March 4, 2025 • 34 mins
Dru Flecha is a talented Venezuelan singer and songwriter, daughter of Venezuelan rap pioneer DJ 13. Born and raised in a deeply musical environment, Dru has stood out in the music scene with her distinctive and modern electronic pop sound.
From a young age, Dru showed an innate passion for music, influenced by her father and the creative environment that surrounded her. At 24 years old, she has managed to position herself as one of Venezuela’s most promising emerging artists. Her ability to combine sensual and contagious lyrics with electronic rhythms has captured the attention of a wide and diverse audience.
One of her biggest hits, “No le bajes”, has resonated strongly with listeners, consolidating her as a key figure in the current music scene.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
That one is for people to kind of, like I guess,
put yourself out there and then they'll listen to the
other ones.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Wow, that actually makes so much sense.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
That's so awesome.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
Okay, welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about
connecting with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them
and their new perspective.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Hi, guys, this is Paula Pedrosa. Welcome to ghost therapy.
Thank you so much for tuning in one more time.
Thank you for all your reviews and all your comments.
We are so happy to receive them. Okay, this time around,
we're gonna do something different. Instead of talking to the deceased,
we're gonna talk. We're gonna talk to spirit guides, which
(00:52):
is amazing because it's like your best friend, your mom,
and your sister all in what they're the ones that
know most things about you.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
You.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
And the important thing about this one with Drew Fletcher,
which she's a great artist of Venezuelan artist, is that
they validated all the decisions that she has made throughout
her career, throughout her life. And who doesn't want that, right?
We all want to be validated in a way. And uh,
and kind of applauded for our decisions. So this is
(01:25):
a really interesting one. I hope you enjoy it. This
is Drew Fletcher ghoes therapy. Thank you, but Andrea Molina,
(01:46):
Abi and Benia which yes, I know? Is that.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, it's not important.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
As he boy said, Oh yeah, let's get it. Let's
get he said, Drew, and Toon says, we're gonna we're
gonna call you Drew. Would that be okay? Or is
it just for friends?
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Perfect?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Okay? Perfect? Okay, Drew.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So I have an understanding that you want to talk
to your spirit guides.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Is that correct?
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Yes? I do.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Yes, Okay, Well let me say I'm just gonna say
a little parent silence and then I'll be right back.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
Okay, okay there.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Mino Committee said, is they've been asking me.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
They're telling me that you've been asking about how to
move forward, but you don't know, like which path?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Does this make sense to you?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Okay, awesome. Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
So I'm guessing they're going to tell you how because
I know you're at a crossroad right now. Let me
ask them to tell you what to do?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Oh my god. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
First of all, they want they're like, okay, you have
to look yourself in the mirror and be true to
yourself and say, Okay, I'm not that good at this,
and I'm really good at this. I feel a lot
of movement. I don't know if this makes sense to you,
Like what you're really good at is like I don't
know if it's like dancing or like exers, I don't
(03:37):
know something like that. But they're like, okay, this is
what you're good at. The rest good for you, but
we got to concentrate on this, on like the movement
and what you do best.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Does this make sense? Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Okay, awesome, Okay, can you confirm what the moving around is?
Speaker 5 (03:55):
It might be.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I exercise a lot, and it's basically okay, it just
it's what's keeping me in line and disciplined. I think
it's just like my working out. I just came back
from working out.
Speaker 5 (04:09):
I do boxing.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Okay, so oh nice, Okay, okay, okay, perfect this.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I think this has like a bigger meaning than.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
That I'll tell you right now, because I feel like
what the movement has brought you is kind of like
a life changing thing, like like like your mind has
expanded a little right, and it kind of makes you
clear headed and that is what, like, I think that's
(04:39):
something like a light bulb went on in your head
because of the exercise. That kind of tells you something
about how to move forward. I'll tell you more, but
how to move forward, I guess in terms of like
work and.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Lifestyle kind of thing. Right.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
And I don't know if this would even be a thing,
but I feel like, were you like a little overweight before?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
For for me personally, yes, because I was struggling with
with like hormonal imbalances.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Oh okay, okay, and so yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yeah, I started. I been working on my nutrition and
working out, and obviously now I'm in the best shape ever.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Awesome.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
You look, I've always been a pretty slim person. I
wasn't like, oh.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Right, but I was, you know, I was to your liking.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Let's say, you know, because everybody, if you if your
grandma would tell you you'd be too thin, right, Because
I feel like all this exercise and all this thing
that you went through. The reason I asked if you
were over weight because they showed me like a like
a really drastic change in you, and that that's a
journey that I think you should share or something has to.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Come out of that.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Okay, you know, like I don't know if like maybe
on your on your Instagram or on your TikTok or
something like. I feel like this kind of like I'm
a normal person. I'm not because I feel like it's
a fat or thin but you know all those people
that are in between that they're not fat, but they're
not skinny how they want to be, and that I
(06:24):
think that that would very much appeal to a lot
of people. Okay, and I feel like you can do
something with that. I'm not saying that maybe that that
should be your job alone, but I think they they
really want you to kind of spread the word and
kind of because the way you went about it or
the way you did it, I feel like it was
(06:46):
like a slow kind of getting into it, kind of
like not too much because then you'll fall out off
of the wagon really quick right behind.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
A lot.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
So that's awesome. So if you know, give it a
give it a think.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
No, what is it? Give it a thought? Sorry, my
anguage isn't that good, But.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Just give it some thought because this could be something
that not only inspires, but it could actually make you
some money. Okay, Okay, this is separately. This is just
like a little tidbit. Let me ask about the rest
hold on. Is there something that you wanted to do
with your career, something that you feel like it's too
(07:30):
late now to start or to begin or to continue.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Does that make any sense?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
I think it's mostly like, yeah, I'm kind of in
a hurry, and things that I do are like taking
a while to get done for me to put them
out of the world. So I feel like right late,
later and later and later, and I'm just like I
want to put it out like I want it to
be ready.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Oh that's what it is, right right, and it's not
coming through on your I'm.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
Like exactly, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Exactly, Okay, thank you for clearing that up. Okay, let
me let me see what they have to say about that.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
I don't know why they say it.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Maybe you know better than me, but they're really adamant
on me telling you it's not about winning or losing,
or it's not about beating somebody to the.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
To the to the finish line.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I don't know if you're too worried about that in
this specific kind of like this before before any anybody
else does it, I have to do it first kind
of thing.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Yeah, okay, yeah, in this sort of way, I feel
like I'm doing something that's very different.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Nobody is doing it.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Maybe my subconscious or something believes that someone else is
going to do it before me, So I want to
just start putting doing it out like now.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Totally, totally.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
They just wanted to know that it's never gonna be
about that. It's never no matter how many people do
do it. You have your place and you have your
your kind of your path set out, no matter how
many people do it. So don't worry about that because
it's gonna be fine. It's going to turn out okay,
(09:23):
you know. But that but like that mentality, let's you know,
put it on the side because it'll only frustrate you
a little bit more. And you know, and when we
get frustrated about something, the energy kind of like starts
to squeeze like that and nothing happens.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
So we need to like.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Let the energy flow and you know, it's gonna come
out whenever it's gonna come out. But what about somebody else, Yeah,
maybe somebody else will do the same. You never know,
but you're still going to do it. You're still going
to do it, and it's gonna be okay, and it's
these are like I feel like it's like two things
that are like very very new, and then there's one
(10:04):
that's kind of like nothing new has been discovered, but
it's really good. Does this make sense to you? I
feel it's a project, but two are like very like
very advanced, like very like we said, nobody else has
done it. Okay, But there's one that I see that
stands out that I want to talk about is one
(10:25):
that's not like something new. It's something other people have done,
but you're still you still want to do it, you know,
maybe with your touch or something, but they're concentrating on that.
I don't know what it is. I feel it's a
project something like that.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
I mean, it might be my project, yes if okay.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
What I want to say about that is that it's
something that I feel that the first thing that should
pop out, or the first thing that you should want
to pop out, would be the one that's the average
one or the regular ones something like that, because because
I feel like when you throw the first you know, bullet,
(11:07):
it's that one is for people to kind of like,
I guess, put yourself out there and then they'll listen
to the other ones. Wow.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
Wow, that actually is so much sense.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
That's so awesome.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Okay, okay, good, good, good.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
So that's like the that's the plan. You see what
I'm saying. And then if and then when you get
people to turn around and look, and then the rest
is gonna It's gonna stick because you're the eyes are
on you.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Okay, now tell me.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
I do music.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I'm a musician, So yeah, so I you know, I
have my music project. But it's just I'm in a
weird situation where I was making you know, I make
different kinds of genres.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
It's not like one specific.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Genre, but I am right now making more you know,
alternative more, you know, uh, just like different, a different
kind of sound, something different.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
And I also have you know, hits.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
I have hits that are commercial and pop and stuff.
So I just like in my head, I've been like thinking,
like what do I put out first, like the indie
more like you know.
Speaker 5 (12:33):
Like but I go like things that are a little
bit more complicated.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I guess to like a public or should I put
out first the popular stuff, the commercial stuff, so I
can kind of like get people to like see me first,
and then I put out my real like my music
really like Indie.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Project, right, like gain the respect and then so not
the respect, but the eyes.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Oh I love it.
Speaker 6 (12:59):
I love when when you become like, oh god, I know.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Oh my god, that is so cool. Okay, okay, okay,
So that's good.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
And also remember that they said something about be very
very careful to like the things put it, like, pay
attention to the things that you're really good at. I
just want to remind you because maybe it sticks here. Uh,
and the ones that you're not that good at, don't
even like go there because then it's you know, it's
(13:31):
going to be halfway and maybe you'll learn along the way,
you know. But yeah, don't dip.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Don't dip into.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Something that you maybe because it could be like a
certain type of music and it's great music, but you
don't know how to like go where do you put
this music? Like we're in the universe right something like
that means, oh my god, how exciting.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
That makes sense because you know, I've also like been
trying to like do everything myself, and there's there's parts
of the music industry that I'm just not very good at,
you know, like the business side or stuff like that.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
So it's just like I do think I just need.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Help from other people instead of me doing something that
I just don't know that that's not specifically what I'm
good at it.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
I'm good at making the music. I'm gonna like composing it.
I'm good.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I have the good taste, but I'm not very good
at the whole business side.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
You know, it takes a village, and that's that's why.
That's why there's a business manitor, that's why there's a
record label or whatever. Like they all know their things. Yeah,
their area. Right, you do your thing, that's crazy good.
Good for you. Do what you have to do that's
your area, and then get help for the rest.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
You know. It's it's very wise to ask for help.
So good for you.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
Okay, you're saying that to be patient. I feel like
there's a really big wish that you have.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
I have to say it.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Family, they're like, your wish is gonna come true. Be patient,
it's gonna happen. Don't think it's not. It's something about
I think your mom or your dad or like something
like that, Like a really big wish.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Just does that make any sense?
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (15:15):
I will.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Like one of my biggest things is like getting married,
and like having a family. Oh and like one dreams
and like, you know what I wake up and think
about every day is okay, when am I gonna.
Speaker 5 (15:30):
Meet like my husband and have kids? So I resonates
a lot with me. I have a very close.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Okay my dad, Okay, okay, okay, it's gonna come true.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
It's gonna be it's gonna be good. I can't. They
don't let us kind of tell you more a lot
about love.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Or death because those are like life lessons that you
have to go through. I can't tell you what to do.
But yeah, it looks pretty positive.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Me.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Okay, They're like, it doesn't help to be around those people,
Like this is textually what I'm hearing, but I think
it's about I'm thinking, like three people that are around you.
They're not bad people, but there's something about them that
(16:22):
I feel like your creativity kind of goes down, or
you're I don't know, if you're like self esteem. There's
something about three people that kind of drain your energy.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Does this make sense?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
I mean, let's not talk about bad about anybody, but
because they're not bad people, yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah, yeah, I think it does make sense.
Speaker 5 (16:45):
I'm just trying to pinpoint.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
I feel like they have different habits or different drains,
different goals, you see, and they don't pair up with
you with yours, and they kind of slow it down
a little. I think it's one girl and maybe two guys.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
I think, Oh, I just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
I feel like, you know, lately, I have been cutting
off like some people for my life, and I'm just
right now where I kind of cut off a lot
of people. I don't have a lot of like friends
around me right now, but I am trying to think.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Good for you, Good for you. That's always a good thing.
Maybe they're validating it. Maybe they're validating what you did.
You see what I'm saying, it's.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Because of that exact reason that I had to let
them go, because it was just like they weren't forming
part of my habits, even my eating habits, my sleeping habits,
like everything.
Speaker 5 (17:47):
So I had to just cut them off.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Wow, Okay, but I already did.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Maybe so good Okay.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
So yeah, maybe I'm looking at the present and they're
validating it, which is great. It's always good to cut
people out because we're never we're never at the same
place at the same time, you know, with our friends,
and then the ones that are well, then we should
make friends with people that are, you know, because that's
where you're at and that's the only people that.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
Can understand you.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
So it's good that you understand that and then you
do it because not a lot of people have the
guts to do it, you know. Yeah, and we're all
we try to be pleasers people pleasers and everything, and
it's like, no, I don't want to be here, so
especially you, because you're so creative. You always have to
protect your energy so so much, you know, your mojo. Yeah,
(18:41):
so since you're so sensitive that that's exact.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Place and exactly what I've been telling everyone. I'm just like,
I don't want to I'm very careful, picky about my
friends because I'm so sensitive.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
That when they just do me wrong or they just
they you.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Know, don't take care of my own energy, I get
even more hurt than maybe someone that's not that sensitive.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
So exactly totally you said it the way you said
it sounds perfect.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
I want to talk to you a little bit.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
I know I'm going like right to left and left right,
but do you have anything to do with like jingles
or putting music to something?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Wait, I just made like a jingle yesterday for my podcast.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
I just made Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Myself no way, Okay, I feel like.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
This look in my I don't know, it's because I
don't know if you can see my my writing.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
Wait, hold on, Yeah, I put dingles because that's awesome.
I feel like this is something that you can do.
It's like, don't feel your your sellout. A lot of people,
a lot of musicians are like, that's selling out.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
No, it's making money.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
And I feel like you already like maybe with this
that you did with a podcast, you're like, hey, I'm
good at this, you know, so yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
If you're good at it.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
You have a couple of friends that have podcasts, Hey,
why not? Like, Kay, can I try out some things
for you and something like that? Because I feel that
you can make a lot of money like that and
still do your stuff. It's still music, you know, go
for it, okay, just really quick things, and don't be
afraid to put your your voice in it. I don't
(20:29):
know what that means, but maybe it'll make make sense
later on that you're like, oh, this sounds good, but
maybe with your voice it will sound better or something
like that. Right, Okay, just a little add on to
that one.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
Cool. Do you have any questions before I continue?
Speaker 5 (20:46):
Any questions? I think I think it's just like am
I doing too much? Or is it God?
Speaker 1 (20:58):
The answer to that is you're doing too much without
any set goals. They're like you're all over the place
a little bit. So it's like, Okay, maybe I'm gonna
put out two songs that are gonna be destined for
this or I don't know how, or maybe these three
songs I'm gonna put them out for a movie or
(21:19):
like it's like try to set like short term goals
and then just work for that and then take you know,
because since it's a lot, I feel like it's a.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
Lot, but nothing goes anywhere. You know.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
It's like, okay, am I do a mini album of
this type of music and then you know, bottle it
up and then this so yes you are, but you
have to give it direction, okay, and it's fine, Like
it's fine, Like I don't feel like you're doing too
much and you're burnt out.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
I don't feel like it's too much.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
No, you're good, okay, but give it direction, okay, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:01):
A lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I mean to get organized, Yeah, exactly who in your life.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
I feel that it's somebody important.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
But it has to do with okay, like you have
to say, okay, you can see me, but whenever I
can and a certain amount of time, and then you
leave something about maybe like setting some limits but not
being mean or anything.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
But I feel like.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
It's okay to do it, and you don't feel that
it's okay.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 5 (22:38):
It makes so it makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (22:41):
There's two ways that it could make sense wrong, okay, okay,
But I think.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
One is I think when I, for example, like when
I'm dating like a person, I have like this like
fear like this like fear of abandonment.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
So I like, I have a.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Person always there, and then like then they start living
at my place and the next and then I like
and I know, I know that I need to give
myself my own space and my own limits, but sometimes
I just like I want it there because then if
they leave, like then I'm gonna miss them, and then
I'm gonna feel bad. And then like but it's like no,
like you know, like I was stating a person and
(23:19):
he stayed over for the weekend and then now like
he left, and you know, I'm I'm alone today and
like kind of like that that stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
I get that. I get that from that.
Speaker 5 (23:33):
And then yeah, there's another reason too.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
It's just like my mom. I don't see her a lot.
I see her like once a year. She she's kind
of a nomad. She lives like in a bunch of places,
and I really, you know, I'm like very disciplined right now,
and I can't just be traveling and seeing her and stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Get up and go right right right.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Just like it.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
And it's pretty hard to see her because when, like
when she leaves, I just kind.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
Of get like bad. I just get really bad when
people leave. Let them leave. So I don't know if
it's that.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
I feel it could be both, like usually it's one
or the other, but I kind of I kind of
relate it, Like I feel like whatever happens with your
mom kind of affects you with your you know, with
your boyfriends or the people that you go out with.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
You know, it's that fear of abandonment.
Speaker 5 (24:33):
It's it's the trauma from from that within.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Completely, yeah, completely, And I feel like the reason they
told you this at the beginning, they said it's not
you're not being a bad person by doing it.
Speaker 5 (24:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
I think that's the key. That's what we need to
concentrate on. Like sometimes we feel that if we don't
do that, then you know, we're going to seem like
we're being standoffish or we don't want them, and no,
not at all. And if they feel that way, well
then too bad for them. Then they're not for you.
You know, somebody has to be out there that you
(25:08):
have to do all of this for yourself and whoever's
on board, good for them.
Speaker 3 (25:13):
If they're not, that's fine too.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
You know, we gotta, like you said, let go and
and let them flow, because the energy then kind of
gets stuck and it's like but you have to let
them be and then whatever comes back exactly then it's good.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Right.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
And with your mom, I definitely see like limits are
so good for you. With her, I feel like I
don't see her as a bad person or anything, but
I don't think she nourishes your heart as she should
or as she you know.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Yeah, So if if you don't have to and I'm
glad you said, like your discipline so you can't move
and go everywhere, good for you.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Yeah, good for you.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Because whatever she does, that's her decision, and those are
the consequences of her decisions, maybe not to see her
daughter that much exactly. But yeah, but if you're like
okay with it and feel like, you know, I'm taking
care of me right now.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
Wow, that makes a lot a lot. That makes a
lot of sense. I said about the consequences.
Speaker 2 (26:26):
That makes me feel better, right because I like that
daughter for not you know, seeing her enough.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
But she's the mom and she.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Made the decisions she makes and that and the consequence
of that is just not.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
Seeing me, it's not seeing you, and that's on her,
that's on her. You're not a bad person because clearly
she's in a different.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
Frequency as you. And that's fine. Yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
But you have to protect your heart, but protect it
from her, not from other people. There are other people that.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
That won't want to leave like you think.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
You know.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Yeah, it's crazy how we know our traumas but we
still can't like we still can't get over you know,
can't read are Yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Little by little, I mean I'm trying to work on
getting over them.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
Good, good, good good, that's that's the spirit.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Listen, before there were no woke people or there wasn't
anything like this like psychologist or all of this, you know,
and now that we have so much information on how
to work on our traumas, there's no excuse.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
Now it's like now we can.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
Do it.
Speaker 3 (27:40):
Totally.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Okay, let me continually quick here. They say you have
a very strong dad. Always Uh yeah, he's like always
pay attention to what he says.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
Why wow, oh yes, yes, one hundred percent. Agree. I
agree on one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
He is.
Speaker 5 (28:07):
I died to everything he is. I mean, he's my manager.
He just oh he's your man.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
So he kind of the one being like he's been
telling me what to put out, what to do, and
I've just been kind of like, I don't know, I
don't know, Like so I don't know if it's like
listen to him and like, yes.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yes, he's wise, he's wise.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
But I understand because you know, being a father, I'm
assuming you know there's an age difference and what do
you know, dad, Like I know what's hip right now,
you know, But I think that he has a vision
and he's very wise. So maybe like whatever you're doing,
that's your area of expertise.
Speaker 3 (28:48):
Let him do his area because he's a wise man.
Speaker 1 (28:51):
He stands tall, and what that means to me is
like standing tall, it's like like, don't question him. He
knows what he's doing and and he's a very good man,
very very good man.
Speaker 5 (29:05):
Oh he's a very agree Yes that is yes.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Yes, you are a reflection of him in many many ways.
You may seem different, but he's he's very much like you.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
Oh yeah, oh's I always wanted for my parents to
be my managers. Always.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
I was like, oh my god, that's like the dream,
because you know, they're the ones that believe in you
the most, who believes you right.
Speaker 5 (29:36):
No, I think yeah is the best decision ever.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Absolutely absolutely. No one's gonna look out for your.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Best interests exactly.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
They're congratulating you on your lifestyle, on your decisions, and
on your discipline, and it's like it all goes hand
in hand in a way. Everything affects everything. It's like,
don't fall off the wagon. Maybe fall off a little bit,
that's fine. You know, you're young. You gotta do your
you gotta do your crazy things.
Speaker 5 (30:12):
That makes a lot of that.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Actually, you're seeing that makes a lot of sense because
I get last week, I didn't fall off the wagon
like I did do my you know, my my days.
I just didn't work super hard because I was socializing
a little bit more. You know, I started working a
little bit more on music, so I couldn't like work out.
(30:34):
I skipped like two workouts this week. You know, I had,
I had like something in my eye, and I just
like didn't even want to do anything. And I just
ad that I missed out this week. But every kind
of telling telling myself like it's okay, like we'll get
back on. I got back on today and we're good.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
Like exactly exactly because you got to be young too,
and you gotta have like lit's where you can well
you know everything, all your creativity, not only in music. Yeah,
so don't beat yourself up. And you know, it's like
this thing that they say, like if you work out
(31:13):
every day, just because you don't work out one day,
you're not going to get fat. And if you don't
work out, and if you don't work out ever and
you work out one day, you're not going to get thin.
It's the same for you know, Yeah, so don't worry
about it. And like they wanted to have fun. They
want to because all of the fun that you have
or the everything that's outside of you. Even though you
(31:34):
have this discipline, it contributes to your creativity, It contributes
to what you live, and everything that you're living is
what goes into your music.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
So it's fine, Okay, do you.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Have a last question before we clear out?
Speaker 2 (31:51):
I think I do. I think it's just like, it's
not love, but it's more like, am I when I
feel scared about liking, like out liking someone? Is that
just my trauma talking or is it like something else right?
Speaker 3 (32:12):
Right?
Speaker 2 (32:13):
Right?
Speaker 5 (32:13):
But how do I like listen to myself in that way?
Speaker 1 (32:18):
It really doesn't have to do with your trauma at all.
I think it's more of you getting in your head
because of that trauma than it really is. It's what
happens here is that first of all, you're not looking
in the right circles or you're not running in the
right circles where you can meet a man that kind
(32:39):
of like resonates with who you are. Okay, even though
maybe you're in the music world or whatever, but there's
something about that where you're looking isn't where you're supposed
to look. Also, that what I told you before, they
say it again, it's like listen, do what you know
is right without fear of them, like you said, leaving
(33:03):
or them thinking that you're a bitch or whatever it is.
Do it right. And if they leave, well, but if
they stay, then okay, you go along. You go along,
and and you also what they tell me is like
learn learn from them, you know, learn little things like
(33:23):
don't be set in your ways in a way that
the relationship should be like this, like this, like this,
like this, learn and see, you know, like read the
room and see what they're about.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
You're gonna do great in your music, just want to
tell you that.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
And it's gonna be a lot of areas where you're
gonna be good.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
But you really have to like.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
Prioritize and put direction on everything, and you're gonna do
really really good.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
Okay, amazing, Okay, it was.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
A pleasure to meet you. Thank you so much. I
give you back your energy and I take that mine.
Everything's perfect, amen, mister, thank you.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
For every blessing.
Speaker 1 (34:04):
Oh no, your Blasert sweerte
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Jobrad
That one is for people to kind of, like I guess,
put yourself out there and then they'll listen to the
other ones.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Wow, that actually makes so much sense.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
That's so awesome.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
Okay, welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about
connecting with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them
and their new perspective.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Hi, guys, this is Paula Pedrosa. Welcome to ghost therapy.
Thank you so much for tuning in one more time.
Thank you for all your reviews and all your comments.
We are so happy to receive them. Okay, this time around,
we're gonna do something different. Instead of talking to the deceased,
we're gonna talk. We're gonna talk to spirit guides, which
(00:52):
is amazing because it's like your best friend, your mom,
and your sister all in what they're the ones that
know most things about you.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
You.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
And the important thing about this one with Drew Fletcher,
which she's a great artist of Venezuelan artist, is that
they validated all the decisions that she has made throughout
her career, throughout her life. And who doesn't want that, right?
We all want to be validated in a way. And uh,
and kind of applauded for our decisions. So this is
(01:25):
a really interesting one. I hope you enjoy it. This
is Drew Fletcher ghoes therapy. Thank you, but Andrea Molina,
(01:46):
Abi and Benia which yes, I know? Is that.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, it's not important.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
As he boy said, Oh yeah, let's get it. Let's
get he said, Drew, and Toon says, we're gonna we're
gonna call you Drew. Would that be okay? Or is
it just for friends?
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Perfect?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Okay? Perfect? Okay, Drew.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So I have an understanding that you want to talk
to your spirit guides.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Is that correct?
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Yes? I do.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Yes, Okay, Well let me say I'm just gonna say
a little parent silence and then I'll be right back.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
Okay, okay there.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Mino Committee said, is they've been asking me.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
They're telling me that you've been asking about how to
move forward, but you don't know, like which path?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Does this make sense to you?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Okay, awesome. Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
So I'm guessing they're going to tell you how because
I know you're at a crossroad right now. Let me
ask them to tell you what to do?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Oh my god. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
First of all, they want they're like, okay, you have
to look yourself in the mirror and be true to
yourself and say, Okay, I'm not that good at this,
and I'm really good at this. I feel a lot
of movement. I don't know if this makes sense to you,
Like what you're really good at is like I don't
know if it's like dancing or like exers, I don't
(03:37):
know something like that. But they're like, okay, this is
what you're good at. The rest good for you, but
we got to concentrate on this, on like the movement
and what you do best.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Does this make sense? Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Okay, awesome, Okay, can you confirm what the moving around is?
Speaker 5 (03:55):
It might be.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I exercise a lot, and it's basically okay, it just
it's what's keeping me in line and disciplined. I think
it's just like my working out. I just came back
from working out.
Speaker 5 (04:09):
I do boxing.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Okay, so oh nice, Okay, okay, okay, perfect this.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I think this has like a bigger meaning than.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
That I'll tell you right now, because I feel like
what the movement has brought you is kind of like
a life changing thing, like like like your mind has
expanded a little right, and it kind of makes you
clear headed and that is what, like, I think that's
(04:39):
something like a light bulb went on in your head
because of the exercise. That kind of tells you something
about how to move forward. I'll tell you more, but
how to move forward, I guess in terms of like
work and.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Lifestyle kind of thing. Right.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
And I don't know if this would even be a thing,
but I feel like, were you like a little overweight before?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
For for me personally, yes, because I was struggling with
with like hormonal imbalances.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Oh okay, okay, and so yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yeah, I started. I been working on my nutrition and
working out, and obviously now I'm in the best shape ever.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Awesome.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
You look, I've always been a pretty slim person. I
wasn't like, oh.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Right, but I was, you know, I was to your liking.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Let's say, you know, because everybody, if you if your
grandma would tell you you'd be too thin, right, Because
I feel like all this exercise and all this thing
that you went through. The reason I asked if you
were over weight because they showed me like a like
a really drastic change in you, and that that's a
journey that I think you should share or something has to.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Come out of that.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Okay, you know, like I don't know if like maybe
on your on your Instagram or on your TikTok or
something like. I feel like this kind of like I'm
a normal person. I'm not because I feel like it's
a fat or thin but you know all those people
that are in between that they're not fat, but they're
not skinny how they want to be, and that I
(06:24):
think that that would very much appeal to a lot
of people. Okay, and I feel like you can do
something with that. I'm not saying that maybe that that
should be your job alone, but I think they they
really want you to kind of spread the word and
kind of because the way you went about it or
the way you did it, I feel like it was
(06:46):
like a slow kind of getting into it, kind of
like not too much because then you'll fall out off
of the wagon really quick right behind.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
A lot.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
So that's awesome. So if you know, give it a
give it a think.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
No, what is it? Give it a thought? Sorry, my
anguage isn't that good, But.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Just give it some thought because this could be something
that not only inspires, but it could actually make you
some money. Okay, Okay, this is separately. This is just
like a little tidbit. Let me ask about the rest
hold on. Is there something that you wanted to do
with your career, something that you feel like it's too
(07:30):
late now to start or to begin or to continue.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Does that make any sense?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
I think it's mostly like, yeah, I'm kind of in
a hurry, and things that I do are like taking
a while to get done for me to put them
out of the world. So I feel like right late,
later and later and later, and I'm just like I
want to put it out like I want it to
be ready.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Oh that's what it is, right right, and it's not
coming through on your I'm.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
Like exactly, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Exactly, Okay, thank you for clearing that up. Okay, let
me let me see what they have to say about that.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
I don't know why they say it.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Maybe you know better than me, but they're really adamant
on me telling you it's not about winning or losing,
or it's not about beating somebody to the.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
To the to the finish line.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I don't know if you're too worried about that in
this specific kind of like this before before any anybody
else does it, I have to do it first kind
of thing.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Yeah, okay, yeah, in this sort of way, I feel
like I'm doing something that's very different.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Nobody is doing it.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Maybe my subconscious or something believes that someone else is
going to do it before me, So I want to
just start putting doing it out like now.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Totally, totally.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
They just wanted to know that it's never gonna be
about that. It's never no matter how many people do
do it. You have your place and you have your
your kind of your path set out, no matter how
many people do it. So don't worry about that because
it's gonna be fine. It's going to turn out okay,
(09:23):
you know. But that but like that mentality, let's you know,
put it on the side because it'll only frustrate you
a little bit more. And you know, and when we
get frustrated about something, the energy kind of like starts
to squeeze like that and nothing happens.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
So we need to like.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Let the energy flow and you know, it's gonna come
out whenever it's gonna come out. But what about somebody else, Yeah,
maybe somebody else will do the same. You never know,
but you're still going to do it. You're still going
to do it, and it's gonna be okay, and it's
these are like I feel like it's like two things
that are like very very new, and then there's one
(10:04):
that's kind of like nothing new has been discovered, but
it's really good. Does this make sense to you? I
feel it's a project, but two are like very like
very advanced, like very like we said, nobody else has
done it. Okay, But there's one that I see that
stands out that I want to talk about is one
(10:25):
that's not like something new. It's something other people have done,
but you're still you still want to do it, you know,
maybe with your touch or something, but they're concentrating on that.
I don't know what it is. I feel it's a
project something like that.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
I mean, it might be my project, yes if okay.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
What I want to say about that is that it's
something that I feel that the first thing that should
pop out, or the first thing that you should want
to pop out, would be the one that's the average
one or the regular ones something like that, because because
I feel like when you throw the first you know, bullet,
(11:07):
it's that one is for people to kind of like,
I guess, put yourself out there and then they'll listen
to the other ones. Wow.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
Wow, that actually is so much sense.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
That's so awesome.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Okay, okay, good, good, good.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
So that's like the that's the plan. You see what
I'm saying. And then if and then when you get
people to turn around and look, and then the rest
is gonna It's gonna stick because you're the eyes are
on you.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Okay, now tell me.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
I do music.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I'm a musician, So yeah, so I you know, I
have my music project. But it's just I'm in a
weird situation where I was making you know, I make
different kinds of genres.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
It's not like one specific.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Genre, but I am right now making more you know,
alternative more, you know, uh, just like different, a different
kind of sound, something different.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
And I also have you know, hits.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
I have hits that are commercial and pop and stuff.
So I just like in my head, I've been like thinking,
like what do I put out first, like the indie
more like you know.
Speaker 5 (12:33):
Like but I go like things that are a little
bit more complicated.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I guess to like a public or should I put
out first the popular stuff, the commercial stuff, so I
can kind of like get people to like see me first,
and then I put out my real like my music
really like Indie.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Project, right, like gain the respect and then so not
the respect, but the eyes.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Oh I love it.
Speaker 6 (12:59):
I love when when you become like, oh god, I know.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Oh my god, that is so cool. Okay, okay, okay,
So that's good.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
And also remember that they said something about be very
very careful to like the things put it, like, pay
attention to the things that you're really good at. I
just want to remind you because maybe it sticks here. Uh,
and the ones that you're not that good at, don't
even like go there because then it's you know, it's
(13:31):
going to be halfway and maybe you'll learn along the way,
you know. But yeah, don't dip.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Don't dip into.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Something that you maybe because it could be like a
certain type of music and it's great music, but you
don't know how to like go where do you put
this music? Like we're in the universe right something like
that means, oh my god, how exciting.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
That makes sense because you know, I've also like been
trying to like do everything myself, and there's there's parts
of the music industry that I'm just not very good at,
you know, like the business side or stuff like that.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
So it's just like I do think I just need.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Help from other people instead of me doing something that
I just don't know that that's not specifically what I'm
good at it.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
I'm good at making the music. I'm gonna like composing it.
I'm good.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I have the good taste, but I'm not very good
at the whole business side.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
You know, it takes a village, and that's that's why.
That's why there's a business manitor, that's why there's a
record label or whatever. Like they all know their things. Yeah,
their area. Right, you do your thing, that's crazy good.
Good for you. Do what you have to do that's
your area, and then get help for the rest.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
You know. It's it's very wise to ask for help.
So good for you.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
Okay, you're saying that to be patient. I feel like
there's a really big wish that you have.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
I have to say it.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Family, they're like, your wish is gonna come true. Be patient,
it's gonna happen. Don't think it's not. It's something about
I think your mom or your dad or like something
like that, Like a really big wish.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Just does that make any sense?
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (15:15):
I will.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Like one of my biggest things is like getting married,
and like having a family. Oh and like one dreams
and like, you know what I wake up and think
about every day is okay, when am I gonna.
Speaker 5 (15:30):
Meet like my husband and have kids? So I resonates
a lot with me. I have a very close.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Okay my dad, Okay, okay, okay, it's gonna come true.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
It's gonna be it's gonna be good. I can't. They
don't let us kind of tell you more a lot
about love.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Or death because those are like life lessons that you
have to go through. I can't tell you what to do.
But yeah, it looks pretty positive.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Me.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Okay, They're like, it doesn't help to be around those people,
Like this is textually what I'm hearing, but I think
it's about I'm thinking, like three people that are around you.
They're not bad people, but there's something about them that
(16:22):
I feel like your creativity kind of goes down, or
you're I don't know, if you're like self esteem. There's
something about three people that kind of drain your energy.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Does this make sense?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
I mean, let's not talk about bad about anybody, but
because they're not bad people, yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah, yeah, I think it does make sense.
Speaker 5 (16:45):
I'm just trying to pinpoint.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
I feel like they have different habits or different drains,
different goals, you see, and they don't pair up with
you with yours, and they kind of slow it down
a little. I think it's one girl and maybe two guys.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
I think, Oh, I just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
I feel like, you know, lately, I have been cutting
off like some people for my life, and I'm just
right now where I kind of cut off a lot
of people. I don't have a lot of like friends
around me right now, but I am trying to think.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Good for you, Good for you. That's always a good thing.
Maybe they're validating it. Maybe they're validating what you did.
You see what I'm saying, it's.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Because of that exact reason that I had to let
them go, because it was just like they weren't forming
part of my habits, even my eating habits, my sleeping habits,
like everything.
Speaker 5 (17:47):
So I had to just cut them off.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Wow, Okay, but I already did.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Maybe so good Okay.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
So yeah, maybe I'm looking at the present and they're
validating it, which is great. It's always good to cut
people out because we're never we're never at the same
place at the same time, you know, with our friends,
and then the ones that are well, then we should
make friends with people that are, you know, because that's
where you're at and that's the only people that.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
Can understand you.
Speaker 1 (18:17):
So it's good that you understand that and then you
do it because not a lot of people have the
guts to do it, you know. Yeah, and we're all
we try to be pleasers people pleasers and everything, and
it's like, no, I don't want to be here, so
especially you, because you're so creative. You always have to
protect your energy so so much, you know, your mojo. Yeah,
(18:41):
so since you're so sensitive that that's exact.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Place and exactly what I've been telling everyone. I'm just like,
I don't want to I'm very careful, picky about my
friends because I'm so sensitive.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
That when they just do me wrong or they just
they you.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Know, don't take care of my own energy, I get
even more hurt than maybe someone that's not that sensitive.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
So exactly totally you said it the way you said
it sounds perfect.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
I want to talk to you a little bit.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
I know I'm going like right to left and left right,
but do you have anything to do with like jingles
or putting music to something?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Wait, I just made like a jingle yesterday for my podcast.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
I just made Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Myself no way, Okay, I feel like.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
This look in my I don't know, it's because I
don't know if you can see my my writing.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
Wait, hold on, Yeah, I put dingles because that's awesome.
I feel like this is something that you can do.
It's like, don't feel your your sellout. A lot of people,
a lot of musicians are like, that's selling out.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
No, it's making money.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
And I feel like you already like maybe with this
that you did with a podcast, you're like, hey, I'm
good at this, you know, so yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
If you're good at it.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
You have a couple of friends that have podcasts, Hey,
why not? Like, Kay, can I try out some things
for you and something like that? Because I feel that
you can make a lot of money like that and
still do your stuff. It's still music, you know, go
for it, okay, just really quick things, and don't be
afraid to put your your voice in it. I don't
(20:29):
know what that means, but maybe it'll make make sense
later on that you're like, oh, this sounds good, but
maybe with your voice it will sound better or something
like that. Right, Okay, just a little add on to
that one.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
Cool. Do you have any questions before I continue?
Speaker 5 (20:46):
Any questions? I think I think it's just like am
I doing too much? Or is it God?
Speaker 1 (20:58):
The answer to that is you're doing too much without
any set goals. They're like you're all over the place
a little bit. So it's like, Okay, maybe I'm gonna
put out two songs that are gonna be destined for
this or I don't know how, or maybe these three
songs I'm gonna put them out for a movie or
(21:19):
like it's like try to set like short term goals
and then just work for that and then take you know,
because since it's a lot, I feel like it's a.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
Lot, but nothing goes anywhere. You know.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
It's like, okay, am I do a mini album of
this type of music and then you know, bottle it
up and then this so yes you are, but you
have to give it direction, okay, and it's fine, Like
it's fine, Like I don't feel like you're doing too
much and you're burnt out.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
I don't feel like it's too much.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
No, you're good, okay, but give it direction, okay, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:01):
A lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I mean to get organized, Yeah, exactly who in your life.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
I feel that it's somebody important.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
But it has to do with okay, like you have
to say, okay, you can see me, but whenever I
can and a certain amount of time, and then you
leave something about maybe like setting some limits but not
being mean or anything.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
But I feel like.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
It's okay to do it, and you don't feel that
it's okay.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 5 (22:38):
It makes so it makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (22:41):
There's two ways that it could make sense wrong, okay, okay,
But I think.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
One is I think when I, for example, like when
I'm dating like a person, I have like this like
fear like this like fear of abandonment.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
So I like, I have a.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Person always there, and then like then they start living
at my place and the next and then I like
and I know, I know that I need to give
myself my own space and my own limits, but sometimes
I just like I want it there because then if
they leave, like then I'm gonna miss them, and then
I'm gonna feel bad. And then like but it's like no,
like you know, like I was stating a person and
(23:19):
he stayed over for the weekend and then now like
he left, and you know, I'm I'm alone today and
like kind of like that that stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
I get that. I get that from that.
Speaker 5 (23:33):
And then yeah, there's another reason too.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
It's just like my mom. I don't see her a lot.
I see her like once a year. She she's kind
of a nomad. She lives like in a bunch of places,
and I really, you know, I'm like very disciplined right now,
and I can't just be traveling and seeing her and stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Get up and go right right right.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Just like it.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
And it's pretty hard to see her because when, like
when she leaves, I just kind.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
Of get like bad. I just get really bad when
people leave. Let them leave. So I don't know if
it's that.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
I feel it could be both, like usually it's one
or the other, but I kind of I kind of
relate it, Like I feel like whatever happens with your
mom kind of affects you with your you know, with
your boyfriends or the people that you go out with.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
You know, it's that fear of abandonment.
Speaker 5 (24:33):
It's it's the trauma from from that within.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Completely, yeah, completely, And I feel like the reason they
told you this at the beginning, they said it's not
you're not being a bad person by doing it.
Speaker 5 (24:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
I think that's the key. That's what we need to
concentrate on. Like sometimes we feel that if we don't
do that, then you know, we're going to seem like
we're being standoffish or we don't want them, and no,
not at all. And if they feel that way, well
then too bad for them. Then they're not for you.
You know, somebody has to be out there that you
(25:08):
have to do all of this for yourself and whoever's
on board, good for them.
Speaker 3 (25:13):
If they're not, that's fine too.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
You know, we gotta, like you said, let go and
and let them flow, because the energy then kind of
gets stuck and it's like but you have to let
them be and then whatever comes back exactly then it's good.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Right.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
And with your mom, I definitely see like limits are
so good for you. With her, I feel like I
don't see her as a bad person or anything, but
I don't think she nourishes your heart as she should
or as she you know.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Yeah, So if if you don't have to and I'm
glad you said, like your discipline so you can't move
and go everywhere, good for you.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Yeah, good for you.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Because whatever she does, that's her decision, and those are
the consequences of her decisions, maybe not to see her
daughter that much exactly. But yeah, but if you're like
okay with it and feel like, you know, I'm taking
care of me right now.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
Wow, that makes a lot a lot. That makes a
lot of sense. I said about the consequences.
Speaker 2 (26:26):
That makes me feel better, right because I like that
daughter for not you know, seeing her enough.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
But she's the mom and she.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Made the decisions she makes and that and the consequence
of that is just not.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
Seeing me, it's not seeing you, and that's on her,
that's on her. You're not a bad person because clearly
she's in a different.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
Frequency as you. And that's fine. Yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
But you have to protect your heart, but protect it
from her, not from other people. There are other people that.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
That won't want to leave like you think.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
You know.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Yeah, it's crazy how we know our traumas but we
still can't like we still can't get over you know,
can't read are Yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Little by little, I mean I'm trying to work on
getting over them.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
Good, good, good good, that's that's the spirit.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Listen, before there were no woke people or there wasn't
anything like this like psychologist or all of this, you know,
and now that we have so much information on how
to work on our traumas, there's no excuse.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
Now it's like now we can.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
Do it.
Speaker 3 (27:40):
Totally.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Okay, let me continually quick here. They say you have
a very strong dad. Always Uh yeah, he's like always
pay attention to what he says.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
Why wow, oh yes, yes, one hundred percent. Agree. I
agree on one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
He is.
Speaker 5 (28:07):
I died to everything he is. I mean, he's my manager.
He just oh he's your man.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
So he kind of the one being like he's been
telling me what to put out, what to do, and
I've just been kind of like, I don't know, I
don't know, Like so I don't know if it's like
listen to him and like, yes.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yes, he's wise, he's wise.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
But I understand because you know, being a father, I'm
assuming you know there's an age difference and what do
you know, dad, Like I know what's hip right now,
you know, But I think that he has a vision
and he's very wise. So maybe like whatever you're doing,
that's your area of expertise.
Speaker 3 (28:48):
Let him do his area because he's a wise man.
Speaker 1 (28:51):
He stands tall, and what that means to me is
like standing tall, it's like like, don't question him. He
knows what he's doing and and he's a very good man,
very very good man.
Speaker 5 (29:05):
Oh he's a very agree Yes that is yes.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Yes, you are a reflection of him in many many ways.
You may seem different, but he's he's very much like you.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
Oh yeah, oh's I always wanted for my parents to
be my managers. Always.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
I was like, oh my god, that's like the dream,
because you know, they're the ones that believe in you
the most, who believes you right.
Speaker 5 (29:36):
No, I think yeah is the best decision ever.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Absolutely absolutely. No one's gonna look out for your.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Best interests exactly.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
They're congratulating you on your lifestyle, on your decisions, and
on your discipline, and it's like it all goes hand
in hand in a way. Everything affects everything. It's like,
don't fall off the wagon. Maybe fall off a little bit,
that's fine. You know, you're young. You gotta do your
you gotta do your crazy things.
Speaker 5 (30:12):
That makes a lot of that.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Actually, you're seeing that makes a lot of sense because
I get last week, I didn't fall off the wagon
like I did do my you know, my my days.
I just didn't work super hard because I was socializing
a little bit more. You know, I started working a
little bit more on music, so I couldn't like work out.
(30:34):
I skipped like two workouts this week. You know, I had,
I had like something in my eye, and I just
like didn't even want to do anything. And I just
ad that I missed out this week. But every kind
of telling telling myself like it's okay, like we'll get
back on. I got back on today and we're good.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
Like exactly exactly because you got to be young too,
and you gotta have like lit's where you can well
you know everything, all your creativity, not only in music. Yeah,
so don't beat yourself up. And you know, it's like
this thing that they say, like if you work out
(31:13):
every day, just because you don't work out one day,
you're not going to get fat. And if you don't
work out, and if you don't work out ever and
you work out one day, you're not going to get thin.
It's the same for you know, Yeah, so don't worry
about it. And like they wanted to have fun. They
want to because all of the fun that you have
or the everything that's outside of you. Even though you
(31:34):
have this discipline, it contributes to your creativity, It contributes
to what you live, and everything that you're living is
what goes into your music.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
So it's fine, Okay, do you.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Have a last question before we clear out?
Speaker 2 (31:51):
I think I do. I think it's just like, it's
not love, but it's more like, am I when I
feel scared about liking, like out liking someone? Is that
just my trauma talking or is it like something else right?
Speaker 3 (32:12):
Right?
Speaker 2 (32:13):
Right?
Speaker 5 (32:13):
But how do I like listen to myself in that way?
Speaker 1 (32:18):
It really doesn't have to do with your trauma at all.
I think it's more of you getting in your head
because of that trauma than it really is. It's what
happens here is that first of all, you're not looking
in the right circles or you're not running in the
right circles where you can meet a man that kind
(32:39):
of like resonates with who you are. Okay, even though
maybe you're in the music world or whatever, but there's
something about that where you're looking isn't where you're supposed
to look. Also, that what I told you before, they
say it again, it's like listen, do what you know
is right without fear of them, like you said, leaving
(33:03):
or them thinking that you're a bitch or whatever it is.
Do it right. And if they leave, well, but if
they stay, then okay, you go along. You go along,
and and you also what they tell me is like
learn learn from them, you know, learn little things like
(33:23):
don't be set in your ways in a way that
the relationship should be like this, like this, like this,
like this, learn and see, you know, like read the
room and see what they're about.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
You're gonna do great in your music, just want to
tell you that.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
And it's gonna be a lot of areas where you're
gonna be good.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
But you really have to like.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
Prioritize and put direction on everything, and you're gonna do
really really good.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
Okay, amazing, Okay, it was.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
A pleasure to meet you. Thank you so much. I
give you back your energy and I take that mine.
Everything's perfect, amen, mister, thank you.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
For every blessing.
Speaker 1 (34:04):
Oh no, your Blasert sweerte
Speaker 3 (34:10):
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