then months later my aunt, her
daughter passed away, and then months after that, my son
passed away.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
So that's been the thought of.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Like, oh my god, like you know, that would have
really killed Aueila having to like she was a totally
about my aunt and my cousin's everyone. So yeah, I
think that also makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Yes, you know what happens sometimes when when I know
that they want to talk to more people like I
just it's crazy because it's like one stands here and
then bah blah blah, and then they switch and it's
the other grandmother. So I start saying like, oh, cancer
(24:26):
this and that, and they're like, noah, my mom didn't
I have cancer? And then oh but the other one did. Okay.
I always I am sorry because it's like I don't know
why they do that just to make me look bad.
I think.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Makes so much sense in my grandma.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Better sense with the other girl.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
See yeah, yeah, yeah, well ok so that makes a
lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Oh okay, I got it. I got it. Yeah, of
course she would have been so sad.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
So and now she was the one that was receiving them, yes,
exactly right, and they're all happy together, but the one
with the love of their life, that dad, would be
karidav right.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
And also my grandmother Nana, because they were also my
grandmother had been with my grandfather since she was like
fifteen and the hair.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Of him until the day he died, and then.
Speaker 4 (25:22):
You know, she would always say it like that, that
that was the love of her life and and all that.
So glad, glad. Both of them were very much like that.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
That's so beautiful, okay, perfect, perfect, perfect. What's your mom's name, Gilda? Okay,
any more questions?
Speaker 4 (25:46):
Just if like what do they see in my future?
My grandmother's okay, Guardian angels and I'm always talking to them,
so right.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
Okay, no problem. They say that there are that they
that you, they see you. I wonder whose they okay,
because your son is here okay, telling or preparing others Okay,
because they're like, it's really hard and it's really cut
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throat what you do, and you're not made for that
because you're a really nice person, Like you're actually nice
you're actually good. Wow, something about controlling your hours that
way and and this I tell you, because what they're
(26:39):
building up to is they want you, uh, they want
you to do a business around that m okay. They
don't want you to be here, there and everywhere. Okay,
and you know a lot of things. So if you
build something where I'm gonna teach you guys this, I'm
(27:02):
gonna teach you guys this, and let's make this all
happen and you know, like a three sixty kind of thing. Yep.
I think that's where you're going and that's what's gonna do.
Do you feel that or do you want that?
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Both, because I see you smile and I'm like, please
tell me what's on your mind?
Speaker 4 (27:20):
Please please please, No, it's it's definitely where where I
see myself and the steps I've.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Taken to try to get there very soon.
Speaker 1 (27:31):
Got it? So you you that's awesome? Well there, yeah, yeah,
thank you very much, thank you. That is where you're headed.
And you know, let's help these people network. All the
people that are there network. Okay, you bring a friend today,
You bring a friend today, what does he do? What
does he do?
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Like?
Speaker 1 (27:52):
You know, because networking is so hard, and then you
go to the networking things and it's like nobody's worth it.
In fact, the real ones, the real ones.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Don't go exactly true.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
Okay, so we're gonna help them. You're gonna help them
out with the networking, which is something that nobody really does. Okay,
So incorporate everything and I think that's where you're heading
at and most importantly that you control everything. Yeah, yeah,
h yes, sounds great to me. Okay, one more question
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maybe before we go.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
No, unless they have something to say, I don't know
what to.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
On after an hour of things they have to say,
you want to ask that? No, no, no, no, I'm
like anything else to say.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
I don't have question.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
She she she's like, okay, this one is for homework. Okay.
She says that there's a lot of things that nobody
told you of the family.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Do you feel this there's a lot of things at what's.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
On that the family your family never told you? Does
this ring a bell?
Speaker 2 (29:13):
I mean I guess it could.
Speaker 4 (29:14):
There are you know, things you find doubt as time
goes on about certain things.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
Right, she's just saying that. She's like, I'm not gonna
be the one. But she says, you know what, you're old,
your mature. Ask ask your mom, ask your dad, whoever
you need to ask, Okay, because I feel like there's
like a lot of like holes in your life, like
(29:42):
I don't remember that. I don't remember that, and Mom
kind of like maybe made it smoother for you, or
Grandma made it smoother for you, you know, something like that,
and it's nothing bad, but she really wants you to
know the story, not just the ones, you know, the
(30:04):
ones that already is probably not you know, probably were
not that easy. So I was saying, like the real stories,
you still haven't heard them, and it's nothing bad or anything,
but you know, it's just a good way of learning
about your family sometimes, you know. Yep, So tell your mom,
(30:24):
tell whoever you want. I need to know more stories. Yeah, okay, okay,
all right, sounds good. Okay, I'm going to tell Kadida,
I'm going to tell I'm going to tell. Oh wait,
who else did we bring down?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
My will?
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Your will? Ena? And your son? Can I recommend something?
This is your this is not for now, for later.
Give your son a name. Okay, maybe that's Adam. I
don't know. You do whatever you want, but give your
son a name, okay, because he's always with you, so
(31:08):
it's cool that you maybe say hey, what's up, you
know whatever, so your son also, and we give them
back to the light where they belong, and we thank
them so much for being here today. Vianna, I give
(31:30):
you back all your energy and I take back mine
and it parlichus pit santo amen. Everything's perfect.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
Thank you, thank you so much. Paula, you were amazing.
No oh, thank you you're amazing.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Thank you, thank you so much, and thank you for accepting.
Speaker 4 (31:52):
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