June 3, 2025 • 35 mins
On-air bilingual talent with 7+ years in entertainment biz; and infertility advocate.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The spear guards have been telling me for years speak
on a certain topic that I'm very passionate about. But
I feel like I haven't really have been like wanting
to open up about a specific topic, but.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
They just said, be disruptive.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Hi, guys, welcome to ghost therapy. Thank you so much
for being here this time around. We have a really
young girl. Her name is Grecia Lopez. She's a reporter, she's.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
In the media, she's doing it all.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
She reminds me of me when I was younger, and
she got really cool messages, which I think we can
all enjoy and we can all take. It's not the
same to have like the same the same dream all
the time we have. I don't know if it's evolution
(01:02):
or what it is, but you always have to set
the bar higher, never, never stay where you are. And
sometimes we're like, oh, yeah, we have this job, it's
good for.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Me, and we get there, we get stuck. We have
to put ourselves.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Through the grinder and do different things that maybe scare us.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
You know, but we have to do them. I'll show
you a little bit more.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Thank you so much for being here here Eslopez, Hi, guys.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Welcome to ghost Therapy. Thank you so much for being here.
One more episode. I'm here with grace Yellopez and I
love her face because she's like smiling and she's like
I'm ready, I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm super excited to get into this. We'll see what
comes out.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yes exactly.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
That's the fun part that you never know what you're
gonna get. But today we're gonna talk to your spirit
guides and let's do it.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Let's do it. Oh my goshdy.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
The first thing that I get is there's this situation.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
I think it's happening right now or maybe a little
bit in the past, but they're telling me to get
basically get out of the way because because it's something
about you wanting your way with something and there's ideas,
(02:56):
there's this and that, but it's maybe something that you're
not really an expert on, or it's something about to
take two steps back and let the let the energy flow,
because if you just are in there with your energy
of I want it this way, you're going to miss
out on different ways of doing this.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I don't know what it is, but does this make sense?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, it makes autal sense. I have always been very
much in control of my career wise, and for the
first time, I'm letting go of confirming whatever it's next
for me, and I'm letting the universe just make it
fall into place. Because as a reporter and a freelancer,
you always want to know what your next project is.
And I felt myself forcing for me to be part
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of certain projects. And once I let go control, it's
like and I'm like, this is why I was told
to just stop trying to.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Control, stop control, stop trying to control. Well, I guess
then that what's happening is that they're validating it, which
is awesome. You you already proved proved yourself right, So
good for you.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Okay, like the comfortence you need from the spar guides.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Yeah, exactly, exactly. And this is like a message for everybody.
I mean that message can be for anybody. It's like,
get out of your own way, you know, let God,
let you know whoever it is you believe in, let
go and hope for the best, and.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Whatever is yours is yours.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
And that's it.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Nobody's going to take it away from you. Okay, perfect, Okay.
They want to talk about the way you present yourself.
They want to give you. I guess it's like some
tips because they're trying for you to meet them in
the middle, like meet your sparait guides in the middle,
(05:00):
you say, be careful of not coming off as too
strong or too you know, like.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
So sad, and.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Also be careful of not coming off like oh hi,
excuse me, like very you know, like those two extremes.
Is where they want you to kind of, you know,
go in the middle. It has to do very much
with sadly, but you know, with the women thing, and
and then you know, people, this is the real world.
(05:38):
If it wasn't if it was a perfect world, this
wouldn't happen. But we're not in a perfect world, you know,
so we have to be like a little humble but
a little strong, but a little everything, you know. And
and that's where they feel that you can work on
a little bit to come to the middle of it.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Does that.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I'm trying to understand that because I am a pretty
humble person, So I'm trying to understand if that's more
of like a don't come off too strong personality wise
or over all because I'm not like better explain it,
and I don't show off a lot of things Baranada.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Humbleness has many has many probably like many.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Ways you can use it.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Usually people use when you say humble, it's usually people
think that, oh, it's because I'm showing something off, you know,
like don't show something off.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
It's not about that.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
It's more like the humility, that humbleness of like I
am a reporter. I am you know, I'm not I'm
gonna say something, but I don't know if you're going
to get it. I'm not Barbara Walters, did you know? Yes, Okay,
like I'm not Barbara Walters. Yeah, but I'm here and
I'm willing, and you know that kind of humbleness like
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uh not coming off as I don't know, there's something
about and it has to do with your face because
they I don't know if you have to smile a
little bit more or maybe just like you know, like
maybe if you if you don't smile, that's fine, but
don't watch out with the how do how do they
(07:26):
say it? The because it's a new tone for me,
the bitch rest face or rest.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
That no, no, wait, but then you start talking and
you're so nice. I'm like, I know, I'm a nice person.
It's just more so maybe it's just like my facial
demeanors or I'm just like very I'm very guarded and
I don't I don't speak unless i'm spoken to sometimes,
which can come off, which can come off as like,
oh is she okay? I'm like, yeah, good, this is me.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Yeah, of course, oh it's fine.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
It's like I feel like that exactly. That's you and
this is who you are. That's your essence. They're just
saying in only in terms of work, you know, to
come to like try a little like to you know,
be a little little kind of like.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
You know, but but not too much because.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
My spare guy who tell me I need to smile
more than I will.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Be will be smiling.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, they're telling me this, so I know you're okay,
You're fine.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
You're gonna think of them when you're there, You're like
like a Taendler smile like, oh funny, a.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Big project coming on this weekend that I'll be reporting live,
So I'm like smile more, smile.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
My more, smile more more, and even because yeah, you're
a reporter, doesn't have to like smile all the time
because if you're reporting on something that's you know, sad
or you're reporting, of course you're gonna use the facial
expressions with what you're talking about. But yeah, it's somebody,
you know what. It's not about your job, because you
do you you do your job. Well, it's about when
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you go ask for a job. That's where it is,
how you present yourself.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
The rest.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
You're fine, You're fine, You're fine because when you I
feel like when you're on camera, it's all over.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
It's all good.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
You know.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
It has nothing to do with this. I see like
a dad figure. Is your dad with you?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
My biological dad? No? No, my no. When I was four,
my mom married my stepdad and he's been my dad
figure ever since.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
That's okay, okay, because I see.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Him like always speaking about you.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
I don't know if that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Always always Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I love it because he's like, you're number one fan.
He's always like, oh, yeah, you know what you did and.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
So know that. Yeah, he very much.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
So he's he's a piscey, so he's all about emotions
and express your works and tell people to them when
they're in the flesh. And he always sends me like
really nice good morning texts and thinking of you and
how are you doing. Oh it's a blessing and occurs
to have such an emotional present dad, you know, because
a lot of a lot of men struggle with being
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emotional and totally out, but my stepdad is very much
so like tell people what they mean to you and
good morning and how are you and how are your
emotions today? And I'm like, Dad, I'm fine.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Dad, that's just not right.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Like my mom doesn't even ask me this, like you
guys are so opposite. But yeah, that.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Sounds like him, Like he seems like a really great guy.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Also, I always say like sometimes there it's like a
toxic positivity.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Sometimes they're so positive. They're so positive all the time.
We're like stop it be normal.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
It's funny because growing up he you know, just how
everybody goes through their mental traumas. And like he migrated
here from Mexico and he's like, oh, well in Mexico,
San mnanscos Sa Sea and blah blah blah blah. So
it took him a while to adapt to like the
modern way style of parenting. Like when I lived with him,
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he was pretty strict. It's like our relationship didn't get
better till so then he started to really realize, like, oh,
I have to work on myself and like not parent
you guys, how I was parented.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Oh it's the hardest thing in the world.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Yeah. No, I I am the oldest of four, so
I feel like I got the worst out of it,
you know, being the firstborn. And so now yeah, you know,
he's a little bit more lenient and it's like just
a lot Morelinian with my baby sister who's twenty one.
Like okay, well, well it's okay. I guess I was
just here to help guide you guys.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Help guide you. And you know, strict is fine because
you know it makes it makes you into a whole,
like a whole person.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
You know, as opposed to not so no, no, no,
he like the whole time they show me his face,
he's smiling. So yeah, okay, there's something about your career
that I can tell that you're super driven, Like I can,
I can feel it. But they tell me that we
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need to work on like the real real what the
goal is is it? Hosting? Is it news is it?
I know you can try out a lot of things,
but they say, like, okay, it's time to kind of
know where we're going, so we can you.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Know, manifest or whatever.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
You know, people say manifest but like, whatever it is
that we do, they want they.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Want you to work a little on that. Does this
make sense?
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Okay? When you say is it hosting or is it news?
Is it like not doing news or no?
Speaker 2 (13:10):
No, Like what is your end goal? What is your
end goal?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
Because I know you're a reporter, but I'm sure you
want something after that.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Yeah, like my end goal is to be a reporter
first and foremost. But right I guess maybe they're trying
to say, choose if you want to be a hard
news reporter or stick to entertainment.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
Yeah, something like where are you going? Where are you feeling?
Speaker 3 (13:36):
I feel like right now you're feeling everything out, Like,
let's see where you feel more comfortable.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Which is great because you've got time and.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
All of that is experience. It's for your demo reel.
It's all good, you know. But then but they say
soon sooner or later, you got to kind of focus
on what it goes because.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That way you know where to look for work.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
You know what, the energy, just the energy of knowing
where you're going is very important and it's not something
that you have to decide today and tell them. It's
just like, Okay, whenever you can think about it, where
do you see yourself? Do you sue yourself as an anchor?
Do you see yourself as investigating drug lords?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
You know, it could be a lot of things, but.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Just start feeling it out.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Okay, definitely yeah, definitely not an anchor. So I guess
I just have to really make the energy decision and
let my spare guards know this is my angle. Let's
work towards this way. Because there has been times where
I've been thinking about pivoting just because like I feel
like my generation of reporters we went to journalisms squa
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out such an interesting time where we were being taught
legacy media as in like five five o'clock, six o'clock,
you're going to be an anchor to share the news.
And then what happened in the last four years digital
media started so kind of like instant It's like wait,
hold on, well, we were taught to do it this
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way and to not show personality and you have to
be biased, but then all of a sudden, now you
have all these influencers that are getting hired for being themselves.
So it's like, I feel, that's definitely where I'm at,
where it's like, am I a reporter or am I
going to be now like a content creator because a
lot of these content creators are now taking all the
jobs even though not qualified or have the training or
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the experience, but because they have two point whatever million followers,
they end up getting the gig. So I find myself
I'm in that transition era where I can tell that
they know because that's how I feel. It's what do
I want to do? So I do I want to
continue being a host and a reporter or do I
want to pivot and start my own marketing agency or
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something else. M definitely yes and then yeah or both.
Earlier Q one five, I was like, you know what
I'm just gonna get. I'm just gonna let go and
I'm gonna not try and control the outcome. Yeah, and
then now I just had like secrete projects coming up
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that I shared. Okay, I'm like, you see what happens
when you let go and you not try to insert
yourself everywhere. It'll come. But I definitely did need to
pause and listen to my tuition, like relax, don't stress out.
Something always pops out for you. So if anything, this
is just like the affirmation confirmation, like you you know
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what you need?
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Just yeah, because sometimes we end up like taking every
gig and not saying no, you don't do anything.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
I used to be a reporter, Yeah, I know.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
That was one thing. Actually I had a really good,
good opportunity back in Los Angeles. The pay wasn't the best,
but it was into like sports journalism, and I was
asked if I can host like a few games, okay,
And I realized that I was saying yes for all
the wrong reasons, Like like I at first, when it
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was presented to me, I was like, yes, let's do it.
I'm excited to my hometown. And then as it got closer,
I was like, maybe I'm saying yes for the wrong reasons.
And it took a lot for me. But it took
a lot for me to say, you know what, never mind,
I am so sorry.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
That are you did say no? Okay?
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Good? I was like, I'm so sorry that I led
you guys to believe that I was going to do this.
Trust me, When the opportunity came to me, I was like, yes,
let's do it. I'm excited, I'll try it out. But
then as the even got closer, I was like, listen,
I realized I'm saying yes for the wrong reason. And
I was saying yes for my ego because the specific
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project was going to be in my hometown. And you know,
as you go to the border, your dream is to
always come back to your hometown. And I do something.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Totally how your people see you.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
And yeah, of course, you know my high school acts
like I'm here now, look at me now. But it
took a lot for me to be like, you know what,
I'm saying yes for the wrong reasons. I'm mean yes
for my ego, not because I firmly want this project,
so good for you. And it took a lot because
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you don't want to bring your bridges. But yeah, I
was also very proud of myself for having the backbone
to say, you know what, you can't you don't have
to say yes to.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
This absolutely, and you don't burn a bridge.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
I know it feels like it, but you don't because
that you didn't want to cross that bridge anyway. You know,
it's like and then along comes something else, and then
alone comes something else, and then before you know it,
you've got an awesome demo reel and and then you
can you know, you're plea reporter. You get a lot
of experience because that's what it is. It's experience. It's
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being out in the field and you know what, who
what when we're why.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
And that's the thing too. I think earlier when my
spirit GUIDs are trying to tell me, like what do
you want to do, it's because I also feel like
I've already done everything I wanted to do. Like I started,
I started off at a news then I went to
jam in Tonight and then that's when I did move
to Miamimundo. I did Spanish media. I used to have
my own show with Amazon Music. And now it's like
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what else do I want? Like I'm in that transitional
phase where I'm like, where.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Do yeah, And.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
It's hard because because that's where I'm at.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
Yeah, yeah, I know. And if you've done you know
that type of media, it's old school media, you know,
And now like going and saying, okay, I'm going to
be a content creator a reporter. But as a content creator,
how you say it's like what, no makeup, nobody's gonna
produce me, nobody's gonna you know, it's like you have
to do everything yourself. And you're like that, I don't
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come from that place. I don't come from those teachings.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
You know. I show up. That's basically what I do.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
And and it's hard, it's hard to transition. But some
people it's always about, you know, transitioning into something hard.
Why because it gets out of a comfort zone. And
like you said, you've already done everything you want so
perfect that way, Like you said, you choose the projects
according to how how you feel and according to you know,
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who you are as a person, what you want to do.
So I love it. I love it that you feel fulfilled,
you know, because.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Yeah, that's the word. I yet to feel. Like if
the universe was like, okay, girl, wrap it up, put
your mic up, we're going to go back to corporate,
I would be so happy. I'm like, okay, I live,
I'm good time to sit down. Let me again, let
me let me start my my other era.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Right exactly your other life.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
But also you know, as they say, once you turn thirty,
you think of it like you reathink your whole life
and everything. It's like you think, Gus, oh my gosh,
the reporter goals I had when I was twenty, or
not the reporter goals I had when I was thirty.
More so, the spirit guides have been telling me for
years speak on a certain topic that I'm very passionate about. Okay,
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but I feel like I haven't really have been, like
because the knowledge I have, the knowledge, I think it's
more so like me, I don't. It's like I think
I'm sending in my own way of not wanting to
open up about a specific topic. But okay, But the
more I think about, okay, what can I do in
this world of media that everybody is nobody, No one
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talks about the specific topics, so okay. My guides have
also been telling me, like start.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
That they just said, be disruptive. They said, be disruptive.
That art they say, yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Maybe it is a strong topic and everything, but the
only way is not talking about it.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
It's raw. I don't know. They go like this, like,
you know, take it on, take it on.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
That like a weird sensation in my chest. So I
feel like that's what I'm telling me, like a come
for me, yah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Go go start exactly exactly, yeah, and you'll know when
you'll know when you know that you're going to do it.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Right, so you know, yes, you're so right. It's like
I to do it. I know I want to, Yeah,
but I find myself like, okay, well, how the freak
do I pass this wall?
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Maybe this is maybe it isn't. Maybe under today.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Especially thanks about that for pushing me.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Right, And you know what it's like, do it a
little bit.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
If you don't feel comfortable, walk away, and then wait
a little bit more until you feel like you did it.
But at least like put the pen down, you know,
like put it up and start writing.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Start.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
I don't know what it is and they won't tell
me and I don't need to know, but they do
say it's going to cause awakening, okay, and that's always good.
But you have to have a lot of responsibility with
your words, because yeah, because.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
They don't want I don't know something about.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
The wording, the words, the wording that take I feel
it takes on many.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Interpretations something like that.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Yeah. I think they're trying to just say you're going
to do it, just be careful with the terminology.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
It's a medical thing. So okay, okay, it's just more
so like when I do start talking about it, I
just want to triple cultriple check the medical terminology so
I don't misspeak and then I get misquoted.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Absolutely, there you go respond responsible words. Thank you, you
just confirmed it.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Thank you. Okay, let me continue. I'm going to talk
about love. We are not allowed to do two things.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
We're not allowed to see deaths and we're not allowed
to see what everything that comes to you as love like, uh, nobody.
So I can't tell you you're going to meet somebody
or whatever you have to get divorced.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
No, I don't.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
But they're saying that be very careful in being with somebody.
I don't know if you're with somebody or not. But
he said being with somebody that you like is the
same as you, right or higher than you in terms
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of work, in terms of money, in terms of And
that sounds really, you know, like a vanity thing, but
it's not. It's like you are so you're so smart
and you're so like driven that you have to be
very picky about somebody that's the same as you. So
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don't kind of like, don't settle. I sound like a mom.
But if you see somebody that's like getting their life together,
which is totally fine, or if you see somebody that's,
you know, in between, they don't know what to do,
walk away.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
You're never going to respect that person.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
And you've always done stuff, you're doing stuff and it's
just not the same mindset and that will take a
toll on you bad. Okay, So be very careful with
all those flags and all the things. And it's not
there's nothing wrong with people changing careers. There's nothing wrong
with people being confused. Nothing like, we're all on different paths.
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But for you, for you specifically, you have to.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
You have to understand that that's the type of person
you need.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Okay, Yeah, that makes I was with somebody for a
very long time. It was just somebody for seven years,
and oh as my career progressed and I grew, he
was I don't want to say jealous, but the word
is jealous. It was like at one point, at one
point I was making more money and he was like, oh,
you think you're up here or life? You know. It
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was just like it was just like little things where
I was like, wait this, that's I have to walk away,
Like I have to leave, Like this is not you're
not You're not supportive if you're not understanding, and it
doesn't matter that we've been together for seven years, the
fact that you can't even be happy for.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Me exactly, it wasn't his time, you know, I gotta go.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Yeah, and it was, Yeah, what you just said, it
was very true. He was definitely at a point where
he was figuring what he wanted to do and watching
me get everything that I was manifesting for myself. It
was like it triggered something in him that's been like
more supportive versus like, you know, invalidating my success, which
was a big thing. So we broke up about yeah,
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I had to let it go. I was like, I
love you to death, but love isn't enough sometimes, and yeah,
I let it go. But so happy to report that
five years.
Speaker 5 (27:35):
Later, I am dating someone now that is just such
a breath of fresh air and super opposite to what
he is and supports me, like, oh, supports me and
supports my success and all the projects.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
And he travels with me and he's like he's like
what do you need, Like, oh, you need a new
flash or like oh, like for example, I just bought
a I bought myself a camera, re invest and stuff,
and he bought like like a straw up in a
flash and just like little stuff that I equipment. And
I'm like sitting there and I'm like, I'm like and
to think I was going to settle for someone that right?
(28:10):
And yeah, it was just and again it's not about
somebody who wouldn't buy me things. It wasn't about that.
It was just like someone wasn't as understanding and supportive
and then right, yeah, so I definitely it took me
a while. It was seven years a girl, so there
was a multiple.
Speaker 2 (28:26):
A lot and to walk away.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
Times where the spirit guides were like, wrap it up,
but because I was like, no, we're going to get
it right.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
And that and that's true. I like that piece of
advice is gold. Never settle, yeah said.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
And now I'm over here trying to help my girlfriends
every single I'm like, just but like come around.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
So suddenly you're the voice of freezing.
Speaker 1 (28:56):
Am I allowed to ask a question to the guides?
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Anything be my guest, go.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
I want to know if I want to be.
Speaker 2 (29:04):
A mom, Okay, it will be complicated. Do you have
any like cists.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
Or something I don't have. I don't have a cyst,
but I was born with an underdeveloped uterus, so me
for me physically, I have a uterus, but it stayed
like this because it just never fully developed. So, Okay,
this is the project that I'm like, I know so
much about this. There's no one reporting on it, there's
no one No one has a podcast about this. But
(29:34):
it's more so like trying to find the correct platform
to pitch it or if it's something that I just
do on my own, you know. It's like that stuff
that I'm trying to.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Like the journey, right, like they talk about.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
This, talk about this. Yeah, so that's what I want
to imagine develop because there is no there is no
Latina reporter that talks about infertility. Right, I'm I have
the idea, I have the topics, I have the connections
with doctors and stuff. It's just more so like this
is the WAW that I was telling you earlier. It's
(30:08):
like I'm just trying to figure out what how to
get a hammer or something for me, Right, let's just
start reporting and put it out. So that's the main thing.
That's why I wanted to ask if I'll ever be
a mom because my body physically, I can't carry a
big Do I have healthy eggs? That's something that I
(30:29):
have to figure out. And it's not okay, were an adoption.
It's going to be complicated.
Speaker 3 (30:34):
But I feel like I even got excited, Like I
totally see like a podcast where you're like, today I
went to the guy I know colleges. Today I went
to the clinic of the you know, like, what's it
called IVF. Yeah, it's give information you know that way
a lot of people that don't even know where to
(30:55):
go or like what to do?
Speaker 2 (30:56):
You know, you tell them.
Speaker 3 (30:57):
They told me it could be this, it could be this,
it could be that would be so awesome, Like that
would be a really good podcast.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Because just like how we get diagnosed, because it's more
so like how we get diagnosed is interesting too because
as a woman, you look at for women, right, we
have women features. Hold on one second, really quick, but
this is where I'm like, Okay, a lot of people
don't know about this, and I can really really talk
(31:25):
about this as a woman. Everybody automatically says, oh, you're
a woman, you have periods, and I it it feels
something to me because I'm like no, not everyone and
not that is is not all of us get a period,
like right, there are women like me that are born
with an under developed uterus that a period because our
uterus does an extent like that. It's so that's.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
So.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
Then I get comments like that like oh my god,
well you're so lucky. I'm like, well, am I lucky
because I can't get pregnant? Am I lucky? You know?
Speaker 2 (32:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (32:03):
But even then too, I look at my friends, my
sisters that they go through like the period crams and
like the bleeding and all that, and I'm like, I
will never It's like Paula, I will never know what
that means.
Speaker 3 (32:15):
But it's like, but the thing is with the mom
thing with you, I feel that I know that you
want to be a mom, and you can talk about
all of this, but I feel if you're not a mom,
I feel you're going to be Okay, you really really are,
like honestly.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
Okay, yeah, that's the thing. I'm like, Like my partner
that I'm dating now, he knows and he's accepting, and
he's like, I mean, if we become parents, you never know.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
But I feel from what I feel here, I feel
you are going to become a mom. It's going to
be one little girl and that's it, you know, And
it's going to be.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Very difficult, very very difficult. And I think you know
that too, But I think you are I think you
are okay, But at the same time, I really think
you're going to be okay.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
If you are, yes, I feel like I've already mentally
prepared myself to just like, not, yeah, it happens cool,
and then if it doesn't, it's like, well, I kind
of knew this since I was diagnosed.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
So no big right, And it's not your fault, and
it's you know, God gave God gave you this deck
of cards.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
And this is you know, that's what they dealt. You
have another question before we come out.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
I want to know. I want to know if I
will relocate out of Miami in the future.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
It's so interesting. I gave this exact advice like two
days ago. This is crazy, they said, Miami. I think
you've done Miami. You know, you've done everything that you
can do there. There's no there's nothing else you can
do there, like the old school stuff, the one the
things that we're used to no, And.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
And I think you need to move.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
I feel like maybe new you wor maybe la maybe
you know, whatever it is, because I feel you have
to like either close a circle or like keep finding
yourself if you can. I mean, you're single, no kids,
you know, whatever it is. If you don't feel if
you don't feel like, oh, you know, I want I
(34:20):
want to go back home, you go back home.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
That's it, you know, that's where your friends are. Fine.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
But I feel that if you if you want to grow,
you know, in terms of Miami has given you all
that's got. There's nothing more, you know. I mean that's
great for you. You've done a lot of things there, but
there's a there's a certain point where the ceiling is
just you know, you got to raise it up a
(34:45):
little bit.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
No, I was gonna say, I've definitely felt that. I
felt like in my five years here, I feel like
I've done everything I came to do. I had a
goal to grow, make my networks. You know, Spanish media
is here. Miami exactly made me realize like, if I
do go back to legacy media, it's not gonna be
in Miami.
Speaker 3 (35:05):
And I and you're gonna you're gonna, well, you've already
done a lot, You're gonna do more.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
So go for that path until until you can't, until
you don't want.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
To no, if anything, Meeting you today also motivated me
to be like, you're gonna be okay. Like if you
were a reporter and you were in this business that
I'm in right now for eleven years and you were
able to find something and that you love and that
is true to yourself, Like, Okay, I'll be fine. H
The spear guards have been telling me for years speak
on a certain topic that I'm very passionate about. But
I feel like I haven't really have been like wanting
to open up about a specific topic, but.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
They just said, be disruptive.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Hi, guys, welcome to ghost therapy. Thank you so much
for being here this time around. We have a really
young girl. Her name is Grecia Lopez. She's a reporter, she's.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
In the media, she's doing it all.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
She reminds me of me when I was younger, and
she got really cool messages, which I think we can
all enjoy and we can all take. It's not the
same to have like the same the same dream all
the time we have. I don't know if it's evolution
(01:02):
or what it is, but you always have to set
the bar higher, never, never stay where you are. And
sometimes we're like, oh, yeah, we have this job, it's
good for.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Me, and we get there, we get stuck. We have
to put ourselves.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Through the grinder and do different things that maybe scare us.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
You know, but we have to do them. I'll show
you a little bit more.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Thank you so much for being here here Eslopez, Hi, guys.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Welcome to ghost Therapy. Thank you so much for being here.
One more episode. I'm here with grace Yellopez and I
love her face because she's like smiling and she's like
I'm ready, I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm super excited to get into this. We'll see what
comes out.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yes exactly.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
That's the fun part that you never know what you're
gonna get. But today we're gonna talk to your spirit
guides and let's do it.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Let's do it. Oh my goshdy.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
The first thing that I get is there's this situation.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
I think it's happening right now or maybe a little
bit in the past, but they're telling me to get
basically get out of the way because because it's something
about you wanting your way with something and there's ideas,
(02:56):
there's this and that, but it's maybe something that you're
not really an expert on, or it's something about to
take two steps back and let the let the energy flow,
because if you just are in there with your energy
of I want it this way, you're going to miss
out on different ways of doing this.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I don't know what it is, but does this make sense?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, it makes autal sense. I have always been very
much in control of my career wise, and for the
first time, I'm letting go of confirming whatever it's next
for me, and I'm letting the universe just make it
fall into place. Because as a reporter and a freelancer,
you always want to know what your next project is.
And I felt myself forcing for me to be part
(03:47):
of certain projects. And once I let go control, it's
like and I'm like, this is why I was told
to just stop trying to.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Control, stop control, stop trying to control. Well, I guess
then that what's happening is that they're validating it, which
is awesome. You you already proved proved yourself right, So
good for you.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Okay, like the comfortence you need from the spar guides.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Yeah, exactly, exactly. And this is like a message for everybody.
I mean that message can be for anybody. It's like,
get out of your own way, you know, let God,
let you know whoever it is you believe in, let
go and hope for the best, and.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Whatever is yours is yours.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
And that's it.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Nobody's going to take it away from you. Okay, perfect, Okay.
They want to talk about the way you present yourself.
They want to give you. I guess it's like some
tips because they're trying for you to meet them in
the middle, like meet your sparait guides in the middle,
(05:00):
you say, be careful of not coming off as too
strong or too you know, like.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
So sad, and.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Also be careful of not coming off like oh hi,
excuse me, like very you know, like those two extremes.
Is where they want you to kind of, you know,
go in the middle. It has to do very much
with sadly, but you know, with the women thing, and
and then you know, people, this is the real world.
(05:38):
If it wasn't if it was a perfect world, this
wouldn't happen. But we're not in a perfect world, you know,
so we have to be like a little humble but
a little strong, but a little everything, you know. And
and that's where they feel that you can work on
a little bit to come to the middle of it.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Does that.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I'm trying to understand that because I am a pretty
humble person, So I'm trying to understand if that's more
of like a don't come off too strong personality wise
or over all because I'm not like better explain it,
and I don't show off a lot of things Baranada.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Humbleness has many has many probably like many.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Ways you can use it.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Usually people use when you say humble, it's usually people
think that, oh, it's because I'm showing something off, you know,
like don't show something off.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
It's not about that.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
It's more like the humility, that humbleness of like I
am a reporter. I am you know, I'm not I'm
gonna say something, but I don't know if you're going
to get it. I'm not Barbara Walters, did you know? Yes, Okay,
like I'm not Barbara Walters. Yeah, but I'm here and
I'm willing, and you know that kind of humbleness like
(07:06):
uh not coming off as I don't know, there's something
about and it has to do with your face because
they I don't know if you have to smile a
little bit more or maybe just like you know, like
maybe if you if you don't smile, that's fine, but
don't watch out with the how do how do they
(07:26):
say it? The because it's a new tone for me,
the bitch rest face or rest.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
That no, no, wait, but then you start talking and
you're so nice. I'm like, I know, I'm a nice person.
It's just more so maybe it's just like my facial
demeanors or I'm just like very I'm very guarded and
I don't I don't speak unless i'm spoken to sometimes,
which can come off, which can come off as like,
oh is she okay? I'm like, yeah, good, this is me.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Yeah, of course, oh it's fine.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
It's like I feel like that exactly. That's you and
this is who you are. That's your essence. They're just
saying in only in terms of work, you know, to
come to like try a little like to you know,
be a little little kind of like.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
You know, but but not too much because.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
My spare guy who tell me I need to smile
more than I will.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Be will be smiling.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, they're telling me this, so I know you're okay,
You're fine.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
You're gonna think of them when you're there, You're like
like a Taendler smile like, oh funny, a.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Big project coming on this weekend that I'll be reporting live,
So I'm like smile more, smile.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
My more, smile more more, and even because yeah, you're
a reporter, doesn't have to like smile all the time
because if you're reporting on something that's you know, sad
or you're reporting, of course you're gonna use the facial
expressions with what you're talking about. But yeah, it's somebody,
you know what. It's not about your job, because you
do you you do your job. Well, it's about when
(09:07):
you go ask for a job. That's where it is,
how you present yourself.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
The rest.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
You're fine, You're fine, You're fine because when you I
feel like when you're on camera, it's all over.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
It's all good.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
You know.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
It has nothing to do with this. I see like
a dad figure. Is your dad with you?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
My biological dad? No? No, my no. When I was four,
my mom married my stepdad and he's been my dad
figure ever since.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
That's okay, okay, because I see.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Him like always speaking about you.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
I don't know if that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Always always Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I love it because he's like, you're number one fan.
He's always like, oh, yeah, you know what you did and.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
So know that. Yeah, he very much.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
So he's he's a piscey, so he's all about emotions
and express your works and tell people to them when
they're in the flesh. And he always sends me like
really nice good morning texts and thinking of you and
how are you doing. Oh it's a blessing and occurs
to have such an emotional present dad, you know, because
a lot of a lot of men struggle with being
(10:23):
emotional and totally out, but my stepdad is very much
so like tell people what they mean to you and
good morning and how are you and how are your
emotions today? And I'm like, Dad, I'm fine.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Dad, that's just not right.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Like my mom doesn't even ask me this, like you
guys are so opposite. But yeah, that.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Sounds like him, Like he seems like a really great guy.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Also, I always say like sometimes there it's like a
toxic positivity.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Sometimes they're so positive. They're so positive all the time.
We're like stop it be normal.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
It's funny because growing up he you know, just how
everybody goes through their mental traumas. And like he migrated
here from Mexico and he's like, oh, well in Mexico,
San mnanscos Sa Sea and blah blah blah blah. So
it took him a while to adapt to like the
modern way style of parenting. Like when I lived with him,
(11:24):
he was pretty strict. It's like our relationship didn't get
better till so then he started to really realize, like, oh,
I have to work on myself and like not parent
you guys, how I was parented.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Oh it's the hardest thing in the world.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Yeah. No, I I am the oldest of four, so
I feel like I got the worst out of it,
you know, being the firstborn. And so now yeah, you know,
he's a little bit more lenient and it's like just
a lot Morelinian with my baby sister who's twenty one.
Like okay, well, well it's okay. I guess I was
just here to help guide you guys.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Help guide you. And you know, strict is fine because
you know it makes it makes you into a whole,
like a whole person.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
You know, as opposed to not so no, no, no,
he like the whole time they show me his face,
he's smiling. So yeah, okay, there's something about your career
that I can tell that you're super driven, Like I can,
I can feel it. But they tell me that we
(12:28):
need to work on like the real real what the
goal is is it? Hosting? Is it news is it?
I know you can try out a lot of things,
but they say, like, okay, it's time to kind of
know where we're going, so we can you.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Know, manifest or whatever.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
You know, people say manifest but like, whatever it is
that we do, they want they.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Want you to work a little on that. Does this
make sense?
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Okay? When you say is it hosting or is it news?
Is it like not doing news or no?
Speaker 2 (13:10):
No, Like what is your end goal? What is your
end goal?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
Because I know you're a reporter, but I'm sure you
want something after that.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Yeah, like my end goal is to be a reporter
first and foremost. But right I guess maybe they're trying
to say, choose if you want to be a hard
news reporter or stick to entertainment.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
Yeah, something like where are you going? Where are you feeling?
Speaker 3 (13:36):
I feel like right now you're feeling everything out, Like,
let's see where you feel more comfortable.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Which is great because you've got time and.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
All of that is experience. It's for your demo reel.
It's all good, you know. But then but they say
soon sooner or later, you got to kind of focus
on what it goes because.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That way you know where to look for work.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
You know what, the energy, just the energy of knowing
where you're going is very important and it's not something
that you have to decide today and tell them. It's
just like, Okay, whenever you can think about it, where
do you see yourself? Do you sue yourself as an anchor?
Do you see yourself as investigating drug lords?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
You know, it could be a lot of things, but.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Just start feeling it out.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Okay, definitely yeah, definitely not an anchor. So I guess
I just have to really make the energy decision and
let my spare guards know this is my angle. Let's
work towards this way. Because there has been times where
I've been thinking about pivoting just because like I feel
like my generation of reporters we went to journalisms squa
(14:54):
out such an interesting time where we were being taught
legacy media as in like five five o'clock, six o'clock,
you're going to be an anchor to share the news.
And then what happened in the last four years digital
media started so kind of like instant It's like wait,
hold on, well, we were taught to do it this
(15:14):
way and to not show personality and you have to
be biased, but then all of a sudden, now you
have all these influencers that are getting hired for being themselves.
So it's like, I feel, that's definitely where I'm at,
where it's like, am I a reporter or am I
going to be now like a content creator because a
lot of these content creators are now taking all the
jobs even though not qualified or have the training or
(15:37):
the experience, but because they have two point whatever million followers,
they end up getting the gig. So I find myself
I'm in that transition era where I can tell that
they know because that's how I feel. It's what do
I want to do? So I do I want to
continue being a host and a reporter or do I
want to pivot and start my own marketing agency or
(15:59):
something else. M definitely yes and then yeah or both.
Earlier Q one five, I was like, you know what
I'm just gonna get. I'm just gonna let go and
I'm gonna not try and control the outcome. Yeah, and
then now I just had like secrete projects coming up
(16:20):
that I shared. Okay, I'm like, you see what happens
when you let go and you not try to insert
yourself everywhere. It'll come. But I definitely did need to
pause and listen to my tuition, like relax, don't stress out.
Something always pops out for you. So if anything, this
is just like the affirmation confirmation, like you you know
(16:44):
what you need?
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Just yeah, because sometimes we end up like taking every
gig and not saying no, you don't do anything.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
I used to be a reporter, Yeah, I know.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
That was one thing. Actually I had a really good,
good opportunity back in Los Angeles. The pay wasn't the best,
but it was into like sports journalism, and I was
asked if I can host like a few games, okay,
And I realized that I was saying yes for all
the wrong reasons, Like like I at first, when it
(17:19):
was presented to me, I was like, yes, let's do it.
I'm excited to my hometown. And then as it got closer,
I was like, maybe I'm saying yes for the wrong reasons.
And it took a lot for me. But it took
a lot for me to say, you know what, never mind,
I am so sorry.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
That are you did say no? Okay?
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Good? I was like, I'm so sorry that I led
you guys to believe that I was going to do this.
Trust me, When the opportunity came to me, I was like, yes,
let's do it. I'm excited, I'll try it out. But
then as the even got closer, I was like, listen,
I realized I'm saying yes for the wrong reason. And
I was saying yes for my ego because the specific
(18:03):
project was going to be in my hometown. And you know,
as you go to the border, your dream is to
always come back to your hometown. And I do something.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Totally how your people see you.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
And yeah, of course, you know my high school acts
like I'm here now, look at me now. But it
took a lot for me to be like, you know what,
I'm saying yes for the wrong reasons. I'm mean yes
for my ego, not because I firmly want this project,
so good for you. And it took a lot because
(18:33):
you don't want to bring your bridges. But yeah, I
was also very proud of myself for having the backbone
to say, you know what, you can't you don't have
to say yes to.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
This absolutely, and you don't burn a bridge.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
I know it feels like it, but you don't because
that you didn't want to cross that bridge anyway. You know,
it's like and then along comes something else, and then
alone comes something else, and then before you know it,
you've got an awesome demo reel and and then you
can you know, you're plea reporter. You get a lot
of experience because that's what it is. It's experience. It's
(19:05):
being out in the field and you know what, who
what when we're why.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
And that's the thing too. I think earlier when my
spirit GUIDs are trying to tell me, like what do
you want to do, it's because I also feel like
I've already done everything I wanted to do. Like I started,
I started off at a news then I went to
jam in Tonight and then that's when I did move
to Miamimundo. I did Spanish media. I used to have
my own show with Amazon Music. And now it's like
(19:35):
what else do I want? Like I'm in that transitional
phase where I'm like, where.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Do yeah, And.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
It's hard because because that's where I'm at.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
Yeah, yeah, I know. And if you've done you know
that type of media, it's old school media, you know,
And now like going and saying, okay, I'm going to
be a content creator a reporter. But as a content creator,
how you say it's like what, no makeup, nobody's gonna
produce me, nobody's gonna you know, it's like you have
to do everything yourself. And you're like that, I don't
(20:08):
come from that place. I don't come from those teachings.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
You know. I show up. That's basically what I do.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
And and it's hard, it's hard to transition. But some
people it's always about, you know, transitioning into something hard.
Why because it gets out of a comfort zone. And
like you said, you've already done everything you want so
perfect that way, Like you said, you choose the projects
according to how how you feel and according to you know,
(20:38):
who you are as a person, what you want to do.
So I love it. I love it that you feel fulfilled,
you know, because.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Yeah, that's the word. I yet to feel. Like if
the universe was like, okay, girl, wrap it up, put
your mic up, we're going to go back to corporate,
I would be so happy. I'm like, okay, I live,
I'm good time to sit down. Let me again, let
me let me start my my other era.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Right exactly your other life.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
But also you know, as they say, once you turn thirty,
you think of it like you reathink your whole life
and everything. It's like you think, Gus, oh my gosh,
the reporter goals I had when I was twenty, or
not the reporter goals I had when I was thirty.
More so, the spirit guides have been telling me for
years speak on a certain topic that I'm very passionate about. Okay,
(21:27):
but I feel like I haven't really have been, like
because the knowledge I have, the knowledge, I think it's
more so like me, I don't. It's like I think
I'm sending in my own way of not wanting to
open up about a specific topic. But okay, But the
more I think about, okay, what can I do in
this world of media that everybody is nobody, No one
(21:52):
talks about the specific topics, so okay. My guides have
also been telling me, like start.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
That they just said, be disruptive. They said, be disruptive.
That art they say, yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Maybe it is a strong topic and everything, but the
only way is not talking about it.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
It's raw. I don't know. They go like this, like,
you know, take it on, take it on.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
That like a weird sensation in my chest. So I
feel like that's what I'm telling me, like a come
for me, yah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Go go start exactly exactly, yeah, and you'll know when
you'll know when you know that you're going to do it.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Right, so you know, yes, you're so right. It's like
I to do it. I know I want to, Yeah,
but I find myself like, okay, well, how the freak
do I pass this wall?
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Maybe this is maybe it isn't. Maybe under today.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Especially thanks about that for pushing me.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Right, And you know what it's like, do it a
little bit.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
If you don't feel comfortable, walk away, and then wait
a little bit more until you feel like you did it.
But at least like put the pen down, you know,
like put it up and start writing.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Start.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
I don't know what it is and they won't tell
me and I don't need to know, but they do
say it's going to cause awakening, okay, and that's always good.
But you have to have a lot of responsibility with
your words, because yeah, because.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
They don't want I don't know something about.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
The wording, the words, the wording that take I feel
it takes on many.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Interpretations something like that.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Yeah. I think they're trying to just say you're going
to do it, just be careful with the terminology.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
It's a medical thing. So okay, okay, it's just more
so like when I do start talking about it, I
just want to triple cultriple check the medical terminology so
I don't misspeak and then I get misquoted.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Absolutely, there you go respond responsible words. Thank you, you
just confirmed it.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Thank you. Okay, let me continue. I'm going to talk
about love. We are not allowed to do two things.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
We're not allowed to see deaths and we're not allowed
to see what everything that comes to you as love like, uh, nobody.
So I can't tell you you're going to meet somebody
or whatever you have to get divorced.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
No, I don't.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
But they're saying that be very careful in being with somebody.
I don't know if you're with somebody or not. But
he said being with somebody that you like is the
same as you, right or higher than you in terms
(25:00):
of work, in terms of money, in terms of And
that sounds really, you know, like a vanity thing, but
it's not. It's like you are so you're so smart
and you're so like driven that you have to be
very picky about somebody that's the same as you. So
(25:23):
don't kind of like, don't settle. I sound like a mom.
But if you see somebody that's like getting their life together,
which is totally fine, or if you see somebody that's,
you know, in between, they don't know what to do,
walk away.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
You're never going to respect that person.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
And you've always done stuff, you're doing stuff and it's
just not the same mindset and that will take a
toll on you bad. Okay, So be very careful with
all those flags and all the things. And it's not
there's nothing wrong with people changing careers. There's nothing wrong
with people being confused. Nothing like, we're all on different paths.
(26:10):
But for you, for you specifically, you have to.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
You have to understand that that's the type of person
you need.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Okay, Yeah, that makes I was with somebody for a
very long time. It was just somebody for seven years,
and oh as my career progressed and I grew, he
was I don't want to say jealous, but the word
is jealous. It was like at one point, at one
point I was making more money and he was like, oh,
you think you're up here or life? You know. It
(26:41):
was just like it was just like little things where
I was like, wait this, that's I have to walk away,
Like I have to leave, Like this is not you're
not You're not supportive if you're not understanding, and it
doesn't matter that we've been together for seven years, the
fact that you can't even be happy for.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Me exactly, it wasn't his time, you know, I gotta go.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Yeah, and it was, Yeah, what you just said, it
was very true. He was definitely at a point where
he was figuring what he wanted to do and watching
me get everything that I was manifesting for myself. It
was like it triggered something in him that's been like
more supportive versus like, you know, invalidating my success, which
was a big thing. So we broke up about yeah,
(27:26):
I had to let it go. I was like, I
love you to death, but love isn't enough sometimes, and yeah,
I let it go. But so happy to report that
five years.
Speaker 5 (27:35):
Later, I am dating someone now that is just such
a breath of fresh air and super opposite to what
he is and supports me, like, oh, supports me and
supports my success and all the projects.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
And he travels with me and he's like he's like
what do you need, Like, oh, you need a new
flash or like oh, like for example, I just bought
a I bought myself a camera, re invest and stuff,
and he bought like like a straw up in a
flash and just like little stuff that I equipment. And
I'm like sitting there and I'm like, I'm like and
to think I was going to settle for someone that right?
(28:10):
And yeah, it was just and again it's not about
somebody who wouldn't buy me things. It wasn't about that.
It was just like someone wasn't as understanding and supportive
and then right, yeah, so I definitely it took me
a while. It was seven years a girl, so there
was a multiple.
Speaker 2 (28:26):
A lot and to walk away.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
Times where the spirit guides were like, wrap it up,
but because I was like, no, we're going to get
it right.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
And that and that's true. I like that piece of
advice is gold. Never settle, yeah said.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
And now I'm over here trying to help my girlfriends
every single I'm like, just but like come around.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
So suddenly you're the voice of freezing.
Speaker 1 (28:56):
Am I allowed to ask a question to the guides?
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Anything be my guest, go.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
I want to know if I want to be.
Speaker 2 (29:04):
A mom, Okay, it will be complicated. Do you have
any like cists.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
Or something I don't have. I don't have a cyst,
but I was born with an underdeveloped uterus, so me
for me physically, I have a uterus, but it stayed
like this because it just never fully developed. So, Okay,
this is the project that I'm like, I know so
much about this. There's no one reporting on it, there's
no one No one has a podcast about this. But
(29:34):
it's more so like trying to find the correct platform
to pitch it or if it's something that I just
do on my own, you know. It's like that stuff
that I'm trying to.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Like the journey, right, like they talk about.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
This, talk about this. Yeah, so that's what I want
to imagine develop because there is no there is no
Latina reporter that talks about infertility. Right, I'm I have
the idea, I have the topics, I have the connections
with doctors and stuff. It's just more so like this
is the WAW that I was telling you earlier. It's
(30:08):
like I'm just trying to figure out what how to
get a hammer or something for me, Right, let's just
start reporting and put it out. So that's the main thing.
That's why I wanted to ask if I'll ever be
a mom because my body physically, I can't carry a
big Do I have healthy eggs? That's something that I
(30:29):
have to figure out. And it's not okay, were an adoption.
It's going to be complicated.
Speaker 3 (30:34):
But I feel like I even got excited, Like I
totally see like a podcast where you're like, today I
went to the guy I know colleges. Today I went
to the clinic of the you know, like, what's it
called IVF. Yeah, it's give information you know that way
a lot of people that don't even know where to
(30:55):
go or like what to do?
Speaker 2 (30:56):
You know, you tell them.
Speaker 3 (30:57):
They told me it could be this, it could be this,
it could be that would be so awesome, Like that
would be a really good podcast.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Because just like how we get diagnosed, because it's more
so like how we get diagnosed is interesting too because
as a woman, you look at for women, right, we
have women features. Hold on one second, really quick, but
this is where I'm like, Okay, a lot of people
don't know about this, and I can really really talk
(31:25):
about this as a woman. Everybody automatically says, oh, you're
a woman, you have periods, and I it it feels
something to me because I'm like no, not everyone and
not that is is not all of us get a period,
like right, there are women like me that are born
with an under developed uterus that a period because our
uterus does an extent like that. It's so that's.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
So.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
Then I get comments like that like oh my god,
well you're so lucky. I'm like, well, am I lucky
because I can't get pregnant? Am I lucky? You know?
Speaker 2 (32:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (32:03):
But even then too, I look at my friends, my
sisters that they go through like the period crams and
like the bleeding and all that, and I'm like, I
will never It's like Paula, I will never know what
that means.
Speaker 3 (32:15):
But it's like, but the thing is with the mom
thing with you, I feel that I know that you
want to be a mom, and you can talk about
all of this, but I feel if you're not a mom,
I feel you're going to be Okay, you really really are,
like honestly.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
Okay, yeah, that's the thing. I'm like, Like my partner
that I'm dating now, he knows and he's accepting, and
he's like, I mean, if we become parents, you never know.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
But I feel from what I feel here, I feel
you are going to become a mom. It's going to
be one little girl and that's it, you know, And
it's going to be.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Very difficult, very very difficult. And I think you know
that too, But I think you are I think you
are okay, But at the same time, I really think
you're going to be okay.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
If you are, yes, I feel like I've already mentally
prepared myself to just like, not, yeah, it happens cool,
and then if it doesn't, it's like, well, I kind
of knew this since I was diagnosed.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
So no big right, And it's not your fault, and
it's you know, God gave God gave you this deck
of cards.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
And this is you know, that's what they dealt. You
have another question before we come out.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
I want to know. I want to know if I
will relocate out of Miami in the future.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
It's so interesting. I gave this exact advice like two
days ago. This is crazy, they said, Miami. I think
you've done Miami. You know, you've done everything that you
can do there. There's no there's nothing else you can
do there, like the old school stuff, the one the
things that we're used to no, And.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
And I think you need to move.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
I feel like maybe new you wor maybe la maybe
you know, whatever it is, because I feel you have
to like either close a circle or like keep finding
yourself if you can. I mean, you're single, no kids,
you know, whatever it is. If you don't feel if
you don't feel like, oh, you know, I want I
(34:20):
want to go back home, you go back home.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
That's it, you know, that's where your friends are. Fine.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
But I feel that if you if you want to grow,
you know, in terms of Miami has given you all
that's got. There's nothing more, you know. I mean that's
great for you. You've done a lot of things there, but
there's a there's a certain point where the ceiling is
just you know, you got to raise it up a
(34:45):
little bit.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
No, I was gonna say, I've definitely felt that. I
felt like in my five years here, I feel like
I've done everything I came to do. I had a
goal to grow, make my networks. You know, Spanish media
is here. Miami exactly made me realize like, if I
do go back to legacy media, it's not gonna be
in Miami.
Speaker 3 (35:05):
And I and you're gonna you're gonna, well, you've already
done a lot, You're gonna do more.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
So go for that path until until you can't, until
you don't want.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
To no, if anything, Meeting you today also motivated me
to be like, you're gonna be okay. Like if you
were a reporter and you were in this business that
I'm in right now for eleven years and you were
able to find something and that you love and that
is true to yourself, Like, Okay, I'll be fine. H
Host
Paola Pedroza
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